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It depends. How does the musician/writer or whatever looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:22 PM
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always going deep
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:44 PM
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False. I know a guy who approached in the ER, while she was getting IV, and it worked. Both average looking. And I know another guy who approached at a funeral. It worked, and he's fat. I have many other stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:08 PM
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approaching is not asking random women above your looks level "hey babe, wanna smash? do you have a gag reflex?" approaching is talking to women (who are in your league) in a normal social setting, not while she is working, running, or in a business meeting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:05 PM
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the male gaze exists only if Billy, the cum-stained T-shirt guy living in his mom's basement, with a recessed jaw, bald, and a unibrow, stares at Maria Sharapova do it in your league and it works, there is no male gaze there that's what men refuse to do - they refuse to date in their league
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:03 PM
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date in your league
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:02 PM
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Men have to be told to approach women? Whaaat? It should come natural, nobody should have to "encourage" men to approach. FFS, get your T levels tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:01 PM
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I agree. I don't chase women who are single. And I find it very unsexy if a woman approaches me or asks me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:55 PM
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The bitterness can also be a mask for being gay. I know several guys who suddenly came out of the closet. And they were misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:55 PM
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Dating in your league means you have to match her attractiveness level and be normal. Both are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:39 PM
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Sure, but that's not the point. The guy is creepy. He should firstly assess the situation - is she busy? is she working? is she sucking cock? is she with her boyfriend? You can approach anyone, anywhere, but you should firstly assess the situation. For fucks' sakes --- this is why TRP, Rollo, Fresh and Fit, and Rich Cooper will always be successful, there are too many autists who don't understand simple society. She was busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:53 AM
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Fully agree. Men have to at least look decent. Than, it's about career, personality, blabla.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:46 AM
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It mostly gets better because men finally understand their league. They should date in their league sooner. That way, there won't be any 22-year old incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:45 AM
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For me - it hurts that I don't have someone to fuck, and someone to travel with. Most of my male friends are in relationships/married, and going with my female friends is creepy as fuck. Other than that, life is pretty chill, I have a lot of female and male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:44 AM
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He's creepy, for sure. I am a guy and I felt scared for her. But at least he tried and didn't become aggressive. He has to try again, but don't be so creepy. It's a learning curve. Also, ffs, try to understand if she is available for a chat. Obviously, she was busy. This approach is like guys who approach girls at the gym during her set. For fucks' sakes, just take a closer look and see if she can actually talk to you. If she is fuckin' idle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:42 AM
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Just be normal and talk to people. Don't go down the red pill path. No Rollo, no fresh and fit, no Rich Cooper...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:42 PM
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Virgin guys should get what they can, just to start their sex life. Then, climb the fuck ladder. Nobody should judge you about who you fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:42 PM
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Probably an Andrew Tate fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:41 PM
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Given up at 25, I am kinda regretful about my decision, but oh, whatever. The reason was simple: I have a facial deformity and no woman likes me. I never felt that "I wanna suck your dick eyes" that all my male friends had. Life is kinda good though, I have plenty of male and female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:01 AM
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just because i am a virgin don't mean i am not right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:10 PM
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Do you know any women? Sex and relationships is ALL they think about, especially after 30 if they are single. It's almost depressing to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:47 PM
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primary (chance of relationship 25%): school, work, circle of friends secondary (chance of relationship 10%): neighbors, local community, church, group hobbies (eg: dancing, animal shelter, film festival), group trips, weddings, parties, work events, conferences tertiary (chance of relationship 1%): orgies, bars, streets, wrestling matches, fights (I know a guy who met his wife during a fight in the streets), while getting arrested (I know a guy who approached a witness while he was questioned a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:43 PM
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Play the numbers game. Have many many women around, meet women constantly. You can't fail if you meet 10 women a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:07 PM
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Yes. Bluepill offers every advice you can possibly want, you just have to be normal and understand it. For instance, even my grandma told me not to be fat and be physically active, so girls find me attractive. Of course, she never told me about roids, benchpress, and TRT. But the advice is still there. Also, my parents always told me to get a good job. I didn't need Rich Cooper for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:07 AM
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It's logical for normal, non-autistic guys. For autistic guys it's not logical, and they need TRP to explain it to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:01 AM
