OkWorldliness1323 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
113	Men we really are doing it to ourselves		OkWorldliness1323	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/25 08:21 PM
30	My experience with the redpill scene		OkWorldliness1323	/r/ExRedPill	08/07/25 06:47 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Being nicely rejected hurts me more than just being flat out rejected If you have to guess then they're not interested. That is your barometer. That is how I do it. If I notice myself feeling like I am pulling teeth I walk away.	/r/ExRedPill	03/10/25 06:43 PM
13	Being nicely rejected hurts me more than just being flat out rejected Just a thought on this statement. > The worst type is when they don't even reject you, they just kind of play along and hope you get the hint. This is kinda you're own fault. Interact with enough women and you can see the difference between low and high interest. You'll never accept anything less than high interest and you can quickly weed these people out. People are incapable of wasting your time. Only you can do that. I stopped trying to win women over and only invest in people investing in m…	/r/ExRedPill	03/10/25 05:26 PM
5	What’s the thinking on Scott Galloway? I used to follow him on IG and it seemed for a while he would often advocate for men's issues on the basis that if they get too far behind they become violent. While maybe true for some I don't think it's a great way to get anyone on your side and is arguing that society should help/care or else and not they should help/care simply because men are deserving of sympathy and empathy. Also that we should care because it's bad for women too and again not because men are inherently worthy of care.	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/25 12:36 AM
13	Men we really are doing it to ourselves "wired that way" implies a lack of choice. Countless men throughout history, most completely of no note, chose to not slip into that role and that does not make them any less worthy or valuable as humans. I've never found myself to be particularly drawn to some dick swinging contest of performative masculinity.	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/25 12:17 AM
3	Men we really are doing it to ourselves Man what did I miss lol. Can't find it on reveddit.	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/25 12:12 AM
2	Men we really are doing it to ourselves Thank you for the suggestion. I'll have to give it a read.	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/25 12:10 AM
9	Men we really are doing it to ourselves A question I have asked myself as well.	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/25 09:46 PM
21	Men we really are doing it to ourselves Latter for me. I was drawn into it because I was trying to figure out dating and I didn't learn anything from my brothers or my father.	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/25 09:07 PM
1	Rebuilding dating confidence + meet women outside dating apps when you’ve been unsuccessful for years? I am also trying to kick porn. Part of why I am not really making an effort when it comes to dating. I will say though I have really started to meet more women IRL. I picked up country swing and line dancing. At least where I am at swing dancing is slightly more men but line dancing is definitely majority women 70%+. So I'd say give some form of dancing a shot. If you're able to approach a woman and get her to dance and feel safe you're doing pretty well. Personally I actually don't talk to them…	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/25 06:09 PM
7	Feeling Stuck After Doing the Work: Short, Bald, Ethnic, and Still Struggling with Self-Perception As the other commenter pointed out people aren't thinking too much about you. Maybe a passing thought but then they're back in their own world. Just look at yourself my dude you're so caught up in your own head you can't be bothered to pay much attention to anyone else. You're judging yourself so harshly you think everyone else is as well. The reality is everyone else is so caught up in their own shit they barely have time for that. The best thing you can do is learn to talk about yourself in a …	/r/ExRedPill	25/07/25 05:01 AM
9	Feeling Stuck After Doing the Work: Short, Bald, Ethnic, and Still Struggling with Self-Perception Hey man it sounds like you're going through a lot. It does also sound like you're headed in the right direction. Do the things that make you happy and keep showing up for yourself. Sometimes growth can feel very painful. You're learning new skills and learning more about yourself. Leaving behind people who were not on your team. Sometimes it's hard to see the change happening when we're in the thick of it but I think you'll look back and see that you grew a lot. You'll be proud of yourself for m…	/r/ExRedPill	25/07/25 03:05 AM
10	I’m 23 and heading into my final year of uni. I read a comment that hit way too close to home, and I don’t want to end up resentful in my 30s Yes you can absolutely have a good social life past college. I do think it does get harder because people kinda sink into their "life groups." Some people find a social circle in college and never really leave it. They all kinda get married and hit certain life "milestones" together. But that does not mean things can't be awesome for you. I was in a similar space my senior year of feeling like I missed out on what I wanted college to be and I fell into a deep depression. With consistent effort o…	/r/ExRedPill	24/07/25 03:16 PM
5	Whatever podcast host virginity reveal!!! I know I used to watch it. No part of the video makes me think the guy is a virgin but like honestly why waste your time and energy on people you hate.	/r/ExRedPill	21/07/25 10:41 PM
12	Whatever podcast host virginity reveal!!! who cares lol	/r/ExRedPill	21/07/25 07:41 PM
17	How can a man get a relationship through social settings aka hobby groups, etc? In the same boat in a lot of ways. I am not in a relationship but my current strategy is that I am just going out and doing things that put me in contact with women in my dating demo. From there just low stakes conversations and seeing who I click with. I am doing country swing and line dancing lessons. 10/10 would recommend. I swear to god it's like 70% women during line dancing. It's also pretty fun.	/r/ExRedPill	18/07/25 03:11 PM
5	Do women seem picky because many men don't put enough effort into being attractive? (not meeting easily met basic requirements) I think the whole men are gross thing is kinda overblown. It has been a long time since I've met a dude who doesn't shower or take basic care of themselves. I do think women put more effort into their appearance and thus notice and appreciate men who do as well. I think that is just human nature. Like if you're a woodworker you're going to notice the craftsmanship or lack thereof in a piece more so than an average person. So long answer is I do think women notice it more but I do not agree that …	/r/ExRedPill	15/07/25 04:31 PM
1	I have read a good comment on YouTube regarding the so called dating coaches. But one question though Yeah game is kinda BS. I think there are some things you should try and do. Like flirt if you can or tease but honestly thats hard to do on cold approach because you don't have much of a rapport. The thing is though when you get in your head trying to think of something to say or tease about you can easily lock up. I've done probably 1200ish approaches and I started to have the most success when I was just chill and was making an effort to get to know them. Personally I am direct in that I just …	/r/ExRedPill	11/07/25 07:00 PM