| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 29 | "Don't worry about openers" is bullshit when you're a beginner, How do I start a conversation? | OrangeJews42 | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 07:34 PM | |
| 15 | I got nothing to talk about with most women | OrangeJews42 | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 11:38 PM | |
| 1 | Got a date on tinder but I’m super worried | OrangeJews42 | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 12:56 AM | |
| 1 | What’s the end game in a bar setting? | OrangeJews42 | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 10:08 PM | |
| 1 | I sexualize women too much and I feel like I stink from desperation | OrangeJews42 | /r/seduction | 16/11/18 01:11 PM | |
| 1 | Tinder on vacation | OrangeJews42 | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 08:59 PM | |
| 1 | Baby face is killing my confidence | OrangeJews42 | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 09:12 PM | |
| 0 | Texting during the week? | OrangeJews42 | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 11:42 AM |
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| -2 | Staying calm for a hook upIt’s not an orgy, don’t worry, I will be wearing gloves and only fuck in doggy | /r/seduction | 17/04/20 03:19 PM |
| 2 | I’m so much more desirable after ending a dry seasonOne does not simply stop watching LOTR for a hoe | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | "Don't worry about openers" is bullshit when you're a beginner, How do I start a conversation?My aim currently is night game, I feel like it’s easier because women at bars and pubs would like to be approached. I’ve got a few canned lines after a bit of research, all that is left now is approaching | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 01:44 PM |
| 4 | "Don't worry about openers" is bullshit when you're a beginner, How do I start a conversation?How’s your game been? How long have you been at it? Any field reports you would like to share with me? (Others stories motivate me :)) | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 12:49 AM |
| 4 | "Don't worry about openers" is bullshit when you're a beginner, How do I start a conversation?I really like having the book physically rather than on a kindle, nothing beats the feeling of a book in your hand | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 08:59 PM |
| 2 | "Don't worry about openers" is bullshit when you're a beginner, How do I start a conversation?Thanks, I’ve been on a reading frenzy for the whole day, I feel like I’m ready to make a move, my confidence is at a good place, but my anxiety is through the roof. I’ll look into those books, I don’t live in the US so getting them is a bit of a headache. | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 08:53 PM |
| 2 | "Don't worry about openers" is bullshit when you're a beginner, How do I start a conversation?I don’t see the benefits of failure when they can be avoided, from what I read telling a girl she’s attractive comes off as needy and not very attractive, even if you do, she says “thanks” and you gotta think of something to ignite the conversation. I’m just not the type of guy that can think on the spot, I often overthink. I started talking to everyone, I’d say I’m not as shy as I used to be, but in a bar setting it’s very different than in other settings. My hobbies don’t really speak to women… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 08:14 PM |
| 7 | Don’t be like Bob: how to succeed with women by Ron Louis and David CopelandI feel personally attacked | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Girls showing interest then responding with dry answersHarvard joined the conversation: Shit dawg you want a scholarship? | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Girls showing interest then responding with dry answersI’ve seen this getting popular in the seduction community, love the concept, pretty confident to do so instead of texting, will start using it! I have a situation that I can’t set a date with a girl because she lives far (50miles) although I travel a lot and when I’m in the area I could stop by and see her, so I’m not sure how to approach this because tbh she got my interest, so I’m trying to create a friendly environment between us and eventually meet but I also don’t wanna bore her or get in t… | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Girls showing interest then responding with dry answersI asked this girl “what do you like to do” so I can understand what we have in common, and she’s like “weed, Netflix, I workout sometimes”, which is a really basic response, I didn’t continue that conversation and just left her on read cause I’m alpha like that /s. I’d assume if she was interested she would also ask or show interest, I hate feeling like I’m the one that’s supposed to carry the conversation. Other girl texts me on tinder the whole night, we have a lot in common, I text her a few … | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 02:50 PM |
| 2 | I look young, kinda messes up my confidenceI’m dying to look older so all these classy things sit well on me, I love a good suit, I’ve always dreamt of looking like Barney Stinson, the first opportunity I get I walk in suits all day... | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 11:45 PM |
