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If this community is making men resent and hate women it's unlikely if you're not having success already getting stuck in a self defeating mentality full of stress and anxiety and resentment isn't going to help the problem any. My boyfriend apparently started going down the redpill path before I met him, he doesn't talk about it much or give any details when I've asked but whenever the subject gets brought up now he gets visibly angry and clearly holds a lot of resentment for whatever mentality …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:12 PM
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bah, I'd do this: Drop all the feeling of tenderness she's trying to instill with her betabait. But if she wants to hang out... Go over to her place. Initiate sex. When she refuses anal, leave abruptly. rinse, repeat remember, a former SO can never regain their spot, only be a plate. a former plate can never regain their plate status, can only be a FWB
/r/askTRP02/09/20 06:49 PM
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The less you give a fuck about her the more she'll realize she's a few weeks from divorce. Queue hysterical bonding Then queue you losing frame a few months later and having to do the whole song and dance over. She's either yours or she's not yours. There's no in between for you. You'll have to regularly ask her, is she yours? Hopefully you made it clear she's kicked out because you won't be half-married and that's a non-negotiable for you
/r/askMRP25/08/20 03:32 AM
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Every day you stay, you demonstrate you're okay with her bait and switch
/r/askMRP25/08/20 03:25 AM
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Dude, I've been in a dead bedroom. It's purgatory. In your mind, you have to assume this marriage is essentially over. "You killed her" means the girl you married is DEAD. I'd hit all 12 steps at the same time: move out. Come back for your stuff in 3 days. Don't answer her phone calls. Come back with a trailer. If she fucks you, it's too late to pack up and you'll have to come back for your stuff tomorrow. Rinse repeat. Move back in if she's your slut. Pack your trailer if she's not.
/r/askMRP25/08/20 03:17 AM
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Having an LTR you don’t want, and all the social crap that comes with cheating is going to be miserable, and a waste of time. It’s a dark road, that will make you a darker person. the key, OP, is being decisive. You need to know what you want, commit to that and go after that with congruency.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 02:15 PM
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most 26 year olds have huge student loans
/r/askTRP05/06/20 03:59 PM
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You're still stuck in the partisan dichotomy. Both media on the left and right obfuscate the truth. Don't trust Fox or CNN
/r/askTRP03/06/20 10:21 PM
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free advertising at its finest
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 03:51 PM
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and yet, social distancing has stopped completely. So either America just undid 3 months of unfathomably expensive mass quarantining and hospitals will be overloaded in 2 weeks OR COVID was a hoax and all those guilt-laden booty calls in April were worth it tell me hercules, is it #1 or #2?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 03:45 PM
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Virtue signal is currently trading above beta male thirst, forcing Thots to post black box instead of ass. ​ killing it GLO
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 03:14 PM
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Origin fallacy
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:58 PM
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nobody gives AF what you're doing, they're focusing on their workouts. You should be too. Why do you need validation from being better than others? Why do you feel uncomfortable in your own skin? The truth is, you've ALWAYS been weaker than the average 20 year old at the gym, you're just NOW starting to realize it. What are you doing wrong? not being your own validation. external validation is fleeting and makes you needy AF. What else are you doing wrong? not focusing on consistency and long te…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:31 PM
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At the end of the day, this is a sexual strategy subreddit, not a moralizing subreddit. Obviously it would be better if OP were Dan fucking Bilzerian himself; who ALSO pays media companies to make his Insta epic. OP is doing great; just needs to keep leveling up. Understanding how to set aside ego is the key component for this, so long as u/ForeverKarlMalone has the work ethic to follow through on being coachable.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 02:57 PM
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They would grow from the experience. It would definitely weed out the weak
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 01:23 AM
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I struggle with the same thing to a lesser extent: cold season kicks my ass. I just focus on making the most progress I can when I'm healthy. I'll bulk and workout HARD (but safe).
/r/askTRP29/05/20 04:37 PM
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" but she doesn’t ever tend to get enthusiastic about sex " Do you go caveman on her occasionally? I've caught myself looking for validation in her enthusiasm. That's a trap. Are you secure enough to know you're a good looking guy without looking to her for reassurance? If not, she can smell your lack of confidence; which is itself a turn-off. If you haven't read SexGodMethod yet you need to
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 08:07 PM
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so the correct response to most of this is to ignore? or A&A?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 04:58 PM
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my job is simply not to be manipulated i'm going to reread WISNIFG again
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 04:46 PM
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In the past I've struggled with boundaries, I may tend to overcompensate now? What do you consider bad actions worth a response and what do you consider "maybe her own problems who cares" worth ignoring?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 03:39 PM
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You're absolutely right. And it doesn't really affect me much, though I can work to have a more unflappable frame. It just seems fucky to me. Why the negativity?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/20 04:20 PM
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I'd have laughed it off. If her response had been different, I'd have disciplined. It's her job to wave off suitors if she's committed to you
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:05 AM
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OYS: 2 so I posted this in frustration 2 weeks ago /askMRP/comments/g2mvgs and was told to make OYS a weekly ritual and that I need to fix my frame, fix my mission, fix my validation seeking, and weight about 25lbs more. Married 9 years, 2 kids. 6ft 178lbs Reading: NMMNG, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, Rollo's TRM, Bang, Day Bang, How to win friends and influence people, the 48 laws of power, the art of seduction, models, book of pook, 12 steps of dread post by BPP, countless articles and posts on here and TR…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/20 07:17 PM
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I'm posting one in OYS this afternoon.
/r/askMRP05/05/20 05:55 PM
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"I said you were half assing everything" I still don't get what you mean by this.
/r/askMRP26/04/20 04:28 AM
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"When literally everyone here says "that guy has a lot of covert contracts and ego bullshit going on" and you look at us in disbelief, is it because we're alltrying to fuck with you for our amusement, or is it because you've got bullshit coming out your eyeballs and can't see your true self in the mirror?" Enough with the lecturing and more with the refuting my disagreement: covert contracts are when I expect a cookie as a reward for certain behavior like a transactional lab rat. This, in my min…
/r/askMRP26/04/20 04:25 AM
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I'm about to file for divorce, what about that is passive?? In b4 you claim you can hypnotize her into getting on board
/r/askMRP26/04/20 04:13 AM
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That's where the fights usually happen. When I put my foot down, often about snapping at the kids or trying to blame me for everything. She doesn't like it when I shine a light on the situation she's complaining about. Maybe I'm not going about it in the right way, but it seems the right thing to do... Enforcing boundaries and all
/r/askMRP24/04/20 01:06 PM
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Yeah that's what I'm trying to suss out. See if I missed anything before pulling the rip cord. It would be convenient if she got on board
/r/askMRP24/04/20 01:02 PM
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"Now that you finally realize that the Monkey Dance has failed, your real transformation can begin." Great. Let's do it. I'm here to grow. The marital problems are just an annoyance NMMNG: I've read it twice. What should I be focusing on when I reread it to get the most out of it?
/r/askMRP24/04/20 01:01 PM
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I'm somewhat a believer but I prefer to achieve my goals. Didn't King David accomplish all of his goals? Didn't Jesus accomplish all of his? Didn't Noah? Even when Moses didn't make it to the Holy Land it was after freeing "God's chosen people" and knocking off Hamurabbis code. IMHO (not that I usually get religious unless it's brought up) we're called to strive for perfection. THAT is unachievable by definition, but living in a post-crucifiction world means we don't have to grovel for every mis…
/r/askMRP24/04/20 12:50 PM
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Good advice on the drafts, will do. I've read NMMNG twice. Can read again though I guess I do expect sex. Would you say in a relationship with bad sex?
/r/askMRP24/04/20 09:48 AM
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Reading comprehension check. This is what I've gained from this post: I'm still doing it for the wrong reasons (I'm not doing it for the joy of being a chad, i'm doing it for her validation). Which is insidious because I really don't think I am but I clearly need to examine this much more deeply I'm still missing frame my lifts aren't where they need to be to get in top 10%. I'm probably in top 30% right now
/r/askMRP23/04/20 10:37 PM
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You're now operating under the covert contract "well, if I did all this and she still doesn't appreciate it, then I'll just fuck someone else who does" I'm definitely operating under that premise. 100%. Why would you stay with someone who isn't attracted to you, are you that thirsty? Is this whole MRP thing just a trap to get guys to stay in unsatisfying marriages for the kids? "all you need is more self improvement" ad nauseum I'd rather sleep alone and I've gotten to the point where I often do…
/r/askMRP23/04/20 10:32 PM
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I like having hair and so far it still looks good. I'll shave it when it doesn't. Why do you trim your nosehairs? its inauthentic for you to not walk around looking like a caveman
/r/askMRP23/04/20 10:23 PM
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I've been on a predominantly isometric program lately, here's my best guesses Bench 210 Deadlift 320 Squat 225 OHP 135
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/20 01:34 AM
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This swing set is going to kick ass. 12 ft swings this weekend. Play house and slide later this summer. I agree. I just have this stupid subconscious habit of talking to her about what I'm thinking, and it comes across as validation seeking and "hey Mommy look what I drew!" I'm focused on the plan. But my modus operandi puts me squarely in her frame
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/20 01:23 AM
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I've given up a lot to carve out fitness time and to make sure I'm meeting the requirements of being a responsible adult and dad and achieve my career goals. Past that I'm about ready to divorce my wife (whom I've already dragged all over the country for my career), sell my house, lose the respect of everyone I care about in the process (it's a religious community). I've given up most unhealthy foods and most unproductive hobbies. I'm not really attached to those So... Everything but 40% custody…
/r/askMRP23/04/20 01:09 AM
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That was fundamental. Yeah I can do better at each of those roles. It helps to think about each of those responsibilities as separate parallel parts of a whole
/r/askMRP23/04/20 12:52 AM
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OYS so I posted this in frustration a few days ago /askMRP/comments/g2mvgs and was told to make OYS a weekly ritual and that I need to fix my frame, fix my mission, fix my validation seeking, and weight about 25lbs more. Married 9 years, 3 kids. 6ft 175lbs Reading: NMMNG, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, Rollo's TRM, Bang, Day Bang, How to win friends and influence people, the 48 laws of power, the art of seduction, models, book of pook, 12 steps of dread post by BPP, countless articles and posts on here and TR…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 05:14 PM
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Or you don't like how she is a reflection of you? the truth hurts. yes. she's often anxious, untrusting, lashes out, and is cold. I have definitely had some progress in this area, but not nearly enough for how long i've been at this. It's either her fault or mine. I'm trying to figure out what other ways it could be my fault before I pull the rip cord.
/r/askMRP21/04/20 04:21 PM
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You legitimately said you never lifted - there’s a reason that’s step one you fucking moron. I didn't say that. I've lifted for 3 years. Quarantine has me stuck at home. I haven't bothered measuring my 1RM for ages though, never seemed to do me much good knowing it. I'm well over my bodyweight; probably about double bodyweight on DL, short of that on squats. you're right as are several others in this sub; 175lbs isn't nearly enough. I'm pushing harder on my bulk since this convo started with the…
/r/askMRP21/04/20 03:40 PM
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I can that's the title of the post. I'm filing in a month. But I'm not about to make an empty threat. I'd rather have the paperwork ready. If time DOES go to divorce, then I'm prepped to get the best outcome
/r/askMRP20/04/20 12:13 PM
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"Do you think that you are or should be? Perfect based on whose definition? I'll give you a hint - this relates to frame. Does pointing out an 'imperfection' from her frame trigger your ego, alter your mood, and whereupon you DEER? The answer is 'yes'. Do you know in your heart that you're a high value man, who is not going to be triggered by someone crabby, and who will continue enjoying his day, calmly in a good mood? The answer is 'no'." This was really helpful. Don't be nice on account of me
/r/askMRP18/04/20 04:24 AM
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I'm putting my own money on the line to revamp a once failing business. How is that not a mission?
/r/askMRP18/04/20 04:20 AM
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Are you expecting a gold star? Apparently It is my decision: I don't like her. I'm trying to figure this out for the kids and have been for years. "The mother of your kids" is the equivalent of "Think of the children!"
/r/askMRP18/04/20 04:18 AM
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Ok Karen
/r/askMRP18/04/20 04:14 AM
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I do own the company, it's a fixer upper just becoming profitable, and I do f-close when the occasion presents itself though I don't sell it out. Next
/r/askMRP18/04/20 04:10 AM
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How do I begin to internalize that? I've always been a high strung guy. I envy his inner peace and dgaf
