Oobroobdoob Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
54	Women making the first move		Oobroobdoob	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 12:58 PM
1	This entire thread is disgusting	PORN SICK, LIMP DICK	Oobroobdoob	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/21 10:41 PM
0	Imagine being this man’s girlfriend. What could you possibly gain from a relationship with this sort of depraved man.	MALE DEPRAVITY	Oobroobdoob	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/22 09:08 PM

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0	The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right? I’m a Zillenial (26f) and met my SO at a bar - old fashioned style. Except I approached him… he later told me he would’ve loved to approach me first but all of his girl friends have convinced him it’s always creepy to cold approach. I was cold approached on the street one afternoon by a seemingly charming man who asked for my number. I wasn’t interested because I wasn’t single, but maybe would have if I was. A few months later I learn from my city’s subreddit that he is a prolific predator that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 12:54 PM
2	CMV: Makeup is live action catfishing, it’s sexual fraud I also think your post comes off as a bit … racist. She’s a 3 because she’s an average Asian woman, but an 8 because she gives herself Eurocentric features (large blue eyes)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/23 11:21 PM
4	CMV: Makeup is live action catfishing, it’s sexual fraud You’re a chump if you got duped by shiny eye lids and color contacts. You also have to be very young/naive to have never seen the same woman with and without makeup. You can tell when people enhance their features with makeup - it’s not a hidden fact. Foundation and eye shadow are fully visible…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/23 11:13 PM
2	Thoughts on stay at home dads? My stepmom’s first husband had agreed to be a SAHD, as she made significantly more money and had a way clearer career path. Cut to a year later, the ex husband was neither working nor taking care of the kid, and guilt tripped my stepmom for not “being home for the baby enough”. She then had to shell out $50k/year for a nanny to take care of BOTH the kid and the ex husband. They divorced shortly after. That’s why wives file for divorce of SAHDs so often. Many SAHDs simply do not put in the work -…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/22 04:35 PM
1	paying for the first date Huh ? People go on dinner dates all the time? I’ve been on two in the last week ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 03:40 AM
-3	Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide. As a woman I think that men who have genuinely strong platonic friendships with other women are much better partners. In fact it’s a red flag to me if A man is incapable of having a good, platonic female friend that he has no desires to sleep with. Also helps if he has sisters he’s close with. The man I’m currently dating has loads of female friends because of the line of work he’s in, but also because he has four sisters that he’s very very close to so he understands the value of female friends…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 01:56 PM
-4	Body count and infidelity excerpts I’m not really sure the point of all these research. What’s the conclusion ? Sexually active woman bad don’t trust woman? There’s so much variety in one’s social circumstances that can determine whether high N count is a red flag or not. If you live in an environment where most people get married before 25, then a high N count is a cause for alarm. If you live in a big city environment where most people remain unmarried until their 30s (NYC, LA, DC…) and date a new person maybe every 4-6 months,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 01:43 PM
4	Why women hate porn (1.) I don’t think Accurately depicting women’s pleasure is a big ask …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/22 08:06 PM
13	Why women hate porn (1.) Not just women, but all people should hate porn. Many women are in porn not of free will, are exploited and trapped, or are posted without their consent. Sex trafficking is prolific and find its way thru porn, even in the US and Western Europe. Also porn teaches boys to objectify and abuse women - full stop. There is good, healthy porn (that is marketed as “porn for women” lol). , but the vast majority of it isn’t. Women hate porn because it isn’t made for women. And it actively hurts many women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/22 07:25 PM
1	If you had to pick a side, would you be on the "I'd rather have guy friends, girls are too much drama" side, or the "I'd rather have girl friends, guys are too much of whatever guys are too much of" side? In college I used to have more male than female friends - and preferred it that way bc I felt like I “related” more to the guys. I knew most of them weren’t friends with me because they wanted to fuck me, but some definitely kept me around as a sort of status symbol to their other guy friends (having an attractive blonde girl hanging around gets you points I guess). Now that I’m older I still have male friends but the vast majority of my friends are “girls and gays”. Friendships with women I fee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 08:30 PM
2	Obesity has decimated the dating market in America I live in a big coastal city in the US and the only fat people I see are tourists. Not only do you have to be fit, but you must have a successful career, good education, and be conventionally attractive to have dating success.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 09:27 PM
5	If women don’t want to be approached at the gym, the grocery, the bar or in the dms - where are guys supposed to meet women? I don’t know about the gym being the worst place to be approached. I am attracted to men who care about their fitness , and they’re attracted to me because it’s obvious I care about my fitness too. As long as they’re not creepy and ogling at me while I squat , I’d welcome being cold approached at the gym. But then again I go to a gym where majority of men are gay so maybe I’m not jaded by creepy horny dudes bc they just don’t exist around me	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 05:32 PM
