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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 21 | The beginning of the end | Old-Owl901 | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/26 03:20 AM | |
| 9 | In review for custody CA | Old-Owl901 | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/25 08:43 PM | |
| 4 | Help | Old-Owl901 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/26 01:58 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Anybody find a good AI tool (more specialized than Chat) for intensive ex-wife management? (High conflict, parental alienation, etc…)You can have the bot read them to help it respond | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/26 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Anybody find a good AI tool (more specialized than Chat) for intensive ex-wife management? (High conflict, parental alienation, etc…)You might also get a lot from the book “walking on egg shells” and “non-violent communication” both are available on Spotify | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/26 12:44 PM |
| 1 | CPS interviewMine was about domestic violence also false claims -Most importantly stay calm during interview -If nothing happened then just be honest -show true emotion and be vulnerable about how much you love your kids and how hurtful the things she is saying are, cry a little if you can -don’t trash her just be firm that she isn’t being honest -Their perception of you is important wear clean clothes, shave/trim, haircut, some smell good etc. but don’t go over the the top like in a suit or anything -have y… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/25 09:59 PM |
| 17 | Damn. She is going super low now even for herNever settle always go to trial | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/10/25 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Can I see my kids?What ever you do don’t settle with her and allow a restraining order to remain in place always take your chances going to trial. As stated above document everything and only communicate with her through email/text so you can keep records of the communication exchange. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/25 08:36 PM |
| 6 | Justice of InjusticeI know bud it’s the absolute worst. We need to play the long game here it’s the only option. If you can take some comfort that every adult I’ve ever talked to who’s mother did this finds the truth out eventually (as long as you stay cool and take the high road) and it changes the way they see her and you. Your justice will come it just might not come for a couple years | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/25 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Dating after marriageTake care of yourself and do things you like and try to meet somebody in nature, it’s hard to break the ice and you will certainly get rejected a few times but it will build character. Dating apps are kinda broken and just for sex/hooking up imo | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/25 03:43 PM |
| 3 | FrustratedI’m in a similar spot bud it really sucks I’m so sorry. I just keep reminding myself that she has to live with her choices for the rest of her life and all the kids of moms that do this eventually figure it out and lose a lot of respect for them, it’s a long game. Stay up, you’re not alone | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/25 02:14 AM |
| 2 | EducationChid parent institute (calparents.org) offers online classes that come with certificates that are a good look for judges. I have dads from out of state in couple of the classes. They’re not really geared for the physical caring for children but more for the emotional side of things. Otherwise I just read books Good luck bud | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/25 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Would anyone be interested in a series of post from a guy on the other side?Yes | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/25 12:45 AM |
| 2 | About to start divorce processHere comes the silver bullet! (Look it up) She’s going to screw you bad with custody because now all of the sudden she’s been living in fear of you, lawyer up without her knowledge, stay cool and watch your temper, do what ever she wants and don’t respond, record interactions in secret, document times with video when you are alone with the child, don’t tell her anything about divorce or your prep work. RESEARCH and find the best lawyer you can now and try to limp along and keep you guys together… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/25 02:50 AM |
| 5 | Would you remarry and have more children in your 40's?My dad remarried and had twins at 43 he was absolutely a better man and father at that age he was able to retire and devote his full attention to his new children he’s never been happier I’ll be 39 this year going through a nasty divorce/custody battle our kid is only 14 months old. I’ve always wanted to have a happy family that was together. I’ve already met another gal who’s five years younger than me and childless I 100% will be more careful about choosing a partner to marry and have children… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/25 12:52 AM |
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