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Rant/VentingOrchidReverie/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 11:42 PM
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OrchidReverie/r/ThankTRP16/02/15 11:44 PM
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No amount of money can make someone happy. It’s what they do with it all. Count yourself lucky that it was only 5 years. Depression and sadness is normal for someone going through this - your brain is literally rewiring itself to remove those memories and language you had with this tool. Give it time and focus on yourself rather than what could have been.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/26 04:29 PM
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Marijuana? Really? Combined with meds?
/r/ExRedPill14/07/26 06:42 PM
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So what do they need?
/r/ExRedPill14/07/26 05:47 PM
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Then if he knows it’s bad for him then why did he come to Reddit to vent about his issues? He needs confirmation. But what he really needs is a sponsor or someone to hold himself accountable - whether that be himself or a friend/family member. As someone that’s gone through 6 straight years of therapy every 2 weeks, I can say that OP needs to find himself and the best vehicles for that are diet, (good) exercise (not weight training or strict regiments, just good old fashioned activity and fun), …
/r/ExRedPill14/07/26 05:01 PM
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You can downvote me but beer guts are a thing. Alcohol is a depressant. OP says they’re depressed. There are other factors but based on what I’m reading the alcohol isn’t helping.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/26 04:48 PM
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A diet without alcohol would probably help.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/26 04:44 PM
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The midsection is probably from the alcohol.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/26 04:22 PM
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A diet doesn’t mean eating disorder. It literally means a usual assortment of foods. When the diet is extremely strict and causing encumberance upon the dieter then it can become a disorder.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/26 04:21 PM
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Not disagreeing but where do you get that “hate themselves” thing? Where is the proof? Also, love being downvoted for recommending improved diet and exercise for a man that is looking for help with his “void” /s
/r/ExRedPill14/07/26 03:45 PM
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I thought the same thing when I was that age. Sounds like you need to examine your diet and exercise. These improved in combination will help you. Be a real one and be better.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/26 10:48 AM
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Ex-red pill. At the time I read it, it felt like it was a “necessary” read. But it’s repetitive and frames the whole situation as a tragedy as if men need to be what Tomassi alludes to. It baits you into thinking one way by asking questions that lead to the answers he wants. It reminded me of how propaganda will ask questions or frame things that denigrate and dehumanize others, all while seeming logical or “necessary.” After 2 years of that phase I had to stop and cough it up
/r/ExRedPill03/07/26 03:16 PM
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When the manosphere started aligning with president 45. That was the wake-up call that logic and reason were ejected for pomp and chest beating
/r/ExRedPill18/03/26 09:29 AM
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You say I need to talk about something that we as adults are capable of discussing
/r/ExRedPill28/02/26 02:51 PM
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If I may: are you looking for a therapist or an outlet? a therapist will guide you to actions that will benefit your future. an outlet you let you expire that which burdens you. Are you looking to offset burden or are you looking to invest in yourself?
/r/ExRedPill16/02/26 07:02 PM
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If I may: …you accept the fact that therapy didn’t change you. If so is therapy beyond you or beneath you? If so maybe you’re more equipped than you think. That’s good! If not, maybe it is beyond words, music, or the mundane to sweep you off your… feet. That means these words won’t get to you but you accept that change is inevitable. Truth but delayed. Untimely but just. Go eat something with spinach. Go full Popeye yo
/r/ExRedPill16/02/26 06:23 PM
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I can tell just by how fast your responses are. Maybe find a therapist if you need it? I had 5 years of therapy it helped me also learn how to live a more balanced life and accept biology as we live it. Otherwise start scheduling time to be introspective? Be respectful to yourself you know? If you could see and narrate your own life when would the story change for the better? How do you respect yourself?
/r/ExRedPill16/02/26 04:39 PM
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Look up Default Mode System. Boredom is more important than you think.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/26 04:17 PM
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You need to unplug. Like purge, unfollow, unsubscrib, and delist everything that reminds you of the content that’s dragging you down. It’s hard to undo all that you’v built but you can rebuild a better network and surround your feed with better stuff in the future. Just say no and slow down. Learn to live in your own skin. It took me about a year to truly unplug after I coughed up the pill. I wanted to return but the less I engaged the more I felt better. Take your time.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/26 04:02 PM
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Bargaining < you are at this step.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/25 08:47 AM
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So instead of valuing you and giving you a moment to reflect on his life choices, he’s turning it around on you and making you take the blame for being misinformed? Let him know that you’ll be taking your cares elsewhere. I’d leave him.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/25 08:42 AM
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If the red pill is going to be his “katabasis“ then remind him that it’s dark and demoralizing, but eye-opening when he realizes what he can be sold isn’t what he needs. Patience got me through it
/r/ExRedPill22/10/25 08:38 AM
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the most powerful word in the English language is “no”. Move on
/r/ExRedPill12/10/25 08:15 AM
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Back when I was unaware of RedPill I had a girl friend that met Watson in line at some bookstore or coffee shop near Brown. Not that I take her word 100% but if it was 100% truthful she told me Watson was a bitch when she tried to make conversation. Now that friend I had wasn't a 8 or 9 but she was a 5/6. Watson probably didn't think she was deserving of respect either considering my friend didn't hit the jackpot on the genetic lottery either.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 04:34 AM
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There have been some posts on either trp or asktrp about escorts. Look into that. Sex is great. Paying for it, however, is a bit of a stretch. Some here will say that you shouldn't buy sex because it might lead you to do this in the future. Not a good habit when you should be investing your money in more profitable opportunities. Practice your hand at actually landing a girl in your lap rather than losing your virginity. Just make it seem like you've done it before. If it's bad, you practice wit…
/r/askTRP30/08/15 02:09 AM
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It's an easy read compared to The Rational Male. OP better read that book fast. It holds the real lessons of his internship.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 08:11 PM
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What I take away from this: Import the idea that you are funny. You already knew you were funny and that is a commendation or skill you have. Just because you have it doesn't mean you have to show off. Which takes me to this: Do not export it or flaunt it (I.e. Try to be funny). If you know you're a good guy and can make a quip or two, then let them come naturally. Be the channel, not a factory.
