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Social IssuesOk_Stress_4977/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:17 AM
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GeneralOk_Stress_4977/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:51 AM
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FeminismOk_Stress_4977/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:12 AM
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GeneralOk_Stress_4977/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:23 AM
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The same pill used for at home abortions, is used to treat ectopic pregnancies if they’re not ruptured.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 10:45 PM
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House bill 2810, introduced by Republican Brian Seitz, would criminalize the production, sale and transportation of medications inducing abortions and other instruments intended “to be used for the purpose of performing or inducing an abortion”.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 10:29 PM
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I didn’t say it’s already illegal, it’s been introduced. I don’t think it will be made illegal but they are trying to. It goes beyond this one thing, they want the death penalty for women who get abortions in some states. The pill they use to treat UNRUPTURED ectopic pregnancies is also what some People are trying to have outlawed. A person with no uterus, no medical training, is trying to do this.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 10:01 PM
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Because women didn’t have a say back then. In 1917 there were literally only 2 women in congress. People HATED that. That’s the point, we didn’t have a say, that’s why men made those decisions. Women still don’t get a say in laws regarding women. For example, a bunch of guys who know nothing about women’s Health want to make it illegal to have an abortion in case of an ectopic pregnancy, which is fatal in almost all cases if not treated.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 09:38 PM
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https://www.mic.com/articles/87809/23-ways-feminists-have-made-the-world-better-for-women This was 2014 so there’s more to add now but you’re not understanding what I’m saying so try that
/r/MensRights19/03/22 09:26 PM
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You’re still not recognizing that the reason for all of that is men. Men decided that “men have to do this” and women are blamed for that. Men decided women needed their husbands consent for most things, such as to work or a bank account, and women fought that. Feminism has been a thing since the 1890’s when those things were not possible. However if you do some research, the concept of feminism was created by a man, women carried it out. It is just a fact that it took much longer for women to b…
/r/MensRights19/03/22 09:06 PM
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Well when I first looked at this group, I scrolled from newest to about 10 days back. About 80% of the posts were just about ridiculous things like my wife won’t have sex with me, this person is dating a girl with a child so he’s trapped, this man got jail time for rape and we don’t even know if he did it. Stuff like that. The fight is not against the opposite gender. The fight doesn’t have to be against anyone. I believe in womens rights, I believe in mens rights. I don’t agree with every singl…
/r/MensRights19/03/22 07:35 PM
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There’s just way more to that story than included in this post. He also had a history of severe mental illness prior so this was a build up.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 02:49 AM
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Yes. If he killed himself over the metoo movement there was a reason. Why would I kill myself over BLM? I have no reason to be upset by it.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 02:38 AM
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Rape kills women❤️
/r/MensRights15/03/22 12:09 AM
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I’ve been pressured into things by both genders, and for me in particular one was just more pushy. I feel like until it’s less common and more people can respect consent, we’ll be scared
/r/MensRights14/03/22 07:36 PM
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You are not every situation though. That is rarely the case, but I’m glad you handled it well.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 04:52 PM
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I don’t feel like it should be fear that’s being taught, I think it’s mostly just awareness and self defence that needs to be taught. Like there’s always a possibility that it could happen so be ready to protect yourself in any situation, but being scared could either increase your adrenaline and make you stronger to fight them off or you’ll freeze.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 04:51 PM
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It’s mostly because it’s more common for a girl to be assaulted by a man. And I heard that too but I looked into it and they went into a lot of detail so it was determined by the people doing the study what was accuraye
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:55 PM
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I have that too❤️ 1 in 10.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:54 PM
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In regards to sexual assault, 97% of women are sexually assaulted between 12 and 24
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:43 PM
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3 out of 4 are known by the victim. That doesn’t matter though because it still happens. Even if it’s less likely to happen, it happens. I’m not going to say “oh don’t want to offend these guys I’ll just not be scared anymore” I know that girls get attacked in public and I am doing what I can to make it harder for that to happen. I check my backseat before I open the car at night, I have my keys in my hand, I briefly look under my car, I keep my purse strapped under my jacket, I only walk in are…
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:42 PM
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You are upset over a movement raising awareness over sexual assault victims? That is what kills men?
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:36 PM
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You could not be more wrong about chances of being raped. It’s 1 in 6 every year.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:34 PM
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97% of women will be sexually assaulted between 15 and 24 years old. It’s so important to teach to take precautions, and also to teach everyone it’s obviously not okay to touch someone without consent or follow them or yell at them
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:34 PM
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Don’t call me that¿
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:31 PM
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Feminists aren’t making a literal war a gender issues❤️ I want everyone out of Ukraine.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:30 PM
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I’m sorry that happened to you. Very few people in this world would agree with wanting to be raped over falsely accused. I can send you a long list of people who have been able to move on with their lives after getting falsely accused. Rape victims on the other hand usually need years and years of therapy and still have PTSD.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:28 PM
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A 2 hour documentary made by men and statistics Canada? All sources were listed babe, unlike any of your information
/r/MensRights14/03/22 03:27 PM
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I meant would you need to think about it a lot and would you wonder if you did the right thing, or maybe regret it later
/r/MensRights07/03/22 02:58 PM
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Abortions aren’t easy, if that’s what you meant. I considered one for about 2 weeks and that was the hardest thing ever. Although most don’t regret it, it’s still emotionally and physically traumatizing.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 02:58 PM
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Just curious though, would you think it’s an easy thing to do? Walking away from a pregnancy for a man?
/r/MensRights07/03/22 02:51 PM
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If the girl agrees that’s best and she’s okay doing it on her own, yeah he should
/r/MensRights07/03/22 02:49 PM
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If the girl agrees that’s best and she’s okay doing it on her own, yeah he should
/r/MensRights07/03/22 02:49 PM
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I agree, but I’m saying both need to have the option. Abortion is getting harder to access
/r/MensRights07/03/22 02:42 PM
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I can’t be on hormonal birth control anymore anyway (except the iud) because of health stuff
/r/MensRights07/03/22 02:30 PM
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Birth control is 99% effective. Not 100. And he doesn’t want kids so why wouldn’t he? That’s closer to 100% than anything else. He didn’t anyway
/r/MensRights07/03/22 02:28 PM
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The condom broke and I got pregnant on the pill❤️
/r/MensRights07/03/22 02:27 PM
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Have you seen the abortion protests? Women can’t walk into a clinic without getting harassed. They need escorts. The Texas law where the limit for abortion is 4 weeks, before most girls know they’re pregnant? Or when Alabama passed the law that a rapist could sue the woman for getting an abortion? Men walk away all the time, what they will get is child support bills or judgement. Very rarely jail time and the title of a murderer.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 02:27 PM
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If a man should be able to get out of a pregnancy, so should she
/r/MensRights07/03/22 02:23 PM
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Getting your tubes tied is an extremely invasive surgery with a much longer recovery than a vasectomy. Also vasectomies don’t have side effects after they are done. Birth control has thousands. My boyfriend wanted to offer to get a vasectomy so I wouldn’t have to get an IUD because that’s the worst pain I’ve ever felt and at least they provide anesthesia for vasectomies
/r/MensRights07/03/22 02:22 PM
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Birth control is more likely to fail than vasectomies.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 01:52 PM
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But only one has to be pregnant for 9 months and deliver a baby and then deal with the post partum and then stay home with it (assuming dad goes back to work). If she doesn’t want to do that, she should never have to.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 01:51 PM
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I don’t agree with it at all but no kid should lose their parents over it
/r/MensRights07/03/22 01:50 PM
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Ah, better wording
/r/MensRights06/03/22 10:22 PM
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I don’t hate men, I hate the men that are bad people, same as I don’t hate women I hate women who are bad people.
/r/MensRights06/03/22 10:17 PM
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Idk I’m a feminist lol you can support both
/r/MensRights06/03/22 10:16 PM
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My ex didn’t like me so it’s kinda nice for a change
/r/MensRights06/03/22 10:14 PM
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Actually I don’t know any women who think like that
/r/MensRights06/03/22 10:09 PM
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I personally like when my boyfriend asks for comfort
/r/MensRights06/03/22 10:08 PM
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I am 100% on board with the goals in this group, so many posts are problematic though. There are thousands of issues with both. I am a feminist because It gave me the rights I have today, I don’t agree with everything other feminists believe but that doesn’t mean I believe them myself. I agree with most things in this group, some are just not okay though, so I still support mens rights and feminism, just not those specific statements.
/r/MensRights06/03/22 10:07 PM
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Don’t use them then?
/r/MensRights06/03/22 10:05 PM
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And then leaving them in dirty diapers until it heals
/r/MensRights06/03/22 10:04 PM
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I don’t think parents should have to. No one should have to leave their kids for it.
/r/MensRights06/03/22 10:02 PM
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This is a womens rights issue. Even if it affects you. You got her pregnant, she gets to choose if she has the baby. If you worry about this, get a vasectomy.
/r/MensRights06/03/22 10:01 PM
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Why?
/r/MensRights06/03/22 09:58 PM
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Are you disappointed every time someone does something with their lives
/r/MensRights27/02/22 09:15 AM
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To get this straight. She had a baby on their date. He chose to stay with her and help. And you’re mad?
/r/MensRights27/02/22 08:03 AM
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Can you fuck off? I literally work in mental health, I teach that. Fortunately, having a certain disorder doesn’t stop me from believing you’re a shitty person
/r/MensRights19/02/22 05:59 AM
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You mean until you decide to be a stepfather? Don’t date a girl with children if you don’t to be involved!
/r/MensRights19/02/22 05:07 AM
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Too bad that’s been asked before
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:26 PM
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Because my friend died and I took her hamster
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:16 PM
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Because I tried to understand whatever the hell is going on here and all I’m gathering is most of you hate women
/r/MensRights18/02/22 03:07 PM
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As is this group here
/r/MensRights18/02/22 03:06 PM
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Don’t respond then:))
/r/MensRights18/02/22 03:06 PM
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Yes actually! Some men, believe it or not, do want their girlfriends to defend what they believe in.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 02:31 PM
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Interesting
/r/MensRights18/02/22 02:27 PM
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I can absolutely engage, I don’t feel like responding to every single word you type. Most of the things you say aren’t even worth reading because I already have an opinion on it and it’s not worth it.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 02:22 PM
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When? Most are praised from what I see
/r/MensRights18/02/22 02:15 PM
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Obviously I’m not okay with it but when did that come up???????
/r/MensRights18/02/22 02:07 PM
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Have you ever heard of failed protection?????
/r/MensRights18/02/22 02:04 PM
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LOL WHEN DID THAT COME UP
/r/MensRights18/02/22 02:03 PM
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I do don’t worry
/r/MensRights18/02/22 02:03 PM
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Find more if you’d like, I have to go teach my toddlers to be a better person than you are, have a great day
/r/MensRights18/02/22 01:37 PM
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Have you ever heard of rape??
/r/MensRights18/02/22 01:36 PM
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I don’t believe they should make the decision or have a say in the decision.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 01:35 PM
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I’ve had many many many arguments with men about this too, I don’t associate men with being prolife. I think the whole prolife movement is problematic
/r/MensRights18/02/22 01:21 PM
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https://www.huffpost.com/archive/ca/entry/mens-rights-movement_b_5049999 don’t get too worked up Over the title
/r/MensRights18/02/22 01:15 PM
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How about we just agree that parenting is hard regardless.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 01:14 PM
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Womens history, how our rights have changed, problems with CERTAIN mens rights movements, etc
/r/MensRights18/02/22 01:13 PM
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I think 11 weeks for the pill and 13-14 for surgical
/r/MensRights18/02/22 01:10 PM
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Do the research, like I have for everything else
/r/MensRights18/02/22 01:09 PM
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No, because if a woman gets one she doesn’t want to be pregnant or have a baby.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 01:08 PM
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No I’m pro choice
/r/MensRights18/02/22 01:08 PM
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Men should have nothing to do with womens reproductive laws in the first place
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:56 PM
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The Alabama abortion laws, and the new Texas ones, are bullshit.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:55 PM
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I also don’t believe you would read anything I linked regardless
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:50 PM
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Most laws were made by men. It really wouldn’t take long for you to get a quick google search. I have things to do.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:48 PM
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I’m used to that, I work in daycare so everyone is honey or sweetheart or sometbing
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:46 PM
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Love it
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:45 PM
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Do you think I have the time?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:45 PM
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I’ve actually never seen anyone say they didn’t think Amber Heard should be in jail. Idk what side of internet you’re on but mine were all that she should be in jail.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:42 PM
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And of course, Mens rights activists would never
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:41 PM
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I don’t think either should have to consent so don’t even start with the anti feminist shit
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:37 PM
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It is VERY rare to not need your husbands permission to have tubes tied. They refused to do my mom when my sister was born (csection) because my dad is a truck driver and was away and couldn’t sign permission for her, so they had to open her up again a few weeks later.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:31 PM
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I do though. I support womens, mens, humans in general, animals, people of Color, all sexuality’s, lots and lots of things to support.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:29 PM
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Which is what womens rights does.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:28 PM
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I agree with mens rights as much as I agree with womens rights, but most of the people in this group are incredibly toxic and just hate women and complain about women doing the same
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:25 PM
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What you’re fighting actually is that a clump of cells with 0 organs, including a heart, is worth more than an actual woman.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:22 PM
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And tell me how a health problem, such as an ectopic pregnancy is preventable
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:20 PM
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You know what else is preventable? A woman dying because they wouldn’t let her abort a clump of uterus cells.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:20 PM
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I do have good things that happen:) it’s not always easy though to focus on the good when there’s all that bad stuff surrounding you too. I am very fortunate for most things, I’ve just had a lot of less fortunate things too.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:13 PM
