Ok_Willingness8512 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
127	I’m a woman	Social Issues	Ok_Willingness8512	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 02:38 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Got groped/sexually assaulted and got laughed at Nope not okay. And you would’ve been allowed to physically defend yourself.	/r/MensRights	15/03/22 02:05 AM
2	Are men in general more favor of traditional gender roles than women? It’s necessary if we want to advance and reach our goals and not stay stationary, and also so we can continue to stay off of state assistance. Sometimes necessary to pay bills at all when he’s between jobs Bc if he doesn’t like a job or a boss, or he’s miserable, I always tell him not to stay where he’s miserable. He’s worked for a lot of different people since we’ve been together. And I used to like my job but it’s miserable now and I dread going to work. I wish I still liked it. But it’s alway…	/r/MensRights	14/03/22 04:49 PM
1	How do you not resent women? And I was going to join the marines out of HS like my dad did, bc I wanted to be like him. But life got in the way. But I reaaaalllyy wanted to be a marine. And I could’ve too. I was in really good shape and very strong.	/r/MensRights	14/03/22 01:56 PM
1	How do you not resent women? I can’t tell if the first part is sarcasm or not, but I know the last part is. But maybe the applause is there to actually motivate women to do the things men want them to do. To make them feel strong, and more capable of doing the stereotypical man things. Isn’t that what you want? Women’s day is more about showing women they are strong and capable than it is about giving praise.	/r/MensRights	14/03/22 01:54 PM
2	How do you not resent women? If I tried, I could sit here and think of so many more women like this. I actually don’t know many women that ARE like what you’re describing. Two definitely off the top of my head that are nothing but leaches that seem to get away with everything. But I know sooo many lazy men too that won’t get off their ass, or work a real job, or are in and out of jail etc. Shitty people are shitty people. Whether male or female. And just have patience, most of us are trying. Maybe start focusing on the good…	/r/MensRights	14/03/22 01:47 PM
3	How do you not resent women? My best friend that has 3 jobs, also lives on property with livestock that she’s the main caretaker of. She sometimes even helps her bf by working the loaders or excavators. On the SIDE of her other 3 jobs. My point is, if you started focusing on allllll the women out there who do a lot of these things, you’d see it a lot more. You see more of what you’re looking for. If you realize there’s a lot of yellow cars, you’ll start to see them everywhere. What your focusing on is what’s fucking you up.	/r/MensRights	14/03/22 01:42 PM
2	How do you not resent women? My one best friend stayed at the same job for 8 years before she switched. My other best friend has been at her main job for 6 or 7 years, and her second job for 2 or 3. I’ve been at mine for 5. I make good money and work in a factory where we wear steel toes and safety glasses and depending on the department, even extra safety gear. About half of the workers at my job are women. We work with heavy equipment AND dangerous chemicals.	/r/MensRights	14/03/22 01:37 PM
3	How do you not resent women? Most of the women I know, are super independent and hard working. My best friend has 3 jobs and pays her bills even though she has a long time bf that owns a successful business, and buys all of her own stuff. My other best friend works 2 jobs and before she was single was splitting the bills. Most of the women I know do work and split the bills and work hard. I work, I have 3 kids and am pregnant and still working, and my husband works and I’m paying most of the bills. Literally most women I kn…	/r/MensRights	14/03/22 01:34 PM
2	How do you not resent women? And the stereotypes you’re placing on women is also why you hate women and why feminism is taking hold so hard. You stereotype as like “omg yassss fashion” and then get mad when the other stereotypes stay in place? You’re part of the problem. Some stereotypes are okay for you and others aren’t? You’re only okay with the stereotypes that cut us down and not the ones that make us be “coddled”? Hm. Kind of sounds like if things were the way you wanted them, you’d still be cutting women down. It’s y…	/r/MensRights	14/03/22 01:28 PM
0	How do you not resent women? You’re generalizing by saying “women”. But if you were gay, you could just as easily find a man just like this. There’s plenty of men out there that are lazy, won’t work, let the woman pay the bills, etc. it’s not “women”. It’s specific people in and of themselves. There’s men out there that have the same issues you name off that “women” have. You’re focusing on “women”, and that’s not the problem. You’d be better off saying “I don’t like people”, and that’s fine and probably more likely, but yo…	/r/MensRights	14/03/22 01:22 PM
1	More blatant misandry from radical feminists and TERFs on Twitter Based?	/r/MensRights	12/03/22 03:08 AM
2	More blatant misandry from radical feminists and TERFs on Twitter Idk why we have to hate each other. I don’t hate men. I think we complement each other and it was meant to be that way. I don’t think most of us are TRYING to create a rift. We just want our rights. Both sexes. Most of us. And then there are the ones that take it to the extremeeee. On both sides. I want my rights as a female, but I’m also rooting for men to have their rights as men. I don’t have to ignore a mans rights or needs to still fight for mine. I can do both. I can want the best for both…	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 05:21 PM
1	More blatant misandry from radical feminists and TERFs on Twitter I didn’t notice there were more pics. Idk all I can say is. Most women are not this crazy. But men and women both definitely have their fair share of hatred towards their sex. I was on a thread yesterday where basically this guy was like “men and women are not a team, that ended with feminism.” And basically went on to make it sound strongly like he absolutely HATED women. And a lot of other men sounded like they harbored hatred too.	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 05:17 PM
