| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 62 | [FR] Went out solo for the first time (3 nights) | Ones__Complement | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 10:36 AM | |
| 4 | [FR] More solo nights (new years + Jan 3) | Ones__Complement | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 04:22 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Simple but Weird Technique to Stop Putting Girls On a PedestalHard to stay detached from the outcome when it reflects on your shit skills. | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 07:31 AM |
| 4 | Simple but Weird Technique to Stop Putting Girls On a PedestalHmm, can't help but notice an element of contradiction here. On the one hand you say rejection is just a lack of connection and shouldn't reflect on you or your self-esteem but on the other it's a lack of social skills. I imagine reality is often some mixture of both, but for me the challenge is recognizing when the lack of outcome is a function of my own suboptimal game vs. just an absence of chemistry. | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 06:28 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Gross and degenerate. | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How come we don't advocate for more men to work in female-dominated fields?Because critical theory / Marxism is asymmetrical and unidirectional by design. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/21 07:18 PM |
| 3 | No prison time for female teacher who raped her underage student 4 times, including in her own carBut was she hot? Edit: Pretty dece. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/21 11:18 PM |
| -9 | Good news! Man wins $390,000 in gender discrimination case because a woman got the promotion he was more qualified for.Eh, get government out of private concerns. If these companies are making poor organizational decisions, let the market punish them. This is just more nanny state bullshit. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/21 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Because women go through it, you can't ask for respect for your male bodyThe modern woman's sense of self-worth is predicated entirely on her status as a heroic freedom fighting victim of the patriarchy. Even the slightest suggestion or acknowledgment that she does not hold the monopoly on hardship poses an enormous threat to the totality of her existential being. | /r/MensRights | 16/10/21 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Meeting people during COVIDAre you a geriatric? | /r/seduction | 27/09/20 04:40 AM |
| 2 | FR: Didn't realise how difficult it was to cold approachFuck openers, they don't matter. If she doesn't dig you, no opener is going to change that. Something situational is ideal for smoothness sake, but in the absence of anything obvious, the direct opener is fine. It won't make or break and she knows your intentions either way. | /r/seduction | 27/09/20 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Reminded me of this subMore guns and more dads. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/20 04:52 AM |
| 2 | 3 principles/"rules" for conversatingConversing* | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 05:04 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Went out solo for the first time (3 nights)Follow up: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ek7ygs/fr_more_solo_nights_new_years_jan_3/ | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 10:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] More solo nights (new years + Jan 3)Good FR, man. Was hoping for more interactions! You and me both brother, but like I said, still a big novice at this stuff, let alone being solo. Definitely welcome any tips. I take it you're from the UK? If so, where abouts? Interesting, what made you think that? Toronto actually. | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Planned to try a cold approach for the first time today. Instead, I masturbated and watched Kitchen Nightmares.If the just do it rhetoric worked then we wouldnt be having this conversation. It does work. You're just not doing it. | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Putting myself out thereBar: Probably the option I've heard best about when getting advice other times. Thing is it seems to me from past experiences that everyone tend to be concentrated on their own company and not those around. Maybe it's me that is looking at it the wrong way, but I'll digress. Are you initiating with people? You'd be surprised how receptive many are to it. It can definitely be daunting, but unless you take the initiative yourself, most of your nights will probably land pretty flat. | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 12:16 AM |
| 11 | A question for women: Is it off limits to approach you at the gym?I've had luck None ever turned into dates. wat | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 09:46 PM |
| 1 | My biggest regret in game so far +3 things I learned from it. Been beating myself over it for days now. Never againI made a huge mistake. I'm 21 years old Lol no you didn't. | /r/seduction | 01/01/20 07:24 PM |
| 2 | 2020I get to a bar and it's only entree by ticket so I go to another bar and the cover fee is too much. Are you me? This was like my exact night so far. Went out solo and frustratingly hopped between so many different bars before finding one that that either wasn't exclusive, had a giant lineup, or a wack cover fee. The bar area at the one I eventually landed on was pretty dead though, and only ended up talking to the bartenders and a dude sitting next to me. Eventually moved on to another that was … | /r/seduction | 01/01/20 07:18 PM |
| 12 | Happy New Year y’all! Hope you have amazing 2020 and sending love to anyone on seddit!Going out solo tonight as I'm alone in a new city. Super new to this solo business and cold approach stuff in general, so pretty terrified, but fuck it, hold my beer. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 11:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Went out solo for the first time (3 nights)The second and third nights. The first night was more the other way around. | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Went out solo for the first time (3 nights)Believe me, I tried. Even played the "what's that got to do with anything, I'm just looking for new friends" card. I think our chemistry made the intention beyond apparent though and she knew where it'd go. | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 02:18 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Went out solo for the first time (3 nights)That's an awesome resolution man, you and me both. And that's really cool to hear, glad I could offer even the slightest bit of inspiration to someone. Being alone in a new city is pretty overwhelming and intimidating, but really excited to break out of my comfort zone, make new friends and meet new people. These bars still feel like walking into a lion's den to me, but I'm betting it'll eventually feel like a kitty playground. Either way the fear exposure is pretty exhilarating because I know a… | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 08:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Went out solo for the first time (3 nights)Thanks! Will keep you posted. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Went out solo for the first time (3 nights)Give it a shot man, definitely a character building experience to say the least. If it seems too overwhelming, break it down into baby steps. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 06:35 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Went out solo for the first time (3 nights)Hmm really good point/question. Visualizing myself in their shoes, I'd probably just assume I was planning to meet up with someone or was doing my own thing. I think I'd definitely offer an invite if I said my friends had flaked on me that night or something, because it would imply I'm alone, but don't necessarily want to be. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 06:27 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Went out solo for the first time (3 nights)It only came up the first two nights, but nobody explicitly asked why I'm alone. It was usually along the lines of "what are you up to tonight" or something like that. Just answered with honesty pretty much: I recently moved into the city and I'm trying to get a feel for the bars and night life. Nothing awkward or anything, just kinda standard conversation. I actually liked when it'd come up as it shows interest, and it's a good opportunity to convey a bit of my story/situation. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 05:53 PM |
| 3 | The mindset that really changed it all for me: You have to be taken seriouslyI don't know if serious is the right word here, but I think you're basically talking about speaking with conviction and being assertive, which is obviously critical. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 12:55 AM |
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