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It’s not though. Failed birth control (mine personally was a broken condom, failed IUD, and failed morning after pill). Rape. Health problems. The list goes on.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:12 PM
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No because I believe in womens rights
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:11 PM
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I dont want any of my own, I want to adopt actually.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 12:11 PM
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Mens rights is not about equality, since then it would be everybody’s rights
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:47 AM
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Honestly I haven’t slept in over 3 days, i do not have the energy to respond to every point you makeZ
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:46 AM
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And what do you suspect I’m doing wrong? Getting a college degree? Working a good job? Keeping a healthy relationship? Getting my first apartment? Walking, exercising every day? Have you considered that just sometimes bad things happen?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:46 AM
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Or because men made the laws in the first place.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:41 AM
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He was single at the time, or with his ex I can’t remember but regardless the doctor never asked. And it does! It’s 100% my choice if I choose to have a surgery to stop all my issues instead of him throwing pills and needles and monthly ultrasounds at me.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:39 AM
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Your comments are all over the place on my phone. I obviously agree any abuser should be in jail but I’m not sure what that has to do with my comment.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:32 AM
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Okay lol
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:26 AM
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I will always be a feminist because I want my own rights?? I support myself???? I’m vegan, there’s thousands of toxic vegans and I don’t just stop because of that.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:26 AM
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We can talk about womens vs mens health. When my boyfriend was 19 he went to a doctor and asked for a vasectomy, he was happy to do it. I went at 20 and asked to have my tubes tied or a hysterectomy to solve my thousands of issues and that same doctor said I was too young and might want kids. The list of inequalities goes on.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:23 AM
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I’ve never blamed my childhood actually. I know that’s the source of a lot of things, but I also work with teenagers with mental health issues and behavioural issues so I turned it around pretty well. I also teach DBT so thanks for the suggestion but been there already.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:22 AM
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Your movement is pretty problematic as well but I still support it because I believe the intentions are good, but were taken the wrong way.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:19 AM
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I literally just have not heard of it. I don’t think I’ve reached that end of toxic.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:13 AM
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Which one? The amber heard one?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:07 AM
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I really was doing something wrong when my parents abused me, definitely my fault from the start.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:06 AM
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I didn’t imply that at all. A comment said “unless women become less selfish and entitled, marriage rates will drop”. I assumed that meant less marriage because women are bitches or something. So I said I personally just don’t want to marry someone who cheats or abused me. Which is why many people leave relationships or choose not to get married.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:04 AM
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I wonder that too??????
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:58 AM
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Wondering what yours was.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:57 AM
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I have never heard killallmen, don’t like it. I haven’t seen anything bed in feminism, not in any other groups about this.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:57 AM
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LOL, no this is comment was about women divorcing men. Those are two circumstances I absolutely would
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:56 AM
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I did, it is about me though!
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:55 AM
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BPD diagnosis was years ago and it’s been not an issue for a while, very well managed. 2. Autism has only bothered me sensory-wise, again not an issue right now. 3. Miscarriage has nothing to do with this and I’m really not interested in anyone pointing it out other than myself because that’s just not really your business. 4. I actually live a very very healthy lifestyle and your input was not needed.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:54 AM
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Then why did you feel the need to make this comment?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:51 AM
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Because I still lost a baby? Why are you crying about women getting abortions
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/22 10:50 AM
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I teach toddlers actually and we don’t believe in “winning arguments” but crazy how toddlers have more of an understanding than you!
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:47 AM
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LOL, they’re actually sleeping peacefully with me now but thanks for your concern honey
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:46 AM
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Same thing sweetheart! Whether you’ll believe it or not, you can’t change facts.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:44 AM
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I could also pick out about 100 concerning things men have said but I really don’t have the time so you can research that yourselfB
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:43 AM
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I respect that! Sorry for asking.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:41 AM
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And we can say the same about mens rights. I believe there’s problems with essentially anything. What we’re working towards on my opinion is “you have your problems, you’ve been discriminated against, how can I help” and that goes both ways. But that’s not what it is. You’ll have a bad experience with a number of people and assume you just hate the whole category. There’s issues with feminism. I won’t doubt that for a second. But I also won’t hate the whole group. There’s issues with the mens ri…
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:40 AM
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Actually, I came to this group because I do support mens rights and wanted some insight but not what I expected so I was pretty open minded. I’m pretty sure most of you met two women you hate and decided you’re against womens rights
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:37 AM
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BABE YOU SAID IT LMAO
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/22 10:36 AM
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I also knew that. Didn’t stop my fucking ovary from exploding and causing me to lose it.
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/22 10:36 AM
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Sorry, that was rude of me. I didn’t mean for my question about custody to be invasive, just trying to get a better idea of your experience with child custody and gender so I could understand if your case was an accurate judgement.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:35 AM
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“Don’t fuck. You have a choice.”
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/22 10:34 AM
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My boards don’t actually discuss men at all, unless it’s in relationships:)
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:34 AM
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Always remember, condoms break😉
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/22 10:33 AM
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You in more than most
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:33 AM
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They’re not actively murdering them, don’t worry, they sit outside the GLASS cage and hit it, they’re just not allowed to. Still don’t agree with you though
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:33 AM
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I actually avoid people like you at all costs but don’t worry, the interactions I’ve had in person are pretty much the equivalent!
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:31 AM
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And if you don’t want a girl pregnant right now I really hope you’re also abstaining’
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/22 10:30 AM
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Have you ever heard of rape????
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/22 10:30 AM
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I felt it goes without saying I disagree with pretty much everything you said above but I also have 4 cats trying to kill my hamster so responding to every word you wrote it beyond my means right now
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:28 AM
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Well you know I’ve spoken to several MRA’s on here and at least 40% of them think I deserve something bad to happen to me so
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:27 AM
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By asking you a simple question? Not too sure
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:27 AM
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I also judge mens rights activists on the members of this group who told me I deserved to have a miscarriage, it was my fault I got assaulted, I should kill myself, and that my boyfriend cheated on me because I’m a whale (which is what we call 97 pounds these days) so I can also narrow down a good group of these people and say I hate mens rights but I don’t. I support mens rights as much as I support my own.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:25 AM
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Mens rights (this group particularly) as yet to point out womens issues.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:24 AM
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If you really wanna know, I’m a 22 year old social worker in Canada and could not care less about who you wre
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:23 AM
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I doubt anyone is interested in hearing what you have to say anyway
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:23 AM
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I am pretty selfish for not wanting to die during childbiryh
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/22 10:22 AM
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I’m not convinced you’ve ever even spoken to a feminist
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:22 AM
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I’m sure it does. I assume you had a bad experience and she got custody?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:18 AM
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How did she know? He most likely convinced her he was perfect, agreed to have unprotected sex, and ran when he got her pregnant. Believe it or not, men do cause pregnancy! The best way to avoid impregnating a woman is to not have sex!
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:18 AM
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Do you have children?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:16 AM
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Any woman can do anything as much as any man can do anything. Paranoia gets the best of us
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:16 AM
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I do worry quite a bit about the actions of some of the people in this group. The words are the most troubling right now because one of your fellow mens rights activists tells me that me having a miscarriage was something I deserved so I worry for a lot of the women in your lives
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:15 AM
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You’re seriously comparing childbirth to a workplace accident? Growing a person, growing bones, organs, blood, a persons brain, (as your mother did unfortunately) for 9 months is very different from you working a few hours a day
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/22 10:14 AM
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Don’t date a pregnant girl if you’re that worked up and best of luck when you have kids if you can even get a woman to touch you
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:13 AM
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Okay so he made that choice. Get over it, it’s none of your business.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:12 AM
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I’m not convinced you know anything about Hitler because when hes used in the same context as fucking human rights obviously you dont
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:12 AM
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I personally just don’t like being abused or cheated on but anyway
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:11 AM
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I think actually it’s the fault of the guy who left. Is she a fucking fortune teller??????
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:11 AM
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Why wouldn’t I believe you? If you have any ounce of respect for me and my problems, why wouldn’t I respect you? I work with addictions, mental health, and trauma so I see that every single day.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:10 AM
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Typically there’s a long list of reasons if the woman does get more custody. 2. I’ve worked as much as anyone else at my former jobs 3. Agree, wrong, but not necessarily a gender thing
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:10 AM
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Like what
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:05 AM
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Why? What does him doing this have to do with you?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:05 AM
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Do you know anything???? Womens rights is feminism babe. If we threw a different name on mens rights would you be throwing a fit too
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:04 AM
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I did work with mostly men in addiction centres! But I was actually harassed my a teacher in 9th grade so idk about that one
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:04 AM
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I’m actually a social worker and keep children out of abusive situations so idk I would say that’s pretty useful and I’m sure those kids would agree but whatever
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:56 AM
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Thanks, I see you might be a dick so see ya
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:51 AM
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I can’t be wrong about a question. I actually think you’re wrong about everything you’ve ever said though so idk
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:49 AM
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Not really? You can’t rebrand rights honey
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:48 AM
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Okay, I agree with the last thing. I don’t believe though anyone has made a point to argue exactly that though.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:48 AM
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?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:48 AM
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Idk, I personally went college and got employed myself but anyway. And auto-correct is pretty wild btw.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:47 AM
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You didn’t get it, they’ve been there from the beginning of time remember? Women weren’t allowed to work?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:28 AM
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Huh. And men doesn’t sleep their way up? Oh right, they’re already there and have been forever.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:25 AM
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I am genuinely curious what you mean though. No one’s rights should have you suffering so I can safely assume it was not womens rights that caused you to suffer, it was something else.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:14 AM
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Being against womens rights is necessary for gender equality?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:10 AM
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You know honey when you have a baby with someone it’s yours too. So you’re not taking care of their baby, you’re taking care of yours.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:09 AM
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Have you ever suffered from womens rights?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:09 AM
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I have seen many many many many posts saying to stop things like these. You’re in the wrong groups my friend
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:08 AM
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Wrong. No one can force her to have a baby.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:07 AM
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Honestly there is no situation it’s used as birth control. No one says “yay another abortion!” It’s painful and traumatic.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:07 AM
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So you’re against womens rights? And triggered because women are against mens rights?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:05 AM
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So are you against womens rights?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:05 AM
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LOL you’re hilarious. Have you ever taken a history class? Men have never had “few rights” either than.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:04 AM
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And they don’t get a break sweetheart! That’s what makes it hard. Being a parent is hard.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:02 AM
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WhyV
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:01 AM
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Fathers are also praised for changing diapers so
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:01 AM
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Crazy how single moms ALSO have to do that. And yet get shit on for being single in the first place.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:01 AM
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Because they’re tired of being treated like shit in my experience.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:00 AM
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Men who choose to date pregnant woman?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 08:59 AM
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Crazy how he chose to go on the date and you’re upset about that
/r/MensRights18/02/22 08:59 AM
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Cause he wanted to?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 08:58 AM
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I guarantee by this time next year he will have cheated on him with a minimum of two girls.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 08:58 AM
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Why are you mad he chose to go with her?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 08:58 AM
1

