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OptimisticalRanger/r/askTRP10/04/21 02:08 AM
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If she wants kids and your even considering that path you two really need to communicate more effectively. It’ll help. Trust me.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 09:49 AM
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Did she give you any?
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:09 AM
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More foreplay. Get closer to each other.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 12:37 PM
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Double down on your strengths unless you want to focus on your weaknesses. It’s your choice.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 11:22 AM
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They do work in other ways. Everyone has their form of work. Find yours. Don’t try to avoid hard work.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 11:22 AM
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Watch what women do. Don’t put as much value on what they say.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 11:20 AM
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Just give her her stuff back then you’ll have less of an excuse to meet her or think about her
/r/askTRP15/06/21 11:19 AM
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Have lots of sex with attractive women.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 11:18 AM
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Went back at 27, improved my life. But not for the reasons I thought it would. It taught me to dedicate myself to something, no matter how difficult or ridiculous it is. That is an important skill to learn.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:48 AM
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Tell her you don’t value it as much as she does. Cleanliness in the kitchen is important though, you don’t want to compromise your health. When I was younger we started attracting cockroaches, cupboard moths and one time, maggots. Yes, maggots. Now you might say that this won’t happen to you, you might be right. This is the reason you keep a kitchen clean though.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:13 AM
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:) you too!
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:09 AM
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Sounds good!
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:08 AM
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;)
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:08 AM
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Take responsibility for everything and don’t make excuses. Work hard and focus on what you can control. It’ll be alright.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:08 AM
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The same reasons you are disrespecting you parents are the same reason your in the situation your in. Because if you had more work ethic you wouldn’t be in such a bad situation. Despite them working as a janitor for 2-3 hours a day, they did their best to raise you, gave you free money and your shitting on them. Take responsibility and shit on yourself, for making excuses and not working as hard as I know you can. Life is a process, most of us hated our parents at some point in time. But you’ll …
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:06 AM
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That's a tough situation. The request to go with her was impulsive if you didn't really feel like going. ​ I think asking yourself why you asked her if you didn't feel like going after she said yes, would be a great starting point to answer your question.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 07:34 AM
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It's the process of working your way up the mountain. Some will come with you. Some are ahead and some are behind. Some are stuck. I'm glad you're feeling better and your life is better. That's awesome dude.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 07:32 AM
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Keep marching up-hill and work on making better, healthier and right decisions. Be patient in the process but also be determined and fight hard as much as you can. "I don't feel or have the energy to do X right now, what can I do that is constructive?" Asking myself that is a great starting point when you're just not feeling up to it.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 07:30 AM
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Do what you feel is the right way. Every person is unique. The logistics don't matter so much as the delivery of those logistics.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 07:28 AM
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You need to decide if you like her and are willing to be patient to watch her develop into a person that makes choices, decisions and actions that you approve of. You need to be comfortable with that and let her figure it out on her own. Patience will be a virtue. You also need to be comfortable knowing that it might not happen at all if you make this decision. Or you can decide to find someone else who is more right, for you.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 07:26 AM
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My experience dating nurses has been positive. They're caring, smart, loyal and nurturing. Very attractive too!
/r/askTRP14/06/21 07:23 AM
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I started doing the right thing and everything else started lining up in a good way. You've got to be patient with the process as it's not something that is fixed with a supplement, diagnosis or a single event. It's many pieces of hard work that slowly accumulate. Do hard work for the right reasons and everything will improve.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 07:20 AM
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It could be ADHD.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 07:18 AM
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You need to figure this one out on your own. Create a word document and just start writing about the pros and cons of each option. You'll be surprised how you can structure and allign your goals and ambitions this way.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 07:16 AM
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Because the person they're in a relationship with might not be the right person for them. People contribute when they see value, purpose or meaning.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 07:14 AM
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Everyone has their own passage through life. Learn what you can and follow your instincts.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:04 AM
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Stop blaming your dad and comparing yourself to other people. You may be right, but it doesn’t change anything blaming other people. Take the responsibility on your shoulders for everything and watch everything in your life improve.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 03:27 PM
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What she does shouldn't be your concern. You're fucking other women as well remember? You attract what you are.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 11:03 AM
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Why care? You should have more important things to do.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 11:00 AM
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Work hard on opportunities that show up in your life.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 10:58 AM
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If anxiety reaches a point where it interferes or is a detriment to your life, seek out a trusted health professional and be upfront and honest about it. They may be able to assist you. Even if they don't recommend medication, it's worth hearing a professionals opinion.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 10:55 AM
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1) Take responsibility. 2) Summon the courage to conduct yourself during the hard times.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 10:53 AM
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Remember women are dictated by their emotions, not words. You can tell her anything you want, it's about the emotion and delivery behind it.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 10:52 AM
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It sounds like more of an ADHD issue. Medication helps regulate emotions and for focus, attention, impulse control and organisation.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 02:52 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 02:40 PM
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I don't enjoy it. It feels sloppy.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 01:18 PM
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This is a really profound observation. I don't really have an answer for you. It's sexual strategy but you need to be diverse with the concepts in field.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:09 PM
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Why do you care so much about them?