5	Women making the first move For context , I (25F) have received pretty inconclusive opinions on women making the first move. I consider myself attractive (athletic/fit, well educated, well dressed, sociable, lots of hobbies, successful career wise, confident) , but have been generally underwhelmed with the men that pursue me or I get set up with and I do not want to use OLD. I have a “crush” on someone I see weekly at one of my hobbies and am considering approaching him and asking for his number, but I don’t want to set my…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 02:49 PM
2	Women making the first move Thanks for sharing the link. It really does seem like the answers are all over the place and vary depending on the person - which is an important takeaway for dating in general : there’s so one size fits all approach . One point seems universal - the more effort you put in to the pursuit, the more incentive you have to reap the reward	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 02:33 PM
115	Ladies who have dated Desi or Muslim, how did the misogyny affect how you were treated in the relationship? I dated a Desi Muslim. He hid me from his family. He asked me if he bought A condo would I move in with him. I said no because I had actually bought my own condo , and wouldn’t move in together unless we were engaged or married. He was incredibly angry at that answer. Like hello I actually own a home and you don’t? He was used to being babied and adored by the women in his family. I don’t baby grown men. He told me I don’t “praise him” enough. Uh alright. He wasn’t abusive like OPs guy, just exp…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/22 12:44 PM
16	TRP or FDS: Which side deals in absolutes more often and has the most bitter followers? Far more women get murdered by their male partners than the other way around. That’s what this person was referring to - not all deaths of any kind. More men die because they work in more dangerous professions, go to war, whatever. No one denies that. But they aren’t getting shot and killed by their girlfriends at nearly the same rate as men murdering their girlfriends. My sister’s neighbor was murdered in her own home by her ex husband. Their children were in the next room when it happened. Thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/21 01:03 PM
2	Prostitution must be legalized in order to achieve men's rights What is women’s power over men that is inequitable to a man’s power over women? What are men’s rights and why should they be different from womens?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/21 04:00 PM
-1	The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that? I’m talking about relationships formed outside of OLD. I believe you that happens with OLD where literally the gatekeeping factor is your physical appearance. But the world is much bigger than tinder swipes. In real life, it’s your charm and humor that get women attracted to you enough to not consider height.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 03:37 AM
2	The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that? I don’t understand this idea that only 6ft+ men are the ideal. Very many women I know don’t give a flying fuck about height being more than 6ft, as long as it’s taller that herself. I’m 5ft3 , and I’ve dated equal numbers of 5ft10+ as 5ft5-10 . And frankly I prefer guys closer to my height bc the sex just works better. I have a 5ft7 friend who is about to be engaged to her 5ft8 boyfriend and his height was never a problem for her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 02:26 AM
3	FDS really isn't that bad Just to echo - FDS encourages women to become highly educated, get high paying jobs, and be completely self sustaining so they don’t have to rely on men for anything. In fact, many women on FDS have no desire to get married. They just don’t want to be used by men for sex. They want equitable companionship and respect. They are not broke women looking for a wealthy man. They are self sufficient women looking for a man to match their energy rather than suck the life out of them. The point is, make…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/21 09:29 PM
39	LVM blocked by ex decides to plaster self-indulgent hoover letter all over her new neighbourhood (French) For those of you who can’t read French, its basically summarized as “you were my first and greatest love , and no one since you had compared. Come back to me” meaning he hasnt found another woman to put up with his bullshit “I think of you like a sweet childhood memory” and Alice probably thinks of you with regret If I read it correctly , near the end he says that he isn’t even sure if she has moved, and isn’t sure where she is now , which is why he posted this note in public. “I don’t know your…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/11/21 03:18 PM
22	Please don’t idealise men from other cultures I’m a blonde white woman who briefly dated a man from Pakistan who I thought was HV. 6 months in to dating my friend found him on Bumble with his first profile pic being a photo I took of him. I was 24 and he was 30. That should’ve been enough for me to not date him but I’ve learned since. He never planned on introducing me to his family. I was just his American plaything Bc he can’t have sex with women in his culture without marrying them. I’ve also had a Moroccan man tell me he was only intere…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 09:11 PM
3	Please don’t idealise men from other cultures An acquaintance of mine from India just married a blonde American woman after less than two years of dating - which is notable as they’re in their early 20s. I see him as having HVM qualities, and they look to be in a very loving relationship. But I can’t help thinking that he was quick to lock down the the sweet blonde American woman in exchange for status and citizenship….	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 09:05 PM