Why?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 08:57 AM
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He is there isn’t he? He could have gone home.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 08:57 AM
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As long as a woman has the right to opt out, he should too.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 08:54 AM
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Why do you say that? I don’t think either gender makes a better parent if the child is taken care of.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 08:53 AM
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I understand it is painful and don’t doubt that for a second but the amount of times I have been responded to my pain with “have you ever been kicked in the balls?!?!?!” Is fascinating.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 08:52 AM
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I have never in my entire life heard that so who are you talking to exactly?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 08:51 AM
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More does need to be done for rape regardless.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 08:50 AM
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Women are typically less reckless
/r/MensRights18/02/22 08:50 AM
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Did womens rights ruin things for women? I don’t believe so.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 08:49 AM
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Because men get triggered when women discuss there issues and there are several anti woman’s rights groups. Both should be supporting each other’s rights.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 08:47 AM
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Roughly 303000 women die each year during childbirth.
/r/AntiFeminists17/02/22 10:23 PM
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difference, a bird egg doesn’t have the potential to kill a woman.
/r/AntiFeminists16/02/22 09:00 PM
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Okay? And??
/r/AntiFeminists16/02/22 09:00 PM
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http://slog.thestranger.com/slog/archives/2010/03/01/woman-in-iowa-arrested-for-falling-down-the-stairs-while-pregnant
/r/AntiFeminists16/02/22 08:59 PM
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Wrong article.
/r/AntiFeminists16/02/22 08:58 PM
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Soooo you’re comparing a fetus to a bird egg?
/r/AntiFeminists16/02/22 02:20 PM
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I obviously don’t have the link to every single one I’ve seen but I can remember at least 4 incidents
/r/AntiFeminists16/02/22 02:20 PM
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https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-59214544
/r/AntiFeminists16/02/22 02:20 PM
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I don’t see an issue with makeup, I’m not sure why you would. I’m not really mad at all, just curious as to what the intention of your post was.
/r/AntiFeminists14/02/22 03:40 PM
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I’m aware of that, but I was under the understanding this groups purpose is to discuss issues with feminism. I’m not seeing how this applies.
/r/AntiFeminists14/02/22 03:29 PM
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I’m not sure what the joke is. You insulting a girl?
/r/AntiFeminists14/02/22 03:21 PM
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I’m still not too sure though how you insulting a woman has anything to do with being against feminism. Sounds to me like you just enjoy making girls feel like shit.
/r/AntiFeminists14/02/22 02:41 PM
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Did I say women can shame men? Absolutely not. I think both are not okay at all. You making posts like this though doesn’t exactly encourage your mens rights thing
/r/AntiFeminists14/02/22 02:40 PM
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I understand that. I’m glad you’re aware of that, thank you for not being rude.
/r/AntiFeminists13/02/22 10:42 PM
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Yes, I agree the comment she made is problematic, I personally think everyone is replaceable so directing at one group of people isn’t great. This post in this group is a problem though. I don’t believe it should be a place to attack how a person looks, as the post is doing here.
/r/AntiFeminists13/02/22 10:35 PM
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It’s not, but the post isn’t talking about that is it? It’s about how she looks. It would probably make girls a lot more motivated to be nice to men if they didn’t call them “Barbie dolls” when they feel good about themselves. The goal actually is to not make people feel bad about themselves.
/r/AntiFeminists13/02/22 10:25 PM
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Kinda seems like you just hate women!
/r/AntiFeminists13/02/22 10:22 PM
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Huh, almost like we all are😉 butttt interesting how this whole sub is focused on attacking a woman on TikTok when your whole thing is supposed to be about how “wrong” feminism is.
/r/AntiFeminists13/02/22 10:22 PM
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So are you sweetheart!
/r/AntiFeminists13/02/22 10:15 PM
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I thought this group was focused on the issues with feminism. Seems like this is just attacking a girls appearance.
/r/AntiFeminists13/02/22 10:14 PM
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I didn’t “kill a baby”. I had a miscarriage because of a ruptured cyst on my ovary. You are the most insensitive person I have ever talked to.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 04:44 AM
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I didn’t say anything about that.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 04:43 AM
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I looked into adoption briefly When I was pregnant and decided against it because I would rather not bring a baby into the world at all than have one in the world that might not be safe or happy.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 04:08 AM
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https://adoptionnetwork.com/birth-mothers/understanding-adoption/financial-emotional-support/emotional-psychological-effects-of-adoption-on-birth-mother/
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 04:07 AM
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https://www.prochoiceamerica.org/campaign/the-hypocrisy-of-the-pro-life-movement/ This article gave a lot of good points, I know you’re absolutely not interested in changing you’re mind, but it’s something to look into if you’re going to fight what it is that you want.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 04:06 AM
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There are problems with adoption too. Many. Look into that. The solution is abortion most of the time when you’re bringing a baby into dangerous situations.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 04:05 AM
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Anyway, people like you have no sense of the real world, how hard problems are to fix, how much some people don’t want a baby, and are absolutely uneducated. I’ve learned that arguing is pointless because you don’t understand simple words anyway.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:54 AM
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Not in general at all. If there’s a life threatening issue, taking the baby out isn’t going to solve that problem. If the baby is born super premature, it’s going to probably not make it anyways. So by forcing the women to go through with it, the baby dies anyway, and the girl’s life was put at risk.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:52 AM
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You do realize it’s not legal everywhere? Some of places, they need the rapists consent to get an abortion so they decide for them. Or doctors refuse to do it.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:51 AM
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Can they? That fixes everything? No one ever dies during c-sections? A baby would 100% survive at 20 weeks?
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:50 AM
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You need her to die for that fetus that wouldn’t survive anyway if she died?
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:49 AM
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I do actually. A lot do keep them because they don’t have a choice.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:49 AM
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And I assume you also want them to keep it if her life is at risk?
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:48 AM
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Why are you still comparing cells to a baby? It is a part of her body, it’s her choice if she wants to risk dying or suffering during pregnancy and childbirth.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:47 AM
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I didn’t say it’s a tumour, I said it’s the equivalent. When I miscarried at 6 weeks, I promise you that was so fucking far from a baby. If I handed you a 13 week fetus you would probably drop it to the ground.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:47 AM
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Where have you been? Read the fucking news.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:46 AM
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It’s actually called a blastocyst until it’s an embryo. Still time before it’s even close to considered a baby. And abortion is illegal after 13 weeks in most places. And you do that! Adopt every child of every women you tell to keep a baby.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:46 AM
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It is her body though:) because she still gets to make the choices. Unfortunately, that little clump in her uterus has no say in anything.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:44 AM
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Why should she have to keep a baby she didn’t ask for? She’s dealing with a life changing, traumatic event and surprise! Have a kid, we won’t help you at all! You are so unaware of what life actually is.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:43 AM
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That sack of cells is actually a blastocyst! Do your research! It’s not murder, it’s the removal of a growth essentially. It as about as much quality of life as a Tumor.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:42 AM
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How do you not see the difference between a 2 year old and an 8 week fetus? You are so fucking unintelligent. A 2 year old is a human, a fetus at the point of abortion cannot survive outside of the uterus, it has no skin, no fully formed organs. Focus on the real issues. Go adopt a kid if you’re so worked up about it.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:41 AM
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Also whether or not you agree with this, the pro life movement is the reason women go to jail for miscarriages, accidents during pregnancy, stillbirths, etc.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:40 AM
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So it’s okay for a women, a living human being, to die? But not a sack of cells in her uterus?
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:38 AM
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Have you ever heard of rape?? Failed birth control?? Forced pregnancy??? It can not be avoided 100% of the time dumbass. And it really interests me that you think you have any say in what a women does with her body.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:38 AM
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An innocent baby would also suffer being forced into a family with a bad father, and I’m not sure if you realize how hard being a single mom is. The womens body is made for pregnancy, that does not mean there are not complications. Roughly 830 women die from pregnancy complications everyday. Deciding to put a kid up for adoption also doesn’t guarantee a good life.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:37 AM
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And with your whole “pro life/anti choice” movement, you are actually forcing her. Because now she has no choice.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:26 AM
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Do you realize accidental pregnancies happpen? I am sure you have had or will have sex at least once in your life without wanting a baby out of it. And yes, she would still be in an abusive relationship but she’s not stuck with a baby, so it would be easier to leave if she chose to and there’s no baby in the situation. “Have to do things you don’t want” doesn’t apply to putting your life in danger to have a baby you don’t want.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 03:26 AM
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Safety from anything?? Pregnancy and childbirth are dangerous? If they would be abused while pregnant? If they have a health issue and having a baby would kill them. If you knew absolutely anything about domestic violence you would know it’s not that easy to leave. Many people have their phones and debit cards tracked, cars tracked, can’t leave all their things behind, sometimes abusers check shelters, if they already have children or pets they can’t leave. If they don’t have to raise it, I sure…
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 01:21 AM
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We can not all have the exact same rights. Wouldn’t work like that. When feminists talk about sterilization for example, it’s pretty common to be refused a tubal ligation because of age or not having kids, and it’s common to need your husbands consent. I was told “your future husband might want kids”. Vasectomies, it’s much easier. My bf got one a week after his appointment and all they asked was if he was sure. The equal isn’t the issue because these groups are so different. The goal is to have…
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 06:38 PM
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How?
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 06:30 PM
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So if everyone has rights, why are there mens rights activists? Or BLM? Or LGBTQ+? Or animal rights? Because even if you have “enough”, it’s not always all you need.
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 06:29 PM
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People get them for lots of reasons. Safety, mental well-being, financials, relationship issues, living situations. So unless you are going to carry that baby for her and take care of it the second it’s born, you have absolutely no say in whether or not a woman keeps a baby. If it is not yours, mine your business. And yes, there is such thing as safe abortions. Done by a doctor, safely. Unsafe would be drinking to miscarry, using a coat hanger, lots of unsafe methods and these can lead to excess…
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 06:10 PM
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??? I think everyone should have rights? Except this is a group that’s against womens rigrhs
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 06:08 PM
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That’s so interesting because I don’t think the sack of cells I lost at 8 weeks was anything near a baby. So how about you focus on the actual issues? Actual child abuse, deaths of LIVING babies, post Partum depression, and adopt a kid while you’re at it! Also, you’ll never ever stop abortions, you will just take away safe ones. Then women will die.
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 08:01 AM
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And also, human rights is not politics. It’s pretty basic. I teach them all they deserve the best.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 03:40 AM
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Do you think I tell my toddlers to hate men? I tell them to respect people. Which is a tough concept, I know. I teach them about strong men and strong women, I teach them to respect each other and that they are all capable of amazing things. Why would I ever teach these little girls they don’t deserve rights? I teach them to stick up for what they want and fight for that.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 03:39 AM
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I don’t know what’s difficult about it, i know toddlers that could understand that. But I do gladly teach them to encourage women’s rights so they don’t end up like you!
/r/MensRights10/02/22 03:15 AM
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And what I’ve gathered after a quick scroll through your profile is that you only seem to want rights for an sack of cells in a uterus that isn’t yours.
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 02:56 AM
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I also see you’re in a prolife group. All I’m getting here is you don’t want your own rights. Genius.
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 02:49 AM
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Read and figure it out.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 02:47 AM
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I’m more worried about getting raped.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 12:12 AM
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Research it, it takes 4 seconds.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 09:19 AM
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Nope. 98% are men, that statistic is just as troubling for me as it is for you
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 07:39 AM
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Please avoid women at all costs, we will thank you for that!
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:44 AM
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Okay so as long as you would take her word for it, it’s fine. The problem is responding to trauma with “maybe you’re lying!!!”
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:44 AM
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Have you considered that these files were kept private? For the privacy of the victim? They spoke out YEARS after it happened to raise awareness and encourage other victims to speak up. Do you really think every rape victim Walks around with court documents in case idiots like you ask to see them?
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:37 AM
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If I put you in a room with 15 people and said “not all are killers” would you feel comfortable because it’s not all of them? No. We take precautions because it can happen and it does happen. We do everything in our power to avoid ever being in that situation and if that means assuming every person is bad, so be it.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:36 AM
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And also 5% of sexual assault reports are false accusations.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:31 AM
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Rape is extremely traumatic and victims can choose not to have the private information released. She was also 15. Most teen victims are too scared to go to the police, because “wHaT iF sHe’S LyInG”. This is why victims do not come forward. You can search every court document in the world if you’re interested, I try not to read too much about these cases because it’s Traumatizing.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:26 AM
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https://www.theguardian.com/music/2021/mar/16/demi-lovato-rape-youtube-docuseries-dancing-with-the-devil I know it’s tough typing in a few words so there you go. There’s about 50 other articles too, but you can take the time to do that because I don’t feel like linking every article ever
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:20 AM
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All you have to do is look up a few words
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:18 AM
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Few? 98% of rapists are male. I believe it’s 1 in 16 men are rapists. I don’t know why this is so difficult to understand but we do not “put ourselves in positions to be raped”. You realize that infants, children, married women, girls in relationships who trust them, literally any situation can turn to that.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:17 AM
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Every article ever? I believe they said it was the night of their overdose
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:15 AM
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Nope it’s not. They have said many many times it’s they/them
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 05:49 AM
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It’s true. If it didn’t happen we wouldn’t be scared. “Thank your fellow females”?
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 05:48 AM
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Well we wouldn’t be scared if it didn’t happen so often. It’s not women’s fault certain men can’t control themselves. “Thank you fellow females”?
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 05:48 AM
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So. Obviously you cannot read. I told you what the pronouns are, I’m not sure how far you got in your education but it’s just two small words you’re missing! I can’t imagine you would be pleased if everyone started referring to you as a she/her.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 05:19 AM
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That’s the idea. Feminism is women’s rights, we fight for ours. Your mens rights groups fight for men’s rights. The individuals ignoring the opposites rights are the problem, not the group itself.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 05:18 AM
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Mmmm no, idk if you’ve heard of pronouns but theirs is they/them
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 05:17 AM
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I don’t believe that is in the US or Canada.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:49 AM
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Not she, they. They went to the police and this person was never charged because he had a career that could be destroyed. Not sure why that matters, going to the police doesn’t determine whether it happened or not, the experience does.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:30 AM
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And they*
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:15 AM
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Eating disorder, self harm, drug addiction, teen rape victim. And they not she
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:15 AM
-8

