Ex is playing the game we all know I’ve been accused of being suicidal, alcoholic, violent, financially controlling, the only thing left off the list is sexually abusive. We are in a settlement. I’m getting supervised visits and eventually we will be reviewed by a court appointed child advocate, who will write a recommendation for custody based on her findings Our son is 15 months old, supervised visits have been going as good as they can and I am taking many online parenting courses to help show the judge that I am a good parent when it comes time to review our case and make a custody order. I have a lawyer I am in therapy and Mens Group and doing pretty good managing my depression/anger towards my ex. I can’t change what’s already been ruled and I need to do my best to show the judge that I am the loving and caring father. Wondering if you guys know about anything outside what I’m already doing that would help my cause. My heart goes out to all the other fathers who are in my shoes, it is so unfair and the system is absolutely stacked against us. This is absolutely the most heart wrenching experience I’ve ever been through.