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Old_leaves_fall/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 09:52 AM
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Old_leaves_fall/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 09:44 PM
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As a Brit, all this study tells me is that Brits drink way too much at their hen/stag nights, but then I doubt this was a surprise to anyone. 21% of women, 16% of men...not a huge difference in who is doing extra-curricular stuff on their stag/hen night. So, you can see it as "My partner is definitely up to something" or "79% of women, and 84% of men do not cheat on their stag/hen do, and so it is not anything I would worry about" The takeaway message from this is that you shouldnt get too hamme…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 10:30 AM
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My SO is the same, so I also give reminders. I write them on our whiteboard, and if it is particularly important (like his 40th, or his dads 70th) then I will make sure to remind him well in advance. These dates are never important to a man, ever. It's literally only a celebration because women think it's special. This is very true, and often applies to birthdays as well.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/15 06:52 AM
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I am mid 30's now, we got together in my late 20's. He is 5 years older. I would hope no one would classify our relationship as a Beta Bux one, although, you never know. FWIW, neither of us was particularly busy riding the carousel in our 20s, although we both have previous LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 06:40 PM
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Probably not. http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/sep/14/no-stigma-single-mothers-denmark-solomors
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 06:25 PM
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Anxiety disorder is basically hyper-neediness so as I have already mentioned I don't foresee my being able to have much in the way of relationships for the next few years sad frog I wouldn't write yourself off (especially at your age). My SO has some fairly complex psychological issues, and as far as I know, I am not abusing him, or making him feel like shit. Yes, it may be more difficult to find a relationship, but it is by no means impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 02:31 PM
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I do not have much of a routine atm, I have just graduated, so am doing the whole job-search thing. Today, I got up at 8am, made coffee, woke SO up, made tea (Tea more important than coffee in the morning!), had some breakfast, showered, checked my emails to see if I had replies from the jobs I applied for. In about half an hour I am going out to take my SO to a meeting, then I will probably hang around until he finishes there, then come back and grab a bit of shopping in. Then I will do some Du…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 09:10 AM
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Admiral Grace Hopper Linky Elizabeth I
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 08:13 AM
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I think androgynous guys are incredibly hot, this was my teenage crush Sebastian Bach
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 08:09 AM
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It is, in fact my SO swears Bacon should be classified as a herb or spice ;)
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/15 06:27 AM
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Thank you, I will bear that in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/15 01:03 PM
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Congratulations on the baby!
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/15 08:17 AM
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As another poster has said, from what you have told us, you did not break up because of any problems in the relationship, but because you were planning on moving overseas. If that is the only reason why you broke up, then I would give it another go, it may work, it may not, but at least you gave it a shot.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/15 08:08 AM
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It is, yes, it just took me a while to realize that the first mate can be doing many of the decisions for an extended period whilst the captain is unable to, and then hand everything back over and resume the normal first mate role.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/15 06:39 AM
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I am 35, LTR for 5 years 1) Marriage is not important particularly to either of us. We have talked about it, and it is on the "Nice to have" not "need to have" list. 2) I live with my SO, have done since the first time I visited his apartment. Under certain circumstances I would accept living separately, and I know people who do, but it makes no sense to me personally. 3) We have discussed kids, but, due to our ages, we feel it would probably not be a thing. If we were having children, not livin…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 09:06 PM
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It would come under "otherwise cannot take the reins", however, he is now recovering to the point where he is able to take a leading role in the relationship, which means I am now over the next few months handing over the reins, which is what has made me start worrying that I have been delaying his recovery by not wanting to force him back into things. I have begun slowly handing over, and it was him who said that he would take over finances in January, he just came in and said "From January, I …
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 06:26 PM
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My SO has me doing the finances (and leading in general up until extremely recently) because he has been incapable of leading for an extended period of time. He is now beginning to come back from this period of time, and so will be taking back over the finances from January.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 05:50 PM
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Try something like this Gordon Ramsay Steak Sandwich Also have a look at some of Gordons other stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 01:03 PM
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I swear my SO is part wolf, so he is immediately put off by the mention of salad too. I saw in one of your other comments that he is really into steak, my SO is the same, so I try to make variants on what goes with it. I have a very silly anxiety thing which impacts the range of food we have, so I am quite good at making many different dishes with mince/steak, peppers, onions, potatoes and sauce. Have a look at some of Gordon Ramsays steak things, there are many ways to do very meaty dishes with…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 12:38 PM
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You could perhaps do the raw veggies as a salad for the side, that feels a little bit less "odd" :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 12:15 PM
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What veggies does he like? My SO does not like cooked carrots etc, but likes them raw, so I often slice up some raw veggies for him to have as a side dish. If I am making something, like last night I made Chicken with bacon and mushroom in a cream sauce with mashed potatoes, I made the mushroom pieces big enough that he could remove them if he wanted, the same as when I make lasagna, I make it with large chunks of mushroom, so they can be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 11:55 AM
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Sounds exactly like my hair! (mine is curly/frizzy as well). Different color depending on which angle/day of the week it is! I am currently growing mine out, and learning to love the curls.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 07:06 AM
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I am still working on bread, but have recently managed to get scones right, thanks to this recipe Fast and easy scones (I halved the sugar in it, as I thought it sounded a bit much, and they were very nice!)
