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Old_Profession_1261/r/askMRP02/12/23 10:22 AM
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OYS #6 Age 34, 180cm/5'11, 185lbs. Married 10 years. Kids 3,5 and 6 yrs Purpose - Become an avid book reader. Read 50 books a year, outside the literature related to my business... Not sure how to articulate what I'm thinking here into a "life purpose", but another way to express it is that I have a vision of myself where I'm in my own library that I designed myself. Alone. Books, both new and old, stacked on shelves 30 feet high. My days begin in the library and end in the library. I'm absorbed…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/23 09:42 AM
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True, I can specifiy more. Although the scope of what I want to learn broadens over time e.g. adding property management to the mix of stuff I want to learn, so the "50 books a year" is a way of summarizing both the rate of learning and also encompasses stuff I dont know that I want to learn as of yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/23 09:51 AM
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I cant quantify "knowledge", which is why I remake the goal to number of books - of which I can quantify. But you have a good point...
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/23 02:22 PM
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OYS #6 Age 34, 180cm/5'11, 178lbs. Married 10 years. Kids 3,5 and 6 yrs Purpose Become an avid bookreader. Read 50 books a year, outside the litterature related to my business Discipline, I want to have my days planned: work, gym, self-improvement, family Financial Freedom, I want to cash in at least $1m within a few years (current business) Health & Fitness 5 reps á 4 withbench press: 220 lbs deadlift: 264 lbs squat: 220 lbs (still hate squat). I fell doing squats. Will just do leg press for aw…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/23 07:31 PM
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You know what. I'm just hamstering. Will deal with this with my advisors.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/23 05:51 PM
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For sure. But it's like a double edged sword. I have owners that could help, but if I drop the bomb that the company cap table can get fucked after a divorce at the same time that the company is expanding (needing capital), suddenly I have added risk. If I add risk, it could be dealt with but these capitalist will see this as a way to substantially lower the valuation or withold financing the company further.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/23 12:02 PM
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This is perfect. I have begun to enforce boundaries by withdrawing from verbal battles (I always lose). She gets fucking insane when I ignore her, throwing pillows and shit, I hope it doesnt escalate to physical damage. I dont always have the ability to leave the house, so I go to another room instead - often she rips the door open or pick the lock. Last few weeks since I begun my OYS - thinking more about me, enforcing boundaries, taking up hobbies etc has actually made me like myself more. Fee…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/23 09:07 AM
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I'm reaching out to a few lawyers, but difficult to reach now before Christmas (yes, this is Europe). Prel I dont see how I can protect it, not even through shareholders agreement. But I will find out what precautions I can take.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/23 05:59 PM
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OYS #5 Age 34, 180cm/5'11, 178lbs. Married 10 years. Kids 3,5 and 6 yrs Purpose Read 50 books a year, outside the litterature related to my business Discipline, I want to have my days planned: work, gym, self-improvement, family Financial Freedom, I want to cash in at least $1m within a few years (current business) Health & Fitness 5 reps á 4 withbench press: 220 lbs deadlift: 264 lbs squat: 220 lbs (still hate squat) Plan is to wake up at 05:00 to the gym heavy lifting Mon-Friday. Cardio/light …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/23 07:51 AM
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I do not get angry or care very much when denied sex. BUT, the basic model exchanging favors for sex, a typical "nice guy" covert contract according to NMMNG, is the same for me but my covert contract would rather be exchanging favors for "keeping the household peace". But sex is not the issue I have - it's the other stuff, interestingly enough.
