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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 28 | Cold approach help | Conversation | Ok_Artichoke3645 | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 07:24 AM |
| 27 | How to approach those who seem preoccupied/unapproachable? | Fundamentals | Ok_Artichoke3645 | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 03:38 PM |
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| 7 | How to pickup at a small collegeI’m similar to you (incoming freshman), but I’d say to avoid trying to cold approach girls on campus. You may be seen (after a few approaches) as the “pick up guy/creep” if you simply walk up to girls, call them cute, do a little conversation and go for number close. That is not a reputation I’d want to have, so what I plan to do is simply strike conversations with girls without the intention of going for a number close at the end after the first convo. That’s just me though. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 12:58 AM |
| 36 | How do I talk to and make progress with the gym receptionist?Considering gym receptionists probably have rather dull days working, any friendly conversation would be received well I suppose. Although I wouldn’t be flirty in the first approach. Just a regular convo as maybe you’ll be seeing her additional times in the future. Also, it’s always tricky tryna hit up those working in jobs where they have to be overtly nice to customers like a barista, receptionist, etc. As a smile and friendly attitude could just be them doing their job, not necessarily a inte… | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 05:10 AM |
| 3 | Introverts, what's your strategy?I used to be insanely shy/introvert/not social, and it stemmed from the insecurity I had with my body. I’ve made massive progress in my confidence and willingness to talk to strangers since hitting the gym and seeing progress. I know it’s kinda lazy advice to say “go gym”, but that was what caused me to go from extreme insecurity and never even thinking of speaking to a girl, to confident enough to hold a conversation with a girl (still a beginner to that though!) | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 09:13 PM |
| 3 | “What is it bout’ men?” -Amy WinehouseI can’t say how attractive you are without actually seeing you, but assuming you are really attractive, some guys will simply consider you out of their league. B/c of this they may also just not bother approaching. Also, you may seem unapproachable due to your stance, face (Resting bitch face), and overall demeanor. Also consider that in their early twenties, (it’s safe to say) majority of both guys and girls aren’t looking for LT relationships and mostly want to spend time exploring through hoo… | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 02:13 PM |
| 80 | Cold approaching is fcking insane!Isn’t this post a copy and paste of a post from a few weeks ago? https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/u57wc2/cold_approaching_is_really_insane/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 05:40 PM |
| 26 | Met a cutie who flirts with me, but she’s married…Do you really want to take the risk of having to deal with her husband when he inevitably finds out you’re messing around with his wife (which is what it seems you want to do with this girl)? She’s probably super bored working at a place like Wawa, which is why she’s entertaining you as a married person (besides the fact that you’re attractive). This situation is just not worth it in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 01:07 PM |
| 3 | Alternative Girl Appreciation PostGood luck man, alt girls are underrated and in my mind they get approached less than the “white skinny blond that needs her daily Starbucks or she will collapse” girl. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 04:35 PM |
| 4 | Alternative Girl Appreciation PostI’m coming back from Niagara Falls and there was this store in the area that sold rock and roll/goth/alt/anime clothing, souvenirs, gifts etc. The workers and customers browsing all seemed to be the “alt” type you are interested in. So although it seems obvious that you’ll find alt girls in alt-related communities/areas, I cannot think of much better places to specifically seek them out. Alt stores, alt concerts, fan meetups of alt bands. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach helpHow long are your cold approaches lasting? Having to ask 3-5 questions seems like you could be conversing with them for several minutes before you throw out the “i actually have to catch some friends right now, but you seem cool and I’m down to hang sometime… could I get your number so we/I can make plans?” | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 07:05 PM |
| 0 | How to get fit fast if you can't do any sport?There really is no natural shortcut to achieve weight loss than dieting. A calorie deficit is really important to lose weight, and doing things such as eating more “clean” (cutting out junk foods like soda and chips, cooking at home vs. buying processed foods, eating more calorie dense foods such as chicken - rice - broccoli) go a long way to help lose weight. I really can go further into some actions you could take to lose weight (presumably you mean losing body fat and not simply wanting the s… | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Cold approach helpSome girls might take that compliment of them being hot without makeup as charming, others might see your compliment as fake and thus think negatively of you (point being I don’t see the merit in your absolute stance that all girls would not like to be called cute). I think age and location are fairly important factors in how receptive a girl would be to certain compliments in a cold approach (in these times) as well as her self esteem. If she thinks little of herself, she might take the complim… | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:47 AM |
| 5 | Cold approach helpI take public transport and walk everywhere I go, and frequent high traffic areas a lot. In my experience I’ve yet to see a cold approach occur with girls my age, so I’m under the assumption that girls my age really don’t get cold approached (especially considering the recent pandemic and all the negative effects of that for both male and female), thus I assume girls my age (in my location) don’t get called cute by a complete stranger much. Your perspective on the topic is based on what girls yo… | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:12 AM |
| 7 | Cold approach helpYou say to not compliment a girl by calling her “cute”, as she’d rather be complimented for her sexiness, hotness, and naughtiness. If I was a girl, I would probably not receive a comment about my “naughtiness” from a complete stranger very well. That goes for my “hotness”or “sexiness” as well. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 08:39 AM |
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