| 2 | I look young, kinda messes up my confidenceI got the MontBlanc 4810, the Rado Centrix Automatic Open Heart and an Emporio Armani I don’t wear much | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 11:40 PM |
| 2 | I look young, kinda messes up my confidenceI agree, maybe this youthful look is just an excuse to why I shouldn’t approach, I’m really inexperienced with approaching and dating, had an LTR since my teen years that ended, so I really never did the whole seduction thing, I don’t know how women work | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 11:36 PM |
| 1 | I look young, kinda messes up my confidenceI don’t smile too much, I don’t like my smile, it’s big as fuck, I have a GIGANTIC smile, looks somewhat like this | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 11:31 PM |
| 2 | I look young, kinda messes up my confidenceMy hairstyle is on point I think, short on the sides, slick back on the top, high volume, might win best hair in the world competition. Always been a dream of mine to grow facial hair, unfortunately I cannot, all of my facial hair decided to grow in my butt | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 11:25 PM |
| 1 | I look young, kinda messes up my confidenceCan’t let go of the streetwear haha, I love my shoe collection, Jordan’s and Vans all day, everyone loves them though, I have orange purple shoes which everytime get a “siiiiick shoes” comment if I go out. Skinny ripped jeans, vans hoodie, or white jeans with red Jordan’s... I’m kinda thin so classy shit looks weird on me, as for a watch I wear the MontBlanc 4810 but people know nothing about watches and honestly I can wear a Casio and people wouldn’t care. Only older men can appreciate a good w… | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 11:22 PM |
| 0 | I look young, kinda messes up my confidenceI’ve been investing in style lately, just started, bought a lot of really cool stuff for winter season, mostly really cool jackets, I’m trying to go for the bad boy style (ripped jeans jacket, leather jacket), I look terrible in collars, I’m kinda thin so it doesn’t sit well on me. As for physique, I’m a boxer, I don’t look shredded or big, but my physique is on point. Women don’t know shit about watches, i love watches and own some great ones, never saw a woman express knowledge in watches or a… | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 11:13 PM |
| 3 | I look young, kinda messes up my confidenceI know my blessings, I know that in 2-3 years I’ll grow into my skin and bang chicks left and right, although I’m pretty frustrated right now. I decided to take a step away from women and invest in myself financially and mentally which really paid off, but now I do plan to start being more active and my baby face kinda messes up my vibe. | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Need some guidance with first approachI’ve been really confident, building myself a lot, this time I know I can do this man, not asking the time, I go max right away, I’m thirsty to learn as quick as possible | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Need some guidance with first approachSure bro, I know that :) in the last week I’ve expressed interest in like 4 women, haven’t approached yet but got pretty decent eye contact from them, I usually beat myself up for not talking to them, I will beat this, I decided I need to do it for the sake of me. Tired of feeling sorry. | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Need some guidance with first approachSo should I just be like “hey, I think you’re interesting, let me get your number and take you out some time” something like that? | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Need Examples for unique complimentsThanks man, appreciate your reply, you’re right, I like the genuine part, genuine is good, will at least try and learn from it, even if it goes bad at least I’ll practice. | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Need Examples for unique complimentsYou’re 100% right, I should at least try and learn from it, you gave me confidence :) | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Girl on dating app wants to meet me but do I look different on the pic? U.K.Can you stop fucking spamming every sub with your shit? You’re fucking retarded, don’t go out the house | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on the tinder pic?I’ve seen you post here a few months ago, get a fucking life | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Girl on FB I've never personally met liked all of my profile pics with me and other girlsMessage her, ask wassup | /r/seduction | 01/07/19 04:51 PM |
| 4 | Performance anxietyStop thinking about sex as sex, treat it more like a fun activity you both enjoy, you’re the man! You lead, pin her to the bed, look her in the eyes and say “you know what happens next right?” With a smirk on your face, cause you’re the shit! It’s all about confidence, imagine you’re the most desired man in the world and that she’s so lucky to be able to sleep with you. That’s what I usually do, just try to be very passionate, very teasing, I don’t take it seriously, it’s just fun, don’t be afra… | /r/seduction | 01/07/19 03:56 PM |
| 12 | Does height matter to girls?I have a friend who is your height, he gets women. Act like there’s nothing wrong with your height, it’s all about how you carry yourself. Obviously it’s not easy, I’m 5’10 and I’m dying to be 6’0, as you see we’re all insecure about shit. | /r/seduction | 01/07/19 03:34 PM |