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:07 PM
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If you're attracted to her enough, the sex will happen. You probably haven't met someone with a high enough mutual attraction.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:06 PM
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Look at the nose between the two eyes. It's an old sailors trick.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:05 PM
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Fake it until you make it. Just push yourself out of your comfort zone and be confident and more brazen.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:05 PM
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Google.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:29 AM
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There will always be a few things. One of my plates was never good at mopping the tile floors. So I did that myself because I value a clean house with tidy floors. I instructed her how to do it properly but she couldn't do it correctly. This is a need I can fulfil myself. So not every need is worth leaving for. Just ones that are the most important to you and are worth leaving over.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:29 AM
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Why did you have a friendship in the first place? If you let your intentions speak loudly, then you won't ever have this problem. Attraction for a man is based on physical appearance as a majority. So you should therefore know when meeting her if you're attracted to her.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:26 AM
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You're not including the depreciation of the value of the car over time though.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:24 AM
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Agree or amplify. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:22 AM
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No. Emotions are systematically beaten out of men from childhood while women are mostly allowed to embellish in theirs.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:21 AM
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If they get STD checks regularly and ideally before you bone her.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:20 AM
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Tell them you're sick.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:20 AM
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Not a big deal man. Just plate girls who are shorter or same height.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:20 AM
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Neural connections in your brain strengthen when you think and do things. Stop thinking and doing things (such as social media) and you won't have a problem dealing with your own inadequacey.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:19 AM
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What's the question?
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:17 AM
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I think you're catching one-itis. Why would you care what her mindset is around exclusivity? If you want it, get it. If you don't, continue on.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:16 AM
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Give it a few years. You'll realise most people are selfish assholes and will abandon you when you need them the most. Fuck other people. Just live another 10 years and you'll have enough life experience to not be attached to people. It's yourself that matters, and your purpose.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:15 AM
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The type of car doesn't matter. A car loan is one of the worst financial investments you can ever make. The car depreciates in value as it ages, it costs more than buying it straight up and yeah, the car ages. I would buy a car for the money you have in your bank account and never put yourself in a situation where you are in debt to someone else. Girls don't give a fuck about what kind of car you drive. They care about who you are as a human, not what you own. It's just that success brings about…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:13 AM
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If you can't do it yourself, out-source it. This is true for all things in life. I prefer to make my own decisions and put in the research and work rather than letting others make decisions that affect me. It's the reason why I like petite, feminine, submissive women. And the reason they like me.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:09 AM
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Nobody knows because you'd have to be with them 24/7 to get a picture of what their relationship is actually like. Celebrity relationships only let you see what they want you to.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:07 AM
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I wouldn't impregnate a women because I'm not ready to go on that part of life's journey. Why do you care so much? Go and find something productive to do instead of worrying if guys would impregnate someone that you might or might not know. Jeez this is sad.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:06 AM
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I'm wondering, how do the men here who are married or in LTRs initiate sex with their spouse? You find her laying on the bed on her laptop and laying face down. You slap her ass, she giggles and smiles, you kiss her neck and it tickles her. Then you take her clothes off and put your cock in her mouth. It's quite simple. "but at some point she then holds onto the ability to confirm or deny intimacy while you have nothing" Only if you permit her to do so. Any woman who withholds sex and intimacy f…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:02 AM
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Creating a website is easy. If your spending too much on ads, you're in a crowded market. Find something more niche.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 08:55 AM
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You haven't spoken in months yet it warrants a post on reddit? Lol it sounds like he's on your mind.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 08:54 AM
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G O O G L E
/r/askTRP27/05/21 08:53 AM