5	More blatant misandry from radical feminists and TERFs on Twitter And as a women, feminism to ME means women’s rights. Not equality. I don’t want to be equal to a man. I want to have my female rights to certain things. Like for example, one good one is why can a doctor so easily turn down a woman to get her tubes tied, just bc she hasn’t had kids yet? She doesn’t want them. But we’re not trusted about that decision. “Some day you might change your mind.” Or “your husband might want them”. That’s your opinion. Just let me choose for myself please.	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 05:10 PM
2	More blatant misandry from radical feminists and TERFs on Twitter Uhm no. Don’t confuse the with any form of feminism. This is psychopathy. Women don’t want this. This woman is just demented and has mental issues.	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 05:03 PM
3	Are men in general more favor of traditional gender roles than women? YES. It’s about one person not carrying all the burden of everything. It is about splitting these things between both people in most families. Bc most ppl, men and women alike, will feel overwhelmed at the thought of having to work, and then coming home and doing all of the home stuff on their own.	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 03:17 PM
2	Are men in general more favor of traditional gender roles than women? The problem is that we’re still talking about society as a whole. Or “the majority”. The way that people think and operate, and the way their houses operate, from one household to another, is so significantly different and random. We’re all different people with different minds, doing things the way we prefer to do them. This isn’t a gender role thing anymore. This comes down to how each household decides to operate, what works best for them, and how they like to do it. At the end of the day whe…	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 03:12 PM
2	Are men in general more favor of traditional gender roles than women? You’re wrong. I work so that my husband doesn’t have to work as hard. And so that if he’s ever out of work, which he has been several times, I can provide. I am just as much a provider as he is. In fact, most of the time, my money is the bill money and his is the play money. And I don’t mind that, nor ask him for money. I like knowing I’m a support system for my family. I like being a provider, and sometimes even the main provider. And I have several female friends that put in a lot of OT at wor…	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 03:05 PM
1	Are men in general more favor of traditional gender roles than women? The Bible also says for a women to obey her husband.	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 03:01 PM
1	Are men in general more favor of traditional gender roles than women? Omg I had a whole post about this like, yesterday. I tried to basically send out a thank you note to men, and it so twisted and misconstrued. I’m a woman, and some of the men got sooo mad at me. I posted on this same page. Some were quite mean. Some were thankful.	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 02:59 PM
1	I’m a woman Thank you 😁 so far so good! Halfway! We’re excited bc we wanted a baby for a long time, and I had an ectopic and then a miscarriage so this is our little miracle baby 😁❤️	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 03:54 AM
2	I’m a woman I’ve always felt that way too. That meanness comes from a place of hurt. That’s why I try to stay nice. I don’t always bc sometimes it’s rlly hard, but I’m mostly pretty good at it. I had some thoughts come across my mind that weren’t nice that I could’ve said, but I don’t like being mean. I don’t like making people feel bad. It makes me feel bad when I do. The same as it makes me happy when I make others happy. But I’ve felt that way for years, I heard it once and have believed it deeply since.…	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 03:32 AM
1	I’m a woman Thank you so much! This means a lot to me bc I was genuinely trying to say something nice, and positive, and it got bent and twisted and misconstrued all kinds of ways. I was feeling like maybe I made a mistake to post this, bc I didn’t think people would take such offense to something I meant to only be nice. I decided to keep it up, bc of the men that do appreciate hearing it, knowing that it still might make them feel good and smile. I kind of thought it would make my day too, by knowing that…	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 02:56 AM
0	I’m a woman And he’s says to tell you you’re chump. Lol	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 01:34 AM
0	I’m a woman lol my husband says “her partner is way happy. He also said it’s not that he has to do anything, it’s that he chooses to out of the kindness of his heart”	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 01:34 AM
-1	I’m a woman Lol you’re a little triggered	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 01:31 AM
1	I’m a woman Being kind to others, makes most people feel really good. Because making someone smile or making their day, feels good.	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 01:25 AM
1	I’m a woman LOL omg. 👍	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 01:23 AM
2	I’m a woman Lol anyone can surgically take apart anyone’s words and turn them into what they want. If that’s what you choose to hear and think about what I’m saying. I may not be the best with my words, but even someone with a low IQ could understand what I’m TRYING to say. The problem is that you’re CHOOSING not to, and picking a fight where there formerly wasn’t one.	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 01:19 AM
