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CMVOrangematcha/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:01 PM
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Sure thing buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:02 PM
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I’m wrong, says the biased red pilled man. Okay buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:18 AM
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Your battle is against women, not men. Clearly it’s because women only showcase the bad behaviors. Men are little angels. If you’re gonna be a misanthrope you gotta hate both equally. Be a little honest with yourself and others. Either you truly hate both or just women. I’m going with you hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:10 AM
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Where did I say I didn’t? Show me? Or are all the facts you have in your head? I love how you didn’t deny the hypocric allegation. Must be true then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:09 AM
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Your perception of women seems to be completely logistical void of any humanity. Partly because of a confirmation bias since you probably haven’t had woman sexually aroused or orgasm which is sad but it doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. It just hasn’t happened to you. The variable you’re looking for isn’t women, the variable that’s the problem is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:30 PM
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Oh. So only women manipulate men. There’s the bias. Men are sweet baby angels and women are devils. Not very reasonable my man. Get a new username.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:16 PM
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I didn’t say I didn’t. But you don’t like it when others do it yet you do it. Hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:15 PM
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Not really. You’re being hysterical because you want women to be nicer to you but they aren’t. You have an issue with women since they don’t like you or want to go out with you. That’s your real issue. You’re conflating it with other things. Behavioral issues transcend gender, race, and creed. You have no issues with men since you’re not trying to fuck them. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:25 PM
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Bringing up bias when you clearly have one against women. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:23 PM
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Where’s the data for that other than in your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:47 PM
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The reason they said Stacy is because men like you go for particular woman that behave that way. If you vet woman you’ll find ones not going for a free meal. It’s not that hard. It’s just you guys always go for Stacy’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:46 PM
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If you feel that way maybe you should get your dates more and don’t be so desperate. Clearly there are simply woman that suck and doing that in a way that. A men variation is one that pretends to care about a woman only to smash and then leave. At the end of the day, people suck, regardless of gender. It’s just that you chose to be bothered more by woman since you want to date them and they aren’t particularly attracted to you so you take it personally. If a man is impartial to you that’s okay s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:45 PM
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It’s not one direction. Due to confirmation bias that’s how to take it. Plenty of women out there that don’t get good support and plenty of men that do. In order for you to commit to being anti woman/ taking them down a peg, you have to believe what you believe. A lot of the cases if you personally don’t have a good support system as a man you feel like most men aren’t. Not true. Don’t conflate your biased reality with everyone’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:41 PM
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I mean there’s a lot of other guys like you, and OP, painting women as devils and men as gods. It seems that creativity a narrative goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:37 PM
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So women aren’t harmless and men aren’t harmless. So you just want to take women down a peg just because you’re emotional and biased against women. Pretty sure if a man is committing DV you’d turn a blind eye since it’s not your business but if a woman is committing DV it’s the end of the world. Pretending to care about morality when it’s really a stupid gender ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 01:31 AM
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Other men create a fantasy too. Such as they are more willing to date any woman. It’s women that are the issue. You also have the fantasy you can’t do any of those things to women. You can. You’re just not satisfied and want them to be taken down a peg
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:58 AM
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You think you’ll make remarkable changes to women whom you only talk to for days? People in general have behavioral issues. People suck. It’s not just a woman’s issue. Woman can be annoying and suck but I’ve never had to potentially fight one because they got mad at me. I’d have to do that with men over nonsense. But only women need a fix to RP guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:00 PM
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It seems you’re holding them accountable. Most people don’t hold them accountable since there’s no point. Done wanting to talk to the woman, just leave her specially if they’re hysterical. Not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:54 PM
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Have you ever thought that you can also turn down women for not meeting your requirements? Wild guess but I’d assume a requirement for you would be low body count. If she had a high one what would you do? You also have other requirements as well. No way you’d date someone that isn’t gonna be contributing financially. Could you afford a stay at home gf now or ever? Probably not. Men have prerequisites as well but want to pretend they don’t. That only affects you negatively by thinking negatively …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:45 AM
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You do realize she may not be the most versed in that type of stuff? She’s dealing with women as a woman. Her advice is good for other lesbians. Butch lesbians fit a specific dynamic that other lesbians are looking for so even though she’s butch she’s still dealing with woman differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:43 AM
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Or, wild take, making a joke and trolling on OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:39 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:15 PM
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Yes. Something your claiming to be own your own volition. No one claimed your humble other than yourself. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:14 PM
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Ironic calling yourself humble when you’re online doing quite the opposite. Men can be humble and then there’s pompous men like yourself making baseless claims online to push the narrative “men good woman bad”. Not very humble if you tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:00 PM
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Yes. It would bother me enough to cut ties. Can you not comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:58 PM
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If it was someone I knew they’d still be creeps. Creeps try to hide. If I saw the behavior I’d simply dissociate. I don’t like creeps. I sing want to be uncomfortable around people. It’s pretty easy to cut ties specially with weirdos. I wouldn’t support it or align myself with that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:08 PM
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Exactly. Billionaires benefit. Is the average person a billionaire? I would guess no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:05 PM
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Liability. If an llc has to go bankrupt, better not mix finances. Not all employers have benefits in general. Symbolism is whatever it is to the person. You brought it up as a benefit. It’s not. Individual finances and couples finances differ. Not cookie cutter. Men making more but more to spend on kids Statistics say otherwise. Marriage down. Birth down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:11 PM
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Taxes only matter to certain people. Not all. Taxes also adds other liabilities which would make it better to not file together. You can still have a dependent with not marriage. Symbolism is just that. It doesn’t matter to everyone. To some, like me, it’s stupid. Insurance is up anyways due to the economy. Not every job has premiums for marriage. As far as I can tell it’s only the military. You can still get maternity and paternity leave if you have a kid without being married. Marriage is dyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:56 PM
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That’s the assumption you have as a biased man. Normal women and men aren’t demanding marriage. Statistics show that. Marriage is down in general. Not up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:52 PM
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It honestly doesn’t make sense to get married. Why spend on a wedding when you can vacation for a month with that much money? Why get paperwork involved? That one only made sense for people in the army to get extra money out of it. Otherwise it made no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:28 PM
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According to who? A jaded red pilled man online? Marriage is down in general my man. So are birth rates. People are still living their lives and just not getting the government involved for their relationship. I’ve been in multiple LTR and none have asked for marriage. It’s not for everyone just how hookup culture is not for everyone. LTR is the new marriage not hookup culture. Hookup culture is what it is and will continue to be its own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:06 PM
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Hookup culture skews younger. LTR are replacing married not hookup culture. Hookup culture exists with certain individuals. Not everyone is down to fuck casually, some even can’t fuck casually. Bad comparison. Bad argument. 2/10
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:22 PM
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You’re acting like you don’t have to have a conversation with someone to get to that point of LTR. You magically skip over the getting to know each other phase? I’m sure if they were in grade school you’d still be interested. Seems nothing an issue for you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:58 PM
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It’s shallow to be aware what the younger generation is into? As typical you didn’t even answer such an easy question. Like most people with predatory tendencies you must be hiding something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:46 PM
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I explained it pretty clearly. It’s superficial. It’s not built to last. It’s a trade off relationship. It’s for narcissists. Typically not good people, men or women, partake in age gap relationships for the immediate benefits they get for being with the other individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:56 PM
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How would we know that? Every time I’ve seen age gap relationships it’s been out and about and the woman is shopping and it’s on his dime. The likelihood it happens on a low income older man is slim to none.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:50 PM
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Generational differences make for quite a gap with commonality. Obviously there are outliers. You watch tik toks and post on social media like the newer generations do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:49 PM
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I’m weird for being disgusted by your behavior? Have you ever heard of preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:48 PM
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Most couples are together for each other. Financial support is all some of the older men start off as. They have less commonality since they are from different generations. What they have in common is they’re both superficial. Men likes young woman, woman likes rich guy to fund her life. That’s an off putting relationship since it’s a facade
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:55 PM
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It’s not hate. It’s disgust
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:53 PM
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That’s not really cool though. A lot of people have money for a multitude of reasons and waste it stupidly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:52 PM
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My guy can’t even read the part where I disrespect women in it. Crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:51 PM
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No, I literally explained why. I even attacked women to make you feel better too. Learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:50 PM
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Fashion can be done at any price point. I thrift a lot. Good stuff. There’s not really pandering. That’s just how you see it. Men don’t provide positive reinforcement like women do. Maybe men should do better. Like you should if you think being evil is good. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:50 PM
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What gender are fucbois? It seems you have a problem with only half the equation of that relationship and it seems to not be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:56 AM
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I feel like men find age gap relationships off as well. As a guy I don’t see an old man and a younger woman and think “that man rules”. It’s off putting. Obviously people can do what they want but the optics is off putting. Clearly money is involved, age gap relationships there is less common ground other than financial stability from the man and attractiveness from the women. It’s weird women are okay with men for money that way and it’s weird men are okay with “buying” love. They’re not relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:55 AM
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It’s an online discussion. It’s not as if she’s partaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:49 AM
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A yes. Women bad. Men are the ones being exploited. It’s all based off age groups of women. Once they turn 30 they’re all evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:49 AM
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They should find something to help them out. Why live in misery? If women can find an avenue so can men. As a man I use fashion and do some form of self care that makes women attracted to me. It’s possible. No need to take someone else down to build yourself up. That’s what evil people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:45 AM
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Ugly men should feel good about themselves too. “Humbling” someone because you have low self esteem is pretty stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:39 AM
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In a world of hypotheticals this is one possibility. Not what’s gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:38 AM
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Did OP mention prostitutes or you did that to make a poor comparison to give yourself an easy out? I can sense the insecurity through our conversation. Sad. Hanging out with friends. Usually good. Hanging out with prositutes, usually bad. Not the same comparison there buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:04 PM
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Having boundaries is fine. No one is saying that’s the issue. The issue is that the reason for that boundary is an insecurity. Being insecure is fine but that is the sole reason for that boundary, not because of a gender or relationship things. Insecurities affect different people differently. Not everyone has the same insecurities so OPs opinion isn’t really valid for everyone. Every example you made just shows how insecure you are and maybe, just like OP, how inexperienced you are. Whether it …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:30 PM
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It’s a huge insecurity to believe that you’ll be cucked just for allowing your partner to travel without you. You’re deluded for not understanding that more secure individuals are okay with that. It’s really not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:53 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:09 PM
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Your insecure and due to your insecurity you made a preference to woman you date. You’re not dealing in stocks my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:09 PM
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You created a scenario in your head and found a solution for it. Tell the presses. “OP has figured out what boundaries are”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:07 PM
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It’s a fantasy that you guys tell other poor lonely men. Not every man that partakes in passport bro mentality (a rebrand of sex tourism by the way) will get lucky. They’ll fail at home, they’ll fail abroad. And your story reads like a poorly written YA novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:07 PM
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Fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:18 AM
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Skinny and attractive aren’t the same thing. And just like anything else with online opinions, I take lies with a grain of salt. Somehow undatable men with lack of experience with women, dating get the courage and charisma to woo women with a language barrier. Big fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:30 PM
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There you go. The one lie passport bros tell online is they don’t partake in sex workers but it’s obvious they do. It’s a rebrand of sex tourism. That’s why it’s seen as gross
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:21 PM
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That’s a fantasy though. Better chances when they didn’t have any at home? A lot of dating has to do with character. Traveling builds character but it takes a lot to be a datable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:10 PM
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I do. And it’s a joke. A lot of money to be made off men’s insecurities. Weak men flock to it and unfortunately suffer from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:47 PM
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That’s changing the purpose of passport bros. They travel for women or to get women. Everything else is an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:46 PM
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Not really. If you intend to marry and import her back home you’ll have to pay later. Also how many trips and money wasted traveling before you find someone. If you can’t find someone at home I’ll guess it’ll take a few trips.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:45 PM
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That’s not the reason though. It’s literally to find a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:44 PM
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You’re definitely reaching. At the end of the day passport bros are hilarious because they hate western women that aren’t up to be sub/ do what the man wants and claims western women just want and don’t give. How much money is it gonna take to travel around the world, pay for paperwork, etc for the marriage to happen? If a man isn’t capable of doing the more common and basic way of getting a partner, they’re not gonna jump over even more hurdles for it. I also love the assumption that other coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:44 PM
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When a large majority are the weakest links what does that convey about the movement?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:40 PM
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Exactly. It’s not any different. If they don’t have a chance where they’re from, they won’t have one abroad. Unless they pay. Which defeats their passport bro mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:38 PM
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Men have standards as well, they’re just so desperate for a relationship that they “compromise” with the type of women they get with. This compromise is simply to get in the relationship. The relationship will be rocky since they’re not a good pairing and one half of the relationship is pretending to be okay with the compromises. Men should be fine with being single and not settling. It’ll be better for LTR. I feel like most standards are universal. Has something going for themselves and moral (…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:52 PM
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This didn’t answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:50 PM
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I think what you’ve realized is that dating is hard not that you’re in the dating pool. You think you’re being treated unfairly because of your quirks but what are you expecting? For dating to be easier? Just how you’re not someone’s preference, others aren’t your cup of tea you’re not gonna bend the knee at people you don’t want to date just to be nice. Wouldn’t make sense. If anything I’d think you’re being treated equally. Do you want to be pandered to instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:57 AM
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Picky is good. Not everyone is built to care for their partner like that. Some people can. If one has to be a caretaker for their partner it can easily lead to resentment or apathy. Don’t relationships that have a big medical accidents take huge hits and they potentially end? I for one wouldn’t be able to care for a partner from the beginning. If something happened where they became disabled I would think I can but who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:11 AM
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Are you yourself autistic? I only ask because, as you point out others bias, you could have your own. A correlating statistic could be that of marriage, dating, and birth rate. People aren’t generally trying to be stuck in relationships they’ll be unhappy with so everyone is much more picky on their partner. You can add neurodivergence as a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:04 AM
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Is this a pandemic in your school? Or are you being hyperbolic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:33 AM
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That’s cool. Let’s ask ourselves, would we want to be roman slaves or not? Why bring such random questions up. Do you think the number of slaves that enjoyed captivity outnumbers the ones that didn’t? Dealing in outliers is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:29 PM
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History sucked for most people. Women were property to a degree. Men didn’t matter if they were poor. Historically life sucked more for some than others. Being poor and not mattering is better than being property.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:28 AM
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Your post will be answered in the future with experience and age. Your perception of men as creeps is stereotypical. It can happen but they’re outliers. Most average men are normal and will continue to be so after a divorce. It’s similar to a break up, just with paperwork. With experience of dating, and marriage/ divorce, just comes a more experienced person person. Jaded people can come out of divorces and “divorce dad” is a stereotype but that is an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:32 PM
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You get the lamest comment award
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:27 PM
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Married isn’t by default with children. Specially not now as birth rates gone down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:26 PM
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Lmao. So dramatic. If they’re the enemy then marry an ally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:25 PM
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It’s not necessarily new. Are we comparing relationships to recent generations or the 1800s? What’s a more reasonable comparison?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:25 PM
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That’s been the case for what, 3 generations?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:35 AM
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The behavior you’re explaining is quite common behavior. Not everyone’s trying to be rude to others. Passive politeness is simple. Holding doors when entering buildings, small talk, etc. but obviously you don’t have to participate and you don’t when you don’t want to. In your examples of narcissistic behavior, it can occur, but narcissists usually don’t let that be known about them til much later. They pretend to be normal and then change up their demeanor. They trick to get what they want and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:56 AM
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How has tech made it easier for SAHP? Microwaving food? Go on. Give examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:51 AM
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Working is harder. It’s similar to how SAHP is more than just the simple tasks. The extras add on to the stress. But if done together and properly it can be possible to balance. But most couples can’t afford a SAHP even though at times it is cheaper than paying a caretaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:05 AM
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You’re okay with leaving kids with an iPad? That’s kinda bad parenting no?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:03 AM
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The pot calling the kettle black. Delusions come from both sides. Another factor is self sabotage, as seen in your title. It’s not necessarily healthy to think the group you’re dating is against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:13 AM
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Source? Or should I just trust you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:51 PM
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No, that’s a creative way to interpret the conversation. If anything your vocab is simple since it’s just one you copied from your community. Like the personality you copied. The mentality. It’s adorable. It’s like a boy band no one’s interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:02 PM
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It’s not semantics. You’re just being creative in your writing to make the simple daily tasks seem more important than they really are. It’s cute. RP are dramatic and I do envy that. I wish my imagination was as wild as yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:54 PM
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I don’t interrogate someone I’m trying to date. You can have a normal conversation with women just how you do men. It’s not as serious as you’re making it out to be. You red pillers are so colorful in your writing. It’s cute but that makes it sound not serious. Do you interrogate other bits of information from people? Or only when you’re interested in a woman? Am i interrogating you now? Are the interrogators in the room?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:26 PM
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In that case both people are toxic and sometimes those people deserve each other. Not much we can do for everyone. Obviously it sucks for both sides and at times more one than the other. People put up with a lot on both ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:18 PM
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I’m not disagreeing. It’s still hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:12 PM
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Exactly. If he’s so far off the deep end believing in hypergamy in humans there’s no saving OP. Yet another failed association of attributes in other species used poorly on humans to prove a point. If anything it’s creative and cute but it’s still incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:11 PM
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“Interrogate”. How healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:09 PM
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I’m a big fan of the creativity of this sub. On both sides. It’s whimsical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:09 PM
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I don’t get why the idea of choice is bad. Not everyone is trying to just tie it to someone they don’t like or know. Why not use some time to vet during the dating phase. If you’re struggling to date, why not go for the unwanted women. Ugly women. Fat women. Oh you don’t like being told to settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:06 PM
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That’s your failure to think properly. You think all women behave that way. Pretty interesting since on a similar school of thought women are submissive and want to quit their job and have the man care for them. Not very girl boss. But it fits the narrative you like and that’s why you replied with that “exactly” comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:52 PM
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You came to the contradiction because you lack the comprehension to understand how you confused yourself. You and others create poor arguments like the one OP made. You believe women are monolithic, either girl bosses OR victims, because you can’t comprehend that they can be more complex. Only a man is complex to some men and it strengthens a bias against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:36 PM
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The response you said exactly to. You can’t read back one message?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:24 PM
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Not really. You just agree with it so you just gave a lazy circlejerk response.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:22 PM
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It’s not really contradictory. It’s the persons misconception that women are monolithic. It’s contradictory if you want to believe that someone an entire gender is one personality type. Men have type A but also introverts. Men can be good men or do questionable things. Men that ask this question give men the benefit of doubt while digging in to women for the same thing. Lazy reactionary thinking as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:21 PM
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It’s not about doing both simultaneously, it’s about everyone being in different positions and situations. Not every woman is a girl boss, just how not every RP man is an alpha. Not every woman is being taken advantage of but them having that level of support towards other women is great. Isn’t TRP about sharing knowledge about women, dating, etc. Well that’s what’s going on there too. You don’t mind when TRP support other men, you don’t care when men think themselves better than women or other …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:50 PM
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It doesn’t matter what most do. It’s an overarching mentality. Even as someone that’s not into the idea of sex tourism I don’t generally believe it’s all for illegal sex activities. It can be done legally and legit. It’s men like you and “passport bros” that don’t like the idea of being grouped together although it is similar activities. Passport bros is a community and not every passport bro gets married on their first venture. So what do they end up doing? Sex tourism. Even if they don’t pay f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:16 AM
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It’s so sad that you easily succumb to lame insults. You could just stop replying and take the loss. You’ve been quick to question my behavior as if yours is any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:31 AM
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I believe the history of debates has close ties to logic and reason. Not sure what you’re debating without either. Just wasting everyone’s time?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:05 AM
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You’re failing at the aesthetics and the actual debate. You do have to care for both. If you fail aesthetically then you lose ground and no one will take you seriously. Just how you don’t take women when they’re behaving hysterically, no one’s gonna take you seriously either. Just another jaded man mad. Boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:53 AM
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It’s the same thing. It’s just a modern take on it. Pretending the movement is benevolent and free of any type of criticism is the reason they wanted the rebrand. They wanted a “clean slate”. Doesn’t change the fact that it’s still the same audience. If anything it skews younger but that’s really it. Men that want to travel to get those special interpersonal relationships/ relations abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:46 AM
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You’re as emotional as the group you’re standing against. No different than them really.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:42 AM
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It’s part of it. It’s sex tourism. Once you figure out getting laid elsewhere is easier and cheaper why settle. Just go once a year and fuck for a week and go back home to a normal life. Not all men want to get married and deal with it once they get their needs met. Which makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:12 AM
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Your idea of men is passport bro and rich men? That leaves a whole lotta other men that aren’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:10 AM
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I like how you mention jaded women when you’re equally jaded if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:09 AM
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It’s not. Passport bro is a rebrand. It’s the same thing. Passport bros don’t like sex tourist since the association and the name. Passport bro is modern and cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:07 AM
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To me it’s crazy how people got murdered so easily. Just skip town. No records. It was so easy to die back then and no one is the wiser.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:05 AM
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I wish more men knew that this was the reality for most men back in the day. Men used to travel and explore the Wild West on their own and just get destroyed by the Indians. This happened throughout history in many ways. Not many people lived long happy lives
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:53 PM
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You’re conflating emotions as well. Yeah you can reconnect with male or female friends just because but if it’s an emotional or fond reason that is still separate from sexual. If a male friend dies and you reconnect with another male friend to grief, sex isn’t on the table because you’re not horny towards them in a sad time. With exes you can be because you are interested in fucking them. You can have a normal conversation like you mention with exes but you could also not have a conversation and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:43 PM
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We’re not necessarily privileged. We’re just average people getting by. No hopes of homeownership but still content with other aspects of life. Caring is cool but it’s also exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:23 AM
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It seems most of your problems are externalized. If you feel like women don’t like your approach or don’t get turned on by you then maybe the problem is you. Are you on the spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:38 AM
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Not really. Nothing substantial. Something’s get better. Something’s get worse. It’s a dumb teeter totter of policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:20 AM
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I feel like most people can be indifferent. Most people live in communities they’re a part of so in terms of local politics things are what they’ve usually been. I don’t deal with any of that so that’s what allows me to be aloof about it. And it’s not for everyone. Other people care more about things like their communities or religion or morals and want to express them outwardly. I mainly care of a handful of people. Simpler mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:04 AM
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It’s always been like that. The notion that everything was better back in the day is not true. People were less educated in the past, they didn’t know about mental health better than we do now. I think a bigger difference is that life expectancy was much lower so relationships were easier to handle as a one and done type of thing. Now we have a much more extended future and options and we want options in our partners. Less thankful of what is available.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:55 AM
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Not really. Politics don’t shift as much as people pretend they do. Being reactionary is stupid and a waste of time. We exist in our own circles. If you make them larger it’ll only make it harder and more enticing to be reactionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:30 AM
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As someone that’s nihilist and hedonistic I don’t really care. Nothing matters nor is it permanent. Being preoccupied over such minute things is dumb. I’d rather just enjoy my time leisurely with someone on the same page. I like to keep up with the news but like most things it doesn’t affect me directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:45 AM
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That doesn’t matter. Emotionally mature people deal better with those type of devastating events. Whether it be a break up or other hardships. Someone having their life together but still breaking down after a break up is different. It’s similar to people on the spectrum. They can succeed professionally but fail socially. Men rage or get mad which is still an emotion. Women crying gets more attention since it’s more to empathize.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:05 AM
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That’s a popular phrase within dating communities. If you want to fall for it you can. If you choose to not be perpetually online that would be better for your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:53 AM
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It’s emotionally maturity. As a guy I’ve been on both sides. Looking back at the times I was surprised by a break up i understood that there was something that made us grow apart but I was unaware of it at the time. Girls being emotional after a break up is also their emotional immaturity. I’ve dealt with that and it’s hard to deal with as someone that is no longer invested.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:52 PM
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That could be part of it. But I’d say the person that’s more emotionally mature deals with that first. Sometimes it can be the man or the woman but one person is more aware of how done the relationship is because they’re bearing more of the relationship responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:07 PM
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It’s not separate but you have to understand you’re conflating emotions. Missing them and being horny are not the same. I cant say I miss someone I just want to fuck. I can say I want to fuck a model I saw online but I can’t say I miss them since I never met them. That’s exactly how they are separate from problem you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:44 PM
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Because you’re not caring about the person, just the body. It doesn’t cancel but it isn’t how you’re interpreting it. When you care about friends or family you don’t think about their sex life do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:38 PM
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That’s cool. That makes sense in terms of the psychology. That still doesn’t mean you care about your ex. Thinking about them reminiscently and missing fucking them are still separate things. One could be romantic one is horny. You want to cum and imagine how you fucked an ex. You weren’t thinking of them prior to being horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:35 PM
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It’s definitely just men telling other men these details to reinforce their beliefs. They learned hypergamy from nature and incorrectly use it on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:33 PM
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There are a multitude of factors. I’d say men have a harder time getting over exes. As this sub knows men have it harder getting dates/ laid, so they reminisce about what they had as they try to move on. Women don’t go through that withdrawal. They’re okay with being single or get dates faster to get over it. Exes are exes for a reason. You don’t need to like them or hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:28 PM
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It’s not the romantic version you’re making it out to be. It’s just horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:25 PM
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Saying that you’re FORCED to mass message women says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:18 PM
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That’s cool it works for you. Things can be wrong and work. Hypergamy and alphas exists in most other animals, not necessarily true for humans. It was improperly used because a man wanted to use it as point for why they’re awesome and women are the way they are. My issue isn’t with TRP itself. It’s just the weird way they try to mystify themselves. Clearly you learned about hypergamy and alphas because of TRP. So they are teaching an ideology. They taught you something incorrectly but it still b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:49 PM
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Not trolling. You just can’t comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:54 PM
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Praxeology gives it too much credit. As much as they believe they deal in absolute truths they don’t. They love to interpolate animal behavior into human behavior to push a point that isn’t really there like with alphas and hypergamy. Ideology is a better fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:54 PM
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It is info that is widely known but it is being reinforced in a specific manner in order to help these troubled individuals. Troubled as in they want help and see TRP as the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:33 PM
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Being honest is irrelevant here nor is it true. Just how I’m defending my position so are you. Pretending to have a morale stand point of “honesty” is in itself dishonest. It is an ideology, you just conditioned yourself to think otherwise. Clearly being dishonest yet again. It’s a guide for some but not others? It wasn’t a guide earlier. Being bad faith makes you unbelievable so I doubt I took the L if you think it. It’s sad TRP grifters got another person to believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:19 PM
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That seems to be your issue. You’re just projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:15 PM
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I get defending it cause it’s your community but you yourself know how got to that community and what you talk about. You didn’t get drawn to it and stuck around because it’s nothing. TRP is either delusional or ignorant to their own teachings because there aware how not mainstream it is and linked to more negative than positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:01 PM
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Exactly. TRP doesn’t deal in just facts as that is statistically impossible and they also tell people to adhere to the truth. It’s an ideology in so many ways. Reality isn’t as black and white as you are pretending it is. You can’t be right because you simply think someone else is wrong. Both sides can be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:55 PM
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You don’t think TRP is trying to teach that info? If I go to a community and ask for help I’m sure they’ll be happy to give me the guide on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:52 PM
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It seems that you are all in agreement that it’s not an ideology. Is that also taught while you’re indoctrinated? Isn’t TRP a way to reach goals? It’s a guide to be a “better man”. It’s an ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:49 PM
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It seems that you are all in agreement that it’s not an ideology. Is that also taught while you’re indoctrinated?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:48 PM
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You might’ve misread that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:47 PM
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It’s not shaming. Do you think men are shaming when they’re expressing their preferences? There’s preferences and then there’s the expectation that all men/ women should look a certain way to appeal to you. Not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:43 PM
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Don’t you see how “preaching the truth” is an ideology? You’re as hysterical and delusional as you think women are. I can’t explain it to you but I can’t make you comprehend
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:41 PM
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That’s very delusional that you only deal in facts and that somehow doesn’t make it an ideology. Pretty sure most religions think they’re dealing in facts and they’re a form of ideology. Why does TRP only deal in extremes? Why no humility and reality? No way you only deal in facts 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:34 PM
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That’s an extreme way of looking at it. Just how you probably imagine feminists as extremist, most aren’t just like most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:32 PM
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Not really. The same argument would be closer like men not liking a certain haircut on women like a bob cut vs naturally long hair vs straight hair. The comparison is better if it’s hair you can see at eye level vs body hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:31 PM
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If you misinterpret it as that because it offends you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:29 PM
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What’s there to read? The ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:28 PM
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That was a clear rebuttal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:23 PM
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Why do you say it’s not an ideology. Don’t you and other men share ideals of how to “improve” oneself?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:23 PM
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Lonely and horny are not the same. Confusing the two is unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:21 PM
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That’s just the mentality TRP says to dramatize their life since most people’s lives are boring. It’s not a soap opera. And just how not men are born into privilege, neither are women. Lots of varying factors. Women still live their own lives and want to do things they find fulfilling. They are human my guy. Whether it be work or hobby they want to do something. Not every woman is waiting for a man to quit their job. You probably can’t even afford a stay at home wife so you’ll need her to have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:56 PM
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Anyone can curate their life, it’s not a men only thing. And even with effort it won’t always result in the favor of the person trying. Specially when it comes financially. Not everyone can earn the big bucks. Not how it works. Women do it and it’s bad? Men do it and it’s good? Because of their gender? Kinda stupid mindset isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:42 PM
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Sexual and reproductive organs aren’t needed for survival. Men don’t need to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:24 PM
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You’re red pilled so you inflate men’s self worth by believing you can be a high value man. Same thing. It’s not all women that do that just how not all men are like you. It’s outliers. Average men and women don’t have this issue. It’s just this weird sect of people that talk about the politics of a relationship. Which is usually people with no experience with real and healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:28 PM
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Because men tell other men that average men don’t matter? Yeah that’s problematic. I agree. I don’t get why men aren’t supportive to men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:14 PM
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Like I said before I can’t make you comprehend, and that seems to be the main issue with you. You’re living in your head with these ideas since this isn’t how people really think. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:12 PM
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No evidence? Is that true or is that just your bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:19 AM
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This reads like a long winded conspiracy theory you came up with by interpolating the other theories you believe in. Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:19 AM
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Do you not see the other threads in this sub? People do have that mentality outside of here too. I can’t make you comprehend. I can only explain it to you. Most people don’t base things on gender, just weirdos like you. Right and wrong have a lot more to do than gender. Try thinking introspectively, how do you think. How do you think your friends and family think? It’s not as you say with everyone so it’s not the norm. It’s just made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:31 AM
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Not really. It’s comparing outliers not average people. Misses the point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:30 AM
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So the bar isn’t the people on the low end, just Chad, aka high end? You do know you missed the larger population of average men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:29 AM
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You’re looking for someone while also trying to date around? You know you can’t really do that right? Just have the mentality of dating to settle. You’ll probably end up dating around because either they don’t like you or vice versa enough for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:28 AM
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Is this all based on your own feelings and lack of experience? Average men and women don’t really have this mentality. Most people don’t care what’s going on in other people’s lives. People are free to look for sex or love. And this sub shows you not everyone thinks this way. Plenty of people that take it the other way and think men are angels and women are the end of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:26 AM
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So you’d rather women dismiss men entirely instead of trying to have healthy friendships with them? The second parter is also men’s unhealthy perceptions of relationships, specially with women. If anything it would be beneficial for men to understand more about healthy interpersonal relationships with men and women to be able to maintain friendship and relationships with both not choose one over the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:24 PM
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It is a bad quality if you are so annoying about it. Who wants to be around a conceited douche. Which could be true by how you mention your successes in your other comment. It’s not personable nor interesting the way you talk about yourself. It sounds like a chore to listen to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:48 PM
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Then I don’t get why you brought it up. I get it’s bad for men to put themselves in that situation and a waste of time but it’s in no way a woman’s fault that men do that. I have a buddy that does this and it sucks but as aware as he is of his situation it’s still on him for sticking around in a one sided relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:27 PM
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It’s not if you’re devaluing yourself. You’re just being self loathing. Bad trait. Annoying to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:24 PM
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You’re not gonna date every woman though. If you want to find value from external factors, you’ll never be happy. Constantly comparing yourself to what you believe people perceive of you. You’ll just become a perpetually unlikeable person with this mentality. You’re in your head way too much to really create any type of fruitful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:23 PM
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1) men hide their intentions too. Pretend to be cool with being friends and then mad when they can’t get promoted to bf 2 and 3 is just bad person behavior. Bad people exists or all race, gender, and creed. As much as I am aware annoyingly shitty people exist I don’t personally want them in my life so I don’t associate myself with them. I have amazing male and female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:21 PM
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Not everyone thinks in values. If you do it’s from spending too much time in these communities which is unhealthy and lead to sabotaging your own relationships or you’re autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:17 PM
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What’s wrong with being a friend? You can’t date everyone you know that right? Statistically speaking. What’s your goal with wanting to date 100% of the women you’re interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:16 PM
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Part of being friends is being there for each other emotionally. If you don’t support your male friends emotionally do you truly care for them? Do you hate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:43 PM
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That’s how you interpret it. That’s unhealthy. Definitely happens but not the norm. This mindset becomes a self fulfilling prophecy where the man thinks this and sabotages the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:42 PM
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It’s a circle of wasting peoples time. That’s all this sub is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:40 PM
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That’s unfortunate for you. Not true for most men. I feel respected and loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:39 PM
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Most definite demands in the relationship are typically bad. Prenups aren’t a good step in many relationships, but they do make sense for the wealthy. For common relationships it’s not something that will be likely. Secret accounts depend. It could be secretive for emergencies, for self, or for others. If it’s done out of selfishness like “oh I have no money” but it’s really hidden then it’s not really healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:01 AM
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You’re asking why, most likely drunk or high, women at the club are rude when some one they don’t want to go home with hits on them? Obviously rude behaviors sucks, but you’re not gonna be dealing with the brightest of folk out at a club. As a guy just navigating the club gets you mean looks since everyone is mostly there with their crew. The amount of people trying to do one night stands is low compared to the amount of people there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:27 AM
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It’s similar to how some guys do the same when women turn them down and talk back about how they never wanted to go out with them anyways, they’re fat, etc. it’s ego. It’s mental gymnastics. It’s not a healthy mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:24 AM
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To think men can enjoy women that easily is also funny. They can by taking their money and going on sex tourism, but if they’re western it won’t be as easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:56 PM
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Because men care more about their money so they can be with their money if they choose to. It’s freedom of choice. Also always funny men think they have the level of wealth or will accrue that type of wealth overtime when most real average people aren’t. Just goes to show you how out of touch the average man is. Arguing with themselves about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:56 PM
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It’s mainly gaslighting men tell themselves. It’s not that it’s dishonest, it’s just that you don’t understand the differences. Looks are not important to most people but at the same time play into effect. Just because someone turned you down and you misinterpreted it as they didn’t like your look, it could also be your attitude or behavior. But obviously you wouldn’t think that, it has to be someone’s fault. Not yours. A woman isn’t gonna delve into what they don’t like about you personally and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:07 PM
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This sounds like dudes should just be happy alone then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:02 PM
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Where the full picture is half the population
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:56 PM
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Exactly so getting the full picture would be helpful. Also not pretend that the numbers anyone can find are the full picture. Common practice with people thinking they’re making a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:05 AM
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Not really. This is just a self fulfilling prophecy men get themselves into. Plenty of room to be happy being yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:32 AM
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It is worth it. The only ones reinforcing that is people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:33 AM
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It’s not about jobs. It’s about expectations. Men are suppose to be providers. They’re not that anymore. It’s not a strawman. You just can’t read. Like I said before.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:19 PM
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It’s poor data. Data that only showcases half of the issue. You don’t want to bring men up since it’ll go against your take that women are to blame. Does the fact the a study doesn’t exist that men bully men mean that men don’t reinforce these issues as well or are you willfully ignoring it cause it’s the only point you have. Also men stopped being the only ones working since the ww2. Stop pretending and holding on to that. Times changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:18 PM
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Yeah it’s “facts”. But it’s the ones that a clearly skewed since it’s only taking 50% of the population into account. Doesn’t tell the full story does it? It’s the facts that people like to misinterpret for their cause. Happens a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:15 PM
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If the main issue is working harder than their grandparents it’s still not true. It won’t be. This economy isn’t built for one income household so how are they working harder when they need help from their partner? I’m sure thinking of women as half the reward for being good boys is not creating a divide between men and women either. Definitely a healthy mentality to have towards the women you want to date. As much as I enjoy the hyperbole that men spew on here it is really sad that you believe …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:32 PM
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And men are pro boys crying. Oh that’s right they don’t like to be proactive parents. So one is don’t cry. One is not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:19 PM
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But men also don’t help men. It’s a societal thing not a gender thing. Men compete with each other so how are they supporting each other. Men can have sympathy, men just don’t know how to express themselves emotionally or ask for help. Since boys don’t grow to be emotional they don’t know how to express themselves as adults and it’s hard to be there for someone that can’t express themselves nor wants to since being a man is not being emotional. Something pushed by men and women. Not just women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:18 PM
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If that’s true. What are men doing to better their boys. If it’s nothing then why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:14 PM
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The issue with that is it’s not possible. Not every man can be amazing. Not every man can be the top 10%. So many men subscribe to it yet fail to realize the statistics of it. Being normal isn’t just bad cause “woman say so” it’s because men don’t want it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:02 PM
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It’s not a strawman. You just don’t like the response. In no way are men working harder. Not in jobs nor dating. Men just think that since men don’t want to be basic either. They want to be top dawg and get rich and get a hot girlfriend. None of you are working harder to get a basic girlfriend. But also no average women is telling you to work harder. It’s other men. The “average” woman isn’t average, men just don’t realize their preferences and realize an average woman is not as cute as the ones…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:01 PM
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I’m not pretending I know the “solution” to men’s problems so it does differ. If you could understand context you’d realize the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:57 PM
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Lmao didn’t expect a loli defense. If you don’t defend it then why use it as a detense. You’re right. Men are good cause they consume loli. Aren’t men amazing for consuming loli? And porn keeps men from raping. Wow. Men are awesome. Good thing they’re smart from video games and keep their demons in check with loli. Women are using the internet wrong. They should also consume loli and pretend their skills in video games translate to real life scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:14 AM
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And I should believe you cause you and other RP guys said it? Were the feminists stopping the vets too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:01 AM
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Women don’t just doom scroll. I didn’t respond to that since it’s pretty childish to pretend it’s true. Yeah women don’t do much, that’s why they’re graduating at a higher rate than men right? Also not all gaming is healthy or good. Plenty of degenerate gamers that waste a lot of money and time on an addiction. Other unhealthy habits men do is binge drinking, gambling, porn. Are those habits good too because men do it? Women usually don’t like porn, so it must be good since men do right? Men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:59 AM
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Men take a few anecdotal examples and tell other men that’s how it is. It is men. Men hate being single so they ask men for answers for their dilemma and it’s all lies. But again, men have no support system so they fall for anything. And men aren’t hypergamous? If they weren’t they wouldn’t try to all pretend they can all be top percentile of men. They want to because they also want to be able to choose their partner. If they get more money and status they get to pick a hotter partner. You think…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:45 AM
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Yeah. But it’s a societal issue. Not gender. Men and women don’t let men be open. It’s similar to chicken or the egg dilemma. You can argue all you want which one started first but we’ll never know. It just is. Did men want to be men for survival and their communities survival or did women want men to be men for their survival and the communities survival. Both make sense. Both are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:15 AM
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It doesn’t matter that they did it for women’s attention. They still did it on their own volition. Your friend group is a healthier one which is good. As are mine. But just how there are healthy and unhealthy men there are also healthy and unhealthy women. It’s not just all women are bad and all men are good. Men have social spaces. They just don’t have ones where they can be emotional. It’s usually just social ones like bars or sporting events or at a restaurant. How often do guys pal about and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:09 AM
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It is true. Men and boys bully other men and boys with this mentality. It doesn’t phase them since it’s the norm. It’s only a factor when a girl or woman don’t like it since you don’t want to be rejected by them. If a guy sees you as less of a man you don’t care as much if a woman does. It’s not necessarily the woman’s fault, it’s more a self esteem issue. One that I’m sure men and boys don’t benefit from being bullied about their masculinity. I’m sure a guy could call you a pussy but you’d brus…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:54 AM
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It’s still being reinforced. It’s not as if men or boys have ever really been there for other men or boys when it comes to being empathetic and emotional. It’s apathy. That’s what boys and men teach other boys and men. Specially with the machismo mentality that’s always been around for men. Men tell other men what women like and it’s not necessarily true, it’s just what they think and hope women like since that’s how they are. Not every woman wants a tough, apathetic, muscley dude. But that’s wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:37 AM
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That was added commentary how out of touch your points are. The other parts of it responds properly. But you chose to ignore it. The main people creating those standards are other men telling men to get into alpha male mode. Grind. Make more money. If you don’t get value you don’t have value. If you don’t looksmax youll never date up. It’s men talking down to men as “support”. It’s more bullying but when men don’t know what a healthy support system is I can see how they get tricked by TRP. Men c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:00 AM
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Boys and men teach boys to man up and suck it up too and at a higher rate than a woman would. If you can recall when you cried, did your mother tell you to suck it up or try to empathize? Did your father? Men have always learned to tough it up and carry on without emotions. It’s not healthy. Just cause you don’t like modern women, doesn’t mean that boys bully other boys over manliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:38 AM
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It’s only when it’s against women. Men are toxic to other men and that’s okay. Kinda like when women are mean to other women and that’s also a pass. If it’s inter gender it’s a much bigger issue than if it’s just within the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:34 AM
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It’s a something that gets beat down to boys predominantly by other men and boys. Such an unhealthy way to live and definitely makes it hard to express one’s emotions as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:33 AM
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lol. Men aren’t the men they used to be either. Men are too busy being gamers online while women are doomscrolling. Either way, excessively online. Not a gender exclusive thing. Lmao. Men are so dramatic it’s hilarious. We get to live such longer healthier lives yet we’re working harder than our grandfathers? Oh god. I can’t tell if you’re serious or just really good at satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:30 AM
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That’s the unhealthy part.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:11 PM
1

