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Wrong. I never said they weren’t guilty of that. Struggle/struggled/ can’t figure it out is a pretty all encompassing statement, don’t ya think? I doubt they truly want to be there, but dating dynamic places them there. Hell ya there is some “this is where I’m at, therefore this is what I wanted” reasoning To protect the remaining dignity. If they went down the path, then they were obviously non-hackers in some way. We aren’t in disagreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:18 PM
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You understand that the pill communities literally exist for the ones that struggle/struggled/or can’t seem to figure it all out, right? So yeah, there’s going to be a lot of confusion. Like always. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:09 PM
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Is a man that is 35-45 and a relationship virgin really in a position to dictate things like this? A guy in this position really has to take what he can get to rack up experience. And don’t feel bad doing it, it’s not like these guys are the ultimate Casanovas that will wreck a women’s emotions for life. Lol. Get what you can get, learn what you can learn from it, try to be a good partner along the way, move on and or upgrade when you can. Everyone will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:02 PM
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We are supposed to be nice and genuinely nice, so these things mean nothing as an offering. If anyone has to fall back on anything related to “nice “, it’s an admission that you have nothing beyond that to offer. No guy of any true desirability and dating success even thinks about the whole nice guy conundrum, but can you guess what other demographic of guys thinks about it a lot? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:19 PM
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For your future sake, I challenge you to this: ask the most successfully dating guys that you know, or the happiest married guys that you know, if they know what the red and black pills are, or if they are into that kind of content. After that, ask the loneliest and the most unsuccessfully dating men that you know, the exact same question. This should tell you everything you need to know going forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:46 AM
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Would that surprise you here on Reddit, In “the pill” world?….C’mon, remember where you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:57 AM
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You make it sound like women won’t settle but men happily will.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:45 AM
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Plot twist: the guys dating average women are just average too. Just because average guys think they deserve more or merely want more, doesn’t mean more wants them back. They wouldn’t be there to begin with if “more” truly wanted them back. I love how people respect free markets of all types, but then when it comes to dating every guy is coochie-communist all of a sudden. Quit pretending like theses guys are compromising, or taking one for the team. They are exactly where the dating market place…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:33 AM
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They are mandatory for the dysfunctional. But all of the grown ups shouldn’t have to use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:17 AM
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I checked out at “as you already know, it’s harder for men to date”. It’s usually a pretty good indicator of a guys experience and knowledge of dating. But have fun with getting mad about things that didn’t happen to you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:59 AM
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No, I just am not experienced at Reddit and messed up. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:53 AM
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I meant for this to go to OP: if you had this figured out this post wouldn’t exist. You’d be out enjoying dating. I’ve ripped two Dr’s off of of apps in the past few years. It works when done right. I know I sound coarse and critical, but I called my first date on a rotary phone and the last time I used Bumble I matched with all 5 I picked. I am excuse proof at this point. I want well for you. As 43 year old guy that has had an amazing dating life (my material success is not as high as it could …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:49 AM
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If you think that’s true, and you are actually doing that, I honestly think you have a lot to learn and or are operating on questionable 2nd hand knowledge. I’m 43, never married, no kids, high body count. Right now I’m dating a 29 year old. Ive have had pretty much nothing but good dating experiences and have dated out of my league many times, but mostly because I’m fun and can elicit feelings. I’ve been doing this for almost 30 years, what are the chances that you know better than me? Honestly…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:31 AM
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It’s you, or it’s the other people that are also frustrated. It’s Not the apps, it’s not society, it’s not dating. I crush it on Bumble. What are you doing wrong? Dating is so simple it’s silly. If you aren’t having success (in any form) you’re doing something wrong. But people like you can’t take accountability, and blame outward.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:02 AM
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Women open doors for the men they want, and close doors on the ones they don’t, and money is an easy excuse to shut guys out. I lived with a doctor/yoga instructor pulling 250K while making $20 an hour. Coincidentally, money is not only used an excuse to eliminate men. It also is an excuse for men who can’t compel women. “The ol she only wants rich guys BS” Know that if money is involved in any way, in your wins or loses with women, you’re on the wrong track heading the wrong direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:47 AM
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Oh it’s not an “all of us” problem. You’d like it to be, wouldn’t you? Listen to all of your complaints. When nothing and no one measures up, it’s clearly the measuring tape that’s broken The desirable receive interest. The lovable get loved. Don’t kid yourself otherwise. Have fun with all of your complicated ranting and rationalizing mental gymnastics. It will get you nowhere. You will be disappointed when you find out where lying to yourself takes you in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:10 AM
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If she isn’t reciprocating its not a macro problem or systemic problem. It’s a micro problem; it’s not a good match, you aren’t as fun or interesting as you think you are, she’s a dud, you’re a dud, your trying to convince or negotiate desire, etc. Point being is that something is going wrong somewhere. Anytime I hear people speaking in generalities about dating that are also coming from a place of struggle in dating, I realize that they aren’t a good benchmark or reference point to go off of. G…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:18 PM
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A hammer can’t see anything other than nails. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:49 PM
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I don’t think we should concern ourselves too much with what the sexless 50% are doing. Because whatever it is, it’s not working. Lol Only here on Reddit do I even hear about any of this stuff being a problem. Most people I know probably haven’t even heard of an incel or know what the red pill means. Outside of Reddit, and maybe YouTube nobody is worried about this stuff. Yet here is a demographic obsessed with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:39 PM
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What are the chances that reality is currently broken? Honestly? Life is life. I know men would love the out of saying something is wrong and it’s not them. There is a population of men out there struggling for legit but unfortunate reasons. Blame porn, blame social media, blame whatever, but dating always has and always will come down to the individual and be a reflection of the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:23 PM
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Please explain how a man can be considered top-tier or even mid-tier if his own biologically given counterpart has zero interest in him. A man who can’t compel someone to mate with them literally means that the species isn’t interested in his brand, plus it would end our species if it happened on a large scale. The dating free market has spoken. Biologically and fundamentally speaking, you couldn’t fail ANY more as a human, then by failing to perpetuate the species. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:07 PM
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Not the case. And I’m a man. I’m not saying these things to kiss female ass, this is what I see every day. The women with kids are still obligated to figure out how to not let the kids suffer. Lol. The lone man that wanders in only hurts himself directly with his failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:51 PM
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Sorry we can get back to crying about simps since you are clearly more comfortable with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:43 PM
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You said those jobs are low tier, not me. I was talking about low l-tier men that “seem to still want what is due to them” when the universe has already delivered it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:42 PM
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Different people do different things in society. I love when men expect thanks for a job they never actually did, and act like they deserve a parade of blowjobs and steak dinners for paying a tiny portion of their income to taxes so other people don’t die. Let me guess “pay my wages too” don’t ya. Lol. Tell me what type of full time job you work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:39 PM
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Simping never ruined any part of dating for guys who are even half-way desirable. If simp’s hurt a man’s game he should just realize that he has none. The only group of guys that are hurt by simps are the guys who are just as desperate as them but don’t dole out which really only puts them one notch above simps on the hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:32 PM
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I don’t think you know as much about the social services system as you think you do. Don’t confuse passion or a strong opinion for actual knowledge or experience. **Remember anything is possible when you have absolutely no idea what you are talking about*
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:20 PM
