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Sorry I meant twice a week 🤣🤣, I was so focused on mentioning id been home a month i wrote the word month (sorry). Yes 2 - 3 times a week, but always contactable. The boyfriend comment i meant to follow up with, she has said to the Dr that our daughter has been through a lot like with our divorce a couple years ago and me going away from work. What she fails to mention is that this behaviour only started when I left. The day I left (yes the same day) she introduced my daughters to this new guy w…
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/26 06:59 PM
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Minute of agreement says that we both should consult each other about any medical concerns/actions. She wrote a letter massively exaggerating our child's mental health without telling me, involving me and then told me about it nearly 3 months later. I called the kids twice a month and was constantly contactable. Even if the "you were away" excuse did stick, ive been back a full month already and just hearing about it now.
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/26 05:55 PM
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The amount of American Bros here that think lit every foreign woman wants to be American and will do anything to get a Greencard speaks to either A. Your self worth that "no woman could love me without an hidden agenda" or B. "The USA is that amazing every single person wants to live there". Both statements are false and if you fully believe either I suggest some critical analysis and multiplesource finding as to why you feel that way.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/24 02:57 PM
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This. Happened to me. Remember, women are encouraged financially to alienate their children from their fathers.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/24 03:16 PM
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I would have been paying a childminder more than I pay in maintenance for maybe one more day a month...
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/24 05:32 PM
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Lol its almost as if you didn't even read the post. The it states why the cops were at the door. I didnt send anything...infact if anything IF I had, I'd have been in a lot more trouble, considering the content she was asking for involved my ex.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 08:01 AM
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Sending them could lead to allegations of revenge porn in the UK. You only get fined etc if they can prove malicious intent but that's not the point.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/23 05:35 PM
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"Get what you fucking deserve"
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 06:33 AM
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Single people keep people single.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 03:40 PM
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List is long. Would use a new cup every time she wanted to make a brew instead of rinsing the current cup. Leave her clothes in a pile on the floor or random chairs in almost every room. Would leave dirty nappies etc in the living room. instead of just putting them in the bin. Would smoke or vape and lie about it. Would spend money on the about and lie about it. Would get really toxic when called out on lies. Snored really loudly. Leave used nose strips EVERYWHERE. Would use my face razor to sha…
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 03:37 PM
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Try marriage councilling. If that doesn't work you might as well call it quits. Went through something similar didn't cheat but I went to a friend's house and lied about it because my wife was already obsessive and controlling and insecure. Was a major mistake on my end. For 2 years despite the councilling my life was filled of txts much like you recieved while I was at work, pc hacking, dating apps in my name, GPS and satnav stalking and just general outlandish accusations. In the end for my sa…
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/23 03:51 PM
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🤣 don't be hard on yourself brother. No one ever gets married with the idea if getting divorced. No one ever loves with the plan to break up. Same way as no one ever goes to work with the plan to fuck up. Life happens.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 09:06 PM
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This 100% I've said if the woman I married met the woman I know today, she would be disgusted with herself.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 06:51 PM
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Are you insane?!
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 03:28 PM
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I see. Not threatening anything yet. Maybe the threat of a hearing night be the way ti go
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/23 10:19 AM
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She lives with her parents do you'd think that'd be incentive enough
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/23 10:19 AM
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I'd rather avoid the court as it can be costly.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/23 09:45 AM
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Yeah uk. He suggests deadlines but they get ignored. Her excuse is her work but I know a lot of discussion can just happen over email.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/23 09:30 AM
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Kids are 6 and 4. She pretty much self enforced me to have them every second weekend (2 overnights) and 2 "non overnight" days per week
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/23 03:29 PM
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My ex did a 180 like 3 times. Bitches be fickle, they let their emotions rule them and it goes waaaaay beyond logic, morales, values and principles. They will lit set themselves on fire just to melt your igloo.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 03:51 PM
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The kids are both still young. I'm just worried about the future, I wouldn't introduce the kids to the gf until it were serious and looking at the next level like you say.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/23 02:05 PM
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I used to...so so bad. But all that love is now hate and clarity
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 05:27 AM
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In short, yes. My lawyer said I have to continue to pay half of the finance as its seen as shared debt. I have a vehicle also, fully paid off and at a much lower value.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/23 05:26 PM
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Mine refused to change and then ignored the 2 letters that followed
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 06:36 AM
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Having the EXACT same issue with my ex wife atm...I feel your frustration. Its not like you can physically go over there and take them...im awaiting for it to go to court. As for the comments about 100/0 I don't think it's realistic for a guy to be given full custody unless there was an unsafe environment...it sucks but its the world we live in
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 07:44 PM
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Youre such a wonderful human being. Never forget that. Thank you for your truly moving story.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 12:08 AM
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I told her that we will settle this in court...does that count as a threat, seems she wants to play victim with everything tbh keeps trying to play the bully card even when it's like trying to get her to pay her half of the house bills.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/22 01:27 AM
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