/r/askMRP18/04/20 03:39 AM
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I've become an objectively better version of myself in every way since I joined MRP 4 years ago. And I love being me more than I ever have. And I've learned to love the self improvement journey & transcendence. How does becoming an even better me fix my marriage, as other responders are suggesting while telling me not to divorce? I'm already better than the man she married. He was a 130lb wuss nerd loser I'm just trying to find what I missed along the way before I pull the rip cord just in case …
/r/askMRP18/04/20 03:38 AM
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That explanation helps. It just seems like such a foreign thing to practice I struggle with where to begin. How do you even go about doing that?
/r/askMRP18/04/20 03:29 AM
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She's just always nitpicking and never onboard. I usually brush it off but she seems to sense when my frame is the weakest (tired, otherwise stressed, sick, etc)
/r/askMRP18/04/20 03:22 AM
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I've recently started MMSLP, is there another one you'd recommend? BPP has a book?
/r/askMRP18/04/20 03:21 AM
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So ... I always thought my career was my mission. Does a mission need to be altruistic for altruisms sake? Or can it be creating for the pleasure of having created?
/r/askMRP18/04/20 03:20 AM
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I'm hearing I need to lift more and lose the validation seeking
/r/askMRP18/04/20 03:03 AM
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Thank you. I will make OYS a part of my weekly schedule. You're right, I definitely feel down when I get the cold shoulder from her
/r/askMRP18/04/20 02:58 AM
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Well, no. But I'm getting damned sick of the coldness
/r/askMRP17/04/20 05:12 AM
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Totally! And that's what I thought I'd get when I married her. But I'm sick of living with someone who snaps at me over the smallest imperfections as it's indicative of my failure as a man. I don't think I have much ego, but I do want a relationship with a LITTLE grace. It makes it hard to extend her any grace when she gives none. Which turns me into a hardass that still wants to fuck. It's an unhealthy dynamic. I do honestly wish I could fix it
/r/askMRP17/04/20 05:08 AM
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Well I kinda got to the top steps of dread and had no reason to fear the relationship ending so... I stopped caring? No but she has anxiety, mostly because she's been trying to be captain for 9 years I was a total faggot for 6 of those years
/r/askMRP17/04/20 05:04 AM
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We're all re-killing that beta. Both. A friend tried to get me to call off the wedding because she was a snappy frigid bitch. Also, I was depressed and pathetic for 6 months the second year of our 9 year marriage. I HAVE done better. And the one time I fucked someone uglier than her, everything else was objectively better: cheekiness, energy, connection, personality, submissiveness
/r/askMRP17/04/20 05:02 AM
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I took over finances ages ago. She stopped regularly checking up on anything outside of her spending budget
/r/askMRP17/04/20 04:57 AM
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Clearly me how. I'm here to learn. I'd love to hear specifics
/r/askMRP17/04/20 04:56 AM
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She treated me like a god before the wedding even though I was a scrawny nerd back then. I'm never getting married again. So LTRs should find something to like about me by comparison At least that's what I'm sensing
/r/askMRP17/04/20 04:54 AM
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The shit I'm not telling you: I struggle with sleep something fierce. The wife usually is getting the kids ready in the morning while I'm stumbling my way out of a Unisom induced fog. It doesn't help that my work is international and I work late often. I'm a forgetful guy and have been my whole life. The trash doesn't get taken out a couple times a year. Or I'll clean the kitchen and forget to wipe the table. See my other comments here, but frame is really hard for me to grasp and apply. I feel …
/r/askMRP17/04/20 04:52 AM
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No I mean what the fuck am I missing I've been reading and lifting and everything in my life has fallen into place except this miserable marriage. Point me to the next work to do
/r/askMRP17/04/20 04:44 AM
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Well I've been at it for four years. But I also moved across the country twice and had major career changes. So there was a year off from lifting in there and some major setbacks to my social circle. So I feel disingenuous saying I've been progressing up the BPP steps of dread methodically as prescribed. Rather I've been squeezing it in in fits and starts. My reading list is up top. I'll find my last recorded 1RMs too. I'm in the best shape of my life and getting better all the time. Frame is th…
/r/askMRP17/04/20 04:33 AM
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Paper Alpha rings so true. It really highlights what I have to work on
/r/askMRP17/04/20 04:23 AM
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NMMNG kicked my ass three years ago, I should probably reread it again now
/r/askMRP17/04/20 01:50 AM
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Let's more I'd like to give it a go. Obviously I'd rather turn this around for the kids. You're right I clearly did miss something
/r/askMRP16/04/20 09:29 PM
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Once the gym reopens I'll get a 1RM and report back. Until then I'm following 6 day bro splits on gymnastics rings using exercises from youtuber taophysique. The kids have been the only thing keeping me in this tepid relationship for 4 years. How do I be less boring? My life itself is full of adrenaline. Running a small business, exercising, going out and being active. Trips with the guys. Fun dates with her asleep on her phone. What's my missing ingredient or dynamic or skill set?
/r/askMRP16/04/20 09:01 PM
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What parts of MRP am missing?
/r/askMRP16/04/20 08:48 PM
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If those people DO read the sidebar, do you think they'll have the will to lift consistently or the drive to live an in-charge life? No. We just need to ban dumb questions even more
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 01:08 PM
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I'd try it if there were peer reviewed research or something, not just MH sensational clickbait
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 01:49 PM
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I was paraphrasing Robert Greene. Study the short list of this, then listen to the audiobook. Dale Carnegie is awesome; he teaches the soft touch you need to build warm connections with people. The two seem at odds with one another but if you can follow the 48 Laws AND follow HTWFAIP without coming across as a phony, you'll do very well. Here's Law 38: 48 Laws Of Power Summary: Law No. 38: Think as you like but behave like others Here author says if you flaunt your unconventional ideas and unort…
/r/askTRP09/03/20 01:34 PM
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I was noticing that his responses were just fueling her crazy. He should have just blocked her number for the day Either way OP should hire a divorce lawyer ASAP. Either call her bluff or don't get fucked over if she isn't bluffing. At least then he'd get some hysterical bonding on the way out if it doesn't turn around
/r/askMRP06/03/20 05:51 PM
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All I do is own it. "Yeah in retrospect I made the wrong call there. Here's how we're going to correct it" Also seeking advice from people it affects on a bold decision before making it; even if you already know what you're going to do; gives them a sense of buy-in.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 04:49 PM
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This is best. I make a lot of bold decisions, many of which pay off well. The uptight people in my office are driven crazy by the fact that I seem to be immune to my own mistakes
/r/askTRP06/03/20 04:47 PM
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I don't know the details but this sounds like a great time to pump up your sales numbers and work on your resume. You probably need to learn to talk the talk and put a Bernie sticker up on your workstation until then
/r/askTRP06/03/20 03:59 PM
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Say as others say, but do as you want to do
/r/askTRP06/03/20 03:58 PM
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google: DiCarlo Escalation Ladder
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:57 PM
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he needs to beta up and make it appear to her that he has stronger feelings of love than she does. Express undying love; show up to a date in sweatpants; buy her a teddy bear; talk about baby names; have weak frame; get visibly upset over dumb shit in front of her
/r/askTRP24/02/20 05:24 PM
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on the off chance that isn't the case, OP still should remove her from his life: if she actually did have doubts DURING said act and didn't express those doubts until after the fact; she's just as dangerous
/r/askTRP24/02/20 05:21 PM
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how is this not the top reply. It's all about subtext
/r/askTRP24/02/20 05:08 PM
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solicited feedback on if its noticeable doesn't really prove if its noticeable
/r/askTRP24/02/20 03:01 PM
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A 300lb man lost 25lbs holy shit, I missed that part. He says he's been RP for 3 YEARS? is he even going to the gym? Larping from the couch doesn't count.
/r/askMRP21/02/20 09:46 PM
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you've made huge progress it seems she finally sees you as a dynamic go getter who won't settle for bullshit
/r/askMRP21/02/20 09:00 PM
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I wouldn't break off an LTR; I would just demote to Plate
/r/askTRP18/02/20 11:17 PM
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i'd keep the relationship as long as she's holding up her end in other ways and meeting guidelines no guys I'm always in the know about what's going on I'm always allowed to join in Any of those 3 rules gets broken though, instant demotion.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 05:02 PM
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if I were OP, I'd be tempted to get a protection order now. obviously gonna help the case
/r/askMRP13/02/20 11:20 PM
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you do you. as long as you're living a life of continuous improvement
/r/askTRP11/02/20 07:30 PM
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Talk to her and let her know how you feel but yet again, that’s probably how you two got to know each other, right? what subreddit am I in right now, relationships? This will just make OP look like a bitch
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:57 PM
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well its work but so is anything worth doing. I meant that its incredibly amazing. Others say differently, YMMV
/r/askMRP11/02/20 04:42 PM
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to echo Fresh_Pulse: you won't need to make consistent small actions in the right direction for a little while... You'll have to make this a way of life. You'll have shitty days where you fuck up and binge watch TV instead of getting anything done (or whatever). You'll have to follow those days up with more days of consistent small actions in the right direction. This builds momentum. Guys at the top of the game have been making these conscious decisions for YEARS to build up baller lives
/r/askTRP10/02/20 10:05 PM
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I regret it because I did not have my shit together when I started. Parenting is incredible
/r/askMRP10/02/20 09:57 PM
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TRP is a toolbox for you to live the life you want to live Marriage will fundamentally change any relationship due to the man's loss of options If you're not living your best life, socially involved, physically active, etc. you will look like a chump to her. if you have any addictions or weaknesses (videogames, pot, alcohol, porn, etc) they will eat you alive, she will see those weaknesses and lose respect for you once she's lost respect for you, you'll have to be on your A-Game for a long time …
/r/askMRP10/02/20 04:30 PM
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Agreed, but sometimes mixing the good in with the bad makes it palatable for these AFCs They need to know that there are no parents anymore to take charge of their life for them. That's why Jordan Peterson has a cult following of soyboys. He's more bluepilled than any of the vanguard here, but he serves as a gateway redpill as these man-children realize to take a little agency over their own situation.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/20 04:47 PM
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OP take a step back and decide if this is the kind of life you want for yourself Whatever excuses you make for her; there's always going to be something going on in your lives that won't be perfect; that's life. You're right though; her outburst was a reflection of you goin all literal on her
/r/askMRP04/02/20 06:39 PM
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definitley skip the lectures; keep it in short, distilled redpills and let him discuss with you as he wants to
/r/askTRP28/01/20 05:06 PM
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Sports, gym, chores, duty and CONFIDENCE work with him on self-assuredness, firm handshake, eye contact, speaking from his gut, and having presence. teach him to value his own time and love himself but not be delusional about being a special snowflake. This strong foundation and center will help him avoid a LOT of pitfalls in young adult life.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 05:05 PM
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if OP knows in his gut she's cheating he needs to have a spine
/r/askMRP22/01/20 09:50 PM
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either you want the relationship or you don't So kill it or stop worrying about what she's doing. YOU CANNOT CONTROL HER, if her actions destroy the relationship that's on her. Trust but verify. You're not building dread at all. you're been a needy little bitch and every interaction she has with you is tainted with fear and paranoia. Why would she respond any other way? Have you read ANY of the sidebar???? Where is your DGAF? Either she cheated and this relationship is doomed, or you're going to…
/r/askMRP22/01/20 04:58 PM
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JP endorses it but somehow it winds up being a "deep thinker withdrawn from the world" kind of thing rather than the "don't bitch just grip it & rip it" philosophy that it is JP has done a lot of good introducing these concepts to normies. He's a bit of a gateway for them. He's just really soft on the relationships side of things, like Brett McKay from The Art of Manliness
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 03:14 PM
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Black pill woe is me shit. THANK YOU. over these incels who don't want to help themselves a note for incels and Jordan Peterson fans: “Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one.” – Marcus Aurelius
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 06:15 PM
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young women have the stupidest shit tests. in hindsight, I missed a lot of slow-pitch softballs before she learned to throw curveballs
/r/askMRP21/01/20 05:53 PM
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at least he's got some hysterical bonding sex right now to placate him long enough for him to get comfortable and lazy betabux again. She's still fat, he's still rail thin at 130lbs (though 130lbs at 5 ft looks way better than 130lbs at 6 ft, it's still too light). She'll always know that he's the kind of guy to stay with a cheating woman, which will make him a cuck in her eyes.
/r/askMRP21/01/20 04:03 PM
1

