OklahomaDrill Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Confused.		OklahomaDrill	/r/Divorce_Men	04/05/22 03:48 AM
2	School for kids…		OklahomaDrill	/r/Divorce_Men	27/06/23 11:16 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	School for kids… If she’s not working, can’t she take the kids to school on her weeks?	/r/Divorce_Men	27/06/23 11:28 PM
8	What is the drive to find another partner ASAP? I think part of it is you’re trying to find a replacement. You’ve been with this person for 10 or 20 years and now you’re not. The marriage ended, and part of that drive is to ‘fix’ things. If you have a new mate, it’s almost like nothing happened. You want to show up your ex, like ‘look at me, I’m way better off’…even more so if they have someone.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/23 12:34 AM
3	Divorced now for 1 month, been separated for a year. 3 kids under age 8. Just found out my ex has a new boyfriend and the kids have met him. I have had a girlfriend but for some reason I’m really struggling with hatred right now. Suggestions? The best thing I ever did for myself was set up boundaries, walls, and everything I could to dissociate from her. She has had a few boyfriends, and immediately introduces the kids. I fully understand who she is. I’m much better off, but there was still hurt. You were with this person for years, and now your not. I was anxious to replace her as soon as possible, but there is a right way to do things. I have a gf, but we have a slow, methodical process for introductions. It’s about doing things th…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/23 09:19 PM