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Another post where the bottom-tier men want to borrow from and identify with the collective accomplishments and good deeds of other higher-tier men so that they can hopefully receive the same benefits and perks as them, regardless of individual merit. I work at a County Human Services building giving out Food and Med assistance. It is 90% women working there to take care of society and make the county function. And I can tell you with this type of real world experience, you would be surprised by…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:57 PM
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Like primo young women are sitting around and just waiting for a guy in his 30’s and 40’s who recently got his shit together. Lol. Her: “cool, I was waiting for someone who is 10 years older than me but has accomplished nothing beyond me. Wow, I hope he puts a baby in me”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:19 PM
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Its a case of “sour grapes” thinking. These men pull that card because nothing else here is working out for them, and going somewhere else where the bar is lower is probably their only realistic option to get their win. As a kid I remember my grandpa always told me “true love is all about finding someone who’s at a worse situational disadvantage than you so that they can’t afford to tell you no.” (Probably didn’t happen that way)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:03 PM
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Let’s be honest, The only people who feel this way are the guys who aren’t getting what they want or aren’t getting what they think they deserve. No guy that’s winning has this perspective. Imagine calling all of reality broken and saying it should be fixed so you can get pussy, instead of looking at it individually and facing the truths of YOUR particular situation and yours alone. If a man can’t even run his own little world effectively, he shouldn’t waste a second worrying about the big pictu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:25 PM
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The money game is for men who have nothing else compelling to bring to the table. If you can’t gain female interest without money in the picture, you aren’t dating, you’re purchasing. A broke guy who is capable of eliciting actual feelings is a Greek god compared to a fucking dork with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:54 AM
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The “free drinks and meals” people sound like a bunch of middle school kids sitting around and talking about what they imagine dating is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:33 PM
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It is pretty telling of someone’s dating knowledge and their standing in the dating market when the subject of “free drinks and meals” is brought up as even a minor concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:08 AM
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I misunderstood, my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:00 PM
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I hope you don’t own a gun
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:51 PM
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Sidestep problems rather than face them. That’s totally what real men do. Sounds completely reasonable. Let’s just do a never mind, You are clearly disconnected from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:49 PM
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Except no one wants the ones demanding. Thats why it is the way it is already. There will be no great reckoning. Live in the now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:40 PM
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Im making fun of option 1 because it’s born of pure weakness and insecurity. It’s non reality and deserves no consideration or even idealization. Too many guys get hung up on how things “otta be” and the next stop is toxicity town.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:17 PM
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Let’s be honest, option 1 is pretty much what every struggling hardcore R-piller seems to want. Think about it. They never have to feel insecure and their flaws will never cost them loss. They will never have to fear that she has had a better lay. They will never have to worry about the dreaded hypergamy. It’s kinda funny. Then there’s option 2, as a normal and healthy choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:49 PM
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It was never an A or B situation. Get only good conversation or get only good looks. It’s entirely possible that you lack enough experience with the very people you are essentially reverse discriminating against to truly know. Surely you don’t think that a pannus is how you know if they are a “good one” lol. But it’s very possible that it’s just the one that you feel comfortable or feel safe with. One of the girls I’m dating can run 2 marathons a month, and honestly that’s pretty damn interestin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:13 AM
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There is no question mark in your question for men. For the record, hypergamy is generally only happening to a certain portion of men. Let’s be real, It’s the guys who just aren’t compelling enough to keep women around for one reason or another. Let’s not pretend that it’s a systemic problem plaguing everyone, Because It isn’t. I recently matched on all 6 swipes on bumble and I’m not even a traditionally high value man. If a guy isn’t succeeding with women there are reasons for that. Pills are o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:39 PM
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It’s not that simple. Just one example: most men can’t even relate to what it’s like to be a 5’1” 110lb woman who could literally be physically victimized by almost any partner, boyfriend, suitor, date, stranger etc that she has ever had or met, should they have chosen to do so. People become stalkers. People get nasty when they are hurt. If it paid off every time, everyone would be doing it every time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:39 PM
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I wouldn’t, but I don’t need to either. I can admit that I have probably spent half of that on dating apps over the past 10 years, or pissed away $500 on useless stuff. But I didn’t want to settle down, and so it has been great. But in the end you have actually convinced me. $500 is pretty insignificant for a struggling persons best relationship prospect. You are right. Imagine the screams when some unrealistic people are finally professionally paired with what is their true dating equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:27 PM
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Perhaps so. If it works for them that’s all that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:15 PM
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I see what you are saying. It just sounds like paying money to push 2 awkward and inexperienced people onto stage together and hoping they can make a good show of it. It reminds me of the movie “The Lobster”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:11 PM
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Because if you can’t date successfully, isn’t that at least a partial indicator that you won’t hold down relationships successfully? Skipping the work sounds nice to guys who aren’t faring well, but where do you think the relationship skills that one takes into their successful “serious relationship” come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:53 PM
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Imagine believing that women should apologize for wanting to do the best that they can In dating. Imagine believing that it’s more likely that the “system of dating is broken” rather than some of the individuals within it actually being the problem. Imagine thinking that a woman can only be beautiful for 5-10 years and then believing that they should still want to be with a person who thinks that. Imagine thinking that women owe it to men to “come back down to earth” to comfort the lonely and bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:37 PM
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Don’t you know the “system is just broken so the good guys get overlooked”? “Dating was ruined by apps….” “Social media has ruined women….” “Feminism is the real problem…..” “Western women are just more difficult…..” Guys who have failed to adapt/succeed, have I missed any?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:58 PM
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Yeah you have time, you are just starting real dating at your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:52 PM
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My last 2 serious girlfriends had Dr. In front of their name. I’ve lived with a woman making $250k while making $46k and there were no problems. So I dated well making 1/5 of her $. what’s your excuse? Call me out all you want, but I think it’s you that has much to learn still. Meanwhile your bitterness is telling of exactly how things are going for you. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:42 PM
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Red pill certainly wants you to think he isn’t. But why are most men blue pill still? Any fantastic product or idea sells itself completely and everyone play along. If men were truly getting screwed wholesale would there be a different result?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:28 AM
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Things change. Guys are so hung up on “providing” because it makes sense in theory. These days providing resources and money is only for guys who can’t provide something else meaningful like; excitement, romance, orgasms, fun, charisma. I’m paycheck to paycheck, no real savings, no retirement, renting, below 6’, 140lbs and my dating experience is well above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:21 AM
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Like I wasn’t ever your age…lol. I feel like you are the guy who doesn’t know much about cars but would argue with the mechanic anyway. If you are even considering hookers, you aren’t fairing well in dating. If you aren’t faring well in dating at least have some humble, instead of arguing with everyone as if you have it handled. I can tell you don’t. But keep doing your thing since you have it all figured out and enjoy the sour grapes of your dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:57 PM
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You sure it’s not? You seem to have qualms with having to be groomed (as if it’s work). A person’s opinions will tell you everything about their experiences. Your attitude tells all. The available women are trash? That’s funny cause 2 of my last 3 gf’s had Dr. in front of their name and you should see my current one. I have a great time dating. Sounds like YOU don’t. “This is hard, should we quit and exploit other humans instead?” Is not podium worthy, because you’re clearly still the student, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:37 PM
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No you’re not. This is a cry post where you make dating and being your best self sound harder than trench warfare in Verdun 1917. The ONLY difference your drew between hookers and dating was “the validation of seduction and attraction”. Are you even qualified by real world dating success to tell us what dating is and isn’t? I’m not convinced. You can use vulnerable and or trafficked humans (pick of the litter right?)for your sexual desires and give up on dating: There, you have permission now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:53 PM