That’s a temporary solution. You’re still not good if you think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:06 PM
1

If you still think that way you need more help.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:30 PM
1

You should get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:49 PM
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A happy relationship is satisfying. Why be miserable with someone just because someone else wants to be with you. If a woman you are not attracted to and easily annoyed by wanted to date you, would you date them or be single?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:48 PM
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You know that’s not a good comparison right. Men can have trouble getting hard if they masturbate too much and train their body to be attracted to porn. Women not being attracted to a man is just that. If a man isn’t attracted to a bigger woman then that’s fine too. You just don’t date them. There’s no police forcing men to date big women is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:46 PM
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Men don’t need men to survive either. Don’t men also want money and a trad lifestyle too as well? Why is it always pointing out what women “want”. Men have their own issues too unless you have a blatant bias
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:44 PM
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Men have those unrealistic speciations too. You do realize men want a trad wife that is submissive yet most men cannot financially support that. Most couples have to work to live. Men are also unrealistic thinking they can date or fuck every type of woman due to their pornography habits. There is more to a relationship then looks and that something men don’t think about. They just want a warm body, they don’t think about how that body is or behaves. Which they should since that’s what makes a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:42 PM
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You are aware looks come and go too? Why date anyone if that’s the case. Just be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:35 PM
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People are affected by things. Wow. You have a way with words.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:34 PM
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People online don’t really get that far. Rarely can you get personality from an app or anything like that. Usually you base it off looks. Which is why everyone is so obsessed with looks and not romance or other aspects of a relationship. It’s foreign to people and probably a big reason why less people are dating or getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:34 PM
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No, I just understand there’s nuance. Unlike you. This isn’t necessarily a traditional PPB. he emigrated somewhere. Not traveled and returned. Since you already are a fan, feel free to read my conversations with others about the problem with PPB. Most PPB are participating or trying to participate in sex tourism and human trafficking but pretend it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:35 PM
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Different story gets a different response. The other PPB were poorly worded arguments about going abroad with money to find a woman. This guy moved there and got to live abroad, not traveled for sex tourism or human trafficking. Also not a woman. Good guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:18 AM
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I’m sure that’s stopped people before. Prostitution is also illegal in some countries passport bros go for sex tourism
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:53 AM
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I’d say a lot of American women are still feminine, a lot of other people immigrate to the states and that same beauty you see abroad is here too. Culture is a whole different thing for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:52 AM
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Not everyone has it like that. As much as men keep talking about being a high quality man, due to finite resources, not everyone can. Reality is not everyone is top tier
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:51 AM
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Money is helpful to both men and women in that it offers comfort and opportunity. But when it comes to dating it’s not that much of an issue. Everyone wants to be the top percentile of looks and money and completely ignore all normal people that exist and are in relationships even though they aren’t living in luxury. It’s part of being online too often where the topics just become so obtuse and forget to focus on the bigger picture, not the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:25 AM
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That’s what I meant. But some men only learn that through TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:44 AM
2