just keep making friends; hang out more with the friends that more closely align with you. Whether or not they actually follow this subreddit doesn't matter
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:54 PM
1

Beta dating strategy is actually a female strategy mind = blown
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:51 PM
1

mods should add a ban on blackpill to the sub rules ​ I've had a few arguments with incels on here who want to wallow in their own self-induced hopelessness because of [ugly/short/stupid reason]. They only argue back about how hopeless they are. Now I downvote and move on, not worth helping someone who doesn't want help.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:40 PM
4

If you're having shitty sex more than likely it's you. and the fact that she sees OP as the safe boring settle down guy OP needs to both work on himself and dump this woman who clearly isn't invested in him beyond snuggling on the couch and watching crappy TV.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 02:59 PM
4

I don't understand hormones enough to comment on this other than: this sub is full of guys looking to increase their T
/r/askTRP15/01/20 10:04 PM
2

how?
/r/askTRP15/01/20 04:02 PM
1

are you talking to other people too? or are you afraid of human interaction? ​ When you're buying milk at the grocery store, do you talk to the clerk? If so, is it conversation or empty pleasantries? Now extend that to everyone you interact with. BE TALKATIVE. Live in a talkative frame surrounded by people whom you induce talkativeness
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:35 PM
1

I find it funny all the contributors here say being a dick and being an angry jacked monkey is the only way to succeed in life. people are dicks to one another on this subreddit to strengthen one another. Calling other TRP-ers out on their bullshit is not a nice process. Some people get that conflated with being hardcore all the time. Context matters. Search TRP for "Mayor game"
/r/askTRP09/01/20 03:36 PM
1

OYS #2 of 2020 link to #1 Gym: been sick House: we've both been working to keep it clean with sick kids Frame: Her new years resolutions are all things I've suggested. Turns out nagging, bitching, deering doesn't work; but talking to her about them like a boss at a performance review does work. Its taken me 4 years to get to this point, which is my own fault. But I'm starting to really get it and act like the boss of the family. Sex: been sick. I'm trying to set the frame for our upcoming vacati…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/20 10:19 PM
1

OYS#2 for 2020. OYS#1 early 30's, 6ft, 175lb, 17%bf Lifts need to start measuring. Getting back into gym routine after being sick House been sick, we've both been working hard to keep it clean with 2 sick kids Frame her new years resolutions are all things I've suggested she work on. I've been trying to get her to stop snapping at me over little things since we got married. Turns out asking nice or whining or DEERing doesn't work; identifying the problem clearly and making it hers to handle like…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/20 10:10 PM
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OP blaming his wife at counselling means he probably stank of pride for years; he probably still has the faint smell of it. Ironically, what does he have to be proud of? Shit frame and a skinny dad bod. Big improvement in a short time but OP needs put in work and commit to living a lifestyle of being the masculine role model his sons need.
/r/askMRP02/01/20 04:57 PM
1

I don't want to lose my wife That is up to her if she gets on board with the new you. But how does she know its not just a passing phase? I wouldn't do an about face on separation; but rather "temporarily hold off" just to keep it on the table. Read the 12 Steps of Dread post by BluePillProfessor (his book is good too), you want to take your time on this; this monumental change in who you are will take awhile to set in with your wife. It will also take awhile to set in with you. Getting better a…
/r/askMRP02/01/20 04:54 PM
58

opposite of abundance mentality
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 10:54 PM
58

rape is the ultimate covert contract Nice Guy butthurt bullshit
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 10:17 PM
1

watch OP misread this as "try to socially dominate your roommate to prove you're more alpha"
/r/askTRP31/12/19 07:55 PM
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That's really not how I planned my NYE no self awareness. he didn't plan which is how he got into this
/r/askTRP31/12/19 07:38 PM
3

Owning My Shit The Good here's where I'm doing better than before Gym I've got a jacked natty workout buddy who's really laying some knowledge on me lately; half my workouts are with him. I go in the evenings after bedtime. I need to double down on eating and dedication now that work and family life is less busy. I'm squatting and benching my own weight at 17% bf, so I'm barely intermediate here but I seem to gain weight and strength rather quickly when I make it a top priority. Without dedicati…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/19 05:18 PM
3

and she never said a word about her debt, and even (reluctantly) accepted my offer of a card with access to my bank account after the wedding, and started using it. I would use this opportunity to undo this and keep finances separate OR If you ultimately believe in this marriage and want to have combined finances, I would use this to get her to admit she needs your help, thus turning over control of finances to you; of which you can delegate certain tasks to her. BUT you HAVE to work on your fra…
/r/askMRP31/12/19 03:16 PM
1

You have her up against the wall, admitting her failures, and all you needed to do is add comfort. OP is contemplating suicide not realizing he's been dealt a royal flush
/r/askMRP31/12/19 03:06 PM
1

This isn’t dread. This is retardation. this is autistically skipping to step 10 of dread without putting in any of the work
/r/askMRP31/12/19 03:04 PM
2

How I've lied about the neighbor being attractive. this is where you should have been honest. "Yes, I find her attractive, don't you?" Then she started crying and saying it was all her fault and expected it to happen eventually because she has no sex drive. and it kind of is. but its really your fault for not inspiring in her a sex drive for you. What do you lift? Bodyfat %? Do you have an active social life outside the home? Do you play videogames with cheetah-stained chubby hands from a rapidl…
/r/askMRP31/12/19 03:01 PM
1

AFC phase, it'll pass
/r/askTRP30/12/19 09:35 PM
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A man can never run at full speed with a walker and a sperg can never be an alpha living his life by a long arbitrary gay ass list of rules. Despite this, there are plenty of Dark Triad Midnight Wolf Sperg scripts floating around and plenty of spergs jerking off into them. ​ Dude, you crack me up
/r/TheRedPill30/12/19 09:30 PM
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good job rolling with the punches and keeping it lighthearted. she would've made it a big deal if you would have
/r/askTRP30/12/19 08:03 PM
3

OP needs to call the cops on her if she gets violent in the slightest
/r/askMRP30/12/19 04:48 PM
2

she tries to play me for money there's your signature leverage
/r/askMRP30/12/19 04:46 PM
3

all things came to light when she took her pot smoking to a career high. Why is it at an all time high now? You probably enable her
/r/askMRP30/12/19 04:45 PM
13

I wonder how do you guys even trust your girl isn't gonna cheat on you for a guy with higher SMV even if you're doing everything possible to up your own? ​ Dude, she should be wondering if YOU'RE cheating, not the other way around. Get your shit together. 12 Steps of Dread. Do you even have an active social life apart from her? Are you involved in a group that gets you out with others away from her once a week?
/r/askMRP30/12/19 04:43 PM
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and it will probably put her into hysterical bonding, during which OP will become convinced that the deadbedroom magically got better and maybe he SHOULD go through with marriage! Only for it to get worse on the honeymoon unless he gets his shit together Honestly one of the best things to happen to this guy is a dead bedroom BEFORE the wedding instead of after.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 04:40 PM
3

Again, they don't give two shits about fucking your life up. They have power and they will use it.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 03:10 AM
1

not if you're Chad. then you only pay for it with time in the gym. Seriously how much of an autistic person do you have to be to think having a prostitute fuck you for $ is as satisfying as getting with a woman who is getting with you due to her insatiable attraction to you???
/r/TheRedPill13/12/19 04:18 PM
2

climbed out of homelessness bravo dude. that's fuckin huge. never stop fighting Each day is a fight to climb out of one's own mental crab bucket. Relax too much and one is likely to fall into ruinous old habits.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 04:50 PM
7

60 shades of grey, oh yeah!
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 07:43 PM
1

How long have you been here? Have you started the sidebar yet?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 06:50 PM
10

talk about doubling down on a losing hand
/r/askMRP29/11/19 05:11 PM
2

"The ironic thing is that your neediness is probably driving her to actually do what you're worrying about, whereas if you didn't give a fuck she probably wouldn't." Preach!!
/r/askMRP28/11/19 03:58 PM
3

"The ironic thing is that your neediness is probably driving her to actually do what you're worrying about, whereas if you didn't give a fuck she probably wouldn't." Preach!!
/r/askMRP28/11/19 03:58 PM
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Keep living your life. If she cheats, dump her. If she's true, keep her as long as you want her. Stop over thinking and fretting. What are you really worried about here? Worried she'll cheat, or worried you'll be sad and alone and pathetic after you dump her for cheating? You're obsessed with her Focus on you
/r/askMRP28/11/19 03:56 PM
0

I had that happen. I reported her to the cops as a suicide risk
/r/askTRP28/11/19 02:33 AM
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I suspect there's a correlation between the rise in ADHD and the loss of healthy ways for boys to practice masculine aggression in a healthy manner. Jiu Jitsu for boys sounds like an awesome outlet
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 04:15 PM
2

gimme your light stubble tips then: do you shave every few days or trim at a certain length with a beard trimmer? How do you keep from it turning into sandpaper on her face when kissing a woman?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 04:28 PM
3

I appreciate that they're building TRP.RED and i've donated. I hope it continues to evolve and improve however. Its hard to glean any context from posts on there right now
/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:09 PM
3

me too. The TRP.Red format isn't as intuitive as I wish it were; rather unorganized
/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:07 PM
1

this has always been a problem with TRP Which is why they have the Endorsed Contributor system.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:07 PM
1

i'm not going to type you a "how to flirt for beginners" book in a comment, sorry. there might be other resources out there, I'd point you to Day Bang! by Roosh V
/r/askTRP19/11/19 11:49 PM
2

if you're going to do this, which you shouldn't unless you have no need for a job or good recommendation.... you'd better find ways to flirt where you say it without saying it. body language, innuendo and laying it between the lines is key. Can I just say "hey, I want you tonight" and hold eye contact? that will get you fired within a week, IMHO. I've never been a bartender, just my 2 cents. YMMV
/r/askTRP19/11/19 11:36 PM
1

