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| 1 | This is a message to all genuine men. Please learn seduction and game. Because the game is colder than liquid nitrogen. What I saw this weekend is an example of that.You do realise that most of the time, this sort of situation happens when a woman wants to be exclucive and have a relationship and they guy doesnt, so she teases with 'competition' (aka she wants him to fight for her) whilst the sex chemistry is good enough to continue with a fwb thing. Dating around doesnt mean sleeping around. You confused the two. Maybe its coz you have little game, but in the real world people can liek each other, have good sexual chemistry and want long term relationships,… | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 05:47 AM |
| 0 | This is a message to all genuine men. Please learn seduction and game. Because the game is colder than liquid nitrogen. What I saw this weekend is an example of that.yes you did project as well | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 11:11 AM |
| -3 | This is a message to all genuine men. Please learn seduction and game. Because the game is colder than liquid nitrogen. What I saw this weekend is an example of that.lol so much angst in your comment.. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 10:23 AM |
| 1 | This is a message to all genuine men. Please learn seduction and game. Because the game is colder than liquid nitrogen. What I saw this weekend is an example of that.lol you confuse dating around with 'dating', dating around means finding people to consider to date again, fwb come from 2night stands, and relationships happen when people commit to each other. You holding onto some idealism that a woman is exclucive with you after 1 date is probably why you dont have game, need to get over yourself. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 07:41 AM |
| -1 | This is a message to all genuine men. Please learn seduction and game. Because the game is colder than liquid nitrogen. What I saw this weekend is an example of that.lol so the woman wants a relationship, and have fun whilst dating...didnt see rules saying they cant. From personal experience, there is nothing wrong with any of this just as long as OP is aware that the friend is likely the one rejecting a relationship with this woman whilst having a good time, and sexual chemistry for her to want to come back to him. I had this, its a fine balance, its a true fwb, and its mainly the woman that agrees to this as long as you do act attracted to her, pull the mo… | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Why are My Posts Getting RemovedYou are american.. your gov and private oligarchy are the same thing bud... | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Why are My Posts Getting RemovedIts reddit wide... they are systemically repainting the history of posting. Old internet is going, and current internet is locking down and controlling posting to the point of not allowing the archive.org to archive the site or page, like media news sites are doing this. As always the data privacy, wasnt for your security, it was for dmca and ip and copyright, and information control. So now reddit is also purging posts for some reason. Or the posts were made by bots or something. So many things… | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 09:38 PM |
| 11 | Friend and I used to go out and ask every girl at the club if they wanted to get out of there immediately, No? Next girl. Never failedrldr: numbers game... If you wanna lay only, lower your standards and have fun... its not hard if you are willing.. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 01:44 PM |
| 4 | Women Act Very Goofy When They Like You….With men its trained attrition, with women they cant help it as they arent all that attracted to a lot of guys out there. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 10:42 AM |
| 41 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItYes but... "" If they are attracted to you, they will appreciate your attention and your appreciation. They will also forgive you, and your mistakes. Your quirks will be seen as cute, or quirky not wierd and eww... Thats the pitfall of attraction. Knowing this means you can understand how first impressions matter, perceptive behaviors matter, and how social interactions work. Basically it always boils down to: Make them talk, listen attentively, dont criticize, genuine compliments, and responses… | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 11:53 AM |
| 1 | How to be more fun and charismatic?What do you love, read about that, try to share it with others. What do they love, enjoy, are passionate about. Be excited and enthusiastic to learn about that from them. In between do the normal verbal and physical communication styles, listen to what they say. Ask open ended questions, give praise never condemn or complain. Thats it really, with practice, a lot of it, you can figure out what you can do do be more emotive and charismatic. But the easier way: Meet people who like you, instead of… | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 02:06 PM |
| 16 | fastest way to find a FWB/Fling?"Fastest way": Lower your standards... Thats it. Go to the bar, approach some 3s and 4s (or those below you in any and all aspects of social judgment), and just have fun saying anything. If you are anything above their status they will just go with it, and if you arent an asshole and a dweeb, you can easily make friends with them and sleep with them. SO be kind, respectful, be interested in what they say, and they will be interested in whatever you say. Throw in some genuine compliments (GENUINE… | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 01:42 PM |
| 0 | Men who understand women don't argue with them because the universe doesn't care who is right or what's fair in a relationship.Women understand women and they hate each other. HAppy wife happy life. Etc. Well known life long issue. Women want a man who is independent, just not with them. I strong and powerful and will bend for them. If you reframe it in a form of romance: You chose the women so she is now your world, and only your daughter and your mother is the only other set of women you should bend and break over backwards for. This is the commitment you chose when you chose to date. In the seduction game, and dating… | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Most of you don’t realize what you’re doing wrong with womenAAh yes the "its easy" because I dont try and have it made comment by OP, so women that are interested act interested back... Most of this sub keeps getting the same advice: Get a life, have a life, enjoy your life, and women will want to join you and have fun and live too. The rest is social skills, emotional intelligence, direction and purpose, or being sure of yourself type advice. Which is common in most self help books, and get rich quick schemes. Its not bad advice just universal: Get your… | /r/seduction | 02/04/26 01:30 PM |
| 2 | This is WAY too easy now!Show confidence, interest, intent. Yep the basics work. Now all you need to do is not act like a horny fuckboi on the first date and maybe she will choose to jump you because you are what you came off as on the first impression after all... If you want to date, then the first date would be a mix of flirting and getting to know each others life goals, plans, direction. Casual dating and fwb type stuff is a lot less serious conversations and a lot more fun and easy going energy and still more flir… | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 12:24 AM |