Well yeah, but all that nuance can’t be described in short. “Being yourself” is a short and sweet. Its interpretation is up to the reader.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:36 AM
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It can be. Some Indian men are open to a western style of living. Not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:51 PM
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It depends. A large majority is single men trying to make money for abroad. Not sure how much they plan on staying here for the long run or if they can get a western woman to change their ideals in their own country.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:51 PM
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I did. You, just like the passport bro manipulates the story so did you. There is no attraction to the person. It’s just money and lifestyle. Passport bros pretend it’s an honest relationship when it’s not. It’s not one based off love or romance or attraction. Just money. Money to start and make a “relationship”. The second question is the same one you keep asking and I’ve answered it. You can interpret it from my responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:56 PM
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It’s not mutual. It’s manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:44 PM
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They’re one in the same. Man can’t get a wife in their country so they outsource. You can give it a different name to make yourself feel better. Same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:44 PM
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Yeah. How is it not. Man goes abroad to buy a wife. Flaunting money to attract a wife. A marriage not based off a relationship. Just money
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:33 PM
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Passport bros are going abroad with a purpose. To flaunt their wealth and citizenship in a country that a poorer woman would be attracted to. There is no relationship other than the promise of a better life with that money. Money is doing all the talking. It’s not a relationship based on a history. It’s transactional. Men gives money and visa, woman becomes wife and subservient.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:32 PM
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It says a lot about the men that pretend that’s not what they’re doing. You’re literally going abroad with money to buy a woman to be your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:23 PM
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It’s all relative. And the relationship with the woman abroad can still end in divorce. Why? Because the men that are whining about women and how they can just find better options abroad are the problem. It’s problematic to think buying a woman to hold power over them is a healthy relationship. But go on. Bring a woman over from another country that’ll leave you later. A woman can use you that way as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:21 PM
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Both relationships could end in divorce. But that’s why you want that power over a woman that might not divorce you. But they still could. If they get their papers, a child from you, etc they could leave you just like a woman here would leave you. The issue isn’t the woman, it’s you. Some men, just like some women, are simply unlikable people and aren’t meant to be in long happy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:20 PM
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Men aren’t prizes. Women aren’t prizes. They’re people. You think they’re making the best choice but ironically it’s also a lot of wasted money for marrying a woman abroad. That time and money used to date women in your country is rather used on a plane ticket, visa, moving, etc. It’s not cheap. And when she comes here she’ll probably work a low paying job as opposed to an educated woman. It’s not all about money. It’s about power. You want power over women. Also it’s funny you make it seem like…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:55 PM
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Money helps in all cases but relationships can exist without it. Even one with a looks imbalance. Average and above average seems like it’s basing it off a statistical system, another way to lie to yourself. It just comes down to preference. Whom you find average or above average I might not find attractive. So those words honestly have no definition. Just made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:40 PM
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No. She didn’t. You’re mad since you didn’t like the answer talking down on passport bros. Since passport bros don’t truly go abroad for relationships, it’s just for sex tourism. Those type of men can’t put up with women here and they definitely can’t do it when they have to be empathetic to a woman with a language barrier, different customs, and like you said, doing the same thing as women here. It’s not dating on easy mode. The only thing that’s easier is that it gives men power. If women want…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:37 PM
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If you look at couples out in the wild you’ll know that’s not entirely true. It just has to be for you to make sense of it because that give and take has to happen for a relationship to happen. It doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:34 PM
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Interpreting that as mad just shows your ignorance. Which is common with passport bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:19 PM
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They’re not actually going through with it. Passport bros literally just do sex vacations and that’s it. If they can’t put up with a woman here because they’re being difficult, you think it’ll be easier when there’s different cultures, language barriers, visa requirements, etc for a woman they just met. The issue in both scenarios is men don’t want to put up with women but they’re the only ones that are unaware with it. They think they’re bingeing reasonable wanting power over women just because…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:18 PM
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That makes no sense. You can have both. Wouldn’t it also be better for the man and overall relationship if there’s more money for both? Oh, you like when men have more money so the woman is dependent on the man. It seems you just like women without power.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:15 PM
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Educated women also know they don’t want to be in a relationship with shitty men. Men can’t fathom at being lonely so they exploit poor women because they need to have power over them. What’s worse, men exploiting the poor women abroad or women trying to find an equal or higher income to have a healthy relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:13 PM
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Yeah, but they can’t be a victim if they’re the aggressor. It’s crazy they can’t see the crazy power dynamic of literally going abroad to buy a person for marriage just because they want to have that power over them. They like to pretend it’s them being normal and healthy and itll be a normal and healthy relationship when it’s just exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:11 PM
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It doesn’t have to be a coworker but they could make about the same amount of money and be fine. It isn’t always about dating up. Living in comfort is key and part of that is being content with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:08 PM
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This “fact” is always funny to me because there are actually many relationships with poor people. You believe that because you’re not rich and you can’t get a woman to settle and that’s your correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:07 PM
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Men want things too. It’s only bad when women want money though right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:05 PM
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I’m sure you do that all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:03 PM
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I mean masculine roles can exist and so should feminine. A hierarchy is usually helpful in relationships and families to create some sort of normalcy and control. I feel like as a guy as much as I know what being a man “is” I can also understand being the one under a matriarch. That’s a simple power struggle that most people are afraid to lose. But you can be in control and lose as well. I’d personally love to kick back and be a stay at home boyfriend if I had a woman take that role. I’d cook, c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:03 AM
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Big legs are sexy on men and women. Sexuality is a spectrum. Nothing wrong with having preferences. The issues arise when other people tell what they should do. If you want to do that go for it. Some men paint their nails, others are into cosmetic, others are genuinely into feminine hobbies. Not everyone has to be a stereotypical man to be a man. Specially not in today’s world when most of us live in such comfort and don’t do laborious jobs. There’s more room for personal freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:51 AM
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Ironically, your interpretation of working out being feminine simply because you’re working out your butt is quite funny. As a guy it’s normal to workout your whole body as that makes the most sense. Even men can see other men with poor leg definition and big chest/ arms and know it looks bad and dumb. Not necessarily feminine to do glute exercises, but can come off as insecure. Being pegged is that age old joke online, “is it gay to have sex with women as a man?” If it turns you on more power t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:15 AM
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Not really. Money offers peace of mind for everyone. Sex can be a simple chore for some and a burden to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:13 AM
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The gaslighting is also on men that misinterpret that as not effective. Just cause you don’t know how to “be yourself” doesn’t mean it’s not good advice. Some people just can’t socialize or have critical thoughts about themselves that they need an ideology to become a “real man”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:12 AM
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Men gaslight men too. As much as TRP tries to side with men, it also shames men. “You’re not a man unless you make this amount of money, do this, behave this way, etc.” The only benefit is that it does advocate for health and well being, but you also don’t need the rest of TRP. But that just shows how unaware some men are about interpersonal interactions and their own well being, that simple self help seems like a holy grail of information. “Work out and you’ll be more confident and attractive”.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:10 AM
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That’s why a large amount of men go to the gym and their hobby is working out. And they wonder why it’s not working. As much as it can be a hobby, it’s a lifestyle choice. A hobby has to have joy to a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:06 AM
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That’s an unfortunate truth. Men really don’t know how to care for themselves and think TRP has the answers. Yet it’s just basic health tips. You don’t need a whole ideology to just be healthier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:05 AM
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It won’t be good in that technology is partly at fault for the unhappiness of people and their inability to create relationships. It’ll be a temporary fix, as is everything, but it’ll just be more kiln to the flame of discontent. Tech makes people unhappy with comparison to others. Tech makes people unhappy because its tools like OLD apps don’t work as advertised. Tech makes people “debate” online like on this sub and argue their issues in an unhealthy way. Tech sucks when it comes to interperso…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:03 AM
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It’s not a reflection. It’s more of a preference. Many men can and would love to have a hot girl and still be insecure that their girl will cheat on them since they are hot. I don’t think you know what a “reflection” is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:07 AM
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There you go
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:18 PM
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I wouldn’t want an older man to waste their time and money being a sugar daddy either. Would me explaining that to a man be bad as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:24 AM
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I’m glad you admit you have no logic. If only you knew that beforehand. I’m sure you’ll forget sooner than later.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:22 AM
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You’re not showing any data either. By that logic you’re a hack too. You lead with emotions as if this sub is your therapy. If only you could afford it, it could help you greatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:18 AM
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If only you knew how data worked you’d understand how incorrect you are. Seems like you’re using emotion over logic. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:58 AM
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It’s true in that I can be true for some but not all. Definitely not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:43 AM
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It’s due to your bias as a man. You’re a hopeless romantic falling for a woman’s attention even though you really don’t know them at all. They don’t fall for you since they are just getting to know you and as they get to know you they can understand they don’t really like you. That’s why they don’t catch feelings. A man and woman can both fall for someone for sex or for romance. It just depends on whether or not all their needs are fulfilled. If not, why waste time, just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:41 AM
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Feminism is bad if you are easy to sway and can’t comprehend its necessity. We’re barely a century removed from women’s suffrage and rights. But people do like to ignore history and choose their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:46 PM
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This can be said about both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:44 PM
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All while shitting on men that aren’t “real men”. What a hero to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:46 PM
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You’re speaking in anecdotes. The people that are viewing the videos you’re talking about live primarily online. They don’t exist en masse as much as the numbers seem to tell you. The numbers in those videos are there to push for more engagement and clicks. That’s how they make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:46 PM
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Being a leftist doesn’t mean you’ll get left leaning videos. Specially on video platforms that are known to push right winged content since it is known to push viewership. You look up dating stuff, you’ll eventually get right wing/ red pilled content since they see it gets more views and engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:44 PM
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What you’re assuming is all of women is a loud minority that exists primarily online. Just how incel/ red pilled behavior is largely online and that’s why it seems larger than it really is. Although that is changing with younger generations and how they’re online more. It also answers why the younger generation isn’t dating or fucking. They’re too busy being alone and bitter online spewing nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:42 PM
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A lot of people usually don’t like to be bothered which makes sense. When I’m at the gym I don’t like when people bother me about a machine specially when I’m being mindful of my own time. Socializing is usually done so in social groups, or by being an extrovert that forces themselves onto others which can work. But usualy true extroverts are the ones that persist and don’t let it bother them when they’re turned down
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:11 PM
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It is harder but not impossible. Through work, other friends, hobby groups. I’d say it all depends on how you already are socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:07 PM
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But wouldn’t it be nice if someone was there to guide as well. Why wait for someone to fail. And just because you give advice doesn’t mean they’ll take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:07 PM
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It’s a visual thing. On your side, men go “fuck yeah you go man”. I’m on the other side that think it’s gross. Both are using their eyes and looking at something that is in front of them. Being offended at that degree makes you seem even more suspicious of manipulation. Which is why some of us find it gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:06 PM
1

Religion got society to where it is now. It’ll take centuries before it goes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:49 PM
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You used an extreme example so I matched it. Not every insane person is a boomer. Plenty of bad manipulators in every age range. Definitely possible. And you know what the bad boomer and a master manipulator have in common. Both are bad people. Which is why young woman should be warned against them. Obviously the one being manipulated wouldn’t know immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:26 AM
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Not really. You’re looking at it from a biased perspective. Think of a young man making a bad decision with money and woman. Wouldn’t you want to explain to them why they’re making a bad choice and to not make them? On the other hand young women get told to be careful of their choices with older men to also not be taken advantage. Either way, it’s a someone giving friendly advice. No reason to be triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:24 AM
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It does have to do with age. Like you said, a boomer can be short tempered but if they tried to sway someone they could manipulate someone into a relationship. Maybe not 21 but definitely younger. It’s not disrespectful. If anything it’s respectful and thoughtful. If you’re quick to be triggered I can see how it can be disrespectful. Just like a short tempered boomer fighting at Walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:48 AM
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It does. I can tell you how. Younger people don’t have as much real life experience. Therefore they could use some assistance from older people to help them with their decision making. All of course taken with a grain of salt. As much as one can try to help someone, there’s not much one can do to force assistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:45 AM
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Lmao you’re comparing age with race? That’s insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:25 AM
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Some people do. A lot of adults that lack any level of wherewithal. And then you have people on the spectrum, that definitely go on this sub on mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:23 AM
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College educated has nothing to do with emotional maturity. Two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:57 AM
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Or with simple math. A 37 year old man can in fact be a 21 year olds father.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:57 AM
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Adults make bad choices all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:56 AM
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It’s also because it’s a personal matter. Why bring the government into a personal issue. That’s then main reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:55 AM
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Only if they want to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:54 AM
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Atheism isn’t a defective gene nor is the cause of alienation. Throughout history these people existed but just didn’t congregate or brag about it like they do now. It’s a belief like all others. Atheists are scientific in nature, their only issue is the existence of a God, they still subscribe to everything else in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:53 AM
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By answering the question OP asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:53 AM
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It’s taken by women for their children and for home care that they provide. Not just solely for being women. It’s disparaging because you’re making them seem lazy and you’re footing the bill on something like that. If you don’t like that then men would have to take on the role of guardian and caretaker more serious and not let women take that helm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:00 PM
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If you have to brag about that you’re probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:55 PM
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Your question is an odd perversion. You’re making it seem as if 3M people is a lot of people compared to the global population when it’s nothing. If anything the question is just another out of touch hypothetical placing your insecurities onto others. “Obviously it’s a hypothetical but that’s how things are”? Are they? Or are your views of reality skewed because you watch too much porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:24 AM
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And that’s your bias against women showing. There are women that are ugly enough to not get dates. Neurodivergent women also make men not want to fuck them or date them. They don’t exist to you since you think women only get plowed by Chad. But they do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:47 PM
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It’s relevant to your comment which in part to the thread. Unless yours is irrelevant first.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:39 PM
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It doesn’t matter unless it bother you you don’t get free sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:07 PM
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There are women that can’t get laid either. They’re ugly enough you never seen them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:06 PM
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Confidence is built. Like the two guys you knew. And like I said, the nice guy trope is a pretense. The men do it thinking it’s all it takes to get a woman to talk to you and fuck. But when it didn’t work they changed it up. Why? Because they weren’t actually nice. They were just trying to get laid. And when their original plan failed they changed it and their mannerisms. So your example is further proof of my original point. Women and men want genuine kindness. It’s not that women don’t want a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:09 PM
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And that’s up to you but you have to be able to see how women perceive a new man in their life leaving as soon as they deny any dating possibility as odd. They never saw you as a dating prospect so that never crossed their mind until you make it obvious that’s all you wanted. Women want to be treated like people first just how men do, like you do. Men don’t want to be treated as a wallet for dates. Women don’t want to be looked for just sex. There’s definitely a lot to interpersonal relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:46 AM
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The thing about if it’s mistaken let it be. You can’t make people believe your genuine actions. If they behave that way they’re letting themselves out of your dating pool. Making it easier for you. The trash took itself out. And as much as you have no need to stick around for someone that’s not into a relationship with you, you can see why it seems like that no? Clearly that’s not your intention but it’s the insinuation that you entered their life and when they didn’t like you back you left. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:26 AM
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Genuine kindness and niceness is key. The good guy/ nice guy trope isn’t genuine. It’s a very bad act of deception that is easy to see making the nice guy look bad because of the lie. Being nice is also not gonna be a key to a relationship or sex either. Usually you have to do a lot more than one good act like holding a door open or listening to someone’s problems or helping someone. Something that makes good guys mad when they get “pulled along” when they’re the ones that placed themselves in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:56 AM
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How in depth is your research? Do you partake in conversations with the girls like you do the boys? Also not sure why you’re looking at the attractiveness of your students as a teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:10 AM
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And that makes sense. Why would you be a dick to someone you’re trying to talk to? Knowing your audience is key for a lot of things, like socializing or dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:00 AM
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Again, where are the fathers? Shouldn’t they alleviate this? If you’re being biased I’ll match you. Men aren’t parental so mothers do what they can to raise a child. If mothers didn’t try then the child would be fully neglected. If men put any effort maybe men wouldn’t be so troubled. If only they had guidance from their fathers instead of being a burden to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:54 AM
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Although not perfect, people can read people or at least put an effort specially when it comes to dating. Genuine kindness and care don’t come off as an act. Also when all you do is be nice there’s not much to you as a person and that can be a drag. Not making you a bad person for being nice but usually you want to stand out to your potential partner. Being nice to a stranger should be the norm so thinking that’s enough to get you a gf is weird. Being written off isn’t a bad thing. Saves you and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:51 AM
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That’s interesting. I believe parenting is done by both parents. Where’s the father in this? Not present or putting effort into raising their child? Seems like they’re at fault if that’s the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:48 AM
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Game is all a ruse. Like I said, Chad is already not a likable character but I wouldn’t say they pretend to be chivalrous. They buy drinks to keep a woman’s attention, they flirt with them with colorful language, not really pretending to be a gentleman. It’s a Chad doing Chad behavior. It works because they don’t stagger in their questions and offering free anything is usually appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:37 PM
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So it’s a their moms/ a woman’s fault? What about their dads? Where are they in the picture? Can’t men support men in improving their confidence/ self worth?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:21 PM
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Yeah but the whole point of a swagger is it’s unique, not this copied mentality that the nice guys follow. That’s why it fails as much as it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:20 PM
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Confidence is important. Men lack it because they don’t have a support group to help each other out. Men need to socialize more and build confidence. Bettering oneself isn’t just physical or monetary, it’s also mentally and self esteem/ self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:19 PM
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It’s definitely an act. It’s their “swagger”. They turn it on as they try to talk to women. It’s something they use to deal with their anxiousness as they try to pretend like someone else that isn’t anxious. It’s an act to compensate for the low self esteem/ anxiousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:05 PM
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Nice guys whole thing is an act, and their bad actors. The chad trope is usually just a bro that is more confident and doesn’t act like a fraud albeit not a likable character to all either
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:08 PM
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Usually the nice guy trope is negative because it’s a facade. It’s not a genuine nice guy, it’s one to provoke deception into sex. The Chad trope is bad to nice guys because they know how to navigate conversations with women more naturally and their efforts work due to their personality/ other prospects that make them more appealing. Overall usually a nice guy is no good because they get stuck on their facade and make it obvious to the public it’s a ruse. Chads don’t really pussy foot about it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:07 PM
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Contextually, it’s making fun of OPs take. Not necessarily serious in tone. Just like OPs discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:03 PM
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Extreme is an extreme word. And TRP isn’t gonna resolve it. It’s a social issue that requires professional and educated people. That’s another lie TRP proclaims, that they can solve problems at that level when they themselves only focus on a few issues and think they figured out the whole ordeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:25 PM
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No. Specially when you respond with memes. Even you’re a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:10 PM
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You don’t need an organization for that. There’s books. But technically church/ organized religion. I’m sure I can find others but it’s not special. It’s nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:09 PM
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It is negative and if they were grifters there wouldn’t be that many or prominent in TRP. There are many ways to self improve that doesn’t need TRP indoctrination
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:01 AM
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It’s true. Don’t be embarrassed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:59 AM
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It’s mostly negative. It’s an odd thing to spread when there are multiple errors in their mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:43 AM
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It’s a facade. To pretend people come here to have a civilized discussion is a joke since you can see the bias in the questions make this sub lose credibility and toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:42 AM
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That makes sense. You are on the same wave as the feminists as in believe everyone on your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:41 AM
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It is toxic because a lot of the rhetoric is sexist. Whether it be against men or women most post are very much based on bias against one gender with complete disregard over them. Whether it be men thinking cheating is fine cause it’s biological and women should fall in line or making men feel like having preferences is bad, it’s all really idiotic conversations. It’s a lot of fun to be around regardless. This subculture of people is almost non existent in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:35 PM
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Oh Wikipedia is a source now. Someone didn’t do well in grade school.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:38 PM
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In that case then feminists should be allowed to do whatever they want too. Except men from TRP don’t like that women can do whatever they want. Quite a paradox
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:38 PM
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So the unironic take TRP does is match “believe all women” but from a man’s perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:37 PM
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So TRP advocates are weak men that aligned with something when they had nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:35 PM
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TRP people do. They blame women for men’s downfall and problems. Essentially saying women are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:34 PM
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Good for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:40 PM
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Share them. Don’t want to get the wrong info. Enlighten the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:40 PM
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That’s a nice way to prevent yourself from having to share evidence. I’ll join you. I also have counter evidence that I will not show you but believe me. You’re wrong, I’m right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:36 AM
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Then no need to listen to you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:35 AM
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Emotional damage makes people do crazy things. Men beat their wives for similar things. Never okay but people do things based solely on emotion. Like cheating. Keeping emotions in check would benefit everyone but not everyone can do it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:22 AM
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Obviously. Also if biology lets men cheat, when that time out month hits and biology gets women going it’s a free for all. Not cheating when biology is involved apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:20 AM
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That happens based on no information other than tall tales TRP shares and then conflates into thinking it’s the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:19 AM
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That’s hard to comprehend in a sub full of people that can’t get in relationships. I wonder why? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:17 AM
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Men think they’re smart. Also men saying they’re not. Which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:16 AM
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He is. A man thinking his biology allowed him to cheat without repercussions is simply letting his emotions and hormones get to them. Would your girlfriend get the okay to fuck anyone when that happens to her? Fitting hormonal outbursts love isn’t involved, it’s just passionate cheating. But that’s fine right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:16 AM
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You don’t cheat on someone you love. Simple as that. Cheating is cheating. Men have a brain to control their actions. There are definitely men that can use money as a reason to cheat but that is completely dependent on who’s in the relationship. Not everyone can have an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:14 AM
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The answer isn’t wrong. OP is starting verbal arguments with his wife by asking these hypotheticals to her.m without her knowing why she’s being asked these questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:51 PM
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If your wife said that to you would you be impressed at her logic or be taken aback that she doesn’t care about the relationship and is okay to end it simply cause you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:30 AM
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Yeah. Somehow it’s everyone’s problem that every woman doesn’t want to date them for x reason and at the same time they don’t want to be the last choice for women either while also inadvertently demanding women to change their preferences and force themselves to date them as if it’s not the same. A good relationship requires both people to like each other for themselves and to want to be together for each other not because they were forced to. It’s such odd mental gymnastics brought by being per…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:24 AM
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Word choice is key
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:15 AM
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It does since you’re saying men are less interested. Like I said, less interested doesn’t mean not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:09 AM
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But that’s not what the question is. It’s why do men think they don’t have preferences. You’re right in that everyone differed but to think showing less interest means no interest is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:02 AM
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It’s not about what you have control over. It’s what you as the one looking for chooses is important. If you as a man don’t want a woman with high body count it’s your problem to find that. If you don’t prefer that then simply don’t got for them. Not hard. A woman doesn’t like a short man and they don’t go for them. Same thing. They move on. If it’s not within your preferences move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:01 AM
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Men think that their willingness to fuck any type of woman or their desperation to be in a relationship with a woman translates to they could date anyone. It’s not necessarily true specially with how this sub doesn’t like women with high body counts or fat women. Only two preferences there but that’s just to use the sub as an example. I’ve met many men that only want Asian women or latinas. They also think because they don’t care what a woman makes financially means they’re more open but that ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:20 AM
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I’d say most men don’t show A game. It’s amateur league.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:16 PM
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Not necessarily. If there’s no interest shown that means that they’re not going about bothering people that aren’t interested in her. If anything it’s mindful of others. As a person, reading cues is important. Men want to hit on everyone but there really is no need if you can see how women perceive it. Not everyone wants to be hit on randomly. It’s not a compliment , it can be an annoyance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:14 PM
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I’ve been asked out before too. Not as direct but in a coy manner. I feel like women do ask. But they don’t ask everyone like some men would.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:09 PM
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It definitely depends on what data you’re looking at and how you’re interpreting it. Technically men have a slightly higher bmi based on the numbers. You rounded up women by 1 and rounded men down by 7 so clearly it was something done on purpose. Bringing skewed data to try to prove a point incorrectly BMI for modern USA woman is 27. Men is 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:17 PM
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So you’re on their level of intellect? Generalization definitely doesn’t create a world where people just point fingers at each other. It’s the way geniuses think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:15 PM
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Body fat and muscle are different. Women are predisposed to more fat less fat and men to more muscle less fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:05 PM
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That adds up. Women are predisposed to more fat due to their physiology. Unless you don’t know they Also with added data thanks to the other guy, we both learned men are more overweight according to data given by the CDC.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:33 PM
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So if men’s role is making money and supporting why do men complain about it? If complaining about their role is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:32 PM
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The continuation of society is hardly a job? Same thing can be said for men building shit. Can’t have one without the other. Almost as if we live in a society where women and men both contribute to its continuation. And also just how men are involved to a degree in birth rearing so have woman in other aspects. To pretend only one gender does everything is nothing but a bias. When we were more agrarian women worked the farm along with the children. It’s never just been men. It’s a family unit. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:35 AM
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This is definitely a generalized “all men bad” take. Unironically not all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:09 AM
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I’d say at that level of education there’s less head butting because of said education. There are definitely other jobs where head butting is more common, where degrees matter less and it’s more about management.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:08 AM
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Literally the message you were responding to is how men don’t want women that are ran through. As simple as it is it’s still a preference and a somewhat common one here and in other places where these “issues” are mentioned. It’s literally a preference that even desperate men have albeit there are levels to desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:01 AM
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It seems both sides have shitty people. Why do you feel comfortable pretending only one side sucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:59 AM
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Women definitely don’t do most of creating life. Men can definitely plant sperm into the soil and water it for new life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:20 AM
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Many men don’t contribute either. Statistically speaking only very few people sway the ides of time. Many of us will be forgotten when we pass after living meaningless lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:19 AM
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If a woman being sexual isn’t healthy why are they such a barometer for men and their choosing. Isn’t it just easier for them to move on from women like that? Why hyper-fixate and somehow think by shaming them you’ll make them change their behavior. Do you think they’ll date you after you shame them? What’s the goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:18 AM
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lol, men whine they can’t preferences when clearly they do, they just hate that women get to have them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:16 AM
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Isn’t the obesity epidemic across the board? Or are men incapable of being fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:15 AM
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The advice they gave was very gender neutral. If anything it was also positive. Not sure how you thought you got them for saying something helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:15 AM
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As someone that’s been depressed, relationships never did solve them. It’s a belief that it is the only thing missing when in reality it’s something to mask the pain of existing. People are constantly in a relationship and miserable. It’s an unhealthy belief to hold one’s value solely on when they are with someone. Men and women do that alike since some women choose to never be single to avoid being alone but that doesn’t solve any internalized issues. Men and women can find themselves realized …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:59 PM
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So men are depressed solely for lack of sex?theres 0 external factors out there such as debt, being hungry, not making enough to survive, tired of working, feeling unrealized in the world, scared, lonely. It’s only sex, or lack of, that is what makes men depressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:49 PM
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It’s not a big deal. Many people have kids without thinking. I think more people are aware of what it actually takes to have a child and choosing not to put themselves or another life through hardships neither are ready for. Finding happiness for an adult is also possible without kids. More money. More time. Just need to figure out what to do with both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:04 AM
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Not necessarily. As a man I can definitely say I’ve also had bad luck finding someone but never did I make it a “woman is the issue” thing. I feel like many men fail to be introspective and look at things differently or simply try again. Becoming resentful over not having sex is ridiculous. Becoming depressed over it is unfortunate but at the same time it’s not the cause of it. Unhappiness is definitely averaged out by multiple reasons, lack of sex can be one but not the only.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:20 PM
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Understandable but illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:13 PM
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That’s untrue. Misogyny is also a prejudice which he and you clearly have against women. A preconceived notion that women are overall horrible beings simply because they’re women. Your definition of misogyny is either wrong or skewed to not include this part about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:06 PM
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It’s okay. You can keep it to yourself and your lonesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:31 PM
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Yes. Did you read the other persons comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:31 PM
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I’m not. And you’re triggered. That’s all. It’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:35 PM
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No, but if you’re comparing women to animals that’s more proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:35 PM
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Pretending all women behave as one person is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:23 PM
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If you read that persons comments you’ll realize it is. You’re just being sensitive/ triggered about it since you’re being defensive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:22 PM
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How is it not hatred? You believe they are not good at anything solely based on gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:22 PM
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So your point is pointless. At lease you’re honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:21 PM
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That’s amazing. Be happier single. Stop making yourself and others miserable. Also stop blaming women with such hilarious language. You’re starting to sound like a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:13 PM
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Oh. That’s funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:12 PM
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Pretending that only woman lie on wether or not they cheat is just the continuation that men are so much better no matter what. You don’t believe that men also lie on those self reports? Fuckboys are known to suck, be annoying, etc. not the best of men. They can pretend to blame women for betrayal but just how some women are shit and blame men so are men in this situation. Blaming a whole gender for betrayal is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:12 PM
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Which one? Isn’t all you’re doing in this thread assuming too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:09 PM
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lol, so just because men can’t have sex as freely as they can it doesn’t count? If we’re discussing it, would you say that as a man you wouldn’t fuck more often if it were easier? I would. Just because outcomes are different doesn’t change that there is more similarities between men and women, in that they want to have fun at younger ages. If you want to make outcome an issue, do all women and all men have the same level of outcome or are there a variety of variables to it as well? Those that ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:40 AM
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I didn’t miss the point. Your creative writing is bad and the basis of it is women bad as and men good. Men can also be bad and women can also be good. Men can cheat. Women can cheat. Men can be loyal. Woman can be loyal. At least you gave clear signs of your bias in your story so it’s clearly not in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:31 AM
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Based on what? Men like you make it seem like men are only capable of love and empathy and are overall better people than women solely based on gender? Have you personally had any bad interaction with any man or are men really that amazing? As a man I’d say I’d definitely have had bad interactions with men. Men can be angry, want to start fights, can get jealous and think you’re trying to take their girl, and a number of other bad behaviors that can also be attributed to women. Thinking one gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:27 AM
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The exact same thing can also be said for men as well. Yet another pointless gendered post with no basis. Men want to fuck when they’re younger and have fun as well. Not many people are starting families straight out of high school like previous generations did. As people age and they no longer want to drink, party, sleep around, they evolve into more family oriented individuals. It’s a natural evolution in human nature. Not many men or women can party and have the level of fun they did in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:13 AM
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By this logic or lack thereof you’re missing the point that men can also have that feeling. It’s not gender specific. Shit behavior is shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:03 AM
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A edited YouTube video is proof now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:29 PM
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It’s still cringe when it’s done by men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:29 PM
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Your humorous take is pretty funny because that still wouldn’t happen. Nurses make a good wage from the start, more than most janitors. A doctor would also do that as well. Debt to most people at that level is also negligible. Loans are readily available at a good price and they can definitely pay it off and create more wealth than the janitor will ever get the chance to. Men do care. Not initially but it can affect them in the long term. And that’s the issue with men and how they don’t plan out…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:43 PM
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That’s cool. In what world would a doctor and janitor make the same other than your made up example. I can come up with over the top examples too if that’s what we’re doing here Also men would prefer a woman that makes less since men believe that men should be the breadwinners. If anything a woman that makes more is less attractive to men for that reason. I wouldn’t say men don’t care, they just don’t know how to express themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:07 PM
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Because what you’re doing with that statement is lying. There’s no truth to it. It’s an emotional driven take. It’s embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:00 PM
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It doesn’t have to do with openness it has to do with how men are desperate for whomever they can get and women have the ability to be more picky since men bombard woman for attention. It’s a one sided affair that gives one side more room to be more decisive but again. At the end of the day it’s human nature to have preferences as well. Men and women aren’t exempt from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:51 AM
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Not really. Men are extremely visual people when it comes to masturbating. Women on the other hand aren’t and can masturbate with no visual stimuli. It’s the main reason men make up for the majority of porn consumption. https://www.reddit.com/r/dadbod/s/IMNECiP7vT There are definitely subreddits for big men. Short kings. Men of different races that are attractive. Isn’t BTS and K-POP still big meaning they some women to find Asian men attractive? You speaking for women without actually putting e…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:50 AM
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That has to do with fetishes and masturbating. I can definitely find you a dad bod NSFW sub if you want or you can look it up yourself. Porn and fetish subs are predominantly men driven as they consume most of the porn. Don’t associate porn and fetish with a man being open to date a BBW. Masturbating to it is completely different. Wanting to fuck a BBW is also completely different. Nothing to do with relationships at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:44 AM
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“Flexible” standards are still standards. You’re literally using a story of a woman getting “200 dates”. You’re doing point 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:38 AM
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Being impossible for men and being possible for every woman are separate issues. With how obesity is affecting the US and how men, even in this sub, say they don’t want chubby women, does that mean chubby women get 200+ dates as well? Or is everything hyperbolic when it comes to dealing with women’s behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:47 AM
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Your presumptions are just that. Where is any of this data coming from? Your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:34 AM
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If you use this sub as some basis you’d realize men don’t want to be used for money anymore and understandably so. So that basis isn’t true, at least not anymore. Whether it be through prenups or just avoidant of woman wanting expensive dates that lead nowhere, men don’t want to pay anymore. Where is your presumption coming from other than a clear bias as a man? If you ever had a conversation with men some men will say how they also have preferences. I have met many men that love Asian women. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:33 AM
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Do all your female relatives get 200+ dates? Get empirical data from them and come back to me with facts not stupid assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:30 AM
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It’s cringe when both do it. How does gender affect a cringe behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:24 AM
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Do you think every women gets 200 dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:23 AM
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I’d say a lot of women also don’t have those either. You are speeding from a biased perspective where you think men don’t care as much as women when it’s not true. I’m sure if a man realizes a woman is bad at finances he’d leave, if a woman has a sketchy past he’d leave. Men have things they care about just hope women do. What evidence do you honestly have that proves your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:23 AM
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Then what’s the point of your previous point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:20 AM
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Don’t men flex their wealth and role in society? I think both are idiotic flexes but also both do them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:46 AM
4

