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Othello314/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 02:53 AM
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Othello314/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 03:27 AM
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Stop trying to keep up. This is where I am now. Keeping up has meant losing friends, family, most hobbies. It's utterly exhausting. Just stop. Admire him. Let him be better. You are never going to be his everything.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 12:50 PM
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Thank you for the update. Clearly I have way too many fucks to give. I definitely have cut my own friends out for crossing him (his friends/brothers have adopted me as the mascot but obviously I wouldn't hang out with them on my own). I didn't realize that I'd slowly lost all my hobbies as well. Good insight. He just seems to take over everything when he walks into a room and everything stops. I feel like an idiot saying this considering context but I drop my shit on a dime for him and come runn…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 11:58 AM
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He will wait 1 day less than the shortest amount of time you've waited. Expecting anything more from him is cruel.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 09:51 AM
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Literally just realized my husband has been calling my assertive actions (like mentioning when we miss an exit) me being "passive-agressive." Hm.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 08:39 AM
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Career reflects the man. If he's a mess, chances are it's for a personality or willpower- related reason. Don't distract him by letting the relationship continue. Let him pursue his dreams and goals without sapping his ambition. This from a woman who married a nothing and got lucky with a successful guy. If we had met 3 years later, it would have saved 5 years of a miserable marriage. Net: gain 2 years of good marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 08:32 AM
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I was clear when we met that I was waiting for marriage (I was at a theology/music major so it was pretty much a given). We had been/stayed friends and went on what would probably be called "dates" (1:1 dinners alone talking about childhood and feeeeeeelings) but I just thought we were old friends right up until he asked me to marry him (literally never looked at him that way). I told him No but that we could date. He asked again 6 weeks later and we were married a few months after that. But tha…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 08:26 AM
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Mistake #2 wasn't your mistake it sounds like. Seems the kid has a pretty decent sized ego on him to get all defensive over you sending him a definition. I don't see your "No" as you "lying." It sounds like you were responding to the accusation that you thought he was an idiot for not knowing it (i.e. responding to what he actually meant vs. what he said.) The fact that he can't straight up tell you what he means is indicative of a very miserable future for you. The fight picking is the way he w…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 08:08 AM
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Validation of what? My origin family is dead, my friends dumped me when I got married and this is really fucking complicated. People say "women are disloyal" and I'm really struggling to understand how I can be both a woman (and therefore disloyal) and also a fuck up for "sticking with him until I die." If this were just about me, it would be easy, but there are 6 other souls in play here. I'd rather not make a life-altering decision without considering the effects my actions will have on others…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 07:45 AM
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There is no way in hell I would go to work if my husband hired a babysitter like this. I would quit. (Got me a little panicky just thinking about it.)
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 07:02 AM
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I appreciate the work you put in de-trollifying me and your response makes sense. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 06:34 AM
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Enjoy your evening. http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-5rBrV_DOmXQ/TeNGIR7cPcI/AAAAAAAAA04/zBf1EduEieY/s1600/fat_girl_normal.jpg
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 06:29 AM
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A huge dick. The world's biggest dick. Make that two dicks. Two giant huge super-dicks. Are we done now?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 06:23 AM
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Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 06:21 AM
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I don't get exactly what you mean by that but I'll assume it means you think this somehow invalidates what I said. This is the account logged in on this computer. It's probably one of his old accounts. I don't comment or interact on Reddit a lot and didn't see the need to make my own account.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 06:11 AM
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No, actually.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 05:51 AM
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Unless this forum is full of back-door bandits, you should be able to handle a legitimate question from a woman. And again, the nude-receiving position is currently filled. See previous response.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 05:43 AM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 05:27 AM
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Clearly it landed.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 05:26 AM
