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[–]IntoxicatedOrange 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link
Do you really need a unique opener? How do you know? It sounds like you haven't really tried approaching with generic ones yet and not having the right opener is just an excuse your brain is making up so you don't have to approach.
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[–]BlackBookBasics 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You have to get out of your head. You haven't made one approach yet! Stop projecting your perceptions onto a girl who you've never even met yet. Just because YOU thinks she's pretty doesn't mean that she thinks she is. You can tell her just that and it would knock her socks off because no one has approached her and told her that in years. And above all, telling her that she's attractive isn't boring or stale...it's unique because it's coming from YOU.
Don't make this complicated. Especially since you're new to the game. Dumb it down. Girls aren't that complex, so you're compliment shouldn't be either. And honestly the words don't matter.
[–]OrangeJews42 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re 100% right, I should at least try and learn from it, you gave me confidence :)
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[–]OrangeJews42 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks man, appreciate your reply, you’re right, I like the genuine part, genuine is good, will at least try and learn from it, even if it goes bad at least I’ll practice.
[–]IntoxicatedOrange 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just do that then, you'll learn more by doing it a few times than by anything anyone could tell you on here.
[–]smoothmax 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The guys are right who said, get out of your head.
You do that by feeling your body. Feel your feet, your legs, your tummy, feel the hot sun, feel the ground under your feet. Most of all, when you see a HB feel the attraction in your body. The butterflies, the dizzy feeling when you look in her eyes, the smell of her scent, the beginnings of a boner ,whatever. If you're in that zone, it doesn't matter what you say. "Hi" is good enough then make any observation you want about her clothes, hairstyle, the weather, a question, anything. If you're out of your head it really doesnt matter.
[–]Bennifred 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
learn about fashion and makeup and compliment her on her own style. Everyone has a unique style and you yourself can probably attest that it takes goddamn effort to cultivate it. People like having their efforts noticed and women are no different. Notice the way she cuts/does her hair. Notice what clothes she's wearing. Take a note from women on how *they* approach other women (e.g. "GIRL, I love your dress!")
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