Women are 30% less likely to be considered for a job than men
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:14 AM
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You all seem to hate women, but I’m sure you’ve all “used them for sex”
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:14 AM
0

Why do you say this is false?
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:12 AM
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Then encourage men to teach? How is it women’s fault that men don’t choose to be teachers? There were 4 male teachers in my high school, all of them had relationships with students or married students after they graduated.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:11 AM
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That’s because (this might surprise you), we cannot be equal. There are certain things that women need and there are certain things that men need. For example, infant circumcision needs to be made illegal, there should be more support in society for mens mental health and suicide awareness. Then women need things like the right to choose what they do with their bodies (abortion, birth control, tubal ligation), and to not be told they are worth less if they dress a certain way or have sex with so…
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:09 AM
0

Feminism is literally women’s rights
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:05 AM
0

Because you can do both?
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:04 AM
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We can’t get rid of men on the feminist subs so you can all deal with people calling you out
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:03 AM
1

I think it’s interesting that none of you would think twice about a shirtless man but have so many issues with the bottom picture.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:02 AM
1

Mostly because they’re sick of being treated like shit
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 03:00 AM
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You realize these people ARE victims? I don’t know much about the other 3, but Demi Lovato has been through hell, there is nothing profitable about that except that people loved to hear their story. People love to see what they relate to.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 02:59 AM
2

Because they are.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 02:58 AM
-1

Feminist= women’s rights. If you’re against that, this is what it leaves you with
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 02:58 AM
0

Like what? And why?
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 02:56 AM
4