I've been in this position. Dumped a girl for no particular reason; had a laugh; then got back together. Did this several times over the course of college. I could get away with anything with her; she'd bend over backwards for me. Just watch out because when the shit tests come, they're going to be extra shitty and you have to have the frame to be ready for it.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 11:28 PM
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this is the most incel thing i've read on here you're thinking waaaaaayy too hard about this; and thinking way to much about children and the sex they will eventually have. honestly, you might wanna take a break from the internet for awhile
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 11:14 PM
9

Normal normal sized, or American normal sized?
/r/askTRP13/11/19 01:32 PM
1

Eat more and workout like an animal. You need to bulk your way out of this skinny fat trap
/r/askTRP12/11/19 11:08 AM
5

They're kind of sad if you go with an RP mindset. Don't bring much cash, don't bring any credit card/debit card
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 11:06 AM
3

Good point. Yeah people are lovely. People in marriages can be just as lonely
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 11:01 AM
12

anything you would do different next time?
/r/askTRP01/11/19 08:26 PM
1

what do you weigh? What is your max bench, deadlift, squat?
/r/askTRP28/10/19 03:41 PM
1

tell yourself that, but know that its MGTOW with extra steps to appear not MGTOW
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 09:45 PM
1

si vis pacem para bellum
/r/askTRP23/10/19 02:13 PM
2

OP's on askTRP asking questions like this. Doubtful she's done anal with him
/r/askTRP21/10/19 09:41 PM
1

but if you have a lot of money and very limited time you'll already have bitches knocking down your door hoping to snag you giving it away for free ​ nothing WRONG with paying for sex; but its beta/MGTOW. Become the guy they dream of and you 1) get it for free and 2) have the blessed life of being that awesome
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 07:51 PM
1

but he certainly isn't more alpha ​ anyone thinking this is a long term solution, rather than just good for a couple laughs, is halfway to MGTOW
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 07:49 PM
4

paying for sex is a huge trap for the weak who don't want to put in the work
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 07:42 PM
1

honestly sounds harder to bring up than "its getting late, want to come back to my place for some netfilx?"
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 07:34 PM
1

yeah if he can't pull it off without looking like a wet napkin, he's better walking away Hopefully he can muster the gumption
/r/askTRP21/10/19 06:17 PM
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only a bitch would stay in this LTR. if OP stays, she will forever see he is a bitch, and he will forever know he's a bitch everytime he looks at her.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 06:06 PM
1

A simple solution that almost nobody follows through on. Just lift, read, up your style and approach. By all means save up for your surgeries (lord knows I've convinced my dermatologist to do a few non-necessary procedures out of vanity), but if they work perfectly it's all for naught if you're still weak on the inside
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:59 PM
1

they only say that because it gets under his skin. OP can't handle basic shit tests without crumbling; he's weak and sensitive
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:53 PM
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I mean, OP should be totally done with her anyways... so if this causes her to leave it spares him the effort of breaking up with her, plus she'll go tell all her friends how dirty he is; which will get one or two of them to come calling in a few weeks or if it works, obviously that's a big success
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:40 PM
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when she comes back crying, demote her to plate. ​ but only if she'll do anal
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:30 PM
1

go ahead and mock, they're not my books; just books that have helped me on my journey; a journey I'm nowhere near done with yet, but I'm no longer the Average Frustrated Chump I used to be and my life is better for it This sub sees people with that attitude every day. 80% of our readers make excuses and never make changes. boo-hoo you're short who gives a fuck? Plenty of short guys out there crushing it. Plenty of bald guys out there crushing it. Tons of brown guys out there crushing it: where d…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:23 PM
1

Roosh V. did it the hard way, got rejected thousands of thousands of times and kept a journal. IMHO, don't stop. But read those books and keep working to fix yourself. Loving yourself and being confident in yourself give you a natural glow that is attractive in a way you can't fake. Get rid of that self-depracating bend that led you to create that painful username. Your thoughts CREATE a reality around you; THINK high value thoughts and think of yourself as high value; it will become reality if …
/r/askTRP21/10/19 03:57 PM
3

She doesn't value you at all to break up with you after such a small thing doubt she actually broke up over such a small thing. its just the excuse she gave. the real reason is beyond definition for her
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:47 PM
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and don't get sucked into being an emotional tampon, either. She's going to want to kabitz to you about feelings for 2 hours while you sit there and take it. Your time is too valuable for that
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:46 PM
3

read his other comments. It's all in his negative energies and mindset. If he could start to train himself into more positive outgoing thoughts, he'd CRUSH IT
/r/askTRP15/10/19 08:25 PM
2

As a result of this, I'm detached from positive emotions and only allow myself to feel anger and sadness find ways to channel other energies. find ways to connect with exuberance, mirth, chattiness, and open-ness.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 08:24 PM
3

And I try to avoid them. Life is weird. you have to force yourself to become comfortable with chatting up anybody and EVERYBODY. I get the feeling you take yourself rather seriously. If you're not comfortable chatting with your OWN ROOMMATES, then people are turned off by your nervous energy. Start watching stand-up comedy, start practicing banter. Start focusing on building up a better energy; channeling a happier you. 2 books that you should read: The Way of the Superior Male, which addresses …
/r/askTRP15/10/19 08:22 PM
4

who cares
/r/askTRP14/10/19 02:07 PM
1

in my experience, a super low n count means a girl is prudishly boring and uptight, and an LTR with her will be full of prudishly boring uptight-itude. I should've married a girl that enjoys sex and gotten an ironclad prenup. I'd be getting way more head now for it.
/r/askMRP07/10/19 02:06 PM
1

if theultimateCAD were still around he'd have some actionable advice for you: fuck other women to internalize your sexual dominance. I get that you don't want to cheat though, I guess you could GAME other women, number close, then throw it in the trash?
/r/askMRP07/10/19 02:02 PM
1

I go to the gym after the kids bedtime 3x a week. I vary which night based on what else I want to do in the evenings ​ maybe this is in her frame, maybe not... but when mine wants to watch TV I'm grabbing my gym bag and spending that time investing in myself.
/r/askMRP07/10/19 01:55 PM
2

that's the smartest thing I've read on here in awhile
/r/askMRP07/10/19 01:47 PM
1

if an entire community crumples at a small jab by some anonymous internet poster, well then take that butthurt and slap me right in the white privilege with a microagression
/r/askMRP07/10/19 01:42 PM
1

you've earned a temporary respite from shit tests to get your head on straight, but her insecurity won't be fixed by overt communication... it will only be fixed when she feels secure in the knowledge you've got a steady hand on the tiller. make the most of all the chances she's giving you to pass shit tests. Keep a diary if you have to. Every time she shit tests you, you need to be able to identify it as such. Once you can identify them, you can start recognizing them early enough to pass them.…
/r/askMRP07/10/19 01:36 PM
1

yeah i guess i was assuming he was already mixing it up not being a wallflower
/r/askTRP03/10/19 09:43 PM
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individual choices create a culture, yet nobody gives a fuck. ​ create your own world of non-shittiness or enjoy the decline ​ also, I think the market for prostitution tells you the general lack of quality masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 05:25 PM
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keep doing what you were doing ​ it's obviously working
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:48 PM
1

newbies should only trust endorsed contributors
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:05 PM
1

there's tons of modding, and there's an Endorsed Contributor system to let you know who to trust
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:04 PM
3

you sound mad bro. take your political bullshit to another sub dude; i'm talking about censorship
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 03:01 PM
1

good to know, thank you
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 09:58 PM
3

i wouldn't stay married to a woman who kept threatening to leave; why stay here longer than absolutely necessary?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 09:08 PM
24

more family freindly. reddit? lol Obviously we're not going to change what we post on the subreddit. Normies will hear about the almost ban and come check us out. IMHO, redpillschool should shut down this subreddit as soon as the backup is ready
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 08:35 PM
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fuck reddit's game of dread. i'm out of here as soon as trp.red forums are finished. can't wait to stop giving these san francisco fucks my page views. Too bad The_Donald won't migrate off platform like they should
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 08:33 PM
1

is a kind of defeatist attitude. No fighting back at all. i know right? even T_D mods refuse to set up a backup website; which SHOULD be a profitable enterprise if they have as many users as they claim TRP mods are the only ones with the balls, grit, and follow-through not surprised, but a bit disappointed in everyone paitently waiting for the banhammer to fall
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 08:14 PM
6

u/spez can choke on a dick. u/AaronSW forever
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 08:11 PM
7

Absolute free speech is not profitable funny thing is... it could be. there's a hunger for it in the consumers
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 08:10 PM
2

"Let's make our own Reddit with blackjack and hotties. ​ anyone who's been here awhile shouldn't be paying for something they can get for free
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 08:09 PM
2

jokes on them. the struggle is the fun part, finish line is boring
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 08:08 PM
1

No More Mr Nice Guy is a life changer, Models by Mark Manson will expand on that into dating and approaches and banter and storytelling. Obviously the rest of the sidebar is a must. attaboy. that takes grit. make it a thousand. and then two thousand. Yet again, just seek out fun conversations; then if the girl is cute and the conversation is going well a couple minutes in, polarize it and force her to reject or accept you. Get it over with. Its a big numbers game for you more than most, you're g…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:16 PM
1

awesome which books? What have you read? I recommended Mark Manson for some very specific reasons. The Rational Male is intro material that doesn't actually do anything for you, just lays out the general concepts. How about Bang! or Day Bang! by Roosh? 48 Laws of Power? The Way of the Superior Man? perfect Unless you're so grotesque you get job offers for sideshows, maximizing your looks where possible should be able to get you a few conversations going... there's something still off in your ene…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 03:51 PM
0

so what, he should just wallow in his fugliness? Maximizing his SMV via the looks department gains him maybe a point unless he gets plastic surgery. ​ the dude sounds like a real wet blanket wallowing in self-pity. I wouldn't want to hang out with such a debbie downer no matter how good he looked.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 03:10 PM
1

low effort whataboutism, but its getting my thought train going so here's your one response: get Models by Mark Manson on audiobook and play it while you sleep every fucking night until it osmoses not into just my brain, but into every fucking fiber of my subconscious. Or just read the book a dozen times, whatever. I would meditate dailyot to mention some of the comments in this thread, and see what kind of attitude he has. Needy. Desperate. Negative. Sour. Down on himself. Who the fuck would wa…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:36 PM
9

Balkanization isn't stopping, enjoy the decline
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 06:00 AM
2

Game is more important than looks and your game suckkkkksssss because of this "woe is me"-itis you have. Try being a fun person to be around for once
/r/askTRP27/09/19 07:38 AM
9

Clearly all you want to do is blame this situation on things you can't control. Ugliness in body isn't as bad as ugliness in vibe. If you're as desperate as you sound, your vibe is scaring people, not your face
/r/askTRP27/09/19 07:35 AM
21

Jack Ma is ugly AF but I wouldn't mind being him
/r/askTRP27/09/19 07:33 AM
-9

You probably reek of neediness. Read Models by Mark Manson
/r/askTRP27/09/19 07:32 AM
3