| -1 | How Do You Know If “I Have a Boyfriend” Means She’s Not Interested or Just Testing You?General rule in dating is that if there is no ring on her finger, your are free to flirt with respect. Like if she says she has a boyfriend and you continue like she said nothing and she responds positively means its not serious or a shit test. If she pulls away, then switch it up. All is fair in love and war, but thats love, If you can be better than her bf, then why deprive her. But if you just want sex, then why are you bothering taken women? | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls want to do only foreplay but not have sex?If you cant pass her tutorial, why would she give you full access? | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Women full of themselves?Seems like you should get to know your women before asking them out, and not choosing dates on shallow aspects if you want quality dates and women who think more than shallow thoughts... | /r/seduction | 26/11/25 04:09 AM |
| 49 | Tall girls are an untapped resourceWith OPs logic we can also say short stumpy girls, ugly girls, nerdy girls... in fact anyone who seems like they are ignored are an 'untapped source' | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Women at work think I have wh0resPractice. go out and fail, talk to different people, make interactions more about feelings and them rather than logic, topics and what you want. Then transition into injecting sexual type of conversation, or more intimate with the women you like and fail with them. Until you start to succeed. remember to learn from your mistakes, not dwell on them. And most of all if you are enjoying yourself, people will enjoy themselves more often, if you are unsure, timid, and trying to get to a point, you ar… | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 11:07 PM |
| 5 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.Some prefer quaility over quantity, and just as it's easier to lie on your resume to get a job, keeping it requires some skill beyond the lies. Same with people, you want one night stands, go for it, lead them on and lie. But eventually you will want quality and ongoing relations, that's when the lies will start to catch up. | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 09:28 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys stay positive?Comparison is theft of joy. Learn from mistakes and move on, dont get hung up on it. Dont have expectations, aka live in the now. Depression is akin to being stuck in the past, anxiety is about the future, live in the now. If you dont have expectations about the outcomes, or interaction you can be present in the moment and engage. Instead of chasing some idealized version of what you are looking for, accept that the world is unpredictable at times, you can do everything right and still fail, and… | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 12:22 AM |
| 42 | Men who have multiple women without spending money or losing peace — what’s the logic behind it?Since this is a good comment I will piggy back and place point zero: 0) Make women feel good. If you cant buy them good feelings, and if you cant be good looking. The next step is the charisma, the charm, the pandering, the cold/warm emotional rollercoaster. But above all, the emotional impression, the feelings you make them feel is what is most important. Everything else helps get the foot in the door and keep it there. But getting them to feel, feel good, and associate that feeling with you, i… | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 01:44 PM |
| 5 | Remember: hell yes or noTLDR: Have self respect. | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Why is escalating to sex on dates so difficult?Because the idea idnt to go out and treat women as a peace of meat you want to fuck... its the balance between being upfront with your intentions and giving her a good time so she will want more of your time.... In the end if you go out looking for just sex you will be disappointed. If you go out to have fun, get to know her, show her you are worth something more than being a fuck, show her a good time, she may want more. Hence escalation, keep the situation heading somewhere better. Instead of … | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 12:02 PM |
| 5 | How to Pick up milfsBest way to pick up milfs, is to be fun, learn to recognise when they are subtly flirting and flirt back and escalate. And most important you need to show maturity above your perceived age. They will be far more accepting and want you more if you can tickle their mental side as much as you tickle their sexual side. | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 11:14 AM |
| 5 | Why is showing interest such a turn of to some people?Women are like cats... But also: You act thirsty you come across as desperate. Many people, not just women will be naturally attracted to(gravitated to) people who have a passion, who are focused on being themselves and enjoying life. You are acting busy, you are interested, passionate, you arent being sexually motived, or trying to impress anyone you are just doing you. And that brings people in, they want that energy, they want to know more. You give them a little, they will want more. Its not… | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 02:31 AM |
| 3 | I just don’t get it.Have fun, dont expect her to agree and sleep with you. But also dont just be having fun like a clown, you are there to have a good time, and if you are having a good time, she is having a good time, she might just agree to you IOIs and escalation because she is enjoying herself. Your intentions are clear, you are escalating, and flirting, not just being friendly and joking around. Additionally, your intentions are clear, you are looking for friends, for dates, for a quick fun, to have fun, to be… | /r/seduction | 17/06/25 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Great success on Hinge, no success on Tinder & Bumble whatsoeveris this entire post just one big ad? | /r/seduction | 12/06/25 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Great success on Hinge, no success on Tinder & Bumble whatsoeverTinder and bumble hold your matches hostage and puts free users on the back of the line catering to the paid customers. Meaning that both the women and men are having a bad time. Once hinge grows enough they will start to manipulate and promote their premium offering killing the experience once again. | /r/seduction | 12/06/25 01:11 AM |
| 31 | Don’t Sweat over the women that reject actual nice/thoughtful datesI would like to add, that take rejection as a positive (or look at the pros and cons to learn from). Just as you wouldn't be friends with everyone you meet, you should also reject women who dont pass your green flags, not just fail your red flags. As well as dont sweat it when women reject your well intentions. Some women/people appear to be one thing, then are different in reality or past the facade or first impressions/masks. So if you dont get the feedback for putting yourself out there, or d… | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 02:19 AM |
| 1 | In order to be really successful with women, you have to like and love women first and foremostin order to love anyone, one must also love themselves..... | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Hard truth: Most of you will never change.Shouldnt be about change, its about improvement and growth. Basic tenants that help everyone in life. | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 02:38 AM |