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I love it when posts start out with something similar to this: “It’s common knowledge that most men can’t get a date. That’s 100% agreed upon. Any woman can have 100 men at her door on the same day. It’s just facts” This kinda stuff is an outside-looking-in level of understanding. Maybe if a guy can’t get a date it’s not a systemic problem, but the person themselves or the circle they run in. Enough with the pouty “poor us” posts. Do you all really want or need pity? Need the validation of your …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:17 AM
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No person (regardless of gender) wants to go a notch down from something they perceive as better. What guys call an “Alpha Widow” is more just a girl who isn’t ready to move on from someone they idealized and less a status measuring/chasing monster that wants to deny everyone because they aren’t “good enough”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:16 AM
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It seems like the only people who think that having lots of sexual experiences is tainting are the ones who don’t have very many sexual opportunities/ experiences or the people who are insecure. Experiencing a variety of people sexually is extremely fun. Have you actually tried it? You only live once. No one is tattooing your body count on your arm either. You don’t have to share personal info with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:23 PM
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The title to this post tells all. It sounds like this person is not winning and they are bitter. It seems like the only people who think that having lots of sexual experiences is tainting are the ones who don’t have very many sexual opportunities/ experiences or the people who are insecure. Experiencing a variety of people sexually is extremely fun. Have you actually tried it? You only live once. No one is tattooing your body count on your arm either. You don’t have to share personal info with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:22 PM
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Even if a woman finally says “yeah, you have it harder”, what’s your win? Her pity? Validation? Lol. Ask yourself how attractive it is for guys seeking these things? Women never wanted or needed to hear your struggles. Quit bad guying them for it. Your boss doesn’t want to hear your struggles. Your friends and family to a degree, don’t want to hear your struggles. Why would they? Have people not figured this out? No woman is looking for a “solid argument” on the matter either. Quit kidding yours…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:07 PM
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Blah blah blah. Women do this. Whine, blame, Complain, women do that. Blah, blah….
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:00 AM
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It’s well known at this point that there are gobs of young men retreating into electronic escapism these days. Pale, twig armed, unsociable guys who can be the winner in an alternate reality. But I digress. So…… you’ve always had a girl since 15 So…….you’ve lifted weights and gained, and now the girls aren’t even measuring up to you in your eyes. So…….you’ve learned how to be more confident So what exactly are you frustrated about with dating here dude? Are you complaining out of habit? You’ve j…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:51 AM
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But consider this: how many young men picked up video game controllers instead of weights? How many young men withdrew into computers, anime, tech, or whatever, instead of choosing to being outwardly social or participate in team or group activities? Of course it’s hard if these kinds of things are the case. Guys shouldn’t be so foolish to expect otherwise. “Dating is hard and unfair!” Understand that You can’t have hard feelings towards something and simultaneously succeed within it Consider th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:28 PM
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I do not a agree. And then there is this: I have never seen the word “most” get more abused than on PPD. What me might see tomorrow: “100% of women can have their dream man so they don’t understand that most men have to marry Seals wearing a wig” CMV “Most women won’t even call 911 for a man who is on fire if he’s under 6’2”, because they are too busy trying to get free meals and make you raise other men’s kids” CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:13 AM
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*most men you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:40 AM
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What? Painting with a pretty big and sad broad brush there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:37 AM
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The irony is that you made her listen to low value guy stuff (like complaining) as you tried to persuade her about the righteous plight of low value men. *difficult for some men. There, I fixed your title.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:34 AM
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Social work/ human services, 90% women. A good portion of the posts here sound like they are written by middle school kids imagining what male-female interactions are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:03 PM
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I know a ton of outdoorsy women who don’t use it at all. They don’t give into pressure over it. They do whatever they want. They aren’t driven by insecurity, they are driven by other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:31 PM
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Nah. I work with 90% women in an office of hundreds everyday, and I have an excellent dating history. Neither of these experiences have shown me that women are living in the described makeup fear. It would be easy to imagine such a situation based on how society works, but the days of women fretting over stuff like this are disappearing as the world changes. Some men just want to think that they are fretting and weak in this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:43 PM
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It is already normal. Why do some people think that applying some makeup is a sentence all women must carry out, or like going deep undercover, or a form of significant and malicious deception? Women do whatever they want involving makeup constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:34 PM
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Well, I guess we just need to get the dating fairness police involved on this one. So that right away, the world can start beating a path to the doorsteps of all introverted Redditors. Never mind developing all the commonly desired things that illicit good feelings in most people. Dating success will always be a function of providing others with something that is valued by them(feelings, experiences, beauty, companionship, lifestyle, whatever). And it is a self regulating market, like it or not.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:39 AM
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If you are truly fun and adventurous you don’t need money. Women only start looking at money when there is nothing else more compelling sitting on the table for them to enjoy. Dude I make $18 an hour, have no savings, and have no retirement. My GF has done modeling and is a yoga instructor on the side. Never underestimate how far learning how to illicit the right feelings in a woman will take you. Becoming fun, exciting, creatively romantic and doing adventurous things will serve you with or wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:54 PM
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Send me all the links to articles written by nobodies in non-scientific journals that you want. I’ve had 52 partners and it’s been fantastic. I did it again this weekend and it was still fantastic! Where are you in experience on this? Have you yourself had both many partners and long term monogamy to compare? (Those were both rhetorical questions, because no who has legit experience in both would write this post)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:16 PM
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You are right on. If someone has a highly attractive physique, and it’s doing nothing for them, then I promise that the actual attraction problem lies elsewhere with the person. Looking and feeling your best is always a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:54 PM
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If that’s your preference, that’s totally ok. People are different. To me the situation (generally speaking)looks a lot like “Dogs and Bones”. Dogs love chewing on bones. They truly enjoy them and actively want them, Right? Not really, Dogs want T-bone steaks. They would walk away from that bone as soon as the possibility of a steak presented itself. But the steak was never really an option for them, so they are quite content to chew on bones, aren’t they? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:45 PM
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STI’s are largely preventable and many of the common ones are generally low consequence and curable (of course the ones like Herpes are more difficult, but it’s really more of a nuisance that can be managed). HPV has a vaccine. Consensual and casual sex are generally not a life altering, high stakes game my dude. Why are you making this stuff sound like life or death?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:28 PM
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A lot of guys want to act like they chose MGTOW. But it seems more like a “sour grapes” based philosophy. There is some notable toxicity in the community. There’s nothing wrong with it. But at the same time, how much should the world clap for guys who said “I can’t win, and I’m pissed. So I’m not going to play anymore”?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:48 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:13 PM
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If your dating life isn’t going well, or going how you want it too, at least have the humble to admit that you might be doing something wrong. Have the courage to face the possibility that it’s not the men or women, it’s not the world, it’s not the fate you were given, and that it could be a YOU thing. You might need to change something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:12 PM
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Sorry, I try to be more argumentative in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:35 PM
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Everyone wants someone fit and hot. But Not everyone has the bargaining chips to get someone who’s fit and hot. Thats hard for some people to accept. A ton of people are confused about who their true dating counterparts really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:11 PM
5

