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What kind of closeness are you hoping to find? Recently read a book called attached. This sounds similar to the start of a story about a woman who ended up married to an avoidant who never got close to her. She eventually divorced and found a better match for her.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/26 08:35 PM
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I have no tips for giving a good blowjob as I usually make it up as I go. There is no set plan. I just try movements like sucking or puffing up my cheeks with air or just random things and watch to see if he approves. If you don't like blowjobs, my trick is Fruit roll ups. It sounds silly but I wrap it and then spend the next 20 minutes tasting a "giant fruit roll up" lollipop. I jokingly asked if we could try it and he said no at first but I was pretty playful about it. My boyfriend said that e…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/26 07:51 PM
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I have been following rpw since I was 19. I am 26 now. I am currently in my 3rd long-term relationship. 28 is still young and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I would advise against settling. I am a single mom. I dated a guy I thought was redpill for 3.5 years and he got me pregnant and abandoned me. Everyone (family, friends, even this group) told me to abort because I would be undatable but I felt that would be wrong so I accepted that I might not ever meet someone who I could truly love. …
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/26 08:08 PM
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That's not nice.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/26 03:07 AM
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<3 I promise I say it with love. If you ever need a friend, send me a dm. I'm 26 but started dating my ex who idolized Tate when I was 22. I was naive and blinded by his charisma. I'm happy to share any wisdom. If I can help any woman avoid falling into similar mistakes, I will.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/25 09:10 AM
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Money isn't everything. He obviously does not respect you. I feel very sorry for you as I dated a guy with a similar mindset, and my guy ruined my life. You remind me of myself. I recommend you get out asap. If you go through my profile, you will see what happened to me. I hope you wake up and realize that you deserve a man who respects you. These Tate men hate women. Truly. They don't have honor and use religion to control women while not following the principles themselves. When you are in a s…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/25 08:38 AM
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Well, I don't look pregnant yet as I am only 3 months and have no bump yet, which probably makes it easier to not feel a ton of pressure. I am not looking for a partner to step in when my baby is born. This is my burden to bare and I have a lot of family and friends who have agreed to help me. He's a really good friend of mine, so he knew about the baby when I was trying to work it out with the father and was there for me when the father started acting violent. I am not expecting him to step in …
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/25 05:33 PM
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I won't lie. That was a concern for me. I worry about the intentions of a man interested in a woman with kids, but I know this guy really well. I've met some of his family, his friends, etc. He's been trying to ask me out for 3 years since we had our conversation, and he apologized for not having serious intentions. This guy works in nursing and genuinely is a very thoughtful, helpful person. He is the last person I would worry about dating me for a kink or for access to my kid. I worry more abo…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/25 11:19 AM
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No, I genuinely don't think so. I know him fairly well
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/25 11:12 AM
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Silly question, but what's wrong with a man that has a white knight complex? Also, objectively, I am very attractive and can be kinda witty, so I don't think he wants to date me for pity. I think he genuinely has liked me for the last few years, but this is the first time I've actually been available. His mom was also a single mom, so that might change things as well
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/25 11:11 AM
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Oops its r/surrendered_wife
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/25 02:20 AM
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My life is a hot mess, but Laura Doyles' book The Empowered Wife did wonders in my relationship when I was applying the principles. She has a podcast, too. There's also a subreddit called r/surrenderedwife
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/25 01:20 AM
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I have a wonderful support network with a big family and a few friends. I am leaving my ex alone. It's not good for me, and I genuinely think he's having a breakdown. He broke up with me, quit his job, abandoned his home, and isn't talking to his family... It's just very out of character for him... I think he may regret his decision eventually, but Im not gonna wait around for that to happen. I've gotta focus on the now. I'm having a baby so thats my main priority
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/25 03:55 PM