1	Does anyone else find it infuriating how feminists suddenly (and hypocritically) turn into fiscal conservatives when oversight of child support spending is proposed? I believe that 2 consenting adults know what consequences are, and that 2 of them are a pregnancy you didn’t want or weren’t ready for, and STD’s, and that they should make their decision accordingly based on these things. Yes. I believe if you’re going to make the decision to have sex, that you need to be prepared for consequences that may follow, and take the proper steps for safe sex, and know that it’s still not 100%. You’re taking a chance every time you have sex. And if you have unprotecte…	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 12:23 AM
1	I’m a woman Can’t tell if you’re still arguing or not.	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 12:05 AM
1	I’m a woman I understand that. But this post was not to deny that men or women are not discriminated. This post was meant solely to thank men for some of the things they do. It was a thank you note that got all twisted up and misconstrued.	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 11:42 PM
1	I’m a woman It says on the bottom of my post, I don’t EXPECT these things. Im saying thank you for everything, and thank you for the extras you don’t have to do but choose to. That’s one thing about couples, we choose to do certain things for each other just out of kindness and wanting to relieve some stress off of each other. It’s not expected, it’s appreciated more bc it’s not expected. Bc it’s a nice, or sweet thing to do. I EXPECT my husband to be loving to me, and to be emotionally supportive, I EXPECT…	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 11:39 PM
1	Does anyone else find it infuriating how feminists suddenly (and hypocritically) turn into fiscal conservatives when oversight of child support spending is proposed? And another thing I never ever do, even though I can’t stand his dad, he will never EVER hear me speak ill of him. I will never talk down about my sons dad in front of him, or to him. Ever.	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 11:26 PM
1	Does anyone else find it infuriating how feminists suddenly (and hypocritically) turn into fiscal conservatives when oversight of child support spending is proposed? I don’t like my sons father, at all. I haven’t for a long time. Sometimes I feel hatred for him. But I’ve never, not once in my sons 8 years of life, withheld my son from him. We just got a custody agreement in place last year. And where I live, if you’ve never been married, and there’s no custody order in place, the mother automatically has sole custody until there’s a mediation or hearing. So I absolutely had every legal right not to send my son if I wanted. But I’ve always sent him week on, w…	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 11:23 PM
0	Does anyone else find it infuriating how feminists suddenly (and hypocritically) turn into fiscal conservatives when oversight of child support spending is proposed? His body made the sperm. He chose not to be on male birth control and possibly chose not to use condoms. Safe sex is a part of both parties responsibility, so he still made his choice before the pregnancy happened. Everyone knows babies can happen, and stds can happen before they decide to have sex. But you do have a point on the first part, fathers are super important to a child’s life, just as important as a mother’s. They both play very important roles. And as long as the other parent isn’t p…	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 11:17 PM
0	I’m a woman There are a lot of ways people aren’t equal to each other. And inequality is definitely an issue. But it is also very promoted by media, situations turned from what they are to something they’re not, things taken out of context or construed. And you know what? It’s that way for a reason. To divide us. Bc when we stand together we’re too strong. Gender, religion, race, yes the inequalities exist, but if we focused more on fixing them instead of focusing on how mad it makes us, or rather, how mad …	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 06:46 PM
0	I’m a woman Actually, a big reason birth is dangerous and painful these days, is bc doctors have taken over telling a woman when to push and how to labor instead of letting their own bodies tell them what to do. If they let us trust our own bodies, it would make labor and birth a lot easier. That’s what fetal ejection reflex is. And if you do it that way, most of the time your body will make all the right preparations to be able to get that baby out the quickest and least painful way. Doctors telling a woma…	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 05:52 PM
0	I’m a woman Thank you. No it’s fine, not everyone will always agree. In fact, most things you say at least one person can find a way to argue with it.	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 05:28 PM
-1	I’m a woman I personally view my husband as my big strong hero, my safe place, the man that when he hugs me, I feel like nothing bad can happen to me, and like he’s letting me know that he is my big strong hero that’s there to care for me, and he will protect me and my feelings, and be my chest to cry into if I need to. Someone who wants to see me smile. Like at the end of a long hard day, or a bad day, he’s there to love me. He is my big strong hero, who I feel safe with. That’s not a stereotype to me. Tha…	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 01:40 PM
-4	I’m a woman The reasons that I myself appreciate women... I never really thought about it. I can only think of 2 in a couple minutes... 1. Our ability to grow a baby in our bellies, it’s a miracle and a blessing, and gives us one of the best gifts we can ever receive. Not able to be done without the mans sperm, so there is still your part to be played in the beginning. 2. Our natural maternal and loving instinct. Which again, men are loving too. But women’s brains are wired to be that way, because we are na…	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 01:20 PM
