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CMVOrangematcha/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:01 PM
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Not the first or last lie I’ll read online. Thanks for the laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:30 AM
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Maybe change yours to red.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:29 AM
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Been doing bro activities and never been accused of rape culture. If that’s what’s going on with you maybe there’s something there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:29 AM
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According to who? You? A nobody? I’m good with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:28 AM
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Typical. Run away and go back to your like minded circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:04 PM
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Men can’t handle criticism either. That’s why they make melodramatic threads online like this one. Did you read the title of this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:03 PM
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Sure thing buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:02 PM
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I’m sure you feel that way. And that’s fine. You did your job already.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:01 PM
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I don’t necessarily care to make a point when it’s pointless. I told you that as well. I respect my time and can tell your position. I will. It’s entertaining to be in this sub and you entertained me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:07 AM
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Okay buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:40 AM
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You’re comparing this guy to a journalist? Okay. I explained why I ignored your points. Feel free to go back and read it again. That’s cool if that’s how you feel. Clearly you have a perception against women, as you’ve shown with your links. If you feel I’m in bad faith it’s simply because I don’t agree with you or OP or the guy I commented to that made you comment back to me. I don’t mind being the outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:37 AM
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I’m wrong, says the biased red pilled man. Okay buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:18 AM
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I understand what the topic is about. My take is that it’s all a confirmation bias against women. Those are great biased arguments. If I cared enough I could talk about how women, even though more educate, still make less than men and other inequalities. The point of this thread and others like it are simply bad faith. The title to this thread is women don’t care about you as a human being for gods sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:17 AM
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Even if it was there’s never anything that men do for other men. It’s always about taking women down. It does because in order to believe their take you have to believe that women are coddled and have it easy. That’s a false presumption. People like him claim there’s a gender bias that benefit women that shouldn’t exist, when clearly, people like himself, you, and OP don’t have that bias. It’s not that you guys are special and broke free of the matrix. It’s just that most people don’t have a pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:44 AM
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It’s not really criticism when the whole point is to take women down a peg. Women have it too easy so let’s make it harder for them instead of finding ways to help men. You know. Because it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:36 AM
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Your battle is against women, not men. Clearly it’s because women only showcase the bad behaviors. Men are little angels. If you’re gonna be a misanthrope you gotta hate both equally. Be a little honest with yourself and others. Either you truly hate both or just women. I’m going with you hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:10 AM
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Where did I say I didn’t? Show me? Or are all the facts you have in your head? I love how you didn’t deny the hypocric allegation. Must be true then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:09 AM
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Your perception of women seems to be completely logistical void of any humanity. Partly because of a confirmation bias since you probably haven’t had woman sexually aroused or orgasm which is sad but it doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. It just hasn’t happened to you. The variable you’re looking for isn’t women, the variable that’s the problem is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:30 PM
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Oh. So only women manipulate men. There’s the bias. Men are sweet baby angels and women are devils. Not very reasonable my man. Get a new username.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:16 PM
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I didn’t say I didn’t. But you don’t like it when others do it yet you do it. Hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:15 PM
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Not really. You’re being hysterical because you want women to be nicer to you but they aren’t. You have an issue with women since they don’t like you or want to go out with you. That’s your real issue. You’re conflating it with other things. Behavioral issues transcend gender, race, and creed. You have no issues with men since you’re not trying to fuck them. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:25 PM
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Bringing up bias when you clearly have one against women. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:23 PM
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Where’s the data for that other than in your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:47 PM
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The reason they said Stacy is because men like you go for particular woman that behave that way. If you vet woman you’ll find ones not going for a free meal. It’s not that hard. It’s just you guys always go for Stacy’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:46 PM
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If you feel that way maybe you should get your dates more and don’t be so desperate. Clearly there are simply woman that suck and doing that in a way that. A men variation is one that pretends to care about a woman only to smash and then leave. At the end of the day, people suck, regardless of gender. It’s just that you chose to be bothered more by woman since you want to date them and they aren’t particularly attracted to you so you take it personally. If a man is impartial to you that’s okay s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:45 PM
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It’s not one direction. Due to confirmation bias that’s how to take it. Plenty of women out there that don’t get good support and plenty of men that do. In order for you to commit to being anti woman/ taking them down a peg, you have to believe what you believe. A lot of the cases if you personally don’t have a good support system as a man you feel like most men aren’t. Not true. Don’t conflate your biased reality with everyone’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:41 PM
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I mean there’s a lot of other guys like you, and OP, painting women as devils and men as gods. It seems that creativity a narrative goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:37 PM
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This is why men like you don’t get taken serious. You’re just reactionary. Instead of being pro man you become anti woman. It’ll never take off. You won’t get support. You’re fighting a losing battle simply for the fact that you’re doing it immorally. Taking down woman, and being happy about it, instead of uplifting men but claiming to want to support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:36 PM
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So women aren’t harmless and men aren’t harmless. So you just want to take women down a peg just because you’re emotional and biased against women. Pretty sure if a man is committing DV you’d turn a blind eye since it’s not your business but if a woman is committing DV it’s the end of the world. Pretending to care about morality when it’s really a stupid gender ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 01:31 AM
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Other men create a fantasy too. Such as they are more willing to date any woman. It’s women that are the issue. You also have the fantasy you can’t do any of those things to women. You can. You’re just not satisfied and want them to be taken down a peg
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:58 AM
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You think you’ll make remarkable changes to women whom you only talk to for days? People in general have behavioral issues. People suck. It’s not just a woman’s issue. Woman can be annoying and suck but I’ve never had to potentially fight one because they got mad at me. I’d have to do that with men over nonsense. But only women need a fix to RP guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:00 PM
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It seems you’re holding them accountable. Most people don’t hold them accountable since there’s no point. Done wanting to talk to the woman, just leave her specially if they’re hysterical. Not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:54 PM
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Have you ever thought that you can also turn down women for not meeting your requirements? Wild guess but I’d assume a requirement for you would be low body count. If she had a high one what would you do? You also have other requirements as well. No way you’d date someone that isn’t gonna be contributing financially. Could you afford a stay at home gf now or ever? Probably not. Men have prerequisites as well but want to pretend they don’t. That only affects you negatively by thinking negatively …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:45 AM
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You do realize she may not be the most versed in that type of stuff? She’s dealing with women as a woman. Her advice is good for other lesbians. Butch lesbians fit a specific dynamic that other lesbians are looking for so even though she’s butch she’s still dealing with woman differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:43 AM
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Or, wild take, making a joke and trolling on OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:39 AM
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Are you getting flash backs to when you were bullied in grade school? I love how whiny you RP men are. Always bringing up someone being a meanie yet fail to realize it when you do it. Keep crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:35 AM
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I’m just repeating it to you since giving you new information will only overload your poor little RP brain. I take pity on the mentally weak. My parents didn’t have me at 50 as your comment mentioned. And if yours did I can tell you why you’re mentally behind. It’s genetics. Too bad bud. You’ll always be behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:50 PM
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I don’t need data. You literally said it and we all know it. Men use viagra right? Why is that? Think about it buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:01 PM
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No it’s not. Men’s sexuality also goes down. They have to use medicine to keep it up and feel like a man. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:38 PM
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Just don’t get the viagra. If god tells your body it’s over it’s over. And women of all ages want to have sex. If they don’t want to fuck men like you that has to do with a more personal issue, you’re unfuckable. Physiologically women get less estrogen and more testosterone as they age who can make them more horny so bringing age into is also incorrect. Wrong on two counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:12 AM
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There you. I won.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:59 PM
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Clapping is easier than typing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:58 PM
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I’m sure the gif makes you clap at the screen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:56 PM
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My man can’t even type anymore. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:52 PM
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You
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:48 PM
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Man you’re so cringey.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:47 PM
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You do know you’re the one that started it? I guess not since you don’t know anything. You started it by making this thread in bad faith. You didn’t want a discussion and you definitely didn’t want naysayers. That’s why you get all grumpy. You just wanted a good ol circlejerk with the red pilled fellas. You boys sure hate women but love each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:41 PM
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I love that ad hominem bother you yet you’re on this thread doing the same and more. You dorks just love to throw around ad hominem when it’s against you. It’s sad. It’s entertaining too. Keep it up sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:37 PM
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You should ask mommy to teach you reading comprehension because you lack that. You kinda need that to “debate”. It’ll help the adults in this thread too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:34 PM
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Yes. I’ve stated them multiple times. You’re getting upset like a wittle baby again? Aww. Maybe the baby shouldn’t make posts online anymore. Hopefully your mommy is monitoring your internet usage and stops it sooner than later.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:29 PM
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You never did my man. You even stated you don’t trust women. This was never a debate, it was just you whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:24 PM
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You’re pretty stupid. You make a thread for conversation and have gotten mad at people responding to your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:18 PM
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No my man. You are. Due to your heavy bias against woman. If you don’t like them just don’t date them or marry them. Problem solved. Date and fuck men. They’re much better right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:16 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:15 PM
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Yes. Something your claiming to be own your own volition. No one claimed your humble other than yourself. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:14 PM
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Ironic calling yourself humble when you’re online doing quite the opposite. Men can be humble and then there’s pompous men like yourself making baseless claims online to push the narrative “men good woman bad”. Not very humble if you tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:00 PM
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Yes. It would bother me enough to cut ties. Can you not comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:58 PM
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If it was someone I knew they’d still be creeps. Creeps try to hide. If I saw the behavior I’d simply dissociate. I don’t like creeps. I sing want to be uncomfortable around people. It’s pretty easy to cut ties specially with weirdos. I wouldn’t support it or align myself with that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:08 PM
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Exactly. Billionaires benefit. Is the average person a billionaire? I would guess no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:05 PM
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Liability. If an llc has to go bankrupt, better not mix finances. Not all employers have benefits in general. Symbolism is whatever it is to the person. You brought it up as a benefit. It’s not. Individual finances and couples finances differ. Not cookie cutter. Men making more but more to spend on kids Statistics say otherwise. Marriage down. Birth down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:11 PM
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Taxes only matter to certain people. Not all. Taxes also adds other liabilities which would make it better to not file together. You can still have a dependent with not marriage. Symbolism is just that. It doesn’t matter to everyone. To some, like me, it’s stupid. Insurance is up anyways due to the economy. Not every job has premiums for marriage. As far as I can tell it’s only the military. You can still get maternity and paternity leave if you have a kid without being married. Marriage is dyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:56 PM
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That’s the assumption you have as a biased man. Normal women and men aren’t demanding marriage. Statistics show that. Marriage is down in general. Not up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:52 PM
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It honestly doesn’t make sense to get married. Why spend on a wedding when you can vacation for a month with that much money? Why get paperwork involved? That one only made sense for people in the army to get extra money out of it. Otherwise it made no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:28 PM
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Gotta keep an eye out for predators and I found one. You.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:14 PM
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Sure thing bud. I’m sure you’re killing it out there. Your game must be as good as your fantasy writing skills. You write like a YA novelist. Which is confusing since you can’t seem to follow along my simply points. You also didn’t deny going after grade school kids. Odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:08 PM
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According to who? A jaded red pilled man online? Marriage is down in general my man. So are birth rates. People are still living their lives and just not getting the government involved for their relationship. I’ve been in multiple LTR and none have asked for marriage. It’s not for everyone just how hookup culture is not for everyone. LTR is the new marriage not hookup culture. Hookup culture is what it is and will continue to be its own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:06 PM
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Hookup culture skews younger. LTR are replacing married not hookup culture. Hookup culture exists with certain individuals. Not everyone is down to fuck casually, some even can’t fuck casually. Bad comparison. Bad argument. 2/10
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:22 PM
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You trying to turn me on? Ew. Creep. You really are a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:07 PM
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Yeah. Somebody. Could or could not be you. No way to verify. A lot of ways to lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:45 PM
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Yes. A lot of liars, scammers, sociopaths lie online. Not that hard to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:38 PM
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I did. How do you skip over common ground/ getting to know someone and immediately get to know them ”let’s talk about morals and long term”. No one’s gonna skip over the vetting part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:37 PM
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Like I said. Catfish. Gaslight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:35 PM
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Can’t really verify anything online. Have you heard the term catfish. Narcissists like to also gaslight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:15 PM
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I can Google things too. “Hot girls”. I also have shown my distaste for you so why would I want to know more about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:07 PM
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That’s cool. It still doesn’t take away from the point. One thing I learned about narcissists is they lie a lot so not once did I believe your tale about your gf. You can keep lying online. You’re good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:03 PM
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You’re acting like you don’t have to have a conversation with someone to get to that point of LTR. You magically skip over the getting to know each other phase? I’m sure if they were in grade school you’d still be interested. Seems nothing an issue for you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:58 PM
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Don’t forget the part where I don’t like superficial relationships and narcissistic people as you’re clearly portraying it really well. I’m good my man. As Kendrick said to Drake, not like us. You do you. It’s free entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:56 PM
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No, I like being alone or with the few people I want to be with. Younger people are annoying. You do you. Superficial lifestyles are for some people. Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:48 PM
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It’s shallow to be aware what the younger generation is into? As typical you didn’t even answer such an easy question. Like most people with predatory tendencies you must be hiding something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:46 PM
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You are defending it. You’re defending yourself. That’s why you’re bringing up your “gf”. Nothing wrong with being a hater. It’s free. I will continue to hate and make people like you defensive. It’s fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:44 PM
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And I’m suppose to believe you? Someone I proclaim is a narcissist and not good person? Of course you’ll say “positive “ things. You have to continuously be on the defense since you’re the outlier that’s defending it. That would in fact make you the weirdo for being in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:10 PM
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I explained it pretty clearly. It’s superficial. It’s not built to last. It’s a trade off relationship. It’s for narcissists. Typically not good people, men or women, partake in age gap relationships for the immediate benefits they get for being with the other individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:56 PM
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You let the losers beat you? Sounds like you’re the real loser then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:51 PM
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How would we know that? Every time I’ve seen age gap relationships it’s been out and about and the woman is shopping and it’s on his dime. The likelihood it happens on a low income older man is slim to none.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:50 PM
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Generational differences make for quite a gap with commonality. Obviously there are outliers. You watch tik toks and post on social media like the newer generations do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:49 PM
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I’m weird for being disgusted by your behavior? Have you ever heard of preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:48 PM
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It’s pathetic that you deleted your last comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:55 PM
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Most couples are together for each other. Financial support is all some of the older men start off as. They have less commonality since they are from different generations. What they have in common is they’re both superficial. Men likes young woman, woman likes rich guy to fund her life. That’s an off putting relationship since it’s a facade
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:55 PM
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It’s not hate. It’s disgust
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:53 PM
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That’s not really cool though. A lot of people have money for a multitude of reasons and waste it stupidly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:52 PM
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My guy can’t even read the part where I disrespect women in it. Crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:51 PM
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No, I literally explained why. I even attacked women to make you feel better too. Learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:50 PM
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Fashion can be done at any price point. I thrift a lot. Good stuff. There’s not really pandering. That’s just how you see it. Men don’t provide positive reinforcement like women do. Maybe men should do better. Like you should if you think being evil is good. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:50 PM
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More men should be comfortable being single during the time they’re single. If not they just become jaded. They want a relationship but women don’t so women are the issue. Very problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:48 PM
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That’s not really a positive thing and could potentially be part of the reason relationships don’t last. Getting what you can instead of what you want isn’t really a positive start to a relationship. “Yeah you’re the best I can do, I mean yes, I do” You also didn’t answer my question at all lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:07 AM
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What gender are fucbois? It seems you have a problem with only half the equation of that relationship and it seems to not be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:56 AM
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I feel like men find age gap relationships off as well. As a guy I don’t see an old man and a younger woman and think “that man rules”. It’s off putting. Obviously people can do what they want but the optics is off putting. Clearly money is involved, age gap relationships there is less common ground other than financial stability from the man and attractiveness from the women. It’s weird women are okay with men for money that way and it’s weird men are okay with “buying” love. They’re not relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:55 AM
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Yeah it’s quite dumb when people respond to questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:50 AM
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It’s an online discussion. It’s not as if she’s partaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:49 AM
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A yes. Women bad. Men are the ones being exploited. It’s all based off age groups of women. Once they turn 30 they’re all evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:49 AM
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They should find something to help them out. Why live in misery? If women can find an avenue so can men. As a man I use fashion and do some form of self care that makes women attracted to me. It’s possible. No need to take someone else down to build yourself up. That’s what evil people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:45 AM
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Ugly men should feel good about themselves too. “Humbling” someone because you have low self esteem is pretty stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:39 AM
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In a world of hypotheticals this is one possibility. Not what’s gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:38 AM
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That’s insecurities again. Can’t go out simply because you don’t want to go with them and you’re not allowing them to go without you? That’s why it’s controlling my man. Not hard to understand. It is when you’re seething with insecurities and haven’t learned about them about yourself. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with insecurities either, as long as you know about them and how they affect you. Insecurities can destroy a relationship because someone like you becomes controlling and there’s no…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:53 AM
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Did OP mention prostitutes or you did that to make a poor comparison to give yourself an easy out? I can sense the insecurity through our conversation. Sad. Hanging out with friends. Usually good. Hanging out with prositutes, usually bad. Not the same comparison there buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:04 PM
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Having boundaries is fine. No one is saying that’s the issue. The issue is that the reason for that boundary is an insecurity. Being insecure is fine but that is the sole reason for that boundary, not because of a gender or relationship things. Insecurities affect different people differently. Not everyone has the same insecurities so OPs opinion isn’t really valid for everyone. Every example you made just shows how insecure you are and maybe, just like OP, how inexperienced you are. Whether it …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:30 PM
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It’s a huge insecurity to believe that you’ll be cucked just for allowing your partner to travel without you. You’re deluded for not understanding that more secure individuals are okay with that. It’s really not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:53 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:09 PM
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Your insecure and due to your insecurity you made a preference to woman you date. You’re not dealing in stocks my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:09 PM
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You created a scenario in your head and found a solution for it. Tell the presses. “OP has figured out what boundaries are”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:07 PM
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It’s a fantasy that you guys tell other poor lonely men. Not every man that partakes in passport bro mentality (a rebrand of sex tourism by the way) will get lucky. They’ll fail at home, they’ll fail abroad. And your story reads like a poorly written YA novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:07 PM
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Common red pilled L
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:05 PM
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Yeah. Nothing wrong with that. Divorce isn’t bad my man. Legacies meant anything. We die and that’s it. Get remembered for 3 generations at best. It seems your issue is more about your own mortality, which therapy would be better, not a forced relationship. Side note: unironically made a “all men bad joke” while doing the same but instead “all women bad joke”. If you can’t take yourself serious how do you expect others?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:05 PM
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Fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:18 AM
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Not really. Kids can see a miserable household and it’ll affect them negatively too. Divorce isn’t a problem. It’s a solution to a bad relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:17 AM
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Not once did I mention race. Nice reach though. Very level headed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:16 AM
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Skinny and attractive aren’t the same thing. And just like anything else with online opinions, I take lies with a grain of salt. Somehow undatable men with lack of experience with women, dating get the courage and charisma to woo women with a language barrier. Big fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:30 PM
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There you go. The one lie passport bros tell online is they don’t partake in sex workers but it’s obvious they do. It’s a rebrand of sex tourism. That’s why it’s seen as gross
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:21 PM
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That’s a fantasy though. Better chances when they didn’t have any at home? A lot of dating has to do with character. Traveling builds character but it takes a lot to be a datable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:10 PM
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Divorce isn’t bad. Men always complain a sexless relationship is valid reason to end a relationship. Sometimes relationships just don’t work. Big whoop. The way I see it is men prefer to be with someone and miserable than being single. Being single is the worst for men. It’s why men become passport bros. They are tired of waiting at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:59 PM
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I do. And it’s a joke. A lot of money to be made off men’s insecurities. Weak men flock to it and unfortunately suffer from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:47 PM
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That’s changing the purpose of passport bros. They travel for women or to get women. Everything else is an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:46 PM
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Not really. If you intend to marry and import her back home you’ll have to pay later. Also how many trips and money wasted traveling before you find someone. If you can’t find someone at home I’ll guess it’ll take a few trips.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:45 PM
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That’s not the reason though. It’s literally to find a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:44 PM
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You’re definitely reaching. At the end of the day passport bros are hilarious because they hate western women that aren’t up to be sub/ do what the man wants and claims western women just want and don’t give. How much money is it gonna take to travel around the world, pay for paperwork, etc for the marriage to happen? If a man isn’t capable of doing the more common and basic way of getting a partner, they’re not gonna jump over even more hurdles for it. I also love the assumption that other coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:44 PM
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When a large majority are the weakest links what does that convey about the movement?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:40 PM
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Exactly. It’s not any different. If they don’t have a chance where they’re from, they won’t have one abroad. Unless they pay. Which defeats their passport bro mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:38 PM
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Men have standards as well, they’re just so desperate for a relationship that they “compromise” with the type of women they get with. This compromise is simply to get in the relationship. The relationship will be rocky since they’re not a good pairing and one half of the relationship is pretending to be okay with the compromises. Men should be fine with being single and not settling. It’ll be better for LTR. I feel like most standards are universal. Has something going for themselves and moral (…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:52 PM
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This didn’t answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:50 PM
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I think what you’ve realized is that dating is hard not that you’re in the dating pool. You think you’re being treated unfairly because of your quirks but what are you expecting? For dating to be easier? Just how you’re not someone’s preference, others aren’t your cup of tea you’re not gonna bend the knee at people you don’t want to date just to be nice. Wouldn’t make sense. If anything I’d think you’re being treated equally. Do you want to be pandered to instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:57 AM