/r/askMRP05/12/23 01:57 PM
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I realize now I am emotionally dependent on her. When she is happy then I'm happy, when she is angry or sad, then I feel bad. I have only started to break loose a little bit. In terms of boundary setting I have let my feelings been the dictator of it (and therefore her been the dictator of it), so when it has felt good I lost the boundary e.g. even when she didnt follow through quitting her job I let it go because it felt good at the time. She was happy and therefore I was happy. How she could m…
/r/askMRP04/12/23 06:25 AM
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It was obvious when I layed her off that she was quite lost in what she was going to do onward. I wasn't really there to guide her, although I supported her. I'm not a 100% sure what I've done wrong with leading the family, so I need to put some thought into this. A woman will end up working at some point, but it doesn't neccessarily turn out to be her mission - some mission need to trumph that. Right now she wants nothing to do with me nor the kids, so there is an overarching mission that is ab…
/r/askMRP03/12/23 10:21 AM
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I can see truth in this
/r/askMRP02/12/23 08:04 PM
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Yeah, she is very resentful. Its her "turn" now- fuck your business, fuck your time, fuck your concerns, she tells me. Funny. How it felt good just a few days ago, then I realized whats going on and it all goes to shit. I told her my concern about her working so long hours yesterday. She basically told me to go fuck myself.
/r/askMRP02/12/23 07:45 PM
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Probably all 12h, thinking about him!
/r/askMRP02/12/23 07:17 PM
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I agree with you brother. I have let myself go and the leadership I should have provided. The guy she has a crush on is 10 years younger. Single. A musican - very good one. He is a good guy, I dont have anything against him. He is a whimp, so I dont believe he has been hitting on wife but you never know. Wife is seeking approval for sure. But I need to deflect some critique. Im not a bimbo just looking good, not having ambitions. Im a CEO of a scaleup company, which im good at. Now, I agree with…
/r/askMRP02/12/23 07:08 PM
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But why does she risk it? Her life will be miserable after a divorce im sure - just like her sister (going mental).
/r/askMRP02/12/23 06:55 PM
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Damn. That hit hard when I thought about it. Before I met my wife I traveled the transiberian railway and went to middle east as a backpacker. Loved it. Also discovering ancient ruins and buildings. Well, that has completely gone away. One of the things id like to do. Its difficult to admit defeat. I dont like to lose. Good with an action plan - its what I do with my business. A timeline with milestones
/r/askMRP02/12/23 06:27 PM
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Im passning out just thinking about my business failing after all these years. Now that we are actually making money. After 6 years of R&D. I will do all these things, thanks. What I dont understand is that she finds me attractive. I notice other ladies finds me attractive. My wife know that other ladies finds me attractive. I probably wont have any problem hooking up, but maybe she thinks i wont do it? Doesnt make any sense. Its my night for "alone time " tonight. Most often I spend time with t…
/r/askMRP02/12/23 06:05 PM
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This is valuable, thank you for this brother
/r/askMRP02/12/23 03:47 PM
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I found the sub after she told me she had feelings for her coworker. Fucked me up pretty bad. Started reading Esther Perell I think, but didnt like it. MRP makes sense and it actually worked given the results I have seen personally - been going at it for a year. I suppose "Beta" and "nice guys" are categorize and we have some perception of the characters that fit into these categories - which is the best we can do. I dont personally identify with being a "nice guy". But in some sense I have thos…
/r/askMRP02/12/23 03:15 PM
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The guy is still there and its her closest collegue. Look. I found out last year, a few months after when she told me she had private lessons with the guy I sent in the divorce papers. Now all of a sudden she said she would quit her job etc. But she had a breakdown during the time the papers were sent so I retracted the divorces papers. She did not follow through with quitting her job. Now she will just think im bluffing - what fool I am. She doesnt fucking budge. Even after I sent in the divorc…
/r/askMRP02/12/23 02:51 PM
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Before she wanted to spend time with me all the time. She was helping with the company alot so we had that mission together, but now she couldnt give a shit. I had to lay her off as well as several other ppl due to a company liquidity crisis maybe 2-3 years ago. It hurt her that she couldnt continue.