Because 50% guys here would instantly over-give and pay for the meal on their own, and then get nice-guy pissed about it later when things don’t work out. The other 50% have so little real world experience that they just are imagining that’s what happens. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:03 PM
0

Here we are discussing the non existent ramifications of a problem that doesn’t exist. Get out more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:40 PM
1

Nobody who wins would say that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:45 PM
1

My girlfriend would rather self-immolate than spend significant time here. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:30 AM
0

You willfully participate in this toxic mess, and as a woman?!? I’m new here and I already figured out it’s the land of the lost, but you seem invested…lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:19 AM
1

You have the red pill echo chamber talking points, you have the skeleton key that unlocks winning in life. What do you need me for?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:12 AM
1

Where did it say CMV? Am I not meeting this group’s high bar for toxicity with this post? We can talk about anime or something if that makes you (and many others probably) more comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:44 AM
2

Sounds like you got this handled. Have fun doing whatever it is that you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:23 AM
2

Aaaaannnnnddddd…..let’s thank this individual for almost instantly outing themselves as this post’s subject incarnate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:07 AM
1

**Is it not abundantly clear that this person is a benchwarmer of dating? These are not the thoughts of a person who has it figured out or that has ever tasted winning in dating** Quit wasting your time and energy on this pity party of a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:31 PM
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*and merely wanting certain traits doesn’t really matter if the wanting party can’t offer enough in trade to get said desirable traits. There’s no shortage of people who want the best, but bring something far lessor to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:36 PM
1

“there are some types of water that I can’t have, therefore I never wanted them. Yes that’s it.” “water is hard for me to find, so it is also hard for all of you to find too” “ 99% of the water supply goes to the top 1% of water drinkers anyway, so you should give up on life In general. Hey have you ever watched anime?”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:56 AM
5

It’s bananas. The people who clearly, and I mean clearly, know the least about what’s going on are the ones who want to soap box. Whatever happened to young guys having a half ounce of healthy self-doubt? When life doesn’t seem to be working out as expected or things start to seem a little twisted, maybe it’s something with the self that needs to change a little…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 01:55 AM
1

You should check your perspective and the thoughts that you let worm around inside your head. They aren’t serving you my friend. Don’t think that you can simultaneously think the worst of women and then have great experiences with them. Lol. You sound frustrated and bitter. But mostly you sound inexperienced. Have some humble and consider changing your perspective on dating. I’m quite sure you currently have nothing to lose and everything to gain by doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:44 PM
1

Ive been girl crazy my whole life. I have dated very successfully, as women were my focus. Looking back, I could have accomplished way more in career/business side of life if I had a different focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:28 PM
1

Are you even 30? Have you successfully dated in your 30’s? Have you been married? This is a speculative, immature, and commoditizing view of partners and relationships. Why even lend your mind to this kind of thought when you could invest it in actually making something good out of a more realistic situation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:12 PM
2

Until you have more than one example of small dick being the problem in your relationship, I’d slow your roll. I certainly wouldn’t be searching for societal examples of problems that didn’t happen to you or taking on the worry of cases that you’ve merely heard of. Get good at other things, and learn how to elicit feelings in a woman. Don’t dare combine boring with the size thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:40 PM
1

Interesting. I guess regardless of origin, it still seems like a way to justify devaluing someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:43 PM
21

Let’s be honest. The idea of “The wall” is what frustrated guys hold in their hearts as the great equalizer. I’ve rarely If ever, heard a successfully dating guy mention “the wall”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 01:42 PM
0

Quit thinking you have this all wrapped up, You clearly don’t. Have some humble to start looking at it differently. Especially if you feel like you are taking an ass kicking for Christ sake. Instead of wasting your time and efforts trying to further cement yourself into a trench of despair with this kind of stuff, realize that there are people out there who have figured things out that you haven’t. Change or suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 01:10 PM
3

I have a count of 51 at 42 yrs old. Never married, no kids. 5’9” 135lbs. Don’t consider myself top 20% at all. I’ve done serial dating more than picking up women. Top 20% guys can easily pull off 100 or more if count is something they value.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 12:00 PM
3