That goes for men too. No one wants to date down
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:46 AM
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You think every woman gets 200 dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:45 AM
1

If you feel this way is it also true for men that struggle?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:45 AM
8

“Men have preferences” but somehow women having them is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:41 AM
5

Most men have ideal women too. Men thinking men have no preferences are odd. When it comes to a partner would you want a chubby woman or thinner woman? For whatever preference there is out there you have one you prefer over the other whether it be race, height, weight, personality, how they believe relationship dynamic should be, etc. Preferences isn’t a gender specific. It’s human nature. It’s as if someone asked you where you wanna eat and you say you don’t care. That doesn’t mean you’ll eat a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:37 AM
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I wouldn’t say divorce is caused by love fleeting. It’s definitely people changing and no longer being compatible that will eventually lead to loss of love since you’re no longer in love with someone that has changed. Which is why divorce isn’t bad. It allows people to move on and change if they choose to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:53 PM
2

Responded wrong thing in wrong thread
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:00 AM
1

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:00 AM
5

Wow, let me get your mom’s OF. Likelihood she has one according to your stats is pretty high. According to your own data.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:49 AM
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It’s a self fulfilling prophecy of sadness. A big reason why some men keep ruining their chances. If you’re looking for a problem in someone you’ll eventually find one. It’s much healthier to grow in a relationship than to keep your partner at bay and under scrutiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:20 AM
2

Well yeah. OP has an unhealthy presumption that women are commuting adultery at a higher rate yet I’m sure that’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:18 AM
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That’s what women do as well. It’s definitely a spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:48 AM
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Not all but they can be. The amount of conservative gay men is surprisingly high
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:48 AM
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Your preoccupation with a cheater is only gonna make it so you self sabotage whatever relationship you will have. Instead of focusing on women as a whole worry about your own life, partner, and things within your control. Making up stories in your head are definitely not healthy in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:22 AM
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So your whole post is null since clearly you’re wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:21 AM
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You literally said women don’t accept your own friend requests so your assumption by your own accord is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:12 AM
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I’d say being less misogynistic is a good step. Why presume a good chunk of women are instathots when you want to date women? Aren’t you setting yourself up for failure by assuming women are gonna cheat on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:12 AM
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So you get ignored by women and instead of trying something else blame women for being thots although by your own account they don’t respond to men on IG. So do they or do they not respond to all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:03 AM
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All women are thots and have an OF according to this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:02 AM
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Men thinking that women are promiscuous at such high rates is insane and unhealthy. What percentage of women would you think have an OF? Do you personally have women in your life and if so do the stats add up with your own family in either your mom or sister being pumped and dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:00 AM
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If men could have hook ups as easy as women I’m sure they would. If men can get ran through they definitely would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:58 PM
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Ask her. Let’s find out the truth. For science
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:12 AM
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So in that case, would you say that in a family of 4 one of them gave an OF? Do you, a sibling, or your parents have one?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:09 AM
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Let’s say that on average every man has a mother and a sister. Is it safe to say that every man’s sister or mother has an OF based on your estimates? That’s only to say that you are completely wrong. I don’t understand the infatuation with thinking so many women have an OF when it’s not true. If you’re online a lot maybe. But when you realize not many people spend their time like that you’d realize it’s not that high at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:01 AM
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Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:49 AM
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What percent of the population do you think have an OF?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:33 AM
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Money can get you confidence though. That’s how money translates to success.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:32 AM
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You can have narcissistic behavior and not be a full blown narcissist. It’s definitely a spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:35 AM
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There you are making things up. Never said that. If I did go on and point it out. I dare you. You’re trying to bring up logical reasons to why women cheat more yet the blatant reason is it’s you’re doing out of emotion and not reason. If a woman that was cheated on said the inverse of what you’re saying would you then agree that men cheat? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:50 AM
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Oh okay. You’re jaded because you’ve been cheated on. There you go. There’s the bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:40 AM
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Well from what I know /s means sarcasm so interpret the message as such. But I agree with your statement too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:38 AM
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You seem to be very keen to women cheating. Have you ever asked men or women about men cheating on them? If not I can see how your skewed perspective came to be. If you want proof in this sub look at posts where men say it’s justified to cheat if they are the breadwinner. If you want to see men cheat go on apps with a female profile and see how prominent it is in dating apps. It’s not a gender issue. It’s a personality issue. All in all to say both sides suck and are capable. Really stupid to sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:12 AM
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This sub alone is proof since men justify cheating for various reasons. Men wouldn’t know what men try on dating apps so they don’t care or believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:47 AM
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Forgot to add /s. Understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:21 AM
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Why do you think that is? Is it your bias as a man? This sub should be proof that men cheat as well since many think making a certain amount of money allows them to do that. It’s definitely not based off of gender. It’s character. Shit people are shit. Are women more shit than men? No. It’s equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:20 AM
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It was sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:15 AM
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No crime needed. Just don’t get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:56 AM
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It’s different when men do it. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:56 AM
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Do you only care when women cheat? How about when men cheat? You seem to get angry when women cheat. Cheating is all dependent on the individual. I’d say the key trait is narcissistic behavior by the cheater since they see no flaw in cheating. Cheating can occur in other instances but I’m sure narcissists make up the majority of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:56 AM
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It depends on the circle of friends and on the persons demeanor. If you’re not that type of person then someone won’t talk to you about it. But if you do then those conversations can come easily. It’s all about interpersonal relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:19 PM
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So you’re avoiding tackling the topic because you’ll simply say “and so” and poorly research the opposite to be a contrarian? How productive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:09 PM
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So this study you linked is wrong. And I should believe there are other studies that prove it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:01 PM
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Again, I fail to see how that’s a problem. It seems people have a belief that marriages by default are happy and issue free when that’s from reality. People need to stop the fallacy that marriages are necessary when people are getting fine without marriage and long term relationships. The issue seems to be more so people getting into relationships that could either end in long term or marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:00 PM
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It’s like anything else in this sub, people here only love to talk about outliers when most people are average people. Always about OF women, 1% of men, a small subset of people that is idiotic debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:45 PM
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I must’ve replied to the wrong take clearly. Not moving posts. So men aren’t getting married because they prioritize their well being/ mental health/ wealth. That’s good for them. That’s what divorce is for. If you’re not happy for any reason, even those three, either don’t get married or get divorced. There’s reason why men want to get divorced and it’s not solely women’s fault why divorce is sky rocketing. I say men have grievances with divorce because of child support and because they want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:44 PM
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So where are the stats that majority of people are partaking in hookup culture since you’re saying it’s wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:39 PM
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So your social group is swingers. You think everyone else has swingers as the majority of their friends? You literally made a point with limited data points.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:31 PM
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That’s not the argument at all. Try reading again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:30 PM
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It exists but it’s not the majority people in this sub pretend it is. A lot of people in this sub aren’t participating and that showcases how not every group of people participates
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:30 PM
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It’s not victim blaming, just most likely truer than you’d like. Women aren’t bullying men en masse to suicide. I’m sure many men feel depressed due to hardships of life and overwhelming sadness that occurs through existing. Sure there are specific outside forces such as people but if women are at fault for some of men’s suicides so are men. Are men driving other men to suicide due to misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:17 PM
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Lmao “socialist propaganda”? Tell me where you found that information please. Capitalism is when families stay together? Lol Definitely nothing to do with anyone’s happiness and betterment. Are you part of the red scare? How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:14 PM
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Yeah. Nothing like raising kids in a miserable household where the parents aren’t happy and definitely not arguing with each other. Much healthier than divorced parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:51 PM
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There are other changes that happened societally that made it so current dating culture exist. A big one is women aren’t tied to a man since women couldn’t support themselves financially. They had to be wed to survive. Now priority for both men and women is their happiness. No need to be tied down to someone they don’t want to. It’s really not a big deal. You know who gets divorced? Proved in a bad relationship. If you don’t want that then have a good one. Not hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:49 PM
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So divorce isn’t bad when the man wants it. Only when the women. Not biased at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:45 PM
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Aww you’re offended. How cute. Nothing like a sensitive red pilled man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:47 AM
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Satire. Only women have unrealistic expectations? Both sides have it. To pretend only one due to bias is bozo behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:43 AM
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Women existing is generalized. Not that a certain type of women exist. Just that they do exist. You can’t read lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:14 AM
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That women exist? I’m sure they know. Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:11 AM
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Wow women exist. Great take. Women exist with those standards and women exist with other standards. Amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:06 AM
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Wow that marriage sounds strong already. Definitely gonna end up more bitter after the divorce lmao. Then the second marriage you’ll go for younger and forget about the prenup due to desperation and younger girl and you’ll lose it all. A common thing with men that try to use money as power over loved ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:58 AM
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OP is very hilarious. Somehow he expects women in this sub to all have dated 1% of men somehow. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:48 AM
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When you cheat and tell her it’s her fault and she divorces you and you have to pay child support I hope you see the irony
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:47 AM
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With this in mind is marriage and monogamy important for the man for the women to do? Because cheating isn’t monogamy if only half the relationship does it. That would lead to divorce and the rich man would have to pay child support. Do you support broken homes and men paying child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:46 AM
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Lmao that’s nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:43 AM
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Hobby bad? Oh no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:42 AM
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Men date anyone since they’re desperate not because they want to. They don’t question anything since being alone is their biggest issue and pretend all the issues aren’t problems. Money eventually becomes a problem specially in this economy. Can’t really get by with 1 income anymore so one person in the relationship making more isn’t really important since both people are working to financially provide for the relationship and home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:35 AM
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Most men value that in women too. Whoopie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:30 AM
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These metrics are stupid since height has nothing to do with success in a woman. Income typically is close or matching the man in those relationships until a child is expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:29 AM
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Isn’t monogamy a thing? Marriage is between 2 people. Someone earlier literally complained about marriage. Either marriage is important and must exist for a society to be possible or a marriage can be bipassed and men can cheat because it’s awesome. The reach is insane. Also what’s the infatuation with 1% of people every time? Why not talk about the majority of relationships. Men are such gossip queens when it comes to this dating stuff lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:28 AM
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They did. You didn’t get the answer you wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:26 AM
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The 1% of men and women typically just stay within their social circles. With people that are actually in the the actual 1% it’s not just about money but also power and influence. Looks are important and they both usually look good by default. Not really primarily about looks but it sure doesn’t hurt when either are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:26 AM
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But now that someone asked you why don’t you answer to give your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:25 AM
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It’s not. If a man is in a sexless marriage and wants sex are you gonna tell him to suck it up and deal with it or encourage him to get divorced and be with someone that wants to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:17 AM
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Depends how you meet women. I’ve taken many women out on cheap down to earth dates because that’s the atmosphere I want to create. Going out is also fun but not always the main thing. Sometimes men are at fault as well since they use their wealth to make up for lack of personality to get a date and offer to pay more for the chance to go on a date even though dates do not equal relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:56 AM
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Men peacock too in different ways. There are different ways to peacock and women can use makeup as that as well. Not necessarily a bad thing unless you want to be offended by it through hilariously bad scenarios like you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:54 AM
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Only with chronically online people. Most don’t think as unhinged as they do online.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:53 AM
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This is the other side of the coin people fail to realize. Yeah long term monogamy is amazing but people change and sometimes that change leads to divorce and separation. Not a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:24 AM
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Algorithms get everyone ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:24 PM
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Wow narcissists bad. What a find. You might get an award for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:00 PM
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You seem to have an infatuation with “healthy relationships” but have become jaded where if you don’t work on yourself you’re the only one preventing yourself from achieving that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:59 PM
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That’s the part that made no sense to me. Why make up a stat to make up for low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:58 PM
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Fearing heartbreak is a dumb reason to make yourself borderline misogynistic. “Women do it more”. You can’t just say that when the real issue is your self esteem. Work on yourself and your relationship and you’ll do well. When a relationship is done it’s done and you come to terms like a proper emotionally stable adult. Relationships in the past didn’t end in divorce for to divorce being shamed, looked down on, and women didn’t make a living due to laws. Now that things changed people realized b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:57 PM
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This sounds like you found narcissistic content creators to somehow think women looking for self help is bad. It’s like saying the men’s version of it is bad when it obviously is as well but self help in itself isn’t bad when done properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:53 PM
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“Men don't want the wild high n count woman to marry” In reply to: “The point being: men also do this to women” You shoehorned a “high n count bad” comment for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:32 PM
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Yeah. That’s why your comment makes no sense. Someone said men also pick someone as a safe option and you say no because some men don’t want high body count. That doesn’t take away from the other fact. Just shoehorned in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:23 PM
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It can be a good answer for people that just can’t conceptualize certain social cues. It’ll never be enough but to some nothing is ever enough and want every question answered for them instead of figuring out social cues. Not all but many could be on the spectrum for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:04 PM
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Men doing it doesn’t mean all men. You seem to fail to conceptualize the men means a group of men and not all men. Not hard to understand. Making it irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:00 PM
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There are solutions but a lot of solutions are personal problems. Can’t really zero in on every problem without getting one on one professional help. People’s expectations for help are unreasonable and unrealistic. Making over generalizations are also not helpful as many want to believe they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:31 PM
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This has nothing to do with the previous point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:09 PM
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Sad. But not surprising coming from Red pill brain rot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:58 PM
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Not necessarily. You’re very proud of your idiotic hypothetical. You delve too much into shitty creativity to be remotely logical. Living in fantasy is helpful for some to make it through life so more power to you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:58 PM
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He’s married and a grown man. Shouldn’t men be better mister red pilled man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:30 PM
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You said it was a hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:30 PM
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It’s not like a there’s a demo for it. It’ll just completely ruin the relationship if you do try it. Not much of a thinker are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:29 PM
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Men should be a bit more in tune with their emotions as well. If men think women are emotional then they should try to get a grasp of how they work instead of bottling them up. It’ll allow for better communication and a stronger relationship because of it. With a better understanding of emotion and feeling men can easily learn how to turn on their partners which seems to be a huge issue with men in this sub. Women can enjoy sex but how can they be turned on when the attempt is so lack luster and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:40 AM
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So you’re saying men aren’t strong since they can’t stay at home? I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:35 AM
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Because people are in relationships when they shouldn’t be, both men and women and neglect their children
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:03 PM
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If you want to get married vet women. I’m proposing men take control of their lives and find meaningful relationships not half ass them and make themselves and their partners miserable down the line. Why do you think relationships end? Expiration date? No. Lack of compatibility, communication, and chemistry. You want to find someone to not be alone, if you feel desperately alone go to therapy and find out why. Your partner shouldn’t be responsible for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:55 PM
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Yeah, that’s always funny when men think they’re nice to all women. I always bring up what if an ugly fat women walks up to you and thinks your hot and wants to be with you, do you talk or walk away and want to be left alone? Well that’s how most women feel when they get random hit on. Men think they deserve some type of magical treatment when they clearly don’t give it. It’s comically sad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:42 PM
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So you just want to settle for a short lived relationship? Is that the goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:38 PM
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In a way yeah. But if it’s physical abuse then the man should be taken to justice as well. Women that stick around, specially if they have children, in a horrible household are responsible for it. But there are factors that people that haven’t gone through it won’t know. If there are children involved being with a shitty partner seems better than being a single parent. What does one choose? Being single is better but it is a hard option to choose. And also putting your partner in jail is hard bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:35 PM
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Lol, settling will only lead to divorce. Are you for divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:33 PM
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Men think women are treated nicely because men don’t support each other. Men are nice to women, or at least think they are, and expect it to be reciprocated for some reason instead of having stronger bonds with other men to support each other just how women support other women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:32 PM
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That’s because men make it miserable for themselves. Men can live their own meaningful lives but they expect a relationship to give their life meaning somehow even though they clearly lack purpose without a partner. If men can learn to be okay single and not so desperate to be in a relationship then they would most likely find better long lasting relationships. But instead people get in shitty relationships because no one in the relationship knows what they want And I’ve said it before, who’s ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:29 PM
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So wouldn’t you want to find someone attracted to you or why even bother? The reason why that is is men don’t try. The goal is not being single. It’s not really finding a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:25 PM
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Lol. I love how the only thing men care about are looks. When a relationship is based on vanity it’s only gonna last a bit. Things will unravel and someone will realize they don’t really like their partner since they know nothing about them. It’s also funny that men continuously say they’re shamed yet continue to do it. As if the shaming doesn’t matter. Just how men are shaming women for high body count. Shame goes around that comes around. Men don’t have to lower their standards for looks. Clea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:38 AM
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It’s not. You probably have a shit personality and clearly don’t care about woman other then being with them so you don’t understand. Clearly you do if that’s what happened. If men learn to vet more then they will get a better hand of it. It’s like any other skill, practice makes perfect. If men say yea to any woman agreeing to be with them instead of vetting for a good partner for themselves then what do they expect if not failure. You’re in a partnership with a stranger. Not someone you care a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:31 AM
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Yeah. Attraction isn’t everything. Attraction is just the book cover. You will judge a person completely based on looks? You don’t want to know anything about your future partner? Just they look good? What if they’re in debt but you don’t find out til it’s too late. What if they have don’t want kids and you do and you find out years into it? Why don’t men raise their expectations and expect more out of their partner other then looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:28 AM
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It’s not that they don’t want it easy. They’d rather not waste their time with someone their other compatible. Men are just desperate and want any women to be with. Men should raise their expectations and then they’d have a better idea of their partner. Not just whoever is around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:24 AM
2