Maybe because women are more likely to choose this field?
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 02:56 AM
-18

Thank men for raping so many girls that no one feels comfortable being touched by a man.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 02:55 AM
2

Definitely, she talked often about how women shouldn’t be able to do certain things. She would call the one male employee in to do certain things like lift heavier things when one of the females could have easily done it. There was a very clear pattern. The male employee noticed too and pointed it out at one point and eventually quit.
/r/MensRights06/02/22 02:41 AM
2

All the employees were women except for one
/r/MensRights06/02/22 02:37 AM
2

I live in Canada, so the work thing was legally a violation of my rights. The business was investigated and they found she was firing employees for ridiculous reasons like clocking out when they’re off work, not going to work because an employee was in a car accident on the way, a bunch of other ridiculous things I can’t remember right now.
/r/MensRights06/02/22 12:02 AM
1

So, in one case of mine, I was 14, walking home and a man in his 20-30s pulled over and rolled down his window. He told me things like “I want you to come home with me” “I want to f you” all that. I should have just been like :)))? No, I reported him.
/r/MensRights03/02/22 03:46 PM
1

I’ll survive don’t worry
/r/MensRights02/02/22 09:21 PM
0

Why? Why would my personal life effect my work? If you have a rough day do you stay home? I still had to pay for my house, car, pets, etc. life didn’t stop.
/r/MensRights02/02/22 09:12 PM
1

???? I just said the only place where I live is run by a women lol and she provided resources for male victims
/r/MensRights02/02/22 08:14 PM
1

Honey this is not a courts case. I am not a lawyer, gather the information yourself. I don’t screenshot every post I see that I agree with and I don’t take notes on where I saw it or when.
/r/MensRights02/02/22 06:18 AM
0

I know toddlers with more intelligence. Have a great night:)
/r/MensRights02/02/22 06:16 AM
1

Go look yourself, I already know. Why should I do this for you? You’re very capable of taking the time to educate yourself aren’t you
/r/MensRights02/02/22 06:09 AM
1

This group????
/r/MensRights02/02/22 05:03 AM
1

It is a possibility, you’re not involved in these communities. I have yet to see a post here I agree with but I only scrolled about two weeks back. I’m sure there’s something here I would agree with but I’ve yet to see it so you’re probably in the same situation
/r/MensRights02/02/22 04:54 AM
1

I don’t believe I’ve been more privileged then anyone. My life has kind of sucked, not necessarily because I’m a woman, there are some things that most likely have happened just because I’m a woman. I also don’t necessarily believe that all men are more privileged then me. And maybe it’s not men at all, more the idea of men. In the workplace, at home, in relationships, there is a certain “idea” of men and that often effects there mental health and wellness, and also a womans
/r/MensRights02/02/22 04:13 AM
1

Do you think I agree with those things? I think that regardless of gender, sexual assault should be taken very seriously and never shut down, I am well aware that men have emotions too and experience depression as often or more than women do, and I don’t think it’s acceptable to make any sexual comments to anyone if you’re not 100% sure they’re comfortable with it.
/r/MensRights02/02/22 03:59 AM
1

I think that men’s rights could be more supported. If it was more like “hey, I’m glad you have rights! I support yours, hope you can support mine!” And not the shit I see on here. I’m in a group (womens rights) and a man joined to educate himself. Super simple, just would comment something like “hey, I don’t understand this and I feel like this is already a thing for you” and girls would respond with their experiences and he would just say thank you for explaining
/r/MensRights02/02/22 03:57 AM
1

That’s so funny because those “not all” comments are al I see on womens rights pages
/r/MensRights02/02/22 03:53 AM
1

What excuses exactly
/r/MensRights02/02/22 03:52 AM
-1

Shouting sexual things at women is harassment. Did you see “sexist comments”
/r/MensRights02/02/22 03:51 AM
1

Many. You’re just not listening
/r/MensRights02/02/22 03:50 AM
1

Is that so? What’s this then
/r/MensRights02/02/22 03:49 AM
1

The only sexual assault victims place here is run by a women
/r/MensRights02/02/22 03:47 AM
1

I’ve seen many many many posts with women fighting for men’s rights. To send ACTUAL false accusers to jail, make circumcision illegal, give men more paternity leave/ parental leave
/r/MensRights02/02/22 03:47 AM
1

I don’t believe the movement itself it looking for dominance, some people involved are.
/r/MensRights02/02/22 03:45 AM
1

Like what exactly? What am I telling you you shouldn’t have?
/r/MensRights02/02/22 03:45 AM
1

Some people involved don’t understand the concept
/r/MensRights02/02/22 03:44 AM
1

Funny how you didn’t though
/r/MensRights02/02/22 03:44 AM
1

When did I post there, didn’t know it’s a thing
/r/MensRights02/02/22 03:43 AM
0

What is it then lol
/r/MensRights02/02/22 03:40 AM
-2

Feminism is literally womens rights
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:46 AM
-2

And so what’s mens rights then
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:46 AM
-2

And so why are you looking for mens rights? If we’ve been able to do all that?
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:43 AM
-1

If that’s the case, why is it okay for you to fight it but not women?
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:43 AM
-5

And so what’s mens rights then? You’ve never had them?
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:42 AM
1

But this is obviously too complicated for you so
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:41 AM
1

Am I saying superiority? I’m saying rights, what is so difficult about that. I’m not fucking talking about superiority, I’m talking about rights. Simple, basic, rights
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:40 AM
1

So you realize the act of feminism is to fight for women’s rights. The girls who are not doing that, are not the cause itself. Most of the people in this group are ducking stupid, I still support men’s rights. Not that difficult.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:39 AM
-4

I can easily support men’s rights, as I do, while still wanting my own. I’ve been discriminated against for being a girl, often, in all areas of my life. So why is it so hard for guys to support mens AND womens?
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:37 AM
1

So what’s the difference? You can fight for your rights? We can’t? You realize if you’re against feminism you’re against womens rights. If you don’t support it, you don’t want it to happen.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:35 AM
1

Literally look it up, I noted the definition twice
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:34 AM
1

Now, we’re trying to be equal.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:34 AM
0

The idea of feminism is essentially what you have going on in this group. You are advocating your rights. That’s all feminism is.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:29 AM
1

I don’t think it’s superiority as much as it’s “making up for lost time”. All the time that men were significantly more “powerful” and it’s seen as a problem for women to do the same thing now.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:28 AM
-1

Just to note, the definition of feminism is: the advocacy of womens rights on the basis of equality of the sexes.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:27 AM
1

I agree, in that case it’s not actual womens rights that’s an issue, it’s certain girls involved.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:24 AM
-4

Lol what
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:24 AM
1

I agree with that. At least where I live we have a ton of resources for male victims, all resources are basically gender neutral
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:24 AM
-11

Feminism is womens rights. What’s wrong with that if you have this?
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:23 AM
-2

That’s been posted there 4500000000 times. It’s pretty famous
/r/MensRights01/02/22 03:13 AM
0

You are impossible to talk to, i know toddlers who listen better
/r/MensRights01/02/22 02:58 AM
1

https://moj.gov.jm/sites/default/files/laws/Married%20Women%27s%20Property%20Act.pdf
/r/MensRights01/02/22 02:57 AM
0

Do you realize how serious rape is? It’s not something to brush off. If I got stabbed and went to the police, they would trust me. If I got raped and went to the police they would tell me I might be lying
/r/MensRights01/02/22 02:56 AM
-14

Obviously gang raped and verbal harassment are two very different levels of sexual harassment/assault. The first case should have been taken care of including jail for a long time and support offered to the girls. This, happens on a daily basis to women all over the world. Should the other case have been taken more seriously? Absolutely. Is this something to take care of? Absolutely.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 02:35 AM
0

Every history textbook ever has this information. Did I say they aren’t victims? I’ve told you a thousand times I think it’s wrong. I believe the rape/assault victim first because I would rather trust a liar than a potential rapist.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 02:32 AM
1

My own rights is the rights I should have as a woman. Why is that so difficult? No, I actually wish I was discriminated against. And how exactly is that a springboard? That’s what you want right? Me to treat them the same? I would believe the victim first. Obviously, if someone sexually assaulted someone they most likely won’t admit to it so that’s not overly reliable right off the bat. I’ve heard both sides in personal cases and I just knew who to trust. One sutuation with an old friend, I knew…
/r/MensRights01/02/22 02:31 AM
1

I believe in human rights. That means mens, womens, children, anyone. And it was 1964 when women were allowed to open their own bank account without permission thanks to feminism
/r/MensRights01/02/22 02:29 AM
1

Maybe not, interesting thing about relationships though is that they don’t always last because some people are not meant to be. Good thing though I’m dating someone who respects me
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/22 02:13 AM
1

His values include me making my own choices. It’s not like if I put that on I would be cheating on him. I’m not “betraying” him in anyway.
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/22 02:12 AM
1

Really? I dated my ex for 4 years and I’ve been in my current relationship for 2 now. It goes beyond telling people what they can and can’t do.
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/22 02:11 AM
1

Priorities should be yourself. Always.
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/22 02:09 AM
1

This is interesting because I wore a shirt similar to that to go to a bar with my best friend and my boyfriend just complimented me before I left.
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/22 02:09 AM
0

I didn’t say most or all. I said most of the ones I’ve seen on here. I don’t think every person on this group agrees with every post or comment made. I’m in a feminist group and disagree with things posted their often. I’ve also received apologies from people in this group on behalf of certain people because the things I was told were just not okay and things like that. I obviously support everyone’s rights unless you’re just not decent enough to deserve them, and I don’t necessarily thing that …
/r/MensRights01/02/22 02:08 AM
1

“A few bad eggs” is not even close to what I’ve seen in this group. I got a personal message from someone in this group telling me my miscarriage was Karma so im not too sure about that one
/r/MensRights01/02/22 02:02 AM
1

It’s also called the motherhood pay gap.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:55 AM
0

This page has been posted around several groups, don’t worry honey I’m not the first. I’ve seen it on TikTok as well. And no, the result was essentially when women are paid less than their male counterparts it was because employers were concerned about them having a future pregnancy/children and becoming unreliable. It’s more common than you think to ask a woman in a job interview their plans on having children, it’s their right not to answer as well.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:55 AM
2

