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Tbh he didnt have a ton of infield. I dont think it was related
/r/seduction14/02/25 03:18 AM
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I think a lot of that is true but I do t agree that they can’t make good money. A ton of these guys shill big $ for bootcamps pr private coaching. I think its more likely he got sick of the community. Incels annoying him or being know as a pickup guy probably got to be too much.
/r/seduction13/02/25 02:05 PM
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Also on the flip side, if you want to get back to her place - walk or drive her home and say you need to use the bathroom
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:51 PM
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Todd is no doubt one of the best in terms of results but for me his videos are just too advanced. Id rather cultivate the mindset for good game then learn all of the little tactics and strategies he teaches
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:46 AM
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Name of channel?
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:45 AM
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Yea honestly I know I just need to take more action. Im pretty confident in my skills once I do. The coaches videos just get me fired up to go out and approach
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:43 AM
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Why do you want to make her feel pretty? Chances are she knows it already. If you’re genuinely saying it because you see her and in that moment you think wow she looks pretty then just go right out and say it. If you just want her to like you, telling her she is pretty will not work. She probably knows it already.
/r/seduction03/01/21 01:12 AM
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If you meet someone out at a bar or club though, haven't they agreed in a way to meeting people and making conversation? Why else would they be out if they didn't want to talk? Maybe just to spend time with the friend's they came with? Plus if you said it in person you would be able to use a more playful tone that suggests you're not attacking them or trying to be rude
/r/seduction20/08/19 03:47 PM
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Well it's definitely one way to do it, but not the only way. Not advocating using canned lines for every convo, just sharing a tip that might help in certain situations.
/r/seduction20/08/19 12:36 PM
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I don't see anything desperate about using a sentence to get someone to open up and become interested in a conversation.
/r/seduction20/08/19 12:33 PM
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It's not they are actually boring, they just need a push to put effort in the convo
/r/seduction20/08/19 12:31 PM
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Let me know how it goes. Have only tried it a few times so curious to hear how it goes for others
/r/seduction19/08/19 10:35 PM
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Rating women is pretty common
/r/seduction09/10/17 12:08 PM
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Well yes, but it is a combination of things. Imagine two scenarios. In the first a guys up to a girl, singles her out, compliments and teases her, all the classic pickup advice. He then gets her number. In the second scenario, a guy sees a girl, says something innocent to her that does not show he intends to get her number. He then comments on her shoes and they spark a conversation about shopping. At then end of their conversation her says "it was nice talking to you, we should grab a drink som…
/r/seduction09/06/17 03:10 PM
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No. It can be hard but it is just so uncommon that women do not think a man would be able to pull it off. In reality, the way to cold approach best, is to approach a woman without making it seem like a pickup.
/r/seduction09/06/17 02:20 PM
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Seems pretty lame to just come right out and ask a girl for her number. You're success rate is going to be very limited
/r/seduction09/05/17 12:08 AM
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You seem to hold some severely limiting beliefs. You'll have to make changes to succeed. They are called social skills for a reason, skills can be improved.
/r/seduction06/05/17 05:48 AM
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All life has the same value regardless. Anyone can make a positive impact on another life even if they struggle with some things.
/r/seduction05/05/17 02:12 PM
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Can't*
/r/seduction11/03/17 06:52 PM
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Well duh. You can get sexual in any way immediately during a classroom setting. It is all about building comfort, not turning her on. That is kino.
/r/seduction11/03/17 04:20 AM
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The best position to be in when you touch her would be side to side. A light tap on the shoulder, elbow or hand are the best places to start. Whenever you both laugh about something or maybe you tease her is a good time to go for what's natural. Don't force anything.
/r/seduction11/03/17 04:12 AM
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possibly the worst reply i have ever read on this sub.
/r/seduction11/03/17 03:27 AM
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Dont over complicate things. All you need to do is have good posture when you speak with her, look her in the eyes, touch her playfully if you can do it comfortably. Teasing never hurt.
