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I find bars and stuff here are full of hot 18-22 year old girls. The problem is just that cold appraoch basically is tinder, but in person. There's basically no difference you can have great 'game' etc, but unless you are her type and she thinks you are hot, you are gonna get a pretty nasty rejection from tipsy girls in bars lol (and that's the girls who are at least seemingly open to approach and aren't in a little group of friends in a closed off circle clearly not wanting to talk to random gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:24 AM
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I don't think it really matters, tbh. I've had success and failures with both.
/r/seduction25/10/22 07:30 AM
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watch a lot of comedy maybe?
/r/seduction25/10/22 07:28 AM
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He didn’t really say what he said mofo's holding out on you!! lol
/r/seduction23/10/22 03:16 PM
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Did you ask your friend waht he said to make her laugh? (and compared notes to waht you said). That seems an obvious first step Though Maybe she just thought he was hot?
/r/seduction23/10/22 03:01 PM
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Not sure anymore. I used to think so, although last weekend I kind of 'met eyes' with a girl in a bar twice within a 30 second timespan or so and she maintained eye contact, so I thought 'fuck it! Maybe she likes me', so I walked over and said 'hi', and straight away she said 'you were good over there where you were with your friends. Not interested. Bye' lol
/r/seduction23/10/22 12:10 PM
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There are these 2 girls, I smile and walk towards them and before I say anything she shows me the middle finger and waves me to go away. Man, I wonder if these kinds of rejections (game or no game! I don't think it matters) are way more common than we realise as most people aren't likely to admit such rejections maybe But I had one last weekend where I 'met eyes' with a cute girl twice, so I figured i'd approach her. I said 'hi' and then she looked at me and said 'you were good where you were ov…
/r/seduction22/10/22 04:46 PM
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yes, I had one where I said 'hi, can I meet you quickly' and she said 'you were good where you were over there! not interested. Go away' lol I had another one where the girl was talking back and stuff (indifferent?) but she told me I wasn't her type at one point. I actually ended up getting laid, but with a different girl who lit up when I approached her. On the other girls, it was like 'game' wasn't effective on them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:17 PM
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men want to have sex with very pretty girls, no? If there was a stunning 10/10 prostitute who was giving out free sex, 99.9% of men would take her up on the offer, even if they'd never spoken at all (so she doesn't know or like them or isn't attracted to them). Just nature I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:16 PM
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i'm sad to say that I don't think my results are any different from before I'd ever heard of game. I know that's depressing but it's the truth. I still only pull the girls who seem to like me when I open them basically (which is a tiny percentage. Not blessed with good looks). But I could do that before i'd ever heard of game. I now know a million techniques and lots of theory having studied Todd V, vin di carlo, mysterymethod, RSD, LondonDayGame (tom torrerro and Adam Lyons) and a few others, b…
/r/seduction16/10/22 04:44 PM
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Is it your first close from night game? Good job bro. thanks. No, i've actually got a good handful of night game closes
/r/seduction16/10/22 09:35 AM
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I've not really done much daygame so not the best person to advise. I'd go with either a direct opener ('hi, I know this is forward but I just saw you and thought you looked good so wanted to say') or maybe i'd even experiment with something like asking for direction and then 'noticing' something about her to try to get a convo going
/r/seduction15/10/22 06:27 PM
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I actually settled on a different style of gamae (something like RSD) which is basically the complete opposite of Ross jefferies haha. They both apparently get amazing results so guess it makes sense to choose one that you can relate too and that doesn't feel to weird to the person saying the lines. cheers
/r/seduction15/10/22 07:54 AM
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Try Ross Jefferies -youtube
/r/seduction14/10/22 11:30 AM
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Yeah I’m often next to him when he interacts with women, and I sometimes copy what he says. The thing is that since I’m copying what he’s saying, it feels less natural, and I would like to be able to "create" my own things to say without copying him 24/7
/r/seduction13/10/22 08:43 PM
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do you have examples of what he says that you can copy? Are you ever able to stand close to him when he's hitting on a girl?
/r/seduction13/10/22 08:08 PM
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I've possibly experienced similar when I think back to my various failures and successes. but in gets extra confusing, because we are of course told 'implement the stuff you read. Learn game!', so maybe after a few rejections, you begin to keep using cold reads and pushpull lines you've read etc, but then you still get rejected and wonder if it's because you trying to be 'attractive'/appealing. So then is the answer to NOT use 'game'?? Bit of a catch 22
/r/seduction11/10/22 05:58 PM
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I learned it’s what’s more important is how to respond after esp in situational moments So what do you tend to follow up with?
/r/seduction11/10/22 05:48 PM
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Absolutely they do sometimes. I don't think it's typical, though. I've had it happen to me, although incredibly infrequently, but I also have a friend who legit always gets hit on by girls who basically do all of the 'seduction'
/r/seduction09/10/22 09:11 PM
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yeah, tbh I'm usually decent as spotting IOI's but I clearly completely miss-read that one! Our eyes kind of met twice so that's when I decided to try my luck and approach, although I guess in hindsight it was a kind of coincidence or something that we'd made eye contact a few times and I was not her type at all lol
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:59 PM
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No, you don't understand. The 'you were good where were. Bye' reply happened straight after I walked over and said hi
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:57 PM
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I read a post once where someone said in teh US, 'Hi, I'm Scott!' will be met with, 'Hey Scott. I'm Katie. What's up?' kind of thing, whereas if you approach a girl in the UK and say 'Hi, I'm scott!' she will look at you with a mixture of disdain and utter confusion and slowly back away lol
/r/seduction09/10/22 10:05 AM
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yes, it was definitely a 'fuck off'! haha I keep thinking of a post I read yesterday where someone said if she wouldn't swipe right on you on tinder, your game won't work. That's deffo how it feels for me. But then I wonder what the point of all this 'seduction' stuff is!