More like a fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:01 AM
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Lol. If anything men don’t evaluate since they will be in a relationship with anyone they find attractive without really caring about the person. Women’s expectations make it so they find someone they actually want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:47 AM
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Women don’t blame men for not meeting their expectations they just move on. Men hate expectations because they can’t meet them nor do they want to raise their expectations to help find a partner. Men just want it easy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:46 AM
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It doesn’t make men do any of that though. If you don’t like big women, another woman berating you doesn’t mean it’ll make someone immediately date them. Both sides have annoying people but they don’t really matte
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:45 AM
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Lmao. Have you dated any of them? Probably not. You have freedom of choice and to think you don’t is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:44 AM
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No one should settle. If you settle you’ll only think of what your missing out until the relationship ends. Men shouldn’t settle, but are uncomfortable being single when they shouldn’t. Women don’t settle because they’re comfortable being single. Being in a relationship won’t help fix someone’s life and men think that for some reason men should try to learn to live with themselves and improve their life because a relationship is a combination of theirs and their partners. Not some magical concep…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:43 AM
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Exactly. A relationship takes two people working it out together. That is a hard thing to do. People can barely work with themselves so to expect a forced relationship is odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:41 AM
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I’m aware. It was sarcasm since it’s clearly not the real reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:02 PM
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Having kids is honestly wild. I feel like with how we treat kids with more respect now that’s also another reason we don’t want to ruin someone’s life since we understand how difficult it is to properly raise a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:35 PM
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You think it’s good faith. It’s a weird conversation to have. You’re treating woman, or rather people, as resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:23 PM
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lol. I love how behavior is based on gender. Like most men, very narrow minded. Yeah. Women get laid easier because men throw themselves at women. Not really a new discovery. Men will fuck almost any woman out of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:31 AM
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Lol. I love how the first reason is contraceptives. Is that what’s going on in Japan? A lot of sex and a lot of birth control?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:50 AM
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Are they better? Younger women on average aren’t fully employed so they don’t pay their half and reliant on someone til they complete school. Conversation wise, if you have more similar interest to a younger person it’s due to immaturity. Personality is completely dependent on preferences. Do I wanna hear a younger woman rant about her life and non issues or about how her and her friends had a wild weekend? Absolutely not. That’s annoying. Less baggage, no. Everyone has different lives so baggag…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:07 AM
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Well that’s your choice. Then it’s just gonna be a woman taking your money, something men also hate. Something men do on their own will yet make themselves think they were they ones coerced into it because certain men can’t think long term. So in a way while looking out for women men also get a heads up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:09 AM
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Is it because they want to get with you? Or is it because you are much older for someone that young and have no commonalities. Typically there will always be someone you’re attracted to. I’m sure you do that daily. And when you do it constantly to someone that could be 18-20 their age could be possibly younger since sometimes ages do blend. I’d say it’s better to not let intrusive thoughts like that take over unless you verify more info like age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:18 PM
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It’s a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:12 PM
1

But how often do you make dumb mistakes and how detrimental are they to your life. No one is perfect but there is a difference between mistakes done in late teens and as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:06 PM
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It’s not a conspiracy. Clearly a grown man can easily wow an impressionable 20 year old with little effort. “Look at what I can buy with my full time job, now let’s sleep together” Also in theory isn’t the old man chad you guys hate so much as well. So on one side you hate this person but now defend them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:08 AM
1

I’d love to see the numbers for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:06 AM
1

Haven’t you seen legislation for it it’s everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:05 AM
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You’re not since it gets posted at least once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:03 AM
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lol. I love how you misread that civil and levelheaded conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:03 AM
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Where exactly did I say that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:51 AM
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That’s true. But with age comes knowledge and with knowledge a more developed and critical thinking brain someone will have. If you think 25 is a dumb standard, the lack of one is also pretty far fetched since how are these things graded then. You believe a immature teen telling you their more mature, something every teen believes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:21 AM
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It’s not. 18 is fresh out of high school. Much closer to early teen than 20s mentality. There is a difference in thought pattern and choice making, you just want to pretend it doesn’t exist to make yourself feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:18 AM
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Lol. Why would anyone want to hear what you don’t want in a partner. If you can’t understand why someone doesn’t want to hear you talk badly about someone then you just don’t understand having conversations. There are things you don’t necessarily need to share. Would you also bring up other aspects about your future partners sexuality like “must give oral, must have sex x times a week”. It is weird to bring up. It’s not that you can’t be picky, you think anyone wholeheartedly cares about who you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:20 AM
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Then explain to them why you’re not. Clearly it has to do with how you’re communicating your ideas. And like I said, if you don’t want that then you also don’t have to share it. Why not talk about what you do want instead of not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:44 AM
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It could be that you could say off putting statements as I’ve mentioned If you find a promiscuous women what do you do? Shame them? Tell them women shouldn’t be so promiscuous? Why would anyone listen to a stranger? Just cause you want that doesn’t mean anyone has to listen or follow your order. You can want that and that is for you to deal with. Not expect the world to do it for you. A constant example is no fat chicks. You know what happens if you feel that way too? Avoid them. That’s it. No o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:24 AM
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Yeah. Variables are huge. So that’s why men obsessed with age is weird since they think all young women are the same. They’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:22 AM
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Can you prove that jealousy is the main factor? If not then you’re just saying it as an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:21 AM
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No one is. Men take it as such because men take everything critically. If you don’t want a promiscuous women you simply don’t date them. That’s it. Shaming them and also demanding all women to not be promiscuous to improve the dating pool you want is the part that doesn’t make sense. If you want a virgin they’re out there, they might not be attractive or to your liking but they’re out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:03 AM
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Jealousy can always be a factor but when used as a reason to not believe the rest it is in bad faith. I’d say the jealous factor is almost negligible factor unless you can prove it otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:01 AM
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Lol. That article is full of “scientist not sure”. Which is fair since it is relatively new. Would you think you are more mature now or when you were younger? Do you make better decisions now or when younger? There is development in people and it doesn’t peak when they mature hormonally. When that age is a huge variable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:45 AM
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Yeah. It’s up in the air, I didn’t say it was solid evince nor did I say exactly 25. But as you age you do become more certain of choices and lifestyle as opposed to being young and more impresionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:42 AM
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It matters because what do you to children. You teach them. So women teach young women about manipulative men. That’s why it happens. I also didn’t used the word studies lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:40 AM
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Yeah. You’re right again. Sex isn’t a big deal and people so hyper focused on it are weird and unaware of what matters. Guys should stop placing such sex at the level of importance it has.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:45 AM
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It’s not magical. Can you think more comprehensibly as you get older? Can you make better choices as a 25+’year old than you did when you were 13, 18, 21? Most likely. Yes there’s always variables but the norm is the norm. Meaning average. Edit: since i just remembered how I felt and I’m sure most others feel, when you’re 16-18 everyone thinks they’re more mature. Does that mean that makes it true? Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:44 AM
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The first rule to kinks is there is agreement or else it’s sexual assault. It needs all agreeing parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:42 AM
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Attraction is still odd since I’m all honestly men do check out underage women unbeknownst to them. Does that make it better? No. Neither does using a matured brain to overpower an immature one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:41 AM
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Voting is a completely different issue. Not that you’re wrong nor do I disagree but getting legislation to change that will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:40 AM
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Online and real life aren’t the same. And pedo isn’t the term that gets thrown around, typically people use grooming more often. You’re just using these choice of words to get others to agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:07 AM
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It’s not the same. Men can and do have preferences. If men didn’t then they’d have to date whoever they were told to. Just how men aren’t forced so shouldn’t women and if a woman wants to give a heads up to another woman then so be it. If women giving each other advice just how men do affects you negatively then maybe their advice is working at keeping the creeps away
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:06 AM
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Lol, it’s not because of that. Men can have their preferences. Women are just tired of men aiming at unsuspecting younger women that don’t know better. Yes they’re adults but what’s wrong with an adult giving another adult a heads up about someone potentially manipulating them because they’re gonna be used. If you have this level of discontent with women and think men don’t have rights then you’ve just spent way too much time online where it’s unhealthy. Clearly you are critical towards woman to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:04 AM
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Also add the fact that the younger women will grow and develop into someone different within a few years while the man will stay the same. When the woman matures the man will lose interested since some men just want a doe eyed woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:01 AM
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25 is the age where most adults start to fully develop their brain. Not a meme, but rather studied. Age and experience come hand in hand for the most part. But definitely money and age since money can get people to do things and age gives people that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:58 AM
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When you think about brain development 18 years olds are children compared to a matured 25+ year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:55 AM
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That would be fun to see. If you do post it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:23 AM
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They key to explaining this to other men is use men as an example for them to get it. They clearly don’t care about the women feelings so you telling them to doesn’t matter to them. It’ll make sense if you explain an older man explaining to younger men to be careful of women using them for money. It’s men looking out for men. Now on the other side women tell younger women to be careful of older men manipulating them into sleeping with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:49 AM
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“They’re hotter and don’t know better”. Men also don’t care about the women since clearly they just care she’s hot. Someone older wouldn’t fall for it. It’s manipulation and if you don’t like that others try to prevent it it’s because you’re gross. Think of it in a different manner: if men get used to pay dates wouldn’t you tell them to be careful and not spend so much since they’ll be using them? That’s what women are doing to younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:43 AM
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This is why people think men are gross because some are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:41 AM
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It’s for a few factors. Men kinda want attention from any woman. Women are more selective. If men weren’t as desperate as they make themselves be and understand more about themselves and the women they want to talk to then it would benefit them. One main thing men need to understand is that hitting on a woman is equivalent to just having a conversation with a stranger. How often are most people even into that anymore. Which also makes the beginning phase of talking a challenge but that’s just da…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:39 AM
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lol, not a woman btw. Women do put effort when they want. Just because a woman hasn’t put effort into you doesn’t mean they don’t for other men. I’ve seen women get ready and excited for dates with me and put effort in taking me out and paying. It does happen even though it doesn’t happen to you. Also lol. Lying about getting laid online like that is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:27 AM
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That’s why TRP is silly. It’s just making women sound inhuman. Anyone’s attraction can’t be negotiated. As much as I get men wanting help, desperation can place anyone in bad positions and get incorrect information. As beneficial as it may seem there are unhealthy aspects to it as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:25 AM
3

So instead of height it’s weight. You’ve figured someone’s issues by one known factor. You really think you have the level of premonition
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:38 AM
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They complain and then reinforce their ideas that it’s women’s fault so not helpful. The opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:37 AM
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Women put effort. They’re much more social people than most men at least within their social groups. Men just want it to be more like ordering things off the menu instead of working towards it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:22 PM
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They want it without the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:01 PM
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Lol. Imagine thinking you know someone because you know their height lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:00 PM
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It’s a complaint that no one necessarily can fix and it’s so constant that it does get tiresome to read. It’s hard out there, what can you do to change that? Tell other men that women are bad because of x? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:59 PM
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No one should be shamed for sex in general. Unless that’s the kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:57 PM
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Lmao. Can you see into the future? Can you and TRP guarantee every man happiness? No. You don’t need TRP to get better either. Gym membership: easy to get without TRP. Self help articles from actual professionals: easy to find. TRP is just turning every sad lonely guy into an obnoxious “Chad” character that they think they have to be to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:56 PM
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Disgusted, probably not, but OP thinks they should provide some type of girlfriend experience which some do. But strippers sell stripping, not usually the works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:49 PM
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No it’s not. You don’t need sex to self actualize. You need self help to do that. You think by changing who you are you’ll be happy but you’re only gonna hate yourself and the women you attract because they’re falling for a fake version of you. You will get the women you think you want by selling yourself and saying you’ll be a Chad and provide and then you’ll hate that the women you are getting only want to use you yet that’s what you’re working towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:31 PM
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It’s not widely accepted, but it is a step in that direction. Most sex workers don’t necessarily want it to be known so they can try to have a normal life outside. One way I’ve seen is they prevent their vids or photos from being seen or bought in certain countries so that way only other people far away can see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:18 PM
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That’s because you and other men lie to themselves. The whole point of buying sex is you’re buying it, not the persons love and affection. It’s not equivalent like a lot of men think. It’s like going to a restaurant, you pay and they feed you with the ideal expectation of having one of the best meals of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:15 PM
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Men only believe men and if a man told them women like bad boys then they place themselves in helpless situations
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:43 PM
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It does. If you want to attract women with vanity (money and possessions) then the only woman attracted to you are attracted to your things. Which if that’s what you want go for it you’re only gonna end up complaining about that later
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:14 PM
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lol this man writes in funny text because he can’t express his thoughts properly. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:13 PM
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You don’t get it, a man told him that women like annoying guys. Why would they ask a woman for suggestions when a man already told them what to do lol. Sometimes men are helpless like in this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:11 PM
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Lmao. Men that think that are just attracted to men peacocking as well. Not everyone thinks being a loud douche is fun. Sometimes it’s way more fun to make fun of them since they’re so unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:11 PM
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The only reason why being nice wouldn’t work is it it’s a clear tactic to get laid or men just don’t really know that they aren’t nice but think they are. It’s a misconception either way. On the other hand you could also just have an unlikeable personality, which if you say women only fuck bad boys and criminals (lmao) you probably are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:10 PM
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Somehow men think more sexual partners will improve their life or “value”. It’s so unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:08 PM
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Exactly. Men will complain about women not giving them attention, fall into TRP, and then complain women only want them for money. That’s the women you go for so that’s on you. When the selling point is money and a character you fabricate then that’s the reason you’re loved, not for your actual self.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:06 PM
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I know lol. Imagine thinking you can just fuck your spouse as you’d like because you’re married. Some people really don’t have any idea of what a relationship is and it’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:43 PM
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When you literally say refusal of sex is illegal yeah. Try that in court
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:39 PM
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Lol. Expecting others to change for you when you can change for yourself. No wonder you don’t like women, they never meet your expectations and vise versa. Men on the other hand, you like and could like much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:59 PM
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Lol. Whatever makes you slightly less sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:57 PM
2

That’s true. That’s this sub in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:53 AM
0

It’ll double the dating pool. Don’t be prude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:51 AM
1

Well who want to deal with a whiner. Dating or friend wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:44 AM
5

Lol. Imagine not enjoying being nagged but also nagging women to date them. You get nagging when it’s done to you but not when you do it to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:40 AM
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Lmao. Not fixing society but fixing it. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:27 AM
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The data being Cheetos lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:27 AM
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Lmao. I don’t want kids nor marriage so you’re wrong. I’m just happy being me and don’t expect society to fix my issues like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:19 AM
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So that proves my initial point. “You don’t think most men ignore them like yourself. Women bringing issues up doesn’t mean they’ll be resolved just like men bringing it up.” You don’t owe woman anything they don’t owe men anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:18 AM
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Lol. You’re gonna help men by lying online and telling them they’re owed something?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:17 AM
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Lmao. I’m a man my guy. Go for it. I’d love to hear your perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:59 AM
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Lmao. assumptions. Do you care about feminist? Probably not. Unless you’re gonna pretend like you do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:58 AM
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Lmao. Imagine bragging online. It’s like lying. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:57 AM
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His problem is society hasn’t provided him a partner and thinks it’s everyone’s else’s problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:50 AM
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Women say boss babe and men uplift themselves online thinking they’re owed a relationship. It goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:50 AM
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Lol. Saying freedom of outcome sounds way more intense then it is. So pretentious. Imagine someone not liking you and then you act like you were owed something lol. If you don’t find a woman attractive would you still have to be with them because they want a relationship? Non that’s absurd. Think about it that way for women. Why do they owe you anything and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:49 AM
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It’s not because it’s inconsistent. You as a man feel biased since you wish it were easier. Why do you think society owes you a partner. If you want one figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:46 AM
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Men and women are also not wanting kids in mass so it’s not really a downside like you see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:44 AM
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You don’t think most men ignore them like yourself. Women bringing issues up doesn’t mean they’ll be resolved just like men bringing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:43 AM
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If you think eating Cheetos is the reason you don’t have a partner, it’s not, it’s because you think that is why you don’t have a partner. No one wants to be with someone that’s so sad about themselves because that means they have to uplift them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:42 AM
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You say that but you don’t get ir
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:38 AM
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Is it cause you keep bringing it up lmao. “2/3, no sex, no kids, so sad”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:49 AM
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Boo hoo. No one cares. Why do you care about who’s fucking. Let it go. Move on. “Oh no, I’m miserable, lonely, and sad, everyone else should be like me because it’s not fair” Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:42 AM
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There’s more than just that. The main thing is resources are not as bountiful as we used to pretend
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:34 AM
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lol. Are you a judge. Divorce is fine. If the relationship is at the end just end it. You’re an adult. No need to pretend to be happy just to not be lonely. Grow up and move on People didn’t not divorce because of morals but rather because they couldn’t. Imagine needing the government telling you to stay together and you listen lol Also housing is expensive as hell. Not getting laid is so irrelevantlol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:33 AM
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That’s not important unless you’re just bitter you’re not getting laid. Which if you are then no one cares since it only affects you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:32 AM
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Also having children isn’t a requirement for everyone. Having kids suck if you’d rather just live your life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:46 AM
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You sound like a complete abnormality. Most parents suck unfortunately. If you have your household under control good for you but not every parent is like that. You see how hunger and homeless is a thing for kids in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:13 AM
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Lol. It is economics just cause the west is rich doesn’t mean everyone in the west is rich. The biggest thing now is housing. It’s so expensive and they’re making it “affordable” by getting rid of kitchens and other parts of the home. Lol. Women’s independence has less to do with it specially in Japan. It’s overworking and less time for relationships because the men want that. In the US it’s both men and women understanding kids aren’t for everyone. Adopting a pet is an alternative. Divorce isn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:12 AM
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It is hard. If you don’t think so it’s because you’re unaware of it. Try taking care of a young relative for once without ignoring them or giving them an electronics to distract themselves with. Being a good parent and mentor is different from just being present.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:17 PM
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It makes sense to not have kids at all either for most people. Before the family meant a lot for many reasons: high child mortality rate, children were used for labor (farms and factories). Now we’ve evolved and learned that kids are people and should be treated as such and if you have empathy to understand what you’re capable of doing for another living being than maybe for the betterment of both your life and their possible life to not have them. Not saying everyone will be a bad parent, but a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:10 PM
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Lmao. There is so much lore in this sub I’ve never heard about. This is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:03 PM
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Lol. OP really wants accountability on something he has no control over. Simps will always exist since men think with their dicks that’s really it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:02 PM
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There’s other factors then the ones your thinking of. Economically and financially: having kids is a financial burden that you understand when you think about the child’s future and don’t just have them because it’s “your next step in life” Freedom: no kids, more time to do as you please and in some cases no partner more time to do as you please. That’s more so in the US as in Japan they are known for using more free time to work more. In other countries travel and leisure are much bigger. Socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:53 PM
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It’s not obvious since not everyone wants to date their friends. Why do guys want to ruin friendships? If men can’t be happy with friends it makes sense why they assume a relationship will make them happy since they don’t understand relationships to begin with. You can’t easily exchange a friendship for a relationship. The friend is being nice since they’re friends, not interested. So weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:04 PM
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If you’re aware of it then why not better yourself or why don’t other men do that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:00 PM
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Lmao that’s not how it works. I avoid people most of the time since I’m introverted and I like that. I just understand the benefits of being unbothered and can see when others want it as well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:22 PM
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Yeah, how can you have feelings or interest in someone you don’t know? It makes no sense for rejection of someone you haven’t even gotten to know to even affect you. Just move on. If I approach someone I find attractive, try to talk to them, and it goes no where, I wasted less then 5 minutes. Why linger on that when I can just move on. It was a nothing situation. We wait in line longer than we converse with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:17 AM
1

Men still fall for it. It’s their version of women falling for the bad boy type.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:31 AM
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Lol. You’re such an edge lord. No wonder you have difficulty with women, if you can’t even stand their existence. Try dating men and be happy for once if that’s how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:14 PM
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Yeah. Men are manipulative like this. Men aren’t as pure as they think they are. Both men and women are into casual sex if that’s what the want. Not a surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:38 PM
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lol. You think they demand it. All the women in your life that. You’ll be surprised. That’s what you think. Lol. So women should just not exist in public. That’s your solution? Just how women aren’t harassing men it should go the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:36 PM
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It is. You’re judging women for something would do if they could. Are you telling me men wouldn’t have sex with attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:34 PM
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They would if they could. Just because they’re not doesn’t mean women shouldn’t if they could. Lol. Thinking so narrow minded like that is pretty funny. “Um ladies, stop that behavior, we’re having not that much fun on the guy side so please stop it” Just cause you’re not having fun doesn’t mean the rest of the world needs to stop for you and uplift you. Live your life and they’ll live theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:55 PM
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Is their influence suppose to be used like this? No. I doubt if anyone let’s them know “hey some weirdo pitted you four against each other as his weird litmus test” they’ll be appalled. It is related to the women. It’s part of their personality. Something that you have to deal with in your partner. It’s like the Jonah hill issue with him wanting a hot gf and then telling her to stop being hot online lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:53 PM
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This is stupid because if a man can fuck a hot woman without getting to know them they would too. It’s just women do it so it’s bad. Keep self victimizing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:55 PM
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It tells you nothing. It just tells you these people love to post on social media. Which makes me not want any. Also I love this post because the fact you found what you think are 4 different women and had the gall to link their actual IG instead of maybe taking screenshots is hilarious sad. It’s so creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:54 PM
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Lol. Your way to combat women being victims is by becoming one. You are a non stop joke machine. M
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:08 PM
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Yeah. It is funny. You did all this to self report. Well you did it in hope of having guys jump in and agree with you but that failed and now you’re trying to make sense out of an idiotic take. “Why don’t strangers talk to me”. cause no one owes you anything. Who wants to be bothered because you’re bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:05 PM
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It is. Since that’s the reason why. It’s funny you assume I’m a woman. You’re just biased as hell and it’s funny to laugh at even as a guy. There you are calling women holes again lmao. You are hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:02 PM
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Because he agrees with it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:45 PM
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Lol. Only because you like it. It’s trash
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:44 PM
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lol. Men have it hard when they can’t learn to process their emotions. Of course they’re falling behind, they’re as angsty as when they were in their teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:44 PM
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Lol. “ I don’t respect women enough to understand women also hit a wall, I only see them for their looks and if they hit a wall there then that’s what i care about”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:43 PM
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How about people just do as they please? If a man wants to try he can but if he’s turned down learn to take rejection better instead. Why should a woman that’s not interested have to deal with an unwanted conversation and then a disgruntled man? Have you been bothered while out and about and not enjoyed it? It’s not fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:41 PM
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OP literally tried to neg the readers into why he should neg women into sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:38 PM
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Lol. To think a woman should submit to conversation in hopes that you’ll get to fuck is the reason why the other commentator said what they said. You’re acting like you’re a good person but clearly not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:37 PM
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It can be. I also never infered you should hit on your friends. If anything, since you can talk to women due to having platonic female friends you can also meet more and with them possibly take it further. The pool of women doesn’t end with the ones you currently know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:26 AM
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Then you lack communication skills where you can translate it into something more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:59 AM
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Lol. Using chads unironically. This will be fun. If people can’t communicate then “chads” who can will have an upper hand and those with more resources will as well because money talks. What a surprise. If men like yourself could express yourself in a healthy manner I’m sure you’d have better luck as well. But you’d rather yell and be upset and that will definitely not help befriend women or men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:09 AM
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And just like that, people react ever so quickly and it makes people not want to talk to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:49 AM
1

