Hey guys, been lurking for a while now and have finally began to try and get some actual experience.

Background info: Met this girl on a site like OKCupid, looked like a HB7 in photo's turned out to be a HB5/6 when we met up, oh well still might have fun. Set up a date to the park after a 2 or 3 days of texting, for three days later (Weather was terrilble).

Met up with her in the afternoon at a big park in the city centre, great place to walk around in and left the whole city open because it was near the middle of it so we could easily go somewhere else if we were having fun. Gave her a hug worked great to relax her because she was pretty nervous (first time meeting) also a good way to start kino.

Spent some time walking around making small talk about college, school because she had repeated her final year to try get into a new course and disney movies because she was wearing a little mermaid t-shirt and teasing her about things, like how she said she was pretty small and was small enough compared to me because i was 5' 9 and she was 5' 2 and how she said she was going to race but she was then chickened out. Also had some competitions balancing on the rails seeing who could get further was a bit of fun.

We knew most of the city centre but there were some parks we had never been so i suggested we should go adventuring! She was pretty up to it because neither of us knew where we were going.

We ended up in another park and sat down for a while. I started a little grass fight, threw a small bit of grass at her which she returned and it started getting a bit worse, was a great way so esculate kino by helping here get rid of the grass since it was on her back in her hair.

She started to try grab the grass from my hand alot which lead to a bit of holding hands while having a great grass fight and lying on the grass for a while. Got alot of smiles and laughs and she kept mirroring how I was sitting so a few ioi's knew she was interested.

Explored a bit more after that and walked her to there bus stop before heading home. Probably could of K-closed in the park but didn't want to wasn't attracted.

In the end it was a good day, she enjoyed it and it was a bit of fun.

TIL: * To be confident and take control of the situation (she was so indecisive about doing things it would have ended bad) * Pay attention to what she says, was great for building conversations and stopped too many silences. * And went out outcome independant (I think) just went out to have a good day nothing else.

Thoughts/Criticisms?