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OP, this. If this bitch actively ruins your work, it's time for payback. Not to teach her a lesson (she'll never learn and not your problem), just to get your own dignity back. I know you're scared of this step and maybe you eventually choose to let it go (because it is your choice), but at least keep these documents save somewhere (and make a backup). If you don't do anything with it, then be proud on yourself and feel the power that you can ruin her life as well, if push comes to shove.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/22 12:30 PM
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Dude, for half of your post I was thinking this was going to be some positive field report. And all of a sudden you call yourself a loser. Why? You talked to some girls. You had fun. You 'won' a cigarette. Just go on being you, nothing to worry about.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/22 12:07 PM
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I'm 37, just in this for a couple of years. Beginning can be hard. You don't know how blue you really are until you try to become red. And there's a lot of shades of purple in between. 39 is perfect. You'll find out soon enough that this whole 'thing' was about you and only you all along. And keep the day game! You give a nice list immediately. The rejections from day game are even fun! Indeed, don't bother with dating apps. Even if you are good looking.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 07:40 AM
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Easy on the cluster B stuff please. What you are describing is just normal female behavior, reacting on your frame (or lack thereof). I get it, that kind of behavior is annoying as f*ck, but real cluster B shit is different. Wait till you meet a psychopath or malignant narcissist, makes your average borderline bitch seem like a poodle. Nonetheless, solid post! Like someone else mentions: your head is on your shoulders.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/21 10:52 PM
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This so much! And there's some kind of hunter's pride in picking girls up from real life. After years of successfully and unsuccessfully using Tinder and the likes, every swipe I make now is slowly killing me. It's junkfood, no substance, no honor.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/21 06:22 AM
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You describe this so perfectly. A delight to read. I find myself basically in the same situation. That little kid, I just talked to him too. He sat on a wooden bench, somewhere outside on a vacation park in my country. Somewhere I have been as a kid. I don't know why my younger self is situated there, in my current mind. He sat there, looked downwards a little, confused maybe. Hurt a little. I told him that sometimes his parents also don't understand the world very well. That his parents loved h…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/21 10:15 PM
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How's your posture? A lot of sitting in your daily life? Do you have an anterior pelvic tilt maybe from sitting? Or hunched shoulders from desk work? I mean, you say 'lanky', which I understand as something different than slim or slender. ​ I consider myself slender, I'm taller than you and weigh less at the same time. People have called me a 'muscular nail', but never 'lanky'. Maybe it's more about how you carry yourself than about the muscles...
/r/askTRP25/12/20 09:07 PM
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I think you paying attention and your reasoning are sound. That's definitely what you need to spot a psychopath. You state some facts that you observed, not feelings. Your instinct will definitely subconsciously pick up on these observations, and you told us your instinct warned you. I think you did the right thing by cutting off and going no contact. If she really is a psychopath - and the whole point is you'll never know and this sub cannot help you because they don't know - you could better b…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/20 09:30 AM
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Hi Zoocuffs, My post sounded worse than I meant. It's good stuff, and very important, so thanks for pointing it out! I recently had to deal with somebody very high on the cluster B spectrum (probably psychopath) and I was a little triggered by your structure and overall vagueness. Don't let my reply stop you from contributing! Besides, I don't know about your situation or experience, but I think the existing classifications (cluster B: borderline, narcissism, psychopaths/sociopaths... and they d…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/20 03:43 PM
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Exactly. Don't date these women. They are like Sirens, very hard to resist. Red flags are red flags for a reason, don't let your ego get in the way and think 'now I have read about and practiced TRP for three weeks (or six years for my part), I can handle a bitch like that'. That's like thinking you can handle a velociraptor. If you are even aware that you're dealing with a predator, that is. I guess the more correct (and common) name is psychopath, or it might be some kind of subcategory of it.…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 05:19 PM
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Instead, you will see and meet dedicated men who are disciplined to make progress, and translates to a better mindset Definitely my number one reason to join a gym again in the future! But doing business at the gyms in my area probably leads to unwanted cocaine deals and other shit. ;)
/r/TheRedPill17/03/20 08:07 PM
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I get that! It's one of the reasons I tried - and will try again - visiting a gym. I couldn't really find that when I visited in the past. It's a trade-off for now for me. Since I have laying around some dumbbells, a bench for chest, and a cage and elastics for (assisted) pull ups and other stuff, a gym membership becomes even more unattractive to me. Good luck with the bodyweight exercises at home (or outside!). Trying something different forces one to get creative. There's all kinds of good th…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/20 08:04 PM
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I understand completely. At my home I'm limited in the exercises, equipment and weight I can use compared to even a small gym. Still, I can get a good and complete workout outof it for my whole body. Good luck with the home exercises.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/20 07:59 PM
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Really happy with my small home gym now. Didn't even consider that a lot of people are stopped in their gym routine because of this. I tried going to the gym a couple of times in my life, but it's just not for me. I have to remove every hurdle between me and my workout, so I bought dumbbels, barbells and some equipment over the years. No time and headspace lost on going to the gym, no time and headspace lost on changing clothes, not on distractions in the gym (I can focus better on my workout al…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/20 04:51 PM
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Nice spin you give to "rejection is better than regret", but I get what you mean!