/r/seduction07/08/15 03:20 PM
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Kill em with kindness. The best revenge is happiness.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 03:39 AM
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OP is a serial monogamist and needs to cultivate himself so that he can plant the pussy seeds
/r/seduction03/08/15 06:36 AM
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You already know the answer. You're not working hard enough. You got to make your shit look easy. Be powerful and in control of yourself. If women aren't sticking around, then you've got to work harder. There is no such thing as a super alpha. Alpha is a state of being or state of mind. If other men seem more alpha, then they are alpha and you aren't. Work harder. Push yourself further. You need to push past your breaking point.
/r/seduction28/06/15 05:33 AM
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We will always be hated because we don't present the easy way to get things done. Want to get things done? Do some work on your body (LIFT WEIGHT), work toward your goals daily, and exercise patience.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 03:00 AM
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Match-making is sex efficient but it won't help you practice cold approaches with women. The match-maker brokers the first impression without you actually taking part. This HB9 could be exaggerating or disqualifying some of the qualities you should be flaunting during a cold approach. You should be making the first impression. I think you could be getting even hotter women if you avoid her matching. You'll get the lay with these HB6's and 7's but this HB9 isn't going to be there forever. When yo…
/r/askTRP04/05/15 02:11 AM
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If what I've read is correct, then arranged marriages were political schemes. Blood, names, and familial inheritance let both the man and woman have stabilized marriages. There were more provisions to be shared. Despite high-profile arranged marriages, the men would usually keep mistresses to seek out romance or sexual attraction. I think Red Pill sees arranged marriages as positive. Men are secured a sexual and reproductive outlet with a woman. However, men's adulterated actions are not condone…
/r/askTRP04/05/15 12:46 AM
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There is no question. Don't post this garbage.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 12:17 AM
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Actions speak louder than words. She could be just testing you to see if you react. Don't react. Ignore the other girl's comment or make it seem like nbd. Maintain frame and pursue if you want. If it continues into the next week, next her. Side-note: why have a female match-maker? I think that's going to put you into some sour situations. She'll find uglier women for you to meet.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 12:16 AM
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You dug yourself into a hole. Now you want out. She seems to want out too. If you have to hold out and save money, then save every little bit you can. No luxuries for a while. If you want to spice your relationship up, eye other girls when out with her. Risky yes, but hold frame if she ever bitches about you not paying attention to her. If she threatens to throw you out, maintain frame. Make it seem like it won't be a big deal. Improve your body and mind too. Go lift at the gym. No gym? Get some…
/r/askTRP04/05/15 12:03 AM
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Have you penetrated the deep insight of the Red Pill? Robert Greene's historical anthologies or Marcus Aurelius's Meditations? It goes beyond personal and influences your spirit of being a man. Of course there is all the PUA literature that is a lot more relatable and concrete. Check Amazon or Goodreads for related titles to the books you've already read. Then cross-search Red Pill for those titles.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 04:58 PM
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I think you're looking for "No More Mr Nice Guy" by Robert Glover.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 02:50 PM
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You are upset after a break-up. You haven't downed the pill. You said you have free time? Then devote time every day to reading TRP approved material and approaching woman. Read and bleed the Red Pill. Do not befriend her. She is not your friend anymore. When the break-up occurred, it meant that your social and sexual life is over. Done. Kaput. It's over. Get on with your life. If you have to be, be mad. Mad at yourself that you weren't the best. Then find out what makes you great. Maximize that…
/r/askTRP02/05/15 11:22 PM
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If the push were easy, it wouldn't be a push. Lifting is difficult at first. Commit to yourself. You prove that you can overcome the challenge. You'll make yourself proud during the push and after. Eventually it is easy enough to overcome the lighter weights. When that happens, you add more resistance. Rinse. Fuck. Repeat. Real-practice makes real-perfect (not that garbage that tells you that you're perfect for just being alive). Just do, do not just be.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:10 PM
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There's a lot of reading content you could delve into. It'll affirm RedPill ideology: The 48 Laws of Power - Rob Greene The Art of Seduction - Greene Mastery - Greene Meditations - Marcus Aurelius the Rational Male (Preventative Medicine) - Rollo Tomassi Those are good books to start with. If not, do something creative rather than consuming. Media (music, games, movies, shows) are so much of a creative outlet. You could pick up cooking. You'll be the talk of the town if you can whip up something…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 04:18 AM
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You are iterating Law 30: Make your accomplishments seem effortless. The real question is when you walk away from a woman after initiating. I was over on /r/seduction and a few of us agreed: if after a minute of initiating she seems uninterested, walk away. Simple as that. You have to put in some effort get her to understand that you're interested, not overzealous. Make it seem like you've got the Philosopher's Stone and a chunk of the Blarney stone in your ball sac.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 03:48 AM
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Reminds me of the horseshoe.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 03:14 AM
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Thanks for the criticism. In hindsight, this was disjointed. I was about to post it to social media and then I remembered how ostracized I'd be. If I post again, I'll make sure to make sure it flows and contributes a new paradigm to RedPill instead of being just an incoherent rant.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 09:59 PM
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I am an animal.
