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Okay, that's comforting. I'm always searching for the perfect word, but I guess that's going too far. Still, I cannot imagine me going up to two strange women. That's the equivalent of hanggliding or something for me. But gotta do it I guess. Again, thx!
/r/seduction27/11/16 07:12 PM
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Hey, I am sorry, but I just saw this. Wow is all I can say. I don't know if I ever can be fast enough for all of that. Reading your story, it's incredible all the little things you picked up on and read - I admire you there. I guess what I find stunning is that you just went up and talked to two girls at once. I simply cannot imagine doing that. But I guess I better start. Anyway, thanks for the all the details - it's much appreciated. And I do like your idea of going out and just making 10 atte…
/r/seduction26/11/16 06:24 AM
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Yes, I am fine with it and didn't mean to give any other impression.
/r/seduction20/11/16 06:10 AM
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Well, this may seem hard to believe, but I am trapped in the home for awhile due to financial considerations. Trust me - a lot of moving parts.
/r/seduction20/11/16 06:05 AM
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Isn't that the truth. I see all the beta versus alpha debates for example. Each gets their share of the girl in different ways. And of course on treating her well. I would enjoy talking and the friendship generally, so that's great.
/r/seduction18/11/16 05:43 PM
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So, and forgive my ignorance of the non-monogamous side, but if you do something with woman A, will they usually ask you if you are seeing anyone else? How do you answer that? Do you say that you are polyamory right now? I have absolutely no idea the best way to handle that.
/r/seduction18/11/16 03:56 AM
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That is strange to hear. I've basically hung around totally monogamous folks for years and years and years, so thx for letting me know that lots of folks think the opposite.
/r/seduction18/11/16 02:40 AM
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Well, I guess you don't have to wear a ring. I suppose a woman that cares about that will usually ask.
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:47 PM
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Wasn't my choice and I see absolutely no desire on my wife's part for that to happen. But, sure, I agree.
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:45 PM
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I guess I didn't realize it would be that tough. But, being a newbie, I'm a bit naive obviously.
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:26 PM
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Red pillar - haven't heard that term. Guess I better do more reading. Really appreciate the stories. Man, I am ready! I am about to start another thread on the best way to find women even if you are married. I am in a similar situation to you I believe. Wife and I sleep in separate locations of the house and we have set a divorce date, but it won't happen for around a year due to financial issues. So, if you would watch for that page and give me your tips, I would appreciate it.
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:16 PM
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Never heard of headspace, so I'll have to check it out. I'm in the gym 6 days a week generally so I'm with you on that one. Yoga I've never done, because my tendons are would tighter than a piano string. No, I've wanted to try it, so I guess I gotta just do it. So have you seen any guides out there for how the bar scene works. I mean you're sitting at a bar - I don't understand how you can talk to anyone really. The few times I've sat at a bar, it seemed like there were about four or five little…
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:21 AM
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You got it and really appreciate the push.
/r/seduction17/11/16 04:12 AM
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That's encouraging, but I'm 55. Like I wrote below, I can see occasionally getting lucky with someone younger who has a thing for older guys. But it's hard for me to imagine that that would be consistent. I do have a unique build - probaby 13% body fat and I'm pretty tall and have a swimmers build but with quite a bit of muscle. I have noticed that seems to catch the attention of some women even though I'm 55. There's always hope I guess. As far as the overweight part, I mostly care that the wai…
/r/seduction17/11/16 02:09 AM
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You know it's interesting you say that. Just today I had a woman right around 30 act super friendly. And I get that from time to time. My impression is that some women have a thing for older guys. Now why that is I don't know, but I can see that occasionally working out. Is that what you are talking about? And, to clarify, I'm 55. But I really think most women would think I was right at 50.
/r/seduction17/11/16 02:05 AM
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Sounds like you've got a lot of "Woman Wisdom" already. You're decades ahead of me even though you're decades younger.
/r/seduction17/11/16 02:02 AM
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Definitely. Plus, to be honest, I would have little to talk about with a non-careerist more than likely.
/r/seduction16/11/16 05:35 PM
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Thx for the encouragement. All right, I'll give it a try. Got nothing to lose!
/r/seduction16/11/16 05:34 PM
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Sorry I went off the grid for so long. Yeah, so the gyst of the strategy is to make as many "light friendships" and contacts as possible, because maybe one in 10 or 20 will work out in the bedroom, right? I assume that, unless you've got money to flaunt or incredible looks, then it's just going to be a lot of work? I don't mean it sounds bad or anything - going to yoga or dancing with a bunch of women sounds pretty doggone good at this point. So I notice you didn't mention bars? I know nothing a…
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:23 AM
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Noted. Well, that's okay - I'd actually prefer it. Question - how can I do well online? You can't join any of the std dating sites (match, etc) as a married person - even if it's open - right?
/r/seduction09/11/16 03:31 AM
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Either one is great. I'm tired of nothing physical so either one sounds about a 100X better than my current situation. I'm not real good in groups, but I think I do just fine one on one - in terms of converation I mean ha ha.
/r/seduction07/11/16 11:34 PM
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