Seconded. Top quality. Should be sidebar; the few lessons in here I already internalized, I had to learn the hard way. Huge
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 05:27 PM
23

To think he lost his job due to public pressure (a petition with 1M signatures) is also unfortunate. Cynically, it would have been better had he done the ‘PR’ move and jailed Turner for 6 years, throwing him under the bus. He would still have his job, and avoided the PR nightmare. Sad state of affairs. Pontious Pilate move right there
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 02:01 PM
10

She wants/needs to prove to her friends that she's caught the alpha. If you can't own it in her social circles, you don't fill her fantasy. THIS. Even when I was bluepill with my head up my ass, I still got mad respect and appreciation and a little sex from my wife when I'd be the life of the party with her friends
/r/askTRP20/09/19 01:55 PM
1

Who is John Galt? John Galt is the explorer who found the fountain of youth, and broke his heart because he couldn’t bring it back. ​ You can't open your friend's eyes for him. Plant the seeds, they may never sprout. I've got 2 buddies that are roommates; both have equal potential. A few times I've gotten into it with them about TRP concepts years ago. is more BP than ever... so much that he's a registered sex offender. Zero game, 100% desperation, and stubbornly staying that way. This desperati…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 09:07 PM
2

womyncel
/r/PussyPassDenied17/09/19 06:56 PM
2

for me, personally, buying one was a pivotal moment. A firearm is just a tool; but the responsibility of owning one is a big deal. Taking on that responsibility, and taking the power of protecting myself and my kids, it's a big deal.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 06:48 PM
2

i got a 300's test result; so I turned around all of those components of my life, tested in the 600's 8 weeks later. I've since made even more improvements, suspect I'm higher now. Getting your shit together and not putting up with shit goes a long way u/Vegasman20002 live healthy AF, lift heavy, zinc/vitaminD/magnesium, plenty of rest, meditate, go to the gun range, surround yourself with positive people. THEN RETEST. You don't want to have to go on T supplement unless you can't get it up natur…
/r/askMRP16/09/19 07:04 PM
2

be happy. don't be happy, be DRIVEN and excited at the opportunity
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:59 PM
26

How to look like a boss and have fun while unemployed: spend 40 hours a week pounding the pavement for work, networking, visiting potential employers, going to chamber of commerce events, and getting to know everything you can about your business community. Hit the golf course and make some friends who are 20 years your senior. If you're playing video games in your PJ's anytime the sun is up while unemployed, she's going to see how much the fire in your belly has gone out and realize you're a so…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:57 PM
4

I think VigilantSmartbomb is looking at this all wrong. Read the 12 steps of dread from BluePillProfessor. You've got her right where you want her. Social proof is making her work hard to keep you happy; you've got her right where you want her. So long as you want this LTR; this is how you want to keep your LTR running... with her submissivley seeking to keep you around.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:47 PM
1

Let me guess, they told you what we'd tell you, but masked in a bunch of wishy washy touchy feely language. Either: she's crazy and will take you down as you try to save her or (more likely) she has low self-esteem and thinks poorly of you BECAUSE you got with a girl like her. She thinks there's something wrong with you for not finding someone better than her. So she doesn't trust it, and tests and tests and tests just to see if you're going to stick around. And because you don't knock it out of…
/r/askMRP16/09/19 01:15 PM
9

Has he tried being man?
/r/askMRP14/09/19 04:32 AM
1

That's quite the leap; unless your life just turned into the plotline from a porno. I'd just play it cool, or respond with, "yeah I'd like that but not at the expense of our relationship" If it DOES happen, I'd go along; knowing full well that it could eventually doom the relationship
/r/askMRP13/09/19 08:25 PM
5

But once I alphaed up, things turned around big time. what was that road like for you? How quick of progress did you make?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 08:18 PM
4

Just don't panic sell and exit the markets get a financial advisor so someone will try to stop you from doing this if you're ever tempted
/r/askTRP13/09/19 08:04 PM
6

this is killing you right here, and for NO GOOD REASON. only guys I know who work the nightshift are ones who desperately need the money terrible quality of life
/r/askTRP13/09/19 08:03 PM
3

She won't. You sound very sad and boring to hang out with. Be fun daring and rebellious
/r/askTRP08/09/19 05:08 AM
8

OP is a self-pity filled autist who needs to realize that when he's mopey-er than Ted Moseby it's going to take him way more than 9 boring seasons to Meet their Mother.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 05:06 AM
1

haha she wants it bad dude. Have you tried whinging about the current situation?
/r/askTRP05/09/19 01:36 PM
2

if she said that and you want to leave the door open for future attractions, don't respond if you wanna friendzone her, respond and talk about it with her; how your sisters are up in arms over nothing and you're just a friend. Especially talk awhile about it without saying much. Long talks = drytown
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:04 PM
2

S texted me saying she's embarrassed and apologized for her behavior. I haven't responded to that text. respond to that. IDK enough about your relationship with Mr. S to tell you
/r/askTRP04/09/19 08:41 PM
3

I smell oneitis ​ if she's happily married, don't waste your time
/r/askTRP04/09/19 08:40 PM
9

"i direct movies" saying you're a filmmaker gives you the best of both worlds, imho
/r/askTRP04/09/19 08:33 PM
3

just laugh it off and make a joke of it to S ​ edit: AND her husband. Also joke with her husband about this
/r/askTRP04/09/19 08:28 PM
1

look at the women in this video and tell me this is a trend that isn't entering its downward trend. Short $LULU lemon
/r/PussyPassDenied04/09/19 08:13 PM
2

Focus on your mission ^this. be the center of your own universe
/r/askMRP04/09/19 04:05 PM
1

just like the athleisure industry will be within a few years ​ these are not the hot yoga moms we were promised!
/r/PussyPassDenied04/09/19 03:51 PM
2

OP is losing his hardon because all of his blood is going to the wrong head. Thinking WAY to hard. Let instincts kick in, drink less.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 06:01 PM
1

the complaining. I'm making good progress at gym so do you A&A or just let her vent and ignore it? Understood on the setting boundaries
/r/askMRP03/09/19 03:51 PM
2

I'm in the same boat as OP. How do you bridge that gap though? Her complaining right around bedtime is a long way from me gladly climbing into bed with a fatter grumpier version of the woman who stopped fucking me after the honeymoon.
/r/askMRP02/09/19 02:36 AM
2

Or own it and DGAF
/r/askMRP02/09/19 02:33 AM
2

get her the f out of your space bruh
/r/askMRP30/08/19 02:04 PM
1

if she doesn't have the schmuck on lock-down, OP can force her hand by helping her move.
/r/askMRP28/08/19 02:08 PM
6

her causing a huge scene would only help you hell, it might even pique interest in you by some bridesmaids
/r/askMRP28/08/19 02:07 PM
10

offer her a chance to come over to try on the rest of the uniform later ASD have her say "EW!" and throw the hat back
/r/askTRP27/08/19 06:57 PM
2

Well, that has to stop today. You are not powerless. You are the reality you create around yourself. Imagine a better version of yourself. Sure he has the same issues. But he's fitter, healthier, happier with himself, hilariously outgoing, confident and cocksure. He lives his life with a hunger for things that make him feel alive: rock climbing or anything sporty/outdoorsy like that where you can overcome your issues and become an inspirational Facebook video for my aunt to share with her old PT…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:27 PM
20

And she did a damned fine job of it. That dude won't even realize it
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 11:53 AM
1

how do we apply that knowledge to our own lives?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 07:00 PM
5

lol this is so gay OP. I'm going to lay down the hammer now! Here comes.... a NASTY letter!!! u/throaoeooeoaway you need to forget her and put your energy into your best life, not this petty BS
/r/askTRP16/08/19 06:08 PM
3

AF/BB man-child is neither. he doesn't even register on their radar
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 05:54 PM
1

what am I doing wrong? What does doing that right look like?
/r/askMRP07/08/19 09:23 PM
1

AB exists, they're just increasingly rare. If she's lucky she'll land an old school kind of guy who has his shit together. This was my read as well. No girl decides on the BB strategy for mating in college. Also, guys ITT getting upset that some girls aren't easy slay, when they at the same time constantly preach "vet vet vet vet vet vet vet vet vet VET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" ​ Yeah, TRP is always gonna be full of butthurt Rambo noobs. I wonder what the %age of noobs stick around and do the work? Probab…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 01:53 PM
6

It comes off 50-60% more robotic. dude, you're killing me with this
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 07:24 PM
41

she's opting to skip the AF and move on the Beta Bucks. If she's smart she'll start dating guys over thirty who are looking to settle down; might be able to land commitment from a high value guy. Otherwise its a crapshoot for her; most guys in their 20's are pajamaboys, niceguys, or fuckboys.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 06:59 PM
29

get a remote office If you've got a buddy at a small company, you could probably work something out to use an extra desk
/r/askMRP02/08/19 06:25 PM
3

OP has a point. The post is long. American or Brits that smoke like a chimney are usually unhealthy trashy, redneck or chav. Its too easy to slip into that reckless self-loathing archetype in our cultures. But reckless can be fun. It's not like we're vetting women for marriage here.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 04:34 PM
2

Don't waste another second thinking about this crazy woman. Be glad at the opportunity to focus on YOUR MISSION. Without her distracting you, you have time to go to the gym 5x a week, eat like a lion, and sleep like a bear. Go be the best version of you you can be.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:29 PM
1

this is an intro post for beginners who need to break out of their shell by forcing themselves to talk to people. If you have the frame and centered-ness to be what you talked about, this post probably isn't for you.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 05:32 PM
1

So... I took your advice and started leading in my approaches. Got laid on Saturday AND Monday night. 2x in 3 days is normal for most of you, but that probably hasn't happened to me in 18 months. I credit a few things: 1. spending all wknd shirtless at the lake 2. my phone was off in my room all weekend 3. no shitty frame during that time 4. less lazy time at home b/c i'm going to the gym so much and 5. improved approaches: approaching with INTENTION with kino hours before Between that and my no…
/r/askMRP23/07/19 05:22 PM
1

I was REALLY bluepill. It took a personal crisis to get me to wake up; and years of learning the bare-bones basics of frame and physical fitness. At the time, I wanted that white picket fence, and she seemed able to help me get there. I once read a u/jacktenofhearts comment on super Type-A women that stuck with me on "highly functional and completely unfeminine" women that fits her to a T. We'll see if, by the end of this, we're still compatible.
/r/askMRP22/07/19 02:52 PM
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and don't get married
/r/askMRP19/07/19 04:51 PM
1

If you're trying to articulate you need pussy and to get off before sleep, that's some pussy shit right there. Learn self control and grow up. definitely not saying that If you're asking about what to do being rejected by your wife while making a wimpy attempt to initiate sex, then theres some work to be done. Develop IDGAF, being rejected shouldn't shake or collapse your frame to the point of pondering your cosmic insignificance. this one
/r/askMRP19/07/19 04:47 PM
1

None of this is for your marriage. It’s all about fixing your autism first. Until then, nothing positive will happen. It’s almost like you’re not even trying. A person that has done all that reading would certainly be seeing some success by now. I'm not here to fix her, I'm here to get swole, and to work to internalize all the readings. I've fucked enough women to know that she's simply not turned on by me. She's only ever really wanted it 1. right before the wedding and 2. trying to get pregnan…
/r/askMRP19/07/19 04:26 PM
7

Seconded. I needed this post a year ago. 10/10
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 12:21 PM
4

and NEVER tell them why. master the art of vague plausible deniability
/r/askTRP17/07/19 06:18 PM
1