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Picky is good. Not everyone is built to care for their partner like that. Some people can. If one has to be a caretaker for their partner it can easily lead to resentment or apathy. Don’t relationships that have a big medical accidents take huge hits and they potentially end? I for one wouldn’t be able to care for a partner from the beginning. If something happened where they became disabled I would think I can but who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:11 AM
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Are you yourself autistic? I only ask because, as you point out others bias, you could have your own. A correlating statistic could be that of marriage, dating, and birth rate. People aren’t generally trying to be stuck in relationships they’ll be unhappy with so everyone is much more picky on their partner. You can add neurodivergence as a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:04 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:36 PM
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Oh god. I went through your posts and dear god it’s embarrassing. My brother in Christ you aren’t killing it. You’re desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:28 PM
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Not once did I defend women. That’s just you lashing out. How emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:22 PM
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That’s cool man. You’ve made up multiple points to defend the bros. Why would I trust anything else you say. For someone that doesn’t care you sure never let go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:01 PM
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There’s the imagination. So vivid. It’s cute
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:20 PM
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You do care. That’s why you don’t want the association. That’s what you don’t get. Lmao. You’re unironically doing the gigachad meme where everything you do is awesome and what I do is the other character that’s lame. That’s hilarious. Your imagination is the only thing I envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:53 PM
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That’s the thing. I never said they’re horrible. You’re just conflating it. That’s why you guys rebranded. To not be perceived as weirdos. Now you’re manipulative weirdos. Manipulating the narrative. Not much to it. I’ll make a post on one of the subs and ask what do I do if I can’t find a wife and get laid. I’m sure I’ll get helpful gentleman telling me how to fix that issue. I’ll tell you my findings when I get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:27 PM
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“Bangkok if you want a quick fuck. Manila if looking for serious shit.” A comment on one of the passport bro subs. Not hard to find my man. Being revered as attractive isn’t enough. You have to be able to navigate the social aspect of getting to know someone and then sleeping with them or dating them. Not every man is build like that. You think this special group of men is since you all lie to each other about how awesome you all are when you’re all lying to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:06 PM
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Yeah of course you think your group is awesome and doesn’t pay for sex. That’s not the reality. The demographic of passport bros isn’t just fit, wealthy, young men. That’s what you think since that’s what you want to be associated with. There’s definitely men that don’t have any game or know what they’re doing in a foreign country. Do you have the study somewhere or should I just believe you like the rest of you passport bros? The wild thing is you can’t see reality, you only see what you guys “…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:53 PM
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Want me to be more explicit about the definition? When you don’t find a wife or can get laid without paying, you’ll most likely pay. It’s still the same. Some of the old school sex tourist did end up getting married like some expats. It’s just your new crew doesn’t want the negative connotation of sex tourism since it’ll make you a weirdo. You can say passport bro with pride. Not so much sex tourist. That’s funny you bring up data since you don’t have any either. It’s a recent rebrand and it’s n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:36 PM
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I honestly don’t care men do that. I think it’s stupid you guys have to rebrand to make yourselves feel good about it. It’s the same mentality, but just younger, as you mention. When you guys are used to the lifestyle and never actually marry you’ll simply just make the annual vacation to get laid. You’ll pay when you have to but ideally you’ll get laid without having to. No way you or others travel without trying to get laid at least once. Which again, there’s nothing wrong with it. It’s just l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:15 PM
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The narrative that’s being changed is by passport bros. The rebrand. You and passport bros pretend you’re doing it for a good reason, to find a wife. The likelihood that passport bros travel, don’t find a wife and don’t try to get laid is non existent. You guys just pretend by saying it’s not the prerogative but it is a secondary option. That’s how they’re the same. It’s rebranded to be a nicer way of saying you travel to get laid, but first you’re looking for a wife and that didn’t happen. When…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:25 PM
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Is this a pandemic in your school? Or are you being hyperbolic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:33 AM
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That’s cool. Let’s ask ourselves, would we want to be roman slaves or not? Why bring such random questions up. Do you think the number of slaves that enjoyed captivity outnumbers the ones that didn’t? Dealing in outliers is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:29 PM
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History sucked for most people. Women were property to a degree. Men didn’t matter if they were poor. Historically life sucked more for some than others. Being poor and not mattering is better than being property.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:28 AM
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Your post will be answered in the future with experience and age. Your perception of men as creeps is stereotypical. It can happen but they’re outliers. Most average men are normal and will continue to be so after a divorce. It’s similar to a break up, just with paperwork. With experience of dating, and marriage/ divorce, just comes a more experienced person person. Jaded people can come out of divorces and “divorce dad” is a stereotype but that is an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:32 PM
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You get the lamest comment award
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:27 PM
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Married isn’t by default with children. Specially not now as birth rates gone down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:26 PM
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That’s the things, it’s a shared responsibility. If the man feels pressure than maybe they should figure out why they feel that way. Men place burdens on themselves. It’s not healthy. A healthier mindset would be learning to budget more efficiently. Working harder has been shown to not be the most efficient way of making money. Having a healthier and communicative relationship would be more efficient but that’s not what’s talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:25 PM
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Very contradicting statements. Most people don’t have high paying jobs so most relationships with families will require two incomes. Not much pressure when there are two incomes. The debate about women not working is only one on these type of subs. Most people that have had experience in relationships and the workforce know working is needed to survive in this economy. Either that or be born into a rich family.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:04 PM
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The same thing could be said about jobs. Job mortality rate went down. A lot of tech jobs, white collar jobs, not very hard. Techs helped everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:53 PM
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It does. Why bring up irrelevant points?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:38 PM
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Lmao. So dramatic. If they’re the enemy then marry an ally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:25 PM
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It’s not necessarily new. Are we comparing relationships to recent generations or the 1800s? What’s a more reasonable comparison?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:25 PM
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That’s been the case for what, 3 generations?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:35 AM
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The behavior you’re explaining is quite common behavior. Not everyone’s trying to be rude to others. Passive politeness is simple. Holding doors when entering buildings, small talk, etc. but obviously you don’t have to participate and you don’t when you don’t want to. In your examples of narcissistic behavior, it can occur, but narcissists usually don’t let that be known about them til much later. They pretend to be normal and then change up their demeanor. They trick to get what they want and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:56 AM
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How has tech made it easier for SAHP? Microwaving food? Go on. Give examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:51 AM
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Working is harder. It’s similar to how SAHP is more than just the simple tasks. The extras add on to the stress. But if done together and properly it can be possible to balance. But most couples can’t afford a SAHP even though at times it is cheaper than paying a caretaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:05 AM
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You’re okay with leaving kids with an iPad? That’s kinda bad parenting no?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:03 AM
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The pot calling the kettle black. Delusions come from both sides. Another factor is self sabotage, as seen in your title. It’s not necessarily healthy to think the group you’re dating is against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:13 AM
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Source? Or should I just trust you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:51 PM
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No, that’s a creative way to interpret the conversation. If anything your vocab is simple since it’s just one you copied from your community. Like the personality you copied. The mentality. It’s adorable. It’s like a boy band no one’s interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:02 PM
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It’s not semantics. You’re just being creative in your writing to make the simple daily tasks seem more important than they really are. It’s cute. RP are dramatic and I do envy that. I wish my imagination was as wild as yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:54 PM
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I don’t interrogate someone I’m trying to date. You can have a normal conversation with women just how you do men. It’s not as serious as you’re making it out to be. You red pillers are so colorful in your writing. It’s cute but that makes it sound not serious. Do you interrogate other bits of information from people? Or only when you’re interested in a woman? Am i interrogating you now? Are the interrogators in the room?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:26 PM
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In that case both people are toxic and sometimes those people deserve each other. Not much we can do for everyone. Obviously it sucks for both sides and at times more one than the other. People put up with a lot on both ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:18 PM
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I’m not disagreeing. It’s still hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:12 PM
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Exactly. If he’s so far off the deep end believing in hypergamy in humans there’s no saving OP. Yet another failed association of attributes in other species used poorly on humans to prove a point. If anything it’s creative and cute but it’s still incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:11 PM
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“Interrogate”. How healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:09 PM
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I’m a big fan of the creativity of this sub. On both sides. It’s whimsical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:09 PM
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I don’t get why the idea of choice is bad. Not everyone is trying to just tie it to someone they don’t like or know. Why not use some time to vet during the dating phase. If you’re struggling to date, why not go for the unwanted women. Ugly women. Fat women. Oh you don’t like being told to settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:06 PM
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You said the norm is illogical not that long ago… 2 messages or so ago. lol. That’s unironically that meme of portraying your point as gigachad and the opposing point as the other guy so you win the argument. I guess if I paint myself as the victor I’m truly the winner. I am correct and you’re not. This is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:00 PM
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You’re dealing in outliers, Chad is a common one. You can replace it with alpha if you want. Out if there’s a new one let me know. Also let me know what’s the opposite of simping. I am curious. If you want to imagine me jerking off go for it. More power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:28 PM
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A yes, the norm is illogical. Let’s only talk about the outliers for solutions. Forget normal people, only mention Chad and Stacy. Appreciate it but I never had trouble my man. Even as an anti social manlet. It’s funny simping is an insult for men by men that don’t know how to treat women. It makes sense since you only deal in binaries. There’s a sweet spot for everything. What’s the opposite of simping?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:20 PM
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Oh okay, so things can only be similar if they are equal. What a simply way of thinking. It can’t be what life is, complex. It has to be dumbed down for you to understand the matrix. Carry on my man. You’re the reason I’m on this sub anyways. People with such narrow minds wondering why they’re struggling with life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:03 PM
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I’ve already stated them to you but you’re too biased to understand. That wasn’t the argument to begin with, but it’s still a stupid one. Men and women are different, but can share similarities. Another complex topic you turn into a binary option. I get simple ideas are easier to follow, but it doesn’t mean it’s the truth. It’s just what your mind does to make it easier for you to comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:50 PM
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It’s cute you come back so quick with silly insults. If anything that shows your immaturity which correlates with your poor overall comprehension. Quite common with people with similar ideals. It’s less based off facts and emotion. You believe it’s true so it undoubtedly is true, if you ignore the complexities of human nature. I was just trying to help you out but clearly you’re a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:33 PM
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How can men be weak and so knowledgeable like you at the same time? What an interesting and contradictory statement. Only men can be this complex I suppose. Women can only be one thing at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:25 PM
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The only one confused is you. Since you’re the one pegging them to be single minded. Men can be complex. Women are easy to figure out. That’s why there’s an issue with dating and men looking to online communities to help. How can men have women figured out but still struggle to understand them? Men like you are clearly wrong in your own understanding and just circlejerk each other up with incorrect information.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:34 AM
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That’s your failure to think properly. You think all women behave that way. Pretty interesting since on a similar school of thought women are submissive and want to quit their job and have the man care for them. Not very girl boss. But it fits the narrative you like and that’s why you replied with that “exactly” comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:52 PM
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You came to the contradiction because you lack the comprehension to understand how you confused yourself. You and others create poor arguments like the one OP made. You believe women are monolithic, either girl bosses OR victims, because you can’t comprehend that they can be more complex. Only a man is complex to some men and it strengthens a bias against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:36 PM
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The response you said exactly to. You can’t read back one message?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:24 PM
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Not really. You just agree with it so you just gave a lazy circlejerk response.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:22 PM
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It’s not really contradictory. It’s the persons misconception that women are monolithic. It’s contradictory if you want to believe that someone an entire gender is one personality type. Men have type A but also introverts. Men can be good men or do questionable things. Men that ask this question give men the benefit of doubt while digging in to women for the same thing. Lazy reactionary thinking as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:21 PM
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It’s not about doing both simultaneously, it’s about everyone being in different positions and situations. Not every woman is a girl boss, just how not every RP man is an alpha. Not every woman is being taken advantage of but them having that level of support towards other women is great. Isn’t TRP about sharing knowledge about women, dating, etc. Well that’s what’s going on there too. You don’t mind when TRP support other men, you don’t care when men think themselves better than women or other …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:50 PM
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It doesn’t matter what most do. It’s an overarching mentality. Even as someone that’s not into the idea of sex tourism I don’t generally believe it’s all for illegal sex activities. It can be done legally and legit. It’s men like you and “passport bros” that don’t like the idea of being grouped together although it is similar activities. Passport bros is a community and not every passport bro gets married on their first venture. So what do they end up doing? Sex tourism. Even if they don’t pay f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:16 AM
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The only one being emotional from start to finish is you. You had no points and you continue to have none. Just boring rhetoric. I did address it and you got upset at the idea of logic and reason. Are you following along to this conversation or are the tears hindering your eyesight? Or are you generally this bad at reading/ comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:11 AM
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It’s so sad that you easily succumb to lame insults. You could just stop replying and take the loss. You’ve been quick to question my behavior as if yours is any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:31 AM
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I believe the history of debates has close ties to logic and reason. Not sure what you’re debating without either. Just wasting everyone’s time?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:05 AM
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You’re failing at the aesthetics and the actual debate. You do have to care for both. If you fail aesthetically then you lose ground and no one will take you seriously. Just how you don’t take women when they’re behaving hysterically, no one’s gonna take you seriously either. Just another jaded man mad. Boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:53 AM
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It’s the same thing. It’s just a modern take on it. Pretending the movement is benevolent and free of any type of criticism is the reason they wanted the rebrand. They wanted a “clean slate”. Doesn’t change the fact that it’s still the same audience. If anything it skews younger but that’s really it. Men that want to travel to get those special interpersonal relationships/ relations abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:46 AM
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You’re as emotional as the group you’re standing against. No different than them really.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:42 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:28 AM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:21 AM
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It’s part of it. It’s sex tourism. Once you figure out getting laid elsewhere is easier and cheaper why settle. Just go once a year and fuck for a week and go back home to a normal life. Not all men want to get married and deal with it once they get their needs met. Which makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:12 AM
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Your idea of men is passport bro and rich men? That leaves a whole lotta other men that aren’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:10 AM
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I like how you mention jaded women when you’re equally jaded if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:09 AM
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It’s not. Passport bro is a rebrand. It’s the same thing. Passport bros don’t like sex tourist since the association and the name. Passport bro is modern and cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:07 AM
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I don’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:05 AM
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To me it’s crazy how people got murdered so easily. Just skip town. No records. It was so easy to die back then and no one is the wiser.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:05 AM
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I wish more men knew that this was the reality for most men back in the day. Men used to travel and explore the Wild West on their own and just get destroyed by the Indians. This happened throughout history in many ways. Not many people lived long happy lives
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:53 PM
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We’d probably bond over how much you let us down. I’m sure that’s common with most of your loved ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:49 PM
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I’m arguing with you which is much harder. I can explain it to you but not make you understand
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:30 PM
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You’re conflating emotions as well. Yeah you can reconnect with male or female friends just because but if it’s an emotional or fond reason that is still separate from sexual. If a male friend dies and you reconnect with another male friend to grief, sex isn’t on the table because you’re not horny towards them in a sad time. With exes you can be because you are interested in fucking them. You can have a normal conversation like you mention with exes but you could also not have a conversation and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:43 PM
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The way you and others do it yes. It can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:05 PM
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No. In fact you’re proof of my reasoning why I dissociate from society. You speak of privilege because you fetishize people living in poverty. I live and let live indifferent of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:00 PM
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It’s your perception of helping. Is it actually doing anything, that’s up for debate. You do it to make yourself feel better about your self. That behavior is self serving mostly. You “help” to feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:50 PM
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You’re doing exactly what I mentioned. Just comparing yourself to some people struggling to a degree you can’t possibly imagine. It’s weird. It’s fetishizing their pain. You’re not doing anything to help and neither am I. You just pretend to be better cause you let it affect you. It’s weird. It’s not needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:36 PM
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In a self victimization western mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:27 PM
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Apathy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:01 PM
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Again, that’s not my situation. You’re talking other countries which is different. I’m talking about the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:41 PM
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No. Ignorance is bliss. People can’t understand it’s easier to take yourself out of the equation by simply not participating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:24 PM
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No I’m not. I’m just not joining other discourse. It’s that easy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:13 PM
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We’re not necessarily privileged. We’re just average people getting by. No hopes of homeownership but still content with other aspects of life. Caring is cool but it’s also exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:23 AM
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It seems most of your problems are externalized. If you feel like women don’t like your approach or don’t get turned on by you then maybe the problem is you. Are you on the spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:38 AM
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Not really. Nothing substantial. Something’s get better. Something’s get worse. It’s a dumb teeter totter of policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:20 AM
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I feel like most people can be indifferent. Most people live in communities they’re a part of so in terms of local politics things are what they’ve usually been. I don’t deal with any of that so that’s what allows me to be aloof about it. And it’s not for everyone. Other people care more about things like their communities or religion or morals and want to express them outwardly. I mainly care of a handful of people. Simpler mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:04 AM
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It’s always been like that. The notion that everything was better back in the day is not true. People were less educated in the past, they didn’t know about mental health better than we do now. I think a bigger difference is that life expectancy was much lower so relationships were easier to handle as a one and done type of thing. Now we have a much more extended future and options and we want options in our partners. Less thankful of what is available.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:55 AM
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Not really. Politics don’t shift as much as people pretend they do. Being reactionary is stupid and a waste of time. We exist in our own circles. If you make them larger it’ll only make it harder and more enticing to be reactionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:30 AM
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As someone that’s nihilist and hedonistic I don’t really care. Nothing matters nor is it permanent. Being preoccupied over such minute things is dumb. I’d rather just enjoy my time leisurely with someone on the same page. I like to keep up with the news but like most things it doesn’t affect me directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:45 AM
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That doesn’t matter. Emotionally mature people deal better with those type of devastating events. Whether it be a break up or other hardships. Someone having their life together but still breaking down after a break up is different. It’s similar to people on the spectrum. They can succeed professionally but fail socially. Men rage or get mad which is still an emotion. Women crying gets more attention since it’s more to empathize.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:05 AM
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That’s a popular phrase within dating communities. If you want to fall for it you can. If you choose to not be perpetually online that would be better for your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:53 AM
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You’re conflating sexual arousal with other emotions. No one is shaming you for being horny. Just clearing up your confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:17 PM
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It’s emotionally maturity. As a guy I’ve been on both sides. Looking back at the times I was surprised by a break up i understood that there was something that made us grow apart but I was unaware of it at the time. Girls being emotional after a break up is also their emotional immaturity. I’ve dealt with that and it’s hard to deal with as someone that is no longer invested.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:52 PM
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You just want people to agree that thinking fondly of someone is sexualizing them. I think most people will disagree with you on that. If you don’t believe online strangers ask close friends or family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:09 PM
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That could be part of it. But I’d say the person that’s more emotionally mature deals with that first. Sometimes it can be the man or the woman but one person is more aware of how done the relationship is because they’re bearing more of the relationship responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:07 PM
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It’s separate emotions. I keep telling you it’s not canceling it. You’re very dense. You’re conflating horniness with emotions that are “fondly”. Do you think of your mom fondly and her sex life? Probably not. Fond emotions are more complex than just wanting to cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:02 PM
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You’re the one confusing horniness with romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:53 PM
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It’s not separate but you have to understand you’re conflating emotions. Missing them and being horny are not the same. I cant say I miss someone I just want to fuck. I can say I want to fuck a model I saw online but I can’t say I miss them since I never met them. That’s exactly how they are separate from problem you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:44 PM
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Because you’re not caring about the person, just the body. It doesn’t cancel but it isn’t how you’re interpreting it. When you care about friends or family you don’t think about their sex life do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:38 PM
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That’s cool. That makes sense in terms of the psychology. That still doesn’t mean you care about your ex. Thinking about them reminiscently and missing fucking them are still separate things. One could be romantic one is horny. You want to cum and imagine how you fucked an ex. You weren’t thinking of them prior to being horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:35 PM
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It’s definitely just men telling other men these details to reinforce their beliefs. They learned hypergamy from nature and incorrectly use it on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:33 PM
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You mention they don’t have game. You don’t associate that at all to your success? A lot of people with no social skills ruining their chances since they can’t socialize. I’d say that’s a bigger factor. If you’re more attractive then them they can still get more women if they know how to socialize and go for women that they are equal to so less attractive/ not necessarily ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:31 PM
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There are a multitude of factors. I’d say men have a harder time getting over exes. As this sub knows men have it harder getting dates/ laid, so they reminisce about what they had as they try to move on. Women don’t go through that withdrawal. They’re okay with being single or get dates faster to get over it. Exes are exes for a reason. You don’t need to like them or hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:28 PM
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It’s not the romantic version you’re making it out to be. It’s just horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:25 PM
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Saying that you’re FORCED to mass message women says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:18 PM
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Not all ideologies are positive. Just how black pilling and blue pilling has its own ideology so does TRP. It’s different but it’s all about a belief of how interpersonal relationships between genders are and the belief behind it. Just how other ideologies can be bad if taken to the extreme. So can TRP or black pill or blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:34 PM
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Not all ideologies are positive. Just how black pilling and blue pilling has its own ideology so does TRP. It’s different but it’s all about a belief of how interpersonal relationships between genders are and the belief behind it. Just how other ideologies can be bad if taken to the extreme. So can TRP or black pill or blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:34 PM
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That’s cool it works for you. Things can be wrong and work. Hypergamy and alphas exists in most other animals, not necessarily true for humans. It was improperly used because a man wanted to use it as point for why they’re awesome and women are the way they are. My issue isn’t with TRP itself. It’s just the weird way they try to mystify themselves. Clearly you learned about hypergamy and alphas because of TRP. So they are teaching an ideology. They taught you something incorrectly but it still b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:49 PM
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It’s not just about unspoken truths. It’s about what that involves. Everyone knows the truths, it’s just a different view point of it. “Men should do this to be viable partners because women are like this”. That’s the ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:46 PM
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And that is where it’s bad faith on their part to not treat it as an ideology. It’s not something they read once and no longer take part in. They continuously go back to those communities to share their experiences and learn about others and further solidify TRP ideology through the communities. TRP in itself is an ideology about men and women nature and how things “are”. It wouldn’t be an ideology if all they take are the self help aspects which are truly beneficial, but you don’t need the rest…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:16 PM
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Not trolling. You just can’t comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:54 PM