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Red pill advice is just blue pill advice said in a men vs. women narrative, explained for autistic guys. Literally everything said by TRP is the same as blue pill, just worded differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:30 AM
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Whenever a woman says "I like an educated guy" or "I like an artsy guy" or "I like bald guys", or "I like tall guys" or "I like attorneys" or whatever, she actually says: "I like an attractive guy who is tall/bald/artsy/educated/whatever". That's woman language for you. And autistic guys don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:28 AM
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why does he initiate 95% of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:40 PM
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It's basic social conditioning. If someone says no now, it's a good idea to not be too pushy. Of course, good salesmen know when, how, and why to push further. Especially after some time passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:00 PM
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yeah, still a virgin; but why a red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:58 PM
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I have A LOT of female friends. Is that a red flag? I never touched them sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:59 PM
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Meanwhile, 99 percent of men I know are in relationships. Short, fat, ugly, hot, tall, lanky, classy, poor, rich, educated, not educated - they all found a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:52 PM
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It's the biological risk and the investment risk. Raising children is a MASSIVE investment. If you invest in raising a child, you have to make sure the child is yours. If a woman has a huge N-count, the investment risk is MASSIVE. You may risk investing in children that are NOT your own. The paternity issue is a massive fear for men. Just like women are afraid of falling in love with a secretly gay guy or a guy with a micropenis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:31 PM
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Settling is when you blow him, and his gut touches your forehead. That's EXACTLY the moment you know you settled. (he has a gut and it touches your forehead - every time, and it doesn't get better)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:02 PM
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Don't shame me, I have a facial deformity. There's nothing I can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:58 AM
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So what is bluepill?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:25 PM
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Bluepillers say status and money doesn't matter? Are you nuts? Even my grandma told me money matters. My parents always told me to get a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:09 PM
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The thing is virtually no high-value man, who worked his ass off to build a business or a career, marries a woman who never did anything. Men marry in their socio-economic class.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:08 PM
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Everything red pill says it's just what blue pill says, but in a more aggressive, misogynistic way, with a us vs. them narrative. For instance, red pill did not invent "just lift brah". Even the most blue pill person ever knows that you have to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:42 PM
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Yes, they do, but most doctors marry other doctors. Educated men rarely, if ever, marry low-educated, no-job women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:40 PM
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Men are hypergamous too. TRP always has this women vs. men narrative. But we are surprisingly similar. Men's hypergamy is not about money, but we do want the woman with the best ass, boobs, the best cook, the most agreeable, the one who can deepthroat. And you'd be surprised, but men also pay attention to a woman's education and job. A man who is a top surgeon will NEVER marry a barista. He will go for a woman who is also a doctor. Both men and women want the best partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:59 PM
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I was red pilled and it helped me understand some stuff. But I let it go after I noticed it made me a lunatic. Now, after having many female friends and seeing their struggles, I am blue pilled 100%. Women are people. It's amazing how I transitioned into red pill, then back into blue pill. Yeah, and I still lift. Still eat clean. Still work. Still do shit. Still Dre. Red pill is just blue pill explained to full-blown autists with cum-stained t-shirts living in their moms basements.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:37 PM
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Getting DMs is not about peaking. It's about normal human sexuality - men are the chasers because of the low-to-nonexistant sexual risk. Both men and women peak at 25 to 30. Most men get fat and bald by 35. Very few of them become alpha, jacked, and rich as phuck. The men who "suddenly" find dating easy in their 30s date in their league, as they should have done when they were 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:13 PM
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I 100% agree, but I would add a 4th filter: - being interested sexually in women, and liking women; it's surprising how many men don't really like women and are not interested in them; so you have to be relatively horny and pro-active in dating;
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:38 AM
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I just want to get to 1 before ED kicks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:46 PM
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Just make more money. Let's say Billy has a good job and is a full-blown incel. If he makes $5,000 per month, pays rent $1,500, and needs $1,000 for groceries, gas, clothes, insurance, and other shit, he has $2,500 to spend on OnlyFans. That means he can support AT LEAST 250 girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:05 PM
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Most are 25 to 50, so plenty of young guys too. All have gfs/married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:20 PM
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Most are 25 to 50, so there are a lot that know about social media and online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:19 PM
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I work in a heavily male-dominated industry (construction and civil engineering). I know 50 to 70 guys. Every single one of them has a gf/wife. Fat guys, short guys, bald guys, poor guys, hot guys, tall guys, skinny guys, jacked guys. I only know one guy who struggles a lot. He works as a software engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:41 PM
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You make me hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:30 PM
