OnTheWayToPUA Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	[FR] - Day out in the park - First post		OnTheWayToPUA	/r/seduction	27/06/12 08:59 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Go out and meet people It's a numbers game dude! Some guy made a big post of how in a city of 1 million people ideally he would only be compatible with/attracted to 1 thousand of these. So what's the best thing to do? Just keep going! Just because you may not get the results you wanted (sex/kiss/whatever) doesn't mean it's time wasted because it's still practice!	/r/seduction	30/06/15 11:59 AM
1	19M Got led on pretty bad now I feel dumb She may have just seen you two as just friends or seen you as a BFF which is why she didn't see anything wrong with cuddling or maybe she just liked the attention and the feeling since she wasn't getting it from her boyfriend (if they are fighting/going through a rough patch?). Either way you're best bet in my opinion is to cut the cuddling and any attempts at escalation. Just think of her as one of you're guy friends! I used to have a lot of problems talking to girl throughout the years! If you…	/r/seduction	30/06/15 11:54 AM
1	What would be the point of not telling me she has a boyfriend? This. This post needs to be higher, so many comments in this thread are making out girls need to be 100% bitchy and shut you down straight away or they're willing to cheat. What about being friendly and having some fun?	/r/seduction	17/03/15 03:39 PM
1	Guys who went from bad, to good with holding conversations, tell us how you did it. Two of the biggest things that I found help me with conversation are: 1) Learning to branch of key words. for example, if she says she spent last summer going travelling when she finished college, here you have the opportunity to ask about what she's studying, what university she attends, where did she go travelling, does she like it, who did she like it, what was her favourite please she visited. I find the best way to keep the conversation going is too keep this in mind but don't just ask anyt…	/r/seduction	01/09/14 09:09 AM
1	A [FR] about a Monday utilizing my machine gun mode. Hey dude, thanks ! It seems like something really interesting to do. I'll have to give it a try soon !!	/r/seduction	18/07/12 10:00 PM
5	A [FR] about a Monday utilizing my machine gun mode. Upvote for going super sayian ! haha Could you give an example of "machine gun mode", it sounds good!	/r/seduction	18/07/12 10:59 AM
1	Some thoughts/advice on improving yourself, not defining yourself by a woman, and losing "oneitis"... Great post! I really had to save this, it is a great reminder that things do take practice and will not just happen over night and that even at times when you don't see yourself improving from trying it is still happening.	/r/seduction	17/07/12 12:46 AM
3	A Summary Of Mindset Changes Great post ! definitely saved. Would be worth putting in the sidebar.	/r/seduction	16/07/12 11:57 PM
1	r/seduction, I feel like a failure. Well an example could be when say you approach someone at a movie store who is deciding between two movies. You could have the normal approach as in hi, how are you ... or you could do that and put come energy into it. Get enthusiastic about the movies and build some excitment.Then lead to other things from how the conversation is going. A lot can of people tend to reach to how you sound also like if you say things in a boring voice they usually wont be interested but if you start to get excited…	/r/seduction	14/07/12 11:56 PM
1	r/seduction, I feel like a failure. Next time try opening with high energy. Usually the energy you put into someone is the energy you get out of them. If you can make things seem exciting/high energy they will get drawn into the conversation and help more.	/r/seduction	14/07/12 11:27 PM
1	My opinion on why society thinks nice guys finish last I really agree with this. Some nice guys always do everything to please others and gain approval of women and their peers around them. It is very beta. They do things with strings attached. They follow a train of thought that if I be nice to them they will do something i.e in the case of women they will reward them with sex which is not usually the case. But you can still be nice to people without doing it for approval you come across less needy. I was a typical nice guy, I was always doing thin…	/r/seduction	14/07/12 11:24 PM
2	In this thread, we share blog and book suggestions for the Seddit community There is a lot in this http://seddit2.pbworks.com/w/page/52521271/Books%20and%20Audio. I found it via a comment a few days ago. I have started reading How To Win Friends And Influence and would recommend it, its very interesting !	/r/seduction	14/07/12 11:13 PM
2	Are white knights overwhelming Seddit? But it is not always a terrible idea. My ex-girlfriend had a boyfriend when I first started talking to her a lot as a friend, but we were began to get mutually attracted to each other so yes she did eventually break up with her boyfriend for me which lead to a 3 and a half year LTR. If I based everything on the fact that she had a boyfriend and I had an obligation to somebody who I had no affiliation with in any way I would have missed out on nearly 4 amazing years, if she felt it was wrong to k…	/r/seduction	04/07/12 01:21 AM
1	[FR] - Day out in the park - First post Thanks :), Didnt really see the point in a K-Close when there's no attraction. It is just leading her on.	/r/seduction	27/06/12 11:53 PM
1	[FR]Ex almost confessed that we are more than just friends. Great job on saying no :D he really does sound like he just wants sex as you said he had to much pride before to ask so it obvious he isn't getting anything and is trying to use you as a quick fix !	/r/seduction	27/06/12 09:02 AM
1	It looks like there are only a small handful of cities that have Seddit lairs. Why don't we post where we're from and potentially start some new lairs? Dublin, Ireland - 19	/r/seduction	26/06/12 11:48 PM
1	Help me break my stigma against learning seduction/PUA I've always seen doing something for the sole purpose of getting laid a miserable, base, and subhuman thing to do. Hey man, just about this this community is more about just learning how to get laid, I have been lurking here for the past month and am starting to get and practice things. One big thing I found about this whole community as it says on the said is it’s a self-improvement reddit too. It doesn’t teach you magic words or phrases that make women want to sleep with you. What it helps you…	/r/seduction	24/06/12 02:28 AM
1	[FR] F-Close HB Model Hey man i'm pretty new to this been lurking for a while now but I remember reading something put up here to deal with: Also, there were few moments that had silences where neither of us spoke. I’m thinking maybe this helps build sexual tension or it could just be awkward (it’s only awkward if you make it awkward). Thoughts? It basically said the silences are only awkward if you let them become awkward, you should feel comfortable and it causes the other person to start thinking about something t…	/r/seduction	19/06/12 11:21 PM