/r/askMRP02/12/23 02:26 PM
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Yeah, I figured I'm fooling myself. You are right, I said I have read most of the sidebar. It's actually less than half when looking at the list now. Will read. Yeah, will talk to a divorce lawyer I guess. This is true. I feel stuck. She has me by the balls. Even if they arent fucking he has such a massive influence on her its almost comic. She doesnt see it. But yes, in a sense she may just have left me. Now that I'm thinking of this what the actual fuck is she thinking... Well, I will up my ow…
/r/askMRP02/12/23 02:22 PM
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Sex. EDIT: The issue I have with MRP is that it often starts from a dead bedroom and that the frequency and intensity of sex is the way of which we can measure the success of the marriage. Well, I have had frequent sex for 10 years. It's still fucked up, as you can see.
/r/askMRP02/12/23 02:10 PM
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I have gone through most of the sidebar. True, she doesn't miss me. Probably takes me for granted. In general we have good sex, can't complain. To be clear, the very little time we have after her long hours, that's when we have the chance. Although it fucks my sleeping schedule up (going up at 05). The feelz = whining about her working too much and/or the fact that she had a crush on her coworker Well, i'd like her to spend time with me and the family, that's what I want.
/r/askMRP02/12/23 12:18 PM
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Well, we have a good time when are together, but it's not much time. My biggest concern is that she doesn't give a shit about the company and wouldn't mind if it crashed - at the same time she will get half of it's value after divorce. So it's a win win for her either way. I'd like a mother to my kids for starters. On the other hand I get to spend a lot of time with my kids. I'm sort of feel like a single dad. Christmas is coming up and I will have to do most by myself. Not sure if I can save th…
/r/askMRP02/12/23 11:33 AM
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Oh, this hit hard. Thank you for this brother. Yes, I feel there is little point in marriage as well. In some sense I'm stuck, not that I contemplate divorce. But if I did my business would collapse. How do you deal with feeling like there is no point in marriage? I'm a Christian, but it is a difficult religion to adhere to due to the high standards set upon us (which is why we need Christ to begin with). Current pastor in our congregation is a woman. Completely and utterly bluepilled. I have co…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 07:08 PM
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I can recognize losing friends due to prioritizing business and family, but it hits hard later. I'm in a "business network" with a bunch of workaholics (CEOs, entrepreneurs). Everyone of them has lost friends and is desperate to seek like minded people. I pay $5k for it. It's fucking stupid, but when you have money you suddenly want to spend it to find a brotherhood - so it certainly shouldnt be undervalued to have a good social network.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 05:52 PM
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OYS #4 Age 34, 180cm/5'11, 180lbs. Married 10 years. Kids 3,5 and 6 yrs Purpose Read 50 books a year, outside the litterature related to my business Discipline, I want to have my days planned: work, gym, self-improvement, family Financial Freedom, I want to cash in at least $1m within a few years (current business) Health & Fitness 5 reps á 4 withbench press: 220 lbs deadlift: 264 lbs squat: 220 lbs (still hate squat) I wake up at 05:00 to the gym heavy lifting Mon-Friday. Cardio/light intensity…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 05:13 PM
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Right. Will have another look at these.. for next week!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/23 04:42 PM
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OYS #3 Age 34, 180cm/5'11, 180lbs. Married 10 years. Kids 3,5 and 6 yrs Purpose Following my thirst for knowledge Discipline Financial Freedom Health & Fitness 5 reps á 4 withbench press: 220 lbs deadlift: 264 lbs squat: 220 lbs (still hate squat. Meaning I have to do it twice as much. Which I havent done. Because it sucks.) I wake up at 05:00 to the gym heavy lifting Mon-Friday. Cardio/light intensity training and fasting on Saturday, Sunday. I often fail to fast Sunday Read Done with MMSLP. St…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/23 06:18 PM
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I cut down on all sugar and fast two times a week (days when not lifting). Got results fast, about 10kg fat lost in 6 months and gained muscle. There is nothing worse than fasting for two days a week when you are active in the gym. But goddam the discipline you get and results you see is great
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/23 06:11 PM
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Im hearing a butthurt atheist. God will calm your soul. Step into the light. Yes, she made herself available for sure and she had the intent for sure. But somehow changed her mind along the way, probably after I (somewhat) got my shit together. It may still be over, not sure. Will see how it develops...
