| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 21 | How can I help a friend with absolutely zero self esteem?I hadn't thought about that. It may be true, she usually acts like that with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 09:22 PM |
| 27 | How can I help a friend with absolutely zero self esteem?It's infuriating because the doctor I spoke about is the best in the city. She is famous for her work with girls with eating disorders. I thought that the therapist that works with her would have been awesome... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:56 PM |
| 7 | Guys know that the problem is not purely their looksOf course. I just meant that if a guy is average/ugly, but is in shape and takes care of himself + he is a decent human being with a bit of social skills, some girl will probably be attracted to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:25 PM |
| 30 | Sex work is always coercion, there is never true consent.I basically said these exact same things to a friend the other day. He didn't find any problem in the act of paying for sex, even if the woman actually doesn't want to have sex with him. Apparently, paying her solves everything 🤦 I then said that I'm repulsed by the fact that someone could enjoy having sex with someone that doesn't really want to. He shrugged and said that that's just how I think about it, but other people can think differently... yeah depraved people do think differently I gues… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 12:40 PM |
| 0 | I'm constantly sexualizedI don't have enough female friends and none of them has a pool unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 07:53 AM |
| 8 | I'm constantly sexualizedI'm so sorry. I was a late bloomer and had a childish body and face until i was 16, so at least i had my childhood. But i'm just lucky. When you are a girl, your childhood ends when your body develops. If you get boobs at 10 years old, you're done being a child and that's it. It's horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 01:43 AM |
| 15 | I'm constantly sexualizedI actually started therapy a few months ago. It's too early to tell, but i'm very positive and my therapist is awesome. Thank you so much for your advices♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 03:05 PM |
| 20 | I'm constantly sexualizedI stopped owning my femininity too. Even when i go to clubs i dress badly because i'm afraid of being molested (spoiler: it doesn't work anyway). During the last months i started dressing feminine again. It's hard, but at least i dress how i want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 02:23 PM |
| 14 | I'm constantly sexualizedIt depends. Usually they stop, but i'm never able to be truly mean with them to make them feel like shit. I should do that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 01:15 PM |
| 40 | I'm constantly sexualizedI was thinking about taking up a self defense class. Not because of my friends, but to feel stronger and more confident | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 01:06 PM |
| 35 | I'm constantly sexualizedThank you😊. I don't think they are my friends. They do love me but in a way that is not enough. To them I am a friend and they are there for me, but also they'll always see me as a woman. I'll never just be a friend like the other guys. Some of them are incapable of being truly friends with a girl. Don't worry though, I'll get rid of them. For now, i have some girlfriends and a lovely boyfriend (that btw has tons of girl friends because e does see women as people). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 10:56 AM |
| 24 | I'm constantly sexualizedYeah they should. This is middle school behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 10:49 AM |
| 12 | "In my head, girls are clean"😒You're doing a great job! I'm really scared of having a boy in the future for this reason | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 04:30 PM |
| 21 | "In my head, girls are clean"😒He probably wants her to be underage because underage girls are more naive and can be easily manipulated by older guys. They usually also think that older guys are cooler | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 04:27 PM |
| 19 | "In my head, girls are clean"😒He never speaks about anime, but i bet he watches hentai | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 02:22 PM |
| 24 | "In my head, girls are clean"😒Yep that was me with him when i was 17. He didn't touch me though because he was almost scared of doing it (he is super fucked up). I'm gonna try to get away from that group. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 10:54 AM |
| 45 | "In my head, girls are clean"😒Oh god... He'd be so traumatized | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 10:20 AM |
| 53 | "In my head, girls are clean"😒Don't worry, he has never done anything like it and i've known him for 10 years. He is the "shy" and quiet type🙄 Ironically, he comes off as very respectful towards girls, because he actually never does anything bad (never speaks about his experiences with girls, never molests them, never touches anyone). He is just very very sick inside. He's the proof that you can't trust anyone😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 08:52 AM |
| 45 | "In my head, girls are clean"😒For now, it is. With covid and everything it's very hard to change friendships and meeting new people (i'm also very bad at that in general). It's just us two in the group. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 08:46 AM |
| 100 | "In my head, girls are clean"😒There is no doubt he hates himself. He knows he's sick. I already told my girlfriend who's in this group of friends. She was baffled. We are trying to get out of this, but it's so hard because the friendships are all connected and we are all very bonded (these are all friends from high school and some even from middle school). I want to escape so badly 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 08:33 AM |
| 145 | "In my head, girls are clean"😒Omg😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 08:24 AM |
| 135 | "In my head, girls are clean"😒Surprisingly, he is a different kind of sick. He doesn't touch girls. I know because we had a small "thing" when we were younger (I know, that's gross but oh well). We barely kissed and he barely touched me. That's not normal of course. I can't imagine what goes on in his mind.🤦 He must be so porn sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 08:13 AM |
| 34 | Doja with another anthem 👸 scrotes ain't shit, can't pay rentDoja is a weird pickme. She wants to be fds and in some ways sometimes she is, but her lyrics/music videos are waayy too sexual. Her new song "need to know" is not it at all. Also she did "best friend" with saweetie. It's a good song with a strong message about the importance of female friendship, but she just had to throw in a line about her friend twerking in the strip club... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Beware of "men are programmed to cheat" and fake woke scrotes saying cool girls are "real women"Incels do say that hypergamy is biology. They use it as a point to say that women are gold diggers by nature 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 07:03 AM |
| 42 | Are there men who don't look at porn?I'm dating a man (22) who watched porn before dating me and for a few months while dating me (I hadn't discovered FDS yet, so there was nothing wrong for me). During my FDS lurking phase, I started realizing a lot of stuff, especially about porn, so I shared some articles with him and we started speaking a lot about it. Not long after, he told me he wanted to quit and he did. It's been a few months now and he is very happy and proud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 07:23 AM |
| 22 | A friendly reminder on flairs.Thank you for this post! I've never really understood how all of this worked. My account is more than one year old and i've been on this sub for months, yet all of my comments or posts get removed and they never get accepted by mods. I've never had a flair. No matter what I write, it's always the same and it has been like that for months. And I never posted anything against FDS. At this point I would love to even have the pickmeisha flair, just to be able to post and comment. I don't know what t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Don’t change your last name for a manI baffles me that this is still normal in the US. In Europe this "tradition" has been dead for.. I don't even know.. centuries? Not even our great grandmothers took they're husband's last name after marriage. It's something so outdated that I cannot believe it's still going on in the United States!!! How is this possible? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 11:30 AM |
| 1 | “Does my emotional support woman have to just put up with my shit or INSPIRE me to wipe my own ass? WheRe IS ThE LiNE?!” - The ruminations of an uninspired scrote:I think that a partner should inspire you to be a better person, but of course it has to be mutual and it doesn't have to be explicit. Inspiring someone to be a better person doesn't mean teaching them to clean their underwear. It could just mean that I've learned something today and I share it with them, so that they are inspired to learn more about it. It's little things. But again, it has to be mutual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:28 AM |
| 1 | iT's JuST a PrAnK dOn'T bE sO dRaMaTiC (TW: Abuse resulting in death, sexual assault)I've read that this is a false claim. She was luckily not pregnant. Still horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:18 AM |
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