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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Between a rock and a hard place | Ok_Crew_3392 | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/24 10:51 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | It WILL get better gentleman. I was where you are now…Good post…I’m working towards that myself now. I’m glad to hear everything is coming together. I try to keep a positive perspective on everything right now even though my quality of life has turned upside down. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/24 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Should I stay or should I goI would prepare to go. I agree with a lot of the people about the “I don’t see a future” type comments. Quick story. My ex said the same thing to me about 3-4 times over the course of 8-9 months. I was suspicious around month 5 that there was another man, but chalked it up to my personal insecurities and the fact that she has multiple guy coworkers/associates but one guy stuck out as oddI confronted her at month 8 asking if this person (by this time I know she was talking to someone and hangin o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/24 09:29 PM |
| 2 | How to forgiveIt’s definitely a hard thing to do. It’s something I struggled with, and still struggle with at times. I see my ex almost everyday due to the kids, and seeing her walk around with and talk with the guy she had an affair with is absolutely a huge trigger. Some days are better than others. I try to keep things in perspective and realize that we both messed up in our relationship and are both to blame. I’m there for the children and the children only. I won’t volunteer my time or give advice for an… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/24 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Dropping bombs well after the factI feel your pain. You want to get back at her and make her feel bad…I totally understand. But like everyone else said, it’s just not worth. Use those feelings as indicator to yourself that you’re still in pain and want closure. But the most important aspect is that you don’t need to voice those opinions and feelings to her in order to get closure. You can do it without hurting others. I recently did exactly what you’re thinking of doing and nothing came from it. I thought I was going to feel bet… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/24 01:30 PM |
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