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Praxeology gives it too much credit. As much as they believe they deal in absolute truths they don’t. They love to interpolate animal behavior into human behavior to push a point that isn’t really there like with alphas and hypergamy. Ideology is a better fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:54 PM
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It’s not hostility towards it. Im just asking them why they think it’s not an ideology when it clearly is. Some people find religion, some are finding TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:45 PM
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It is info that is widely known but it is being reinforced in a specific manner in order to help these troubled individuals. Troubled as in they want help and see TRP as the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:33 PM
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Being honest is irrelevant here nor is it true. Just how I’m defending my position so are you. Pretending to have a morale stand point of “honesty” is in itself dishonest. It is an ideology, you just conditioned yourself to think otherwise. Clearly being dishonest yet again. It’s a guide for some but not others? It wasn’t a guide earlier. Being bad faith makes you unbelievable so I doubt I took the L if you think it. It’s sad TRP grifters got another person to believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:19 PM
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That seems to be your issue. You’re just projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:15 PM
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You say you’re not RP yet you’re defending them to a T. Where did you learn all this? Did you learn it through going down TRP rabbit hole? Did you learn it as they taught you? It’s not a guide, it’s a series of pointers? Is there a word for a series of pointers?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:11 PM
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Nope. Just bring in new ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:01 PM
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I get defending it cause it’s your community but you yourself know how got to that community and what you talk about. You didn’t get drawn to it and stuck around because it’s nothing. TRP is either delusional or ignorant to their own teachings because there aware how not mainstream it is and linked to more negative than positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:01 PM
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If men feel they need to fuck why don’t they just fuck each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:58 PM
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No. You’re the one conflating sex and sexual release/ libido. Just masturbate. Are you unaware of that l?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:55 PM
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Exactly. TRP doesn’t deal in just facts as that is statistically impossible and they also tell people to adhere to the truth. It’s an ideology in so many ways. Reality isn’t as black and white as you are pretending it is. You can’t be right because you simply think someone else is wrong. Both sides can be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:55 PM
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You don’t think TRP is trying to teach that info? If I go to a community and ask for help I’m sure they’ll be happy to give me the guide on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:52 PM
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You’re infantilizing horny men. Men should be aware that they do not require sex. Company is a separate thing. Maybe if men had a better understanding of interpersonal relationships and sex they’d be much happier. The confusion that’s is only making them unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:50 PM
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It seems that you are all in agreement that it’s not an ideology. Is that also taught while you’re indoctrinated? Isn’t TRP a way to reach goals? It’s a guide to be a “better man”. It’s an ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:49 PM
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It seems that you are all in agreement that it’s not an ideology. Is that also taught while you’re indoctrinated?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:48 PM
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You might’ve misread that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:47 PM
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It’s not shaming. Do you think men are shaming when they’re expressing their preferences? There’s preferences and then there’s the expectation that all men/ women should look a certain way to appeal to you. Not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:43 PM
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Don’t you see how “preaching the truth” is an ideology? You’re as hysterical and delusional as you think women are. I can’t explain it to you but I can’t make you comprehend
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:41 PM
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That’s very delusional that you only deal in facts and that somehow doesn’t make it an ideology. Pretty sure most religions think they’re dealing in facts and they’re a form of ideology. Why does TRP only deal in extremes? Why no humility and reality? No way you only deal in facts 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:34 PM
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That’s an extreme way of looking at it. Just how you probably imagine feminists as extremist, most aren’t just like most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:32 PM
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Not really. The same argument would be closer like men not liking a certain haircut on women like a bob cut vs naturally long hair vs straight hair. The comparison is better if it’s hair you can see at eye level vs body hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:31 PM
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If you misinterpret it as that because it offends you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:29 PM
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What’s there to read? The ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:28 PM
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That was a clear rebuttal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:23 PM
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Why do you say it’s not an ideology. Don’t you and other men share ideals of how to “improve” oneself?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:23 PM
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Lonely and horny are not the same. Confusing the two is unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:21 PM
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A made up option. Like I said, most women can’t do that and because of that are aware they’ll have to work just like men. It’s an option to victimize yourself and other men. Most men cannot afford it, most women are aware of that. A relationship, a partnership, will require the two to work together to fulfill their goals and needs. Not your made up scenarios of men having to work while women do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 02:58 AM
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You fail to understand how people have agency, both men and women. Not every woman out there is looking for a way out of working. You’re only talking about outliers to make men victims. Most women will have to continue to work. If you ever get married, your partner will have to work since you cannot be the sole provider nullifying your idiotic take. Everyone’s goal is to not work or work less. No one wants to grind and still struggle. It’s human nature for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 08:18 PM
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All this thinking and your brain can’t comprehend that in this economy most women will end up working in a relationship due to financially support the family. You can’t support an advice and kids. You’re just self victimizing yourself and other men to gain empathy. It’s pretty dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 05:37 PM
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That’s your toxic mentality brought by TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 05:18 PM
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That’s just the mentality TRP says to dramatize their life since most people’s lives are boring. It’s not a soap opera. And just how not men are born into privilege, neither are women. Lots of varying factors. Women still live their own lives and want to do things they find fulfilling. They are human my guy. Whether it be work or hobby they want to do something. Not every woman is waiting for a man to quit their job. You probably can’t even afford a stay at home wife so you’ll need her to have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:56 PM
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Anyone can curate their life, it’s not a men only thing. And even with effort it won’t always result in the favor of the person trying. Specially when it comes financially. Not everyone can earn the big bucks. Not how it works. Women do it and it’s bad? Men do it and it’s good? Because of their gender? Kinda stupid mindset isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:42 PM
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Sexual and reproductive organs aren’t needed for survival. Men don’t need to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:24 PM
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You’re red pilled so you inflate men’s self worth by believing you can be a high value man. Same thing. It’s not all women that do that just how not all men are like you. It’s outliers. Average men and women don’t have this issue. It’s just this weird sect of people that talk about the politics of a relationship. Which is usually people with no experience with real and healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:28 PM
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Because men tell other men that average men don’t matter? Yeah that’s problematic. I agree. I don’t get why men aren’t supportive to men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:14 PM
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Like I said before I can’t make you comprehend, and that seems to be the main issue with you. You’re living in your head with these ideas since this isn’t how people really think. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:12 PM
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No evidence? Is that true or is that just your bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:19 AM
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This reads like a long winded conspiracy theory you came up with by interpolating the other theories you believe in. Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:19 AM
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Do you not see the other threads in this sub? People do have that mentality outside of here too. I can’t make you comprehend. I can only explain it to you. Most people don’t base things on gender, just weirdos like you. Right and wrong have a lot more to do than gender. Try thinking introspectively, how do you think. How do you think your friends and family think? It’s not as you say with everyone so it’s not the norm. It’s just made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:31 AM
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Not really. It’s comparing outliers not average people. Misses the point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:30 AM
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So the bar isn’t the people on the low end, just Chad, aka high end? You do know you missed the larger population of average men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:29 AM
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You’re looking for someone while also trying to date around? You know you can’t really do that right? Just have the mentality of dating to settle. You’ll probably end up dating around because either they don’t like you or vice versa enough for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:28 AM
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Is this all based on your own feelings and lack of experience? Average men and women don’t really have this mentality. Most people don’t care what’s going on in other people’s lives. People are free to look for sex or love. And this sub shows you not everyone thinks this way. Plenty of people that take it the other way and think men are angels and women are the end of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:26 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:17 AM
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I mean. With a little thinking power, wouldn’t you think that would come back and bite you on the ass? You think anyone’s gonna take the bragging and not tell your partner “hey this guy is weird” and in the usual self fulfilling prophecy, you’ll be single yet again?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:15 AM
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I mean you could also just be happy with it but it seems your only form of validation is external validation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:38 AM
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Sounds miserable. No one likes a sore loser or braggadocios winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:04 AM
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Yeah, I can’t imagine that it works long term. Humble bragging on your partner? Sounds like an unhealthy relationship already and partly because of your unhealthy mannerisms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:20 AM
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You could still be unfulfilled thinking about what else you can accomplish and potentially ruin that relationship you tried so hard to get. You could win but it wouldn’t necessarily mean anything good for you for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:03 AM
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That sounds like a big ask out of half the population cause the other half doesn’t know how to behave. To me a realistic ask is to teach men how to be healthier with their relationships with men and women, not tell women to not have them at all with men. Seems reductive and it’ll only lead to more anger as seen on the news of men being upset women that don’t respond well to men approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:01 AM
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So you’d rather women dismiss men entirely instead of trying to have healthy friendships with them? The second parter is also men’s unhealthy perceptions of relationships, specially with women. If anything it would be beneficial for men to understand more about healthy interpersonal relationships with men and women to be able to maintain friendship and relationships with both not choose one over the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:24 PM
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You’re doing a lot to make one person like you for a multitude of factors other than to be with them. It sounds unhealthy as can be. But it is your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:18 PM
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That could be an endless chase and fruitless attempt. But if you want to it’s your time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:59 PM
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I can only imagine it sounds as boring as you’re explaining it to me. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:55 PM
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So you’re a douche that peacocks their success. How annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:49 PM
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It is a bad quality if you are so annoying about it. Who wants to be around a conceited douche. Which could be true by how you mention your successes in your other comment. It’s not personable nor interesting the way you talk about yourself. It sounds like a chore to listen to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:48 PM
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Then I don’t get why you brought it up. I get it’s bad for men to put themselves in that situation and a waste of time but it’s in no way a woman’s fault that men do that. I have a buddy that does this and it sucks but as aware as he is of his situation it’s still on him for sticking around in a one sided relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:27 PM
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It’s not if you’re devaluing yourself. You’re just being self loathing. Bad trait. Annoying to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:24 PM
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You’re not gonna date every woman though. If you want to find value from external factors, you’ll never be happy. Constantly comparing yourself to what you believe people perceive of you. You’ll just become a perpetually unlikeable person with this mentality. You’re in your head way too much to really create any type of fruitful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:23 PM
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1) men hide their intentions too. Pretend to be cool with being friends and then mad when they can’t get promoted to bf 2 and 3 is just bad person behavior. Bad people exists or all race, gender, and creed. As much as I am aware annoyingly shitty people exist I don’t personally want them in my life so I don’t associate myself with them. I have amazing male and female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:21 PM
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Not everyone thinks in values. If you do it’s from spending too much time in these communities which is unhealthy and lead to sabotaging your own relationships or you’re autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:17 PM
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What’s wrong with being a friend? You can’t date everyone you know that right? Statistically speaking. What’s your goal with wanting to date 100% of the women you’re interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:16 PM
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Part of being friends is being there for each other emotionally. If you don’t support your male friends emotionally do you truly care for them? Do you hate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:43 PM
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That’s how you interpret it. That’s unhealthy. Definitely happens but not the norm. This mindset becomes a self fulfilling prophecy where the man thinks this and sabotages the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:42 PM
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It’s a circle of wasting peoples time. That’s all this sub is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:40 PM
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That’s unfortunate for you. Not true for most men. I feel respected and loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:39 PM
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Most definite demands in the relationship are typically bad. Prenups aren’t a good step in many relationships, but they do make sense for the wealthy. For common relationships it’s not something that will be likely. Secret accounts depend. It could be secretive for emergencies, for self, or for others. If it’s done out of selfishness like “oh I have no money” but it’s really hidden then it’s not really healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:01 AM
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I already said you’re not worth it bud. End of convo. Hope your parents put a shorter screen time on your device before it’s too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:08 PM
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You’re asking why, most likely drunk or high, women at the club are rude when some one they don’t want to go home with hits on them? Obviously rude behaviors sucks, but you’re not gonna be dealing with the brightest of folk out at a club. As a guy just navigating the club gets you mean looks since everyone is mostly there with their crew. The amount of people trying to do one night stands is low compared to the amount of people there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:27 AM
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It’s similar to how some guys do the same when women turn them down and talk back about how they never wanted to go out with them anyways, they’re fat, etc. it’s ego. It’s mental gymnastics. It’s not a healthy mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:24 AM
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I agree. Your life is a joke. I guess you’re not worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:21 AM
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You’re the one gaslighting yourself. I’m the one trying to help you out. I guess it’s pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:13 AM
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I’m still trying to explain it to you as plain as day and you fail to understand even this. Amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:59 AM
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As far as I know the only times feminists truly stopped men from their own thing was maybe TRP trying to create social groups but TRP having a slightly extreme way of thinking they fought against it. Other than that I don’t see how they’re against men. Clearly they fight for women’s issues but men should do that too. There really is no good leadership on that end. It’s just guys being upset at women for having it easier which I don’t think is true but that’s because I don’t think anyone has it e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:28 PM
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To think men can enjoy women that easily is also funny. They can by taking their money and going on sex tourism, but if they’re western it won’t be as easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:56 PM
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Men’s issues can be considered on their own. That’s pretty much my take. No need to drag women into it. You’re the one that brought up feminist into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:11 PM
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I did. You just can’t comprehend it. Not my problem buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:05 PM
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Because men care more about their money so they can be with their money if they choose to. It’s freedom of choice. Also always funny men think they have the level of wealth or will accrue that type of wealth overtime when most real average people aren’t. Just goes to show you how out of touch the average man is. Arguing with themselves about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:56 PM
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It’s mainly gaslighting men tell themselves. It’s not that it’s dishonest, it’s just that you don’t understand the differences. Looks are not important to most people but at the same time play into effect. Just because someone turned you down and you misinterpreted it as they didn’t like your look, it could also be your attitude or behavior. But obviously you wouldn’t think that, it has to be someone’s fault. Not yours. A woman isn’t gonna delve into what they don’t like about you personally and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:07 PM
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You should fuck him if you like him that much
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:03 PM
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This sounds like dudes should just be happy alone then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:02 PM
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Where the full picture is half the population
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:56 PM
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I’m not gonna waste more time explaining it to you my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:56 PM
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Exactly so getting the full picture would be helpful. Also not pretend that the numbers anyone can find are the full picture. Common practice with people thinking they’re making a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:05 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:03 AM
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It can get worse. But it’s for opposite view points. You think women aren’t doing enough which is fair. I think men are making it worse by demanding things in the manner that they are. Clearly men deserve better, but I don’t think they’re doing it in a good manner. They’re just being reactionary, like Jordan Peterson. A good movement is proactive pro men not reactionary against women trying to take away from them to give more to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:50 AM
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Not really. This is just a self fulfilling prophecy men get themselves into. Plenty of room to be happy being yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:32 AM
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I get you don’t like feminists but considering where women were a century ago, their takes are completely valid for telling everyone it is their fault. The system was largely based around men in many ways. White men to be exact. Jordan Peterson is a joke though. Like I said, just cause there’s some good, doesn’t make his entire message good. Pretty much anyone can have good takes 10% of the time. You don’t need him to tell you to clean your room and then subscribe to all his other ideas. I haven…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:38 AM
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It is worth it. The only ones reinforcing that is people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:33 AM
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I’m sure your code is fucked. There are a lot of spectrum boys on here that love to throw fallacies around when they can’t respond back. It’s a cute defense mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:31 AM
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It’s not irrelevant, you’re just ignorant/ biased. The answer is very simple, both men and women aren’t what they used to be. You want to pretend men are still the same and only women have changed. You can’t see that since anything that paints men negatively makes you see red. Not my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:11 PM
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So you don’t like bad feminist takes so you do it but from the men’s perspective. Unironically common on this sub. Part of the reason men have to make more is because in the long run when a kid comes around, the woman isn’t gonna work. The conversation is stunted because no one cares about the nuance for a family. People are so caught up with other issues but forget the goal. When you get a kid it costs a lot for childcare that simply not working makes more sense. Although women don’t make more …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:56 PM
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Context doesn’t matter? I guess if you like to be ignorant that’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:20 PM
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It’s not about jobs. It’s about expectations. Men are suppose to be providers. They’re not that anymore. It’s not a strawman. You just can’t read. Like I said before.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:19 PM
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It’s poor data. Data that only showcases half of the issue. You don’t want to bring men up since it’ll go against your take that women are to blame. Does the fact the a study doesn’t exist that men bully men mean that men don’t reinforce these issues as well or are you willfully ignoring it cause it’s the only point you have. Also men stopped being the only ones working since the ww2. Stop pretending and holding on to that. Times changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:18 PM
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Yeah it’s “facts”. But it’s the ones that a clearly skewed since it’s only taking 50% of the population into account. Doesn’t tell the full story does it? It’s the facts that people like to misinterpret for their cause. Happens a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:15 PM
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If the main issue is working harder than their grandparents it’s still not true. It won’t be. This economy isn’t built for one income household so how are they working harder when they need help from their partner? I’m sure thinking of women as half the reward for being good boys is not creating a divide between men and women either. Definitely a healthy mentality to have towards the women you want to date. As much as I enjoy the hyperbole that men spew on here it is really sad that you believe …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:32 PM
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It’s not about men sucking it up. It’s about men supporting men as well and teaching women to help too. Just how shitting on men isn’t a good way for women to get help it goes the other way around. Just how the wage gap is going away so could this. It didn’t happen overnight. It just needs positive leadership to get it. But the most prominent pro male “activists” aren’t very well received unfortunately. There is no movement behind it since there’s no one to be behind. The idea is there but who’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:25 PM
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And men are pro boys crying. Oh that’s right they don’t like to be proactive parents. So one is don’t cry. One is not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:19 PM
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But men also don’t help men. It’s a societal thing not a gender thing. Men compete with each other so how are they supporting each other. Men can have sympathy, men just don’t know how to express themselves emotionally or ask for help. Since boys don’t grow to be emotional they don’t know how to express themselves as adults and it’s hard to be there for someone that can’t express themselves nor wants to since being a man is not being emotional. Something pushed by men and women. Not just women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:18 PM
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If that’s true. What are men doing to better their boys. If it’s nothing then why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:14 PM
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The issue with that is it’s not possible. Not every man can be amazing. Not every man can be the top 10%. So many men subscribe to it yet fail to realize the statistics of it. Being normal isn’t just bad cause “woman say so” it’s because men don’t want it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:02 PM
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It’s not a strawman. You just don’t like the response. In no way are men working harder. Not in jobs nor dating. Men just think that since men don’t want to be basic either. They want to be top dawg and get rich and get a hot girlfriend. None of you are working harder to get a basic girlfriend. But also no average women is telling you to work harder. It’s other men. The “average” woman isn’t average, men just don’t realize their preferences and realize an average woman is not as cute as the ones…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:01 PM
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I’m not pretending I know the “solution” to men’s problems so it does differ. If you could understand context you’d realize the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:57 PM
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Why don’t you show me your resources. I can find something different and contradictory. I’d assume by the simple fact that a major company like Boeing making a gender specific club is pretty easy to go after. Was it bad that they did it? No. But why did they do it when it’s clearly against the law for companies to do things that exclude race gender or religion. If Boeing had a Christian club, they’d probably get sued too. Same thing for TRP groups. Is it because they were men or because what mes…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:55 AM
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Yeah, but it’s predominantly men. Just how men predominantly consume porn. Sex toys were a different market you brought up for no reason. Men also use female sex toys just how there are female MAPs. I do love men that want to pretend porn consumption is healthy and isn’t part of the overall problem between men and women. It’s good cause you like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:24 AM
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Lmao didn’t expect a loli defense. If you don’t defend it then why use it as a detense. You’re right. Men are good cause they consume loli. Aren’t men amazing for consuming loli? And porn keeps men from raping. Wow. Men are awesome. Good thing they’re smart from video games and keep their demons in check with loli. Women are using the internet wrong. They should also consume loli and pretend their skills in video games translate to real life scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:14 AM
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And I should believe you cause you and other RP guys said it? Were the feminists stopping the vets too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:01 AM
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Women don’t just doom scroll. I didn’t respond to that since it’s pretty childish to pretend it’s true. Yeah women don’t do much, that’s why they’re graduating at a higher rate than men right? Also not all gaming is healthy or good. Plenty of degenerate gamers that waste a lot of money and time on an addiction. Other unhealthy habits men do is binge drinking, gambling, porn. Are those habits good too because men do it? Women usually don’t like porn, so it must be good since men do right? Men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:59 AM
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Men take a few anecdotal examples and tell other men that’s how it is. It is men. Men hate being single so they ask men for answers for their dilemma and it’s all lies. But again, men have no support system so they fall for anything. And men aren’t hypergamous? If they weren’t they wouldn’t try to all pretend they can all be top percentile of men. They want to because they also want to be able to choose their partner. If they get more money and status they get to pick a hotter partner. You think…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:45 AM
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Yeah. But it’s a societal issue. Not gender. Men and women don’t let men be open. It’s similar to chicken or the egg dilemma. You can argue all you want which one started first but we’ll never know. It just is. Did men want to be men for survival and their communities survival or did women want men to be men for their survival and the communities survival. Both make sense. Both are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:15 AM
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It doesn’t matter that they did it for women’s attention. They still did it on their own volition. Your friend group is a healthier one which is good. As are mine. But just how there are healthy and unhealthy men there are also healthy and unhealthy women. It’s not just all women are bad and all men are good. Men have social spaces. They just don’t have ones where they can be emotional. It’s usually just social ones like bars or sporting events or at a restaurant. How often do guys pal about and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:09 AM
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It is true. Men and boys bully other men and boys with this mentality. It doesn’t phase them since it’s the norm. It’s only a factor when a girl or woman don’t like it since you don’t want to be rejected by them. If a guy sees you as less of a man you don’t care as much if a woman does. It’s not necessarily the woman’s fault, it’s more a self esteem issue. One that I’m sure men and boys don’t benefit from being bullied about their masculinity. I’m sure a guy could call you a pussy but you’d brus…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:54 AM
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It’s still being reinforced. It’s not as if men or boys have ever really been there for other men or boys when it comes to being empathetic and emotional. It’s apathy. That’s what boys and men teach other boys and men. Specially with the machismo mentality that’s always been around for men. Men tell other men what women like and it’s not necessarily true, it’s just what they think and hope women like since that’s how they are. Not every woman wants a tough, apathetic, muscley dude. But that’s wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:37 AM