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You are deluded. In many societies, if you had a daughter, you literally had to pay dudes to marry her. Pussy was cheap as fuck in many societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:27 PM
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If you ask out Margot Robbie you have a chance of her saying YES of about 0.0001%. If you don't, your chances are 0%. Get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:22 PM
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I guess you mean talk to women in a sexual/romantic way. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:21 PM
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I'ma show these hoes once I get jacked, wealthy, and use that tactical soap from Rich Cooper. That's what they dream about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:19 PM
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It's extreme because it's presented in a us vs them narrative, making it even more extreme. It's designed to radicalize men against women. Just like extremist religious factions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:29 PM
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Almost every guy over 40 in the US is fat and a lot of them are bald or balding. Especially true in areas that are NOT Los Angeles and Miami.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:27 PM
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Not true. I work in a male-dominated environment. There are fat men, bald me, short men, poor men, men without teeth, men with almost no education - 99% are married or in LTRs - ages 25 to 50. The only single guys I know are really creepy and off (I know only 2 single guys, out of 50 to 100).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:26 PM
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Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:25 PM
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I work in a male-dominated environment. There are fat men, bald me, short men, poor men, men without teeth, men with almost no education - 99% are married or in LTRs - ages 25 to 50. The only single guys I know are really creepy and off (I know only 2 single guys, out of 50 to 100).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:23 PM
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Getting fit is not red pill advice. Every normal, sane person knows that getting fit is normal advice. Even my grandma told me "if you are fat, girls won't like you". Getting your life together is the same - everyone says you need a good education, a good job, don't do drugs and pay attention at train crossings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:21 PM
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AF/BB - it doesn't exist; women marry men they are attracted to, not disgusting fat guys who pay the mortgage, as the red pill says Hypergamy - men do the same, they go after the girl with biggest a$$ and largest boobs; we all want the best partner
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:20 PM
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Some women are awesome, so I guess being in a relationship with them is GREAT. I don't know...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:18 PM
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Also, men with E.D. just have ugly/fat/disgusting wives or girlfriends. Most E.D. cases disappear if a guy really has HOT girl in front of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:17 PM
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The alternative is finding a guy you find attractive, for fucks' sakes. Don't get me depressed. I refuse to believe that so many women go through this all their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:44 PM
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Horrible life for a woman, honestly. Getting dicked down for decades... for what...?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:43 PM
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Yeah, but women get horny, so how can you suck a fat, hairy guy's dick for decades? WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:42 PM
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How can a woman be so horny to actually marry a guy she doesn't find attractive? It's depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:35 PM
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Many men say they only want sex and validation. Many men say that a woman's education does not matter. Many men say they don't care about a woman's job or social standing. This is all false. Men want more than sex and validation. And they care about a woman's education and job. Numerous studies show that men REALLY care about this and almost never date outside their socio-economic class. Men often say "just don't be fat", but they have A LOT of other standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:13 PM
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men do the same, they want high-powered sluts for hookups, and good, nurturing girls, agreeable girls for LTRs that's what red pillers get wrong - they always talk about US vs THEM narrative;
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:41 PM
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dogs and cats are BS? how unhappy can you be to say something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:50 PM
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she wanted your money date in your own income bracket
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:34 AM
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So most women actively choose to marry men they are not attracted to? Why? Why would a woman destroy her future by doing that? It's not money, as most men will NEVER make enough money to truly provide a good life for a woman on a single income. So what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:22 PM
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Do you have any female friends? Women are very vocal about what they find hot. Just pay attention to how women speak. They ALWAYS talk about hot guys. Even my grand-aunt who is 91 talks shit about short men among her friends, and all are in their late 80s. You either live in a cave, or simply ignore what women say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:53 PM
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Excellent and intelligent response. I might fall in love with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:48 PM
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I don't see this happening. Very few men make enough money to "provide" for a woman. You'll need $150k per year if you live in a decent area. Few men make that type of money, so it must be something else. Maybe women really do get horny as fuck and say "he's good enough, at least I get dick".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:47 PM
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Let's say I agree - men settle for women because they want to fuck. And they get so horny, that even a fat chick is fine. But women do the same? They just get so horny, that any chubby, hairy guy is good enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:45 PM
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Just look at any conventionally attractive man and try to be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:42 PM