/r/seduction03/04/15 06:52 PM
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You claim I can't relate women to prizes, which is positive thinking. Then you related me to a donkey, which is negative thinking. Hmm...
/r/seduction03/04/15 06:47 PM
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I strongly disagree. If in a brief situation a man flirts with a woman and she claims she has a boyfriend or husband, he forget about it or entirely ignores the claim. He pursues the woman. Words are words and actions speak louder than words. If the man meets his competition, then he knows what he's up against and makes a choice whether or not to pursue the woman (trade-off: get beat up or steal this prize from the beta). However you bring up a point in which the man is continuing flirting after…
/r/seduction03/04/15 04:00 PM
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Despite all your downvotes, you outline one of the hardest lessons of seduction. Women want you to pursue them and if they really are attractive enough to forget that she may have a boyfriend, go for it. If she even had a boyfriend, you're the guy who went forward.
/r/seduction03/04/15 02:12 PM
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Right. Social media ought to be a tool and not a world. Use it to make social life easier to get in touch. That about it. Status updates are pointless. "Are you alive?" Yes? Good. Then hit someone up using FB and go do something worth your while.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 01:59 AM
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Take control of the wheel. Remember when you were learning to drive? Takes an ounce of effort. Gain some confidence and retake the wheel. You won't get what you want magically. You learn, you practice. Lehr und Kunst. Teach yourself a new language (foreign, programming, sales, etc.) and look for work that you think you could do well in. There's no one coming to save you because you're the only one that can push your life forward. You take the baby steps that will turn into a stride. So breathe t…
/r/askTRP24/02/15 11:28 PM
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I learned a powerful lesson about single moms this morning. I used to think it'd be cool to raise another's man's child but I now realize that it was wrong.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 01:13 PM
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It gets freeing! Your emphasis reminded me of this glorious movie moment.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 03:21 PM
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Post-rock is my bread and butter.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 01:34 PM
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Or has it brought out the real you? dun dun dun...
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 11:54 PM
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I'm new to TRP too dude but from what I've learned, I'll let you know what I think: you've never screwed up unless she's openly claimed that she disliked you. She hasn't from what I've read. Dominate the situation and show interest if you're interested. If she's lost interest, then see how you can kindle her interest again (this one I don't know). That last sentence you texted her makes it sound like YOU have lost interest and that might dissuade her. She has the choice to avoid you if she wants…
/r/askTRP19/07/14 11:22 PM
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I'm new to taking up the Red Pill so I'm a bit interested in this too. If I were in your shoes, I'd only text her if you wanted to meet up earlier.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 06:39 PM
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Am I the only one lost in how the OP came up with this conclusion? You're not wrong but this instance doesn't seem to lead to that. Please explain.
/r/seduction12/06/14 07:45 AM
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Since the majority of comments aren't serious, I'll provide some suggestions. I like to call my SO a different nickname every day to sweeten our deal. I've called her, "honeydove," "dove," "pastrypie," "Ms. Sophisticated," and "lovepie," recently. My suggestions are by example though. Think of sweet things and words. Then shuffle them together to make one that sounds cute and descriptive of your SO. It also shows that you're creative!
/r/seduction20/08/13 12:42 PM
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Women are like men. They just happen to get periods, really, and have vaginas and boobs and the other parts. This isn't advice. It's a fact. Straight men just happen to be attracted to them and you got to be comfortable with touching someone. Start with hugging. Simple gesture when you're saying goodbye to a female friend. If you don't have a female friend, then try and expand your friend group. You can do that by going out more with existing friends or picking up a hobby. Or go to a bar. Just t…
/r/seduction14/08/13 01:31 AM
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