/r/seduction09/10/22 10:02 AM
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i only approach on weekends, but make about 10-15 approaches each time, so probably approached about 50 women over the last month
/r/seduction07/10/22 06:58 AM
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examples? thx
/r/seduction06/10/22 08:09 AM
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Hi my name is: "and then follow up with "Isn't it funny how you can find yourself liking a trusting someone for a very long time, even though you've only just met this person?" e What country do you live in? I feel like people/girls where I live would find this an extremely odd thing to say after introducing yourself and i'd worry they think I was definitely on the strange side lol Maybe it's a cultural thing
/r/seduction04/10/22 08:31 AM
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after you open you ask girls their name and what they do for work etc? I read here that you should never do that and that you need to ask them much more exciting stuff etc (and it got a LOT of upvotes). People were saying in one guys FR 'you got rejected becase you went into boring mode after the open. Never ask her what she does for work or what her hobbies are etc' I wonder if in truth there are actually zero rules when it comes to game? Maybe rejection just means you aren't her type?
/r/seduction29/09/22 08:39 AM
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i've read it. Good book
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:29 PM
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it's expensive I think, but my friend shared it with me. I've seen quite a few 'premium' products now for free. Although i'm getting close to stopping watching them as i'm slowly becoming convinced that there's nothing in them that I don't already know. It seems to be more of a game of chance/numbers/luck than I had hoped lol. (e.g her attraction isn't really within our control at all sadly)
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:20 PM
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he's right though, isn't he? It's basically the same advice I got from the playingwithfire course
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:00 PM
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I'm maybe newer than some here, but that's kind of been what I feel i'm starting to learn. That it's basically about just having social skills, holding a convo aswell as the ability to flirt.
/r/seduction24/09/22 08:53 AM
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Ask her some general questions like 'what do you do'. I read to not ask that on a different thread? I'm confused (not sure if i can link the post as then my post might get removed)
/r/seduction24/09/22 08:50 AM
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thx
/r/seduction24/09/22 08:42 AM
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don't interview women because is boring as hell. Don't ask for her siblings, what she does for a living if she lives with her parents, no... It's stressful. So what are the first questions you ask after you meet a girl at the bar and say 'hi'. We know we can't ask her age or about her family or what she does for work etc. Can you give some examples? People always say like 'ask her interetsing things like what she would do if she won a million dollars', but I tried that a few times with girls in …
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:43 PM
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they do well offline too, because girls tend to appraoch them in bars/on the dancefloor (and sometimes they approach the girls on the dancefloor etc)
/r/seduction12/09/22 09:08 AM
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But you said they were basically all from online, so tbh, it is just about being good looking/having girls think you're hot and swiping on you. Once you match a girl and she agrees to come to your place and stuff, it's basically impossible to screw up I have friends who don't' have game but who are good looking who treat tinder like a free prostitute app lol!
/r/seduction11/09/22 09:54 PM
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/u/personalrush5892 - this sound similar at all? sounds like we have similar issues from your post. Struggle to 'hook' much past the open
/r/seduction02/09/22 09:08 PM
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i'm honestly not sure there's anything solution as such. It seems to be more about her attraction and interest in you which isn't in your control. If you approach a girl who is attracted to you, she is super engaged and seems to latch on to every little thing and turns it back on you and suddenly you're in an actual conversation. Two way. But with most pretty girls who likely aren't going to be attracted to us (unless we lucked out genetically) the truth is that she kind of doesn't want to talk …
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:07 AM
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and how do you tend to transition after the opener in order to get her talking back and ideally attracted. I tend to ask her how her night is going and stuff and also use cold reads (you look like you do xxx for a job, you look like you do yoga etc) like the coaches recommend, but i can't say as though it seems to do me any more favours than NOT using game if that makes sense. They tend to not really talk back at all. Nod maybe. Look around as if they need saving perhaps haha. Or if i've conveye…
/r/seduction01/09/22 03:32 PM
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i've noticed with anything remotely direct, the reply is basically 'i have a boyfriend. Nice to meet you. Have a good night' or 'i'm not interested' kind of thing (and that's the more polite version). I've tried using lines given by coaches that are supposed to work as a reply to the 'i have a boyfriend' line, but they don't tend to work so far So I go indirect, usually just 'how's your night going?' or maybe a comment on something about them like an observation, but 9 times out of 10, she never…
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:39 AM
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I figured he'd be above average. Not typical to be so forward and confident without good reason and positive reference experience! Good job either way though. Legend
/r/seduction01/09/22 07:45 AM
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Cool! Be like Shawn!! He good looking?
/r/seduction01/09/22 07:38 AM
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did you accept?!
/r/seduction01/09/22 07:31 AM
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I'm looking for ideas too. I think a part of approach anxiety is that you don't have anything interesting to say (both for the opener and the transition directly after) So I end up doing the 'just say hi' advice and just asking them how they are or whatever. And then she looks at me like a weirdo haha. Then I decide to use to pickup techniques i've studied to build some attraction (such as cold reads) but again, she seems to think this stuff i'm saying is strange. (maybe that works better in day…
/r/seduction01/09/22 07:28 AM
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