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Decision time:

Ptmothello

December 5, 2016

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Title	Decision time:
Author	Ptmothello
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	December 5, 2016 2:29 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5gje47/decision_time/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/decision-time.65065 https://theredarchive.com/post/65065

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[–]mlgwarrior4200 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]Othello3140 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

It was immature and I apologized before he left. But he's apologizing to me. Do I just accept the apology? In the past all it does is make him feel like things are better with absolutely no change. I'm wondering if my acceptance of the apology is why he cycles back to the same behavior or if there is another way to handle it that can help

He was moody and emotional all day and it didn't matter what I did to make him happy he was just pissed and complaining about everything from the kids being loud to the groceries we had. I was trying to get some answers about what he actually wanted when this fight happened. He couldn't answer and just spent an hour on his phone looking on his phone commenting about whatever I was doing and how I drove him crazy. He gets in these funks where he's just miserable and I have no idea what to do to help.

[–]mlgwarrior4200 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]Othello3141 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Othello3140 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link