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Yeah... I don't know if I want him anymore. I've started to accept that things have changed. I can meet someone else who wouldn't put me through this . He just turned 27. I'm concerned about him. He broke up with me, quit his job, and abandoned his main home within a week. He isn't talking to his family... It's like he is having a psychotic break or something
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/25 03:51 PM
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Yeah, I regret that whole mess, but he was threatening me, and I was scared... The more I think about it. I've been holding onto the fantasy of who I thought he was. I dont want him anymore. Like, I kinda want him cause I never expected to have his baby without his help... but I dont really want him. I dont like who he is. I dont want to be with someone who respects me so little. I want someone who loves me and would stick by my side. I dont know how long it will take me to feel better, but I do…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/25 07:22 AM
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I didn't... if anything... it feels like he baby trapped me
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/25 06:25 AM
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Thank you. I'm gonna save this. It's a hard pill to swallow, but I dont think I can rewind time to before this happened even if I want to. I dont know how I will heal, but I just have to take it day by day
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/25 03:43 AM
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Lol
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 09:49 PM
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I think he's in denial. He hasn't accepted that there is a baby on the way. He's pretending it doesn't exist... he kept saying "It's not real".... but it is real
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 07:40 PM
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I have a supportive family. I dont feel like I have any real friends at this point. He was my best friend.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 07:39 PM
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You're not wrong. I just wanted to know if anyone had been in a similar situation and got positive results
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 07:17 PM
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So my child can be raised with a father
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 07:16 PM
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I just want him to feel remorse one day. I loved him a lot, and he wasn't perfect, but neither was I. I dont know if I can ever forgive him for this, but I want to be able to make that decision myself.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 07:16 PM
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Thanks girly
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 07:14 PM
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I just want him to regret this. Idk if I can get back with him, but I think the best gift for a child is a healthy family. I just want him to feel some type of regret or remorse. Is that so wrong?
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 07:14 PM
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I never thought I would be 25, single, and pregnant. He said he was going to marry me, and I felt like we could get through anything. I want hope to get through this. I need it. You can't imagine what this feels like. I'm scared. I'm trying to get my life together, but I never thought I'd be on my own on a journey like this. He's off being happy and dating someone else, while I got cheated on while I was pregnant. I dont know if I can ever love him again or date him again, but I just want to kno…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 07:07 PM
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It is not your place to suggest an abortion. I didn't ask what I should do about my baby.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/25 02:59 PM
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I appreciate your concern, but the baby will be prioritized. In a time where child trafficking, pedophilia, and sexual abuse are rampant, it is incredibly irresponsible to give a baby away to a stranger. As I said, if I knew someone looking to adopt, it would be considered, but I don't. If God didn't want me to have this baby, then he wouldn't have given me a baby. God does not hand out duties that are more than we can bear. I know I will suffer, but that is my cross to bare. Babies have had str…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 01:51 AM
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I have a lot of family support. I have my parents, siblings, aunts, and uncles. They all live approximately 20 mins away. I'm currently staying at my mom's house. I have some savings so I could get an apartment right now if I wanted to, but I'm trying to save. I discussed adoption with a close friend who is a single father, and he brought up the point that you never know who you're handing your baby over to. If I personally knew someone, I would consider it, but I couldn't just give my baby to a…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 12:42 AM
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Thank you for sharing your story. I'm feeling so distraught. I never thought I'd be in this position, but I know it will get better. It's just so fresh that it really hurts right now. I'm only 25. We were talking about engagement before I got pregnant, so this has all come as very surprising. We weren't perfect, but I didn't need perfect... I guess he did...