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That was added commentary how out of touch your points are. The other parts of it responds properly. But you chose to ignore it. The main people creating those standards are other men telling men to get into alpha male mode. Grind. Make more money. If you don’t get value you don’t have value. If you don’t looksmax youll never date up. It’s men talking down to men as “support”. It’s more bullying but when men don’t know what a healthy support system is I can see how they get tricked by TRP. Men c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:00 AM
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Boys and men teach boys to man up and suck it up too and at a higher rate than a woman would. If you can recall when you cried, did your mother tell you to suck it up or try to empathize? Did your father? Men have always learned to tough it up and carry on without emotions. It’s not healthy. Just cause you don’t like modern women, doesn’t mean that boys bully other boys over manliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:38 AM
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It’s only when it’s against women. Men are toxic to other men and that’s okay. Kinda like when women are mean to other women and that’s also a pass. If it’s inter gender it’s a much bigger issue than if it’s just within the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:34 AM
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It’s a something that gets beat down to boys predominantly by other men and boys. Such an unhealthy way to live and definitely makes it hard to express one’s emotions as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:33 AM
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lol. Men aren’t the men they used to be either. Men are too busy being gamers online while women are doomscrolling. Either way, excessively online. Not a gender exclusive thing. Lmao. Men are so dramatic it’s hilarious. We get to live such longer healthier lives yet we’re working harder than our grandfathers? Oh god. I can’t tell if you’re serious or just really good at satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:30 AM
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It’s a self fulfilling prophecy that men do to themselves in which they think average isn’t enough. Men’s insecurity is what makes them less attractive. Most women can date outside their preferences just like men can. It’s not a gender specific issue. It’s a personality issue. Just how women can be so picky they want a rich guy, men use their wealth in a similar manner just in a different country. Men unironically agree they find value in themselves by being financial providers, but it’s only ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:17 AM
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Even if it’s not a trad wife men prefer a woman that follows their command. A lot of men aren’t emotionally mature to understand a relationship and think of it as managing a person. Broken homes is an issue caused by men and women. For you to somehow think it’s all women’s fault is hilarious. If a relationship isn’t working, an adult simply cuts their loses. Not hard to understand. Sucking up and being miserable is something men are okay with since they just don’t want to be alone and potentiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:27 PM
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Agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:58 AM
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You can go to a therapist for professional help. Not my job. Again, with your poor reading comprehension I can see how you got that. But also not my job to help you read. You can get help with that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:51 PM
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You. A good chunk of the other men on this sub. Can’t see that due to your bias. Or poor reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:44 PM
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I have confidence. I’m not the one looking for validation from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:30 PM
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That’s the unhealthy part.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:11 PM
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That’s a temporary solution. You’re still not good if you think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:06 PM
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This is out of my own volition. You should try to think for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:05 PM
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If you still think that way you need more help.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:30 PM
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You should get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:49 PM
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A happy relationship is satisfying. Why be miserable with someone just because someone else wants to be with you. If a woman you are not attracted to and easily annoyed by wanted to date you, would you date them or be single?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:48 PM
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You know that’s not a good comparison right. Men can have trouble getting hard if they masturbate too much and train their body to be attracted to porn. Women not being attracted to a man is just that. If a man isn’t attracted to a bigger woman then that’s fine too. You just don’t date them. There’s no police forcing men to date big women is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:46 PM
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Men don’t need men to survive either. Don’t men also want money and a trad lifestyle too as well? Why is it always pointing out what women “want”. Men have their own issues too unless you have a blatant bias
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:44 PM
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Men have those unrealistic speciations too. You do realize men want a trad wife that is submissive yet most men cannot financially support that. Most couples have to work to live. Men are also unrealistic thinking they can date or fuck every type of woman due to their pornography habits. There is more to a relationship then looks and that something men don’t think about. They just want a warm body, they don’t think about how that body is or behaves. Which they should since that’s what makes a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:42 PM
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You are aware looks come and go too? Why date anyone if that’s the case. Just be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:35 PM
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People are affected by things. Wow. You have a way with words.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:34 PM
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People online don’t really get that far. Rarely can you get personality from an app or anything like that. Usually you base it off looks. Which is why everyone is so obsessed with looks and not romance or other aspects of a relationship. It’s foreign to people and probably a big reason why less people are dating or getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:34 PM
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Not respecting men online is different than in person. The men on this sub are a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:10 PM
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No, I just understand there’s nuance. Unlike you. This isn’t necessarily a traditional PPB. he emigrated somewhere. Not traveled and returned. Since you already are a fan, feel free to read my conversations with others about the problem with PPB. Most PPB are participating or trying to participate in sex tourism and human trafficking but pretend it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:35 PM
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Different story gets a different response. The other PPB were poorly worded arguments about going abroad with money to find a woman. This guy moved there and got to live abroad, not traveled for sex tourism or human trafficking. Also not a woman. Good guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:18 AM
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I’m sure that’s stopped people before. Prostitution is also illegal in some countries passport bros go for sex tourism
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:53 AM
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I’d say a lot of American women are still feminine, a lot of other people immigrate to the states and that same beauty you see abroad is here too. Culture is a whole different thing for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:52 AM
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Not everyone has it like that. As much as men keep talking about being a high quality man, due to finite resources, not everyone can. Reality is not everyone is top tier
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:51 AM
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Money is helpful to both men and women in that it offers comfort and opportunity. But when it comes to dating it’s not that much of an issue. Everyone wants to be the top percentile of looks and money and completely ignore all normal people that exist and are in relationships even though they aren’t living in luxury. It’s part of being online too often where the topics just become so obtuse and forget to focus on the bigger picture, not the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:25 AM
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That same thing can and will be said about BFP. You just like it since it’s kinder to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:10 AM
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It’s still possible to change something about your approachability and likability. Being insecure and an introverted personality won’t do well but a confident introvert can.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:02 AM
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There’s data, and then there’s its interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:00 AM
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I mean you can. It just depends on your personality. I doubt many people are truly honest about their personality and that’s why their failures at getting the opposite genders attention is common. They truly don’t know how to socialize with the group they’re interested in since they’re not of the same social group or status or have nothing in common. Small talk can only get you so far, personality can make or break it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:22 AM
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And if you knew about women’s body composition you’d know they are naturally fattier. But fat women is a step down, something men are so open to do. Yet they’re also unaware about their body composition. Which you’d know if you knew about women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:56 AM
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They think they can fuck and date anyone. That’s not realistic. Realistic people set expectations in themselves and their partner. They build a relationship based off other factors other than being a warm body.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:05 AM
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That’s what I meant. But some men only learn that through TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:44 AM
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Well yeah, but all that nuance can’t be described in short. “Being yourself” is a short and sweet. Its interpretation is up to the reader.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:36 AM
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It’s because men are perverted and horny my guy. Men are visual and need it to climax. Their desperation makes them think they can date anyone and fuck anyone but that’s not true. It’s just desperation. Low standards like that are unattractive and a huge reason why those men are ignored. I’m sure a woman would love to hear how you’d fuck any woman and date anyone. How appealing. Men are bigger in general so to bring up bigger women is funny. Men’s BMI average is higher so not sure why that’s an …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:34 AM
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Lol. Men lowering their standards during horny times doesn’t make them more open to dating a variety of women. Men are the main audience for porn so obviously it’ll be curated for them. Men and their obsession with porn and desperation for sex doesn’t make them better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:23 PM
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Thats a graceful way to quit I’ll take the win.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:54 PM
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It can be. Some Indian men are open to a western style of living. Not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:51 PM
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It depends. A large majority is single men trying to make money for abroad. Not sure how much they plan on staying here for the long run or if they can get a western woman to change their ideals in their own country.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:51 PM
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Look at what rereading did to your reading comprehension. I’m glad you learned something today. Hopefully you won’t waste other people’s time with your ignorance in the future. Wishful thinking. No. Dating can be done across many factors. The issue isn’t the income. It’s the dishonesty of men saying that they found love when they didn’t. It’s the manipulation and power imbalance. It’s that dependency they want in a partner that they can’t get otherwise. It’ll be much different taking advantage o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:45 PM
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I already answered your question about agency. Feel free to reread our conversation as much as you’d like to. It might help with your reading comprehension. Take your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:33 PM
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I mean if you lack the reading comprehension I can see how you can trigger yourself so easily. I gave you what my issue was and it was with manipulative men. But I guess that answers why this conversation was such a drag. You just don’t understand anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:29 PM
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Lmao. You sent me a random comment. He doesn’t even talk about that all. At least the thing you linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:28 PM
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I’m not thinking poorly about women, I’m thinking poorly against men. How is there love when there is no history. It’s just money. How can you pretend that love is that simple to accomplish? Why pretend they found love abroad when all they did was show off their bank account and find someone to agree to terms and conditions to some of that money. Quite manipulative and controlling. As passport bros are by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:26 PM
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It’s about survival. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:16 PM
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It doesn’t have to affect me personally to not like a disingenuous manipulative person. I’m sure you don’t like women that manipulate men. It’s all second hand since I would never associate myself with low lives like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:12 PM
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It’s not a relationship. It’s a financial decision. Live in poverty or sell yourself to a strange man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:11 PM
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It is. They’re buying wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:01 PM
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Nope. It goes both ways. Men also want hot women. Men just don’t realize their “average” is above average. Really average girls are out there but just how girls don’t want the average guys neither do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:01 PM
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You’re the one being emotional since you’re clearly hurt by my responses. Passport bros aren’t all staying in a different country. They usually come back home. They go abroad to buy a woman. Passport bros use their passport to visit poorer countries to flaunt their “wealth”. And if they don’t find a woman to marry they’ll still find one to fuck through sex tourism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:00 PM
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I did. You, just like the passport bro manipulates the story so did you. There is no attraction to the person. It’s just money and lifestyle. Passport bros pretend it’s an honest relationship when it’s not. It’s not one based off love or romance or attraction. Just money. Money to start and make a “relationship”. The second question is the same one you keep asking and I’ve answered it. You can interpret it from my responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:56 PM
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You can. Money or a good personality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:51 PM
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It’s not mutual. It’s manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:44 PM
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They’re one in the same. Man can’t get a wife in their country so they outsource. You can give it a different name to make yourself feel better. Same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:44 PM
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Yeah. How is it not. Man goes abroad to buy a wife. Flaunting money to attract a wife. A marriage not based off a relationship. Just money
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:33 PM
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Passport bros are going abroad with a purpose. To flaunt their wealth and citizenship in a country that a poorer woman would be attracted to. There is no relationship other than the promise of a better life with that money. Money is doing all the talking. It’s not a relationship based on a history. It’s transactional. Men gives money and visa, woman becomes wife and subservient.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:32 PM
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And that’s why the average men and women are having relationship issues. They’re putting to much emphasis on stupid things. Men want to date a hot woman and want higher paying jobs to do that. Woman want a guy with money. Less people are happy with average. Not a gender specific issue. Just a societal issue with people that spend too much time online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:25 PM
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It says a lot about the men that pretend that’s not what they’re doing. You’re literally going abroad with money to buy a woman to be your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:23 PM
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It’s all relative. And the relationship with the woman abroad can still end in divorce. Why? Because the men that are whining about women and how they can just find better options abroad are the problem. It’s problematic to think buying a woman to hold power over them is a healthy relationship. But go on. Bring a woman over from another country that’ll leave you later. A woman can use you that way as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:21 PM
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Both relationships could end in divorce. But that’s why you want that power over a woman that might not divorce you. But they still could. If they get their papers, a child from you, etc they could leave you just like a woman here would leave you. The issue isn’t the woman, it’s you. Some men, just like some women, are simply unlikable people and aren’t meant to be in long happy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:20 PM
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Men aren’t prizes. Women aren’t prizes. They’re people. You think they’re making the best choice but ironically it’s also a lot of wasted money for marrying a woman abroad. That time and money used to date women in your country is rather used on a plane ticket, visa, moving, etc. It’s not cheap. And when she comes here she’ll probably work a low paying job as opposed to an educated woman. It’s not all about money. It’s about power. You want power over women. Also it’s funny you make it seem like…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:55 PM
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Again, all relative. Whom I find attractive is not the same as you or the next person. That’s important because I’m trying to date whom I want not who every other guy wants to date. If you think that way that’s on you. Leagues exist, but not everyone cares about them since they’re okay with not purposely dating up or down. It’s just dating who they find attractive and likable as a person. Other redditors want to pretend that’s abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:52 PM
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Money helps in all cases but relationships can exist without it. Even one with a looks imbalance. Average and above average seems like it’s basing it off a statistical system, another way to lie to yourself. It just comes down to preference. Whom you find average or above average I might not find attractive. So those words honestly have no definition. Just made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:40 PM
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No. She didn’t. You’re mad since you didn’t like the answer talking down on passport bros. Since passport bros don’t truly go abroad for relationships, it’s just for sex tourism. Those type of men can’t put up with women here and they definitely can’t do it when they have to be empathetic to a woman with a language barrier, different customs, and like you said, doing the same thing as women here. It’s not dating on easy mode. The only thing that’s easier is that it gives men power. If women want…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:37 PM
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If you look at couples out in the wild you’ll know that’s not entirely true. It just has to be for you to make sense of it because that give and take has to happen for a relationship to happen. It doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:34 PM
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Interpreting that as mad just shows your ignorance. Which is common with passport bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:19 PM
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They’re not actually going through with it. Passport bros literally just do sex vacations and that’s it. If they can’t put up with a woman here because they’re being difficult, you think it’ll be easier when there’s different cultures, language barriers, visa requirements, etc for a woman they just met. The issue in both scenarios is men don’t want to put up with women but they’re the only ones that are unaware with it. They think they’re bingeing reasonable wanting power over women just because…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:18 PM
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That makes no sense. You can have both. Wouldn’t it also be better for the man and overall relationship if there’s more money for both? Oh, you like when men have more money so the woman is dependent on the man. It seems you just like women without power.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:15 PM
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Educated women also know they don’t want to be in a relationship with shitty men. Men can’t fathom at being lonely so they exploit poor women because they need to have power over them. What’s worse, men exploiting the poor women abroad or women trying to find an equal or higher income to have a healthy relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:13 PM
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Yeah, but they can’t be a victim if they’re the aggressor. It’s crazy they can’t see the crazy power dynamic of literally going abroad to buy a person for marriage just because they want to have that power over them. They like to pretend it’s them being normal and healthy and itll be a normal and healthy relationship when it’s just exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:11 PM
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It doesn’t have to be a coworker but they could make about the same amount of money and be fine. It isn’t always about dating up. Living in comfort is key and part of that is being content with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:08 PM
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This “fact” is always funny to me because there are actually many relationships with poor people. You believe that because you’re not rich and you can’t get a woman to settle and that’s your correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:07 PM
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Men want things too. It’s only bad when women want money though right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:05 PM
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I’m sure you do that all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:03 PM
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I mean masculine roles can exist and so should feminine. A hierarchy is usually helpful in relationships and families to create some sort of normalcy and control. I feel like as a guy as much as I know what being a man “is” I can also understand being the one under a matriarch. That’s a simple power struggle that most people are afraid to lose. But you can be in control and lose as well. I’d personally love to kick back and be a stay at home boyfriend if I had a woman take that role. I’d cook, c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:03 AM
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Big legs are sexy on men and women. Sexuality is a spectrum. Nothing wrong with having preferences. The issues arise when other people tell what they should do. If you want to do that go for it. Some men paint their nails, others are into cosmetic, others are genuinely into feminine hobbies. Not everyone has to be a stereotypical man to be a man. Specially not in today’s world when most of us live in such comfort and don’t do laborious jobs. There’s more room for personal freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:51 AM
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Ironically, your interpretation of working out being feminine simply because you’re working out your butt is quite funny. As a guy it’s normal to workout your whole body as that makes the most sense. Even men can see other men with poor leg definition and big chest/ arms and know it looks bad and dumb. Not necessarily feminine to do glute exercises, but can come off as insecure. Being pegged is that age old joke online, “is it gay to have sex with women as a man?” If it turns you on more power t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:15 AM
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That’s a given for both sides. Decline of sex can be a sign that both sides are neglecting each other and both could leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:54 AM
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They’re not. Men also don’t want someone they’re unattracted to. Plenty of ugly woman that are also single.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:41 AM
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Not really. Money offers peace of mind for everyone. Sex can be a simple chore for some and a burden to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:13 AM
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The gaslighting is also on men that misinterpret that as not effective. Just cause you don’t know how to “be yourself” doesn’t mean it’s not good advice. Some people just can’t socialize or have critical thoughts about themselves that they need an ideology to become a “real man”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:12 AM
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Men gaslight men too. As much as TRP tries to side with men, it also shames men. “You’re not a man unless you make this amount of money, do this, behave this way, etc.” The only benefit is that it does advocate for health and well being, but you also don’t need the rest of TRP. But that just shows how unaware some men are about interpersonal interactions and their own well being, that simple self help seems like a holy grail of information. “Work out and you’ll be more confident and attractive”.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:10 AM
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That’s why a large amount of men go to the gym and their hobby is working out. And they wonder why it’s not working. As much as it can be a hobby, it’s a lifestyle choice. A hobby has to have joy to a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:06 AM
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That’s an unfortunate truth. Men really don’t know how to care for themselves and think TRP has the answers. Yet it’s just basic health tips. You don’t need a whole ideology to just be healthier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:05 AM
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It won’t be good in that technology is partly at fault for the unhappiness of people and their inability to create relationships. It’ll be a temporary fix, as is everything, but it’ll just be more kiln to the flame of discontent. Tech makes people unhappy with comparison to others. Tech makes people unhappy because its tools like OLD apps don’t work as advertised. Tech makes people “debate” online like on this sub and argue their issues in an unhealthy way. Tech sucks when it comes to interperso…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:03 AM
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Even if they don’t masturbate all day, the worst they get is an awkward boner here and there. Girls do have to learn to control themselves from being hormonally imbalanced for their periods and by learning about themselves in that way they get to mature more. As a guy a personally don’t think there was much emotional introspection for boys. Specially when having emotions other than anger was and is still seen as not masculine by other men/ boys. Not saying it’s blanketed women are better than bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:17 AM
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And the dating issue skews young as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:10 AM
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There is data girls mature younger and they also do mature socially faster. For a variety of reasons but puberty hitting them differently is key. While boys get to have a dick to play with girls are having a rough hit of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:10 AM
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It’s not a reflection. It’s more of a preference. Many men can and would love to have a hot girl and still be insecure that their girl will cheat on them since they are hot. I don’t think you know what a “reflection” is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:07 AM
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Double standards suck. But you aren’t necessarily against them with your bias. You are pretending that women only have preferences and men don’t. I’m sure you would say you don’t like fat women and that’s your preference just how a woman can be as headstrong about finding a man with money. Preferences exist regardless of gender. Being open to dating more people for women and men will open the dating market for everyone but both sides are stubborn about it in their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:06 AM
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There you go
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:18 PM
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I’m sure with your level of comprehension everything is much more challenging than it really is. That’s more of a personal problem though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:32 AM
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I wouldn’t want an older man to waste their time and money being a sugar daddy either. Would me explaining that to a man be bad as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:24 AM
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Aww you can’t type correctly anymore. Is it past your bed time. Are your eyes getting sleepy weepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:23 AM
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I’m glad you admit you have no logic. If only you knew that beforehand. I’m sure you’ll forget sooner than later.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:22 AM
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Says the person having a meltdown in this thread. Cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:21 AM
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You’re not showing any data either. By that logic you’re a hack too. You lead with emotions as if this sub is your therapy. If only you could afford it, it could help you greatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:18 AM
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It’s not sarcasm. You mean it. You can tell with the pompous demeanor you get through your writing style.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:18 AM
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Saying “I don’t judge” after judging someone as snarky is hilarious. Top it off with the self “yes I am much smarter” and you have a huge serving of unintentional satire. Chefs kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:04 AM
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If only you knew how data worked you’d understand how incorrect you are. Seems like you’re using emotion over logic. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:58 AM
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It’s true in that I can be true for some but not all. Definitely not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:43 AM
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It’s due to your bias as a man. You’re a hopeless romantic falling for a woman’s attention even though you really don’t know them at all. They don’t fall for you since they are just getting to know you and as they get to know you they can understand they don’t really like you. That’s why they don’t catch feelings. A man and woman can both fall for someone for sex or for romance. It just depends on whether or not all their needs are fulfilled. If not, why waste time, just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:41 AM
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Feminism is bad if you are easy to sway and can’t comprehend its necessity. We’re barely a century removed from women’s suffrage and rights. But people do like to ignore history and choose their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:46 PM
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This can be said about both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:44 PM
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All while shitting on men that aren’t “real men”. What a hero to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:46 PM
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You’re speaking in anecdotes. The people that are viewing the videos you’re talking about live primarily online. They don’t exist en masse as much as the numbers seem to tell you. The numbers in those videos are there to push for more engagement and clicks. That’s how they make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:46 PM
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Being a leftist doesn’t mean you’ll get left leaning videos. Specially on video platforms that are known to push right winged content since it is known to push viewership. You look up dating stuff, you’ll eventually get right wing/ red pilled content since they see it gets more views and engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:44 PM
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What you’re assuming is all of women is a loud minority that exists primarily online. Just how incel/ red pilled behavior is largely online and that’s why it seems larger than it really is. Although that is changing with younger generations and how they’re online more. It also answers why the younger generation isn’t dating or fucking. They’re too busy being alone and bitter online spewing nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:42 PM
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That method only works for true extroverts like I mentioned. Simpler said than done, you need to find your group of people. That depends on where you live and what other social activities you like. There are social groups like outdoor/ board games/ etc you can find online, if all you want is a date there is speed dating. You could get a part time job somewhere that forces you to talk to a lot of people like at a bar/ retailer. It all depends what you’re willing to try to change your circumstance…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:40 PM
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A lot of people usually don’t like to be bothered which makes sense. When I’m at the gym I don’t like when people bother me about a machine specially when I’m being mindful of my own time. Socializing is usually done so in social groups, or by being an extrovert that forces themselves onto others which can work. But usualy true extroverts are the ones that persist and don’t let it bother them when they’re turned down