| 11 | A lot of guys who lack confidence have this fantasy.OP is delusional... most people who have anxiety and lack confidence have the issue of thinking everyone is looking, judging, staring. Thats called social anxiety and you can cure it by just startign friendly chats with strangers until you meet enough people to understand that people are people and dont care. I am tall fit and good looking when I walk into a place i take up space and get eyes on me. Its intimidating always thinking there are always people watching judging. The best advice is: Co… | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 08:11 AM |
| 7 | Oblivious cock-blockerThis... context and depth. OP just wanted to close, maybe the girl was looking for a relationship and got her gay guy to tag along so a creep wouldnt sleep and dump her the next day. Maybe the gay guy was just low on friends and social que quota and OP just had to say: Hey me and this girl are vibing, maybe if you give us time alone tonight, you and I can go out and do soemthing fun next week. And actually follow up on that. Maybe the girl was getting annoyed at OP because he was failing the bas… | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Do guys “understand” touching as a form of flirting?Some guys: She had sex with me, i think she might like me. Whilst other guys be like: 'Her hand graised my back on the way out, you could say things are getting serious. | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 04:57 AM |
| 2 | You cant survive the modern dating market unless you are good in bedYes. can confirm being a good fuck will release a lot of good pleasure hormones, and if you can read her body etc then it can translate to attachment. You will have to tie that into your dating game though, no sense being a 1dimentional stick that can fuck really well if women dont give you the time to get them there in the first place. | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Is it true if you are physically attractive man, women generally approach you first and make a move?Yes, even on the apps, Women will initiate, but if you dont reciprocate and take over the iois they will loose interest as they still need validation and attention. But yes, attraction does get attention for both sexes, its not a sicret. Improve your inner and outer game at the same time. Even if you are ugly, you can still dress well, exercise and have a nice haricut, have confidence and some charisma and shit going on in your life so you arnt a bore to talk to. You can approach and initiate, b… | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How to create sexual tension/make women desire you if you’re 5’7”stop being so self conscious... get a hobby and be excited to talk about it, have plans and goals and dont be afraid of making a fool of yourself. Then clean up, get a nice outfit, haircut, wash yourself and groom yourself regularly and there.. you are a decent human being, now go talk to people, make friends, try to enjoy your time, have good energy and surround yourself with like minded people. And there you have social proof and social skills to chat up girls, not be needy, and have something… | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 02:14 PM |
| -1 | The reason your conversations go flatSuch a selfish /neoliberal way to look at it. Its not how YOU feel, its how YOU making HER feel. Its not so much about what you say, but how you drive energy, where the conversation is going, how she is feeling. And what energy you put out is what you get back. So if you are just doig interview questions and not sharing then yeah... Sometimes I find that if someone isnt answering I share soming funny, odd, imbarrassing or soemthing about myself and drive concersation somewhere other than Q/A ses… | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 02:01 PM |
| 1 | She did it, but I can't do itRE: Op question title: She did it because she hid her intentions behind ignorance and forced your hand. "help me' is a very good icebreaker. It gives the man all the power to continue conversation and none of the responsibility to her. She didn't come onto anyone, she 'asked for help'. Thats the trick, you see a woman looking at you, go upto them ask them a benign set of questions and then push IOIS and flirting. Thats why its harder for guys to approach, they have to think of this convoluted bs… | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 04:28 AM |
| -1 | Blunt Truth: You Might Have Undiagnosed Autism (And That's Okay)Self awareness isn't autism trait its lack of critical thinking.. general intelligence. Although its true autism is a broad diagnosis in a sense that its diagnosis has markers for things everyone has to some degree. Combined with severity to impedeing basic life functions it becomes a thing. Some people are too self aware and it is a detriment. | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 04:19 AM |
| 33 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.Be born rich and have a trust fund.... | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Snapchat… at age 25. This app feels incredibly uncomfortable and “off”I just add them on insta and set up a date. Snapchat is... for verification of real vibes in pictures that can ''self distruct''... which you can set to do on insta as well.. so snapchat as a concept is outdated and hanging on by a lifeline imo. | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 01:44 PM |
| 339 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.Yeah like wtf 6-8, OP has no hobbies or interests outside being on his phone all day everyday... | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar?I am not for the game, i am for the helping people meet people. Like i said if your standards are low, ei you are fine with scamming and exploiting and tricking women to sleep with you, sure, then you can have sex. But if you want connection, relationships, satisfaction in life, then its a lot more than just numbers game. In a way the numbers become just the normal social issue of 'meeting' people, and then using pull techniques to build attraction with people you are attracted to. You sound lik… | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 11:22 PM |
| 23 | Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar?Same as it is on the apps... if your standards are low, you can pull anyone.... The trick is to find people you are actually interested in, and getting a thing going with them. If you have low standards and dont care what crazy your dick goes into, then yeah its pretty smooth sailing, and a numbers game. If you actually have self respect and respect for others, the game is different, and its harder to pull quality. | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Chickened out. Any chance ?You can lie and say your cat died, get some road kill and show her... Or just tell her you were busy, but you are free now and interested in getting to know her more. | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 03:39 AM |
