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You don't find eating pussy grosser than sucking a cock? It seems like sucking cock is like eating a churro, and eating pussy is like burying your face in abalone. I mean, I'm down to eat pussy, but I'm not going to pretend like I like it. Well, unless it's during the act. During the act, you have to pretend. Just saying.
/r/seduction10/06/12 01:32 AM
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I agree with you when you say that seduction as a way to create attraction helps in business. I've been out last week (and am out this week) looking for legal internships. I'm trying to use seduction to create attraction so that some lawyer around here will want to hire me. I have three meetings this week so far as a result of cold-calling, and one coming up in about an hour and a half. Hopefully I can create enough attraction so as to get one of these guys to want to hire me!
/r/seduction04/06/12 08:23 PM
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I definitely have something like that. I follow politics very closely. This includes political philosophy and other things like that. I have to watch out, because politics can be a controversial topic. Ignoring that, it seems weird to just start a conversation about politics or political philosophy (or, for example, economic models). I can see how talking about traveling would lead to some deep discussions, but I don't travel. I could see how talking about politics or political philosophy could …
/r/seduction07/05/12 12:40 AM
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Please elaborate. How do you initiate deep conversations?
/r/seduction06/05/12 08:56 PM
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Well, these ones know I'm married. And so they know I am not boyfriend type of material. I'm pretty sure they are DTF (more of a fwb thing is what I imagine). My experience has often shown that girls are more DTF if they don't view you as boyfriend type of material. With girls that don't know I'm married, telling them that I have an open marriage is never an issue. With girls that do know I'm married, telling them is an issue. It seems to me that the appropriate time to tell a girl (if she alrea…
/r/seduction03/05/12 08:12 PM
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I responded to this question elsewhere, but I'm trying to get all the advice I can right now, so I'll repost it here to make sure you see it. No. That's a hard subject to breach. I also prefer to be very discrete about it, so it is tough to know when I should tell a girl. Also, if I tell a girl it becomes super obvious that I want to fuck her, which is not good for my game I don't think. I could be wrong about that of course, idk...
/r/seduction03/05/12 07:27 PM
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No. That's a hard subject to breach. I also prefer to be very discrete about it, so it is tough to know when I should tell a girl. Also, if I tell a girl it becomes super obvious that I want to fuck her, which is not good for my game I don't think... In FR2, the gal met my wife when she came over for drinks. You may be correct, but in FR1 the girl was hitting on me pretty hardcore before I went to her house. I think it has more to do with the way I am going for the K-close than apprehensions abo…
/r/seduction03/05/12 07:26 PM
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Oy. This happens to me every time I post. I guess I should just mention that I'm in an open marriage every time I post. But, yes, I agree with you that this community is too good for cheaters. Fortunately, I am not a cheater :)
/r/seduction03/05/12 07:23 PM
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Was it my post that spurred your post? This is the exact problem I've been having. Your advice seems solid, and I will try it. Thank you.
/r/seduction03/05/12 04:58 PM
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Hmm, that's a good point. I notice something similar about myself. Seems like I generally make my intentions known through kino, but it would be much better to do it through conversation. I hope someone answers this question.
/r/seduction02/05/12 05:15 AM
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On FR2. Okay, didn't realize you were new to this. Good on you for approaching. Excellent. Continue to do that for sure. Keep doing it until it feels natural. And, yeah, I use OKC a lot too for the same reason. But I go out on Friday nights and my wife goes out on Saturday nights. Anyway, sounds good. Hope to hear more from you in the future.
/r/seduction02/05/12 05:05 AM
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Sometimes it can be good to show that you want to get away. It shows that you are high value. It is also part of the push-pull routine (as long as you don't forget the 'pull' part, ha ha).
/r/seduction01/05/12 11:39 PM
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Okay, here we go. In general, women do not respond positively to married men hitting on them. Often, when I am out in public I take my wedding ring off. But, since I am very discrete about my relationship status, I keep it somewhere where I can easily put it back on. I have almost never had a woman respond positively to my open marriage. Some have dealt with it, rather grudgingly, but that is all. If I am out with a friend and I want to hit on a woman, I usually just keep my left hand out of vie…
/r/seduction01/05/12 11:24 PM
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Nice to meet you. I'm playing video games right now (after having just got done with a BRUTAL grad school exam), but I'll come back in a bit and we'll chat some more. I imagine we might have a bit to learn about from each other ha ha.