In terms of probability asking will give you 50/50. Not 50/50 chances but 50 yes and 50 no since it’s either or. Not asking is always 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:08 AM
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Saltiness comes in both flavors that are in this sub. It’s funny to see either or try to make a point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:07 AM
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Lol. Nothing like a nostalgia blast. It’s not bad either now it’s just people have lost a lot of power in communication with others. It’s still possible to navigate the world, it’s just with social skills as it always has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:34 AM
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The best part is if you don’t discriminate you’ll realize there are people that suck regardless of gender, race, age, etc. vetting is a skill and you can only get better at it with proper practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:33 AM
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I mean if a woman celebrity had one so would men. But women don’t necessarily buy porn. That’s not really a good barometer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:21 AM
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Because women don’t spend money on porn like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:01 AM
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Is that what they’re asking? The women in your life, do they tell you this? Or is it just things other men tell you? There is definitely woman that have that mentality but there are also men that give the rest of men a bad name. It’s unfortunate that a loud majority ruins a whole gender for men or women since it’s not reality. Think about it from a woman’s perspective that think all men are incels. You’re doing that to an extent but from a males perspective. Women i talk to in life are just livi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:41 PM
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So if you feel like men don’t get respect your response is to also not respect women. Why does one have to coincide with the other that way? Why not just do your part and treat them both well. It’s such an odd choice by men to take it out on women in such a weird way. As if all women are responsible for men’s grievances.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:01 PM
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Lmao. I love how you’re answering for me. That’s funny. I hope you know that your experience as a man isn’t that of everyone. We are all different. Just because you’re sad doesn’t mean I’ll be
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:09 PM
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The reason they’re fighting for rights is because men don’t respect women simply because they’re women. No other factor. It’s like Islam and the Middle East. Is that how extreme you want to go. Just because your experience of life as a man sucks doesn’t mean it’s women’s fault somehow. It’s such a lame scapegoat and it makes other men that aren’t insane feel ashamed There’s is a difference between a woman not being into you and also you discriminating someone because they are a women. A women Ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:06 PM
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Lol. You guys write some of the best fiction. It’s always about an apocalyptic world where women deny men of all their rights good thing men are taking a stand at the evil women making it illegal to cohabitate with the other sex. Women make spectacles that I’m sure you don’t care for nor do I. I don’t stop to help a damsel in distress and again, I’m sure you don’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:03 PM
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It isn’t. How is it anyone’s problem that you’re hurt. Men should learn to process their emotions better, not expect others to do it for them. If I cry or am having a bad day I’m not gonna demand someone I don’t know acknowledge me and make me feel better. I’ll talk to those support systems I’ve created to help me out. People that care about me and hold importance in my life, not a random woman or man. If a woman makes you feel bad about her not liking you what do you expect her to do? Lie to he…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:26 PM
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I never said that lol. I simply differentiated why women and the feminist movement differs from men wanting to be acknowledged by all women. Equality is the goal of feminism. Not the extreme feminist you’re talking about which do exist. Men want to get coddled by women that don’t even know them. Not the same type of fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:14 PM
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Lol yeah I sure said that. Only way you can even attempt to make a point is by fabricating it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:11 PM
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How is it a loop. Fat and obese, are not one in the same. That’s where I’m differentiating them since you and OP can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:49 PM
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Accept being miserable? I haven’t and I made it to a happier place. It’s men like you that make it worse for other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:37 PM
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Not really. It’s as if it’s a stab wound and your solution is stop the bleeding without ever removing the knife. Men that are hurt have a knife in them that they are too scared to get removed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:19 PM
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lol. Just your phrasing just shows that you can’t have a conversation since your idea of a feminist is an extreme version of it. Kinda how if a person infers all upset men as incels they also are too out of reality to have a proper conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:17 PM
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You misspelled a few of your words. Self improvement is always good and that includes mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:51 PM
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It’s not. It’s delusional that that’s all this sub is obsessed with. Always interested in everything but the norm to try to make a poor point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:50 PM
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Many states, is it all. No. You’re thought process is still incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:44 PM
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It’s not the norm. Your word choice says obese. Are Americans bigger, yes. Are the majority obese. No. And why nit pick women when men aren’t that far off either. Why hyper focus on a few people you don’t necessarily care for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:11 PM
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Lol. Feminist exist because a little over a century ago they barely had the rights the do now and that level of equality didn’t occur because it was written into law. That’s about equality in work spaces and not to be judged for being a woman. Not because men aren’t taking their emotions into account like men do. It’s funny men want to be with women but also don’t respect them at all. No wonder the dating scene it’s trash
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:10 PM
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You talk as if it has 100% efficacy. The reason it gets flak is because of that self inflated ego that gets created with the TRP. It doesn’t always work. Acting to be someone else isn’t everybody’s lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:09 PM
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They’re not hooking up because men have chosen instead of actually taking to women to talk about women online like this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:05 PM
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It does apply, you and OP forget that there are normal people out there just because you two are jaded
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:05 PM
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This question is asked so often. Why are people so interested in a population that is not the norm? This is part of why some of you have unhealthy detachment from reality. People date who they find appealing and that comes in different ways. It’s not all cookie cutter and their is no way to guarantee that someone’s preferences will not change as they grow okder
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:03 PM
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It rewards people thag try more. If anything being toxic allows men to pretend to be extroverted when they’re not and talk to more women then they normally would. If they used to be at home and introverted then just changing that mannerism will obviously help. It’s good until it’s not. Since again, men are taking on a personality that isn’t their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:00 PM
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You’re not wrong in thinking that. You’re just wrong in thinking it doesn’t happen. For the most part, younger parents don’t do as much studying as their older counterparts and societally wise we are getting a better understanding at how to raise kids but as a whole there is a lot lacking. Take kids that are homeless and hungry because of their parents. That’s not a majority but it happens. On the other side of the spectrum you have the kids you think exist in mass, the ones that have providing …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:59 PM
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Not really. People lack a lot of skills. It’s human. People in this sub, for example, want to be in a relationship and lack inter gender socializing and expect their relationship to be without fault. People don’t necessarily work on themselves how they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:56 PM
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It’s something that needs to be done within the men’s friend group. To want the world to be liable for something mainly a few should isnweird.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:35 PM
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This is why men get depressed, stay depressed, and have higher suicide rates. Get help instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:33 PM
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How many parents are comfortable being mentors to their children. If anything parents just want to raise a child and provide for them. Not every parent is like those in TV. parents have their own issues and that can get in the way of better parenting
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:26 PM
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The fun thing about being a parent is there are no prerequisites. So you think they should but they don’t have to. Your idealization of a perfect parent is very few in between. It’s not a commonality for men or women to be amazing parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:23 PM
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You literally blame the parents that are remaining. If it’s a fatherless family that only leaves the mother, a woman, remaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:06 PM
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What tools do you think a dad gives their kids when they are in the picture? Not all dads are this idealized man you think they are. My dad was a drunk and taught me nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:05 PM
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It’s not. What do you expect the parents to do, do all the work for their kid? People are independent and it’s their choices that they will live and die by. A parent can’t coddle a child specially not their adult child. Saying that is helpful as much as you don’t believe it. The parents believe in their kids to do right and that’s what gives it meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:03 PM
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Lol exactly. As if the sex talk isn’t an uncomfortable one already. Somehow it’s mom and grandmas fault that they raised a child alone, it’s never seen as a good thing. What if both parents gave up is that better?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:02 PM
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Yeah if anything women can teach their boys more social skills than men. Men are usually unfortunately very loneresque by their own choice and I doubt a father would also explain how to fuck or get laid since who wants to have these conversations with their kids. Socializing is huge
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:01 PM
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Do you believe that women tell their daughters all the things that men tell their sons? The sex talk is a huge uncomfortable conversation and it’s not necessarily one that parents want to divulge in general to their kids for either gender. Just how grandma and mom just call men handsome it is the least and most uplifting comment that the can give comfortably. What do you want, for them to call you stud and sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:59 PM
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You’re the one that put it in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:55 PM
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Men want petite and thin. If you’re talking about how women online make profiles, just like men, they’ll reach for the stars. It’s a time when people can write off putting things and think it’s okay, which it is but it’s also information that both men and women can withhold Same as 1. And also women don’t just go for sculpted men. When you go out this weekend or whenever look at the couples you see and notice how not everyone is muscular and fit. This misconception is self fabricated. This one i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:42 PM
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So you see how unappealing it is the other way around too then
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:28 PM
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Because they’re is ways to take rejection than getting mad and then becoming someone that has internalized hate towards the gender they’re trying to date. If you’re not emotionally mature to withstand rejection you’re probably not mature for a relationship which shows since people are constantly in bad relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:15 PM
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That’s all you and the other person have to say? It’s words. If you need to reread them they don’t run away To think you can’t have a sentence that long is a mentality that shows you haven’t read a book you weren’t told to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:13 PM
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This only works if this works with both your personality types. If your wife needs constant affection then you being distant will not necessarily be what she wants. If you want affection it’s not necessarily what you’d want. Also at some point you’d have to realize that a long term partner you can’t really play these games. It takes a lot of communication, not lack of.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:37 AM
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I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:31 AM
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People say this but then also when they’re let down nicely they’re also not happy with that too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:30 AM
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You misread it. The machismo part is an act. The act that any man can be an outstanding character that will be there for everyone and expect nothing in return. Not everyone can actually be like that and it can be an unbearable burden to some that would like to be pretend to be that way. We are who we are as people, ever so different and if we can live with ourselves and try to live some other life it is a matter of time til that burden makes the person unhappy with an act they don’t necessarily …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:51 AM
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Men here constantly complain that they can’t get hot women too. Wow. Not so different. And if they can’t get hot women they just get sad and don’t even try with less attractive women. Just like women do. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:06 AM
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They are different in many regards. The toxic part comes when the man is tired of the act of being that machismo character. A traditional masculine man does it on their own volition since it’s their personality trait not a fake trying to pretend like they can do everything but needs support. Which there’s nothing wrong with needing help but when you isolate yourself to be perceived a certain way then it becomes a hopeless situation of a man wanting to be this stoic man even though they can’t sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:04 AM
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It’s all an act. An act that will backfire on men and is. Men do this and become emotionally inept. They make themselves believe they can’t be emotional with anyone and that in time will fester to something that will affect men or anybody that can’t process their emotions properly negatively. It’s not good. It’s all an act.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:01 AM
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Don’t men tell themselves as well to get what they want, like in this sub. This isn’t really taking the question into account since this is for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:52 AM
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Men lack empathy so they only think about themselves and are oblivious to women that share similar struggles. To men in these subs only the attractive men and women exist since that’s all that matters somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:51 AM
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Anyone can learn to love someone but the thing is no one has to. It’s a choice and if no one wants to that’s really it. No need to push it. If you want to empathize with it think of an ugly woman wanting you as their partner. Would you oblige?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:13 AM
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I mean you could. I wouldn’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:44 AM
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That just means you have better chemistry with men. good for you. It seems men also have faults as well. Wow. Both sides have their issues. What an amazing revelation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:41 PM
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Lol. I’m sure all those responses are completely valid. Why would any self respecting person refute it when it’s clearly a joke of a thread. Take your time to write a better post and maybe you’ll be treated with respect instead of laughed at
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:40 PM
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No. Just a horrible writer. Your take is bad anyways since sex drive has to do a lot with hormones and less with men v women. Also men being horny doesn’t mean they are driven to please. It just means they want to cum or have sex. Sexual chemistry is key to wanting to make your partner cum and if that’s not in a relationship then it’s just not there. It’s not the end of the world. If you want sex to be a key part to your relationship that’s on you not on society
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:37 PM
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Which makes sense. I feel like a large amount of people, as much as they want to be in a relationship, aren’t really set up for success since it’s a field that has way to many variables for one to understand until they go through them. It doesn’t mean woman are not good, since men also have their own issues. It’s more so a fault of being a multifaceted person and learning for someone else to accept you in an extremely intimate way It’s not a gendered thing at all and if you think it is because y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:15 PM
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I hate being a man because of morons like you lol. How disgruntled are you with your job that’s most likely in an office environment since those type of jobs are the main employers. We’re not primarily out in the oil fields or professions like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:01 PM
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Says the guy that is okay with woman dying depending since they’re in the workspace.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:31 PM
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Never said any of that. Just making fun of your thought process or lack there of You even claim your “research” isn’t real and want us to take you seriously lol. How could we not make fun your lack of self awareness. If you don’t even hood yourself to your own standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:31 PM
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I feel like most people in relationships are also just holding on out of fear of being alone being unhappy in a relationship til someone can’t take it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:29 AM
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People forgetting they have choices in their lives is always funny cause they make themselves victims to themselves for no reason. Marriage is also pointless not because women make it bad for men but rather because it means nothing unless you’re into it religiously. It’s just a ceremony that costs money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:28 AM
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So you’re just afraid that you have to work harder since the work pool is twice as large because of women. It’s funny that men hate that women have rights and this is why they fought for them. Because people like you always think you know better when you don’t. If someone would rather take agency of their lives and work instead of being miserable at home then let them be. A woman not wanting to be responsible for a strange man’s happiness is not equivalent to a man taking advantage of their part…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:26 AM
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I’d say the average relationship is average looking folk. People pass each other so often we kinda blend in so it’s easy to forget what we see but I’d definitely say most couples are just normal looking people not the “attractive” part of society that online communities think is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:19 AM
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Why do men believe men way more and out words in women’s mouths? It’s funny that men think women don’t want monogamy because another man told them so. It’s a bunch of gossip queens lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:16 AM
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Not really. A lot of negative things will always tag on at least something viable to not make it complete shit. Exercise is mainly in TRP dialogue because it’s extremely vain and that’s what they teach. It’s healthy to a degree but if you follow it all the way through it really is nothing other than vanity. Which is fine by both genders and usually if that’s what you want to attract then that’s all good but to tell all men that’s what they should go for is not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:15 AM
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Men that don’t process their emotions because emotions aren’t manly are everywhere. Rage is a common emotion that they show because of internalizing emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:11 AM
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What are your type of girls and what type of guy are you that you can’t find them in person? Do you think you’d even pair well with the girls you want to date or simply want to date them because of looks? If that’s the case then what common ground do you think you’ll have and similarities/ shared interest? I feel like guys largely set themselves up for failure by going for women that they honestly have no chemistry with. In person is always possible but it always depends on you. Do you want a sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:08 AM
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So all you have is anecdotes… as you ask for none anecdotal evidence? Why don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:03 AM
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It’s always the case with these idiotic posts. “I made this all up for my argument now you show me valid proof go” lol. People really post a lot online just to say they don’t get laid or how to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:03 AM
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Have you ever considered your friends are in bad relationships? I feel like the perception that once you’re in relationship you’re in a good relationship that it is incorrect. People will be in bad relationships due to bad chemistry. Sometimes people love the turmoil since it gives them a rush. Other people want something more calm and safe. Everyone is different and everyone’s needs are different. If you want a not so shitty relationship than that’s up to you to do it. Not for you to ask an onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:59 AM
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You asked everyone in your group? That’s some good comms
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:13 AM
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Yeah OP. People aren’t complex. Men think one way and woman another. Stop trying to be different and fall in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:12 AM
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From this perspective you’re saying men without any neurodivergence should have it easier and I’m sure a lot of them would disagree. The battle to the bottom of who has it the hardest is such a weird hill to die on. Why not use this forum as a way to find out how other neurodivergent people are doing instead of going “as a neurodivergent guy I suffer the most”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:03 AM
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Also the language barrier and culture shock.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:01 AM
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It’s funny you say that since men on this sub constantly bring up that being wanted feels good, but in this thread when a women does it it’s bad. The likelihood that all women want that is 0%, there are normal women that want normal relationships, not everything is an extreme. Not every woman wants someone to bend at their whim. You personally know people in relationships. Does the female partner have all these extreme demands that your friends are complaining about or is it just things made up …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:44 PM
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They’re probably no on this sub lol. Wrong group of people to ask. Asking others that are critical about the dating scene for a good opinion on this is gonna be hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:42 PM
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You can play with your own my man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:21 AM
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It doesn’t take evolution for you to just say fuck it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:57 AM
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Lol. Good luck having a relationship with Oxytocin. That’ll go over well. Surely all you do in a relationship is stare at the other person. Speaking and spending time with your partner, who would ever do that. A lasting relationship is one in which no one talks to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:57 AM
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Lol. You’re talking to some dude doing a horrible job at being a woman and it’s hilarious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:02 AM
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Lol. Yeah you’re a woman lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:02 AM
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Lol. Says the guy pretending to be a woman. You’re not good at it and it’s sad. Your post history gives it away btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:01 AM
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Go men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:42 AM
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Men do everything woman just show up. M I rite fellas? Based?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:36 AM
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Men are awesome and women, not so much. Only men can fall in love. Women are wenches and stand for everything men don’t. I think men should date men and avoid their negative energy. Only men understand men and are romantic and have high sex drive. Who’s a better partner for a man other than a man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:34 AM
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You don’t care about anything unless it’s reinforced ideas so what does it matter lol. Believe what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:26 AM
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Men are desperate, not romantics. As a man you’re clearly biased about that. To think only one gender is romantic, the gender you’re born into lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:05 AM
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Haha yeah men are pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:04 AM
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Good job at noticing. It’s a feature on this site. I already said I’m good. Knock yourself out though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:49 AM
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Nah I’m good. I value my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:38 AM
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Ok. Don’t be like this guy. Wanting companionship but not caring about the person. Good luck. Does that work for friendships as well? No. Unless you want to be lonely and just have people in your life follow this comment to a tee
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:27 AM
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You’re great at having conversations with yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:26 AM
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I’m aware. It’s why I’m here. To laugh. It could also be a man hiding behind an account. Either way it’s funny
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:12 AM
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Lol. Clearly you have only met shitty men and created a misconception about that from them. If you’d like to change that it is possible, and if you don’t then that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:51 AM
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The fallacy that men fall in love with the woman and not just the idea of them is one of men’s biggest issues. How can you fall in love with someone you don’t really know romantically. If anything it’s not an emotional reason but rather an impulsive unintelligible reason. It’s not love but the idea of being with a woman based on looks. How can you love someone you don’t know. It’s a reason why divorce is at the end of many relationships, primarily basing it off looks and forcing the relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:48 AM
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Yeah. I see women and winners bully people at my towns common area all the time. Can verify
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:45 PM
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If you need the state to make you be a better partner (doing the fatherly duties to your child) then do you really care about your family. You don’t need to be married to be a family. The idea of marriage is dying because we’ve seen so many forced relationships in the previous generations. Why force an unhappy relationship when you don’t have to. For the time being if the relationship is in good terms then let’s be a family, if it turns into separation then there is less of an issue or hardship …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:37 PM
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They can and do hold themselves accountable. It’s never gonna be 100% success rate like you somehow expect. It’s not hypocritical to hold yourself accountable is it? Or your friends? Why do people like you wish to somehow change the discourse of a whole gender when Also if you’re talking about men not being able to voice their opinions they can. It’s just sometimes they are not really big issues that are anyone’s issues other than the want for sex. And it seems a lot of guys here also don’t go o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:25 PM
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Like I said earlier, if it bothers you call it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:24 PM
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We don’t need rally’s for that. What’s that accomplishing? Men’s already have rights. Men need to be able to vulnerable not congregate for something they already have. Have you honestly felt as if you had no rights or have you felt unheard in society? Men continuously misinterpret that and it is embarrassing since it’s clearly just men that would be better off outside those circles. All they do is become jaded since it’s men reinforcing incorrect ideologies. Kinda how on the other side theres al…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:03 PM
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It is possible. But for some reason it’s a self fulfilling prophecy “Men don’t get respect or support”. Men continue to be dicks to women for some reason online instead of supporting other men. When the idea of helping men gets brought up “lol men don’t get help” or “you don’t really care”. Men can definitely help each other specially in things like this. How can men properly express who they want to date. I would love to show others the difference of preference and fetishizing like in this thre…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:32 AM
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It’s not shaming. If anything it’s more helpful to questions people’s irrational choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:54 PM
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There is. When you look for someone online you have something in mind of what you’re looking for. Age, looks, etc. if someone takes that away from you then they are being deceitful. It’s not that hard. It’s lying but online. See. It affects you. If someone is willing to put up with a woman’s kids they will have to know beforehand not surprised about it. Just like with any other bit of information. OLD is used to find matches based on other aspects as well like hobbies. What if I want an athletic…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:53 PM
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And that’s my gripe with guys that just go belly up. Why is it accepted when clearly online all men do is whine about it. Is it accepted when there’s people that don’t. Just how women are standing up for themselves and guiding other women to not be taken advantage of, etc men should support each other too. It’s wild how men are not there for men so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:35 PM
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It doesn’t make sense since you’re the one wanting to make it a moral issue. You’re biased. Why take the control out of someone’s hands for your benefit? If someone doesn’t want to do something on their own volition it’s their choice. By lying you’re not giving them full consent of what they’re agreeing to. It’s really not that hard to grasp. You’re just biased. If a woman leads you on for a while that she has no kids how mad will you be that you wasted effort and time with someone like that? Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:34 PM
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Are you cool with it? Then you’re part of the problem too. Why are you biased? Is it really that hard to be able to differentiate a preference and fetishizing? If someone just wants someone for a physical attribute it can be off. Are they being scouted for a roster? And it doesn’t mean that person needs to change and be perfect. It just shows how people are flawed. If a woman says “he’s perfect but just not tall enough”, it’s her independent behavior and choices that don’t make sense. Just how i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:28 PM
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That’s one way to look at it if you’re biased. If you really care about the issue why not figure out what the actual difference is. It’s not gender biased. The only bias is you which is why you reply like a child. Women get flak for asking for only tall men online. In person is always gonna be different since you don’t necessarily talk to anyone outside your social circle. But you choose to ignore that since it goes against your biased views. A big difference is have a preference for a person bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:07 PM
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Anyone lying online to meet someone in person (online profiles in this case) is called out for misinformation because why do that unless you’re trying to hide something? If you have nothing to hide then why do it? If the whole point of the profiles is to find a partner, you’re starting it off with a lie? If the whole reason for the profile is to hook up, and you’re being honest about everything except the age, why is that? Why deceive someone? Because as you say it doesn’t matter, because they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:33 PM
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This sub does it a lot and OP did it so blatantly here, why create a thread for something that was talked about in another thread where this originated?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:26 PM
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Men are true victims right brother
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:25 PM
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What a great argument you have there. Is it what you folk call a straw man argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:24 PM
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Lack of introspection and the continuation of that will lead to anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:23 PM
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This is something that teeters between preference and kink. This also goes with being so determined on finding a specific race to date. It becomes less of “I’m interested in this person” and more so “I really want to fetishize these people”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:23 PM
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OP is a hoot. He just wanted everyone to agree with him lol. He really doesn’t know penetrations isn’t the only way to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:16 AM
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You’re the one getting hurt at every message disagreeing with you which is the majority of the responses. You only made this thread to get others to join your little pity party. Epic fail
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:12 AM
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Once in a relationship, everything will work itself out or not. Sexual chemistry isn’t just by dick size. It’s not just taking it out and then both parties orgasm. There’s more to it. Maybe when you try it you’ll find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:12 AM
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That’s your whole reasoning for this thread. Are you confused by your own question 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:10 AM
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Lol. And now you’re claiming woman are saying that. So are you a woman? Why are you answering your own answer? I love how you look at pro man and get hurt at that too. You’re hurt no matter what happens. All you do is get bitter with this “knowledge” you’re getting. Hopefully you’ll realize all your doing is reinforcing your own bias by answering your own questions. Worst case scenario you don’t and just ruin your own life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:07 AM
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Is it women? Are you a woman? Cause you’re doing exactly what you’re claiming they are? You made a post where you bring it up. Instead of being pro man and telling others it doesn’t matter you’re saying it does. According to woman… yet you’re the one saying that on behalf of all woman…?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:49 AM