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Kindly go fuck yourself. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 05:25 AM
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Actually he just started a new career (after years of being home). He loves it and generally comes home really happy. I actually think the opposite is true and the conversation was mostly about what I could change to make home a happier place for him and I couldn't get a straight answer. Maybe you are right in that I'm trying too hard.. I am a nurturer by nature and I can't help myself when he seems out of sorts.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 05:25 AM
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In the meantime, just continue as normal? Try to avoid him when he's tantrum-y? Or just endure things as is and kindly direct him here if it comes up?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 05:23 AM
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I'm in RPW and they all just say to leave and not look back. The conversation we were having was actually about him and what I could do to help. (He's fine during the week but by Sunday gets moody, irrational and inconsolable. We were talking about what could be the root of a cyclical behavior and what I could do or change to help him deal with whatever it is) I wasn't trying to be an attention-whore, but just frustrated that he wasn't taking the conversation seriously when it was about how I co…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 04:37 AM
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lol. I got that, but it's been a long night. Can someone spell both of those things out like I'm a retard (because tonight that seems pretty accurate)?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 04:32 AM
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So do I just ignore that apology? (My acceptance is usually taken as "come home, we're good." Not responding so far means he usually goes to his parents'.) Ignoring the apology seems monumentally petty and selfish, but accepting it is basically the opposite of what you (and a lot of people) are saying to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 04:30 AM
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I don't understand then I guess. Can you explain?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 04:26 AM
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"He pays the consequences. He fixes it. He gets his shit together HIMSELF. If he doesn't, you leave." I'm with you, I just don't get what you mean. Should I hold firm to the standard of fixing what you break? Because I know acknowledging/accepting the apology doesn't do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 04:25 AM
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... I get it. You think I'm being ridiculous. Believe me, if I wanted to be an attention whore, I'd talk to people in my life (Or XXChromosomes, they eat shit like this for breakfast). I'm on Reddit to protect him and his reputation but it seems like people don't really give a shit or think I'm trolling. Thanks for taking the time to comment, I guess? If you think I should just get the fuck over it, that would have been more helpful to say..
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 04:20 AM
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Thanks. Is there any tips for the future? (Besides not doing that again, obvs) Should I just avoid him entirely on Sundays? Is there a way to prevent things like this from happening again or no. Or are you implying something else by "move on."
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 04:11 AM
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... Well thanks for not giving a shit and deleting this from under me, Admins. Super helpful.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 04:07 AM
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I already am. All I'm getting is "Leave him." I could go to TwoXChromosomes for that shit. I need real, rational advice -- if it's leave then give me good TRP reasons. What the hell is this subreddit for if not to help TRP marriages?!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 04:05 AM
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It's not trolling. I mean, more manhandled. A slap and three punches then sort of throwing around until I hid in the bathroom (door). I don't want to be rash and I feel like leaving is just more hypergamy bullshit, which isn't me at all. I don't want anyone different I just want the best him. TRP has really been helping with his confidence and the new job especially. It just seems to be Sundays that he tanks emotionally and become moody and inconsolable. He is literally my best friend (we were f…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 04:01 AM
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I don't love the answer but I appreciate it. Thank you for the realistic advice. That's the first I've heard that doesn't sound like some feminist anti-family propo.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:54 AM
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It was immature and I apologized before he left. But he's apologizing to me. Do I just accept the apology? In the past all it does is make him feel like things are better with absolutely no change. I'm wondering if my acceptance of the apology is why he cycles back to the same behavior or if there is another way to handle it that can help He was moody and emotional all day and it didn't matter what I did to make him happy he was just pissed and complaining about everything from the kids being lo…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 03:52 AM
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So that kids wouldn't have two parents away to war? Are you retarded?
/r/MensRights05/12/16 03:44 AM
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That doesn't explain where kids who have two parent deployed would go.