Absolutely. I’ve dated a woman making 200k while making $20hr because I could show her a good time. Any mid level woman and above, can usually smell not rightness on a guy a mile away. Yet so many keep pointing that finger at the money thing. Remember that a man’s work in dating is initiating. The woman’s work is sorting. Let’s not doubt that they often know exactly what they are doing while sorting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 02:00 AM
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Couldn’t agree more. As soon as I start hearing the vocab words like “Chad”, “betabux”, “cock carousel”, “cuck”, etc I check out immediately. It’s a waste of time to listen to the opinions of the guys who have clearly been left in the dust of dating. I already know better. The problems of these guys are not the reality of other guys. Loneliness just wants company If it ever comes down to money in dating, you have failed in many other categories. And for god sake don’t dare play the money game un…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:45 AM
1

Creates fun situations, not boring, Asks for forgiveness, not permission (within reason), Unpredictable, Doesn’t care what others think of him, Spontaneous, Takes risks, Breaks norms, Makes women feel intense feelings, Unapologetic, Not a people pleaser, Pleases women by challenging them instead of catering to them. and I don’t care if you like this horrible run on paragraph because I’m a bad boy. Jk. But I am, and it has paid dividends over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:29 AM
3

You know she’s into you when she’s into that. I think there is something to be said about this. I’m sure it wanes in the long run over time though even if things are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:33 PM
1

Hooking was almost no one’s first choice man. I’ve done it 2 times for the novelty and it was marginal both times. I won’t do it again. We shouldn’t even kids ourselves by using responsibility avoiding language like “I wonder if I am contributing…” Really? We “wonder….”? Of course we are feeding the machine. Men should face the challenge head on and get better at finding partners, rather than avoiding the challenge and getting good at opening their wallets. Sidestepping the legitimate dating pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 06:30 PM
1

It means to always remember something. A long lasting reminder. Names are etched on headstones to last a long time. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 04:48 PM
1

It doesn’t become an “exception” just because it hasn’t happened for certain guys. Lol. I probably can’t convince you of much but Etch this is your brain because it will serve you: ** bringing money to the table is only for guys who don’t bring anything else to the table that women want**
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:26 PM
1

Dating isn’t “broken”. It never was and It never will be. It is exactly what it will be, whatever that will be. Just because it’s not working out for a portion of the population (certain Reddit members, let’s be honest)doesn’t mean it has gone off the rails or was rigged against men from the beginning. Accepting it for what is is, is the only way. The second a guy says it isn’t what is should be, and hopes for sex robots is the moment a guy becomes his own worst enemy in dating. Just because dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:22 AM
1

I love these kinds of posts... listen, The last 2 girls I lived with were both thin, athletic l, and both had Dr. In front of their names. The whole time I was making $20 an hour in construction. I have No savings. No retirement. No career. Paycheck to paycheck. I weigh 130lbs at 5’9”. Yeah you can’t be a jobless loser. Duh. But I brought value to their lives; I am fun, I provide adventure, I’m college educated so can hold a conversation and I’m funny. I’m good lover. Most of all I help them wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:04 AM
1

OP is right for the most part. There are things that women are observing beyond looks and pleasant conversation at all times. Any quality woman can smell out a bitter, toxic, frustrated, unstable guy almost instantly. Never doubt a quality woman’s ability to sniff out not-rightness on a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:51 AM
3

You’re attitude is 100% telling of your experiences and results. You outed yourself when you wrote this piece. You are sour grapes incarnate. I won’t give you another minute of my time though because you are broken, but you’re getting pretty used to hearing that by now, aren’t ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:30 PM
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Everything you say reeks of dating struggle. Just another guy on this sub who sounds just like the guys who have absolutely zero women to run off. Nobody having a good experience feels like you do, or says the things you do. Have fun with your buddies “keeping it real” man, other guys won’t care. We are too busy having fun with the women that guys like you will probably never be able to have, if you can stomach the real “truth”. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:56 PM
3

If I had a dollar for every dating benchwarmer that soapboxes rookie nonsense “facts” like this, I’d buy a hooker for them, seeing as that will become their only option unless they come around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:29 PM
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It’s painful to see young men entertaining mental garbage like this and then thinking themselves wise for it. Have fun with your bitterness. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:00 PM
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Things that other people grant you (like sex) are privileges and not rights. Not getting laid how you would like does not equate to oppression. The feeling that men are oppressed is held by an extreme minority. Sex work is an infinitely flawed and awful industry in generally, and for every one willing and enthusiastic hooker in Nevada there’s 10,000 who never wanted it and are suffering because of it. Quit trying to justify the use of fellow humans who are almost always actual victims to provide…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:31 PM
1

Oh lord….
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:32 PM
1

An outlier like this situation should not be taken seriously or really into any consideration at all. These people are dysfunctional neck beards, and are the model of everything not to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:11 PM
1

Sorry but dating isn’t broken. It never was. It will always be whatever it will be. You play the game how it is or you don’t play. No one gets to will it or wish into something that is more idealistic or friendly towards their situation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:48 PM
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Of course. It’s way easier to say it’s a systematic problem or women’s fault rather than facing the other option of “I’m unpleasant, undesirable, unattractive, have a bad attitude, any combo of and that’s why things aren’t working out for me”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:41 PM
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Mid-value? I guess we gotta take your word for it, don’t we…..Because you sound pretty bitter and seem to have a low opinion of women, you know, very much like that lower tier of guys who aren’t concerned about how they come off because they don’t have a girl to lose anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:31 AM
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Emotionally abuse much my guy? Jesus. Any gal who is not a completely broken woman or that’s not from a 3rd world country will leave you in the dust with behavior like that. A person can talk to women however they want when there’s none around to run off. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:22 AM
1

The constant insecurity and idealization of hookers on this sub is just bananas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:36 PM
2

Of course bro. Don’t forget the roofies, steroid use, and criminal record since we are playing the “stereotype the guy who succeeded with women game” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:30 PM
1

I wonder how many people here have actually paid for a prostitute. I’ve always done well with women, but I’ve done it just because it sounds fun. Here’s what I’ve noticed in my experiences. Please know……. It’s not that fun fellas. They will try run money games on you. You realize that they are merely tolerating you and nothing more, right? They are zoning out as best they can to get through the agreed time. They will close their eyes and try to will you away mentally. Hooking wasn’t their 1st ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:09 PM
2