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:11 PM
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It is harder but not impossible. Through work, other friends, hobby groups. I’d say it all depends on how you already are socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:07 PM
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No, they’re acting bad. Manipulation is bad. If anything I’m good for understanding that. You’re bad for being ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:54 PM
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Just like manipulating men. I’m glad we agree on a lot more than you thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:49 PM
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Listen to your own advice then. I’ll do what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:59 PM
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Obviously. Just how obviously not everyone is getting babied. As much as people in this thread are for or against age gap relationships, not many are proactively doing anything for or against them. It’s all ideals at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:59 PM
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You’re being a crazy church lady telling me what to do. You are what you hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:57 PM
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You’re making believe every conversation leads to that. It doesn’t. Even more so for people that don’t want to talk to others like yourself. What other people do is up to them. Isn’t that your take as well? Let people do as they want. Men dates younger woman you’re probably excited for the man. No different than me being apprehensive at that. Doesn’t mean I’ll jump at the opportunity to scold him not does it mean you’ll go up to him and high five him. There’s a lot of nuance to everything. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:37 PM
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But wouldn’t it be nice if someone was there to guide as well. Why wait for someone to fail. And just because you give advice doesn’t mean they’ll take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:07 PM
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It’s a visual thing. On your side, men go “fuck yeah you go man”. I’m on the other side that think it’s gross. Both are using their eyes and looking at something that is in front of them. Being offended at that degree makes you seem even more suspicious of manipulation. Which is why some of us find it gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:06 PM
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Religion got society to where it is now. It’ll take centuries before it goes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:49 PM
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It’s topical conversations. If the topic comes up it’s something to talk about. You’re saying church lady thinking yet you’re the prude that doesn’t like to have conversations with others. If you don’t want to bother other people don’t but that doesn’t mean everyone behaves in that manner. You must understand the spectrum of personalities, even those that differ from yours. Once you get some empathy, you’d understand a bit more of human connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:27 AM
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It’s still not off the realm of possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:24 AM
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You used an extreme example so I matched it. Not every insane person is a boomer. Plenty of bad manipulators in every age range. Definitely possible. And you know what the bad boomer and a master manipulator have in common. Both are bad people. Which is why young woman should be warned against them. Obviously the one being manipulated wouldn’t know immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:26 AM
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Not really. You’re looking at it from a biased perspective. Think of a young man making a bad decision with money and woman. Wouldn’t you want to explain to them why they’re making a bad choice and to not make them? On the other hand young women get told to be careful of their choices with older men to also not be taken advantage. Either way, it’s a someone giving friendly advice. No reason to be triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:24 AM
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It does have to do with age. Like you said, a boomer can be short tempered but if they tried to sway someone they could manipulate someone into a relationship. Maybe not 21 but definitely younger. It’s not disrespectful. If anything it’s respectful and thoughtful. If you’re quick to be triggered I can see how it can be disrespectful. Just like a short tempered boomer fighting at Walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:48 AM
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It does. I can tell you how. Younger people don’t have as much real life experience. Therefore they could use some assistance from older people to help them with their decision making. All of course taken with a grain of salt. As much as one can try to help someone, there’s not much one can do to force assistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:45 AM
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Lmao you’re comparing age with race? That’s insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:25 AM
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Some people do. A lot of adults that lack any level of wherewithal. And then you have people on the spectrum, that definitely go on this sub on mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:23 AM
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College educated has nothing to do with emotional maturity. Two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:57 AM
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Or with simple math. A 37 year old man can in fact be a 21 year olds father.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:57 AM
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Adults make bad choices all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:56 AM
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It’s also because it’s a personal matter. Why bring the government into a personal issue. That’s then main reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:55 AM
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Only if they want to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:54 AM
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Atheism isn’t a defective gene nor is the cause of alienation. Throughout history these people existed but just didn’t congregate or brag about it like they do now. It’s a belief like all others. Atheists are scientific in nature, their only issue is the existence of a God, they still subscribe to everything else in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:53 AM
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If you read the full comment you would’ve noticed it. Problem is you can’t read.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:47 AM
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I have. And you ignored it. Like I said. You have a learning/ reading disability. It would explain your grammar. And spelling. Two different things and you’re equally bad at both.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:51 PM
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Can’t even capitalize a noun. Sad. At least have pride in yourself. You already proved your bias against women when you explicitly stated you don’t care about them. Not hard to get. But it seems you have a learning disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:14 AM
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Says the person that typed as if they had a stroke.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:54 AM
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By answering the question OP asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:53 AM
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I have. You’re just ignorant and can’t comprehend. It’s a personal issue I can’t resolve nor care enough to want to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:05 PM
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It’s taken by women for their children and for home care that they provide. Not just solely for being women. It’s disparaging because you’re making them seem lazy and you’re footing the bill on something like that. If you don’t like that then men would have to take on the role of guardian and caretaker more serious and not let women take that helm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:00 PM
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If you have to brag about that you’re probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:55 PM
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You triple replied. Impressive. I am. Just shows how baseless and ignorant your comments are since you truly speak from a place of ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:04 PM
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Oh you doubled replied. Embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:47 PM
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Not sure what energy you’re matching with your embarrassing vocabulary.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:46 PM
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Your question is an odd perversion. You’re making it seem as if 3M people is a lot of people compared to the global population when it’s nothing. If anything the question is just another out of touch hypothetical placing your insecurities onto others. “Obviously it’s a hypothetical but that’s how things are”? Are they? Or are your views of reality skewed because you watch too much porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:24 AM
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Exactly. You don’t care. Bias. You got it. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:03 AM
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Yeah, that’s why I type the way you do and get triggered? Right? If you can’t imagine woman that can’t get laid then you simply haven’t talked to them, which again, is your bias against ugly woman. Not every woman is fuck able for a variety of reasons. To think there are no outlier of women/ outcasts of woman that can’t get laid is nothing more than a bias. And your little temper tantrum is nothing but an emotional response. Not logical one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:56 AM
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And that’s why you and other men are biased. Because you’re emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:50 AM
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Okay triggered man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:47 AM
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And that’s your bias against women showing. There are women that are ugly enough to not get dates. Neurodivergent women also make men not want to fuck them or date them. They don’t exist to you since you think women only get plowed by Chad. But they do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:47 PM
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It’s relevant to your comment which in part to the thread. Unless yours is irrelevant first.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:39 PM
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It doesn’t matter unless it bother you you don’t get free sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:07 PM
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There are women that can’t get laid either. They’re ugly enough you never seen them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:06 PM
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Confidence is built. Like the two guys you knew. And like I said, the nice guy trope is a pretense. The men do it thinking it’s all it takes to get a woman to talk to you and fuck. But when it didn’t work they changed it up. Why? Because they weren’t actually nice. They were just trying to get laid. And when their original plan failed they changed it and their mannerisms. So your example is further proof of my original point. Women and men want genuine kindness. It’s not that women don’t want a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:09 PM
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I would treat OLD differently because you can’t gauge someone fully off a profile and a few messages. In person meetups are more real than anything prior to what happened on the app. Being okay with meeting someone is different than dating someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:53 AM
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And that’s up to you but you have to be able to see how women perceive a new man in their life leaving as soon as they deny any dating possibility as odd. They never saw you as a dating prospect so that never crossed their mind until you make it obvious that’s all you wanted. Women want to be treated like people first just how men do, like you do. Men don’t want to be treated as a wallet for dates. Women don’t want to be looked for just sex. There’s definitely a lot to interpersonal relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:46 AM
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The thing about if it’s mistaken let it be. You can’t make people believe your genuine actions. If they behave that way they’re letting themselves out of your dating pool. Making it easier for you. The trash took itself out. And as much as you have no need to stick around for someone that’s not into a relationship with you, you can see why it seems like that no? Clearly that’s not your intention but it’s the insinuation that you entered their life and when they didn’t like you back you left. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:26 AM
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Genuine kindness and niceness is key. The good guy/ nice guy trope isn’t genuine. It’s a very bad act of deception that is easy to see making the nice guy look bad because of the lie. Being nice is also not gonna be a key to a relationship or sex either. Usually you have to do a lot more than one good act like holding a door open or listening to someone’s problems or helping someone. Something that makes good guys mad when they get “pulled along” when they’re the ones that placed themselves in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:56 AM
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How in depth is your research? Do you partake in conversations with the girls like you do the boys? Also not sure why you’re looking at the attractiveness of your students as a teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:10 AM
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Men do have choices. I’m a man and I choose to be a positive role model to the kids in my family. I could choose to be negligent and let women do it and pretend it’s a woman’s job like cleaning is as well but I choose to be responsible and active, not negligent and lazy. It’s not corrupt. If anything it makes sense. Men pretend they’re not allowed to parent to push their responsibilities to women. If women are given the helm by the lazy and negligent men than why shouldn’t they be compensated wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:05 AM
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Men have their own choices. They choose to be negligent. They have a say in their household. They can partake in their child’s lives. They choose not to. This is why women get paid out when divorce hits. Because men don’t parent. So if the woman is gonna have the kids she should 100% get money from the bum
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:50 AM
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So men choose to do nothing. It seems like they just want to opt out of being a parent and blame someone else for their failure. Seems sad. Maybe men should do better for their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:13 AM
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And that makes sense. Why would you be a dick to someone you’re trying to talk to? Knowing your audience is key for a lot of things, like socializing or dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:00 AM
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Again, where are the fathers? Shouldn’t they alleviate this? If you’re being biased I’ll match you. Men aren’t parental so mothers do what they can to raise a child. If mothers didn’t try then the child would be fully neglected. If men put any effort maybe men wouldn’t be so troubled. If only they had guidance from their fathers instead of being a burden to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:54 AM
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Although not perfect, people can read people or at least put an effort specially when it comes to dating. Genuine kindness and care don’t come off as an act. Also when all you do is be nice there’s not much to you as a person and that can be a drag. Not making you a bad person for being nice but usually you want to stand out to your potential partner. Being nice to a stranger should be the norm so thinking that’s enough to get you a gf is weird. Being written off isn’t a bad thing. Saves you and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:51 AM
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That’s interesting. I believe parenting is done by both parents. Where’s the father in this? Not present or putting effort into raising their child? Seems like they’re at fault if that’s the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:48 AM
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Game is all a ruse. Like I said, Chad is already not a likable character but I wouldn’t say they pretend to be chivalrous. They buy drinks to keep a woman’s attention, they flirt with them with colorful language, not really pretending to be a gentleman. It’s a Chad doing Chad behavior. It works because they don’t stagger in their questions and offering free anything is usually appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:37 PM
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So it’s a their moms/ a woman’s fault? What about their dads? Where are they in the picture? Can’t men support men in improving their confidence/ self worth?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:21 PM
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Yeah but the whole point of a swagger is it’s unique, not this copied mentality that the nice guys follow. That’s why it fails as much as it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:20 PM
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Confidence is important. Men lack it because they don’t have a support group to help each other out. Men need to socialize more and build confidence. Bettering oneself isn’t just physical or monetary, it’s also mentally and self esteem/ self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:19 PM
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It’s definitely an act. It’s their “swagger”. They turn it on as they try to talk to women. It’s something they use to deal with their anxiousness as they try to pretend like someone else that isn’t anxious. It’s an act to compensate for the low self esteem/ anxiousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:05 PM
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Nice guys whole thing is an act, and their bad actors. The chad trope is usually just a bro that is more confident and doesn’t act like a fraud albeit not a likable character to all either
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:08 PM
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Usually the nice guy trope is negative because it’s a facade. It’s not a genuine nice guy, it’s one to provoke deception into sex. The Chad trope is bad to nice guys because they know how to navigate conversations with women more naturally and their efforts work due to their personality/ other prospects that make them more appealing. Overall usually a nice guy is no good because they get stuck on their facade and make it obvious to the public it’s a ruse. Chads don’t really pussy foot about it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:07 PM
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Contextually, it’s making fun of OPs take. Not necessarily serious in tone. Just like OPs discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:03 PM
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Verified with another account. You can try it too if you look for your own comment outside your account. It’s been decided by the mods. Appreciate the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:48 PM
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Probably shadow banned. Even the mods agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:41 PM
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You might’ve been shadowbanned or these comments in particular due to your ad hominem. https://imgur.com/a/oYz2CKZ
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:27 PM
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Like I said. There’s 3 deleted comments prior to you coming back from the dead acting like you won something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:33 AM
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Follow the comment chain. Or are you just responding completely separate to the original conversation for no reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:20 AM
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It looks like you deleted your old comments out of shame. I won that one a while ago bud. Are you slow?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:28 AM
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TRP as a whole is naive. The only benefit in it is self improvement but you don’t need to get indoctrinated in everything else to be a better version of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:12 PM
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Then you agree that TRP is naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:59 AM
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Extreme is an extreme word. And TRP isn’t gonna resolve it. It’s a social issue that requires professional and educated people. That’s another lie TRP proclaims, that they can solve problems at that level when they themselves only focus on a few issues and think they figured out the whole ordeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:25 PM
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No. Specially when you respond with memes. Even you’re a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:10 PM
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You don’t need an organization for that. There’s books. But technically church/ organized religion. I’m sure I can find others but it’s not special. It’s nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:09 PM
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It is negative and if they were grifters there wouldn’t be that many or prominent in TRP. There are many ways to self improve that doesn’t need TRP indoctrination
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:01 AM
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It’s true. Don’t be embarrassed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:59 AM
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It’s mostly negative. It’s an odd thing to spread when there are multiple errors in their mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:43 AM
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It’s a facade. To pretend people come here to have a civilized discussion is a joke since you can see the bias in the questions make this sub lose credibility and toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:42 AM
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That makes sense. You are on the same wave as the feminists as in believe everyone on your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:41 AM
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It is toxic because a lot of the rhetoric is sexist. Whether it be against men or women most post are very much based on bias against one gender with complete disregard over them. Whether it be men thinking cheating is fine cause it’s biological and women should fall in line or making men feel like having preferences is bad, it’s all really idiotic conversations. It’s a lot of fun to be around regardless. This subculture of people is almost non existent in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:35 PM
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I’m asking you to provide it. Educate me. Unless you’re embarrassed of your source.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:16 PM
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Oh Wikipedia is a source now. Someone didn’t do well in grade school.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:38 PM
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In that case then feminists should be allowed to do whatever they want too. Except men from TRP don’t like that women can do whatever they want. Quite a paradox
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:38 PM
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So the unironic take TRP does is match “believe all women” but from a man’s perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:37 PM
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So TRP advocates are weak men that aligned with something when they had nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:35 PM
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TRP people do. They blame women for men’s downfall and problems. Essentially saying women are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:34 PM
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Good for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:40 PM
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Share them. Don’t want to get the wrong info. Enlighten the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:40 PM
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That’s a nice way to prevent yourself from having to share evidence. I’ll join you. I also have counter evidence that I will not show you but believe me. You’re wrong, I’m right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:36 AM
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Then no need to listen to you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:35 AM
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Emotional damage makes people do crazy things. Men beat their wives for similar things. Never okay but people do things based solely on emotion. Like cheating. Keeping emotions in check would benefit everyone but not everyone can do it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:22 AM
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Obviously. Also if biology lets men cheat, when that time out month hits and biology gets women going it’s a free for all. Not cheating when biology is involved apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:20 AM
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That happens based on no information other than tall tales TRP shares and then conflates into thinking it’s the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:19 AM
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That’s hard to comprehend in a sub full of people that can’t get in relationships. I wonder why? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:17 AM
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Men think they’re smart. Also men saying they’re not. Which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:16 AM
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He is. A man thinking his biology allowed him to cheat without repercussions is simply letting his emotions and hormones get to them. Would your girlfriend get the okay to fuck anyone when that happens to her? Fitting hormonal outbursts love isn’t involved, it’s just passionate cheating. But that’s fine right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:16 AM
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Edgy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:14 AM
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You don’t cheat on someone you love. Simple as that. Cheating is cheating. Men have a brain to control their actions. There are definitely men that can use money as a reason to cheat but that is completely dependent on who’s in the relationship. Not everyone can have an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:14 AM
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The answer isn’t wrong. OP is starting verbal arguments with his wife by asking these hypotheticals to her.m without her knowing why she’s being asked these questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:51 PM
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If your wife said that to you would you be impressed at her logic or be taken aback that she doesn’t care about the relationship and is okay to end it simply cause you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:30 AM
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Yeah. Somehow it’s everyone’s problem that every woman doesn’t want to date them for x reason and at the same time they don’t want to be the last choice for women either while also inadvertently demanding women to change their preferences and force themselves to date them as if it’s not the same. A good relationship requires both people to like each other for themselves and to want to be together for each other not because they were forced to. It’s such odd mental gymnastics brought by being per…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:24 AM
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Word choice is key
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:15 AM
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It does since you’re saying men are less interested. Like I said, less interested doesn’t mean not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:09 AM
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Where is your BMI coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:03 AM
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But that’s not what the question is. It’s why do men think they don’t have preferences. You’re right in that everyone differed but to think showing less interest means no interest is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:02 AM
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It’s not about what you have control over. It’s what you as the one looking for chooses is important. If you as a man don’t want a woman with high body count it’s your problem to find that. If you don’t prefer that then simply don’t got for them. Not hard. A woman doesn’t like a short man and they don’t go for them. Same thing. They move on. If it’s not within your preferences move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:01 AM
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Men think that their willingness to fuck any type of woman or their desperation to be in a relationship with a woman translates to they could date anyone. It’s not necessarily true specially with how this sub doesn’t like women with high body counts or fat women. Only two preferences there but that’s just to use the sub as an example. I’ve met many men that only want Asian women or latinas. They also think because they don’t care what a woman makes financially means they’re more open but that ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:20 AM
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No. Feminism is to get women’s equal rights. Something they didn’t have a century ago. Which also goes against your take of “women and children first” something that’s been important for societies to survive prior to the feminist movement. I understand gripes men have against women but at the same time disparaging women isn’t gonna make men feel better about themselves. Instead of attacking women and their movement why not focus on men and think of something that will help improve men. It’s not …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:16 AM
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I used your data. Women are 5’4 and men are 5’9. Even at your round up of women’s weight and round down of men it’s still men are at one BMI above women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:13 AM
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I’d say most men don’t show A game. It’s amateur league.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:16 PM
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Not necessarily. If there’s no interest shown that means that they’re not going about bothering people that aren’t interested in her. If anything it’s mindful of others. As a person, reading cues is important. Men want to hit on everyone but there really is no need if you can see how women perceive it. Not everyone wants to be hit on randomly. It’s not a compliment , it can be an annoyance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:14 PM
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I’ve been asked out before too. Not as direct but in a coy manner. I feel like women do ask. But they don’t ask everyone like some men would.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:09 PM
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This can all change. It takes men in teaching kids to do better in a non problematic manner. Such as telling boys to share their feelings and their treating them as equals. Not ingraining being a man and men are tough, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:54 PM
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And the average man is a 28 and woman 27. Men are fatter by the data points you gave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:45 PM
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Put your data into the BMI index.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:48 PM
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It definitely depends on what data you’re looking at and how you’re interpreting it. Technically men have a slightly higher bmi based on the numbers. You rounded up women by 1 and rounded men down by 7 so clearly it was something done on purpose. Bringing skewed data to try to prove a point incorrectly BMI for modern USA woman is 27. Men is 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:17 PM
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So you’re on their level of intellect? Generalization definitely doesn’t create a world where people just point fingers at each other. It’s the way geniuses think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:15 PM
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There you go again my man. 0 proof back to back to back. If anyone is trolling it’s you with the continuation of 0 proof. I also never said women don’t do no wrong. Men like you just think women do wrong and men don’t. Without proof. Ever. You have a better social life yet resort to sex workers? Makes no sense, but that’s normal for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:09 PM
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Body fat and muscle are different. Women are predisposed to more fat less fat and men to more muscle less fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:05 PM
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That adds up. Women are predisposed to more fat due to their physiology. Unless you don’t know they Also with added data thanks to the other guy, we both learned men are more overweight according to data given by the CDC.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:33 PM
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So if men’s role is making money and supporting why do men complain about it? If complaining about their role is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:32 PM
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The continuation of society is hardly a job? Same thing can be said for men building shit. Can’t have one without the other. Almost as if we live in a society where women and men both contribute to its continuation. And also just how men are involved to a degree in birth rearing so have woman in other aspects. To pretend only one gender does everything is nothing but a bias. When we were more agrarian women worked the farm along with the children. It’s never just been men. It’s a family unit. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:35 AM
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This is definitely a generalized “all men bad” take. Unironically not all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:09 AM
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I’d say at that level of education there’s less head butting because of said education. There are definitely other jobs where head butting is more common, where degrees matter less and it’s more about management.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:08 AM
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Literally the message you were responding to is how men don’t want women that are ran through. As simple as it is it’s still a preference and a somewhat common one here and in other places where these “issues” are mentioned. It’s literally a preference that even desperate men have albeit there are levels to desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:01 AM
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It seems both sides have shitty people. Why do you feel comfortable pretending only one side sucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:59 AM