You are either too fat / too skinny, have bad habits (like porn / video games / other addictions DRUGS) u/g-luvhonduras, drugs seem cool because sex drugs rock&roll, but they're lame AF Why do you keep getting shit for doing drugs here? ​ They're another empty unearned dopamine hit, like videogames or alcoholism or masturbation or a social media addiction. All of those things turn you inward into a tidy little self-contained self-pleasuring blip of nothing with no power, no respect, no ability t…
/r/askMRP17/07/19 06:13 PM
1

lucky for you, she makes way more than you do right now. Press for alimony in divorce court
/r/askMRP17/07/19 06:00 PM
1

I've had success in the past, but currently I'm gonna have pitiful answers to each of those questions; Especially because of my physique, though my improvements show up in the gym (heavier weights than before), I'm working hard to get them to the point where they show OUTSIDE the gym. ​ 1 orgasm, then she always wants me to stop, no matter how turned on she is, or no matter how good of frame I'm having. A few years back I watched an instructional series and got really good at cunnilingus. She st…
/r/askMRP17/07/19 05:53 PM
1

Or you’re totally unskilled at getting her turned on and interested in fucking you. my gut says this one
/r/askMRP16/07/19 08:49 PM
0

In the early stages you won't be able to hide your frustration and hurt little feelings, so you completely remove yourself. yeah, I get that. The goal is to not get butthurt about it. 100% my goal is DNGAF. Some days I do better than others. I definitely remove myself when I have to. I'm also trying to spend my time wisely; if she's sexual enough, she'll be a worthy distraction. Right now, she just wants me being her Mr. Asexual Couch Potato and I'm very bored with that. She even tried to tell m…
/r/askMRP16/07/19 08:17 PM
1

Hard No is like a shit test. I’ve had one or two of them. Means you’ve pissed her off earlier and have done NOTHING to prep for we throughout the day. Why are you getting Hard No’s and how are you waiting until the end of the day AND clueless that you’ll get a Hard No? Stupid autistic question: how do you game someone who knows everything about you? I mean, we joke around, but she resists anytime I try to make it flirty. She's type A and doesn't want to let go control of anything, even though I'…
/r/askMRP16/07/19 03:04 PM
1

If you can't game random women don't expect your wife to want to fuck you either. Use that anger and direct it towards yourself for being a fat faggot and become the man you want. Anger is excellent when properly harnessed. part of why I don't initiate as much as I used to, seems like a waste of my energy for what, fucking a begrudging woman who isn't as hot or as pleasant as she used to be. I'm trying to put all my energies into fitness, work, and parenting. The better I do at those, maybe the …
/r/askMRP16/07/19 01:57 PM
0

I sleep like a champ, but I didnt always. I pondered “life”. and the change for you was this mindset as well?
/r/askMRP16/07/19 01:50 PM
0

depending on the time, the best thing for me is to go to the gym, eat, finish a project around the house, or go to sleep. I should do those things seemingly as if her rejection didn't happen But I struggle with the advice around here of: "always be approaching" I get shot down so much, that I wonder what's the point; and start to focus my energies somewhere more productive than a woman who doesn't want me that I'm less attracted as well.
/r/askMRP16/07/19 01:49 PM
1

Plus you're training her to make the effort to argue with you about it holy shit. dawning realization here. Do you have a plan laid out in advance of everything? Thinking ahead that much will be a whole new ball game for me.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 06:16 PM
1

holy shit, that's epic. Stupid questions on what works for you: ​ do you hit the gym twice a day often? do you hit the gym mostly when the fam is sleeping? does your wife throw out tons of comfort tests when you're gone that much? ​ are you able to get in enough time around the house for mowing the lawn/parenting/etc?
/r/askMRP15/07/19 05:42 PM
1

The feminine grows through praise. If you want more of a type of behavior you have to praise it. She fat? You dont say "get in the gym". Instead the next time she does work out or wears something you like... "that dress/shirt/panties you're wearing makes your ass look great." thanks for the reminder to double down on positive reinforcement
/r/askMRP15/07/19 04:39 PM
2

My response "guess you have to try harder" with a grin. Then I get called to cocky and an asshole. ​ if you can't tell. This is a GOOD SIGN. Revel in how many times you get called an asshole.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 04:36 PM
2

first, thanks for the detailed response ​ sleep ​ yeah, after reading other comments here, I think sleep eludes me because I have several personal and professional goals I'm not seeing the results I want: physique, sex, money. Too bad being tired the next day makes those goals harder to reach. I hit the gym after the kids bedtime (8:30), which should negatively affect my sleep but I usually sleep a little better on those nights. I'm also good at popping a melatonin when I drink my protein shake,…
/r/askMRP15/07/19 04:27 PM
0

9 hours at the gym a week is getting hard for me to justify with a wife and kids. I go right after bedtime (conveniently same time my workout buddy goes), but lately wife keeps begging me to not go as much because she wants to spend time with me. And by spend time with me, I mean sit on the couch and watch some shitty tv show while ignoring me. I should just get her a pillow with my face on it and tell her to fuck me or fuck off; but I wouldn't be able to pull that off without coming across butt…
/r/askMRP15/07/19 03:55 PM
1

no caffeine at all? that's awesome. what was cutting it out like for you?
/r/askMRP15/07/19 03:51 PM
-1

I try and initiate before I would go to the gym, so that I can go to the gym without seeming butthurt. I'm 95% OI, but then I'm having an off day the gym really helps to fix my head
/r/askMRP15/07/19 03:50 PM
0

Can't even control his schedule. Check. any tips on getting better at this? I'm here b/c I want to change. Lay it on me
/r/askMRP15/07/19 02:18 PM
5

my marriage started back when I was suuuuper bluepill and suffering for it. She approached me because somehow despite this and despite the fact I weighed 140lbs, I was still cocky/funny enough to attract her I guess. Point is: if I were redpilled at the time, I would have played the field for years, perfecting game, before I got married, if at all. Being fully unplugged would have made my marriage far easier.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/19 02:05 PM
1

laconically put.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 01:41 PM
1

how much would you recommend? I'm going to the gym 3x or more a week
/r/askMRP15/07/19 01:40 PM
2

IDK why you got downvoted, you're right. ​ Skinny-fat, but yeah, working on it. I've been really focusing on my diet and gym habit lately. Trying to get less skinny, then get less fat. I've been thinking I need less reddit in my life
/r/askMRP15/07/19 01:36 PM
1

It's anxiety. It's realizing that you aren't doing shit. your hamster is running wild and giving you reasons why things are the way you want them to be. it's really an admission by yourself that you aren't working enough. How I heard that was, getting more shit done during the day will help me feel more settled. Is that right?
/r/askMRP15/07/19 01:30 PM
1

lifted 4.5 hours last week, ran half a mile
/r/askMRP15/07/19 01:29 PM
0

Go read the 12 Levels of Dread, and basically all the top posts in MRP. ​ I've read the sidebar and read the levels of dread dozens of times. This is something that just isn't clicking for me
/r/askMRP15/07/19 01:26 PM
2

He may be right. Remember, we fix the man, not the marriage.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 03:53 AM
3

Attaboy. chime in everytime some noob complains about TRP being too hard because they aren't a male model. Buncha whiners.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 03:38 AM
3

Reread Roosh and actually do the approaches this time instead of pretending you understand Your head is stuck in a needy space.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 03:36 AM
3

You need to learn to catch a few fish consistently. Life after marriage is harder because she has you on the hook and doesn't think you have alternative options. The only antidote to this is being able and willing to replace her. They can smell it
/r/askMRP15/07/19 03:24 AM
1

you sound like you're trying to convince yourself. Playing that soccer game gets me outdoors and moving; increasing my health, counteracting my sedentary job, and increasing my social circle.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 10:54 PM
1

hey, you do what you want. I'm not here to shame you for it. But be honest with yourself about how much time you're spending doing X activity, and what you're getting out of it. JUST escapism, or something more? I intentionally choose hobbies that ALSO get me closer to my physical, social, or monetary goals. Computer games, which I do play occasionally, are just consumption of media; like a slightly more immersive form of going to the movies. ZERO steps towards being who I want to be.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 10:52 PM
2

remind me, does MGTOW stand for "dating your left hand" or "saving up for a sex robot"? I always forget...
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 10:11 PM
1

Butthurt much?
/r/askTRP09/07/19 06:07 AM
-1

Prove it
/r/PussyPassDenied08/07/19 02:26 PM
11

OP is 100% enabling their poor choices
/r/askTRP07/07/19 04:21 AM
11

DOWNVOTED for this??? Holy shit there's a lot of anger phase wannabes here, trying to convince themselves they can be an alpha while remaining in their little consumption bubble of comfort This is why the endorsed contributor system is important, noobs can't handle the harsh advice they need to hear
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 04:05 AM
4

Unless you're about to go pro or be the next PewDiePie, video games isn't a hobby, it's an escapism. No more a hobby than watching reruns of Friends. I play videogames occasionally, but in no way is it a constructive hobby
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 04:02 AM
7

Hunting. If you didn't grow up hunting, get a guy you know who does to show you the ropes. One of the most red-blooded things you can do
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 04:00 AM
2

easy test: ask her if she wants to (insert any lame excuse to meet outside of work)
/r/askTRP03/07/19 11:45 PM
3

AgreeAmplify/AmusedMastery dude. this should be easy "Why, should I be? WHAT DID YOU DO!?!? ;)" "Kinda, but nothing that can't be fixed by you gagging on my cock" "I'm pissed, I can't brush my teeth for an entire week! The grocery store only had green toothbrushes and I need a blue one. WHY DOES THE WORLD HATE ME??"
/r/askTRP03/07/19 07:34 PM
1

time for a hail mary cuz its already over in short order
/r/askTRP03/07/19 07:20 PM
2

give her as much healthy attention as you can, OP
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:00 PM
6

"Removing girly slap fights" Thanks, that shit makes me cringe
/r/TheRedPill30/06/19 02:19 PM
7

Some of these guys are cokeheads who blow their entire paychecks doing drugs on a Tuesday. ​ Smart to spend less time with these people. No way do you want to get caught up in a drug arrest or something stupid like that. ​ Don't make a show out of leaving. Be cordial, just be busy doing something more productive when you get an invite.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 06:18 PM
15

TRP has a bunch of 18yo noobs in the anger phase who'd rather bitch than do what they can to improve their situation
/r/askTRP24/06/19 04:40 PM
1

Audible has most of the books on the TRP and MRP sidebars. Bang, Day Bang, 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, When I Say No I Feel Guilty, just for starters
/r/askTRP24/06/19 02:44 PM
5

solipsism
/r/askTRP24/06/19 02:38 PM
3

I go back and reread u/jacktenofhearts top comments
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:19 PM
1

identify if it’s your own code of life that is being infringed on or is that other people’s expectations that you are placing an importance on. OP, what is unsettling to you about shooting porno? What did you find rewarding about it? What kind of impact do you want to leave on the world?
/r/askTRP19/06/19 10:12 PM
1

i've been cutting back
/r/askTRP19/06/19 01:53 PM
1

that's a good point. I'll take a look.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 01:53 PM
1

that's tribulus based that's a new word to me. what do you mean?
/r/askTRP19/06/19 01:53 PM
1

you would need to stay on it permanently i've seen awesome results already with effortless changes to my lifestyle. I wanna see what I can do natural with consistency at the gym. have a bit of fun with superhuman test levels only reason I'd be interested, but I'm just getting back into the gym habit after a crazy period in my life, gonna go get those noob gains first.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 01:51 PM
1

great comment, very informative, thank you. Agreed; I'd prefer to empower my body to make its own T at this age; especially with the results I'm already seeing with minimal effort. Reduce plastic/food interaction, reduce processed foods, reduce sugar. got it.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 01:48 PM
7