| 1 | How do you talk romantically?Easiest way to learn about being romantic or speaking romantically, is to read some poetry... It makes things easier, you can save phrases and topics and words, or straight up memories some poems. Women will love that. But more importantly if you cant reconcile your feelings into words, poetry already has decades even centuries of writers who have through and wrote down these things. Making it easier for you. | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Blocked by a another girl when approachedThis is the only correct answer. The friends will block if they think you are too good to be true, or a bad decision. Either way playing it cool and befriending them, shows the friend that you are an ok guy and that the girl is making the right choice talking to you. | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Stop crying about how dating apps suckExcept that out of clubs, daygame and cold approaches, only the APPs suck the most and objectively too.... Apps are inherently designed to exploit men, profit off men, and fomo their way to keep you engaged. Women on apps know its mainly sex, so if they match you, yeah you have a better chance. But even then.... Stop blaming, start self improving, get a social circle, get hobbies, and meet everyone talk to everyone. Eventually you can tell if a women is being just nice, or being nice because the… | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Using money to upgrade my dating lifeHow is this even a post.... Money is like the cheat to making your life better period... | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Girls Getting Attached After Several DatesYou act like you are datable. Date1, establish that you are interested in just casual relations, and dont be talking about relationship topics and keep it more casual rather than deep and meaningful. Women think they can get you, if you are in fact a nice guy and a great guy. So if you aren't just havign sex, keeping casual, chats and dates, then yeah they will get attached. Most women are looking for a relationship, if you are giving them room to breath into your personal life and you let them … | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 08:23 AM |
| 2 | Dating women sucks. Friend-zone them instead.Umm... Even if incels friendzone women, it will work out in their favour. Friendzone women, because they have friends. If you cant pull your own ego aside, and dont have your own male friends with social circles, the next best thing is freindzoning women. If you can be friends with them, that brinds social value an validation for when you want to chat up their friends. (only issue here is that you cant be a sleeze and try to get on with every single friend. Usually 2 or 3 before they all talk an… | /r/seduction | 25/02/25 11:30 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean "I like you a lot but I can't sleep with you"She wants commitment and doesnt know how to communicate She has a side piece and/or has an sti Has slept around now whants to be a good girl. Wants commitment so holds sex as ransom. There are so many reasons. if only OP had a proper adult conversation with her, he would have more to go on. | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 05:25 AM |
| 1 | So horny and stupidNo, you got to spank that monkey up the mango tree. | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 11:00 PM |
| 3 | How to know when you fucked up vs just chalking it up to the game?The game is the game, you fuck up when you dont win, if there is only a win/lose condition. Get off the apps, practice more having a life over getting women. The game is to approach women where you meet them. So if you have stuff going on, friends, hobbies, you meet people there and can play the game. In public in clubs etc. There is no loosing, the only loss is if you make your entire existance outside chasing women, then yeah you come off as a sexual predator and thus automatically get a nerf,… | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 08:56 AM |
| 2 | CunnilingusIf you lube her up, she is far more likely to reciprocate and do wild things. | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 04:23 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)Cry, Step 2 do some push ups. Step 3 move on with life. | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 09:26 PM |
| 17 | Wtf happened to my game?Just watch your ego. you are the prize, not your wallet. | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 01:29 AM |
| 22 | Wtf happened to my game?If you feel like you succeeded in work, then you need to reframe your game. Approach and state intent early, dont just aimlessly flirt and run game. When you were 18-25 online dating was heating up. Now its old news and everyone has had some experience with it. So just running game isnt enough, you need to show and run with intent. If you want a long term relationship, or a short term fun, you need to approach from that position. If you want to date date, then prepair for questions and ask quest… | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 01:17 AM |
| 4 | How to text women without being boring?By not, set up a date. Build rapport and connection. Then text will be easy, as you can have an idea od who you are talking to, then jokes, and statements will be understood easier. If you have no rapport, its just impersonal txt game. You are just another profile pic and text box, that she gets from dozens of others. You want to be interesting and not boring? Have something to say, but first build rapport. You dont need much: Intent and plan. You be upfront in what you want, you can find women … | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 08:44 PM |
| 4 | You'll never know neverI stopped at "let them know your interest".... There was some research done, and that if 1 person expresses interest to person 2, then person 2 in absence of feelings has a greater chance to thinki about their feeling for person1 and more times than not, they may develop some interest. Women still want men to chase and initiate. They can hide behind their aloofness, or ignorance/pretend. And make a choice whenever. Its perfect after all, all that power to choose but non of the responcivility of … | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Do women pose for us?Do you puff out your chest, suck in your gut, and act like you aren't phased by her shitests, when they have already stung your soul? Peoples behaviour is a thing. | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 01:24 AM |
| 8 | Is there a nice guy game?Sure all this, but also: IF you have looks, your personality really doesnt matter. In fact, the hotter you are, its either being dumb, or very humble and nice that gets you women tokens. Believe it or not, being hot headed egoist only goes so far, but honey gets more bees. Also same thing with charisma and money, or status. All these are a function of your personability, agreeability, and outgoingeess. Being nice, becomes as strategic as being playful. Too nice, and establishing boundaries for e… | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 03:00 PM |
| 13 | Have an interesting life and let girls tag alongThere is value in just being passionate just one, or more hobbies, work, interests. This way, you dont need to have an interesting life, because thats all well and good, but most of us dont want to have even more complicated bullshit going on. If you can find confidence and passion in 1 thing, you can carry this energy and confidence when you are out, so there is self build value. | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 08:26 AM |
| 3 | Stop entertaining drynessGet off the apps. The apps are there mainly for hookup culture, which means women will txt ypu if they want some. If you never get txts from women, you are not the guy for their needs. Dry, is only appicable for irl. Apps, the women have so much volume of men, to choose from that imagination and idea of what that persons profile maybe irl is more inticing than the real deal. So going dry on the app sucks, but you kinda have to fight for her attention on there. In real life move on, after the fir… | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 03:13 AM |
| 23 | Tinder experience as “Ripped” good looking malemoney, status, and not be a a shit faced looking gremplin. Women tend to match hot guys for casual fun, and stability and material wealth over hot looks for long term commitment. So if you have your shit together, got a job, get lean and fit, and then you should have little problem with pulling. But apps are apps, there is no real world value in doing window shopping for people, when more than half the communication happens non-verbally. | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 03:44 AM |
