Total newbie so forgive me if this has been answered before. I still don't know the terms well enough to even do a search in many cases. First of all, let's say your goal is max times per week. I have a very high libido, so I don't care about being with a supermodel - just want to do it with someone who wants to with me as much as possible.

So, if that is the goal, then I see about three ways that one possibly could achieve it:

  1. Find one girl that is really into you and has a very high libido. Stay just with her as long as things are going well and then break things off when they don't. This has the advantage (I would guess) of giving you access to more women, because more women want a dedicated relationship where they are not sharing you. The disadvantage is that every couple of months or years you have to drop the relationship. Of course, I realize this option is not what this reddit is about but I'm still putting it out on the table.

  2. Build up a pool of women of FWB who will hopefully call you every few weeks. I believe you'd call this the polyamory approach.

  3. Try to pick up a new woman every night or as many nights as possible. Rarely repeat things with the same woman.

Number 2 sounds the most attractive to me. I like the idea of a friend but where you are not tied down into monogamy where she gets bored of you after a couple of years and the live in desperate frustration for years thereafter. (Been there.)

So is #2 realistic? Or would I be better served by #1 or #3 anyway? And sorry to ask this, but I've been HIGHLY monogamous for decades. This is all completely new to me.