/r/seduction11/03/17 03:25 AM
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Sounds like a few things are going on. First, i am not a big fan of the "i say you, youre cute" line because it is a bit played out and pretty low value. I know it works for some guys tho so more power to you if you decide to stick with it. From my personal research and experience the best strategy for daygame is as follows. Step 1: Make a self amusing remark to a girl, with intent. Having intent only means looking her in the eyes and good voice tonality Step 2: make a statement of empathy ex: I…
/r/seduction11/03/17 03:23 AM
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Unfortunately you'll never be able to be social again. I'm just fucking with you lol. Being social and free of anxiety around others works like a muscle. The more you interact with others the smoother and better you become, without exercising this muscle, your ability weakens. Best thing to do would be start small. Hang with a friend your comfortable with. If you don't have a friend like that skip to step 2 which is to get involved in things you like. Join clubs, work somewhere fun where you can…
/r/seduction11/03/17 03:14 AM
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If it is a problem that seriously bothers you than talk about it. If it's something that can't be fixed don't talk about it
/r/seduction07/03/17 11:20 PM
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Move on
/r/seduction07/03/17 11:19 PM
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Don't overcomplicate it, if she wants to go she will go if you just ask her normally.
/r/seduction07/03/17 11:18 PM
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Definitely do not bring up her being awkward. Only bring up the sex thing if it is natural. Remember that if she wants it to happen and you do too, it will happen. Talking about it will not make it more likely to happen, it will only give you the chance to fuck everything up.
/r/seduction06/03/17 09:31 PM
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Why did you wait two days to respond? Girls know when guys are playing games with them. Stop playing games! You missed your window of opportunity. Move on to the next girl, message this one again in a couple months if youre still interested. In the future, stop fucking around over text. Just be honest about what you want and if she keeps flaking, she isnt the right girl for you anyway.
/r/seduction06/03/17 09:29 PM
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The game is a little outdated and isn't very practical in my opinion. Models cultivates a much more practical mindset and strategy that works better for the present day. I re read it occasionally just to stay on track.
/r/seduction06/03/17 06:14 PM
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You have the wrong mindset. You are already catering to what you think SHE wants. Do what YOU want. Don't be the nice guy who pleases her. Be the fun guy that leads her.
/r/seduction06/03/17 06:07 PM
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What are you trying to accomplish through texting? Your goal with women should always be building comfort and building attraction so you can comfortably hang out. Do whatever it takes to talk in person.
/r/seduction06/03/17 06:00 PM
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Have you done any research lon attracting women? I would recommend reading models by Mark Manson and watching some YouTube videos. Keep approachig, practice will only make you better.
/r/seduction06/03/17 05:57 PM
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Touch her playfully, see how she responds. Continue teasing and joking around. You want to avoid just being the funny guy though, you could easily fall into the frindzone. Your best shot at moving forward is isolating her. That doesn't mean you have to take her out on a date or anything, you can hang out with her and other frienes and try to get a moment alone with her. At the end of the day, she will either see you as a friend or a potential mate and all you can do is be yourself around her and…
/r/seduction06/03/17 05:56 PM
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You want to go in at a time when the store is not busy. One strategy that I have heard is asking her if they let her keep the money in the register at the end of her shift, shell say no, you say too bad I was looking for a girl to take me on a date..... Conversation from there.
/r/seduction02/03/17 05:53 AM
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Recently met is easier because it's harder to change the way someone already thinks about you
/r/seduction02/03/17 02:24 AM
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Youve already lost man move on. You saw her texting when she said she didnt have a number. She gave you her facebook because she doesnt see any reason to be in contact with you. Read more, practice more and there will be more like her.
/r/seduction15/01/17 01:43 AM
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Anybody can pay for sex, not everyone can win over a woman without practice and failure. OP is unhappy with being a virgin because he knows he can't talk to women not because he cant pay for sex. Obviously sex is sex but one is natural the other is a business transaction.
/r/seduction12/01/17 10:55 PM
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I wouldnt even count having sex with an escort as losing your virginity. You will most likely not feel any differently after and still have issues with women. I have the solution for how you get laid though. Quit porn and jerking off, if the only way for you to cum is to actually put yourslef out there and meet women, you will start to be more confident and skilled with women.
/r/seduction12/01/17 10:00 PM
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Show her your a fucking alpha that takes no shit
/r/seduction11/01/17 03:48 AM
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Since she reached out to you I would give her another shot. Maybe it was just a bad time for her when you last asked. Send her a text saying hey Im headed to the gym tomorrow at 7 come with and ill give you some tips. The one trap you should avoid is having her see you as just a workout buddy. Remember to keep teasing her and raising the sexual tension of your interaction.
