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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 9 | If you have to publicly brand him, he’s not the one sisWomen trying to reclaim the word like they did with bitch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:29 PM |
| 209 | I just got flashbacks of a bearded man on a "date", talking about his beard for 45 minutes, while stroking his beard... also why do they make that facial expression?I thought it was pictures of people who invaded the capitol and they were trying to id them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:09 PM |
| 106 | When a man asks, "but what's the point of being married?"The title of your post should really be: How to remind yourself that marriage is important when a man tries to convince you that it isn't Because as other commentators have said, you shouldn't have to argue a man into marrying you. LVM want no commitment and try to lower your expectations. Find this out when you first meet them so you can feel you avoided a bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 04:30 PM |
| 40 | So this women who suffer's from loneliness and social anxiety (check her oldest videos) travelled across the world to meet a guy she met online. She paid for all the travel expenses and went to meet him in the middle of a pandemic YIKES. Does he give you red flags?Reckless, thoughtless person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 04:37 AM |
| 2 | "He knows if you're the one within a day/week/month of meeting/dating you." Propaganda or reality?Yep, this is why relationships should have stress tests. Not just doing the same thing everyday, but being in situations that can be uncomfortable or you say no to him. Camping, trips, escape room. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 05:04 PM |
| 11 | Polyandry be like 🙃Imagine this, but multiplied by four | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:17 PM |
| 15 | I have to be honest, I hate stuff like this. It romanticizes settling for the bare minimum by saying "only REAL women settle.." also referring to women as females is so obnoxious !?Men always say that as the defining compliment, don’t they? She’s a cool girl. Being the Cool Girl means I am a hot, brilliant, funny woman who adores football, poker, dirty jokes, and burping, who plays video games, drinks cheap beer, loves threesomes and anal sex, and jams hot dogs and hamburgers into her mouth like she’s hosting the world’s biggest culinary gang bang while somehow maintaining a size 2, because Cool Girls are above all hot. Hot and understanding. Cool Girls never get angry; th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:26 AM |
| 19 | How to safeguard against future faking: Ask "When?"A reason women might not ask 'when' is that they know the answer, but they don't want to hear it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:16 PM |
| 21 | A man taking responsibility, we love to see it!This man could have been doing all the chores at the beginning, but chose to be lazy in hopes his girlfriend wouldn't notice that he wasn't doing jack shit. Look at all the women in the comments fawning over this waste of space. Womenkind needs to expect better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 05:31 PM |
| 22 | Men are delusional 🤢I need a job. I want $50 an hour on a schedule I make. It should be five minute walk from my home. I'll be a shitty employee. I don't care what I offer your company. Also give me medical and dental benefits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:51 PM |
| 22 | B-but, Sex Work Is Empowering! [Journalist doxxes nurse trying to make ends meet with an OnlyFans]The author really messed up, his personal information is all over the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 04:29 PM |
| 3 | "I'm hurt but it's okay."Wow, I have said that to myself a lot of times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 02:06 PM |
| 10 | How to deal with exes that won't leave you aloneEveryone should read The Gift of Fear, the chapter Persistence, Persistence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 01:54 PM |
| 20 | Pick me, pick me! 🤦🏻♀️It's making an example of women who are outspoken so that no woman ever feels like making a fuss, keeping women in their place. It's like the agenda behind false rape accusers, how the incels and men's rights activists keep commenting that they should face the same amount of time as actual accusers. Men have never face the same social shaming for being wrong that you could shut up a whole subset of men just because a tiny fraction are wrong. Men aren't made to internalize social repercussions li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Why dating with intention is so importantGiving second chances serves men. Fucking around creates a larger pool of available sex for men. Communication and nagging and explaining and staying instead of breaking up serves men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:25 PM |
| 10 | 😭😭😭😭A marriage is never late, nor is it early. It arrives precisely when it means to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:52 AM |
| 108 | "YoU CaN'T TeLL mE WhAT tO WeAR!!!"There is a fucking pandemic going on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 02:57 AM |
| 11 | We create life and they mock us for the marks resulting from itHe should apologize to his mother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 06:19 PM |
| 34 | Don't EVER buy the lie that gaming is a 'cheap hobby'It's definitely weird when you're in love with a man and you're thankful for any tiny little crumb that man will give you. You're going, "it's okay, we're spending time together, we're doing our own thing" but it's not "quality time" as the five fucking love languages say. You are waiting for a man and it's bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 08:19 PM |
| 80 | Don't EVER buy the lie that gaming is a 'cheap hobby'Not to mention, he's going to playing games and you'll be waiting on him, watching him play games that you're not even interested in. He'll think you're entertained but you are completely bored out of your mind and you're trying to get his attention and touching him but he's absorbed and pissed off you're distracting him from his game. This kind of guy is not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:45 PM |
