OooooorahNZ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	My partner is red pill , how to help him ? He has to hit rock bottom and bounce before he can even begin to get a handle on reality. You don't have to do anything except text him "We're over" and then block him on everything. If you want to be kind, I guess you could tell him why. Just tack on: "...because you're redpilled, manipulative, and I don't see a future with you. I'm also not submissive, get some therapy..." and call it a day. You've already wasted years on him, more time is just increased waste.	/r/ExRedPill	06/04/26 08:21 AM
20	Redpillers are bitching that women are only interested in money, status and looks, but when they come across exceptions among women, they brutally humiliate them They hate those women because those women are proof that the redpillers must be wrong which creates cognitive dissonance so rather than question their fundamentally wrong RP beliefs, they instead find ways to try to reduce what they consider the perceived 'value' of women so that they can contunue to blame women for their woes rather than deal with the reality that it is the RP's who are the problem.	/r/ExRedPill	29/03/25 08:23 PM
10	Is it true that women really do like bad boys and that nice guys finish last? If all the research and statistics show that women prefer empathetic and kind men, and women tell you directly that they like kind, caring men, ...why would you listen to that one angry guy who hates women and is single? Start looking at the research and statistics In this area. There are oodles of it - search 'What do women like in men'. In addition to that, when it comes to 'bad boys' there's no such thing. People are complex creatures and no one is a single element of a personality. Some peop…	/r/ExRedPill	16/03/25 06:25 PM
3	Is it bad that I pay for my own meal? Ah! You've run into the old 'can't win for losing' issue. It's not the issue of payment that those particular guys have an issue with, it's women in general. That's why they try to blame you if you don't pay for your own dinner but then also try to put you down if you do... The trick is to avoid those blokes and only go out with grown-ups. I think it's a good idea to pay for your own meal to start with because it demonstrates that you're there for the company and not the meal. If you intend to g…	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/23 11:28 PM
8	Idiot on trp talks about “women’s desire to be controlled” this guy sounds like he took a time machine from the era before women had the right to vote to 2020 and he’s spewing his old fashion straight-out-of the early 20th century mysoginistic worldview That looks like a nasty case of the stupid, trying to lead the blind... while arguing incorrect details with the clueless.	/r/ExRedPill	14/11/20 11:50 PM
1	I don’t know why but red pill got to me Simple (but wrong) answers and scapegoats make life easier. You get to feel like you know what's going on while knowing who to blame for all the things going wrong in your life. If you can blame others... you aren't required to take a good hard long look at yourself because 'It's Not Your Fault ™'. Looking at ourselves is hard. We often see things we don't like. We have to accept that some parts of our personality are a bit sh!t and then we have to do something about it, which is hard too. But i…	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/20 09:19 PM
2	I think we should normalize the idea that people have standards when it comes to dating. Looks absolutely matter. Why would you want to be with someone that you don't find attractive and why would they want to be with someone that doesn't find them attractive?! Can you imagine waking up next to someone you don't find attractive for years? Why would you inflict that on yourself and on them? Blech. Looks just aren't the be-all-end-all that some people think they are. Attraction is subjective so someone being attracted to someone else is just the first step - after that, personality ki…	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/20 09:11 PM
1	What do you think of the phrase "she's not yours, it's just your turn?" I think it's a self-defeating behaviour that provokes the outcome they were expecting. It's also an attempt to poison other peoples relationships and create doubt and fear. Sadly, statistics tend to ruin perfectly good beliefs: Among people who have experienced a breakup, most have been on both sides of the equation. 70% have been the one to end the relationship, while 75% say that they have had a partner end a relationship with them. https://today.yougov.com/topics/lifestyle/articles-reports/20…	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/20 08:54 PM
1	Help a 21 year old understand. TRP didn't work for you, right? There's nothing to rebut there and most relationships have problems so your parents aren't unique at all in that. Basically, you tried TRP and ran face-first into a wall, injuring yourself in the process. Now you're asking others to help you understand why running into a wall isn't helpful. You know that what you were trying wasn't useful to you (good on you for recognizing that) so it makes sense to look at other options. Best of luck on your journey.	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/20 08:37 PM
1	Accountablity The wall is a myth: https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/. It comes from a false sense of schadenfreude. They want the women who rejected them in the past to be punished in the future and come up with an arbitrary number for them to be punished at while refusing to look at statistics that indicate the opposite. Effectively what RP's are doing is resenting peoples sexual or relationship history and then resenting them again when they're not sorry for something …	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/20 08:09 PM
1	I'm having a hard time getting over my toxic feelings, beliefs, and habits regarding sex A few things stand out here. You're doing all that and you're still lonely, angry and upset. It's not working buddy. Time to change tactics. You call women 'body counts' which indicates that you might not see them as people first but just conquests. The women you'll meet with that attitude either just want sex (and won't care about your personal issues) or are damaged themselves which isn't helpful to you in your current situation. You feel guilt about casual sex - it's hurting you not helping…	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/20 07:52 PM
2	Womyn r stupid thots. For sex only "Why are you being mean to me?" - What are they, 12? When was the last time he had a conversation with an actual woman? If he genuinely thinks like this, then he's been dating immature a$$hats or he's terrible at explaining stuff. 'mean' - pffffft	/r/ExRedPill	23/10/20 02:20 AM