It is unusual, I’ll give you that. I knew I never wanted kids. And honestly I’d rather be 80 years old looking back on 10 significant loves of my life than just one. I would rather just have more moments with more people Then a single long running relationship. I live in a town of 70,000 and the supply of women seems infinite even there, then add the rest of the world in on top of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:06 AM
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Yep, it’s not that difficult. Having girlfriends slows the numbers of course, and I’ve been a serial monogamist with average relationships lasting 3 months to 2 years, but never more than 2 years. If a guy wants to just pick up women I’m sure the numbers could get crazy over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:16 AM
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Are you being sarcastic? Lol. I have no long running career, no retirement, net worth is under $20,000 probably. Having Personality, being fun, being interesting, and showing women new things goes a long way. Just talked to an ex today who is a doctor. The money, power, looks, height, are all that matters stuff all is a myth my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:07 PM
1

I should have specified that they were exaggerations fair enough I’ll remove
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:11 PM
2

5’9”, 138lbs, so I’m a pretty small guy. My face is 6-7 and I have quality tattoo sleeves on both arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:37 PM
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Who on earth is crying more than you? Listen to yourself man, its cringey. You’re so far down the rabbit hole with pill vocabulary terms and bitter stereotypes it explains everything. Maybe the bitter and inexperienced guys think you are dropping knowledge here, but anyone who does well dating knows otherwise and never participates in this kind of thought. Get out of theory and into life. Ease up on the pill it isn’t helping you anymore, you’ve taken it too far. Any woman (good or bad)who sees o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:56 PM
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Let me retitle this post: “I was honest previously or experienced some kind of trouble based around honesty and it didn’t work out for me, so therefore my opinion is now a universal truth for all of you. Even if it sounds a lot like something someone who isn’t very experienced or successful in relationships says don’t worry, I wrote many words, used sweeping generalizations, cussed, and spent time counter arguing anyone who might know more than me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:34 PM
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M, 42, never married: 51 Don’t ask and don’t tell, it will never produce anything but hard feelings and problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:28 AM
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Neuroticism like this stuff will drive women away.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:06 AM
1

It’s all about insecurity and feeling cheated out of having something
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:04 AM
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This is filled with so many stereotypes, assumptions, logic leaps, bitter view points, and red pill talking points I can’t even take it seriously. This sounds like what people who aren’t experienced in dating, imagine what dating is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:21 AM
0

Absolutely, all you want. It’s less destructive to his thriving than instilling a male victim mentality in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:22 PM
1

What you carry in your heart you see in the world. I don’t feel this way at all. I don’t need credit or thanks for the things other men have done. Each man is judged on his own merits. Don’t like the judgement, better check your merits. The world doesn’t owe me anything and women don’t owe me anything. I don’t feel cheated by society. Let’s get it right out there: the only guys checking out, are the guys who are feeling cheated and guys that aren’t faring well in the game. Guys aren’t checking o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:43 PM
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By realizing that loathing and testifying against yourself will destroy your life quality far more than the loneliest nights will, more than your worst enemy can, and more than falling for a hurtful woman probably ever could.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:31 AM
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No I wouldn’t care as long as I’m getting what I want. And I see no benefit to digging into the past just to find things to get mad about, that Someone never even wanted, which can cause future conflict. Worrying about this kinda stuff screams insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:58 AM
1

Blame, blame, blame. No guy with any real level of desirability that chooses decent women, needs to worry about simps. If a simp takes your girl than sorry to say, but you never really had her to begin with. Furthermore if you get ditched, chances are that you were just another simp to someone else’s situation. Lol. .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:40 PM
1

Sounds like he should be more interested in changing leagues than betabux dating strategies then if that’s the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:48 PM
0

Well, he asked “what would you do?” So I listed two options. Can we agree that him, his friend, or whoever the subject is, doesn’t sound particularly experienced with women? Can we agree that many guys go after the hottest women they can pull off, and often feel disappointed when things don’t go their way? So If a guy who is not particularly experienced with women goes about things the wrong way and gets turned off or disappointed with women, they end up bitter. Being bitter drives women off so …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:06 AM
1

Totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:31 PM
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If you identify as a “betabux” (I feel cringey even using the term) and are 5’6’ and overweight and or have little experience with women, I’d try to be realistic about dating. One option is constantly try for women out of your league, (which is great when it happens for a guy) attract them with flash or by luck, and then pull your hair out trying to hold onto them until they inevitably leave which can make you bitter and push you into a depression. Or you can date within your league, have more o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:09 PM
1

Yeah dude, they’ll do that sometimes. Neither you or us should concern ourselves with this particular situation. It’s really just a gripe post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:15 PM
1

Leykis is great, if you want to run women off altogether. It’s bananas that guys would pass up someone like Bulldog (fit, handsome, successful with women, teaches you that you can be with women just without getting walked on, not a big complainer) and choose Leykis (Steve Bannon twin, unfit, ugly, chauvinist to the point of repelling, his womanizing abilities are probably weak at best) as a major influence. Cooper has some good things but he’s also got such a chip on his shoulder that he has as …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:03 PM
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You are on the money. The guys who are writing data analysis of dating aren’t the guys who are having fun and successful dating. Too much “if it didn’t work for me it won’t work for anyone else either” attitude. The dating universe has a pretty consistent record of placing people roughly where they rank, like it or not. There’s no self accountability. Boring guys blame dating apps. Ugly guys blame good looking ones. Unsociable guys blame women for not appreciating them for what’s in the inside. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:23 PM
1

How did taking dating analysis from people who aren’t having success at it become a thing? It’s like going to a hobo for investment advice; maybe they aren’t the ones to listen to. We can gripe about the numbers, apps, “western women”, whatever, or anything else. In the end it all comes back on the individual, either they figure out dating or they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:51 PM
3

More or less. Anyone who is winning or can win doesn’t need the RP.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 01:50 PM
1

“I have been a victim of consuming huge amounts of red pill content” “Corey Wayne got me into the Redpill rabbit hole and eventually I found other guys like Rollo Tomassi from him” So YouTube victimized you? Of course it did. So coach is responsible for you going redpill? Of course he is. Then he is also liable for your further searching and diving into more radical content? Of course he is. His content isn’t good enough for you either. Of course it isn’t (Despite many parts of it working great …
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 10:59 PM
2

None of the examples of people commenting that you mentioned are really that out of line. Here’s what I see: People end up going red pill because dating didn’t go how they wanted. It wasn’t fair how they were treated. Other people failed them. Maybe women and dating needed to go away. You just came to a forum and said it’s not going how you wanted. It isn’t fair how you are being treated. The members are failing you. Maybe these people should go away. Maintain a healthy level of self doubt if yo…
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 10:27 PM
1

Good luck with that whole thing
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 02:40 PM
2

What do I think? I think you are stewing over silly shit that you weren’t even personally a part of, and then getting mad about it. What you hold in your heart you see in the world.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 02:28 AM
1