I support human rights, regardless of gender. There’s no reason not to.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:54 AM
0

But why do you think you have a say over what she wears? You know “my body, my choice” applies to clothing too. What about this dress is an issue? Is there an existing lack of trust, a fear for her potential safety, other reasons?
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/22 01:52 AM
2

I don’t agree with war at all. I don’t think anyone should have been forced. My great grandparents both taught in the war and had severe PTSD until they passed. I don’t think it’s right at all to have forced them.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:47 AM
0

It’s not your job to control your girlfriend. Do you really think you’re that special? What do you want her to wear???? A parka?????
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/22 01:46 AM
0

They discussed both sides, all possible reasons, outcomes of this, the history of it, cultural reasons, etc.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:43 AM
0

It’s all based off a study. Research.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:40 AM
2

This group makes it impossible to listen to a thing you’re saying. I looked through here genuinely curious on if I would learn something about mens rights and their opinions and it was the biggest waste of my time. Feminist groups I’m in consists of what it’s like being a woman, dating advice, work home balance, friendships, womens health, etc. this is all just hating women.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:36 AM
2

It’s not sexism if you want both to have rights
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:34 AM
1

So what exactly did you mean by biased? Biased = unfairly prejudiced for or against someone or something. I assumed that meant a women who has been in the situation.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:34 AM
1

It’s literally her body. Don’t wear a blue sweater tomorrow.
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/22 01:27 AM
1

Since when did our boyfriends get to choose what we wear. Interesting you think you have control over our closets.
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/22 01:27 AM
0

Based off studies and research. The video was made by a man and narrated by a man so don’t even start with that. This is typically more in bigger companies. Look into the motherhood pay gap as well
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:26 AM
-23

So you’re all mad they’re trying to reduce harassment?
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:20 AM
-6

This is legally harassment. When I was 14 someone asked me to go home with them because I “have a nice piece of ass”. I reported the license plate and charged him. Best decision I ever made.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:19 AM
-2

I literally watched a 2 hour documentary on this one sweetheart, I know 10x more on the subject than you do
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:18 AM
-1

Forgot to mention the gender pay gap that still exists and we still need permission to get tubes tied or go on birth control in some places
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:10 AM
1

1918- women were allowed to vote. 1960’s most women started working. 1964, women were allowed to open a bank account without their husbands permission. That was not even 60 years ago.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:09 AM
1

when did I say it was okay to put an innocent man in prison? You’re ignoring everything I’m saying. Rapist- jail. Innocent- no jail. It’s that simple. You proudly support your rights, why is it wrong for me to be a feminist? Why’s that an insult? When did I support discrimination? Tell me about that. 1918. 1918 is when women were legally allowed to vote in Canada. Women were not drafted because of their children. 1960’s was when most women started working.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:07 AM
1

Have you read anything I’ve said? I believe men as much as I believe woman? If a man came to me and said he was sexually assaulted, I would not treat it any different. It would be pretty stupid if I didn’t want my own rights!
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:03 AM
1

If a man was assaulted by a woman it should be treated the same. The victims? What men do you mean? And obviously, I want my own rights. Am I supposed to be okay with needing my husbands permission to open a bank account?
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:02 AM
1

Did I say woman? I said assault victim. I’ve seen several assault cases on men and I feel just as bad for them as I do for girls. Why wouldn’t I?
/r/MensRights01/02/22 12:39 AM
1

I believe all assault victims hun! Try listening!
/r/MensRights01/02/22 12:38 AM
1

It would be fucking stupid if I wasn’t, why the hell would I not support my own rights? You seem to proudly support yours. Why can I support mine? After the years woman weren’t allowed to vote or work or open a bank account, why wouldn’t I?
/r/MensRights01/02/22 12:35 AM
1

I believe the assault victim
/r/MensRights01/02/22 12:35 AM
1

I don’t talk to her anymore lol
/r/MensRights01/02/22 12:33 AM
1

I do! My ex was a victim. Thanks for asking.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 12:32 AM
1

It’s also hard to get proof. Rape kits are painful and traumatic. No one believes them. Police brush it off sometimes. There’s so many reasons they don’t provide evidence. Many don’t tell anyone and then realize years later they wish they did.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 12:32 AM
0

I wish RAPISTS would. I’m a believe the victim person. Male or female. Believe the victim. I would rather believe a liar than a potential rapist.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 10:48 PM
0

Do you think I don’t care what happens? Did I say let men suffer? Am I talking about the falsely accused? I’m talking about rapists. There is a difference. People need to stop responding to rapist with falsely accused
/r/MensRights31/01/22 10:36 PM
2

Women are more likely to be killed by their romantic partners then men. Or family members, or even first dates.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 10:05 PM
2

6 women are killed every hour throughout the world, just by men.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 10:04 PM
0

What’s a bigger issue do you think?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 10:04 PM
1

Did I say they should get away with it? I said somewhere on here I think they should be charged.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:50 PM
0

Many girls don’t go through because it’s traumatic and the responses are often “what we’re you wearing”, “you could have avoided that”, “liar” things like that. Rape kits are painful and traumatic to go through, even simple pelvic exams are.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:35 PM
1

If a guy you knew sexually assaulted a girl. Do you think they would tell you?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:32 PM
0

Would they tell you if they did?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:15 PM
-1

And what makes you think a world without men would last a week? And over 87000 women were killed (by men) in 2017, in the UK alone so we would still have them.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:31 PM
0

You seem to have a tough time believing facts though so take the time to look yourself! My job isn’t to go back through my uni work and provide you with the info.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:29 PM
0

MIT has done the research, and several others.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:29 PM
1

https://www.technologyreview.com/2008/01/31/222198/female-sperm/amp/
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:28 PM
1

I don’t though, I literally majored in sciences, I believe in facts.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:27 PM
1

My degree has my full name on it so I’m good.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:26 PM
0

I’m telling you to look it up lol, I already knew
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:52 PM
1

Do you see the difference between having children and having sex? Children bring some women a lot of happiness, their husbands on the other hand not so much
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:39 PM
1

Did I say sexless,
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:38 PM
1

Please look up “can women make sperm” and read a bit.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:38 PM
0

Nope, I’m a pretty good person when it comes down to it, I’m just being a bitch to you because you deserve ut
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:37 PM
1

No because me not wanting sex doesn’t mean it’s okay to cheat. If it was the opposite, I wouldn’t have a problem.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:36 PM
1

Am I? Why’s that?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:36 PM
0

I majored in bio and chem.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:35 PM
1

So I’m wondering why it’s an issue for you. Lol did I say it’s your fault, it always has been because I hate being touched
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:45 PM
1

It’s def not making it worse:)
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:44 PM
0

That’s literally a fact man idk what to tell you
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:44 PM
0

You’re all men and referring to them as wives
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:44 PM
1

I didn’t say it was. I’m asking a question. You seem to be having a hard time answering a Simple yes or no question. Do I support men’s rights? Yes.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:17 PM
1

Yes, I also have 6 ovarian cysts right now, you seem to know lots, how do I fix that
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:59 PM
0

Maybe it’s because sex with you is bad. And women don’t enjoy it.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:58 PM
1

Paid for my boyfriend’s chiro appointment because he’s the only one I’ve seen today. What have you done for women today?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:55 PM
0

Sexual assault at least where I live is legally the equivalent to rape. Sexual harassment is not
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:52 PM
1

That’s so interesting because everyone I mention womens rights men are pretty quick to hop on that
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:51 PM
1

I didn’t say it was. I asked a question.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:49 PM
0

I will not delete anything. Don’t tell me my health is karma.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:48 PM
1

Exactly. You’re not gonna know. So maybe…… it’s you.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:46 PM
1

Okay I’ll adjust my question: do any of you actually support women’s rights?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:46 PM
1

I don’t ask men to do anything for me.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:45 PM
1

I have not told a single person in this world besides the dad.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:45 PM
1

I said I’ve been bleeding for 6 weeks. You said karma. I told you why.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:45 PM
1

Should be. I ask what kind of things they like to make sure I’m comfortable, we just don’t do it if I’m not
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:38 PM
1

Did I blame a guy for my shitty life? I could blame my parents, people I went to school with, my ex, my old friends, the guys who touched me without consent, I could blame anyone. I’m not though. Life happens.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:33 PM
1

I would not forgive anyone if they cheated on me regardless
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:32 PM
0

Talking about someone losing their child has nothing to do with this conversation. It is absolutely not your position to say anything and I hope it never happens to you or anyone you know because the pain, physically and emotionally, is terrible. It is NOT your place to say anything about that. You are a heartless, emotionless idiot and I hope you screenshot this and show every women in your life so they know how much of a fucking dick you are.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:31 PM
1

Because the biggest concern here is women not wanting sec
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:30 PM
1

So before you date someone, maybe ask to talk to their ex about how often they had sex. See how far that gets you
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:29 PM
1

Yes I do actually know a guy.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:28 PM
1

I literally can’t keep track of the 500 notifications I have
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:28 PM
1

I don’t think any affairs are good lol
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:27 PM
0

I go once every two weeks! I’m doing great, good thing you’re not a psychiatrist! I can refer you to her if you’d like
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:27 PM
1

I asked questions. Don’t comment if you’re not answering them.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:26 PM
1

“Nearly all women” until we say “nearly all men”
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:26 PM
0

That’s not fucking karma, that is literally losing a child so shut the fuck up.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:25 PM
1

It’s because I had a fucking miscarriage.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:25 PM
2

Don’t worry! Someone in this group apologized for all of your behaviour
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:25 PM
1

Great! You can’t complain then:)
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:24 PM
0

It did not though:) I worked there for 4 years while still facing depression, BPD, experiencing a miscarriage, family members dying, anxiety attacks, etc.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:24 PM
-1

I’m attracted to my boyfriend. I would love to do more. It hurts though:)
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:23 PM
-1

Sperm donors are always donating. They don’t stop because they get paid. also! We don’t need men for that anymore. Womens stem cells can create sperm!
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:22 PM
0

Did I say I never want to? I said I don’t do it often because it hurts. That’s not never. He’s fine with it. If he wasn’t okay, he would tell me he has to leave.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:21 PM
0