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Women definitely don’t do most of creating life. Men can definitely plant sperm into the soil and water it for new life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:20 AM
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Many men don’t contribute either. Statistically speaking only very few people sway the ides of time. Many of us will be forgotten when we pass after living meaningless lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:19 AM
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If a woman being sexual isn’t healthy why are they such a barometer for men and their choosing. Isn’t it just easier for them to move on from women like that? Why hyper-fixate and somehow think by shaming them you’ll make them change their behavior. Do you think they’ll date you after you shame them? What’s the goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:18 AM
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lol, men whine they can’t preferences when clearly they do, they just hate that women get to have them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:16 AM
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Isn’t the obesity epidemic across the board? Or are men incapable of being fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:15 AM
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The advice they gave was very gender neutral. If anything it was also positive. Not sure how you thought you got them for saying something helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:15 AM
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I’m obsessed with you bro. Like I said I don’t interact with losers like you in real life since you just hide at home. Only go out for sex workers and maybe Mountain Dew. I love that men like you complain about feminist whining when your side does that as well. It’s literally two extremes. Dumb broads whining and dumb men whining. You’re not much different than they are lol. Oh the news said were unintelligible. So there’s proof. Go on and show me or it’s just more made up stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:43 PM
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You’re free entertainment. Why would I want it to stop? It’s funny you think I spent more than a minute on you lol. You’re a simple character. Not much depth to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:49 AM
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You think you’re normal lmao. I don’t think normal people are gooning at your level or on TRP. You are what’s called an extremist. More proof you have no validity in anything. You tried. And that’s what counts. You served your purpose jester.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:34 AM
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You love moving goal posts as a way to flee. We were never talking about water being wet. You can think you’re right when you make yourself believe that. It’s cute. I glanced at it and was unimpressed. You’re very easily triggered my man. You can blame your height but it’s honestly just your self esteem or lack there of. It was bad faith cause you’re part of it. Simple as that. When you’re as unhinged as you are there is no conversation. You’re just that dense. It was a funny convo. You can fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:50 AM
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Self realization is important. Believing that life only matter with someone is the opposite extreme of “this gender sucks” it’s not healthy in any way. There’s always a good middle and both of those are unsubstantiated extremes that people put themselves through due to their own idiocies. I think by at least adding a separate idea into this dialogue it’ll at least reach others that could or not use the info. Depression is a big issue but it’s definitely not solely based off of relationships. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:43 PM
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It’s a facade though. Just like drug addicts, we shouldn’t give them what they think they need. They need help understanding what happiness is. It’s not just a woman. It’s not one single accomplishment. It’s someone’s entire life. Hypothetically if you give a man a woman that isn’t suited for a relationship, the relationship won’t last and they’ll fall back into a depression. That’s not a real solution
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:28 PM
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As someone that’s been depressed, relationships never did solve them. It’s a belief that it is the only thing missing when in reality it’s something to mask the pain of existing. People are constantly in a relationship and miserable. It’s an unhealthy belief to hold one’s value solely on when they are with someone. Men and women do that alike since some women choose to never be single to avoid being alone but that doesn’t solve any internalized issues. Men and women can find themselves realized …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:59 PM
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So one can be supported by proof, the one that goes against men but the one that goes against women is just shit thrown at the wall and due to your bias you can proclaim “women are manipulative” as fact when it’s not. There is reality and then there is fiction. You’re delving into fiction with the lack of facts you have. Not mad. Just always funny that you deal in only assumptions lol. Back to back no idea what you’re talking about. Also to think you’re a man with points as you use your account …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:55 PM
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So men are depressed solely for lack of sex?theres 0 external factors out there such as debt, being hungry, not making enough to survive, tired of working, feeling unrealized in the world, scared, lonely. It’s only sex, or lack of, that is what makes men depressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:49 PM
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Oh how cute. Can’t answer anything and now you’re throwing baseless accusations. For fun, what is my gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:48 AM
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Were we talking about misandry or you had to bring it up to try to get out of admitting it was misandry? At least with men and violence there is stats. Where are the stats about women being manipulative oh so wise one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:16 AM
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It’s not a big deal. Many people have kids without thinking. I think more people are aware of what it actually takes to have a child and choosing not to put themselves or another life through hardships neither are ready for. Finding happiness for an adult is also possible without kids. More money. More time. Just need to figure out what to do with both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:04 AM
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“Difference is that a guy will stay with a woman because he really loves her, a woman stays with a guy because she realised she couldn’t keep the ones she really wanted” Women only do things out of manipulative reasons. Men don’t because men really love women. I’m always happy to help the reading impaired.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:15 AM
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Not necessarily. As a man I can definitely say I’ve also had bad luck finding someone but never did I make it a “woman is the issue” thing. I feel like many men fail to be introspective and look at things differently or simply try again. Becoming resentful over not having sex is ridiculous. Becoming depressed over it is unfortunate but at the same time it’s not the cause of it. Unhappiness is definitely averaged out by multiple reasons, lack of sex can be one but not the only.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:20 PM
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Understandable but illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:13 PM
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That’s untrue. Misogyny is also a prejudice which he and you clearly have against women. A preconceived notion that women are overall horrible beings simply because they’re women. Your definition of misogyny is either wrong or skewed to not include this part about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:06 PM
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Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:49 PM
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It’s okay. You can keep it to yourself and your lonesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:31 PM
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Yes. Did you read the other persons comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:31 PM
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I’m not. And you’re triggered. That’s all. It’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:35 PM
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No, but if you’re comparing women to animals that’s more proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:35 PM
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Pretending all women behave as one person is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:23 PM
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If you read that persons comments you’ll realize it is. You’re just being sensitive/ triggered about it since you’re being defensive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:22 PM
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How is it not hatred? You believe they are not good at anything solely based on gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:22 PM
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So your point is pointless. At lease you’re honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:21 PM
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That’s amazing. Be happier single. Stop making yourself and others miserable. Also stop blaming women with such hilarious language. You’re starting to sound like a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:13 PM
2

Oh. That’s funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:12 PM
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Pretending that only woman lie on wether or not they cheat is just the continuation that men are so much better no matter what. You don’t believe that men also lie on those self reports? Fuckboys are known to suck, be annoying, etc. not the best of men. They can pretend to blame women for betrayal but just how some women are shit and blame men so are men in this situation. Blaming a whole gender for betrayal is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:12 PM
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Which one? Isn’t all you’re doing in this thread assuming too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:09 PM
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lol, so just because men can’t have sex as freely as they can it doesn’t count? If we’re discussing it, would you say that as a man you wouldn’t fuck more often if it were easier? I would. Just because outcomes are different doesn’t change that there is more similarities between men and women, in that they want to have fun at younger ages. If you want to make outcome an issue, do all women and all men have the same level of outcome or are there a variety of variables to it as well? Those that ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:40 AM
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I didn’t miss the point. Your creative writing is bad and the basis of it is women bad as and men good. Men can also be bad and women can also be good. Men can cheat. Women can cheat. Men can be loyal. Woman can be loyal. At least you gave clear signs of your bias in your story so it’s clearly not in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:31 AM
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Based on what? Men like you make it seem like men are only capable of love and empathy and are overall better people than women solely based on gender? Have you personally had any bad interaction with any man or are men really that amazing? As a man I’d say I’d definitely have had bad interactions with men. Men can be angry, want to start fights, can get jealous and think you’re trying to take their girl, and a number of other bad behaviors that can also be attributed to women. Thinking one gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:27 AM
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The exact same thing can also be said for men as well. Yet another pointless gendered post with no basis. Men want to fuck when they’re younger and have fun as well. Not many people are starting families straight out of high school like previous generations did. As people age and they no longer want to drink, party, sleep around, they evolve into more family oriented individuals. It’s a natural evolution in human nature. Not many men or women can party and have the level of fun they did in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:13 AM
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By this logic or lack thereof you’re missing the point that men can also have that feeling. It’s not gender specific. Shit behavior is shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:03 AM
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My take has been both sides have preferences. The reason I’m “bashing men” is because you interpret my statements of men having preferences as such. I never bashed them in any way. This whole thread and many others have a predisposed idea that men don’t care about anything and can date anyone when that’s really not true and I know that as a man. If anything I’m trying to open other men’s eyes so they don’t become jaded and blame women for having preferences when they themselves have them as well…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:33 PM
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A edited YouTube video is proof now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:29 PM
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It’s still cringe when it’s done by men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:29 PM
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I’ll say I haven’t provided any, but again, my main points are to discredit yours. You keep defending your non existent proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:46 PM
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Yeah everyone going into medical careers get paid shit initially. Nothing new. It still doesn’t change the fact that a doctor will ultimately make more than the best paying janitor. They will pay off their loans and also amass greater wealth than a janitor. It’s not bashing men. It’s noticing their behavior. Many men done ester relationships just to be in one not really caring about details. I agree men are more passive in their decisions toward a mate but it’s not to their benefit or because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:45 PM
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Your humorous take is pretty funny because that still wouldn’t happen. Nurses make a good wage from the start, more than most janitors. A doctor would also do that as well. Debt to most people at that level is also negligible. Loans are readily available at a good price and they can definitely pay it off and create more wealth than the janitor will ever get the chance to. Men do care. Not initially but it can affect them in the long term. And that’s the issue with men and how they don’t plan out…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:43 PM
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There you are with more hyperbole. Meth? Also using the word majority without any proof is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:34 PM
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That’s cool. In what world would a doctor and janitor make the same other than your made up example. I can come up with over the top examples too if that’s what we’re doing here Also men would prefer a woman that makes less since men believe that men should be the breadwinners. If anything a woman that makes more is less attractive to men for that reason. I wouldn’t say men don’t care, they just don’t know how to express themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:07 PM
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Swipes and OLD data doesn’t translate 1:1 to real life. Also at this point in OLD it’s amazing people still try it since it’s clearly not a valid way to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:06 PM
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Yeah men lust for BBWs yet other men like on this sub say no fat chicks. There’s not one type of woman and there’s not one type of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:01 PM
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Because what you’re doing with that statement is lying. There’s no truth to it. It’s an emotional driven take. It’s embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:00 PM
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Yeah. But if you read their comments they enjoy straight porn because of women. Women consume porn differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:55 AM
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So no data, just hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:51 AM
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It doesn’t have to do with openness it has to do with how men are desperate for whomever they can get and women have the ability to be more picky since men bombard woman for attention. It’s a one sided affair that gives one side more room to be more decisive but again. At the end of the day it’s human nature to have preferences as well. Men and women aren’t exempt from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:51 AM
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It’s not gonna go anywhere but there needs to be more conversation about its negativity. Men seem to always say men don’t get support. The sub is chickflixxx
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:48 AM
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The thing is both have issues. Porn consumption is a men’s issue. It is negative. How else is desperation used? A person that’s in a good position isn’t desperate. I actually remember one female porn sub. Most of it is actually kinda lesbian porn or they like how the woman performs in but they’re straight
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:06 AM
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To also act like fat women and ugly women don’t have struggles because men jack off to BBW porn is dumb Exactly. Not porn. Men’s issue. You’re getting it. It’s not the same. Saying you could eat anything because you’re open to it and saying you could eat anything because you’re starving are different. Desperation has a negative connotation to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:42 AM
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I’m aware. It was also a rhetorical question so I answered rhetorically as well. Men struggle for a variety of reasons and blaming physiological factors is an easy one that most men tell other men is the reason Most. Not all. And again, women aren’t porn fiends like men. It’s not the same point. I differentiated them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:21 AM
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Oh you live in hyperbole. So according to your own data, the majority of women have gotten 200+ dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:18 AM
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I don’t but I’m sure there are people out there that do. Asexual people exist. There are always outliers. Im curious, do you only see certain men with women. Are there never any outliers that aren’t tall, strong, wealthy, tan, etc. Because when I go out in public I see a variety of couples and not some “standard” couple. Ladyboners does have a variety of men in their posts if you looked it up. And again; they don’t consume porn to the degree they need to subcategorize their porn. Porn is a male …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:17 AM
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Do you know any relatives that have accomplished that or are you just dealing in hyperbolic statements to fail to prove a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:09 AM
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As I mentioned masturbating and actually wanting to be in a relationship with whatever fetish you’re into are completely separate. Unfortunately porn consumption with men is pretty normal and when you’re given a catalog of porn you’re gonna delve into different categories. Could be you’re not a man to have or can carry those conversations with women like you can with a man. And like I mentioned, women don’t consume porn like men do. But sure, if you want me to share male pornography with you I’l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:08 AM
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Not really. Men are extremely visual people when it comes to masturbating. Women on the other hand aren’t and can masturbate with no visual stimuli. It’s the main reason men make up for the majority of porn consumption. https://www.reddit.com/r/dadbod/s/IMNECiP7vT There are definitely subreddits for big men. Short kings. Men of different races that are attractive. Isn’t BTS and K-POP still big meaning they some women to find Asian men attractive? You speaking for women without actually putting e…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:50 AM
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That has to do with fetishes and masturbating. I can definitely find you a dad bod NSFW sub if you want or you can look it up yourself. Porn and fetish subs are predominantly men driven as they consume most of the porn. Don’t associate porn and fetish with a man being open to date a BBW. Masturbating to it is completely different. Wanting to fuck a BBW is also completely different. Nothing to do with relationships at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:44 AM
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“Flexible” standards are still standards. You’re literally using a story of a woman getting “200 dates”. You’re doing point 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:38 AM
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Being impossible for men and being possible for every woman are separate issues. With how obesity is affecting the US and how men, even in this sub, say they don’t want chubby women, does that mean chubby women get 200+ dates as well? Or is everything hyperbolic when it comes to dealing with women’s behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:47 AM
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Your presumptions are just that. Where is any of this data coming from? Your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:34 AM
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If you use this sub as some basis you’d realize men don’t want to be used for money anymore and understandably so. So that basis isn’t true, at least not anymore. Whether it be through prenups or just avoidant of woman wanting expensive dates that lead nowhere, men don’t want to pay anymore. Where is your presumption coming from other than a clear bias as a man? If you ever had a conversation with men some men will say how they also have preferences. I have met many men that love Asian women. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:33 AM
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Do all your female relatives get 200+ dates? Get empirical data from them and come back to me with facts not stupid assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:30 AM
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It’s cringe when both do it. How does gender affect a cringe behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:24 AM
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Do you think every women gets 200 dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:23 AM
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I’d say a lot of women also don’t have those either. You are speeding from a biased perspective where you think men don’t care as much as women when it’s not true. I’m sure if a man realizes a woman is bad at finances he’d leave, if a woman has a sketchy past he’d leave. Men have things they care about just hope women do. What evidence do you honestly have that proves your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:23 AM
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Then what’s the point of your previous point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:20 AM
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Don’t men flex their wealth and role in society? I think both are idiotic flexes but also both do them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:46 AM
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That goes for men too. No one wants to date down
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:46 AM
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You think every woman gets 200 dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:45 AM
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If you feel this way is it also true for men that struggle?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:45 AM
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“Men have preferences” but somehow women having them is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:41 AM
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Most men have ideal women too. Men thinking men have no preferences are odd. When it comes to a partner would you want a chubby woman or thinner woman? For whatever preference there is out there you have one you prefer over the other whether it be race, height, weight, personality, how they believe relationship dynamic should be, etc. Preferences isn’t a gender specific. It’s human nature. It’s as if someone asked you where you wanna eat and you say you don’t care. That doesn’t mean you’ll eat a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:37 AM
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I wouldn’t say divorce is caused by love fleeting. It’s definitely people changing and no longer being compatible that will eventually lead to loss of love since you’re no longer in love with someone that has changed. Which is why divorce isn’t bad. It allows people to move on and change if they choose to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:53 PM
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Responded wrong thing in wrong thread
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:00 AM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:00 AM
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Wow, let me get your mom’s OF. Likelihood she has one according to your stats is pretty high. According to your own data.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:49 AM
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It’s a self fulfilling prophecy of sadness. A big reason why some men keep ruining their chances. If you’re looking for a problem in someone you’ll eventually find one. It’s much healthier to grow in a relationship than to keep your partner at bay and under scrutiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:20 AM
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Well yeah. OP has an unhealthy presumption that women are commuting adultery at a higher rate yet I’m sure that’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:18 AM
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That’s what women do as well. It’s definitely a spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:48 AM
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Not all but they can be. The amount of conservative gay men is surprisingly high
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:48 AM
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Your preoccupation with a cheater is only gonna make it so you self sabotage whatever relationship you will have. Instead of focusing on women as a whole worry about your own life, partner, and things within your control. Making up stories in your head are definitely not healthy in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:22 AM
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So your whole post is null since clearly you’re wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:21 AM
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You literally said women don’t accept your own friend requests so your assumption by your own accord is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:12 AM
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I’d say being less misogynistic is a good step. Why presume a good chunk of women are instathots when you want to date women? Aren’t you setting yourself up for failure by assuming women are gonna cheat on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:12 AM
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So you get ignored by women and instead of trying something else blame women for being thots although by your own account they don’t respond to men on IG. So do they or do they not respond to all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:03 AM
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All women are thots and have an OF according to this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:02 AM
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Men thinking that women are promiscuous at such high rates is insane and unhealthy. What percentage of women would you think have an OF? Do you personally have women in your life and if so do the stats add up with your own family in either your mom or sister being pumped and dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:00 AM
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If men could have hook ups as easy as women I’m sure they would. If men can get ran through they definitely would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:58 PM
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Then we’ll never know if your high estimation is true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:17 AM
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Ask her. Let’s find out the truth. For science
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:12 AM
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Lmao you definitely did my guy! You are so funny. I’m glad I stuck around for this convo. Appreciate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:11 AM
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Definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:10 AM
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Still won. If you can’t remember it’s more proof you’re ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:10 AM
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You literally bragged to the other guy you don’t dela in FEELings. Only reason. You lie so much it’s depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:10 AM
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So in that case, would you say that in a family of 4 one of them gave an OF? Do you, a sibling, or your parents have one?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:09 AM
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That’s what you were trying to do when you were calling out ad hominem. Trying to shut my point down. I shut you down boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:07 AM
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I won.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:06 AM
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I already won so my point has been made. You’re bad at debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:06 AM
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If you see my response it also says cheating is bad. Are you blind?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:06 AM
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Self reported data that someone else did, yet you’re altering its results to suit your bias. Now how many people of science do that? Skew results to fit their narrative. Oh yeah only women lie. Men have never lied about cheating. Let’s skew the numbers one way only just for fun right? It’s so sad you think you’re some type of champion for the truth, logic and reason when you’re simply not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:05 AM
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Let’s say that on average every man has a mother and a sister. Is it safe to say that every man’s sister or mother has an OF based on your estimates? That’s only to say that you are completely wrong. I don’t understand the infatuation with thinking so many women have an OF when it’s not true. If you’re online a lot maybe. But when you realize not many people spend their time like that you’d realize it’s not that high at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:01 AM
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To beat my man at logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:56 AM
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To beat you at logic. I am winning by the way. Maybe next time bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:55 AM
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You used the same insult. I’m drunk and emotional? At least be creative if you’re gonna do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:55 AM
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I’m not. You are feigning ignorance and boy are you good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:53 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/6RLz5Mzy4k Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:51 AM
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So I can’t talk about you when I challenge you? A troll? Is that a fallacy? Oh is someone mad. Did my trolling get to you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:50 AM
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Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:49 AM
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Things that happened and made you sensitive about said topic. In what way am I in my feelings lol? Just another ad hominem by my bro that’s all about truth and facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:49 AM
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They do but this is also your other tactic. Feign ignorance. So much for a champion of logic and reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:47 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/pxLex3zCpE Original response you either forgot or failed to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:44 AM
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Again, when you’re emotional it’s fine. When you think I’m being emotional it’s not. How hypocritical. You shared your stance. It’s in this thread. Your stance is just that. I could find it and show you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:43 AM
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So how do people discuss with other people? In third person? Indirectly? You really don’t like it when I reference you or speak to you as a person. I already answered that my man, yes. If you forgot or didn’t read it than maybe it’s your reading comprehension that’s an issue. Or is that off limits too?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:42 AM
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You’ve been here’s to share your feelings. If anyone is drunk off emotion it’s you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:40 AM
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To prove that your opinion and feelings about the matter are illogical. Not true. Biased. It still stands. You can’t dispute that so you throw “fallacies” to run away from that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:39 AM
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I told you my man. Want me to tell you again? Cheating isn’t done by more women than men. Spinning your feelings into it doesn’t make it true. It does quite the opposite. I love how you pride yourself on being reasonable and against people that go with how they FEEL yet that’s you. You feel women cheat more because you were cheated on. No factual basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:38 AM
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Now you’re a wordsmith. No way the word attack could mean “diminish credibility”. That’s not a common word used in the news when political opponents attack each other. Attack can only be physical right? You hide so much because you can’t answer honestly. You’re so caught up in finding nuances to win it’s nauseating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:35 AM
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What percent of the population do you think have an OF?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:33 AM
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Money can get you confidence though. That’s how money translates to success.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:32 AM
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No, you are one person. Not humanity. That’s now how statistics work my man. You really rely on your emotion heavily. My statements have been shorter on average compared to your run on sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:30 AM
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Again, my generalization bad. Your generalization good. Is that where you stand? Your few personal stories beat my personal stories?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:28 AM