| 289 | Tinder experience as “Ripped” good looking maleAs a fit, lean, muscular guy, I say there is interest. Most of it is attention from mid tier women. Those who want to date will be more guarded as they know you get women so there is needs to be a pull from you as well. But I would say its exhausting either way, most of the apps women are either dead accounts of fake. Internationals, who knows. Basically the system is set up for p2w | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 09:07 PM |
| 11 | Went to vegas andnobody has it 'feagured out'.... Some just have more expirience and get to know the game of human interaction to have a chance to see what is going on in the moment, not just in retrospect. Thats why number one advice on here is: Go out, and have a go. You will learn more from trying and failing than being snide on reddit. There a second tid bit of advice totes free. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 02:28 AM |
| 34 | Went to vegas andControl your emotions.... Learn about how women shit test men. Your outburst, indicates you cant handle being torn down. Your ego, and self importance got in the way. So when a woman casually pressess your buttons and you react, you fail her shit test, and she wont like you. There a bit of advice for you to improve yourslef. Totes free. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 02:25 AM |
| 6 | Went to vegas andWomen spend hours getting ready... ofc they would react more if you 'notice' or pretend to notice. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 02:23 AM |
| 26 | Any guys here on the more average side have a good amount of success?Simple things; Be fun, be playful, be friendly. Dont take anything she says too seriously, so her shit tests slide right off. Tease, breach her personal space, nag and compliment. I like to just throw in how she is beautiful so its no wonder she gets attention, then ignore her for a bit like give visual attention to other women whilst chatting her uo, until she gives you some strong eye contact then engage with strong eye contact and confident actions/body language. It doesnt matter what you tal… | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 12:42 AM |
| 0 | I approach 10 people. Now what?repeat it daily, but spread the 10 people out through out the day. After a few weeks you may have formed some connections and set up friendship hangouts. Grow your social circle this way. Diversify and go out to events and activities that are aligned with your interests. This way you now have groups of friends who have friends and you are meeting more like minded people abroad on activities. Eventually you will be able to find a woman, that you choose, and she chooses you. | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 09:15 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up the best opportunity I've ever hadShoot the shots, yes. But dont dwell on what could have been. You dont know what she was thinking, and hindsight is a bitch, but also you could be totally wrong. So dont worry about it, live in the now, learn from the past, plan for the future, but live in the now. | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 08:51 AM |
| 14 | Is it a good idea to completely cut off online dating ?Its a good idea to detox. Online dating is bad for men, because so many women just use men for attention. Apps use men to push monetisation. There isn't much interpersonal attraction that can happen from just window shopping based on a few words, and images. With endless scroll it creates an overabundance mindset so no one really commits to anything and women constantly ghost or flake. I deleted them all, lived happy for a few years. Am back on them to maximise my dating pool for a long term rel… | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 02:34 AM |
| -2 | The eye-contact game..You look away because you are afraid to talk to them. I look away because I am afraid they will talk to me. We are not the same. (some girls are just dumb and conversations with them is like pulling teeth...) But dont worry in public, but if you like someone, eye contact is important. On pickup, on dates, to check IOIs. | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 12:11 AM |
| 2 | What questions can I ask girls when approaching?Ola Chika, does them legs open up for this cabrone. Best way is as with anyone: Practice going out and striking conversations with strangers. Use environmental factors, current events, or make up something like you are asking for directions or advice. Then you can use those skills to approach girls, give them a compliment, and straight up say you came over because you found them to be attractive and you wanted to see if she is willing to get to know one another. If there is some interest, escala… | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Dating is so draining. Never get second dates.I wouldnt think of it this way. Reframe your perspective. You 'thinking you should hold back' is the same as 'should say this should not say that'. Easiest way: Be yourself, learn to recognise red flag, emotions. And go into the date with a bit more of a plan rather than wing it. You should have some idea of who you wnt in your life, and thats the questions you need to ask to understand if she fits your life. (intent) Dating isnt like a trial: Love is like a fart, if you have to force it its shi… | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Dating is so draining. Never get second dates.Figure out what you want, and be upfront about it. If you dont see them as relationship material but sex is on the table, try to escale towards sex. If you want relationship, you will want to throw in serious conversational topics(not like mariage and colour of carper, but def more deeper questions and interests, and share yourself too). Some women will just want sex, and maybe more. If you cant do that, they wont come back for another boring date. Thats why everyone keeps saying: state your int… | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Dating is so draining. Never get second dates.Yes, but if you play it too casual you never going to be seen as an investment. If you didnt get her to have sex after 1st date, and rocked it, then what else does she have to go on? Just some fun time chats with you? This is the internet age, you need to escalate escalate escalate. Be direct with the date: Is it casual date, or date because you want relationships? It doesnt matter if you wont have relationship, thats the future problem. You need to set up foundations so that there is a reason t… | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 01:54 PM |
| 3 | One-itis"field report'... more like shit bragging... Bro, she wants a relationship, but you both have 2 points of emotional intelligence between you. You want to use her, and she doesn't know how to get you to like her more than just a thing for sex. Do her, me and the rest of us a favour: Go fuck other girls, actually pull some moves and not rely on social media status as some card to play, and come back with an actual field report. And not this shitpost of bragging over nonsense. | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Dating is so draining. Never get second dates.Have you tried building a 'future'? On the first date, dont just get to know each other, try to build something for the future, family, kids, house, what colour carpet should we get. This can prime feelings of attachment for the longer road. Dating casually, is all casual, Dating for relationship you need to dive deeper into what you want from your partner, and what they want, and what you can provide etc. No second dates, because even if the first one was fun, it was shallow. There was nothing … | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 10:03 AM |