TRT decreases natural test production without also taking hcg. I'm hoping to naturally stimulate my body into making enough that I don't need TRT. I've been living unhealthy so I want to see what I can get up to natural. If that isn't enough, then TRT all the way, though I may skip the doc, do my research, and do a cycle or two.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 09:49 PM
1

lbs ​ total guess on the BF. no idea how to calculate.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 07:57 PM
1

more energy, focus, social presence
/r/askTRP18/06/19 07:48 PM
1

31
/r/askTRP18/06/19 07:26 PM
6

"I will never think this" "I will never care about this." like... "I will never care about her not responding to texts" ?
/r/askTRP18/06/19 05:11 PM
6

yeah. frame is more like "so what if i'm wrong"
/r/askTRP18/06/19 03:34 PM
2

WISNIFG might have some good ways to get his comments to stick out like a sore thumb. Negative inquiry, perhaps?
/r/askTRP14/06/19 05:10 PM
3

You are REQUIRED to read these before posting. Ignorance of the rules is not an excuse. right there in the sidebar
/r/askTRP13/06/19 08:59 PM
2

If youre #1 on her list you misread this
/r/askTRP13/06/19 08:57 PM
1

Sets the frame for BOTH of them to appeal to you this is key
/r/askTRP13/06/19 08:49 PM
19

Welfare Gov't provides the security to women to fuck up their life 100%. its all about incentives. What the government is rewarding or punishing.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 03:03 PM
13

the burden of performance: https://therationalmale.com/2014/09/23/the-burden-of-performance/ If we can't perform, we're not worth much in societies eyes
/r/askTRP11/06/19 04:13 PM
19

looking back on the periods of the most success I had with women; I was living in a mindset of "be the best Onein1024th I can be" I truly remember how freeing it was to be that selfish in my life's purpose. Coincidentally, I had the most options at those times, too.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 02:51 PM
1

How can you be social and wear headphones at the same time? Headphones are the universal symbol for "don't talk to me". good point. I'm meeting someone I know there, I'll leave the headphones at home tonight. different room at home or a drawer at work good one
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/19 07:57 PM
1

Depends on the gym. Ours is really strength focused. I don't blame you for moving to a regular one if you aren't seeing gains. yeah mine had a strength component and fantastic coaching. My form on every lift improved tenfold. I just felt I wasn't getting enough time on the weights at the end of the day. I def. miss the community aspect, hoping to get to know some more regulars at my gym. You have fucked around for 3 years already. At least you know you are acting like a faggot. Get your shit tog…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/19 06:51 PM
1

OYS #3 Abstract: I've been unplugged for 3 years, but mostly trying to absorb and internalize amidst a crazy period of life (business, move, etc). I'm done skipping around on the steps of dread. The Gym is the crux of ending this fuckarounditis. There's a baby in the house, so most dread is on hold except the gym, which is where I'm most lacking anyways. ​ Stats: 6ft, 170lbs, DL 260, Squat 190, bench 145. Ectomorph who needs to learn to eat/sleep enough. ​ Books: Art of Seduction, 48 Laws of Pow…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/19 02:58 PM
2

OP you're awesome. False allegations hurt the credibility of every real rape victim out there. Sadly that isn't a deterrent for most fake accusers. If SJW's truly cared about rape victims rather than attention, they'd focus their efforts on ensuring sustainable fair practices that respect the rights of the accused. Instead we live in an era of witch-hunts. No wonder every political slander these days comes laden with a few rape allegations that never make it to a guilty verdict. It really is sha…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/19 01:54 PM
2

And as a result, most students don't look at price. Students shop for amenities and nice-to-haves. Which leads to schools being REWARDED for bloated budgets rather than punished. Its why you don't fuck with free market capitalism without a damned good reason (monopolies, for example)
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:51 PM
1

Read two books: No More Me Nice Guy And When I Say No I Feel Guilty
/r/seduction05/06/19 12:05 AM
2

OP, to put is as straightforward as possible, since you clearly don't understand a damned thing: GO TO THE BREWERY/CONCERT. IGNORE HER OUTBURST, SHE'LL FORGET ALL ABOUT IT IN A DAY OR TWO. ​ You're letting her stupid fear of being alone for a couple hours prevent you from being a functioning adult.
/r/askMRP03/06/19 04:36 PM
8

Rollo knows his shit. His body of work is invaluable.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 04:26 PM
2

read in "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene about this. It can be beneficial to have a reputation as a lover. It makes women curious as to what made so many other women fall for you. There's a whole chapter on your exact situation; available on Audible if your attention span is too short
/r/askTRP31/05/19 08:14 PM
6

it's tough shit. TRP advises against marriage for a reason. You have to be able to hold frame over months and years. Too big of a beta-ification and her view of you will take months to recover. Outside of marriage it's easy to move on to another girl who doesn't have a negative view of you. Inside marriage you don't get that luxury as easily.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/19 02:25 PM
10

find a marriageable woman AND to be a marriageable man. You need both Alpha tingles and beta comfort. It's hard mode for sure.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/19 02:14 PM
1

So? It's who you are. Own it.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/05/19 04:47 AM
8

bad move. plausible deniability is key for ASD. Then she can say, "it just happened" like there was magic in the air
/r/askTRP28/05/19 06:35 PM
3

I have a toddler, and sometimes the similarities are uncanny. Firm boundaries. What are some of the firm boundaries you set with your wife? NMMNG took me a LONG time to digest; I still don't think I have as firm of a grasp on setting boundaries as I would like to
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 04:47 PM
4

he seems a little retarded guilty as charged. some of this shit takes a while for me to absorb. Thanks for the response. I'll be reading it later today.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 01:43 PM
1

cute. dig deep, look in the mirror, and realize that this is all your own doing. Not mine. Not your wife's. Not society's (though they certainly lied to you) Kill the ego, it's stopping you from learning. After the ban come back and be more open to feedback, even if it stings the ego.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 01:39 PM
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You're Upset Your Wife is Angry at You For some reason this one trips me up often. She gets mad at me over stupid shit and I get annoyed and surly at her for getting pissy. What does the right response to her being pissed look like? Do you leave? What if it's at an inappropriate time to just up and leave? Edit: also what emotionally does this look like, what frame does that come in?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/19 12:28 AM
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Plenty of sluts in the Bible, not sure why they have to be mutually exclusive
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 11:11 PM
2

Not caring about her behavior would look like this: I was trying to be cheeky making that comment, but maybe it came across needy? Maybe it was actually validation seeking and I didn't realize it but she did? other than that, tbh my reaction to HER reaction was to just keep the conversation going about the primary topic and ignore that she made that face at me. TBH I didn't pay it much mind at the time until I took a shower later that day; I'd like to be smart enough to understand WHY she reacte…
/r/askMRP23/05/19 06:12 PM
5

So next time we got coffee together, with a really exaggerated smug look, I asked the employee "Oh, hold on a sec.... she'll need to taste it. *we both watch her take a drink* Is it GOOD honey? *embarrassed, she says yes* *I turn to employee huge grin, wink* "FANTASTIC, have a great day". this is Gold
/r/askMRP23/05/19 02:35 PM
2

love you too buddy
/r/askMRP21/05/19 04:34 PM
2

Second this, except bracelets, they can dress up a casual look nice and they're in style right now. Tateossian makes some good ones.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 06:23 AM
2

I mean, do I care how she feels about it? no. ​ Do I care about learning life lessons? No. I confidently sit at home in dirty sweatpants smelling of B.O. surrounded by dirty plates while playing fortnight marathons. B/c what's more IDGAF than that?
/r/askMRP20/05/19 07:47 PM
2

In 48 Laws of Power, the 2nd rule "Never Put Too Much Trust in Friends" talks about a friend who is given power by a king and eventually grows to resent the king for it as he KNOWS deep down that all of his "accomplishments" weren't his own. I think feminists feel the same way, hence they're trying to constantly tear down the western men who gave them voting rights; and trying to convince themselves of alternate realities in which every invention was made by women.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 05:23 PM
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this makes sense how do you calibrate flirtation outside of the bedroom? probably my weakest area; I feel like I'm either all business or putting my foot in my mouth, even when I'm trying to be subtle
/r/askMRP20/05/19 04:13 PM
2

Why do you care? I care because it feels like I did something stupid and want to learn from my mistake
/r/askMRP20/05/19 03:26 PM
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TRP isn't a dogma, it's a toolbox. You need to find your own purpose outside of sexual strategy theorists
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 12:13 PM
12

dealbreaker 100%
/r/askTRP16/05/19 07:24 PM
1

yeah I'd just demote her. never promote her to LTR again. ever.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 07:07 PM
1

every group has it's assholes My case in point: you're on this sub
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/19 03:30 PM
1

that's a strong argument, hard to refute
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/19 01:27 PM
9

You'd think, but a lot of chumps put up with terrible behaviour out of scarcity mentality
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 12:26 PM
1

Absolutely worse. They truly want to poke holes in the 1st amendment to silence their opponents. They want to violently silence people that don't support their agenda. It sounds extreme; but this kind of thinking is how governments wind up killing millions of their own people; eventually silencing people through violence becomes so mainstream the government starts doing it
/r/PussyPassDenied11/05/19 01:13 PM
5

Holy shit. I just realized why I dated that crazy girl so long in college
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 07:04 AM
3

Ego investment is a bitch That's why we kill the ego here as step one for the newbies
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 07:01 AM
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It has a lot of parralels to today but above all else, it's a classic for a reason. Top notch writing
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 04:45 AM
2

boyfriend or not, why should you care? Hit on her the same way you would either way, it's her prerogative to respond in kind or stay true. You didn't make any commitment to this boyfriend, why do you care? Sounds like you have oneitis for this girl a bit too, if you're worried about a comment she made 6 months ago. Scarcity mentality won't get you anywhere
/r/askTRP07/05/19 02:20 PM
1

no problem now, thanks for the help.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 02:15 PM
1

OYS #1 Unplugged for 3 years. The last year has been crazy: move, career change, baby, etc. Dust has settled. Time to get back in the saddle. Gym: joined a gym. My plan is to ease back into stronglifts 5x5, then add a new accessory lift each week to do a 5 day rotation: push, pull, legs, push, pull. My athletic experience is distance running so learning these lifts and good form will take awhile. This, and getting more sleep to support this are top priority. I took a Testosterone test, came up w…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 12:42 PM
2

Not an expert, but I'd just ignore the boyfriend comment.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 04:24 AM
1

until I'm ready for Dread Level 10 I'm trying to take the steps in order If I'm honest with myself, I have a lot of personal fitness and getting myself in order to do before "fuck me or fuck you". I did have a plate for a few months, didn't bother to replace her; felt like having one was out of order. Wife got pregnant, fitness backslid due to work, I'm actively trying to regain some routine again.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/19 06:28 PM
1