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 11:08 AM
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What is this? Satire or real?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 06:32 PM
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Don't be stupid. If you don't see the whole point of this woman being crazy and just no good (which IS part of the post), you have bigger problems to worry about then abundance. And now go back to work! ;)
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 02:24 PM
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Read the goddamn sidebar first. Then this would not be a question.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 10:30 AM
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And this reminds me of this one post not so long ago, about a guy who started lifting with his girl who was already lifting. He had quick gains and she became very jealous of it. ​ edit: my point is more about the difference between these animals and what it (to me) says about the women.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 03:52 PM
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Exactly this. And I have a little theory (let's just call it a brainfart) about some women having dogs/birds, and other women having cats/horses. The women with the dogs or birds are looking for something to command/control or something to rob of it's freedom. Women with cats or horses on the other hand are less like this (try to command a cat, or control a horse when it doesn't do what you communicate). ​ The women with the horse or the cat are more sane, when you ask me (of course there are ex…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 02:14 PM
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Seflessness is important to me when a person has proven to be worthy of it. There is your answer. And you're talking months, not years. I get it, because you're 20yo and even months can seem long at that age. You talking about values and stuff is not necessary bad, but when you're 20yo and having trouble with these kinds of decisions, your values are just 'talk', not 'walking the walk'.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 11:57 AM
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Please... Don't overestimate yourself and don't underestimate women. She probably will be just fine within a couple of days/weeks. If you don't think so, you should read more here.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 11:30 AM
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Follow the link, there are more articles about a 'pseudo personality' and the author of that site can explain it in really easy-to-understand terms. It might not be immediately visible on the site, so you probably have to look around and click some links to find it. But in short, a 'pseudo personality' is a sort of extra personality put on top of, not instead of, your real personality by a manipulator, whether that's a narcissist, borderliner, psychopath or sociopath (cluster B cluster fuck shit…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 10:31 AM
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Oh, and all this isn't your fault! Don't let her make you think otherwise. That's rule number zero you have to keep in mind! I saw your other post in another sub and she's clearly making you feel guilty for all of it. This is real textbook cluster B behavior; she's is messing with your feelings to get a reaction. Any reaction. She wants to control you. Watch out and try to stay 'no contact'. With these kinds of people, the rules are just different. ​ I see you're open to new people in your life,…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 08:59 PM
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Read this https://www.decision-making-confidence.com/mind-control.html and then follow the hyperlinks to read further. You still have a so called 'pseudo personality', I see it in your post how you talk about the situation, still very confused. I hope you went 'no contact' already. But going 'no contact' and just trying to forget ain't going to cut it, this shit will come back in your mind over and over again until you learn about what happened to you exactly, why, how, and by 'whom'. Luckily fo…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 08:33 PM
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Very interesting post! Reminds me of the posts of Bonecrker on the No Ma'am blog (http://no-maam.blogspot.com/)
/r/TheRedPill14/05/19 11:11 AM
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This exactly! Nice write-up PIQAS. ​ I completely understand OP's perspective because I've been there myself for years, but thinking like that is cancer. It has nothing to do with failed expectations (whose expectations anyway!?), but with talking yourself down. If you're going to put the past in front of you constantly, how is your future going to look!? Only keep the good stuff from your past and let it work for you as a push in the right direction. And the bad shit from your past, you ask? It…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 08:37 AM
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That's it. She says somewhere at the end that she's doing it for her self, but she despises the fact that he gets more attention for it (and that's why she wrote this post, of course). The irony is even better when you think about the fact that she now experiences what every male experiences constantly: work hard for shit, that's the only way to get shit done, and even then you sometimes don't get what you want...