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 12:11 AM
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I'm 7 weeks pregnant. I had an opportunity to jump into a career. It had the potential to make a lot of money, but it was stressful and was basically 10 hr work days. Because of that job (which he convinced me I should stay at), we barely saw each other. I worked a regular 9-5. He worked 3pm-12. For a while, we had one day off in common until the career job took that away. I quit my job the week before I knew I was pregnant. The other job was a job I enjoyed that didn't pay as much and has no be…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 11:59 PM
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Thank you so much. I think this really helped me. I will leave him alone and focus on my baby. It hurts, but I think you helped me understand my situation without the cloudiness of my emotions.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 07:40 PM
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I appreciate your feedback. I can't stomach an abortion. It feels like an act against God. I have to take off my blinders and really start to see the situation for what it is. I just can't believe this happened. He's the one guy in this world who I NEVER expected to do this.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 04:38 PM
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Thank you. I guess I have to let go of this fantasy where we make up and work it all out. I have to let him go. It's so scary and painful. I hope one day he regrets what happened here. I'm keeping the baby. I think Abortion is wrong so my options are to figure it out alone ig
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 04:35 PM
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My boyfriend used to do the same thing... It was really angering for me, because I don't want to be name called... but what I realized was that he was reacting (badly) to a situation I was creating. If you can learn to handle disagreement in a more pleasant way... it won't come off as negative, nagging, unhappy, or controlling. LD teaches how to address issues in a way that prevents arguments altogether and promotes intimacy
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/25 10:56 PM
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Hi there, Please take any advice I give with a grain of salt. This is what worked for my situation... I can relate to how you feel as my relationship used to feel like that. I swear I felt like I couldn't express any issues ever, but he could express all of his, and I started to become resentful. I've posted here a few times, and RPW has told me to leave my boyfriend when things got tough, but we have worked out many of our issues and officially can communicate openly, but it took a TON of work.…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/25 07:20 PM
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I've been in a similar boat. Last August, I discovered my boyfriend had been on dating apps, and I was devastated. I never saw it coming. I told my mom, sisters, friends, etc. It was humiliating, and I was heartbroken. I decided to give him another chance, and I found myself feeling even more humiliated because so many people knew what he did and that I stayed. I noticed some people started treating me with less respect because I stayed, and that hurt. Afterwards, I noticed my circle always lean…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/24 01:17 AM
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Well, we aren't perfect. We are young. We are still learning
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/24 02:15 AM
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Not sure what that means
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/24 01:58 AM
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I just don't think a good gf or wife would walk away from their man during such a hard time. Maybe I should've mentioned the whole grief news in the initial post but I've been a little scatter brained.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/24 01:50 AM
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I think it's somewhere between both of our faults and neither. We both have crippling amounts of stress on our plates, and we have conflicting work schedules so we don't get a lot of time together. Both of our jobs are stressful, and he just found out his dad is sick. Sunday occurred because there was any emergency, which led both of us to lose a lot of sleep and created an over the top stressful situation. I'm not typically throwing food... and he seems to have doubt like every 3 months... on a…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/24 01:36 AM
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Well, we are both passionate people. I've thrown food during a fight and he's broken my computer. It is what it is. It's easy to judge based on one scenario. I'm not sure what I want. I just wanted support
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/24 01:31 AM
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I appreciate your support. It's hard to give him space because we live together. His parents are begging me to stay and ignore him. I've been trying to figure out my living situation. My mom thinks I should leave. I'm unsure of what I want to do currently. I'm kind of numb. A lot has happened this week and I think its just been too many emotions. We have had fights like this before where he swears hes done and then makes up with me days later.... After, I've asked him why he takes it so far, and…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/24 01:30 AM
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Read her book the empowered wife. It honestly addresses some of your concerns. I have felt similar about "letting my man of the hook", but then I applied the principles to my relationship (which were actually really easy to apply) and I found the results astonishing.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/24 10:53 PM
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My name is not on the deed. I feel so stupid for all of the time, love, and physical labor I have put into our life. He used to tell me how excited he was to marry me... I don't know what I did wrong... I just don't feel like myself anymore
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/24 03:01 AM
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We go through phases where we are stable and happy, and then when things get hard, we go down a toxic Rollercoaster. I've tried to get off it... but it feels like he withholds love and affection except for when it benefits him
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/24 02:59 AM
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Well, he used to pay for most of our expenses, and he likes to lead in the relationship... but I've started to feel controlled, and I'm questioning if that's typical for a traditional relationship. I cook, clean, and assist as much as I can, and he takes care of our bills.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/24 02:58 AM
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