| 6 | Performance anxietyYou’re too much in your head, you should have fun instead of feeling anxious. Kiss her, kiss her neck, foreplay is key, get her wet for you, be cool. Go down on her, tease her, just have fun. It’s just sex, if she’s willing to sleep with you then she’s really into you and you have nothing to worry about... | /r/seduction | 01/07/19 03:27 PM |
| 5 | Does height matter to girls?What’s your height? | /r/seduction | 01/07/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you build kino with a shy girl being a shy guyAfter posting this thread we chatted for a while and honestly I feel like she really likes me and this will be a piece of cake. All of this advice is super useful now and I’m going to use touch more as she seems to be comfortable with me :) | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 07:53 PM |
| 2 | How do you build kino with a shy girl being a shy guyLove it! I think that’s great advice | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you build kino with a shy girl being a shy guyIt’s 40c here, I’ll be surprised if she’s cold 😅 | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 03:43 PM |
| 3 | How do you build kino with a shy girl being a shy guyI got this ;) | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 03:36 PM |
| 3 | How do you build kino with a shy girl being a shy guy2nd date is at the beach, in a few days :) still got the chance | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 03:33 PM |
| 18 | Asked girl out for a second date, said she was busy and gave a very specific excuse. She has shown interest the past few days too.Just say “have fun, hit me up when you’re free” | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 07:10 PM |
| 8 | Asked girl out for a second date, said she was busy and gave a very specific excuse. She has shown interest the past few days too.It seems like she’s into you but just busy, give her time | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Lost a 10/10 because of texting.. Any good resources that helped you improve your text game?What a legend | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Need help with a girl I loveI cringed reading this, scared she’ll hurt you? Are you guys 12? | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Tinder hookup in rural area?Dam bro I didn’t thank about it 😩 | /r/seduction | 21/06/19 06:10 PM |
| 11 | This stupid whore insulted meYou gotta see a psychologist mah dude cause you retarded as shit. Not even gonna day why. Just hold this L real quick | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Girl on dating app wants to meet me but do I look different on the pic?Are you sick in the head or something? I’m not sure if you’re for real or not, your whole post history is spamming how pathetic you are. Here’s an idea to get women to like you: stop being a fucking weird little cunt | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 09:07 PM |
| 1 | I got nothing to talk about with most womenI don’t believe that to be honest. Men want sex, women want sex, I’m sure there’s a woman out there thinking to herself “I want a cute guy to approach me so I can fuck him” there’s nothing wrong with superficial. | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 01:36 PM |
| 1 | I got nothing to talk about with most womenSounds like a plan! Thanks, will try. | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 11:59 PM |
| 1 | I got nothing to talk about with most women0! | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 11:51 PM |
| 1 | I got nothing to talk about with most womenSo if I see a cute girl do I just introduce myself and ask a question? “Hey I’m OrangeJews42, what’s your name? What do you like to do?” I hate making talks sound like interviews, I had some girls tell me stuff like “I like to go to the beach” what the fuck am I supposed to say about that other than “cool”. | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 11:51 PM |
| 1 | My brain shuts down when I talk to girlsI don’t live in the US but I’m very influenced by the US culture, I think in English all the time, I’m very distant from my own country’s culture, so it’s pretty tough to find people who understand me, so talking about memes with people especially girls would be weird cause they will have no idea what the fuck I’m talking about. As stupid as it sounds I feel like I have a language barrier, English feels smooth and chill and I can hold a conversation for days in English, when I speak my native la… | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 12:17 PM |
| 2 | My brain shuts down when I talk to girlsI feel like I’m very different, I got weird friends, we talk about memes and refer to memes way too much in conversations, 90% girls aren’t like that. Not only that, but overall I fell like I have nothing in common with most women, or even share small interests, I love entrepreneurship, boxing, skating and rapping, I usually assume most women I meet aren’t into these kind of stuff. | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 11:11 PM |