| 3 | Are girls turned off if you don’t escalate to sex on first date?Some women grow to understand that male sexual desire is the representation of attention/love in them. (often these are sluts, but more like romantics etc). Nothing is ever concrete, but if you dont show any desire, they will assume you want to be friends. Because a woman wants a man that isn't afraid of her, and isnt afraid to have her. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 10:30 AM |
| 1 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathThere is a wide margin between incompetence and 'needing help from others'.... TO think you can do everything on your own, is a very western neoliberal brain rot ideology.... Like I get it, to be a weak man, 'always' dependant on others puts you in the lower tier of social circles, but that doesn't mean you have no value, just not for the type of woman that OP wants I suppose. But there is a balance, and OP isn't it. Successful relationships are ones where people can support each other, help eac… | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Facetiming and voice messages are VERY effectiveand if you dont, you will get reported for catphishing... | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 01:38 PM |
| -1 | Facetiming and voice messages are VERY effectiveeww... its bad enough we have to deal with online dating, but calling, voice, and video... I dont even do that with my own family | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 01:38 PM |
| 2 | How to get laid with minimal conversationGet them to talk, excalate physically and with body language. Go to places where conversation is secondary, like clubs and gigs. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 03:15 AM |
| 2 | She “feels” like she is cheatingWell if you have treu intentions of having a relationship with this girl, its time to escale. Not sexually but mentally, as seduction is mainly about connection, physicallity, feelings. but a relationship is built on more than just the euphoria of the honeymoon period of early love. So if you do like, her and she is starting to like you, its important not to rush or push. She says she is in a relationship thats a flag that you have to feel your way through this if you want her. Cant be too forwa… | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 03:49 AM |
| 2 | She “feels” like she is cheatingThats how it starts: Emotional cheating, then actual cheating. Some cant stop before the commitment. But arguably emotional cheating is wosre, because they found someone that they desire on a deeper level than just sexual attraction. Question is what are your intentions? If she thinks you are bonding and getting close, but all you want is to get laid, you might be the person instigating her cheating because you didn't make your intentions clear. If you are interested in her more than just sex, t… | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 12:21 AM |
| 5 | I've come to the conclusion some guys go out solely for the purpose of cockblocking.I am just going to say it if no one else will... this is just confirmation bias. They aren't doing it intentionally to fuck you over. They are just guys, that are unable to overcome their own internal battle to even talk to the girl, but they have the drive to be near them until they can overcome their fear. Some just hover and wait for an opening, or IOIs without any initiation. Seduction teaches action, but real world is full of doubt and emotional turmoil. Sure it may appear that this just ke… | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 04:16 PM |
| 0 | PSA: Seduction is 10% theory and 90% a numbers gameObviously... Its not enough to have the skills, and experience. You still need to wade through the statistics of life. A city of 3million: 50% should be opposite sex, but nowadays the numbers can skewed. Anyway, extrapolate for age, dating preferences, availability, interest. And you end up with like 3 people who may want you on any given day. Good luck with finding the connection at a place you are at. But, if you have social skills, pull, ability to read and interact, adapt and have some chari… | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 05:38 PM |
| 8 | How to get a girlfriendWhen a woman sees a happy fulfilled man, there is a almost supernatural drive to take that from him. Or Women are like cats, they will choose to approach and be around you. In a way its the woman who chooses to let the man pretend that his moves are working on her.... Or you make a life worth attention or is enjoyable, and people will want to enjoy it with you. Or focus on making yourself better and fulfilled and then a relationship will add to it. Making a life for a relatioship, will make it l… | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 01:30 AM |
| 6 | Female attention means nothing unless it’s leads to something physical.OP can be summarized with: We all like to look at a supercar, hypercar, 3000hp supra. That tuned civic. But would you want to take a ride in one, take that risk? WOuld you want it as a daily? DO you want to pay the insurance, take on the debt to own one, commit to absurd servicing costs and petrol costs? Thats it, women and men will look with interest and intent. But when reality check is made, the answer will be no. Most people will fall in love with ideas in their heads, those that reason will… | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 01:06 AM |
| 33 | Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as wellCarefull... you may soon start thinking about economy, wealth inequaility, communism vs capitalism, etc in no time with such ideas. Harsh reality is yes, competition is always going to be tough. But if you realise that it doesn't matter what others do, and only what you can do, what you want, why you want it. You can better accept yourself in such a world. After all, comparison is the theft of joy. Dont get stuck in worrying about everyone else, just focus on you. Because at the end of the day, … | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women need emotional conflict?More like emotional stimulation. Right amount for them. This is true for all people, but women more so. | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Does your action make difference?what is a foid? | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Does your action make difference?yeah, improve your personality, social skills, attitude etc... Why do you think you see so many pretty girsl with ugly boyfriends, looks for women matter less than looks matter for men. Gym is step 1. Brain is the next 6 steps | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Does your action make difference?wrong brother... attraction is as much mental as it is physical. If you refuse to improve yourself and compalin dont be surprised why nobody wants to talk to you | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Does your action make difference?you cant force attraction either.. so perhaps learnt o think differently | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 03:08 AM |
| 0 | Does your action make difference?Yes,... this is why seduction teaches you things you can do to increase that initial interest... Everything else is about you and her and if you vibe or not. You can be a recluse and pull a woman into a relationship, if there is something between you to make it work. Without seduction it is the same as OP just less obvious as the man isn't making moves to show he is interested and enticing. Its like a game of life, or game of love. There are arbitury rules for engagement with the other party. Kn… | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 12:46 AM |