/r/seduction01/05/12 10:52 PM
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Holy fucking shit. I'm using this. I'm trying to walk the fine line here between gushing and offering praise, but that is fucking golden man.
/r/seduction29/04/12 03:11 AM
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What I host is called "Drinking Liberally." I am a liberal, but we don't discriminate. There are "Drinking Liberally" meetings all across the country, so it's possible that you might be able to find one near you, possibly by visiting drinkingliberally.com As for how I went about setting it up. It was kind of already going on when I moved here (though nowhere near as successful as it is now). I'm in my second year of a three year grad school program, and the folks who were running it last year wh…
/r/seduction28/04/12 10:37 PM
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Did you make it clear before sex that there would be no chance of a serious relationship?
/r/seduction28/04/12 10:19 PM
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This is perfect advice. I know what I'm going to do now, thank you.
/r/seduction28/04/12 05:19 PM
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Seduction has nothing to do with dishonesty or emotional manipulation. A PUA would never dangle false hopes of a Long Term Relationship in an effort to try to get laid. At least, any half-decent one wouldn't. I've never seen it encouraged on a PUA board before, that's for sure.
/r/seduction28/04/12 08:47 AM
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I would still not ask a girl to dinner. Ask her out for a drink or a coffee. When you ask a girl out for dinner she's gonna think you wanna marry her or something. I mean, I'm being a smidge hyperbolic here, but you know what I'm saying. Anyway, the best time to ask a girl out to somewhere. The best time to ask a girl for further interaction is at the height of a conversation. Don't wait until the end, because the end of the conversation is almost always the low point of the conversation. Wait u…
/r/seduction24/04/12 06:04 AM
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Thanks for the back up :)
/r/seduction24/04/12 12:47 AM
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Fb message her: "Hey, didn't we hang out at a party the other night? That's weird, I must have forgotten we were already fb friends! ha ha" And then let her respond. From there you have two options. Callback humor. Tease her about something from the night when you two were talking. If you were teasing her at all that night just refer back to what you were teasing her about. Set up a meeting. "We should get a coffee! Meet me X time at Y place." You could also do 1 and then 2. Feel out the situati…
/r/seduction22/04/12 05:30 PM
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Can you call her or IM her? It would be easier to explain the situation in a realtime conversation. You might even consider simply setting up a date and then dealing with it when you see her.
/r/seduction22/04/12 04:47 PM
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What is a good way to order a Maker's Mark? On the rocks? Would I literally just say "I'll have a Maker's Mark on the rocks"...? Yeah, I know. I'm clueless.
/r/seduction08/04/12 01:26 AM
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Dancing is a LOT easier with a few drinks in. A LOT easier.
/r/seduction08/04/12 01:20 AM
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Ha ha, I said I've been experimenting with scotch lately--that's only because my buddy and I have been watching all the episodes of Mad Men, and we wanted to drink badass drinks like Don Draper does!
/r/seduction07/04/12 10:29 PM
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One thing I will say is that, from my personal experience, leaving an end of the night text is generally a bad idea. It's better to wait a few days before contacting her again. It's better to keep her wondering about whether she's going to see you again. Good K-close, though. Sounds like you had a good time!
/r/seduction06/04/12 03:14 AM
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Yeah. I can't remember how I did it this time, but I do that every time I meet a girl that I think I'm going to fuck. Plus, she's heading back home for the Summer in about 4 weeks. Edit: Matter of fact, even if I was bf material I would probably make it clear that I am not. I have found that girls are much more likely to fuck on the first or second date if they think you're not bf material. This is because they don't want to be perceived as a "slut" by a potential bf.
/r/seduction05/04/12 07:43 PM
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Sure, I'll answer your questions in order. I feel happy for my wife when she talks about dancing with other guys or kissing them. Both of those things are very fun and I love that my wife gets to have fun. We don't talk about fucking other people with each other. i mean, at least not in great detail. If she tells me she's going to have someone over while I'm out or that she's going to go out, for me that is the same thing as telling me she is going to have someone over to play video games or go …
/r/seduction04/04/12 04:23 PM
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Uh, yeah. That's why I said two hours of dancing...
/r/seduction04/04/12 03:40 PM
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My problem is that every time I ask a question on AskSeddit (on my other account), it never gets answered properly. At least, not in the way it gets answered if I post to Seddit.
/r/seduction02/04/12 09:18 PM
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