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 11:09 AM
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This is why you should not be allowed to vote, man child. Grow a pair. ​ Edit: I say this because I hear it fucking everywhere when people run out of arguments or just feel emotionally fucked by someone else: making a snide remark about 'all the others' that are not allowed to vote only signals that one is not understanding shit at all. It only shows you still see nothing. I usually let this kind of shit slip by on other forums, not worth my time. But on here, on TRP I'm more than willing to kee…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 02:09 PM
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I've seen this go both ways, I think. I agree with you on the high SMV thing, but I also think there is some slowly ascending growth path in a man's TRP life, wherein women see you having high SMV but also get subtle cues from your behavior that you're still not the real deal so to speak, so they are more inclined (subconsciously) to try to make you their boyfriend. ​ For a man, this is a strange time, because on one hand your higher SMV is working for you as expected, on the other hand some stu…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 11:21 AM
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The OP is putting the mental point of origin on himself, which is a very good but very hard thing to do. Don't take that accomplishment away from him by making it about the girls again. That's exactly the distraction that everybody here is struggling with. ​ And to OP: not writing or reminding yourself about it, that's not the point. Every time you think about this, grab a dumbbell. This little unknown sports company had a nice slogan about it, what was it again!? Ah, I remember... Just Do It.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 12:04 PM
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You can do that by watching The Expendables right now. Even these guys are disposable. And that's the whole idea, get used to it.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 04:18 PM
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I reply to my own comment... ​ I want to talk about prices: 50,- euro for sucking and fucking in some positions ('window hookers' call this a quickie I guess, so expect them to look at the clock after 15 minutes). I see people talking about hundreds of euros/dollars, and while that might be the case in the USA or other parts in the world, in my opinion it's way too much. Definitely not market value, so you got ripped off. ​ I sometimes visited private houses ('prive huis'), where I had on averag…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 12:36 PM
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Dutch guy checking in. I can agree. It's safe, cheap, and straight to the point. I'm not looking for love there, not even for a good time per se, just sex. Like Charlie Sheen used to say: I don't pay the girl to have sex with me, I pay her to leave after I'm done. That's exactly how I think about it. Knowing you can always go to a hooker (and then not going because you have enough sex already) is good for one's abundance mentality; it's always an option!
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 10:36 PM
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Then your feelings are more congruent with reality than mine, I guess. It took me a long time (around a year) to find comfort in the actual abundance that I experienced. I think the abundance mindset is not a prerequisite for true abundance, but the other way around. At least for me. Or the last waves of the anger phase were messing up my ability to really experience the abundance.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 05:03 PM
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So you already had abundance for a while, and after some time your abundance mentality developed!? No need to make this more complicated by giving it another name like 'saturation point'. ;) ​ Forgive me the nitpicking. I understand your message completely! I'm in the same boat right now. Like somebody else also said: it seems to coincide with the anger phase disappearing.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 01:52 PM
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This gets downvoted, but it's a topnotch thing to do, gamewise. I broke up with two LTR's in the past two years (yeah, the last one lasted short, because BPD), and although I'm very pleased with myself for knowing I can do this kind of thing when the situation asks for it, a little thing I regret is that I still tried a bit too much to break up amicably, instead of flipping the narrative completely on it's head (I succeeded partly). Like Razkolol says, the hamster will go apeshit crazy, which is…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 08:55 PM
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I'm not in a position to answer this for you. Your question - on the surface - seems to be about your career, but I think these kind of questions should be more about your life. Zoom out! And take a look at the Black Dragon Blog if you want; Caleb is capable of explaining why you'll turn out okay career-wise without a college degree or anything.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 09:56 AM
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I can't answer that question for you. For me, it worked out okay, I'm not in debt, I learned a lot, just not the stuff they asked for in the tests. Solving other people's problems with other people's rules is just not my thing. But for each their own.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 08:38 PM
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Couldn't agree more. Law school made me think systematically and rational, how to handle large amounts of information in my head, how to prioritize, etc. But foremost, it made me aware of how the system works and what buttons to push in society to get shit done, because law is connected to politics, economics, history, philosophy, sociology, etc. Having a career in law on the other hand... law is so big and so much related to everything, there are tons of different career paths one can take. Wit…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 11:49 PM