Loyd from The Single Guy is pretty right on. Coach Corey Wayne is pretty good, though he did do one bad video recently.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 08:16 PM
1

Woman? I went with the profile name and color that Reddit assigned me. Im a guy. In fact I am the guy you probably hate. My current GF has a PHD, my last GF was a doctor and yoga instructor. I have Been with 50+ women. Dating goes great for me. I try to mentor here because I’ve figured out the things some of these guys haven’t, and It’s painful to see how you operate. You don’t know how to listen, You are only concerned with complaining. Things will change for you when you develop some humble ab…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 11:08 PM
1

No matter how deserving you see your efforts as, it doesn’t matter if the women or the world don’t agree. They owe you nothing. You are entitled to nothing. Think about this: Sounds like life in general is disappointing you. We’ve all been there, but how long you stay there is up to you. Like they say, when nothing seems to be measuring up as you expect, it’s time to take a look at the measuring tape. Sounds like how you are doing things isn’t working. Have the humble to admit that, and consider…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 02:45 PM
3

What you’re saying isn’t untrue, and comments like this aren’t popular for sure. You are highlighting the good parts of it, and there are definitely a few. That’s why there’s buy in. But obviously there’s so much more to it than that. The people are so toxic. Anyone Interested in improving themselves could easily choose a few of the best principles, all of which have long existed outside of RP. Lift weights, don’t get taken advantage of, take care of you first, none of these are original ideas. …
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 12:58 PM
3

What you are describing sounds a little more like pick-up culture to me. But I suppose there is overlap
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 12:42 PM
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You identified your mistakes. You’ve taken accountability for them. You’ve learned from it and won’t do it again. Give yourself some credit for that and move forward knowing you are for the better now.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 12:00 AM
3

“Looksmax”…..using the terms is doing you no favors for moving on. Online dating isn’t brutal to most guys, it is brutal to guys that expect to date out of their league and guys that are doing a few things wrong on profiles. I do just fine online, but I don’t swipe on models or princesses, nor do I expect them to swipe on me. I swipe on women that appear to be my equal and it works fine. Yes, you should look, smell, and dress the best you can. Yes, you should be as healthy and fit as you reasona…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 07:29 PM
2

TRP doesn’t MAKE anyone do anything. It’s not a person holding a gun to one’s head.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 12:07 PM
4

Word. The neurosis about it all will do nothing for you, in fact it will probably work against you. The dating game will always be what it will be. I’m not sure if you want us to agree that dating and approaching are unfair or risky or something. I don’t even consider the word “approach” when I talk to a lady. Just Keep it organic and authentic, not a numbers game or an exercise in strategy.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 01:37 AM
8

Like you said, I think age plays a part in exposure. It pops up after a guy has had enough of life’s difficult experiences (divorce, dating experiences, money issues etc.) Some guy that’s feeling beat down by it all starts looking around on the web.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 01:27 AM
9

When it became the safe haven for the rejected, the bitter, the angry, and the and sexist.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 01:23 AM
15

Yep. It’s so strange how “hypergamy” constantly occurs with guys who are fucking losers in every category…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/21 01:24 PM
3

All of the pains you mentioned are self inflicted. There has to be some self accountability. 1.You give away your money or put yourself in positions for it to be taken=your fault 2. If you can’t move on from emotional pain or heartbreak=your fault 3. If you are miserable for any reason other than cancer=your fault 4.if nothing good ever came from a woman, you did it wrong=your fault I’m average looking and it’s been fucking awesome, because I made it that way. Expect nothing to go well if you’re…
/r/MGTOW226/06/21 01:17 PM
2

Because her told her “listen honey, I can make a killing in this demographic because there are lots of lost and desperate guys. I’ll just give very general and common sense advice. Don’t worry I’ll use the name of a fictional character off of the movie LA Confidential for it all”
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 11:34 PM
1

Nope. Been playing for years and it’s gone just fine. Sex is fun. Who on earth other than a person who can’t get sex, wouldn’t want sex?
/r/MGTOW224/06/21 09:27 PM
4

Engaging in this kind of stuff turns the criticisms of the movement into facts. Funny how guys supposedly going their own way continue a petty stewing on things forever. Getting shit on by others is why a lot of people are here, yet we are doing no better.
/r/MGTOW224/06/21 09:19 PM
1

I wouldn’t. It paints a fairly dark picture of women. You want her to come to you for good feelings, not bad ones, right?
/r/ExRedPill24/06/21 02:42 AM
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No offense, but you don’t really have enough experience on the matters being discussed to pick a side yet. Live life for a while and make you own conclusions without those guys.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/21 02:25 AM
1

There are different beauties and different things that are attractive about women of all appropriate different ages. I’m 41, and so is my GF. Would I like to have a roll with a 21 year old? Yep.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/21 03:40 PM
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Whoa everyone…..let’s rethink this. I would be extremely careful how you approach this and what advice you take. The Question is how much do you want to scare her about trusting you? It would be absolutely foolish to seriously sit her down and use language such as “I lied to you” or “I’ve been deceiving you”. Think of the feelings those words will create. You make it a big deal & she’ll take it that wayDo you want a highly emotional event to scar your situation? Or would you rather…… Take a casu…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 11:42 PM
2

Of course it not all perfect. But we also weren’t promised anything in this life. Remember not everyone feels that same way too. I for one don’t. Not everyone has the same experiences. Dating has gone well for me, I just thought I could have an extra edge with RP at one point, but I was wrong and it turned out to be a toxic addition instead. Remember the circle of people this discourse is taking place in. It’s mostly guys who have struggled. Most guys who are happily married or doing well in dat…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 08:25 PM
2

I don’t believe it’s a gender issue. People who are lovable as is or that make themselves lovable are the ones who will likely receive love.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 04:43 PM
4

Not trying to be contrary here, But this sounds a lot like leftover victim mentality. “Someone else is doing something that ruins it for me, otherwise I could succeed” There aren’t any “problems” with modern dating. Like it or not dating isn’t broken. It changes. It will be whatever it will be, always and forever. The dating game has no obligation to be what you want it to be, or what you think it ought to be. We can’t blame the women. We can’t blame other men. We can’t control either party Anyw…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 04:29 PM
2

Obviously it’s not right to commoditize people. I think it’s just an attempt to make sense of where you stand and where where others stand. It has little echos of social exchange theory. Its like so many other RP “truths”, there is or was some truth or reason to it at one point which allowed people to get on board. But then is goes too far as usual.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 12:56 PM
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True that. Their work isn’t in approaching like is for men. Their work is in filtering. They are more vulnerable than men to different kinds of harm. They are worried that there are guys out there that are angry and bitter.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 10:55 PM
1