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 07:02 AM
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that looks amazing! Adding it to the list with all the other great recipes from the thread, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/15 06:38 PM
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I agree with all the other posters here. One thing I find helps if I am getting frustrated/irritated is to figure out why it is annoying me that time as opposed to other times. Often it is because I am tired, or because I have not eaten, or because I am stressed about something external and it is easy to redirect that into annoyance towards things at home. (When I am ill I am known to get incredibly irritated at having to go shopping, and while I was studying for my exams recently I found myself…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/15 12:02 PM
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I like that idea. My SO is not a farmer, but his sleep patterns swing wildly about, from getting up at 1am, to getting up at 5am, to going to bed at 11am within the space of a few days.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/15 11:33 AM
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Very helpful tip! I am going to start applying it (The not leaving empty handed). I have a policy that if it hasn't been used/worn for X amount of time, it is not needed (Exceptions being books and similar things of course!)
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/15 12:16 PM
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Fake it til you make it in my case. I remember reading somewhere (about running) that if you think people are staring at you as you run past, thinking you look silly, they probably have not even noticed you, and if they have, it is only for a second, then they are back to their own thoughts. (It was actually worded more like "Most humans are incredibly self-centered and you are just running past them, even though to you it seems like they are staring at you, you barely register to them") I am ex…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/15 10:16 AM
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I did that tonight after he woke up (He actually woke up and said "Do you have one of those bacon/cheese things from last night, but with more cheese?") I think he may now be addicted!
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/15 08:34 PM
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Avoid /r/vegan , as with /r/atheism etc, they tend to be full of the more...vocal individuals. If your issue is with sustainability of food, then look at switching to locally produced, organic produce. If your issue is with the environmental impact of food, then also look at locally produced food. I have issues with factory-farmed/intensively produced food and the impacts of it, so I buy vegetables and meat in season, from as local as I can (with the exception of bananas and coffee, which are no…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/15 06:01 PM
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I am the same about dresses, but for different reasons (My SO likes the natural look, and it works better for me). I wear mostly jeans/cargo pants and hoodies/checked shirts, but I like mixing the tops up to be more feminine (blouses or long sleeved tops with stitching), and switching out my hiking boots/trainers for flats sometimes, I also like "cuddly" jumpers for the winter.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/15 01:57 PM
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Thanks for these links, they have given me some good ideas!
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/15 10:25 AM
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That sounds delicious. I think I will try it with the best sausages I can get from the local shop, and then try a few different vegetables to see which gets the best response! Will let you know how it goes!
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/15 10:25 AM
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The only reason I was trying to avoid pre-making meals is because he does not really like re-heated food. I will try lasagna, as a test run, because if he does not like it reheated, I am sure I can eat the entire thing!
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 11:48 PM
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Just to report back, made bacon & egg grilled sandwich + bacon and cheese grilled sandwich. Was a success, although frying the sandwich in the pan after frying the bacon led to it being a little blackened, but he liked it A LOT! He agrees that men have very simple tastes, he said "Cow, Pig, Chicken, more Pig, and some sort of cream sauce with potatoes".
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 11:47 PM
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Oh, I think I will give this a try. The 15-20 minutes is mostly because I am being lazy at 1am, but an extra 5 minutes would definitely be worth it for this!
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 10:51 PM
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Grilled Sandwiches are the way to go then! I have just been worrying that something like that is not enough of a "proper meal"
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 10:33 PM
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I like the grilled cheese suggestion, he is crazy about bacon, so that would work well in there. I have never tried next day lasagna, but I will definitely give it a go. I was considering whipping up a batch of scones when he wakes up tonight, so that he can just put pate or cheese on them as he wants for snacking while I sleep. EDIT: Something I do sometimes whip up is the amazing pizza burger recipe from Pioneer Woman Pioneer Woman Burger Link But I worry that quick fixes like that are not suf…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 10:02 PM
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Long term lurker here Relationship status: 5 year LTR. Goals: Having just finished my MSc, to get onto a PhD or get a job to allow for us to move out of where we are now and get a house and the dogs we have been planning to get for several years now. Interests: MMOs (Games like World of Warcraft etc), Documentaries (We watch at least 2 hours of documentaries a day), learning to cook (Still not got bread mastered, my capn says it is because I do not smack the dough enough when kneading it, but th…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 08:18 PM
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That we bring out the best in each other, and compliment each other (He is extrovert, I am extreme introvert, he knows everything about the feminine things I know nothing about, and is extremely comfortable with it (and with my complete lack of knowledge about these things), whilst I am most likely to be found coming in covered in oil/muck/grease or making the kitchen look like a tornado moved through it while trying to learn to bake and our friends are impressed by the way we do not take heated…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 08:05 PM
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