Maybe they should!
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:21 PM
0

And? At least you don’t have to worry about her!
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:20 PM
0

Marrying someone does not give you rights to their body. You do not count how often you get sex or complain about it. She is not required to give it to you. Get divorced if you’re concerned.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:20 PM
0

It was his idea. I was going to ignore it because I always have. He sees me looking uncomfortable, he says let’s stop. Good thing I found a decent man.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:19 PM
0

It is often though! 1 in every 6 American woman have been victims of sexual assault.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:19 PM
1

I got into my current relationship after a one nighter. He did not know sex isn’t my favourite. He also knows women are different and it was his suggestion to stop if it hurts me, I was going to ignore it.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:18 PM
1

I punched him in the face because he deserved it. I was underage. This guy was like in his 30’s.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:16 PM
1

We all are. Because it happens. A lot.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:16 PM
1

Someone else said they do and I gave a reason.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:58 PM
1

Record yourself if you’re that concerned. It’s never been an issue for any man I know.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:58 PM
-1

You can’t work in one without specific training
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:57 PM
1

Yep they can. Did I say they can’t
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:56 PM
-1

I have looked up the data:) I’m talking about women right now because everyone here is pretty concerned about being falsely accused
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:56 PM
1

Yes it does lol
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:55 PM
1

Have you ever had sex without wanting to get her pregnant? That’s an option. Do you think that was the plan? Birth control, plan b. Not enough. It’s not preventable all the time.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:55 PM
-1

Sexless does not equal loveless. Some people date for years and wait for marriage.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:54 PM
0

I have seen a doctor, think that didn’t occur to me? There’s a long list of reasons that literally have no solution. Sometimes it’s bearable, sometimes it’s not, I also have some trauma because I had a cyst explode during once and that’s wasn’t great so I avoid it
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:54 PM
0

Don’t complain about it. Get a divorce if it’s that big of an issue.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:52 PM
0

Well then you’re stuck with the women not interested in having sec with yiu
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:51 PM
1

Very few. I only talk to actual decent people. The only time it was ever said is because me and several other girls had a bad feeling and we were right about it
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:50 PM
1

Go for it. I’m not too open to that right now though, I’ve been bleeding for 6 weeks so men being upset about sex isn’t my favourite subject
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:49 PM
-3

There is no contract for sex.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:48 PM
0

Sperm donors. Not sex.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:46 PM
0

Nope it doesn’t, I’m stable though so good news I don’t need meds
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:46 PM
0

I do believe men can be raped. I haven’t seen anyone arguing that on here, that’s why I didn’t bring it up
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:45 PM
0

Typically because they feel unloved.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:27 PM
1

I honestly have no idea how to do that
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:26 PM
1

I have never not believed a guy who told me that. I have also never not believed a girl. I’ve only been attacked for one of those.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:19 AM
-1

And he became my ex because we never liked each other in the first place and we were 16 and dumb when we started dating
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:17 AM
-1

? Sperm medically injected into woman.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:13 AM
0

His libido is normal, don’t worry about that. Good news! He has a hand.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:13 AM
0

DUDE. SEX SUCKS FOR SOME PEOPLE.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:12 AM
1

Thank you for your answer, and thank you for the beginning of that, I appreciate it.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:10 AM
0

12 year olds don’t need babysitters. I do toddlers and babies.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:09 AM
0

No because my ex made me feel like shit. And not temporary, it’s always hurt, since I started. No one should have to apologize.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:08 AM
1

You might if you find out they’re not innocent.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:07 AM
1

It’s not an either or thing it’s a priority thing
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:07 AM
1

Exactly, so you comfort them. If they lied to you, at least you tried.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:05 AM
0

What lol… difference is a murder victim is dead. Rape victims are alive and stuck with the trauma.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:04 AM
-1

Dude I have a cyst the size of a golf ball on my ovary and a thousand other issues, along with losing a baby a month ago and having surgery a week ago. He is okay. He’s more concerned about me right now. I was apologizing often for not being able to but he reminded me it’s okay and I’m not supposed to feel bad.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:03 AM
1

So. If you mom, sister, girlfriend, daughter came to you and said they were raped. Visibly upset and clearly something/someone hurt them. You would say what exactly? You can’t believe them yet?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:02 AM
1

People should stop raping and murdering and maybe we could. However, i was taught from a young age to wear clothing that’s hard to get off when I’m out, keep my keys between my fingers, never walk alone, and stay where there’s cameras.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:59 AM
1

I’m sorry all those things happened. That likely would be the case if he hit her unfortunately. Do I think it should be? No. Society should shut up about false accusations and deal with the real issues first.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:58 AM
1

He doesn’t mind. Why should/would it bother him that sex hurts me? Should he be upset? Or angry? That I have health problems? We didn’t sign a contract saying I would have sex with him however many times a week. I’m allowed to not want to for as long as I want. He knows that. Why would he push me?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:57 AM
1

This is obviously a super sensitive topic, but there is not a place in the world where it is okay to assume a rape victim (or not a victim) is lying. These victims have been through hell, they will never get over it, and sometimes the only thing that brings any comfort is having people trust them.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:56 AM
0

Trust a liar before a potential rapist.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:55 AM
0

If you’re wrong about her, you’ve hurt her too.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:54 AM
0

People literally posted here complaining about their wives not having enough sex with them. My boyfriend knows it hurts me a lot, we don’t do it until I’m feeling better. Whether that’s days, weeks, months whatever. He would rather go without then see me uncomfortable
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:54 AM
1

Unfortunately though, every woman I know worries about it
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:53 AM
0

And? That’s okay? Have you considered sex isn’t as pleasant for women as it is for men?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:51 AM
0

Assume they’re telling the truth. If you’re wrong, you’re wrong. At least you tried to be a decent person. Now people know they can come to you if it happens to them.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:49 AM
1

This conversation is interesting because I posted in a women’s group yesterday what the hardest part of being a girl was and it got 71 comments. 41 are along the lines of worrying about rape, feeling the need to protect yourself, etc
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:46 AM
0

Yes actually. I commented somewhere a while ago mentioned I knew a girl who accused a guy of sexual assault. It definitely did not happen. Security camera in the room she didn’t know about. I told her directly to clear it up and I will not be speaking to her again. She did clear it up not long after, we still don’t talk though.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:32 AM
2

I’m fine with that.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:30 AM
2

I know several different cases. 1 is currently in jail for 7 more years (3 done) and one got out last year after 2 years.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:29 AM
1

I have never been so disgusted with people
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:28 AM
1

Thank you so much.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:28 AM
-1

Me? Lol
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:26 AM
1

It was a list of potential things? I didn’t say they are all equal.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:25 AM
1

So now I am going to block this group because this is the most toxic group of men I’ve ever encountered and I think you all need to sit down in a classroom for 400 hours and learn about what rape actually is.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:17 AM
1

This post I made asked several specific questions. All I’ve gotten back is about false accusations and reminders not to believe the victim too fast because acting
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:16 AM
1

I don’t talk inappropriately about men to them or behind their backs. That’s not my right. I do know a girl who falsely accused someone and I told her I would not be speaking to her until she cleared it up, then I will say thanks for that and end the friendship. My ex was sexually assaulted. Was I any less supportive of him than I would be if he was a female? Nope.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:14 AM
1

Okay? Did I ask about false accusers? No. I’m talking about victims.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:11 AM
1

I didn’t copy or paste, I typed it out
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:11 AM
0

I didn’t say they can’t fake being upset, I can make myself cry. I could never make myself break down like I did when the worst things ever happened to me. The guy was convicted, pleaded guilty, idk why you’re still defending it
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:11 AM
1

I am literally just too tired to type the whole thing out. You knew what you said in the first part. I’m talking about actual victims.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:09 AM
1

There were witnesses, DNA, video evidence, he was convicted.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:09 AM
1

Dude, the guy pleaded guilty. The girls were assaulted.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:08 AM
-6

Yep, unless you ignore the victim and traumatized her 10 times more
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:08 AM
2

You’ve only mentioned false accusers though. Do I think falsely accusing someone is okay? Absolutely not. Should they get jail time, a little extreme but charged yes. Do you deserve that, no.Back when I said my friends have had breakdowns, I’ve seen that it’s real, all that, you replied with something along the lines of false accusers are great actors.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:07 AM
3

And I’m telling you rape victims don’t fake anything
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:06 AM
2

Dude I don’t know how to link things. You know what you said
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:05 AM
1

Go through the page if you’d like
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:04 AM
0

Rape victims are not “good” at faking it. They know how it feels.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:04 AM
1

“Abuse the empathy of others in order to enact relational violence”
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:04 AM
1

Parenting is tough and a 2 person job.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:03 AM
0

I literally do not have time to screenshot everything I’ve seen.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:02 AM
-11

Nope. False insemination.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:01 AM
0

I’m not sure what you’re not understanding about my friends being assaulted. I don’t know why you’re arguing that. He is in jail. He pleaded guilty. Idk what more you need
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:00 AM
0

Addressing everyone
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:58 AM
3

Unfortunately pregnancy isn’t avoidable all the time. I was on birth control when I got pregnant. Both times. Abortion was not an option because I didn’t make it that far. I have been through foster care so I refused to do adoption.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:57 AM
0

Because this post is about someone’s wife not having sex with them
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:55 AM
0

Okay. Taking care of children is not a break. At all. It is hard. Equivalent to working 2-3 full time jobs actually.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:55 AM
-2

Oh my god. I’ve heard OTHER PEOPLE say rape doesn’t happen, stuff along those lines. I’ve seen people IN THIS GROUP, unaware of that.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:54 AM
-1

Genuinely wondering.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:52 AM
0

Because some people in this page seem to be unaware of that and extremely insensitive to the issue In general. MRA’s can still support women’s rights and many don’t seem to. I’m obviously a feminist because I support my own rights, I support men’s rights too when it comes down to. I also support animals and human rights. I can talk about all these things, and be aware of all of them. I haven’t seen much of that here.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:50 AM
2

Is she home with them all day?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:49 AM
1

They as in people. Anywhere.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:46 AM
-1

That’s what I’m getting from this. What did you mean exactly then?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:44 AM
0