/r/MensRights05/12/16 03:42 AM
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What if the criticism is from your Captain? I feel like a failure and I'm starting to resent him and resent the fact that I gave up my career to support someone who clearly thinks I'm pretty terrible at supporting him.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 03:40 AM
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So it's over just like that? I've put in a lot into this guy and we're finally on the upswing. He was literally fine all week and today was just moody and demanding and emotional. I was trying to get him to talk about it when this all happened. I don't want to just toss him aside over this.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:33 AM
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Let her. Drop her. She is NOT worth pursuing.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:25 AM
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IMHO, the more you show you care about something the more frame you have to show in spite of it. Take Trump. He shows compassion for middle america, but then actually has the capability to make change in that area (and consistently does). Therefore, pussy. Compare to Cruz... no pussy.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:24 AM
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It is. I fucked up. He lost frame. It's a mess. I'm just a little more aware of how him losing frame has lasting consequences in every area (work, friendship, apatite, everything). I can go into detail if necessary. EDIT: and thank you for not dismissing this on gender alone. It's tough.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:20 AM
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I'm NOT just trolling. I've posted this on several TRP forums and I'm hoping to get some answer that's not r/relationship because I don't want that feminist bullshit in my house. We were great for the entire week and today he was just moody as fuck. I'm not making excuses, but just please why this is not okay. People have told me to leave over an unanswered text so I don't generally assume people are being reasonable when they tell me to leave.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 03:12 AM
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Okay but what to say tonight? Edit: I don't want to trade up. I want to be better than that.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 03:04 AM
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Okay, but what to say tonight? EDIT: It was a little more complicated. He slapped me for it and then I blindly (instinctively, I guess) put my hand out. Didn't hurt him, I don't think, but my fingers went in his mouth (like I said, blindly). Then he punched me twice on the shoulder and manhandled me (throwing around). I finally got my footing to go mano a mano but I just didn't have it in me. I turned and walked away (which was really hard) and locked myself in the bathroom (said door that he be…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 03:03 AM
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Here's my opinion as a described unicorn who has earned the title through years of supporting a Beta husband and encouraging him while he cheated and acted the fool until it finally paid off. NO. We are not Unicorns. On a good day, I believe my upbringing (single father/only child, literally the ideal Captain/First Mate interaction) is to blame. On a medium day, I believe it has something to do with the fact that I was 18 when I agreed to marry DH and a failure in our marriage is a fundamental f…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 02:59 AM
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This narrative of AWALT, regardless of it's truth, is really beginning to be damaging to society as a whole. There are women out there, though rare, who are quality and loyal. Saying "women need us more than we need them" is simply contributing to the divide of the genders, male oppression and the replacement of fathers by the state. At some point in life, you may consider procreating. You'll have to choose between bettering yourself to earn the quality ones or impregnating trash in the hopes th…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 03:08 AM
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Seriously, I'm not on here to read perfectly written essays and poems. I had no trouble understanding his points and if you are saying you did then you're an idiot or an asshole
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 03:06 PM
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I'm part of that "masculine warrior culture" at least I'm part of what is left of it. And yeah women fuck it up pretty good. Besides fucking the higher ups to get special treatment and assignments, they destroy the brotherhood of warriors. Hell based off TRP theory women CAN NOT even have the core army values...loyalty..duty....respect...honor...integrity and personal courage. Does that describe any women that you know?
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 08:04 AM
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That is perfectly fine as long as the standard is maintained, the worry is the like the rest of the military women will be held to a lower standard because...?...lowering the standard gets people killed when you're down range you have to have absolute faith that the guy next to you is committed and capable of having your back. If I were to get shot I promise you there isn't a woman out there that could pick up me and all my gear and carry or even drag me out of the line of fire. In combat we are…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 07:53 AM
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Also if it were really about protecting image why not make both male and female pictures private until there is expressed mutual interest, oh right...they want to pick and choose from who is the most attractive
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 03:59 AM
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In my experience it only takes once
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 03:48 PM
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Maybe it's just me but I thought making eye contact and smiling was a pretty clear communication that you are receptive to having a conversation.....
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 03:10 PM
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Ok, I'm new here for all of two days now but I've seen this same thing posted a few times now. Isn't it possible that each complaint you're reading is posted by different users. Each one just sharing there story once so that they can more easily move on and let that shit go and then focus on bettering themselves. It really doesn't seem to me like everyone is sitting around hating women and complaining about how they got fucked over. I see it as "hey, this shit happened it fucking sucked and it h…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 04:27 AM
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While that's probably true I came in with the new traffic so I can't complain
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 11:58 PM
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Why are you trying to get people to say it's all about sex? It seems like you are attempting to get a definitive answer so that you can refute it or use it against TRP
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 02:46 AM
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/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 10:58 PM
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Not with the current trend of girls delaying marriage for the sake of "exploring who you are" and "female independence"
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 06:12 PM
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/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 05:52 PM
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