| 0 | Is ‘Just be yourself’ good or terrible advice?Why ask a question in the title... | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 04:36 PM |
| 0 | Insight: it's all about the girlYes, if they like you its easy... But if ypu have skills ypu can open doors for them to consider you, and build a liking to you... | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 06:15 AM |
| 7 | How to have that "he is probably incredible in bed" vibe?I just say that i have excellent references.. usually they say something along the lines: a bit arrogant... Then I reply: There is a fine line between arrogance and confidence, Arrogance is for those that cant prove it, confidence is for those who can | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 10:27 AM |
| 3 | How to be happy on your ownQuestion: DO you have YOUR people? Like a close group, or even just one person that you are happy to share life with, talk about stuff, confide? Sometimes I get the sense that people who 'feel alone' when surrounded by people, dont have any base to go back to... Like the loneliness tugs not because you aren't ok being alone, but because you dont have that place you can go to to feel like you arent alone. Close family, friends, provide that. For many this means that when going out this shared bas… | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 02:38 PM |
| 18 | I banned dating apps from my lifeI deleted mine years ago. Right around the time Tinder started to offer too many monetisation options. And I had noticed a massive dive in my ability to match with anyone. I would swipe, everyday, for like a week straight and only get two or three mathes that weren't really my type. Where as in the beginning days, I would get dozens, then in the hay day would easily get a match of two of my choice before the weekend. Then the monetization hit, and it seems like endless accounts, dead accounts, r… | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Being to availableYes... but...use it. Also you sound like you have adhd...because I do, and OP reads similar to my situation in the past. Volunteer, you can find non physically demanding options. You will get massive points with women if you show you have a heart and care about more than yourself and your ego. Get hobbies, you dont have them. So find them, start at one and eventually you will find one you enjoy. Join groups of different kinds. Eventually you will find one you like, you will make friends. And you… | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Since when is cold approach not seduction?Seduction is an art of creating attraction between people. The skills and topics discusses here work for on men, women, wifes, girlfiends, strangers, cold hot, app approach, doesn't matter its all a part of seduction... | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Slept with 20 women in one year: Truing to deal with bad effectsYes eventually many men, will grow out of the fuck boi phase, and transition intoi life building and committed relationship phase.. Sleeping with many women, has a good benefit of getting out and then finding the right one. | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 12:47 AM |
| -1 | How to Proceed?Ask he out on a date or: 'tits or gtfo' 'What do the stars have to say about our big bang' 'Would you rather Christopher hawkings body or his brain' 'If the stars have told me anything, its that a hot piece of cosmic gas will take millions of light years to arrive to earth, just for some white woman to complain that the sky isn't dark enough for her tonight'... 'Show me your boobs' Shoot your shot with either line, I use them all time with great success, | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 05:26 PM |
| 112 | Observation: The women who post relationship goals type of content on their social: are the Most active and practicing hoes.Another way of looking at it is, types of people that keep dreaming and keep changing partners are the hopeless romantics. You can call em hoes, or you can accept that they like many guys cant find love so they move around. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 12:43 AM |
| 11 | how do people even make conversation in loud bars and clubs?WHAT? | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 06:02 PM |
| 8 | What do you say you're looking for on Tinder when you're just trying to smash?I dont know, for some ungodly reason when I make my profitle for commited relationship, i get all the whore type girsl that will put out on the first date. When I advertise that I am in the market for fun, all the jaded women looking for a relationship match me and will try to push sex down the line. I am fit and good looking, which I have summised to women priming defences: If I am in the market for fun, I am a fuckboy, and thus need to keep around longer to prove my interest in them or somethi… | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 01:57 AM |
| 11 | Abundance mindsetCleaning house/removing baggage is helpful for Abundance mindset, but its more like OP mentions, a cleaning of mind. Abundance mindset is actually a different thing. Its the way you will accept others and their value in your life. Desperate people with low abundance tend to go too far too fast early, and thus create an image of being desperate or low value. When you have friends, women that want you, and strong support network you act different. More confident to walk away, to assurt your positi… | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Can an average man have chances with a higher-status woman?Absolutely, provided he earns well above average. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 11:40 PM |
| 4 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?Its an observation of some women, take as you like. Clearly you took the extreme route and assumed i was refering to all people...pretty sure i tried to mention multiple different ways treatment changed when getting in shape for me at least. Personally I dont believe there is even such a thing as a stable schema, attitudes and ideals change with time but also situational factors play a role. Women are people and there is nothing wrong with finding other people attractive. Relationship doesnt mag… | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 01:01 PM |
| 55 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?At clubs etc, women have their guard up, so its jot as easy to just strike a convo or hit a wibe. But catch them on their terms, when they arent guarded against aexualised approaches and its easier to get into their dms. Being attractive helps, but so does personality and having your shit together in life (its your shit for your life but have it together). Generally some girls will give you crap (shitty shit tests), others will have an attitude, and girls that are in a diffent league or thik tha… | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 03:06 AM |
| 7 | The worst advice dating advice I've ever received.Being yourself means not lying to yourself or others eith your intent. It doesnt mean being stagnant and content with status quo, and it doesnt mean you cant or shouldn't improve. | /r/seduction | 30/04/23 11:40 PM |
| -1 | Comic-ConYelling, pushing, trying not to puke because of the smelly smell teenagers and lockerooms smell of... HOW ARE YOU? - you ask.... I am fine says John, he dressed up as sailormoon this year..... | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 01:39 PM |