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If this is a long read for you, then you have more important problems than TRP.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 04:07 PM
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Thanks for the link. I guess I already read stuff from him, I'm not new here. Just like the concept of congruency isn't new here.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 05:13 PM
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Isn't the whole distinction between PUA and TRP not one of congruency!? Anyway, nice post indeed. I needed the reminder.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/19 10:36 PM
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It's not so much about the opinions of others as it is that it's not enjoyable to me and it will hurt my rep a bit. You don't want to be known as a guy that fucks fatties or uggos. It's not about the opinion of others, but it hurts your rep and you don't want to be known as 'that guy'? TRP is about getting rid of your ego and not fooling yourself.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 11:10 AM
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You sound like NeoReactionSafe, but I like it.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 11:08 PM
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Sorry, but what don't you understand about 3.500.000.000 ? I'm not saying every girl is fuckable, but it seems like you are limiting yourself before you even get started. Besides, you don't "get to see", you make things happen. There are girls and women everywhere. No excuses.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 09:44 AM
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I am by no means a fitness-expert, but this resonates best with my own experience. I did cardio for ages, but I only started losing fat the moment I changed my diet.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 02:08 PM
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Swallowing the red pill does not immediately remove the blue pill from your system. On and off I'm experiencing the same thing as you mention: I catch the beta inside me trying to pull me back in. My own inner crab bucket, so to speak. Kill the beta. It's a long process with ups and downs. You seem to handle it just fine. Good luck! edit: Also, thanks TRP!
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 07:55 PM
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This. I experienced it firsthand, also with a girl from Tinder. We had a couple of meetups, but everytime I was fingering the girl until she came squirting and she wanted even more. Me suggesting to her she can suck my cock was met with disbelief from her. My dick got unstiff as a result, which she used to shame me, which didn't work because idgaf. I told her I'm not a robot, I need to get something in return before I can function properly. I started putting on my clothes, she tried to shame me …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 05:18 PM
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Keep repeating this please. Understanding that it's more about killing the beta within than it is about becoming red pill helped me a lot. It's also closely related to not using red pill-tools or -concepts to chase blue pill dreams.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 08:49 PM
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+1 for "blah blah all that red pill shit" Gonna make a t-shirt with a print like that.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 11:14 PM
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"Once you seem beta to her there's almost no point of return. Cut your losses and move on." This only started to make real sense to me lately when I read a post about spinning plates. One of the commenters replied with a GIF of just that: a performance artist spinning plates on sticks. The moment I literally saw a plate falling off a stick and it broke into thousand pieces, I knew instinctly that a broken plate cannot be put back on. It doesn't work. Plates are cheap, put another plate on if you…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 03:04 PM
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Can you elaborate on your last sentence?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 10:04 AM
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Thanks for your post OP. One can read a thousand times "you are the prize", but one little example like yours is better than just knowing the theory. I am in my early thirties and just finding out how this strategy works (and it works good, practicing it on Tinder, just like you).
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 10:26 PM
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The same day I read that example from The Manipulated Man, I saw a girl on the street in front of my house trying to fix her bike or something. My first instinct was to go outside and help her. Then I thought about what I had learned and took a step back and observed her fixing it herself, it took a while, and I forced myself to fully watch it to completely internalize Vilar's message. I learned a lot that day.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 10:43 PM
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You paid a prostitute for sex. You didn't earn anything To be able to pay, one must earn. In this case, in a very literal sense. If you get agitated by these posts, then keep distance. It's just men swapping notes, nothing to feel offended by. And besides, "sexual strategy" is bigger than PUA.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 03:25 PM
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Indeed, an interesting perspective from OP. He might be new here (thanks for adding that disclaimer OP, you own your shit and it's nothing to be ashamed of), but it's wise to judge the text on it's content, and not only on the authority of the writer. To me, you had some insightful views on the main concepts of TRP, so thanks. Men swapping notes, good job. If you not already did, go read The Rational Male. Your writing reminds me of Rollo's a little bit: reading a sentence twice or even three ti…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 03:11 PM