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Bro your whole point is about how you feel that women cheat more because of your experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:25 AM
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If you can’t understand the fallacies they committed then you’re not really noticing the reality of his points.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:24 AM
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I did answer it. Want me to answer it again? Or are you failing to comprehend anything in this thread when you can’t dispute it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:22 AM
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Ad hominem is an attack. I’m not attacking you. I’m using your data against you. Not hard to grasp. You just don’t like it. So you admit to hasty generalization. If only you’d admit or at least understand your bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:21 AM
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Your opinion is just that. Your opinion. Not factual. Your opinion is biased. As are most opinions. It’s funny you keep saying I’m not making sense when u continuously shorten my statements for you to digest less. Maybe it’s not me it’s your level of comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:19 AM
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It’s funny you call my reasoning generalization yet you have done that continuously through your own example. But it’s fine when you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:17 AM
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It’s fun
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:16 AM
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You can have narcissistic behavior and not be a full blown narcissist. It’s definitely a spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:35 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/iGUsd5Nq1H If you want some proof I’m not just pro women I do tell “women” users when they’re wrong. It’s happen more if they posted as many posts in this sub but this one is primarily men and male oriented.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:32 AM
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Yeah. My continuous response is that cheating is done by both men and women. It’s not gender specific. If women cheat they’re bad people. If men cheat they’re bad people. It’s based off narcissistic behavior not gender. Men in this sub say cheating is okay if they are the breadwinner. Women in this sub say cheating is okay if they’re not content. Either way it’s cheating and it’s a bad character trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:29 AM
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Why do you say it? Because of your bias. This conversation would be easier if you were more honest with yourself. Why do I have to chat with you somewhere else when we’re already doing it here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:26 AM
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It’s not. You can be offended if you choose to. Would you say you’re being disrespectful to women because women cheated on you or no since you have a few data points that showcase your point? I’m using the same data points you are using against women against your point. But again, be offended if that’s an easier out. I’m also not a woman btw. But I am a man that has been cheated on. And I have also heard stories about men cheating on women. And the only thing they all have in common is that they…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:25 AM
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both men and women report the same amount, women tend to characterize it as 'not cheating,' probably self-report that they cheat less It’s right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:09 AM
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It’s not ad hominem unless you interpret it as that. It’s a blatant bias that you have. Your lived experience isn’t ruled out but it’s also not the bases for all of humanity. Do you understand that much? You disregard actual studies since you interpret it as women lie in the studies so the studies are wrong. Bringing actual numbers isn’t the issue. The issue is the bias that you possess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:08 AM
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So your biased interpretation of the actual results are somehow truer than the actual results? Interesting take.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:05 AM
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Not really. What if they’re not good together. Ever think about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:54 AM
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You’re lame
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:50 AM
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There you are making things up. Never said that. If I did go on and point it out. I dare you. You’re trying to bring up logical reasons to why women cheat more yet the blatant reason is it’s you’re doing out of emotion and not reason. If a woman that was cheated on said the inverse of what you’re saying would you then agree that men cheat? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:50 AM
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Oh okay. You’re jaded because you’ve been cheated on. There you go. There’s the bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:40 AM
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That’s lame. Boo. I was hoping you’d at least try. Not once have you been fun to respond to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:39 AM
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Well from what I know /s means sarcasm so interpret the message as such. But I agree with your statement too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:38 AM
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Oh yeah. Tell me more. Try being creative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:30 AM
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You really are bad at coming up with your own thing. You are a bore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:27 AM
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No. Dad issues are your thing. If you want to know more about me you should’ve asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:17 AM
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It’s funny to hit soft spots. Like when your dad dropped you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:13 AM
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You seem to be very keen to women cheating. Have you ever asked men or women about men cheating on them? If not I can see how your skewed perspective came to be. If you want proof in this sub look at posts where men say it’s justified to cheat if they are the breadwinner. If you want to see men cheat go on apps with a female profile and see how prominent it is in dating apps. It’s not a gender issue. It’s a personality issue. All in all to say both sides suck and are capable. Really stupid to sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:12 AM
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Lmao. Is that all you have? So lame. Definitely your father’s son.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:10 AM
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This sub alone is proof since men justify cheating for various reasons. Men wouldn’t know what men try on dating apps so they don’t care or believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:47 AM
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At least I’m trying. Your responses are dry as hell. No wonder you’re bitter. You’re boring as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:45 AM
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I sleep pretty well. Does your dad still tuck you in
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:39 AM
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You never did
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:25 AM
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Forgot to add /s. Understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:21 AM
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Why do you think that is? Is it your bias as a man? This sub should be proof that men cheat as well since many think making a certain amount of money allows them to do that. It’s definitely not based off of gender. It’s character. Shit people are shit. Are women more shit than men? No. It’s equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:20 AM
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Come back for more?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:19 AM
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It was sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:15 AM
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No crime needed. Just don’t get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:56 AM
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It’s different when men do it. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:56 AM
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Do you only care when women cheat? How about when men cheat? You seem to get angry when women cheat. Cheating is all dependent on the individual. I’d say the key trait is narcissistic behavior by the cheater since they see no flaw in cheating. Cheating can occur in other instances but I’m sure narcissists make up the majority of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:56 AM
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It depends on the circle of friends and on the persons demeanor. If you’re not that type of person then someone won’t talk to you about it. But if you do then those conversations can come easily. It’s all about interpersonal relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:19 PM
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So you’re avoiding tackling the topic because you’ll simply say “and so” and poorly research the opposite to be a contrarian? How productive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:09 PM
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So this study you linked is wrong. And I should believe there are other studies that prove it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:01 PM
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Again, I fail to see how that’s a problem. It seems people have a belief that marriages by default are happy and issue free when that’s from reality. People need to stop the fallacy that marriages are necessary when people are getting fine without marriage and long term relationships. The issue seems to be more so people getting into relationships that could either end in long term or marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:00 PM
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It’s like anything else in this sub, people here only love to talk about outliers when most people are average people. Always about OF women, 1% of men, a small subset of people that is idiotic debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:45 PM
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I must’ve replied to the wrong take clearly. Not moving posts. So men aren’t getting married because they prioritize their well being/ mental health/ wealth. That’s good for them. That’s what divorce is for. If you’re not happy for any reason, even those three, either don’t get married or get divorced. There’s reason why men want to get divorced and it’s not solely women’s fault why divorce is sky rocketing. I say men have grievances with divorce because of child support and because they want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:44 PM
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So where are the stats that majority of people are partaking in hookup culture since you’re saying it’s wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:39 PM
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So your social group is swingers. You think everyone else has swingers as the majority of their friends? You literally made a point with limited data points.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:31 PM
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That’s not the argument at all. Try reading again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:30 PM
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It exists but it’s not the majority people in this sub pretend it is. A lot of people in this sub aren’t participating and that showcases how not every group of people participates
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:30 PM
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It’s not victim blaming, just most likely truer than you’d like. Women aren’t bullying men en masse to suicide. I’m sure many men feel depressed due to hardships of life and overwhelming sadness that occurs through existing. Sure there are specific outside forces such as people but if women are at fault for some of men’s suicides so are men. Are men driving other men to suicide due to misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:17 PM
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So if everything is capitalist then the red scare was pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:42 PM
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I doubt there’s any country out there that is self reliant. Every country partakes in trade and that doesn’t make them capitalist by default. If it did then china is capitalist too?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:22 PM
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So they’re socialist and partake in capitalism like Nordic countries so they are capitalist too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:57 PM
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If only you knew words definitions you’d realize you’re the one coping. You only know how to use them as a form of insult. They are socialist if you look at their laws. The world is primarily capitalist so they interact as such. China is communist and they partake in trade. Does that make them capitalist?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:51 PM
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Lmao. They say they are but theyre not? To fit your agenda right? You’re hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:41 PM
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Socialist countries exist and they’re not what you think they are and they usually have a much happier population than the US. It’s funny since I’m sure your idea of a socialist is the one they tell you to be afraid of. I guess ignorance is bliss. The red scare was a failure because it didn’t work. It was just a moronic way to get people you don’t like thrown in jail with little to no reason. And that’s what happened. You could’ve been thrown in jail if I said I don’t like you and think you’re a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:35 PM
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Lmao. You loved the red scare? That’s hilarious. No bro your mind is literally 5 decades behind. That’s impressive and sad. I’d get checked for mental competencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:20 PM
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Lmao “socialist propaganda”? Tell me where you found that information please. Capitalism is when families stay together? Lol Definitely nothing to do with anyone’s happiness and betterment. Are you part of the red scare? How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:14 PM
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Yeah. Nothing like raising kids in a miserable household where the parents aren’t happy and definitely not arguing with each other. Much healthier than divorced parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:51 PM
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There are other changes that happened societally that made it so current dating culture exist. A big one is women aren’t tied to a man since women couldn’t support themselves financially. They had to be wed to survive. Now priority for both men and women is their happiness. No need to be tied down to someone they don’t want to. It’s really not a big deal. You know who gets divorced? Proved in a bad relationship. If you don’t want that then have a good one. Not hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:49 PM
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You have taken all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:46 PM
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So divorce isn’t bad when the man wants it. Only when the women. Not biased at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:45 PM
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That’s interesting. I guess if you make up someone’s life you have control of the narrative instead of asking and listing to someone’s story.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:44 PM
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Still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:11 AM
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Again I wasn’t saying all men. The men I referred to were in reference to the comment I responded to. Men and women have preferences in their partners was my original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:03 AM
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Same mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:53 AM
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You are a man that doesn’t pretend to care about status as the other person. Most men do care about their future partner like you said. Men that pretend they don’t are the desperate ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:52 AM
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Not improving.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:38 AM
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You have poor grammar and can’t read. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:36 AM
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No problem bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:18 AM
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You did as hominem first lmao. I love how you point out fallacious but not your own. You’re very triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:53 AM
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You have a vivid imagination. I guess the post alone was warning enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:51 AM
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Bowing and thanking are not the same. You really are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:47 AM
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Aww you’re offended. How cute. Nothing like a sensitive red pilled man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:47 AM
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Having a good laugh helps so I do thank you for that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:44 AM
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Satire. Only women have unrealistic expectations? Both sides have it. To pretend only one due to bias is bozo behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:43 AM
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Have your dad show you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:41 AM
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You’re not doing either of those lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:41 AM
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It’s not about what you said. It’s about what you can’t read. You really can’t read lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:34 AM
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It’s in your own comments. Maybe if you can research this people will trust your pointless take.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:32 AM
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Yeah that’s you. The dork that thinks is 1% but doesn’t act like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:32 AM
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Where you failed at reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:28 AM
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Not really. It’s capitalism not hunter gathering
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:27 AM
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Not as 1% as you pretend to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:24 AM
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Lmao. Working a safe job is like hunting? You sure love to build yourself up. Can’t have dad’s specialty boy feel like a normal boy. He’s a special boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:23 AM
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Go back a few messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:22 AM
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You don’t have to it’s there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:20 AM
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Income is biology?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:19 AM
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No. You’re just chronically online responding to so many people lol. Loser. I was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:19 AM
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That you can’t read.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:18 AM
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Women existing is generalized. Not that a certain type of women exist. Just that they do exist. You can’t read lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:14 AM
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You do realize I’m the guy that just told you your dad is a failure and it’s fine to be gay right? You are a really bad reader and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:14 AM
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It’s an opinion so it’s your ideal man. Which is funny since it’s also what you claim to be lol. How ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:12 AM
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That women exist? I’m sure they know. Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:11 AM
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Wow women exist. Great take. Women exist with those standards and women exist with other standards. Amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:06 AM
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So an individual you made up. Which makes your statistics meaningless since you’re making it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:56 AM
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You sweet delusional child. You’re the one coping. You keep purposely misinterpreting my comments to fit your narrative. The mind does a lot to protect itself. Yours is definitely working overtime in that department.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:55 AM
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Obviously. Why else would he say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:52 AM
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I am. Free therapy. You’re welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:50 AM
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No such thing as an ideal man. People are generally flawed. Not simping. Just being realistic. Don’t like to deal with outliers like 1% of people when that’s a negligible amount of people. Let’s focus on the bigger picture. But I guess you can’t think. Which makes sense from our conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:50 AM
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Not crying. I’m simply explaining your reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:47 AM
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It’s not hard to grasp. Ask your dad to read it to you if you can’t comprehend simple language.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:36 AM
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I love and respect women. You don’t. Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:35 AM
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Trying to help a troubled man. Men gotta support men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:29 AM
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That’s really cute. Using triggered so loosely. Never said either was bad. You’re just trying to spin it cause you can’t read because your father failed at teaching or because you’re doing one of those fallacies you don’t like. Either are further proof you are both failures without bringing up prenup into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:29 AM
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Raising a son like you sounds like he failed as a father. Therefore he’s a loser. And by proxy so are you. Sometimes the worst thing for a son is a father that stays.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:20 AM
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It’s your lame bro. You’re a tall rich man. Add another tall rich man to the mix what else do you need? A dumb broad? You and your husband can plow them and each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:19 AM
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Maybe you’ll do better with men. Think about it. I’m not. I wasn’t against it but not for me. But just because it’s not for me doesn’t mean I’m against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:16 AM
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Doubt your dad raised you well. Sounds like a loser and you sound insecure and like a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:14 AM
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Not homophobic. I said nice. Proud of you. Women suck by the sound of it, according to you. Maybe a man will be more up your alley and maybe up your ass if you bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:14 AM
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Lmao trying to reverse card it on me. Come up with something original. So lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:10 AM
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Doubt your statement. Don’t believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:10 AM
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Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:06 AM
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Lmao. You have a short fuse. Not uncommon for insecure men. Money is a common tool they use to pretend they’re doing well. Also very forward. Didn’t know you were gay. I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:06 AM
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They can. Why can’t men not cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:59 AM
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Wow that marriage sounds strong already. Definitely gonna end up more bitter after the divorce lmao. Then the second marriage you’ll go for younger and forget about the prenup due to desperation and younger girl and you’ll lose it all. A common thing with men that try to use money as power over loved ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:58 AM
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These are all things people build up to? You think the income you make now is enough for you and a family? Definitely not. It’s called growth. Relationships grow into something over time. If they don’t because one side wants more power, like men with money in your case, it’ll ruin the balance since men think money supersedes anything a woman does so they don’t matter/ opinion doesn’t matter. Usually being felt unheard leads to breakups because a relationship is two people not one in charge of it…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:56 AM
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Thigns?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:53 AM
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So you chose someone you loved over other metrics? How can that be? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:53 AM
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That’s cool. Doesn’t show in your personality. Probably can sense it in person too that you’re on edge that all you have is your 80k a year salary. Which is not much compared to others in richer areas. Definitely more women making more than you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:51 AM
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There are other values rich men have that poorer men don’t and those are all intersocial skills that they get to have due to their wealth and lack of need to worried for money. Not hard to understand interpersonal relationships are multifaceted and not just men are successful because money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:49 AM
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OP is very hilarious. Somehow he expects women in this sub to all have dated 1% of men somehow. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:48 AM
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When you cheat and tell her it’s her fault and she divorces you and you have to pay child support I hope you see the irony
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:47 AM
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With this in mind is marriage and monogamy important for the man for the women to do? Because cheating isn’t monogamy if only half the relationship does it. That would lead to divorce and the rich man would have to pay child support. Do you support broken homes and men paying child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:46 AM
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Bro you’re so ignorant it’s hilarious. How many women in this sub do you think date 1% of men? Honestly. Statistically speaking what are the chances. You’re a hoot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:45 AM
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Lmao that’s nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:43 AM
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Hobby bad? Oh no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:42 AM
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Lmao. It’s so funny that men argue so much on behalf of 1% people when so many average people date each other without issue. You know who has issues with dating. Men. Why because they have shit personality as showcased by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:41 AM
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Lmao you think only men are special enough to date out of their league? Clearly not biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:39 AM
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That’s because your bias as a man is pivotal to you believing it’s a fallacy. What you think matters to men and women in a relationship is learned through biased videos or literature.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:38 AM
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Bro you’re arguing that 1% of men aren’t gonna look at 99% of women? Wow. Statistically speaking it’s obvious but for someone trying to prove an idiotic point like you it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:37 AM
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All those things matter to men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:36 AM
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Men date anyone since they’re desperate not because they want to. They don’t question anything since being alone is their biggest issue and pretend all the issues aren’t problems. Money eventually becomes a problem specially in this economy. Can’t really get by with 1 income anymore so one person in the relationship making more isn’t really important since both people are working to financially provide for the relationship and home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:35 AM
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For a short broke woman maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:32 AM
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Take your time and reread it. Or if you have a question be specific. Not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:31 AM
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Most men value that in women too. Whoopie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:30 AM
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These metrics are stupid since height has nothing to do with success in a woman. Income typically is close or matching the man in those relationships until a child is expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:29 AM
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Isn’t monogamy a thing? Marriage is between 2 people. Someone earlier literally complained about marriage. Either marriage is important and must exist for a society to be possible or a marriage can be bipassed and men can cheat because it’s awesome. The reach is insane. Also what’s the infatuation with 1% of people every time? Why not talk about the majority of relationships. Men are such gossip queens when it comes to this dating stuff lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:28 AM
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They did. You didn’t get the answer you wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:26 AM
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The 1% of men and women typically just stay within their social circles. With people that are actually in the the actual 1% it’s not just about money but also power and influence. Looks are important and they both usually look good by default. Not really primarily about looks but it sure doesn’t hurt when either are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:26 AM
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But now that someone asked you why don’t you answer to give your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:25 AM
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It’s not. If a man is in a sexless marriage and wants sex are you gonna tell him to suck it up and deal with it or encourage him to get divorced and be with someone that wants to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:17 AM
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Depends how you meet women. I’ve taken many women out on cheap down to earth dates because that’s the atmosphere I want to create. Going out is also fun but not always the main thing. Sometimes men are at fault as well since they use their wealth to make up for lack of personality to get a date and offer to pay more for the chance to go on a date even though dates do not equal relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:56 AM
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Men peacock too in different ways. There are different ways to peacock and women can use makeup as that as well. Not necessarily a bad thing unless you want to be offended by it through hilariously bad scenarios like you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:54 AM
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Only with chronically online people. Most don’t think as unhinged as they do online.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:53 AM
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This is the other side of the coin people fail to realize. Yeah long term monogamy is amazing but people change and sometimes that change leads to divorce and separation. Not a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:24 AM
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Algorithms get everyone ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:24 PM
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Wow narcissists bad. What a find. You might get an award for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:00 PM
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You seem to have an infatuation with “healthy relationships” but have become jaded where if you don’t work on yourself you’re the only one preventing yourself from achieving that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:59 PM
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That’s the part that made no sense to me. Why make up a stat to make up for low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:58 PM
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Fearing heartbreak is a dumb reason to make yourself borderline misogynistic. “Women do it more”. You can’t just say that when the real issue is your self esteem. Work on yourself and your relationship and you’ll do well. When a relationship is done it’s done and you come to terms like a proper emotionally stable adult. Relationships in the past didn’t end in divorce for to divorce being shamed, looked down on, and women didn’t make a living due to laws. Now that things changed people realized b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:57 PM
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This sounds like you found narcissistic content creators to somehow think women looking for self help is bad. It’s like saying the men’s version of it is bad when it obviously is as well but self help in itself isn’t bad when done properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:53 PM
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It makes a bit of sense with all the information you withheld. It’s still a stupid comment like you agreed. You used a valid point to just say women that fuck are bad. How is that relevant to the fact other men do settle down with safe options? It’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:36 PM
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Want me to copy and paste everything for you or you want to reread it on your own? Your initial comment made no sense unless you added that conversation you had in your head later explained in our conversation. It makes sense if we all knew your thoughts but that’s not how things work. But you’re slow and don’t know things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:29 PM