| 1 | How to get free pictures taken for tinder?Overall the best thing is a picture in a social environment, a picture during a hobby and another one funny or ridiculous to show you have a sense of humor. Each photo has other attributes showing, in one you’re passionate, other you’re friendly and kind and another is funny and ridiculous, easy matches | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Afraid that she’ll lose interest in me...It’s more like be confident, sometimes I respond instantly, sometimes I don’t. You don’t need to overthink the things you do. What you need is to love yourself so much you don’t give a fuck about no woman, you’re the trophy, have the mindset that she’s into you, she crazy about you because you’re that great. | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Afraid that she’ll lose interest in me...I don’t know you much, and I myself ain’t good in seduction, beginner at best, but I’m working on it and reading a lot. Number 1 issue with guys is neediness, chasing and looking desperate. Make yourself busy, find how to better yourself, when you wake up think about how you can advance, financially, intellectually, fashion, health, fitness. A few days ago I went shopping and my confidence boosted 200% because I bought really cool clothes! That’s a small thing that can help. | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Afraid that she’ll lose interest in me...You should’ve told her “just hit me up when you’re free” Don’t run after her, look busy, be busy. | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | How to get free pictures taken for tinder?I have 1 pic of me (selfie in my car) and my dogs cause they cute and girls love cute lol | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | How to get free pictures taken for tinder?1 pic that’s that | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Afraid that she’ll lose interest in me...Don’t be needy, just shoot her a text saying “when are you free? Let’s hang out ;)” I know first times make you feel special, I’ve been there too, I used to run after my ex and overall be a lil bitch cause I loved her. Just do you, stop focusing on her and focus on yourself, when you have time for her don’t be afraid to tell her you wanna hang out, make plans. | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 05:32 PM |
| 1 | How to get free pictures taken for tinder?I took it in my car | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 03:15 PM |
| 1 | How to get free pictures taken for tinder?Just take a lot of photos, like 1000, one of them should be good... use PS Express to cover up blemishes on your face and use some filters and lighting and boom you got a killer photo. Did this last week, had so many matches, girls talking to me, got a date next week | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 12:33 PM |
| 2 | I think I'm an irrecoverable case.Learn from your mistakes, are you a quitter? Better yourself bro, keep up. I’m bad with girls too to be honest, and I know that I’m gonna be a joke in a lot of situations, but I’m ready to deal with them and move past them. Trial and error is the name of the game brother | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 12:31 PM |
| 8 | Texting during the week?Memes are cringey unless it’s a good friend... I’m not sending her memes, she’ll think I’m 12 | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Got a date on tinder but I’m super worriedI have her insta and whatsapp so no I don’t | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Got a date on tinder but I’m super worriedI think I wouldn’t be this worried if I felt that my picture resembles me. In reality I look thinner and less mature than in the picture. But this does make me feel better, telling myself to just go and have fun makes it a whole lot easier, thanks. | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Got a date on tinder but I’m super worriedYes, and another pic of my dogs | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Got a date on tinder but I’m super worriedI’m really trying to build it, I’m in that phase where I’m putting a lot of work into my insecurities. I’m really thin, I’ve had health related issues that affected my ability to gain weight but I’m seeing a specialist but until I can gain I’m awfully insecure in my body, my whole life people asked me “how are you so thin” and it fucked me up, I feel like that’s everything people talk about when they see me, how thin I am. That’s my only insecurity but it shuts me down heavy. Other than that I’m… | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 11:24 AM |
| 4 | FUCKING EYE CONTACTI’m too shy :( | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 12:27 PM |
| 10 | FUCKING EYE CONTACTI worked hard the past few years on this, and I can hold eye contact easily, the problem is I have a resting bitch face, when I stare at people it usually looks like I’m judging you.i look like this when I hold eye contact what do? | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 07:31 AM |
| 2 | I sexualize women too much and I feel like I stink from desperationI’m pretty successful tbh, but I lack pussy and it’s killing me. I do own a business, I’m a co owner in a big company and won’t go into too much detail but I work hard af. I got a lot going one for me but not pussy lol, I’m on the prowl for pussy! | /r/seduction | 16/11/18 05:25 PM |
| – | Baby face is killing my confidenceI’m really thin, 120lbs 5’9 | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 09:20 PM |
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