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Read mainstream newspapers (or plain and simple online news, for my part) and the world is always on fire. I'm sick of it, literally. Right now on a media diet, and my life couldn't have been better. Ignorance is bliss, in the case of this thing people call 'news'.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 09:55 PM
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This. The legal battle will drain your money, time, energy and mood. And you might not even get all the money back (I don't know about the specific laws in your region, just don't have the illusion that the legal system is all about justice). If you can overcome the financial loss, I would suggest to leave it, learn your lesson and know from now on who you're dealing with.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 05:33 PM
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Not necessarily familiar with the term OODA, but your explanation makes sense. Some things really force me to orient on it and no matter what I decide I keep distracted, like people having a conversation next to me in the train while I'm trying to focus on a book. It's sometimes very hard for me to focus on the content of the book. On the other hand, with my example of people throwing shit out of their car, once I've decided that I'm a hypocrite for being agitated by that, I become really calm a…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 09:58 PM
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Basic stuff indeed, but thanks. Often, the best way to tell, is to take a moment and observe yourself acting or to quickly swap roles in your head [...] This practice hits home. Have been doing these mind experiments for years, and it helps detaching from emotions like you said. I used to get all angry when I saw someone throwing shit out of their car (like food, cigarette buds, etc.), but I'm not holier than the pope, I've thrown shit out of my car as well when I was younger... just thinking th…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 09:22 PM
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Please, write more about the thin line between being perceptive and being sensitive. Your post is a short post, but it sounds sharp. Any chance you have some writings about this that can make it into it's own post?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 10:50 PM
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Me too. This hijack seems interesting. Please tell us more.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 01:24 PM
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Thanks for the write-up. Very interesting read. T.A. teaches that people are taught to avoid true emotional intimacy at all costs(at their detriment) and that people are taught/develop/"need" (in a bad way) a formalized structure for their interactions. Sounds familiar. Reminds me of some woman needing a 'valid' reason to go over to your place, not just for sex. So her hamster can give the underlying biological attraction a twist and make her not look like a slut to her friends and herself. "Gam…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 10:33 PM
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Thanks. This 'transactional analysis'-thing is interesting. Took a quick look on Google to find out more about it. I think I understand the broad concept, but I feel there's a lot more to it. By the way, do you mean it's a "game" in an economic sense? I get that impression from the Wikipedia-page. This is scary shit. Fake rape-games are not fun. And less harmful drama ain't fun either. Most of the posts I've read on TRP and MRP about falsely calling rape are meant as some sort of field report an…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 02:13 PM
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Spot on, this post. Today’s priest is the Scientist/Professor. The state religion is Progressivism. Instead of God we worship Science - the science that experts tell us is correct. Been thinking about this a lot lately. Back in the day my parents went to church. At that time I had a 'friend' who was always openly mocking the church, religion and christians in general (I could care less, didn't feel the need to defend my parents' choices). Don't know if he did it to just get under my skin or if h…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 10:25 PM
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Can you elaborate? Well, I think I know what you mean, but do you have any experience with this? I guess my girlfriend once tried something like this on me, and I almost got in a fight with a Belgian trucker on the highway around Paris...
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 08:39 PM
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Everybody else gave good advice. I want to add one thing: everything you sum up about her sounds like borderline to me. I'm not a doctor or psychologist, but I notice some heavy push and pull behavior from her side. General advice on TRP is to stay away from BPD-people, they fuck with your mind and they can't even help themselves. You might feel bad for them, but minding their business even a little bit is digging your own grave. Cut contact. But you have to recognize the BPD-behavior first. Sea…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 11:31 PM
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Good post, have my upvote. I don't see much posts from you in TRP, ever considered to write down more of your philosophies?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 01:04 AM
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Indeed, lifting is a cornerstone habit. Once you are up and running for some weeks/months with a beginners program of lifting, you may notice your body tells you to smoke less and eat more healthy. It doesn't happen completely automatically, but your psyche becomes ready for changes in other areas too.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 10:10 AM