And each of those small progress indicators are very easy to break down into discrete steps BTW I have specific goals for business, easy to manage something you measure. IDK why I never thought to put these into specifics for my personal life. rough draft: get weight above 170lbs at <15% BF chest press/bench press own weight 3 lays per week is a goal of mine but I've never made progress on this one, and TBH, despite lurking for two years, I feel powerless to fix it; even after dressing better, g…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/19 06:16 PM
2

a more successful version of me: more fit, more popular and charismatic, laid regularly, more successful at home
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/19 04:44 PM
1

How do you turn that corner and LIVE it? I've been larping/lurking here for a few years now; and while I get more IOIs, and have made some great changes for the best in my business life, it rings hollow.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/19 01:51 PM
3

who's gonna fix it, OP? Do you expect us to call up your parents and guilt them into fixing your problems for you?
/r/askTRP03/05/19 06:26 PM
5

My strategy would be: building rapport with everyone else in the company, WHILE never saying anything bad about this woman to anyone. Ignore her tantrums, water off the back. Continue being reasonable, measured, and professional. Dale Carnegie "How to Win Friends and Influence People" all over that office. Everyone will know who you are and what you stand for and have a soft spot for you, they will be unlikely to believe her B.S. about you after that. Eventually the truth will out
/r/askTRP03/05/19 05:20 PM
2

I told her "I think you don't wanna be with me but you don't have the balls to tell me" she wants OP to kill the puppy so she doesn't have to. Be a man and end it OP. Like a bandaid. Life's too short to waste another second dating someone who doesn't want to date you. https://therationalmale.com/2016/10/24/please-breakup-with-me/
/r/askTRP03/05/19 02:56 PM
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or he will not learn, and find life frustrating for "no explainable reason"
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 03:12 PM
1

gotta learn to love the game
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:46 PM
2

I loved your explanation of the dynamic and mehanics behind dread game. I feel like I have a much better understanding
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 11:59 AM
8

When you take the male-hate and male-disempowerment out of female empowerment, it works a lot better. 3rd wave feminists run out of things to say. ​ All they have is hate nowdays
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 04:28 PM
8

why make Hamilton black? American Black History is filled with countless incredibly powerful stories. Everything is stupid these days
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 04:25 PM
25

Black Widow this is the character that needed her own movie. Scarlett Johannsen is 100x the actress that Brie Larson is. Black Widow is a truly dynamic character with depth, acquired skill, and an incredible backstory. Capt. Marvel is a female version of superman that's special because "hey look I'm a girl!" Because the MCU needed yet another 2D origin story about a science experiment gone awry.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 04:23 PM
3

dude, almost everything I do is win-win. I buy things from people who want to sell them to me. I sell things to people who really want what they're getting. I hire people who really want to spend their time as part of my team. I fire people who clearly don't want to/don't know how to do the job they've been given. The women I choose to sleep with all want to sleep with me. They want to sleep with me because of my charm. OP needs to read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" and see that all …
/r/askTRP22/04/19 04:11 PM
2

the toolbox of TheRedPill can be used to build whatever you design to. If you design to get married and have a family; don't let us stop you from getting what you want. Your description of her makes her sound like a good candidate for marriage. But there are some harsh realities with marriage. IF you want to do this, go into it fully prepared with your eyes wide open. Getting married is definitely TRP on hard mode. To keep your relationship value you will have to continue to get more fit, more s…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 03:59 PM
8

This is the hardest part of game I've found. Most of the guys I know are pretty lame
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 03:15 AM
1

Right? OP needs to get to the point where it isn't a big deal
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/19 12:47 PM
11

How do you handle the backlash? What if she chases you down in person, sobbing hysterically?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 04:26 PM
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yeah I did, it took me awhile to figure out what was happening. This guide you wrote has really helped me understand the situation better. Any other early warning signs you've noticed? She proved to be an immense time-waster for me and the organization as a whole. It was like having a competitor trying to sabotage your every effort at setting up good procedures, transparency, or productivity; all to satisfy her own ego
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 03:43 PM
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I recently had an employee try to do this by withholding information, taking over decisions that weren't hers to make, sowing confusion and gaslighting. I've only learned all this in hindsight, of course. She just seemed like an often illogical and quirky but passionate person. You just described her playbook perfectly. I only ousted her when I caught her in one specific instance either being manipulative or completely inept.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 01:00 PM
2

How to Win Friends and Influence People. I was a real cunt to deal with before that book made me self aware
/r/askTRP14/04/19 03:43 AM
2

Getting insulted on TRP is tradition for a reason. To test and build frame
/r/askTRP13/04/19 01:47 PM
12

For me a lot of it comes down to intentionally being a pleasant person to be around. I mean, sex looks and cooking will keep any married man addicted to you. But if you're a harsh abrupt person, home life can easily feel like boot camp.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/19 12:33 PM
3

When she crawls back, barely give her the time of day. She can't ever be more than a plate to you ever again
/r/askTRP10/04/19 12:13 PM
10

In this case was your frame literally just to not get rattled?
/r/askTRP10/04/19 11:58 AM
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I sailed a small sailboat at night in a snowstorm by headlamp. Almost couldn't turn around because of the gale force winds and the one man crew; I had to sail to the far end of the lake to turn around in the wind shadow of the shore.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/19 02:15 AM
1

It's not the program, it's your lack of effort ​ I won't argue that I really let self care fall by the wayside as I prioritized other areas of my life I've always had strong legs and weak upper body (I was a runner in school sports) and as such, I don't feel like 5x5 hits my problem areas enough (arms, shoulders, chest). My jeans stopped fitting my quads 6 months in, yet I still had toothpick arms after 18 months of lifting.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 05:43 PM
1

they would classify as beginner Ok. I just want to get better than I am right now, whatever that is, with the right program. before it starts hurting your testosterone levels I got my T levels checked in January. Came back 300 ng/dl. Barely above "acceptable" range according to doc. I've got an appt. with a GP to talk to him about Testosterone replacement therapy; at least for a spell until lifting starts to naturally up my T. Step 2: Remember diet is 75% of lifting, so stop eating like shit, I …
/r/askTRP09/04/19 05:39 PM
1

Cringe worthy
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/19 11:44 AM
1

Popular amongst the depressed betas of the world This will just be the next level version of that. Soyboys fucking their computer that is stronger than them
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 11:27 PM
5

There's a sea of competing false gods out there to commit yourself to
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 03:20 AM
1

Utility companies usually have a monopoly
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 03:13 AM
1

Be attractive <- maximize your looks at gym Don't be unattractive <- Game. don't ruin the fantasy
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 02:29 PM
1

Adam and Eve repeats itself
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 10:08 PM
1

OP started at 140lbs so that 30 lbs doesn't mean much
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 07:56 PM
1

Tell your story, write a post. The "doesn't matter if you're hot" crowd needs to hear it. Congrats on the looks, I'm not a 10 but I'm a 6, could be 7 or 8 if I weren't so skinny (im working on that obviously). Good on you quitting videogames/pot. You've got all this free time, do something with it! Live a life that makes you the best version With the right attitude and game and charisma you could slay, especially in Vegas!
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 03:24 PM
2

That's where it gets fun because those divulged details can become the next topic of conversation if you deem it a good enough topic to ask
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 11:15 AM
1

Are you lifting? Don't sell your car to fix your insecurities. Only do it if it is the obvious next step for you. In that case, if it's what you want to do, go for it. But have basic frame/game and be able to bench/squat/deadlift your own bodyweight
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 11:14 AM
1

I meant them as arrows. Edited for clarity. Obviously hit the gym. But being shy will only limit your potential even if you look like a Greek god
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 11:08 AM
1

Dude, that's awesome. I'm not nearly jacked enough to pull like that. A little game and you could crush it like no other
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 10:59 AM
3

and this is an intro post. To tighten up past that, start passing shit tests, Agree and Amplify, Amused Mastery, pressure flip/challenge. I've barely scratched the surface
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 12:07 AM
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apparently to bicker about whether or not we should submit to nihilism or do the best with the cards we've been dealt and hit the gym. every post on game here is full of incel comments like this lately
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 11:59 PM
2

nobody's perfect, including you. deal with it
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 07:31 PM
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you can do it. I used to be a regular Sheldon Cooper. Long road from there to here. Take all the small opportunities to acclimate yourself to this new reality. YOU are now a chatty guy. Talk about the weather with the person behind you in line at the grocery store. Don't let an opportunity pass to say Hey or Nice Jacket or Crazy Weather Lately, Right? or This Song Makes Me Want to Dance But I'll Spare You. The calmer you can get while doing this, the better the responses. THEN, you can chat up g…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 06:37 PM
7

so go lift, don't complain to me about it
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 06:29 PM
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Apparently it's easier to find a victimhood wallowing in ugliness Be attractive : clothes, fitness, hair, jawline ​ Don't be unattractive: charisma, DGAF attitude, Amused Mastery frame I've seen model-looks jacked dudes blow it by being awkward and shy. I've seen ugly balding guys crush it
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 06:26 PM
2

depends on the question. Probing interview questions are weird. Hey, I've been thinking about getting a bright green mohawk, what do you think? That's playful, fun, and a chance to give your opinion
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 06:21 PM
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basic social skills --> mastering game --> higher SMV lifting and style will only up your SMV so far if you open your mouth and prove yourself an awkward dork Edit for clarity
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 02:38 PM
2

gotta somehow escape selling goods that are commodities.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 03:02 PM
1

Sorry I can't find the exact one I was thinking of, but I remember them talking about when they first get to the bar, just find some group of strangers, walk up, introduce yourself, and chat just to get loosened up. No expectations, no attempted pick-ups. If you're nervous, they even suggested literally telling them "hey i'm nervous and need someone to chat with to get out of my head" which is a little forward for me. But DGAF if they judge you, they're just randos at a bar. Chat about weather, …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 02:52 PM
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Social warming up. The Art of Charm podcast covers this well. Basically, chat people up to get yourself out of your head
/r/TheRedPill17/03/19 08:07 PM
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Capitalism isn't to blame. Consumerism is.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/19 08:06 PM
3

start a barfight! that's the only way to REALLY prove your frame /s
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/19 05:28 PM
12

I fired someone who had it coming a few months back. Got laid like crazy that week Be the man
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/19 12:09 AM
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downvotes for being pedantic
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 05:41 PM
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also, nobody wants a war big enough to require a draft. Desperate times, desperate measures. that's the point
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 06:25 PM
7

That's where that quiet gross desperation of the "nice guy" comes from. Unable to face the fact OR do anything about it
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 11:40 PM
4

tall hot white guy is having fun with his friends I know guys like this with NO GAME and few prospects. I know short ugly guys with tons of game
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 02:42 PM
1

I also am a rather dirty person and never look metro. care to explain your personal style?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 02:40 PM
2

Give up on this girl you can't stop thinking about. Never gonna happen Focus on a weight gaining program. Use MyFitnessPal or some other food tracker to track calories. Consistent work in the gym. Consistency is the hard part
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 01:35 PM
2

it's alpha to push/pull, build tension, and escalate kino and make her want you. It's alpha to be an attractive man of value. Rape comes from a SpergLord level of frustration with one's own inability to communicate or build attraction; and a misplacement of that frustration on a girl. It's "niceguy syndrome" cranked up to level 11 in the creepiest neediest way possible. (see the niceguy subreddit for examples) ​ source: I have several Ex-friends on the sex-offender registry
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 10:00 PM
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Anything is better than Gillette, but DSC is kinda cucked too
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 06:53 PM
0

it doesn't create the most well adjusted people, but it effectively gets the genes passed on; hence why its so common Well, at least the women. The incel men probably didn't fare as well
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 08:46 PM
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