| 5 | I found this post in r/socialskills saying that women don't want to be cold approached, it doesn't work and guys should stop. What does r/seduction think about this?it does work, when the guy is her 'type', or she is interested in them(people make up their mine within the first minutes, some give time for further validation of their first impressions, but usually the shit sticks). So what they are saying is time and place, everyone has somewhat busy lives, cold approaching works if you are hot, if you are not then its about the same and not cold approaching. What they say? You miss 100% of shots you dont take, so take some shots. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | How to ask if she has a BF without being weird?If you have flirted and made intent known, she would have told you. So either you are in the friendzone already, or you are not a sexual threat to her relationship that you need be told that there is already a bf.... Either way, try to idk, be more upfront with your interest, if you are rejected stay friendly, and fun and maybe its was shit test you dont know. Point is, if ahe hasnt told you, either there isnt one, or you didnt flirt, and make your intent known. Either way you dont need to ask, … | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 03:48 AM |
| 6 | Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interestedI am going to say, unless you have charisma to follow this up, dont even try. You will come off as a type to just be trying to get sex and or just being rude. Without following up with a good question that will peak her interest, you wont be manipulating anything. You are playing a chicken game with someone that has the market in the online dating scene. Asking good questions means: Reading the situation, imp0lying intent, understanding their position and interests and flirting all at the same t… | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Social circle is important, not only for meeting women, but for keeping them. Attractive women usually have large friend groups and, IMO, expect partners with the same. And this is a good thing!As a lone wolf, making and keeping socil circles is hard. I tend to just collect people and maybe reconnect. I still pull, but because of the value of my own devices, many women will look past that, lack of a social circle, but my life is full in other areas. So for those who think they need a circle, you dont. But you need to substitute that value elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | life is cruelshe is busy, she has plans, she made plans with people that she knows not some guy chatting her up, You got too invested, you dont even know where she wants to go, you didnt ask. you just suggested to go to some spots you go to. Could mean anything from sex to relationship talk. There is a line between flirting to get laid, and friendship, and relationship talk. Problem is that you met on bumble and thus you are a stranger. She probably found someone better to take her out and show her a good ti… | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:52 PM |
| 3 | How to become a fuck boy, female edition?No, high value is high value, toxicity is trying to control how people speak to you because you have words that trigger you. If you dont think there are men/women/people that are high value then you want low value, you want easy to understand easy to engage, easy to deal with people (in sense that they dont really push their opinion, or have any desires, or try to challenge you, or have their opinions come from educated background not just feelings...). That is what you may 'value', and if you v… | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 04:34 PM |
| 3 | How to become a fuck boy, female edition?First of all value is subjective, so there is room to be high value in all sorts of areas in life. But there are areas, and there are valued traits in those areas. Men do not tend to meet low value women, women that dont add value to their lives And women that dont attract based on lack of values the men that are after. (what ever they may be). It goes both ways. But when we say high value, we mean they have shit going on with their lives, they are interested in something, they are able to talk,… | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 03:48 PM |
| 9 | How to become a fuck boy, female edition?Dress well, dont act like a wierd desperate person that doesnt have things in their life. And women becoming female fuckboys, is easy, men will come to you, and all you have to do is give like 2 or three complements, each elevating in sexual nature. And accept any advancements, even leading them on with being derect about wanting fun, sex, selecting sexual topics. Asking for sex is also easy, just ask for it, you can even give a time and place and they will most likely be there. But men have ego… | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy?I am a guy, and I totally ignor texts and emails and messages and mentions and posts and likes... Dont take it personally, if you had attention and had a life, a busy, scheduled, life... You too wouldnt have time for random men, or people that were not immidiately needed confirmation or reply/update or anything. It is what it is, women have more options, and there is still a life to be had. If you are stuck focusing on replies, maybe take the hint that she is just not into you, or you have not p… | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 12:05 AM |
| 0 | My coworker (intern) rejected me, I told her I don’t want to be her friend and that we’ll stop there; she texts me a lot since even if I ghost her, what’s wrong?Could be both, women/people are complicated. There maybe many reasons as to why she doesn't want to date you. If she is leaving at the end of the month, i suggest you dont cut contact and see if she wants to have sonething more after that. Being coworkers complicates things, not everyone wants that. Secondly, adjustment period means just not everyone can just switch from friends to relationships or something more. Just because you are at that stage doesnt mean the other person is. You can stay f… | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 03:58 AM |
| 8 | My coworker (intern) rejected me, I told her I don’t want to be her friend and that we’ll stop there; she texts me a lot since even if I ghost her, what’s wrong?Dont date your coworkers.... If you do, try to date them seriously, because work and personal life interferes a little too much in the long run if you have to spend all day and night together. Secondly, women know this and if you just tap out quickly then they know you just wanted sex. If you want to date, there might be a longer adjustment period to get there. Also if she wants a friendship and you dont, and you had a connection, if you want her to respect you, then rephrase: "i like you and wa… | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 11:38 PM |
| 2 | how does sex just happen??Sometimes two people are attracted to each other. They start to flirt, maybe see and give off signals, maybe they are in the mood and both havnt had sex in a bit so the urge is there. One thing lead to another and boom, you are just kissing and taking clothes off. I was living on a shared house, and a friend of a roomate comes around (turns out to be just a failed tinder match that became plutonic). But i saw how she looked at me, a stare that lingered a little too long, a compliment a little to… | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | QUICKLY HELPIf ypu waited an hour to reply, ypu fucked up | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 08:04 AM |
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