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Pretend for decades? Sleep every night next to a disgusting man? For decades? Seriously? Who the fuck does that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:00 PM
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Why do they do that? because they get a benefit from it, not monetary no, they get the benefit of being able to tell their friends and family "look, i got an stable relationship with a nice guy, look there is a guy who loves me" basically ego and status and fake appereances symbol because more desirable guys just want her for her body. Yeah, but you have to actually sleep next to that guy for decades. And suck his dick. And see his face every morning. And go on vacation with him. It's not just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:39 PM
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I don't know ANY woman who says "he's not that attractive, but checks all the boxes" about her husband. If I were that husband and knew about this I would file the divorce papers in about an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:30 PM
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So you'll never marry the fat, hairy dude that makes $70k per year as all red pillers say?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:28 PM
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All the red pillers will go berzerk when they see your comment. Good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:27 PM
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Humans were always serial monogamists. It's the natural dating environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:27 PM
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That's because we are designed for serial monogamy, not for lifetime monogamy. We change partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:17 PM
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Isn't that a HORRIBLE life experience? Having sex with a guy you don't find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:16 PM
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Here He says red pill is worse than blue pill, he says he will never hold conferences, and he does not want to be associated with red pillers. He says he will continue to do this to "help people". I can't find that crap with his string of fat single mom gfs. I also can't find the crap with his brother, who made the money. And I recommend his last live video with Macken. He just trolls to get more followers and sell his soap. It's quite visible he just pretends to be a sexist - when saying that 9…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:20 PM
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Nah, people don't want healthy advice. Healthy is a word that is quite difficult to define in the dating context. People want advice that works FOR THEM. For instance, dating advice for a mormon is completely different to dating advice to a Santa Barbara hot college girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:29 PM
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Rich Cooper admitted that the Red Pill is full of crap and he only does it for clout and to get followers. There was a video of him saying that, filmed in his garage. His channel is EntrepreneursInCars - so he switched to Red Pill shit to get fat stacks of cash. Rich also just talks shit. He regularly dates fat single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:27 PM
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I don't want to "feel up" my female friends. They have bfs and some are married. The reason why I am virgin at 38 is my facial deformity. But I still have close female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:23 PM
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Not really. I am very ugly, I have a facial deformity (which has a medical term, so it's not just "big ears" or "big nose"). And I still have plenty of female friends who I meet 1 on 1 regularly. We go jogging, swimming, tennis, bowling, all sorts of stuff. I can talk anything and everything with them. Women are just people and they have virtually the same life as men (90% - yeah, getting sex is easier for them). Just be normal and talk to women as you would talk to guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:18 PM
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I see loving couples too. Men and women that are really in love with each other. Only red pillers say that women marry men that they are not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:13 PM
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How can someone go from "hell yeah, I wanna fuck him", to "don't even touch me, you disgusting pig"? I am really asking this very seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:12 PM
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Exactly. They were attracted. Only crazy, depressed, or really, really poor women marry guys just because they are good enough. Normal women marry guys that they find attractive. Of course, if the hot guy gets obese in his 40s, the attraction will go away. But initially they were attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:03 PM
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There is no Beta Bux. Sane, normal women don't marry "good enough" men. Normal, sane women marry men they find attractive. Women want men they are attracted to. And now women make their own money. They marry men they are attracted to. I literally don't know ANY woman who married a "good enough" man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:35 PM
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Sane, normal women don't marry "good enough" men. Normal, sane women marry men they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:34 PM
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Yes, they are valid. I am talking about teasing, not getting beaten up or murdered for it. Something like "Oh Rick never had a gf, he couldn't possibly have any of these problems" or something like "at least you don't have to spend a lot for a wedding" or "hey, let's get a ticket to Amsterdam for Rick, so he can taste some pussy". This type of teasing is ok. Even slight harassment is okay - it may encourage the virgin to try harder. Talking shit is also kinda good. Some people are really freaked…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:53 AM
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I am 38, a guy, and I am a virgin, so I can answer this. It's simple - men want sex and being a virgin shows that you can't get sex. It's a symbol of failure. You failed to have sex, and men really, really want sex. It's perfectly normal to tease, harass, and talk shit about guys who failed at something that #1 they want so much and #2 is fairly easy to get, as women are just as horny as guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:49 AM
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It's being normal. Women really love normal guys. It's not socially calibrated - it's normal social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:17 AM
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Of course, it's being masculine. Women like to be approached, asked out, and love it when a guy initiates or escalates. Being shy is a disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:07 AM
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