OlaFriend Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Pull back after signs of interest		OlaFriend	/r/seduction	12/06/14 04:56 PM

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2	Your APPROACH anxiety (or fear of women) is going to make your brain come up with all kinds of DEFENSES to stop you taking action. You might pretend you don't care, blame women, or think you have to learn as much as you can. In reality, you just have to spot where you're holding yourself back. I see. Thanks for the responce.	/r/seduction	20/09/18 12:50 PM
1	Your APPROACH anxiety (or fear of women) is going to make your brain come up with all kinds of DEFENSES to stop you taking action. You might pretend you don't care, blame women, or think you have to learn as much as you can. In reality, you just have to spot where you're holding yourself back. You imply confronting emotions as an alternative. Could you explain this with an example. Also, I like the article but I am also interested in your insights in how dealing with these behaviors and overcoming.	/r/seduction	20/09/18 12:07 PM
3	Do Women always seem to come out of break ups better than Men or is it just me? Great post! I think time is a big factor for men also. There is a difference between the conscious mind letting go and the unconsciousness to let go. I have been broken up for almost 8 months now after a 3y relationship and I sometimes get random flashback and images from past experiences with my ex. I think just letting it happen is the only way to move on, to accept the way of the unconscious without resisting. This can be very hard at times. What you resist persists.	/r/seduction	26/06/14 03:56 PM
1	50+ Minutes of In-Field Footage - Best I've Seen In a While Wow mindf°ck he talks like the big brother in Boy meets world :D Genius ^	/r/seduction	20/06/14 06:46 PM
0	50+ Minutes of In-Field Footage - Best I've Seen In a While Are they all actors? Or is this dude some kind of genius wizard :D The way he carries a conversation is 100% next level :D	/r/seduction	20/06/14 06:12 PM
1	Popular acculturation- Your top 5 books, movies, etc (Inspired by Models) The godfather Requim for a dream Citade de deus S7ven Braveheart If you havnt seen any of those movies, go and enjoy yourself ^	/r/seduction	18/06/14 07:07 AM
1	Regret does sting Lawl	/r/seduction	16/06/14 02:34 PM
2	Pull back after signs of interest It might be the comfort zone thing again. We crave our habits and we are not use to moving it that step further. So our minds just say fuck it lets stay here and not go in to the unknown and not risk rejection. Like the other guys said, maybe it has nothing to do with past experiences or whatever but just wanting to stay comfortable. Let's all try to push it a bit ^ Next time I am in that position I will just stay and talk even if I want to run and see how that works out. Good looking out guys!	/r/seduction	13/06/14 06:59 AM
1	Pull back after signs of interest Thanks for your reactions guys. I will try and push true it because I also don't want to miss anymore 9s and 8s and hell 7s ;) Thanks for the insights!	/r/seduction	12/06/14 10:00 PM
5	How I Gained Confidence Amen!	/r/seduction	20/05/14 10:13 AM