| 54 | I guess if you’re going to act like a doormat, you might as well beg your boyfriend to propose to you on one.In the gift of fear, one of the messengers of intuition is humor. So that woman's subconscious is telling her what she really wants but it's disguised as humor. Like when men text "hey u want sex? Haha just joking, unless..." What happens when you repress your true feelings? It's going to come out one way or the other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 08:51 PM |
| 3 | WHYYYY Are There So Many Female led Podcasts All About the Guys They Fuck? Can Women’s Entertainment Do Better please???I am going to make a stand for Girls Gotta Eat. They have an episode where they interview Greg Behrendt(CoAuthor of He's just not that into you) and it's really great. Here, skip to 32:45 to where it starts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 03:29 PM |
| 9 | Maybe because he isn’t the right guy for them 🤷🏻♀️its stupid when girls say they cant find a guy, yet they ignore me. its like saying youre hungry when theres a hot dog on the ground outside | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 04:54 PM |
| 10 | John Gray in his ted talk explains that studies showed than women’s stress level is higher than those of men in a relationship (4x more at home to be exact). This is insane. If your relationship brings you stress, stay single ! No one In Nature is able to survive to long term stress .All you have to do is browse the breaking mom subreddit and the stepparent subreddit to see all these problems and stress these women are taking upon themselves. And yeah, I know it's called the stepparents subreddit, but it's mostly women complaining about how they took over the wifey duties and they are used for labor and the father doesn't back them up or take responsibility and the mom hates them. Curious though that stepdads don't face the same stress oh wait it's not a mystery, women are j… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 03:42 PM |
| 22 | This is why we say no to coffee dates. Before finding FDS, I agreed to a coffee date. He was supposed to text me a time to meet but never did. The NEXT DAY he asked me why I didn't wake him upBecause once you've tied yourself to the yoke of giving everything you have to other people, it takes actual effort to not do things for other people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 04:52 PM |
| 19 | This is why we say no to coffee dates. Before finding FDS, I agreed to a coffee date. He was supposed to text me a time to meet but never did. The NEXT DAY he asked me why I didn't wake him upAn LVM recently asked me to message him to wake up, and when I messaged him, he didn't reply. (Of course I completely stopped all effort with him.) What's with LVM and putting responsibilities on women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 04:04 PM |
| 41 | An ex hit me up to “check-in” with me and see how I am doing. Check-in for what? What am I, a fucking hotel?Emotional temperature check. Could I still fuck this person if I wanted to? Can I make her still think about me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:43 PM |
| 5 | where do you actually FIND hvm?Yeah, it's such a weird, naive question. I don't think OP read the FDS handbook either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 07:45 PM |
| 6 | Bottom Of Your Face - SNL Parody Music VideoFor other countries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:36 PM |
| 177 | Don’t text firstAnd the reason women do text first is because they know that a guy is supposed to be texting them at that moment but the woman has a need to be proactive and try to do it if the guy isn't doing it. Notice when a man isn't making you feel secure. When you're initiating a lot of the dates or texting. He's just not that into you. Cut off the grey area and confusion. When you feel bad in a relationship is when you need to end it, no second chances. Don't let a man tell you twice he doesn't want you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 07:10 PM |
| 9 | The worst of "female qualities" usually have to actually come from a man. Because we don't actually pull crap like this, and are usually way too accommodating. :)I think this ties into the reactive abuse video that was posted before. The man is calm and collected, but the woman's reactions are seemingly over the top, probably because she's been triggered so many times and her intuition is going crazy. I mean, she wasn't like this at the beginning when they got together, right? Stop the cycle, get off the ride. If you feel yourself empathizing with the depiction of the woman in the video, get yourself out of this situationship. It's really not worth the s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 06:30 PM |
| 15 | “Women should be more indulgent of affairs”. Excuse your mouth?That's a horrible example you're setting for your daughter there, Catherine Fitzgerald. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:29 PM |
| 15 | Can't even mention this sub to my guy friends...Yeah, don't tell anyone who isn't receptive. Either they have already preconceived notions or they are men who want to have a female equivalent to incels so badly. I think there has to be a certain mindset for someone to accept FDS, and just trying to proselytize to people doesn't work. Be FDS, don't tell it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:55 PM |
| 3 | I started making lunchboxes. I always wanted to and couldn' wait to have a partner/children, so I can express my love this way. Just recently I realized that I already have a loved one, that I can make food for! (And who will always appreciate it) It's silly but it never came to my head before :DAbsolutely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 03:49 PM |
| 219 | I started making lunchboxes. I always wanted to and couldn' wait to have a partner/children, so I can express my love this way. Just recently I realized that I already have a loved one, that I can make food for! (And who will always appreciate it) It's silly but it never came to my head before :DIsn't it so stupid that we'll do so much for other people but deny ourselves the minimum pleasures? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 08:20 PM |
| 5 | "If she hits you, you better fucking hit her back"It's just a fucking incel fantasy, like this is the time a man could hit a woman and be justified. It's so fucking rare that a woman is randomly going around picking physical fights. Those men just want to fantasize about knocking a woman out and everyone around them applauds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 04:55 PM |
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