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Have you? Does a man with a small penis bother you? Does the idea linger in your head often?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:42 AM
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Lol. You’re just another guy clamoring that a man isn’t a man if “inset idiotic reason here”. I’m sure you’re also part of the men that complain men don’t get any emotional support as you also tear down other men. Way to go bud you played yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:42 AM
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Sex life will typically work itself out of both people are really into each other. Sex toys, oral, different positions. There’s always different ways to have sex and it’ll always be fun if the two enjoy each other that much enough to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:40 AM
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Lol. They’re godly champions that are the laughing stock. Some gods. The whole point I had with the initial comment is that men think women are infallible. They’re not. Wow men (lebron) and women get made fun of and not one gender gets special treatment. Amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:22 PM
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So oblivious. Hilarious that’s all you can add is that since you can’t prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:27 PM
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So women were being made fun of by all sides? Thanks for adding to my point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:21 PM
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Lol. Its one example. Not every example. There is no definite list of where men or women get hate. Do men show every example they’re discriminated against on this sub let alone this thread? No? Then why should I? I Can give you more. One recent one was the women’s US soccer team getting laughed at by the conservative media for losing the World Cup. Way to take a valid point out of context and add nothing to a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:57 AM
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Do they have it easier when guys like you literally make it hard by placing so much blame on them? Ease is relative to the individual and where some women have it easier so do some men. To assume all women have it easier is insane. Are women, like men, not trafficked? Do trafficked women have it easier then men? This is an extreme example but a valid example nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:50 AM
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Things get overblown online all the time. It’s the internet. For guys to take a man getting clowned online for something they said or mentioned online and not understand context and confusing for real life is so wild. Also to think women have monopolized empathy is hilarious. Women get so much hate online just like men. Look at celebrities getting judged for their bodies etc just like men. No one is safe online
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:07 AM
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Women have it easier in your eyes, as a biased man. You can’t see what they go through and instead of empathizing it’s a skewed reality that they live a fairer life which is not true Both genders suffer their own issues including not being respected. Look at this sub as an example of men not thinking of women as equals Men gaslight themselves into thinking women have it easier somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:04 AM
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That’s the thing I don’t. But I know who I’m writing to and reaching when I type in this sub and it’s those people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:12 AM
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Lol. I love how men whine about being bullied online yet do it so blatantly about women. Hilarious. I’m always amazed how emotionally weak some people are that they are so affected by minor interactions in life. Is your life that devoid of meaning that you have to base your whole world view on gender
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:02 AM
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I love how accountability is thrown around so much. How can they not be accountable when you never shut up about it? It seems you’re keeping score
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:57 AM
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Not the way it’s proposed online. It seems it’s always one gender fucking up and the other gender finding solutions for them. Like this thread. Ideally people would have empathy and understanding but that’s gone out the door
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:55 AM
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So if men can’t be there for men why are women somehow expected to be there for all men? Isn’t that an insane ask? Can’t you see why men are told that they are essentially looking for a mother when they want a woman to nurture their emotional well being. Accountability is a hot topic online with these communities and in this scenario men are sure tossing their own accountability to woman for some odd reason. To expect that a stranger is responsible for your emotional well being because of their …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:54 AM
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Lmao. How is a single mother part of the patriarchy? Where is the patriarchy? The one that is no longer in the picture. 😂 Literally will make up horrible examples to blame women over all of men’s problems. It seems someone lacks accountability and that’s you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:24 PM
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Yeah. If men want to get help why don’t they advocate for it and start by supporting each other. As a guy I understand that it’s hard to get support from anyone, meaning men and women. So for other men that also have issues like that someone place all the blame on women is absurd. Women seek help online and get support from women and men, but also men and women mock them just how men get mocked. It’s not universal love women get online. But to interpret as such is just bias and lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:55 PM
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Why do you want them to be accountable for all Of men? How in the world is that a good take? Men and women take part of the patriarchy and there is toxic masculinity from the men’s side putting other men down if they don’t meet those standards and women have to be accountable for an issue that is clearly internalized by men? Men prevent themselves from being vulnerable. If men would allow themselves to be vulnerable maybe women and men would be more open to be there for someone emotionally. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:49 PM
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Yeah but people like you only love to show that women reinforce it. Why is it that men aren’t held accountable for it since they are literally half of it as well. The fact you think men should be cared for more than women just shows how biased you are. There are challenges for everyone, gender is one issue people will deal with in their lives. For that to be the main concern in your life is such a weird nothing issue. There are so many things that make you as a person than just your gender I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:35 PM
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Your whole post is based on assumptions yet when I’m doing it it’s wrong? Got it. Also if men choose to do that then that’s on them. If people choose to live life and who they talk to based on gender it’s a weird thing to do but it’s their choice. To whole heartedly believe that two genders can’t be friends simply because they’re not the same gender is idiotic. It’s school hard mentality of boys play with boys and girls play with girls. If that’s where you are mentally then it makes sense why yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:34 PM
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Here’s the thing, women are also laughed at as well and men are discussing things as much as well (like this sub). It always goes both ways, but as a man you’re clearly biased and believe your struggles are much more than ones you don’t experience. Instead of understanding both sides have their issues it’s easier to feel loathsome and blame the other side. If someone needs emotional support than how about finding it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:30 PM
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It doesn’t. If you need support find it. Men put other men down as well with all the machismo expectations of what makes a “real man”. It does suck for both sides and to think only one side matters just shows how insecure and biased you are. If you want empathy then try empathizing with others as well. Empathy isn’t monopolized by one gender. Also expecting someone you wish to date to deal with your emotional issues is not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:29 PM
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Just how men don’t get women’s struggles. Both sides struggle. But one always has to more important than the other for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:16 PM
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That’s good. It doesn’t make your commentary any useful for anyone. Not even for yourself. All you do is make yourself more jaded/ bitter. But go on, ruin your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:11 PM
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What are you talking about? Everyone lives their lives differently. No one has to follow a over generalized way to live that they heard a shirtless guy tell them online. Just cause you’re unhappy doesn’t mean everyone else is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:58 PM
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Then don’t be in one. It’s a choice. And divorce being up just means people understand that they wouldn’t not want to waste their life with a partner they don’t truly love. Isn’t that a good thing? People that use divorce as a point are ignoring the purpose of divorce. Why would you want to force yourself to be in a relationship you don’t want to be? To not be alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:53 PM
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So you’re saying that anyone that gets in relationships is insane?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:50 PM
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Why is it that guys that don’t have real relationships pretend that people aren’t just friends? Just cause some people don’t have friends doesn’t mean that the rest of the world doesn’t. If you only befriend women and men you find attractive that’s on you. Others base it off personality and other aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:40 PM
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People have different personalities. sometimes men can’t be friends with other men because of that. Should all men also not be friends? Such a narrow way to look at things right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:39 PM
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Alpha men are lame. People are so worried about how they’re perceived by the general public and completely ignore how they’re own relationships are going. Worry about yourself and those around you. Acting like you’re a martyr for being an alpha male is so silly. No one asked you to do it so to want recognition for it is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:36 PM
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Bringing up off putting comments can always put people off. That goes for anyone. Man to man, woman to man, and vice versa. Could there be a right time and place for that? Yeah. It depends on the other person and how it’s brought up. If there is no rapport and all that’s said is “I’ve met some crazy women before” that’s probably gonna be awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:34 PM
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Not really. If it’s not complete, like you agreed with me, then it doesn’t get the full idea of the person across. Like I said, no way most people put an honest amount in their profile. It’s just an amount their comfortable with and believe will be enough. Just because it’s believed to be enough doesn’t mean it really is. If people rarely get chances online why is in person always such a big leap when chances of meeting someone that could go on a date is also hard. The issue is people hate rejec…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:37 PM
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Think about it this way. Most people are strangers in everyone lives. Why is anyone owed the time of day? Do you owe everyone you don’t know attention and time? No. Stop whining about something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:33 PM
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Try reading actual health articles since it seems whatever you’re reading is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:34 AM
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Just like most other dumb questions on this sub, people have choices. If that’s your choice go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:32 AM
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It’s not. It’s used as a crutch. Your online profile is not a complete representation of you as a person. There is no chance many people have taken the time and effort to make s compelling account. Most people just choose their “best pics” (which could be bad pics since some people don’t really take pics of themselves) and some quick blurbs. A few words and pics aren’t the same as s human interaction. It’s like when you spot for a job but they still want to know what you’re like. A resume is def…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:26 AM
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How old are you and where do you go? Just because you’re missing out on dating and women doesn’t mean all men are. Men aren’t a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:22 AM
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Lol. Some of you guys are such drama queens. Just cause you’re not getting laid or didn’t get the girl you want doesn’t mean no one cares about you. Someone telling you no just means that person didn’t see themselves in your future. When someone saves you time you usually don’t complain about it. Would you rather be led on and possibly pay for a few dates and then be let down?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:20 AM
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I love these over generalized statements. “It’s a myth” lol. That’s why no one out there in the world is finding dates/ partners. It’s a complete separation of men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:19 AM
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Lmao. You agree it’s manipulation but because it’s not to your liking you change it. Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:16 AM
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Lol, women get called out for asymmetrical boobs more than you’d think. Beauty is based on symmetry and when it’s not there then there could be potentially less appeal. Also just how men can be made fun of for small dick, women can be shamed for bad/ saggy/ asymmetrical boobs. Just cause you can’t imagine something doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. It’s called empathy and you are lacking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:15 AM
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That fact you had the thought process to type this up and went “hey, from my biased perspective as a man it’s not fair for me as a man for these beauty standards” and didn’t realize it sucks for both sides. Both sides have things they can’t really change to be the exceptional beauty that is advertised. Instead of empathizing you choose to want to be. A victim
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:13 AM
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Lmao. It’s hilarious how some people go from using stats to just made up information. If you want to use actual data it’s based off testosterone. That’s why women get hornier when they get older since they produce less estrogen and more testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:07 AM
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So deep. What philosopher wrote this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:05 AM
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I’d say one reason for this is men don’t necessarily try to make different groups of friends nor meet new people. This is normal and easier to do in a school setting but once that’s over it is harder for them to meet new people due to their lack of experience and attempts. It is hard to meet new people in general, it’s even harder without the attempt or skills to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:47 PM
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Did I say you have to? Just like anything it’s a choice. But to claim it’s “beta” is nonsense. It’s a choice that could be good for some and not so much for others (thing low fertility, maybe don’t want their own children but are okay with others, or they love their partner enough to deal with it)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:44 AM
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Have you thought that I’m not trying to explain anything? It’s hilarious you want to win an idiotic argument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:55 AM
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Bro you like me or what? You got a shame kink. Kinda cute
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:47 AM
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Expats from Vietnam. From decades ago. That can be true for recent expats. But again, these relationships aren’t done for a human connection. It’s to fill the role by outsourcing. And that’s part of the moral aspect I kept bringing up. It’s the same lack of morality that sex tourist have. To not understand what power you have as someone that is changing someone’s life. You may not be their ideal partner but they’re not idiots to let that opportunity go. You only see yourself as an amazing person…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:46 AM
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It’s right there. Words don’t run away. You can reread them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:39 AM
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Hahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:38 AM
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Everything you’re saying is to defend yourself since again, you’re not gonna want to associate with them. You are doing it in a different manner. Instead of ordering online you’re going to the store directly. Instead of demoing it (sex tourism) you’re just buying the product and taking it home. Instead of stating it up front your doing a little dance to pretend it’s something else. Something not immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:38 AM
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Read it. It’s clear as day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:29 AM
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Lol. You went into my old thread to be hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:29 AM
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Yeah. It’s just wether or not they’re moral enough to do it with someone more equal to them at home or someone they can own from a different country. Morality is the key here. Or lack thereof. If you’re smart enough to create all these reasons why it’s okay you should also be able to understand that there is a power dynamic when going to a different country where your future partner would like to leave in order to go to the country you’re from.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:28 AM
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And there’s always people like you that love to use certain vocabulary to pretend you’re bringing something to the conversation without really adding any substance. Pretending to be some type of psychological genius because you’ve engrained something you read online. I guess we’ll exist in perpetuity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:24 AM
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Lol. You guys just love to build yourselves up. Of course you’re not gonna say you’re lame. That would be dumb. But that’s what I’m here for bud. 90 day fiancé was funny since the desperation of the westerners was filmed. But an everyday passport bro doesn’t have comic relief or a production team to make them look better. It’s just a person inferring to buy them off without those exact words because if they do then they’re bad but if they don’t then they can lie to themselves, friends and family…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:21 AM
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Not really. It’s not as if passport bros are any less moral. They just rather go all in. Pay for sex or pay for a wife. Either way it’s paying for the person wether it be for the moment or for life. Just because you don’t like the association doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. It’s the same men that would rather die than give in to woman from their own country yet they’re still using their money one way or another for a partner and instead of avoiding a woman that’s using them for them they give it …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:12 AM
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Passport bros have been, are , and will continue to be lame but it will be a norm for those individuals that partake. It’s the same individuals that would claim paying for things is excessive yet go ahead and pay for plane tickets and citizenship and essentially everything else for their immigrant partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:06 AM
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So not that type of loser as you claimed, a different kind. Okay… if anything the difference is being okay being broadcasted or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:01 AM
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Yeah. They’re entertainment. Does that mean that those type of people don’t exist in real life? Like passport bros? It’s an entertaining version of a sad reality. I’m sure if it’d follow “normal passport bros” it’d be more of a depressing documentary As for love and hip hop there are less luxurious toxic relationships. Again, it’s be more depressing if they filmed the more real ones
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:01 AM
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How does that take away from the fact that it’s been known? Even though it’s a tv show it still did let people know that it is a thing. People desperate for a relationship that they search for a impoverished person abroad. It’s easier to take in than a much more real reality that’s just as sad. At least that show was entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:41 AM
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Is it? When you can’t communicate clearly with them. Isn’t communication a big issue with someone that already speaks the same language? The only benefit is that it is indentured servitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:39 AM
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Lol. So you can’t find an ideal partner at home so you go searching for one with a language barrier across the globe spending thousands for trips and paperwork. It’s done out of emotional laziness. It’s easier to manipulate your partner if you own them as opposed to an equal back home
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:39 AM
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Those are two different shows lol. If you can’t differentiate them that’s on yoy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:37 AM
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They kinda are. Same with the women that wanted other men from abroad. It’s not just gender specific. It takes a certain person to look for a person in need and pay them off for love/ affection
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:37 AM
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It has always been a thing. Not necessarily mainstream but not really a well known secret. It was huge in the last century because of war. It was definitely word of mouth and also a dirty joke. Thai girls and lady boys have been used as “haha sex tourism in these countries is wild”. But because it was a certain demographic, older white guys in a time when they couldn’t do wrong it was okay Also 90 day fiancé has proved otherwise for a decade. So that covers the last century and 2010/ to current …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:34 AM
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Sex is like a cool car. Why do you need help with your own post?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:28 AM
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I’d rather not. Kinda like you in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:16 AM
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They have purpose when written. Are you just saying tie making things up and wasting people’s time?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:15 AM
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You keep telling everyone to reread your stuff. It’s convoluted but at the end of it it’s just that men are cool cause they like sex 😎 women do not and they use it against men 👿 men should realize that because sex and relationships is a literal stock market somehow. If you remove yourself from the humanity of it it can be seen that way. Which it seems like you love to remove the human factor to human relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:49 AM
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Because sex is the metaphor there. That luxury. How did you write that and not understand it? Or did you have a secret meaning for that metaphor that no one else is suppose to get but you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:35 AM
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You see what OP wants to do is get rid of women so he can let his homosexual tendencies run free. This is step one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:34 AM
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Why? If you can’t understand the paradox that is your post then that’s on you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:28 AM
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Lol. You’re the one making claims that sex isn’t a commodity while also advocating that women do use it as a bargaining chip.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:03 AM
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You’re all point in that direction. Women use it as a bargaining chip so why would certain men commit if they supersede that? It’s yet another men are opposite as women post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:00 AM
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Men would and do. Just indirectly. Instead of being more forward and vulnerable it’s round about methods. It’s the same way men aren’t that integrates in their own friendships with other men. It’s a question of vulnerability. They ask more so because it’s not brought up. Is the spark gone in the relationship which is an honest concern. Men sometimes are just okay being with anybody even if it’s not a true emotional bond as long as they’re not alone. (Both men and women can do that as well just h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:50 AM
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If men are aware of that why do they also complain about dating? Wouldn’t certain information like that give them a further understanding why getting a partner they deem ideal will just be harder? Not saying they shouldn’t have their preferences. Just saying that as you zero in on specifics in a partner it does slowly become a bigger challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:31 PM
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It is needy. An unhealthy version of it. The man wants reinforcement that they are the only one in their partners life so they use that method instead of other emotionally stable methods
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:28 PM
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Men continuously tell themselves or other men to internalize things like that. Men are emotional and needy as well. Anger or other similar feelings are emotions many men can express but usually infer it as a passionate thing when it can be that but it’s still an emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:27 PM
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Lol. Most of your points just show that you’re either insecure or don’t want to date/ be a step dad. Which is amazing since it is a choice and you can choose to not do that. This is such a weird statement to make to a bunch of strangers. Try it in person instead of the safety of this sub or similar online communities. Most people won’t care your take on this as it is your choice. The other points about legacy are funny since most people are nobodies. What legacy does the average person leave spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:24 PM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:20 PM
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It was a joke. Kinda how flaunting you offer good dick online sounds like a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:20 PM
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They are the same. Angles trick everyone when it comes to photos. I was also not asking for your take on them you weirdo. I was stating that it’s such a dumb chart. And boyish mean skinny and flat chested. More weird things to point out. I’m sure if you say that to that woman she would just walk away or tell you off for being weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:40 AM
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It is just the internet too. I have yet to meet either person with these extreme ideologies. Most people are just kinda living their life however they choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:10 AM
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I didn’t know this was a LARPing sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:48 AM
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Lmao. Someone claiming to offer good dick online is hilarious. How can anyone verify any of your points specially that one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:46 AM
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This post is hilarious because it’s the same mentality as many other posts but instead of the women being brought down now it’s men and they’re responses are very similar to the women in the other scenario. Just goes to show how your bias can make sense to you and other likeminded people but it’s wild to the average individual lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:46 AM
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Lol. If this was told the other way around to men you’d think they’re trolling. I know cause I’ve done it multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:43 AM
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Studies show that it is where things are headed but I’m sure those studies are also gonna be used. Also the picture you chose to show body weight is hilarious. Boyish is a thing woman with small breast? Why is she different than a skinny one lol. 4 and 5 are the same type just different angles lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:42 AM
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Yes. Clearly you’re biased. As a man you see your challenges and pain as more real, more tangible, more important since you neither care nor can remotely relate to a woman’s challenges. Two different genders may get two possibly different suggestions. Also men do get positive enforcement as well. But you’re biased and focus on what you want to and if you only go on certain subs then that will only continue to be reinforced. I see a lot of positive feedback like avoiding a crazy woman or her loss…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:54 AM
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It’s hard to be introspective sometimes. Kinda how if someone doesn’t want to date someone that is say, big, then you can just not do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:35 PM
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Lol. You didn’t say it because you’re afraid. Speak your truth so people can stray from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:27 PM
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Lol. What about OPs positioning on men. If it’s a comparison. So it’s normal behavior for both sides. So both sides make mistakes. But when women do it it’s bad. Cause you like it that way You’ve matched OPs bad take bar for bad. Good job. Shows how both men and women are flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:05 PM
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I’d rather just ask you how things work. It seems it’s whatever you say goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:04 PM
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Wow. Amazing. I’ll make sure to tell everyone I know. I never knew society changed. Where’s the brochure for the update? Or should we just ask you how things work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:35 PM
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What an amazing world you live in where one problem is taken care of at a time. Is it by priority or whatever you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:17 PM
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It’s awesome that your take to both sexes are affected by something is that men are more lonely. I’m assuming this is a bias because you are one lol. There are studies that show women ,just like men, have been affected by the change in scenery. Being online has been detrimental to not just dating but overall socially. But men suffer more somehow because you say so. You can be pro men’s mental health without having to mention women. It is possible. Both sides need help in their own ways
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:44 PM
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It’s still an idiotic take like OPs. It’s not as if the world is made up solely of those two types of people. Unlike this sub there are normal people out there. If you want to make OP sound illogical by matching them it doesn’t make your point or theirs better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:40 PM
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So you’re going into a completely new conversation with that topic? Do you like ruining conversations cause that’s one way to do it. Specially with a stranger. I feel like a lot of people have numbed themselves to how they generalize relationship advice and when it seeps into real life that’s what happens. It’s normal online but in person it doesn’t because your generalized information isn’t true for everyone and when you meet those people you’ll just make them feel uncomfortable and thus callin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:19 PM
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I’d say the giveaway is you bringing up these topics Her reaction was not a the best but then again she probably wasn’t ready to have that conversation. It’s like Crowder owning young college students. Way to go destroying someone unaware of an argument you had saved up. You both proved each other wrong and right in both of your behaviors. You condemned her even though you were clearly down to just fuck her. But she fucked you so it’s not a big deal but if her body count is high as yours is gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:29 PM
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I think the biggest issue here is what a lot of other people don’t realize. You met her online through IG using stupid memes and got high with them. You’re meeting with and having these types of conversations with someone that either wasn’t prepared to talk about those ideas. She also probably wasn’t a good match for you. You were just horny. Why did you ruin it with such an odd topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:22 PM
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How does your odd tale about Chad affect OPs story. It’s not even a close comparison really. Just a way to shoehorn your weird nomenclature It’s two different scenarios and the story OP poorly chose was the generally disliked nice guy trope person. So both of you made bad points
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:17 PM
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When they use that Chad nomenclature you can just assume they’re far removed from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:15 PM
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Wow. Only women have that huh. Men surely don’t have their own erotic fanfic porn at all. Men are so awesome they tell it how it is. Only women lie what they want and their true desires is that body type just how in men’s porn they only go for bimbo types right? Cause porn is the basis for what everyone wants in their partner Lay off the porn my guy. It’s not healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:57 AM
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Yeah. Guys want that body and think that’s what is the ideal body lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:24 AM
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lol. A rower type? A niche sport? Wow. I didn’t know that. I feel like as a guy it’s hilarious how other guys just find buff men attractive and assume women think that by default. If you want to be buff go for it. It’s weird to push your preferences on others like that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:01 AM
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It is a war when the discourse is “a whole gender does this one thing as a whole while the other doesn’t”. It’s so dumb. Instead of pointing out specific traits in people (both men and women have the capability of being straightforward or not) it’s about putting one against the other. Men good women bad like in this thread. Just cause you want to make yourself think you’re taking part of an intellectual conversation doesn’t hide the truth of it’s idiocy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:58 AM
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Yeah. Wouldn’t that be awesome if people were honest. Even if someone is honest such as not thinking their not a right choice for them it’s still seen as negative. Let’s blame each other instead of simply understanding human nature is flawed and it’s why dating is challenging. But no, let’s instead make it a gender war because that makes sense. At the end of the day people aren’t happy with honestly either. No one needs to make your happiness their prerogative. Specially not a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:48 AM
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According to some of you they are. You’re just afraid of phrasing it as such so you always walk the line of simply “being superior”. If men are smarter because they’re more straightforward than woman not knowing what they want/ lying about what they want would make them dumb. Just bringing up the idea of superiority places you in such a light. It’s not as if both women and men can both illicit that behavior. It’s solely men that are awesome and great and women that suck cause they make dating ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:42 AM
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Lol, it’s human nature but if women do something it’s bad. If men do it it’s awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:56 AM
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It is more complicated. It’s interpersonal relationships. Who you like can change. Who people are can change. It’s not a very linear thing like many men wish it was since that’s the “smart” thing but it’s human nature not computers. If you want something that makes sense look into science and stray from relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:55 AM
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It’s both. Things aren’t always as linear as I only like these type of potential partners. There are people with different personality types and traits that haven’t come across that could easily sway you from someone else you’d think you’d want more. It’s all variables
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:54 AM
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Lmao. Such a awesome strong man you are being grossed out by words. You’re amazing at deflecting btw. Keep it up sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:45 AM
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In your statements. It’s not written that way obviously but that’s what you convey. You keep saying how men have to stop being the better person (totally awesome and cool) since women will always be lower than men (women suck) like your example in men making more than women. Women look for someone with more things and men surely don’t look for anything in a partner cause they’re awesome sauce
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:42 PM