I can be a mess too. Ive messed up and walked away from several great women and carry some regret. 3 years ago I walked away from a beautiful and kind family doctor/yoga instructor making $250k a year because she had a difficult autistic kid. Yeah the kid sucked but I’d give anything to be back with her. You can’t make up what you pass up.
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 10:37 PM
1

Sorry if I’m being redundant. Just to be clear I’m saying you should consider what people are telling you.
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 10:25 PM
1

You can always make your own determinations from your own personal experiences with women. That seems to be a more accurate way rather than watching people like a TV
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 09:10 PM
1

Sounds like the express lane to loneliness and depression to me.
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 08:59 PM
1

I’ll be counterpoint here. Sure you don’t have to get compound fractures to be having fun. And sure you have to be true to yourself. But Isolation often leads to depression. Interesting and fun men seem to do better with women, make more friends, have more life opportunities, etc. Are you quite sure you aren’t depressed? Your name is Supersadguy25 after all. It can be surprising what changes with high and low levels of different neurotransmitters.
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 08:55 PM
1

The good new is you don’t have to do it.
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 08:45 PM
1

How much of an objective answer are you really expecting here? Lol. I personally trust my dad more than strangers on most things.
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 08:44 PM
1

It sounds like you are headed down a dark road my man. There are plenty of nice friends and even nice women out there. Clearly not everyone is experiencing the same problems that you are, so what does that tell you? Learning how to be alone well and learning how to form relationships well could be equal expenditures of time and effort. But I know which one is statistically likely to cause depression and which one is statistically likely to aid in depression.
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 08:38 PM
4

True that
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 08:27 PM
0

When 3 friends tell me I’m drunk, I start drinking water.
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 08:25 PM
3

42, never married, no kids, + or - 50 sexual partners, associates degree, heavily tattooed. My life has been great but I’m not traditionally successful. I still love women, I just never let myself lose to them. Ive dated a doctor, a professor, a military officer in the past 10 years. Here’s a list of hard lessons I’ve experienced, some are common sayings. These are cautionary not inspirational. (Sorry for length, but you asked)they were one per line but format changed with copy and paste apparen…
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 08:18 PM
1

I appreciate the passion, but realistically that sounds like an excellent plan to drive people out of your life.
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 07:48 PM
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I don’t recall saying exactly that. But I know there’s a whole bunch of people here who seem to see dating as a problem.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 07:44 PM
1

There will always be some of that, but you decide what’s appropriate. What if these thoughts you’re having are what’s sabotaging the relationship?
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 07:39 PM
1

Admit to yourself that most of the ideas and philosophies that you have been operating on are sh*t and no longer serve you. Open your mind to things you once laughed at like yoga, remember you’re sh*t ain’t working so your mind better be wide open. Get away from all but your best few people and find better influences. White lie about who and how you truly are a little if that’s what it takes to save your soul and get into the door with people who are operating at a higher level than you. You wil…
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 07:35 PM
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Sounds like things are fine and you are obsessing over what’s going on in other people’s lives. With that type of thinking there is literally no limit to the worries and troubles you can choose to round up and then bring into your worry inner circle. Example: I saw some guy get hit by a car so I shouldn’t walk on sidewalks now. I think you are going the wrong direction given your situation and are about to make ill something that is healthy. Keep your head on and you will be fine.
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 07:09 PM
2

I think you are confused on what rage is for. It’s for a violent crime being perpetrated on you personally. It’s for when someone swindles you out of your retirement. It’s an unhealthy state to be in. Sounds like you are obsessing, and it’s not good either. Focus on the good things in life.
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 06:58 PM
3

Ok, let give you a simpler version. Maybe you’re an unpleasant person who has hang ups about everything and it drives people away. Funny how I’m experiencing/experienced none of your problems, what if I’ve figured out something you haven’t? From the sound of how things are going for you champ, your mind should be wide open for feedback. Just Start new.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/21 01:03 PM
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I haven’t. And I’m proud to say I never went that deep into it all.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/21 12:57 PM
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Great expectations lead to great misery. Very few women, feminist or not will make the moves for you. They need to know that you are at least capable of taking the lead and pursuing what you want. You mention feminism a couple times, do you have a hang up with it left over from RP? I’d bet money that If you show any resistance in accepting or at least tolerating feminism you will take yourself out of the running with 50% of women instantly at an institution of higher learning. Be very careful wi…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 01:23 AM
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This is awful. It pains me to stick up for RP, but I personally never once heard illegal things like this advocated for. It was always “hey if you’re 40 go after 25 year olds, they are more fun and will think you’re mature and great”. This is more an individual sexual criminal that murdered than it is RP.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 12:51 AM
1

Sounds like you need to take accountability for and then forgive your failures. Rebuild from the ground up in a different way because old way ain’t working. Trust professionals to treat you. Take prescriptions if needed. Get a counselor. Try to Become a person that others would want in their lives. Find a mentor. Try a life coach. You will need professional help to get out of this hole.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 09:42 PM
1

Run. Find a guy who isn’t slowly oxidizing with troubling thoughts. You will thank yourself later.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 09:34 PM
1

Maybe it’s not a case of pill or not pill. Maybe it’s just some guys are naturally more desirable than others. We see that in women don’t we? If you aren’t faring well in dating its factors independent of red pill that are hurting you. People with successful channels usually have more charisma than the average person so maybe that plays into it. Stop thinking A or B.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 09:29 PM
1

Id bet 95% of men that are doing well with women have never heard of it. I’d bet that 95% of men that are doing horrible with women have heard of it.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 09:22 PM
2

Quit looking in the garbage and you’ll stop finding trash to worry about. Quit focusing on the few awful women out there and look at the millions of normal ones. . If you make good choices you won’t end up with a lunatic. I’ve been with over 50 women (both parties drinking wasn’t unusual) and never once had anything close to a rape accusation. Obviously being a creep or getting twisted and pushy with women is what to avoid. Why are you so worried? 99% of the time you have nothing to fear if you …
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 09:18 PM
1

MGTOW by far. They like to pretend it was their choice but we all know it’s the world that funneled them into going down that road. Pure sour grapes type thinking when it comes women. “This is what I ended up with, therefore this is what I wanted” rationalization
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 09:01 PM
2

Realizing that it was not a team of winners that had figured some very clever and important things out, but rather a bunch of bitter guys that were the situational losers of dating that were operating on sour grapes type thinking.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 08:54 PM
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