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We all go through this at some stage. Just remember it's a learning experience and hopefully you'll have gained better judgement, so you don't jump into a LTR that's not right for you. Remember this is mostly biological and with time it'll pass. Diet, gym, socialisation and running will all help. Allow yourself 5 minutes to cry a day but no more. It's not useful after 2 months anymore. Also don't ever want her to mis you or regret her decision. That still means you value her opinion. Which is co…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 11:28 PM
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Don't reject other women until your living with your LTR and know her really well.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 11:15 PM
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Dude it seems like he likes hanging out with you. Makre sure you lead him in the right direction and don't stray away from your friends in life. When uni is over, friends are much harder to come by and there's no longer a mutual excuse to hang out all the time. Everyone goes there seperate ways, so hang on to the ones you've got. They might end up being very useful for you later in life.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 11:12 PM
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Find something that turns you on man. Maybe what you're doing right now, you might not be that interested in.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 11:10 PM
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Buy items from China from their marketplaces. Import it. Sell it for a profit in your home country. Create a website or sell on Amazon/eBay. It's fairly simple if you're willing to put in the work.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 11:04 PM
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1 year age difference is nothing. You realise men on thise sub date 20+ years below them right? WHat do you mean convince her to slide through? I literally have no clue what this means. How do you suggest something like that? Make sure you have some logistics like where you two can fuck at least...
/r/askTRP26/05/21 11:03 PM
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"She is so willing to make us work and she wants us to be a committed couple." Dude she's hanging out with other dudes late at night and is on Tinder. You have legit proof of this. Please next her and don't degrade yourself like this.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 11:00 PM
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Wait so she calls you and invites you to hang out and you say no? But you actually want to hang out with her, so what the fuck? Don't micro manage her, she doesn't want an emotions manager. She wants to see you! And now she's doing the exact same thing you did to her, because you didn't hang out with her. What do you mean how to proceed? You have royally fucked this one up man. Try to learn from it what you can. Give it some time and hit her up but I don't like your chances here. Unless she's re…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 09:36 AM
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Sounds like textbook loneliness mate. Social interactions with others tend to get us out of our own head so much.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 09:33 AM
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A man needs to control his emotions. You and your father are as worse as each other. At least you have your whole life to learn to not be like him.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 09:32 AM
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Nope. Women are free to see other men. Can't have double standards bro. Ones who are really attracted to you, will drop other men and only see you. That's how you know you've hooked them good.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 09:30 AM
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Older women have seen it all. Be straightforward and direct with her, unless she's buying your innocent act. Lol. She's probably doing this because she wants to fuck younger men. It makes her feel younger or something. Play into that character if you can.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 09:29 AM
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Look after her looks, continue to be feminine, know the man you're spending time with well. See how you can support him in whatever way you can. Whether that's cooking, cleaning, caressing the back of his head during TV etc.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 09:25 AM
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I used to. Not anymore.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 07:03 AM
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Once you reach a certain level of woman, as in, attractiveness, then it becomes like everything else. The mystery, thrill and the hunt isn't as fun. Because you've reached a pinnacle. I can relate. Best way around it? Love what you do. If you're not enjoying it anymore, move on to something else like your career, a business or a hobby. Do what you find fulfillment in. I'm going on a date tonight and all of the thrill is gone. I used to get excited-nervous and ensure all aspects of my appearance …
/r/askTRP24/05/21 07:02 AM
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How about finding a girl who wants to have sex with you? Why the fuck would you want to stay with this LTR? What are the reasons... You realise TRP is about having sex with lots of women right? So if your LTR isn't having sex with you then dump her and fuck plenty of girls who do.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 06:58 AM
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She's telling you the truth this time. Never ask for sex. It makes some girls feel dirty. Use your actions, not your words.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:54 AM
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I have a shirt on. I've been lifting for 5 years or so. My photo is nothing special, I need to take a better one tbh.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:38 AM
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You have dissected this way too much. Move on to the next set. Watch what women do, not what they say. It's not rocketscience. Physically move her to another location, any excuse will do. "Let's check out what's going on over there.." then grab her around the waist and you've got her to yourself.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:54 PM
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Do you want to see her again? Only one way to do that. Ask her out on another day. See how it goes.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:51 PM