6	I’m a woman My husband has taken months off from work before, where he doesn’t do much of anything. During that time he was sitting around and playing a lot of video games but I still loved on him just the same. And for all the hard work he does, he did deserve it. I was the only one working during that time. I didn’t mind. And that’s not all he’s good for. But I definitely appreciate when he does work, and does help, and does provide.	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 01:01 PM
5	I’m a woman Read through all of the comments. Especially the ones where people are arguing. You’ll find my response to this there.	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 12:29 PM
0	I’m a woman And I know my husband would get up for all 3 of those people. He also would get up for someone who was just fine, but might appreciate sitting down. He’s kind. And if there’s someone that might appreciate help, he helps. Even if they can do it themselves. This is not a gender thing.	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 12:23 PM
-1	I’m a woman And I think it all comes down to the type of person you are. I seen a post about how a man wouldn’t get up off of a bus seat to let a pregnant woman sit. And that’s all fine and well, whatever, that guy can do what he wants. But that same guy probably wouldn’t give up his seat to an elderly person either, or another man with a broken leg on crutches. The man who would let the pregnant woman sit, is also most likely going to let an elderly person sit, or a person with their leg broken. It has not…	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 12:20 PM
1	I’m a woman It does actually. I could’ve said “men, thanks for being men. And also for also having brains like women, and also having feelings like women, and also being loving like women, and having a lot of things to bring to the table, like women, and being an emotional support, like women.... thanks men for being the same as us. Thanks for being human.”	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 12:13 PM
2	I’m a woman But in the end, most men wouldn’t say that. They’d say “thanks for dinner babe”, or “the house looks nice”. But i think even a man knows that they’re grateful that the women they’re with plays with their hair at night, or rubs their backs, listens to how their day went, puts good food in their bellies, and shows love in a lot of those ways. It’s how we’re good at showing love, and sometimes it’s hard to understand why men don’t show more love or aren’t as affectionate as we are. But it all boils…	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 12:08 PM
-1	I’m a woman I would actually love that. It’s something I love to do for my family, and makes me feel good doing it. Like something that I do means something to them. Like I’m appreciated for putting healthy food in front of my family, and giving them a nice clean comfortable home they can live in. I do these things for them and it gives me a very satisfied feeling, and I’d like to know they appreciate it. And I know that if they did say that, that that’s not all they appreciate us for. But it’s one of the w…	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 12:00 PM
-2	I’m a woman I was trying to point out specific things that a lot of the time make a man different than a woman. Women are special in a maternal, empathetic, loving way. Most are anyways. It’s specific to our gender that our brains are wired for. Men are physically superior for the most part, their bodies are built to be. Women and men have differences between them that make them different from each other. This is not me being sexist, this is me understanding that mentally and physically, men and women have …	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 11:53 AM
-5	I’m a woman That is not what I was saying at all. I was pointing out some of the things men bring to the table. Women also have dreams, wants, and feelings. Humans do in general. Woman can also fix cars, one of my best friends actually can. So I also never said women can’t, I said I can’t. And like I said in my post, I am capable of doing the things he does for me, I was pointing out the things that he alone does for me. I have friends and family, male and female alike that also can be an emotional support.…	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 11:46 AM
1	Does anyone else find it infuriating how feminists suddenly (and hypocritically) turn into fiscal conservatives when oversight of child support spending is proposed? I know, I have another comment on here I made before this one. I just wanted to add that even though I agree, it doesn’t mean I don’t think child support should be a thing.	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 09:12 AM
-2	Does anyone else find it infuriating how feminists suddenly (and hypocritically) turn into fiscal conservatives when oversight of child support spending is proposed? BUT I do also have to say, if a father is not involved, child support is the absolute LEAST he can do. She’s a mom, nurse, teacher, chauffeur, coach, etc etc etc who is also teaching them how to be productive members of society, and he shouldn’t be free of the commitment and responsibility that easily.	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 02:24 AM
10	Does anyone else find it infuriating how feminists suddenly (and hypocritically) turn into fiscal conservatives when oversight of child support spending is proposed? I’m a woman, I’m here bc I’m curious of a mans view on things. Let me just say, ABSOFCKNLUTELY I agree with oversight of child support money. Absolutely. I have children. My sons father and I have half and half custody. But since I make more, I pay for my sons medical insurance. I don’t have a problem with that at all. Someone has to pay. But if he paid me child support, I would have absolutely no problem being monitored on where the child support goes. Cuz you know what? It should go to the kid…	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 02:20 AM