Don’t know what to say

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-09-24T03:14:09+00:00

80% of it is the exact same kind of small talk you'd make with anyone else. Are you good at meeting me people and making friends?

zozozie · 2022-09-24T09:18:37+00:00

You’re over complicating. Talk to her like how you would talk to a normal person. Don’t put a goal behind it cause then it becomes unnatural.

Literally just pretend she’s a guy. No need to put her on a pedestal just she’s a female

Potentially you can start with: - hobbies - fun things they did recently - cool purchases they made Let her answer. Then you add comment and give own opinions.

Remember that it’s not just you putting in 100% effort into the conversation. She has an equal 50% to carry it as well. so don’t feel the need to try so hard. She can run it as well.

revente · 2022-09-24T04:49:55+00:00

Just say hi and ask her name.

Ask her some general questions like 'what do you do'.

Listen to her answers. Then ask some additional questions related to what she just said.

Rinse'n'repeat.

Trying to approach a girl with a 'prepared script' won't really work.

Competitive-Bill-612 · 2022-09-24T04:44:28+00:00

Would like to add it’s normal to blank out in a way. From the sound of it you seem like someone who is new to approach. It happens to the best of us. My advice is having a roadmap of where ur going with the convo stop her - compliment/cold read - invest - vibe - close.

Having a few vanilla questions that apply to all women really helps too: what do usually get up for fun in ur free time, what do u have planned for day, whats got you in a good/bad mood.

Once ur better its really easy to just riff. Don’t be afraid to laugh at urself and dont take urself too seriously. Conversations with women should always be viewed as fun even if it doesnt get u laid.

rookie2pimping · 2022-09-24T01:38:28+00:00

What do you talk about in general. Just tell them about your worldview and don't be afraid to be controversial. As long as you own it things will work out.

Also don't humor any astrology garbage just learn to make fun of it in a friendly way

zapadz · 2022-09-24T01:09:02+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LKAvQYCKhhM

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vmtEmebxSwo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0c6WbG7rK5M

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MptvykZL2f4

Contango6969 · 2022-09-24T01:56:02+00:00

Amuse yourself

incognito3107 · 2022-09-24T07:41:17+00:00

You should incorporate such emotions and make some use of them in your communication.

Title	Don’t know what to say
Author	daziz7075
Upvotes	10
Comments	11
Date	September 24, 2022 12:55 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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