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When I was younger I went to a female one. It was a disaster. Have not gone to one since.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:49 PM
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How do you not know how to find a vagina
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:48 PM
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It doesn't matter because you can't trust what women say. And you can't ask, ever, it just makes you look insecure. So treating it like it doesn't exist is the most logical path.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:47 PM
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Stick with your original plan. This is so wholesome lol.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:46 PM
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If you can't accept the logic of the equation then you won't be able to improve man. Women make it easy for men to contact them if there is enough attraction. The only reason that some won't is because they are in relationships, you haven't built enough attraction with them or they have a better option. Often a combination.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 05:20 AM
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Only way is the way you know. Hard work, determination, grit and discipline. Muscle grows back quickly if you've had it in the past. Everything takes time. I did a big bulk and now I'm jacked but need to cut now. I would rather have big muscles and extra body fat then have cut and looked skinny with small muscles.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 05:02 AM
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One gym pic in the mirror, one pic I took of myself (phone on wall with timer) infront of a backyard pool. Both photos not smiling, but muscles showing and looking really serious. (Basically just staring straight ahead into the camera lense. I think my sternocleidomastoid muscles in my second photo are really defined which is really helpful. It goes well for me. - Still it's all an evolution and trying different photo combinations, different photos, over many years.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 05:00 AM
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Dump that hoe right now. Have some self respect.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:57 AM
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Man, there are men out there that are always going to be more attractive then you are. There's no point examining it. The point is to keep climbing to the top.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:57 AM
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1) Why would you care? 2) Women lie constantly. - ESPECIALLY regarding sex. 3) Find a better conversation topic and never ever ask that fucking question again. It screams insecurity.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:55 AM
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Proceed as if you would normally.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:53 AM
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It's a decent strategy. But it's like if I play sports against shitty players or teams, I don't learn much. So once you surpass the dead horses, don't turn them into a crutch.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:53 AM
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Caloric deficit or surplus, Whether your ingesting carbs or fats is a personal choice.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:52 AM
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Don't listen to what women say. Watch what they do. Everyone talks about themselves in a positive manner, even men. Read the sidebar and never again buy into what a woman tells you in conversation. You need to learn the whole "women are dictated by emotions, men are dictated by logic" thing. It's essential RP material.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:51 AM
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Why don't you ask her and find out? She isn't a magical leprachaun.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:49 AM
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Eating fast food is a fucking awful date idea in my opinion. It shows that you lack self-discipline with your diet, makes the girl feel like your giving low effort and she basically told you how to get her out on a date. Take her somewhere respectable and she'll feel better about herself. When you barely know someone you need to create a good impression from the start. Then after a short time, you can do the fast food, low-effort shit, that way she knows you're high value. If you shut your eyes …
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:48 AM
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You need more life experience. Get out there and get things done. Challenge yourself.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:44 AM
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Your worried about mangos and how you can communicate effectively with your LTR. Sounds like you need to focus on yourself for a while and shut her out while she watches you improve, it'll create mystery and attraction and draw her behaviour back in line. Any girl who is attracted to you will make sure they don't do anything to make you upset. In these cases, it's usually either a respect issue or a communication issue. Both can be dealt with in the same way: 1) Clearly state your expectations a…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:42 AM
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If you need to write this one reddit, then yes. Move on.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:38 AM
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It's not a problem unless you think it is. Try and focus on your posture and yourself and if you can keep your testosterone in check (i.e sleeping with lots of women) then your insecurity about looking at women is going to dissolve. I'm a mature aged student at my university and there are plenty of 18-year-old women that I accidentally catch a glimpse of their ass, tits etc. Mostly speaking, attractive women are used to it and ugly women see it as a compliment.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:37 AM
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I don't pay attention to what everyone else is doing much at all. I'm too busy focusing on myself and my life. So therefore I don't worry about things out of my immediate control such as my country or browsing social media.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:33 AM