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AWALT isn't predictive, it's descriptive of the large grey area female behaviour resides in. So it's always off the mark, but it's close enough What a gem. You rose above yourself with this, I bookmarked it. Always like your posts on marriedRedPill as well. I can really recommend everyone who's married or lives together with an LTR to take a look at the MRP-sub; you will find quality stuff from experienced guys who lift... lift heavy.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 07:31 PM
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Not so recently I bought beer, wine, cigarettes and some food for a girl (and for myself). She somehow 'pushed' me into paying for it, but alright... fine, I won't go bankrupt. At her home, I had put the bottle of wine on the table, a little later I noticed it was gone so I asked where she left it; she already put it in her wine rack, she said. All the while drinking the beer I bought for us and only paying attention to her phone. Very strange, I bought the stuff for us that evening, it was not …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 12:44 AM
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I'm not necessarily writing notes on the posts on TRP and MRP, but I actively keep an eye on my relationship and write detailed notes about what's happening. This trains me to use all my senses, to 'read' my gf and to internalize TRP-concepts. I can't be an ignorant fuck no more, I really need to be in the moment and capture all the sub-communication that is going on. I do save the best posts and comments though, and bookmark posts with the best quotes/sentences in the bookmark-text. Just regula…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 10:06 PM
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How to make a sentence without all-caps.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 09:19 PM
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Man-children can, that is what MRP is about. It takes hard work and time, a lot of time. Real children don't grow into adults in a timespan of four months, do they?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/16 12:03 PM
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I get shit-tested by soft drinks, brownies and chips all the time. :')
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 02:23 AM
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The disillusionment I've had with my friends I guess is similar to the disillusionment that most people have with women when they find this forum or have a bad relationship or whatever. To me, this Red Pill-thing had almost as much to do with male friends and our dynamic as it had to do with women.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 02:11 AM
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This. Happened to me as well, while I still lived on my own. Toothbrush here, umbrella there, some other makeup-shit overthere, and a scarf sometimes. Cohabitation wasn't even allowed there (since it was some kind of student-housing), so no real risk. But I do recall the arguments we had once I asked her to take her stuff with her.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 01:28 AM
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I've come along a lot of good posts from you, so don't take this wrong. But... How does this go in your relationship? Will she really go looking for a 'better' man that can make her feel more safe if you don't check the locks twice? Won't a good hug and some words like "Trust me, I locked the doors, come here, I got everything under control" be enough? I mean, if you are really sure you locked the doors, you don't really go check again, do you? This only reminds me of my neurotic auntie of 70+ y…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 10:58 PM
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As a fresh student about 10 years ago, I was blown away by these student-run magazines about all the big companies that were the bomb and where everybody should be willing to work. These magazines ofcourse sponsored by multinationals like Shell, Unilever, etc. There were these boys and girls - wearing suits and stuff - acting like they were some kind of CEO and running these magazines. They were deep throating all the corporate multi-national stuff. Rehashing all kinds of empty management blah. …
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 02:22 PM
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It really is non-advice without an alternative. Try owning it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/16 11:24 PM
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One Google search, come on.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 11:20 PM
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Hot shower before bed, to stay warm. Cold shower in the morning, to wake up and don't feel the cold outside. Don't know where you're from.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 05:08 PM
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but when I wake up at 5am in the UK winter and it's -3 outside, I damn well need my warm shower to start the day And how does this go? You take a hot shower, and the moment you exit the bathroom everything feels cold, isn't it? Let alone going outside afterwards to a subzero temperature, then everything feels extra cold. I'm from the other side of the North Sea. Number one reason for me to start the day with a cold shower was to make this -3 feel less cold. Take a cold shower and everything afte…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 04:46 PM
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Your story hits home. I'm in a LTR for seven years now, not necessarily planning to quit it, but I'm becoming much more TRP-aware and improving myself. When this LTR ends I will not MGTOW, but as you say: I can't forget what women are capable of when they don't respect you, and how hurtful/evil they can be. Before my LTR, I visited hookers on the regular. It doesn't suck time. It's a very clear transaction. Ofcourse, there's no love involved (at least, I could keep it apart, it's just a sexual t…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 01:35 PM
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Why spend thousands extra (only for women) when OP found a cheap solution? Besides, I would love to see the hamster going full speed every time you guide the women to the door and they try to work their way back!