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Not an insult. A diagnosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:24 PM
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There is your continued ignorance. I can do it again and you’ll fail to notice it. You can’t even grasp your own idiocy. Very impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:20 PM
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Read my previous comment. It’ll be a waste of time. You’re retarded, not the first or last time you’ll be called that. Saving both of us time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:05 PM
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I can tell. Not the first or last time you’ll be called slow. Mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:00 PM
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I did. Multiple times. You fail to realize how you held a conversation in your head with your simple reply. Your comment like your existence will make no sense with or without context.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:54 AM
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It is. At first it was hilarious now it’s impressive with how you believe you’re right when you’re not. The added context is even more hilarious since you made up all that context in your brain without explaining any of it. But now I see you’re another “men better, high n count bad” when this post is showcasing that men and women are more equal but you choose to ignore it for your bias. Actually you’re really funny at the end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:28 AM
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“Men don't want the wild high n count woman to marry” In reply to: “The point being: men also do this to women” You shoehorned a “high n count bad” comment for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:32 PM
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Yeah. That’s why your comment makes no sense. Someone said men also pick someone as a safe option and you say no because some men don’t want high body count. That doesn’t take away from the other fact. Just shoehorned in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:23 PM
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It can be a good answer for people that just can’t conceptualize certain social cues. It’ll never be enough but to some nothing is ever enough and want every question answered for them instead of figuring out social cues. Not all but many could be on the spectrum for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:04 PM
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It can be a good answer for people that just can’t conceptualize certain social cues. It’ll never be enough but to some nothing is ever enough and want every question answered for them instead of figuring out social cues. Not all but many could be on the spectrum for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:03 PM
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Men doing it doesn’t mean all men. You seem to fail to conceptualize the men means a group of men and not all men. Not hard to understand. Making it irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:00 PM
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There are solutions but a lot of solutions are personal problems. Can’t really zero in on every problem without getting one on one professional help. People’s expectations for help are unreasonable and unrealistic. Making over generalizations are also not helpful as many want to believe they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:31 PM
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This has nothing to do with the previous point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:09 PM
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Sad. But not surprising coming from Red pill brain rot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:58 PM
1

Not necessarily. You’re very proud of your idiotic hypothetical. You delve too much into shitty creativity to be remotely logical. Living in fantasy is helpful for some to make it through life so more power to you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:58 PM
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He’s married and a grown man. Shouldn’t men be better mister red pilled man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:30 PM
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You said it was a hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:30 PM
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It’s not like a there’s a demo for it. It’ll just completely ruin the relationship if you do try it. Not much of a thinker are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:29 PM
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There are added factors to it. Not many 35 year olds can drink as they did a decade ago or compared to the partner they want to get. There are physiological differences that add to incompatibility but young woman sexier and easier to manipulate than someone closer to their age. Anyone can do what they want but there is shared behavior with people that do certain things. Good digging women will gladly go for a rich old guy to get money and a rich old guy hopes to find a woman like that except wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:19 PM
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Men should be a bit more in tune with their emotions as well. If men think women are emotional then they should try to get a grasp of how they work instead of bottling them up. It’ll allow for better communication and a stronger relationship because of it. With a better understanding of emotion and feeling men can easily learn how to turn on their partners which seems to be a huge issue with men in this sub. Women can enjoy sex but how can they be turned on when the attempt is so lack luster and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:40 AM
2

So you’re saying men aren’t strong since they can’t stay at home? I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:35 AM
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Because people are in relationships when they shouldn’t be, both men and women and neglect their children
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:03 PM
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If you want to get married vet women. I’m proposing men take control of their lives and find meaningful relationships not half ass them and make themselves and their partners miserable down the line. Why do you think relationships end? Expiration date? No. Lack of compatibility, communication, and chemistry. You want to find someone to not be alone, if you feel desperately alone go to therapy and find out why. Your partner shouldn’t be responsible for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:55 PM
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Yeah, that’s always funny when men think they’re nice to all women. I always bring up what if an ugly fat women walks up to you and thinks your hot and wants to be with you, do you talk or walk away and want to be left alone? Well that’s how most women feel when they get random hit on. Men think they deserve some type of magical treatment when they clearly don’t give it. It’s comically sad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:42 PM
2

So you just want to settle for a short lived relationship? Is that the goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:38 PM
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Lol. It’s funny you think you have one by butting into a conversation you’re not involved in. Care to explain how his plan to separate man and woman is even somewhat tethered to reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:37 PM
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In a way yeah. But if it’s physical abuse then the man should be taken to justice as well. Women that stick around, specially if they have children, in a horrible household are responsible for it. But there are factors that people that haven’t gone through it won’t know. If there are children involved being with a shitty partner seems better than being a single parent. What does one choose? Being single is better but it is a hard option to choose. And also putting your partner in jail is hard bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:35 PM
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Lol, settling will only lead to divorce. Are you for divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:33 PM
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Men think women are treated nicely because men don’t support each other. Men are nice to women, or at least think they are, and expect it to be reciprocated for some reason instead of having stronger bonds with other men to support each other just how women support other women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:32 PM
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That’s because men make it miserable for themselves. Men can live their own meaningful lives but they expect a relationship to give their life meaning somehow even though they clearly lack purpose without a partner. If men can learn to be okay single and not so desperate to be in a relationship then they would most likely find better long lasting relationships. But instead people get in shitty relationships because no one in the relationship knows what they want And I’ve said it before, who’s ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:29 PM
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So wouldn’t you want to find someone attracted to you or why even bother? The reason why that is is men don’t try. The goal is not being single. It’s not really finding a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:25 PM
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Lol. I love how the only thing men care about are looks. When a relationship is based on vanity it’s only gonna last a bit. Things will unravel and someone will realize they don’t really like their partner since they know nothing about them. It’s also funny that men continuously say they’re shamed yet continue to do it. As if the shaming doesn’t matter. Just how men are shaming women for high body count. Shame goes around that comes around. Men don’t have to lower their standards for looks. Clea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:38 AM
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It’s not. You probably have a shit personality and clearly don’t care about woman other then being with them so you don’t understand. Clearly you do if that’s what happened. If men learn to vet more then they will get a better hand of it. It’s like any other skill, practice makes perfect. If men say yea to any woman agreeing to be with them instead of vetting for a good partner for themselves then what do they expect if not failure. You’re in a partnership with a stranger. Not someone you care a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:31 AM
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Yeah. Attraction isn’t everything. Attraction is just the book cover. You will judge a person completely based on looks? You don’t want to know anything about your future partner? Just they look good? What if they’re in debt but you don’t find out til it’s too late. What if they have don’t want kids and you do and you find out years into it? Why don’t men raise their expectations and expect more out of their partner other then looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:28 AM
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It’s not that they don’t want it easy. They’d rather not waste their time with someone their other compatible. Men are just desperate and want any women to be with. Men should raise their expectations and then they’d have a better idea of their partner. Not just whoever is around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:24 AM
2

More like a fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:01 AM
1

Lol. So your self help is don’t change. Amazing work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:00 AM
1

So you want people to not make sense of their lives and behavior irrationally? You’re not really a positive influence if that’s the case. Why should anyone listen to that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:52 AM
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Lol. If anything men don’t evaluate since they will be in a relationship with anyone they find attractive without really caring about the person. Women’s expectations make it so they find someone they actually want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:47 AM
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Women don’t blame men for not meeting their expectations they just move on. Men hate expectations because they can’t meet them nor do they want to raise their expectations to help find a partner. Men just want it easy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:46 AM
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It doesn’t make men do any of that though. If you don’t like big women, another woman berating you doesn’t mean it’ll make someone immediately date them. Both sides have annoying people but they don’t really matte
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:45 AM
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Lmao. Have you dated any of them? Probably not. You have freedom of choice and to think you don’t is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:44 AM
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No one should settle. If you settle you’ll only think of what your missing out until the relationship ends. Men shouldn’t settle, but are uncomfortable being single when they shouldn’t. Women don’t settle because they’re comfortable being single. Being in a relationship won’t help fix someone’s life and men think that for some reason men should try to learn to live with themselves and improve their life because a relationship is a combination of theirs and their partners. Not some magical concep…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:43 AM
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Exactly. A relationship takes two people working it out together. That is a hard thing to do. People can barely work with themselves so to expect a forced relationship is odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:41 AM
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As a man, would you want someone you’re not attracted to you to come to you and demand a relationship or linger on longer then they should? Probably not. Being bothered is never really sought after. Do you like robo calls? Do you like when you walk into a store and sales people swarm you? Probably not. Again, I don’t get why men think it makes sense to bother people. Clearly me saying it doesn’t matter to people like yourself. But I hope other sensible people read it and get what I’m trying to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:37 AM
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Do you not want to help men by helping them understand things that won’t work for them? Would you rather they run around bugging women which won’t necessarily make women want to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:30 AM
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Lmao. You won’t be happy because someone is in your life. A relationship is betterment of both lives and you seem like a miserable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:27 AM
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It is possible. Do things you like and make you happy. Being in a relationship won’t make you happy. If you’re sad and alone being in a relationship will make you sad and with someone that’s now responsible for your well being which surprise won’t end well since your partner isn’t your therapist Friends do help. If you don’t get joy out of friends or your own life get therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:20 AM
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That still doesn’t make them a strangers responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:15 AM
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It is self hatred. It’s combined with depression as well. It’s understandable at a degree but when they get all anti women it’s weird. Like I understand being sad and alone sucks but at the same time a relationship won’t fix their life but they think that somehow. It’ll just change from being sad and alone to sad with someone. Men really aren’t big on self help other than exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:26 AM
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But you’re not. You have a master plan to somehow defund women. As if that would ever happen. If you really wanna date women why are you trying to sabotage them? Do you not understand how comical that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:23 AM
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Lol. To think you can somehow get accounting to work in a manner where fund will be allocated by genders is comical. Full equality by separation lmao. Bro you’re a fool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:20 AM
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Lmao. You’re gonna take this to the government or what? 😭 You’re hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:17 AM
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Being treated badly is all a personal experience. Then make being single as a men as fun. Stop whining about it. Go live your life how you want to without making others lives miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:14 AM
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How do you plan on doing that? Other then harassing them? Why not live your life and let everyone else live theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:13 AM
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Lol. All men do in this sub is self own. They literally say things that make it seem like they hate women yet they’re so desperate to date them as well. I wonder why these men have issues with women after wanting to bring them down a peg.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:06 AM
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Lol. Guys aren’t treated badly. Men take being single badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:02 AM
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Lol. You think harassing woman for being single will make them want a relationship? If anything it will continue to make them single or maybe have relationships with women if men are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:01 AM
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I’m aware. It was sarcasm since it’s clearly not the real reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:02 PM
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Having kids is honestly wild. I feel like with how we treat kids with more respect now that’s also another reason we don’t want to ruin someone’s life since we understand how difficult it is to properly raise a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:35 PM
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You think it’s good faith. It’s a weird conversation to have. You’re treating woman, or rather people, as resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:23 PM
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The best country. Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:41 PM
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It’s not. I’m asking you which you’d prefer. Which you’d choose. Typically mechanic shops won’t give you your mechanics IQ test. But would you want the one with years of service that has experience and certification. Or the younger one with certification?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:54 AM
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lol. I love how behavior is based on gender. Like most men, very narrow minded. Yeah. Women get laid easier because men throw themselves at women. Not really a new discovery. Men will fuck almost any woman out of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:31 AM
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Lol. I love how the first reason is contraceptives. Is that what’s going on in Japan? A lot of sex and a lot of birth control?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:50 AM
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So if you had to pick between a 15 year old and a 25 year old mechanic who would you pick to fix your car?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:21 AM
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But it is. How is something that’s unbiased suddenly biased? Just because you don’t like it? Therapy worked for me because I was able to be vulnerable with a stranger that knows how to assist in those situations. Most men are scared of being open even to a professional. Like I mentioned before, people withhold information even from a doctor because they’re afraid of what bad things can be found. People are afraid and that’s normal but no one can force someone to talk and open up if they choose n…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:20 AM
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Are they better? Younger women on average aren’t fully employed so they don’t pay their half and reliant on someone til they complete school. Conversation wise, if you have more similar interest to a younger person it’s due to immaturity. Personality is completely dependent on preferences. Do I wanna hear a younger woman rant about her life and non issues or about how her and her friends had a wild weekend? Absolutely not. That’s annoying. Less baggage, no. Everyone has different lives so baggag…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:07 AM
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Well that’s your choice. Then it’s just gonna be a woman taking your money, something men also hate. Something men do on their own will yet make themselves think they were they ones coerced into it because certain men can’t think long term. So in a way while looking out for women men also get a heads up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:09 AM
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Care to explain
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:36 PM
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It’s not necessarily fun anytime in life, young or old.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:02 PM
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Perhaps you misunderstand one smart 19 year old with all of them being geniuses. If one stands out that’s because the rest aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:01 PM
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Lol. Isn’t it proven that older people vote the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:59 PM
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I mean there are idiots that make it past that age too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:58 PM
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It’s interesting people get caught up on the 25 part even though I’m not saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:57 PM
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Is it because they want to get with you? Or is it because you are much older for someone that young and have no commonalities. Typically there will always be someone you’re attracted to. I’m sure you do that daily. And when you do it constantly to someone that could be 18-20 their age could be possibly younger since sometimes ages do blend. I’d say it’s better to not let intrusive thoughts like that take over unless you verify more info like age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:18 PM
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It’s a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:12 PM
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Yeah, so that goes to show that with age decisions change and the younger someone is the less informed their decisions are. Which is why mentoring a younger person is nice and why one side sees a power dynamic issue (experience versus lack of) and the other see jealousy and policing because they can’t see the power imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:12 PM
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So most men think they’re trash, except in this scenario where women are Sun Tzu?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:11 PM
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So a 25 year old on average will as good as an option as a 15 year old? In those 10 years of development and knowledge they will not improve anything at all in their choice making?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:10 PM
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No, your convoluted responses probably confuse you as well. You’re on the side that age is a number. “It’s not like 50% of the brain is pending”. So on your camp there is no difference between an 18-40 year old. And now I’m asking a personal question, do you make better decisions as you age or have you always have the same level of decision and choice making
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:09 PM
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But how often do you make dumb mistakes and how detrimental are they to your life. No one is perfect but there is a difference between mistakes done in late teens and as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:06 PM
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Lol. You do realize you are on the opposite side of the coin of being butthurt. Look at the time you take to type things I don’t even read lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:05 PM
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It’s not a conspiracy. Clearly a grown man can easily wow an impressionable 20 year old with little effort. “Look at what I can buy with my full time job, now let’s sleep together” Also in theory isn’t the old man chad you guys hate so much as well. So on one side you hate this person but now defend them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:08 AM
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I’d love to see the numbers for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:06 AM
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Haven’t you seen legislation for it it’s everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:05 AM
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You’re not since it gets posted at least once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:03 AM
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lol. I love how you misread that civil and levelheaded conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:03 AM
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Ah yes, age doesn’t play into development at all. Let’s just pretend we have the same mind from 13-death and there’s no difference because men want to use that as an excuse for sleeping with younger women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:56 AM
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That makes sense. At that age women do want to defend other women even though they don’t see you’re not necessarily shitting on them. Kinda how guys do it as well. If anything, like most of life, it’ll get better since they’ll get to learn as well as yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:54 AM
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Lol, so you can wholeheartedly tell me that everyone makes better decisions when they’re 18 rather then when they are 28?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:52 AM
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Where exactly did I say that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:51 AM
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If you’re “young” age could be part of that too. I don’t experience it much but I can definitely see that virtue signaling can be critical in adult development. Just how guys are discriminating women for their rights women do it as well. Both sides have their issues and it’s much harder when both don’t realize they’re not much different and that most people are blasé, if no one is hurting anyone then it’s fine. But also oversharing is kinda weird. I feel like people will listen but will also rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:28 AM
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That’s true. But with age comes knowledge and with knowledge a more developed and critical thinking brain someone will have. If you think 25 is a dumb standard, the lack of one is also pretty far fetched since how are these things graded then. You believe a immature teen telling you their more mature, something every teen believes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:21 AM
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It’s not. 18 is fresh out of high school. Much closer to early teen than 20s mentality. There is a difference in thought pattern and choice making, you just want to pretend it doesn’t exist to make yourself feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:18 AM
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Since you made up women choosing jealousy I’ll add men’s ideas of grandeur thinking that women will be using tactics to get with them. How do you parry that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:17 AM
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Lol. Tell me more about this fun terminology. I love TRP lore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:37 AM
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I’m not assuming with you, it’s just the miscommunication can be a number of reasons. Perhaps they are promiscuous. In a way it’d be if a woman says they don’t want a shorter guy then them. It’s their choice but if they tell that to someone short that would affect them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:35 AM
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Lol. Why would anyone want to hear what you don’t want in a partner. If you can’t understand why someone doesn’t want to hear you talk badly about someone then you just don’t understand having conversations. There are things you don’t necessarily need to share. Would you also bring up other aspects about your future partners sexuality like “must give oral, must have sex x times a week”. It is weird to bring up. It’s not that you can’t be picky, you think anyone wholeheartedly cares about who you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:20 AM
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Lol. Does that change what the other person said, they literally and unironically used the word poontang to justify going after younger woman. That’s gross and immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:48 AM
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Then explain to them why you’re not. Clearly it has to do with how you’re communicating your ideas. And like I said, if you don’t want that then you also don’t have to share it. Why not talk about what you do want instead of not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:44 AM
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It could be that you could say off putting statements as I’ve mentioned If you find a promiscuous women what do you do? Shame them? Tell them women shouldn’t be so promiscuous? Why would anyone listen to a stranger? Just cause you want that doesn’t mean anyone has to listen or follow your order. You can want that and that is for you to deal with. Not expect the world to do it for you. A constant example is no fat chicks. You know what happens if you feel that way too? Avoid them. That’s it. No o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:24 AM
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Yeah. Variables are huge. So that’s why men obsessed with age is weird since they think all young women are the same. They’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:22 AM
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Can you prove that jealousy is the main factor? If not then you’re just saying it as an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:21 AM
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No one is. Men take it as such because men take everything critically. If you don’t want a promiscuous women you simply don’t date them. That’s it. Shaming them and also demanding all women to not be promiscuous to improve the dating pool you want is the part that doesn’t make sense. If you want a virgin they’re out there, they might not be attractive or to your liking but they’re out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:03 AM
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Jealousy can always be a factor but when used as a reason to not believe the rest it is in bad faith. I’d say the jealous factor is almost negligible factor unless you can prove it otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:01 AM
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Lol. That article is full of “scientist not sure”. Which is fair since it is relatively new. Would you think you are more mature now or when you were younger? Do you make better decisions now or when younger? There is development in people and it doesn’t peak when they mature hormonally. When that age is a huge variable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:45 AM
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Yeah. It’s up in the air, I didn’t say it was solid evince nor did I say exactly 25. But as you age you do become more certain of choices and lifestyle as opposed to being young and more impresionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:42 AM
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It matters because what do you to children. You teach them. So women teach young women about manipulative men. That’s why it happens. I also didn’t used the word studies lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:40 AM
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Yeah. You’re right again. Sex isn’t a big deal and people so hyper focused on it are weird and unaware of what matters. Guys should stop placing such sex at the level of importance it has.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:45 AM
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It’s not magical. Can you think more comprehensibly as you get older? Can you make better choices as a 25+’year old than you did when you were 13, 18, 21? Most likely. Yes there’s always variables but the norm is the norm. Meaning average. Edit: since i just remembered how I felt and I’m sure most others feel, when you’re 16-18 everyone thinks they’re more mature. Does that mean that makes it true? Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:44 AM
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The first rule to kinks is there is agreement or else it’s sexual assault. It needs all agreeing parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:42 AM
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Attraction is still odd since I’m all honestly men do check out underage women unbeknownst to them. Does that make it better? No. Neither does using a matured brain to overpower an immature one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:41 AM
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Voting is a completely different issue. Not that you’re wrong nor do I disagree but getting legislation to change that will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:40 AM
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Online and real life aren’t the same. And pedo isn’t the term that gets thrown around, typically people use grooming more often. You’re just using these choice of words to get others to agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:07 AM
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It’s not the same. Men can and do have preferences. If men didn’t then they’d have to date whoever they were told to. Just how men aren’t forced so shouldn’t women and if a woman wants to give a heads up to another woman then so be it. If women giving each other advice just how men do affects you negatively then maybe their advice is working at keeping the creeps away
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:06 AM
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Lol, it’s not because of that. Men can have their preferences. Women are just tired of men aiming at unsuspecting younger women that don’t know better. Yes they’re adults but what’s wrong with an adult giving another adult a heads up about someone potentially manipulating them because they’re gonna be used. If you have this level of discontent with women and think men don’t have rights then you’ve just spent way too much time online where it’s unhealthy. Clearly you are critical towards woman to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:04 AM
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Also add the fact that the younger women will grow and develop into someone different within a few years while the man will stay the same. When the woman matures the man will lose interested since some men just want a doe eyed woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:01 AM
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25 is the age where most adults start to fully develop their brain. Not a meme, but rather studied. Age and experience come hand in hand for the most part. But definitely money and age since money can get people to do things and age gives people that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:58 AM
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When you think about brain development 18 years olds are children compared to a matured 25+ year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:55 AM
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