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Maybe you're not as good as you think you are. Girls will always make it easy for you to meet up with them and contact them if there is enough attraction.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:32 AM
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Value is making her experience emotions, especially happy ones. Women are emotional creatures so if you can let her feel safe, comfortable and let her experience all of her emotions whilst maintaining a comfortable and strong frame, this is the mark of a true man and true value for a woman. Experiences = talk to, date, have sex with as many attractive women as possible. It's the best way to learn and expand your dating skills and amount of women along with the quality of women. It takes years an…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:29 AM
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I have a question for you. How and why do people monitor whether others are following them or not on social media? Like doesn't life happen and your better off spending your time doing something productive. I don't get the mentality of checking up on other girls activity and follow status. I swear to fucking god people are so fucking dependant on online interactions it's screwing up men. We should be out there fucking slaying pussy and doing purposeful, meaningful work that impacts thousands of …
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:14 AM
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Upgrade your plates but don't neglect old ones unless you can afford to. You never know when your favourite plates break. You don't want to be stuck with nothing. So therefore, spend 3-4 nights a week with our favourite plate, 2 nights with your second favourite and leave 1 night a week for the less attractive ones. Variety keeps things fresh as well. Sex with the same woman can sometimes lead to complacency or routine behaviour. You want things to be exciting? Plus you're giving back to the les…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:11 AM
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It's like this... you don't need all of these things: career, social circle, money, education, looks, the potential for success etc. But you better have some of those. My car is shit, my bachelor pad has barely any furniture. But I rock an entreprenuer / start up persona and my apartment is full of products that I sell. My car is terrible. But girls love my personality, confidence, looks and the value I provide to them. They are happy and having fun with me. They happily pay for things for me, I…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:07 AM
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Picked up a landscaping job for $20 an hour on GumTree when I was looking to bring in some extra cash as my business only takes up a few hours of the day. I wanted new experiences, earn cash and I had no experience as a landscaper. I worked for a Doctor couple at their mansion and worked there for a few days. It was awesome to get to know them and ask them questions about success. The husband invited me to drive a Porsche back to his house that he was picking up in another state. Perfect opportu…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:00 AM
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"i didnt want to bring it up and sound insecure" You can bring up issues without sounding insecure you know. You just have to set the tone and deliver your demands in a mature and masculine way. My impression is that your LTR doesn't have enough respect for you and you don't have good communciation. In any LTR it's essential that if you have any problems or issues you communicate with her effectively. When a girl does something I don't like, I tell her "I don't like when you..." and then she wil…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 01:54 AM
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Just tell her in a mature adult way. Like you would tell a child that they can't eat candy. If she reacts emotionally then this is the last you need to deal with their nonsense!
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:06 PM
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Depends how you value your time, what options you have and whether you are getting a good time vs value received.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:05 PM
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Watch what women do, not what they say.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:04 PM
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Why the fuck did you ask her to set up the logistics? Beginner mistake man.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:04 PM
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This was really hard to read. Work on your writing skills so you can provide some value to us all.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:03 PM
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It honestly triggers my anxiety because she keeps fucking prodding at it. Girls are perceptive and she knows there's something I'm keeping from her. She seems frustrated by that and it's making it difficult to escalate and ask her on a date when she seems so enamoured by this air-bnb thing. I think it lacks emotional maturity and if she really wanted me she would be making it easy for me to ask her on a date. She is 23 though, so there's that. But again; watch what women do, not what they say. S…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 05:06 AM
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Make moves. The best way to learn is to take action. Study. Invest. And watch yourself grow, especially in the bleak moments.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 04:23 AM
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Don't care in that way about your Dad. Care about him in other ways.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 04:23 AM
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Try and escalate and monitor her response. It'll go one of two ways but it's the only way you'll know.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 04:20 AM
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Make sure you're getting enough carbs. If you're in a cut, these things can happen.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 04:19 AM
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You get a feel for things based on their reply. Typically I ask within 3-4 messages.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 04:19 AM
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