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/23 07:52 PM
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Fuck. Alright. I will have to think about this. Yeah, she chose to open up, she chose to pursue the guy etc. But she hasnt pursued an affair with him, even if that may have been the intent from the beginning. Shit, guess I spelled it all out... First I have to understand why she did what she did. Getting another women will just end up the same if I dont understand what I did to fuck it up. Second, how do I be smart about it?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/23 08:27 PM
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I will continue to read for sure. I dont know why she told me. I dont conpletely remember the events, but I think we were making out and then she told me. She probably felt guilty about it.. turns out it was at igs peak when she told me, but she started to develop feelings for the guy 6 months prior. So a crush for sure
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/23 05:16 PM
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Oh yeah, she definitely dont take responsibility for it. Although, I dont believe an affair has occured. Im stuck on what im supposed to do about it..
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/23 03:48 PM
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That escalated quickly. But yes, I work on leading. I have mentally prepared to be OK with separating, which was unthinkable a year ago. When we got married I was stupid enough to tell her that I would never file for divorce no matter what because I was a big believer in the family unit and marriage... (yeah, now she suddenly felt she could do whatever)
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/23 08:52 AM
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hamstering Not very familiar with the term hamstering. Sex life has never been an issue, so not that shes "locket it away" (if I understand the term correctly) I dont identify completely with Rian Stone here. She did however went to afterwork with the guy, which she doesn't do anymore when I told her it was inappropriate. So some success... So, what exactly happened... She told me that she had feelings for the guy October last year, when it was at its peak. Before that it did creep up on her. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/23 06:50 AM
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OYS #2 Age 34, 180cm/5'11, 180lbs. Married 10 years. Kids 3,5 and 6 yrs Purpose 1. Following my thirst for knowledge 2. Discipline 3. Financial Freedom Comment: changed two of my goals due to them being outcomes I couldnt control Health & Fitness 5 reps á 4 withbench press: 220 lbs deadlift: 264 lbs squat: 220 lbs (still hate squat. Meaning I have to do it twice as much) I wake up at 05:00 to the gym heavy lifting Mon-Friday. Cardio/light intensity training and fasting on Saturday, Sunday. I oft…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/23 06:09 PM
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with/still seeing a man with whom she openly had at least an emotional affair, and Well, I'm not very fond of being married to someone who has feelings for someone else. So yes, I'm in a pickle as to what I can do about it. Going Rambo, as you said, has not proven successful... I read nmmng. Will check out Rian Stone for sure What I did last night I think worked with regards to her attachment to me and her little fantasy about her cowoworker. We made a plan what she was going to do if he made a …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/23 01:14 PM
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Age 34, 180cm/5'11 5 reps á 4 withbench press: 220 lbs deadlift: 264 lbs squat: 220 lbs (I hate squats, feel like I'm going to slip and break my neck every time I increase the weight). Do more with leg press Read NMMNG, starting WISNIFG. I can't quite identify with a "nice guy" though, perhaps partially in some situations. How do I game-ify cleaning up? I have probably taken my wifes work/help for granted, not given her enough credit. Perhaps with the kids as well, trying to praise more. It's be…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/23 07:46 AM
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New member. Don't go easy on me Purpose Financial freedom, a functioning healthy family and a wife that will submit Reading General Sidebar, finished married man sex life primer I read too slow and I get distracted from phones and screens. Physical Quite content with my discipline in regards to health. I wake up at 05:00 to the gym heavy lifting Mon-Friday. Cardio/light intensity training and fasting on Saturday, Sunday. I often fail to fast Sunday, but anyway. I'm quite ripped, and getting very…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/23 01:11 PM
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