I didn’t say anyone said that exact sentence here:)
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:42 AM
2

It was.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:42 AM
1

But don’t worry next time they cry I’ll ask if they’re acting
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:41 AM
-1

Hey! I, unfortunately, have had those breakdowns. My life has not been easy and I spent quite a bit of time working in a psych ward, I’ve noticed the fakes and the reals. I promise, I know.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:41 AM
0

It takes over 6 weeks to recover
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:40 AM
1

“Being used as a sperm donor”
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:40 AM
0

I don’t feel like scrolling through the TikTok or Facebook comments to find it or going through the memories in my head to my ex-friend telling me:)
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:39 AM
-1

No that’s because the problem here is that your wife won’t have sec with you
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:38 AM
1

Maybe you can, the ones I have seen are not. Trust me on that one, I have felt that pain and I have seen it in them.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:38 AM
1

I’m not exactly sure, don’t have a plan made yet. Take it by the moment.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:38 AM
-7

My symptoms started at 5 weeks actually. I felt all of it intensely until I lost the baby. Sometimes those babies are the only things that make them happy.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:36 AM
-7

That’s just what I’ve noticed from this group. I see lots of comments saying “what if she’s lying” but none saying “what if it actually happens”
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:34 AM
-13

You’re really not sounding like you’re okay with it.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:33 AM
2

And mine is 0.12 seconds, my brain retains the information
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:33 AM
2

Sorry you went through that.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:33 AM
1

Okay, if he didn’t do it and he’s proven to be innocent okay. If he’s proven to be guilty, I can’t support that.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:32 AM
-4

Yes actually, they have said that. I don’t need much more than hearing the details. It’s hard to get that graphic without experiencing it.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:32 AM
2

I have no memory.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:30 AM
2

Hitting in school?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:29 AM
2

“Smart”. That’s how my brain retained the information from high school, 3 college degrees, and all my students information.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:29 AM
-3

I have seen these girls breakdown. You cannot fake that. The trauma from being raped is real.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:28 AM
1

I would ask him if he did it and what happened. I would make him go through all the questioning if she went to the police. Wait for the rape kit if that’s done.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:27 AM
-10

I literally asked a question. I know a lot of girls who have been sexually assaulted, I know a few of the guys who did it and they’re either in jail or were in jail. I was genuinely curious.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:26 AM
-1

Probably, men have always been super horney so
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:25 AM
0

Maybe not, but I would still rather believe a liar than potentially ignore a rapist
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:24 AM
-20

Not everyone likes sex. It hurts, it’s uncomfortable, emotionally exhausting, I personally hate peoples seeing me naked and that’s uncomfortable
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:23 AM
2

I want to exist without men doing this. Men can walk down the road with me, I do not care. I was screamed at at 15, 16, 17, and harassed for years.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:22 AM
2

Probably.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:22 AM
-4

Idk if you’ve seen the Sienna Mae situation on TikTok but I’m pretty impressed with how people are believing him.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:22 AM
2

It took quite a bit of “smart” to get those degrees.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:21 AM
-1

I would rather trust a liar than a rapist
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:20 AM
2

“Without men screaming at her”
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:20 AM
-4

Now. 60 years ago? Not so much.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:20 AM
2

Bio, chem, and education.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:19 AM
2

From all I’ve seen, the women who hate men have been traumatized by so many it’s hard to see how any would actually treat her like a human being.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:19 AM
-24

Consent is a thing actually!! Sex is painful sometimes for women, often emotionally exhausting, and sometimes messes with your hormones. Sometimes, I consider just not having sex because it hurts all the time but I worry about things like this. Teach your daughters it’s okay to say no.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:18 AM
1

So you hate it because another man made it? And you’re mad at women about it?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:17 AM
1

So if your daughter walked through your door crying, full anxiety attack telling you she was raped, you would say what exactly? You can’t believe her yet?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:17 AM
2

? Not wanting to be screamed at?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:16 AM
2

I have 3 degrees actually:)
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:16 AM
1

I opened this group with the intention of genuinely learning about what the opinions are. That’s all I’ve gotten so far.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:15 AM
1

All I’ve gathered from this page is that a lot of you hate women. Including your own wives.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:15 AM
2

Typical feminist, wanting to exist without men screaming at her while walking down the road, tragic
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:14 AM
2

I said “have you considered the boys in that case are less intelligent”. Women also tend to perform better on tests.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:14 AM
2

Telling you you’re uneducated? Pretty traumatic.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:13 AM
-1

Sometimes the only evidence until a rape kit is done is her word.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:12 AM
2

What lol? How do you are do?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:12 AM
2

Wow! You’re mom sucks! Sorry about that!!! No wonder you turned out the way you are.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:11 AM
1

Sexism????? Have you heard yourselves???
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:11 AM
-12

Let me give you a list: -health issues (ovarian cysts, Endo) -pregnancy complications -possibly dying during delivery -post PARTUM/ post partum issues -higher risk of sexual assault -breastfeeding struggles -periods for 30+ years -birth control -cramps -the list goes on
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:11 AM
1

I can fucking tell by everything you’re saying
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:09 AM
2

What ever year my grandmother was born
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:09 AM
0

Okay? That’s wrong. Saying no is not
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:08 AM
-4

I’ve seen 14 posts in the few minutes I looked through this group. They all talk about avoiding false allegations. Would you all assume it was false if your son raped a girl? Or if your daughter got raped?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:07 AM
-8

Never been on any because that’s not necessary:) good thing you’re not a doctor! What I recommend for you is to date a man because they seem to always be down for sex! That might suit your better.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:06 AM
2

No actually! Birth control wasn’t allowed all the time and dad was working so!!
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:05 AM
-1

Some girls do that. I know that. I’m talking about men excusing rape because there are false allegations.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:05 AM
1

So parents should maybe choose not to do that¿ think I’m not against that? Absolutely not okay until it’s there choice. Also getting tubes tied and birth control are options for grown adult women who choose to do that. Unfortunately, I needed my husbands consent so?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:04 AM
2

I make sure often I’m not making a man uncomfortable. Like not touching him or making inappropriate comments or getting too close!
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:02 AM
0

LOL WHAT
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:01 AM
2

And maybe!!!! Boys do worse because they’re less intelligent. And you’ll never believe this: a lot of the times fathers aren’t involved!!! Including my baby dad who left because his mom said he was to young to raise a baby! Fortunately, I’m doing fine myself and raising my two girls to hate men like you:)
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:01 AM
2

Remember allllll that time women weren’t allowed to go to university or college because they were taking care of the 15 children their husband made them have? And couldn’t work? Funny now isn’t it
/r/MensRights31/01/22 05:00 AM
0

At what point have you lost your rights? Tell me about a time you lost your rights because you were a man.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:58 AM
1

9/10 times, from what I’ve gathered (even witnessing) “false accusations” are when a man made a woman uncomfortable and she says something about it. Several months ago I was at a party and a guy started rubbing against a girl, she was clearly not okay with and pushed him off of her and he fell back. She told someone about it and made a police report and all his friends determine he was falsely accused.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:58 AM
-1

Times I lost actual rights: -went to the hospital during my shift because I had an ovarian cyst rupture inside me and almost died, lost my job because I wasn’t reliable (first and only time that happened) -got my period at work and leaked (people are sensitive, end of the world -I started to cry when I got a call my grandfather died while on shift, I was emotional and they cancelled all my shifts that month -Someone (a man) told me I deserved to be assaulted because I wasn’t dressed right -my bf…
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:56 AM
-18

AND YOUR CHILDREN ARE NOT A SPERM DONATION. Get a vasectomy if you think that’s all they are. They’re your kids too, act like it. Help her out a bit.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:54 AM
-23

Pregnancy is hard. Have you ever had a fucking watermelon strapped to your stomach? There’s pain, nausea, discomfort, depression, exhaustion, fear. A lot of work goes into that. It’s not that easy to just open up when you don’t feel attractive.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:53 AM
-2

Lol what
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:52 AM
2

Tips (from a woman) -record the whole thing if you’re that worried -don’t touch her without consent obviously -avoid sexual comments if you’re not sure she’s okay with that
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:52 AM
-1

Not surprised you’re paying child support now.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:48 AM
-1

The idea of men getting in more trouble for hitting girls is that “men are stronger”. A concept, obviously, created by a man. Therefore (men) determined it’s more severe for a man to hit a woman. There’s also the possibility she is pregnant and he harms the fetus. Men created all these concepts.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:47 AM
-2

How many times is it the man? A lot. Women get killed a lot.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:45 AM
-3

Shit the fuck up and stop making woman uncomfortable. Problem solved.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:45 AM
2

Don’t touch her without consent.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:44 AM
1

Wow. Something we’ve never seen before. Two similar cases with two different results!!!!!!
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:44 AM
-6

You know a man made that line?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:43 AM
-50

A lot changes after you have a baby? Insecurity, mental health, exhaustion. Shut the fuck up. Try pushing a fucking baby out of you and then all your husband expects is sex when she finishes keeping your kid alive.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:43 AM
-2

And shocker, men are so desperate for sex they start looking for reasons she could be losing interest and end up with “women need them”.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:42 AM
-7

Date a man then.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:42 AM
-19

??????? You know they can say no???? They’re not required to have sex with you???
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:41 AM
-30

You know…. Women can say no? Sex is not a requirement? Men are turning to prostitution because they’re desperate and have no respect for their wives. Get a fucking divorce if you’re that needy.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:41 AM
-4

And have any of you ever been raped? I would rather trust a liar than a rapist, idk about you. As a woman, I would literally rather be murdered than raped.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:39 AM
-4

All of you sound like you would make any woman uncomfortable. Have any of you actually read history? Men have had fucking rights. Remember back when we needed you guys to approve of our bank accounts? Us working? Us getting our tubes tied or birth control? Nope you don’t, because men were still living life! Men have never actually lost their rights. They done bad things and didn’t see it as bad.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:39 AM
-2

It literally is worse. I would rather trust a liar than a rapist. A false accusation is a reputation. Rape is trauma. Get over yourself.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:37 AM
-6

I’d rather trust a liar than a rapist.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:37 AM
-2

You know you can make a girl uncomfortable without feeling like you did?
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:36 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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