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:55 PM
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To turn this around: I've found post-wall-women way more receptive towards me when I lied about my age. I opened a lot of 35+ year old women on some dating site and they were way more receptive when I stated I was in my late thirties, instead of the real early thirties. I guess most of them are looking for commitment and don't trust younger guys. Any thoughts on this?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 06:02 PM
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Indeed. I don't get why this post is so much upvoted. On this sub, people talking about HB4 to HB9 all assume the ranking is subjective and everybody agrees with this (ofcourse, because it is). Isn't "ugly" or "beautiful" the most subjective thing to consider!? The same with some post on asktrp I just read: literally everybody answered "no fat chicks" on some question from a user who apparently wanted to fuck a fat chick... Stupid people giving dumb answers.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 07:38 PM
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I think what you think: "I can't let myself stoop down to her validation/test/question." And by the way, if she says: "I can't be with a poor loser." You say: "Who says you can be with me... ?" It's these little focking subtexts wherein they assume all kinds of stuff. Kill that immediately.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 09:50 PM
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I guess you - indeed - dodged a bullet. She wants your money. You two had no sex-life, she wasn't even trying. The only girls I've seen with hand-alcohol and baby-tissues were hookers. Sounds like a lot of red flags to me. You seem to have some understanding of what went on. You are swallowing the red pill, don't stop now. P.S. "Do you want me to teach you how to cut an apple?" is the least thing to worry about. It sounds focking stupid indeed, but I've heard it before.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 09:38 PM
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This sounds harsh, but I wondered the same when reading your piece (just a little). Maybe read it again? Especially about 'dread' and 'believe behavior, not words'. Yashugan00 might be right: she is getting away with it. You might be too nice about this (I get it, we have been 'educated' about never-ever complaining about a woman's weight). And you're worrying about how she'll react because she got mad at her father for 5 years (which I don't believe; watch what she does, not what she says). I m…
/r/askTRP19/10/16 09:22 PM
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Maybe try to act like this guy? http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ZqbYXbQhsy8/UF-JHgZSvVI/AAAAAAAAAVY/nGCKTIQuQTU/s1600/french_guy.jpg I mean, if the bitches want to live Parisian life as in the movies, then bring the movies to them. I don't know how Moroccan you look, but I guess with some good grooming you can portray yourself as the guy pictured. If you get questions, just tell girls you are half Parisian half Moroccan/Spaniard/Italian. Just lie. The takeaway from OP is to give these tourist girls wi…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 01:15 PM
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Great explaining of the subtle differences!
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 12:57 PM
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Just a pragmatic tip: when you are reading The Rational male or Illimitable Man in Firefox, get the add-on called 'gtranslate'. It gives you results from Google Translate with a single mouse click (works for webpages and for PDFs too). I noticed that going to another tab with Google Translate distracts me just enough to never get in the flow of reading, while having an immediate translation at hand works wonders. Edit: I am a non-native speaker of English.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 07:07 PM
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Aha, then there is some sea and some land between us. Not exactly around the corner.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 08:49 PM
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Where are you from then?
/r/askTRP19/09/16 08:04 PM
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Sounds good indeed. Can he cook? You might help him with an appetizer and ask "What do you have in mind for dessert?" wink
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/16 02:17 PM
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Great! I have seen guys from Iran or Afghanistan telling girls they were Italian. That's at least something the stupid blondes would believe.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 12:22 PM
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Is this already a toxic topic in your relationship? As in, you already signaled to her what you think of this kind of behavior morally? If not, talk about it with her in a non-judgmental way. The truth might just get out there if she suspects no judgment from you. If yes, try to find another way to get to know this. Maybe friends know things, maybe you can check her e-mail or texts. She will probably smell danger when you want to talk about this stuff again.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 12:03 PM
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Touching works wonders with guys too. Let me explain: I'm not talking about touching in a sexual way in this instance, I mean it as a way of letting guys know what my limits are. I'm talking about friends, not strangers. As a more introvert person I'm somehow drawn to more extrovert people as friends. There is always place for one really extrovert person in my live at any moment, in my experience. Always very outspoken, assertive, outgoing, a little bit narcissist, likes attention, you know the …
/r/seduction18/09/16 11:09 PM
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So the first question is: who's shirt is this? You have ideas about what might be going on (and who's shirt this is), but you don't know for sure. I can see you are cautious with jumping to conclusions, that's a good thing, so indeed no reason to go nuclear. But on the other hand, I don't think it's helpful right now to give advice like "improve yourself, eat healthy, etc.". You're obviously not looking for this long term advice that has more to do with you as a person and not with this dark clo…
/r/askTRP18/09/16 02:07 PM
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She still there?
/r/askTRP18/09/16 01:29 PM
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I like these posts as well. Short and personal experience. To counter-balance the long and theoretical articles from the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 10:08 AM
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I wasn't able to post another message after my long post from yesterday, but I wanted to thank you for writing this out. Your message is very clear and honest, and I liked reading it because of your formatting and style.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 11:08 AM
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Starting small and not overdoing it are golden. That's the only thing that is working for me right now, struggling with different parts of my life. I'm kind of new to TRP (halfway through the sidebar) and since everybody is suggesting to start lifting (as it is a cornerstone habit) I started lifting weights and doing exercises at home five weeks ago. I have been lifting on and off in the past, usually doing nothing for weeks and than suddenly feeling an urge to lift. Ofcourse me ending up doing …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 07:32 PM
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