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No. In many of your comments you stated men don’t choose a woman that’s better than them. Only woman do. Men are awesome and women are not. Lmao. And men who choose to treat women as equals are putting themselves at a disadvantage for finding a partner by doing so because… you say so?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:00 PM
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I know. The lack of self awareness is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:58 PM
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It doesn’t benefit men that have no success in dating so being unbearable and emotionally unstable is a better option? Have fun with your “high value” lmao. Make sure to bring it up during conversation so your date knows they made a right choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:49 AM
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Would you be okay if your partner is ugly? Men surely never ask for anything right? That’s why there’s an issue with dating since they take anyone that’s available. Therapy is a good solution for emotionally unstable or unsound individuals that can’t process their emotions because that makes them “tough guys”and “higher quality men” lol. Is there a stock market or a farmers market for all these hot men out there. How is the value shown? Is it all in your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:47 AM
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It makes sense when all you do is get positive reinforcement online from other like minded people. But it doesn’t really work in real life lol. Apparently only women look at men’s traits and want a rich handsome man but men are okay with whatever their partner does or looks like so they’ll be with an average woman, right? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:53 AM
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It’s a silly point and they agreed but it still counts cause that’s all they got lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:47 AM
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Op just wants to prove men are better than women because men don’t have that better than mentality lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:46 AM
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Men do care. Its proven in this sub as a way to have a submissive partner. Men want an exceptionally attractive partner. If they can’t do anything other than bring more money in than that’s what they do. Being emotionally insecure isn’t healthy. Go to therapy. As much as people think they can withhold emotions they can’t. It’ll eventually lead to an outburst of some sort. It’ll grow into resentment that you can’t express yourself to your partner or anyone because you created that self fulfilling…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:44 AM
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OP just wants verification to treat women less than equal. I’m sure that will make dating easier somehow lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:41 AM
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Lmao. What’s high for you? Anything more than you, so 1?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:39 AM
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So you can be empathetic but not better? No one is asking you to be better. If you can be empathetic then you wouldn’t be online making posts about how treating women like equals is detrimental to men. It makes no sense unless you lack empathy towards the gender you allegedly want to date. How can you say there’s empathy in treating a gender, approximately half the population, less than because it doesn’t benefit your dating issues? No one’s treating men less than for being nice. Associating bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:35 AM
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Lol. Another “woe is me post”. “Men struggle because women. The end.” Just because you have had a hard time dating don’t make it seem like every guy out there struggles dating. If you have a hard time treating your potential partner as an equal then that’s unfortunately on you and them. Is it really that hard to practice empathy to just women or anybody in your life? Maybe the fault isn’t that being equal is the issue but rather being genuine. I feel like a lot of people struggle with themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:38 AM
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In that occasion as in many it can be both. It can be a preference to not have someone dress a certain way but to others it’s a hard boundary. This just shows why it’s hard differentiating them specially if the person is already bad at expressing how they feel or want. Now they have to have details about it. I feel like that’s something most people have a vague idea of an idealized partner. Which is awesome if you meet them but like any other partnership it takes both parties to meet half way. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:31 AM
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If the guy wants the date and the woman just agrees to it to give them a chance it’s still the guy that wants the date. If the woman wasn’t asked and she wasn’t gonna ask the guy out on her own volition. It has to do with who is initiating the conversation. In many cases women pay as well when there’s mutual attraction. But typically guys demands dates to get a chance even if there’s no report between the two. If anything guys could avoid it from happening if they understand the control they hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:35 PM
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Being bitter about not getting laid 3 years ago after paying for pizza and 3 drinks is hilariously sad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:56 PM
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It’s not always like that. It has to do solely with expectations. In some cases men want the date more because it’s a one sided appeal (man likes woman) and the woman may not necessarily be into it but also not against it. There are situations when it’s more equal how you mention but it has to do more so with the people’s maturity and social awareness. As a guy I’d say it’s been 50/50 for my dates but that’s how I carry myself. Others don’t do that. Take OP for example. They were emotionally dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:54 AM
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That’s the biggest issue some men can’t grasp. As a guy you will most likely pay for the first date and if that goes well then it’ll be more of one for one. If it’s a one time date just let it go. Hopefully you had a good time or understand it sucked and let a it be a few dollars wasted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:36 AM
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Lol. My guys has been emotionally scarred for 3 years because he paid like $40 for pizza and drinks. Lmao. Instead of letting it go and understanding it was a mistake he took a stupid route of equating a meal with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:33 AM
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You’re arguing with an idiotic person. They’re mad 3 years later for spending $40 on a date lmao. Somehow they came to a conclusion men get pushed into dates so pushing women into sex is the same. Let’s just laugh at the self report lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:29 AM
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You’re exhausted jumping through the hoops you set up bud. Comparing sex to paying for a meal lmao. At a pizza spot, how much was that $40 for her part? Boo boo. Imagine being a grown man and expecting that to work. “I paid $80 for a meal, half was for me but technically i still paid and I’m owed one sex. The therapy you need cost more than that and also a sex worker when you go asking about. They’ll help you process your emotions about paying for a date and hopefully you’ll learn to let go.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:08 AM
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Your statement. If you pay for a meal then you’re okay with just using it as an excuse for using them for sex. If you pay for a meal then that’s all you need for one sex. “One sex for $40 please”. Imagine having such a small ego you’re hurt about paying for a meal 3 years after it occurred lmao. At a pizza place lol. Go to therapy. Get professional help. Stop going to a pizza parlor like it’s the 70s and put it in a piggy bank for some sessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:49 AM
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Lmao. You get emotional damage from paying for a meal. Go to therapy. If you get sexually assaulted cause your date is coerced sex then you can go to the cops. Two different scenarios. Not equivalents at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:27 AM
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When you pay for meals for friends do you expect them to fuck you? Isn’t the normal thing to just ask them to pay for the next meal. Also you think sex is worth a $40 meal? Try telling that to a sex worker lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:26 AM
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The equality in both issues is less in that one evens out the other and rather that shitty people exist either way. Having to one up the other makes no sense since there are different ways to take advantage of any individual. Just how some guys can simply deny paying for a meal women also do that for sex. In many occasions the control comes from the individual and in some circumstances it can’t be avoided. In both examples someone that’s socially uncomfortable or unaware of the dating scene woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:11 AM
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You can’t follow your own train of thought? That sucks. Lmao. Of course you went looking for a partner abroad. Makes sense. Can’t find someone where you’re from since women there are too advanced for you. Let’s find an impoverished woman to house and submit to you. Disgusting. You think your some intellectual yet you have to hold money over a person. I like how her name is Moral since you lack that personally. Morals. You’ve been a hoot btw. So much shitty behavior in one person and thinks so hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:36 AM
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Men want something that already exists that woman create but also the thing that exists isn’t followed, people live in it. Cause we live in a society? lol Your ideas are so convoluted you think you’re making sense but you’re not. If you’re this fun in real life you won’t have to worry about marriage, divorce, or relationships. I can’t imagine what your exciting incentive structure is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:22 AM
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Men aren’t expecting but women create a incentive structure. So men who follow the structure should get incentivized. Since there’s an incentive structure. Contradicting. Lmao. I’m sure negotiating with you is a blast. Have fun negotiating all the way to your divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:01 AM
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Lol. You contradicted yourself saying men don’t expect to be handed for good behavior yet talking about a incentive structure. It’s hilarious how self defined people think they deserve something because they want it yet lack the self awareness that no one else is giving them that praise. It’s all narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:09 PM
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Men think that the bad boys get all the girls yet they usually get all the bad girls. These lonely men see them as attractive and think they’re lovely people but I’m sure if they got a chance to go out with them it’d be a horrible match. Just look at all the moronic couples shooting fireworks almost setting their homes on fire. I hate those people and there are women there with there partners and they’re both on the same wavelength of what they consider fun and acceptable. I wouldn’t want to dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:04 PM
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When did OP blame someone for their dating life? I like how this is suppose to be a burn yet your lack of reading comprehension just put you on the spotlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:00 PM
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lol. Being in a relationship doesn’t make you an expert in the field nor do the experiences matter since relationships range from good to bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:59 PM
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It depends the level of wealth. If the kids can be at clubs or stay busy then more time for the at home parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:15 AM
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Lol. I’m sure there’s reasons why. Using the words biological attraction is stupid since technically that just means attraction. Adding biological doesn’t really add anything to it. Attraction comes from different areas and if you missed out on your own appeal at the time thinking you were alt maybe you missed out on their appeal since they were guys and you’re probably not into men like they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:33 AM
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Maybe you weren’t alt enough if you easily moved on to a different scene. I feel like people lack introspection when it comes to their identity. I thought I was alt but I just like rock/ alternative music. I’m very neutral I guess and the alt girls went for hardcore alt guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:34 AM
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Yeah. Those same people will tell a woman that their style is unappealing looking down on their choices (tattoos, hair styles, etc) like they’re helping them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:31 AM
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Lol. Took you 4 days. Why is everything taken personal. No one is saying men should give up. That’s how you perceive it since you’re sensitive. If someone is looking out for someone else and you consider that bad then I don’t know what to tell you. You clearly don’t care. You’d rather be a men advocate than a human advocate. But that’s fine. Oh yeah. There are so many of those gang bangs huh. Why’d you respond 4 days later lmao. With that. Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:28 PM
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You’re asking how everyone feels about a multifaceted question? There is not right answer. Some men, like women, have their hobbies and drive for their work or things they enjoy. That’s human nature. People choose careers they enjoy because of money or the field they like. Others choose a job that offers security. Same thing with how people behave towards the other sex or who they’re attracted to. Some want to let their achievements and social standing do all the talking which could work on cert…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:38 AM
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The first idea you like. You’re clearly biased on this weird notion that money rules supreme over women. Maybe lay off the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:29 AM
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It’s also classism. Why would a super rich guy go for a pauper when there’s other women of their caliber.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:26 AM
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Women are pretty aware not every man is a wealthy individual. The ones that are more caught up with that idea is other men that use it to criticize women. They also aren’t looking for that. Which to some of you that’s also another mind blown.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:24 AM
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It’s funny cause the same men that will disagree with you have a paradoxical idea. Men can’t overcome their biological urges yet somehow men are also top of the food chain because they’re smart. Having sex is fun but to think you have you can’t overcome it like it’s an actual hunger or thirst is hilarious. “Blue balls” as a phrase is so funny. I think the main issue is just how important sex is to some people that they’re willing to ruin a relationship with someone. Wether it be trying to fuck t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:50 PM
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If you want an example you’ll like, that Miranda sings lady. She used her fame to control younger fans. It’s an unfortunate dynamic that occurs when the relationship isn’t equal. And you’re right. If the younger person wants money then they’re happy. What they fail to realize is why anyone would be so willing to give them money for just being themselves. No one gives away money just because. It’s because of power. Women that want money and men that pay for it and leave it at that are tricks that…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:56 AM
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For people at their level it has to do with who can be their equal. Clearly they date other people but who can honestly hone up to their level financially and in level of celebrity? Theres really no one that could really wow either of them so they have to just date long term which they do. Long term relationships come from stability and in their field they don’t really have that other than financially. Im sure they don’t mind since they’re preoccupied with work anyways. They get so many other ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:45 AM
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There is. But when money and power dynamics are in play it’s never really an even playing field. It’s human nature. Power over people. That’s where the assumptions are. So if someone can help a young adult out with a possible mistake wouldn’t that be great. To you it’s biased against men cause online people say men bad woman good. But in this case it’s really not even talking about a man but rather general human nature. The woman wants money and finds a guy with it that’s older. It’s not just gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:40 AM
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Lol. Of course you love the part where an outlier of women have nothing to offer. Im sure if men get disrespected online you’re also quick to take it personally as well. There areAge gap relationships that work. But it’s not the norm. Not every woman wants a man for their money. Not every age gap relationship is about money. A relationship is a partnership and even some age gap relationships are based on that. Just cause you see a tik tok video of women saying they want a man with 6 six figures …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:32 PM
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It’s more predatory because in both scenarios the man still holds the wealth and power dynamic. The woman only has themselves. What power do they have with looks over the person with the money? None. The guy is aware what his money is doing. Getting them a woman that they want. I’m your example of what the man has over what the woman has you literally only mentioned looks 3 different ways. That’s how little they have to offer. Not every age gap relationship is like that either and the one thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:15 PM
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That’s on you and your circle of friends. Unfortunately men don’t get the support or care that they should from their peers, both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:18 AM
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If you don’t then why are you commenting on this? Just so you can sound like a rad dude hypothetically asking strangers an uncomfortable question? The comparison I made is more accurate. Clearly you’d be offended if a moron asked you that question on a date. Both are questions someone with little to no social cue knowledge would ask and act like it’s totally fine while making the other person uncomfortable. Since men don’t care about weight what would they care about that would also offend them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:17 AM
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Lol. So you will ask a woman that’s in front of you for their weight? Do you plan on just carrying on the date like nothing happened? It’s not really one to one for them to ask a man their weight. Since you offended them how would you feel if they asked for your dick length. Both of you are being asked questions out of left field that do pertain to the date in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:07 AM
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Do people ask you how much you weight as a dating prospect or for some other reason? As a guy I’d say more men have asked me about my weight than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:05 AM
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It’s just a weird thing to ask. What happened to just having a conversation? If you were face to face with them would you ask that? You’re online vetting and in a way you’re making yourself look like a weirdo asking strangers online that so they’ll probably vet you as a weirdo. If you’re relying on online dating unfortunately you’ll never really know what the person looks like til you meet in person and you’ll never really be able to fully gauge who they are until you meet in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:04 AM
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In all cases women pick the men? The men have no say in it nor initiate any of it? Even if what you’re saying is true then other people should reproach a younger individual about age gap relationships since they’re simply looking out for them. It’s positive intent. If you see a younger version of yourself making a mistake in their life about relationships wouldn’t you like to jump in and help them out? That’s essentially what’s going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:50 AM
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Not really. It’s always been a subculture. It’s just everyone has access to a camera and an audience. It’s not accepted but it just is. Kinda like porn and sex work. It’s not really accepted but it’s not gonna go away. It’s like any other subculture. Just cause furries seem more prominent since they have an online presence doesn’t mean they’re the norm. To think the internet numbers really mean anything in real life is unhealthy. People love to watch stupid shit online. Doesn’t mean it’s accepte…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:12 AM
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27 and 35 is different then 21 and 29. The brain is developed at 26 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:05 AM
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Anna Nicole smith is from the 90s. It’s always been a thing. If you’re unaware of it that’s understandable. I rarely see gold digger/ sugar daddies/ sugar babies in my area but when I do see them they stick out. There is no normalization. Normalization would mean most woman would do it. It’s always been an outlier. Only difference is back then only the wealthy had access to cameras and attention. Now everyone can go online and talk like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:01 AM
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Lol. So instead of understanding the issues and learning and growing from them let’s continue to internalize our emotions because that’s what men do? Got it. That’s the solution. Wow. So insightful. I’m sure that’ll be beneficial since that’s what’s currently going on and to improve on it we must… not change. Got it. If it happens to men then let’s hear about it and help each other grow. It’s shouldn’t societies fault some men don’t know how to process their emotions or express themselves and ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:20 PM
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So now it’s my fault you can’t write? Lmao. This is completely different then your conveniently deleted post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:23 PM
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I did. It’s speaking about sexual objectification of woman. It doesn’t really go with your original statement in for the thread. So maybe I am not getting what you’re trying to explain from it. Women can choose attributes men can’t and it’s because sexual objectification found in the media? Got it. I have to find one piece of published information to be more right than you. That’s how it works. I’m sure if I try I can. I’ll get back to you when I get the chance to look into it. The silly part ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:04 PM
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Yeah. If it’s an issue then call it out my guy. Have control of your life. That’s essentially what women are doing when it comes to them defending themselves. If you’ve been wronged then get support.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:42 PM
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Lol. I love how you cited yourself with something that goes against your point. Sexual objectification for women is essentially the same thing as sexual harassment training outside of a job/ just normal life. It’s unfortunate it needs to be brought up but it’s a sad reality. Men don’t have it because they don’t face it as much but obviously if a man is sexually harassed it’s bad. There’s different outcomes and confrontations that occur if a man gets sexually harassed than if a woman does so that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:42 PM
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That depends on who you ask? If you ask the young guy and his friends they probably say it’s cool. If you ask other woman you’d probably hear a different story. That’s usually why the age gap doesn’t work the other way since young men throw themselves at any prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:58 PM
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The biggest problem is believing everything you read online and make believe it’s the real world. Nothing is preventing men from going after woman they want. Men can look for someone they’re attracted to. The ones that get “called” out are men that make posts that make themselves seem predatory in nature in their post. Earlier there was a post of a man saying they wanted to date someone about 10 years younger and his coworkers called him out on it. That says a lot if the people around him can re…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:39 PM
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Lol. OP didn’t differentiate sex so it seems both men and women agreed. I’m sure if it was all woman he’d point it out. It’s still a dynamic. Older individual with more experience. Nearly double the experience of an adult since she’s 22 and he’s 30. (Adult being 18) The main thing with age gap relationships is other people but in since they can see a younger adult possibly being taken advantage of. If an older adult can see a younger adult make a similar mistake wether it be financial, health, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:07 PM
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Yeah. But what did OP mean by initiated? Was it initiate a conversation? A normal thing between coworkers but somehow confused it for something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:01 PM
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Seen as negative by who? I’d say men hold that against other men more than women do. For a woman to say it’s negative I’d say it could possibly mean that the guy is not as socially active. If the man is virgin by choice then that’s on them and that would probably be respected by some but not everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:02 AM
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Yeah. It’s all assumptions. But that’s why people are overtly against age gap relationships. Taking away the word men or women from it, I’m talking the idea of an age gap relationship, can be seen mainly as manipulative. That’s why it gets called out. It’s not jealousy or lack of sympathy, its simply one human looking out for another one. People make mistakes constantly; financially, personal choices, health, relationships. If someone sees a younger version of themselves making a similar mistake…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:37 AM
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Read it. Take your time. Learn to comprehend. Literally the end of the paragraph you quoted twice already. I’m not. I’m agreeing with you. It’s their choice. Take an online English class/ comprehension class for everyone’s sake. It seems that’s the main issue with all of this. No need for a thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:27 AM
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It’s not really hyperbolic. The older individual will go for someone unbeknownst to an actually mature adult. That’s why age gap relationships are synonymous with predators. There’s some sort of manipulation there. Lol. There goes your lack of comprehension again. I didn’t mention money. I literally said they could take a woman their age to Red Robin and be fine. The lack of effort is with everything else in a relationship. The emotional maturity to talk to someone their age. If anyone doesn’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:17 AM
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What interaction? Talk to a coworker?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:10 AM
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Lol. It’s not a double standard. It’s just people looking out for weirdos. If the coworkers unilaterally agreed it was off then OP must be doing something off. Age gap relationships can work but the reason it gets called out often is it’s a clear power dynamic relationship. The older individual is creating a facade to someone younger since someone more mature could clearly see the intentions from the behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:10 AM
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Just like everything you’ve pointed out, dating is just another thing they can and also regret or have difficulties with so wouldn’t it be nice if someone was out there looking out for them and their choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:05 AM
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Lol. It’s not about sympathy. It’s about the man understanding their faults and purposely aiming younger so that they can get away with low effort dating. They can do that with women their age but they don’t since they lack emotional maturity, want to control or create a facade in someone younger since someone older would see through it. It’s a fit of manipulation. For you to confuse it with lack of sympathy is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:04 AM
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Your lack of comprehension is why you don’t get what they mean. Age gap relationships for the most part are icky since it’s typically a clear power dynamic. There are age gap relationships that can work if both adults are emotionally mature and have no mal intent. Typically age gap of late 20 early 30s and older. A young 18-22 year old will be wowed by pretty much any small thing since they are still understanding the world and would think a date to a Red Lobster would be amazing. It can be, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:01 AM
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Yeah. That’s your job. Not all jobs are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:24 AM
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It depends if you know how to not be a weird about it. But people can meet in person. To think they don’t is quite silly. It’s just people saying things like “don’t be a statistic”. People meet, hang out, gauge it, and then possibly date. If you skip over a few steps and end up making it uncomfortable then that’s on the individual. Can it be done yes. It’s kinda like online dating. A lot of people don’t get lucky there so even to them they wonder if it’s even possible. It is. It’s just more so o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:52 AM
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Going to therapy is one thing. Have you learned to process your emotions? Therapy isn’t gonna fix anything but it’s a good start for most people with issues with no close individual they can talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:18 AM
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If you notice an issue then attempt to fix it. Relationships are a partnership and you have control over your part. If you don’t care for it then you could miss out on what you’re looking for. It’s not promised.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:16 AM
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Yeah therapy could be a good Avenue for you. You think it’s quirky. There is a better way to process your emotions and express them to other than to be quirky and edgy about it. But that’s if you choose to make changes. Because if you’re saying the people that are like that are compassionate and loving then the remaining issue is yourself that’s preventing a loving and passionate relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:14 AM
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There are places to meet people. I’ve seen coworkers and university/ college students date each other. Online dating is just to give people way more options than they could ever have otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:12 AM
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It completely depends on who you and your partner are. There are a multitude of relationships like a positive one that you explained or a toxic one. If you and your partner are capable of it then it is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:23 PM
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It’s still on the individual so it’s on you. If you can’t fathom a healthy happy relationship it’s partly because you yourself are preventing yourself from it. You’re half of the equation. Finding someone to be in love with is possible but a lot of people, like many in this sub, are preoccupied with the nuances of dating that they forget about what happens once in the relationship. If what you’re looking for is a certain thing (i.e. tropes of men wanting a submissive woman and woman want a man t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:22 PM
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Both people are emotionally immature. Toxic. That’s why they’re short lived relationships. If that’s what you want you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:51 PM
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That has less to do with the creators making content and more to do with the people spending their money so easily. If they fail to see the truth that is entirely on them. It’s the free market. It’s advertising. If they want to spend their money on OF or on other things that aren’t good for them that’s on them. On one hand you have men saying men don’t want onlyfans creators and on the other you have men frolicking towards it. At the core of it it’s their fault. If men weren’t so horny and stopp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:27 AM
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No. It’s just factual. Why not shift the complaining about the woman doing OF to the men that support it. It’s a chicken or the egg scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:39 AM
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That’s you being biased. You fail to acknowledge completely normal relationships and that’s on you. You’re looking at men that wanna get laid. Is that what you want or a relationship? If you want to get laid there’s lots of ways to do it and the guy you explained is one way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:23 AM
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The right way to express yourself is a mixture of how you feel is comfortable for yourself but also in a manner where you’re also letting others understand what you want from your emotions. It’s just like how’d you do it with friends. If you want them to help you express it. If you want them to hear you vent express it. If you are unable to process your emotions and then tell others how you feel that’s partly on you. It’s okay to take time to process them and then ask for assistance after. Is ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:02 AM
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lol. Only men think that? Is that why men make up the majority of the customers?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:47 AM
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You’re such a moron lol. Believe what your fragile mind wants to believe. Let your emotions take over
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:05 AM
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Personality does matter and depending on the person it could affect how they perceive the person. You’re making it seem like physical attraction is the the main factor and can make a relationship even though personalities don’t align. There needs to be a balance and also the variable do the people who are dating. If it’s two introverts I’m sure personality would beat out physical attraction since for those individuals emotional connection is key. It’s all dependent on the individuals you’re talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:43 PM
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Lol. Tell that to any introverted individuals. I’m sure they’ll all agree they love that. Who wouldn’t want a partner who’s personality is overwhelming?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:27 PM
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Lol. In your world there are only annoying people or autistic people to date? I’m sure everyone wants someone that’s over opinionated and never lets anyone else speak since it’s so sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:17 PM
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Lol. Bad personalities are only boring or introverted? I’m sure people love hanging out with annoying assholes cause they’re extroverted. Those are positive vibes only
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:06 PM
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lol. I’m sure people realize that. The inverse is true as well. I’m sure men love woman that post sexy pics online and would want to be with them but as soon as they get together ask to not be as promiscuous. Purposely change the attraction to comfort. Most relationships are based off comfort and attraction as well. To think only attraction is important and can be maintained for the entirety of the relationship is hilariously wrong and an idealized dream of a relationship. It feels like you just…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:47 PM
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Lol. If you choose to go with your feelings about how I’m a woman when I’m factually telling you I’m not then maybe according to your take we’re both women. Oh no, some random loser online claims I have no value. Who are you for that to even matter? You’re nobody lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:35 PM
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This is too hard to comprehend for both sides lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:51 AM
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Lol. You mean the comment you edited or deleted so it can’t be referenced anymore. Got it bud. Just because you’re uncomfortable being vulnerable doesn’t mean everyone else is. And a fun thing about dating is you’re not gonna date 99% of the population so you’re opinion is as null as mine and no one really needs to meet your standards. If you’re a man why do you care how other men act also? If you’re a woman simply don’t date pussies. You seemed to just create a soft ball conversation to make yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:25 AM
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Lol of course you would. You literally told another comment literally above mine that they shouldn’t want their boyfriends to share their feelings. Internalize themselves since emotion/ feelings of any sort is bad. Your lack of definition doesn’t deter the implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:32 AM
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Lol another “men shouldn’t show weakness, it makes them less attractive “ bro. If you have emotional or attachment issues go to therapy. Just because possibly have difficulty dating and showing a sensitive side/ showing emotion didn’t work for you doesn’t mean it won’t work for others. To think you can have a relationship devoid of emotion is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:55 AM
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lol. Op doesn’t believe what people say and we should believe them because…? Did you try being sensitive and it didn’t work? Maybe cause it’s not who you are. Other people can get away with it because of their persona. Introverts date people too. In a way you’ve simply explained their behavior. Both men and women can show that behavior and both men and women can dislike that in their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:52 AM
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