/r/seduction10/01/17 09:20 PM
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Hey im going to grab a coffee, come join me. It really is not that important how you ask. What is important is that you have laid the groundwork with her so she is comfortable with you and doesnt see you as just a friend.
/r/seduction10/01/17 09:14 PM
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Text her to grab a drink or do the bowling. Anyhwere where you can escalate. Dont wait for her text it is your job as the man to set up the next date. Keep it simple, if she is interested shell make it easy if she doesnt make it easy start looking for your next date.
/r/seduction09/01/17 04:50 AM
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Indirect approaches are fine and imo better during the day, the girl understands you are talking to her bc you're interested. Your issue is stimulating conversation from there. USE COLD READS-for anyone of those girls you couldve said, "you look nationality" and that instantly stimulates conversation. You can also always compliment her and follow up with a tease almost on an endless loop. Lastly just say whats on your mind whther its an opinion, feeling, random question. All of those will help t…
/r/seduction09/01/17 03:43 AM
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Sounds like it went fine. Hug in the beginning is no big deal. Kino is obviously tough when youre acrosss from eachother but you have your hands and feet. Her playing footsy at all is a very good sign, dont expect to do it forever though. Its fine she did most of the talking, girls like to talk. In those blank spaces avoid staring at her for too long. What actuall happens is it creates sexual tension and she wasnt comfortable enough with you for a lot of that. In those times when a silence comes…
/r/seduction09/01/17 03:33 AM
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"Is that Pink Chapstick?" "Yeah if you're lucky I'll give you some later"
/r/seduction07/01/17 10:38 PM
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Show intent with your eye contact, your vocie tonality and playful touches
/r/seduction23/12/16 03:11 AM
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Dont over invest and keep doing what your doing.
/r/seduction22/12/16 02:10 AM
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Whenever she tells you something, even something basic, dig further to find out their emotions, character traits and motivations. For example the girl says she moves to a new country a couple years ago. Ask if it was exciting/nerve wracking. Ask what made her want to move. Do a cold read and say, you must be adventurous. All of these take your interaction to a deeper level.
/r/seduction21/12/16 02:02 AM
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Do it for yourself not for her
/r/seduction15/12/16 11:26 PM
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Go out to have fun, everyone wants to have fun and both girls and guys will want to be around you if you can laugh at everything
/r/seduction14/12/16 06:18 AM
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Travel
/r/seduction09/12/16 11:00 PM
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I think you need to rethink what a shit test is dude. Sounds like she saw you and lost interest. Just drop her, those tinder chicks aint worth it.
/r/seduction08/12/16 12:21 AM
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To build on this, when you approach you should have the mentality of trying to find out if the girl is cool/worth your time. If you go up to a girl and just try to have normal conversation and then at the end decide if you even want to take her number. This will change the vibe of your interaction. Some of the best daygame ive seen on youtube is done by james marshall. He has a couple vids of him going hard in nyc. Very friendly and simple conversations that have a high succes rate.
/r/seduction06/12/16 06:28 PM
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Dont put a label on it, just go about doing whatever you feel like and see where it takes you.
/r/seduction06/12/16 05:33 AM
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Disagree, you just need to be calibrated. The main problem seems to be the location. People at the gym are busy, you have to be pretty smooth to pickup there. Go to places where people dont have an agenda, like shopping centers or parks etc.
/r/seduction04/12/16 06:06 AM
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The best way to confirm without seeming needy is to send a text the day of a couple hours before and say something like "hey im running a bit late lets meet at (15 minutes later than planned) instead.
/r/seduction29/11/16 11:30 PM
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If you're out of college then that is something that I would take seriously. If you're still in school than there is some opportunity to change her mind.
/r/seduction29/11/16 04:36 PM
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How old are you?
/r/seduction29/11/16 02:59 AM
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Start working out, stop jerking off.
/r/seduction28/11/16 12:06 AM
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The best thing you can do is set up your next set while youre in the current one. If youre talking to an attractive girl (better if theres more than one) and you make eye contact with another girl in th club, give her a quick wave and shell remember you when you go to talk to hee after your current set ends. Then you will already have social proof with her and can just hop from set to set
/r/seduction25/11/16 04:46 PM
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Dont let him come to your dinner if you dont want him there.
/r/seduction24/11/16 11:24 PM
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Being vulnerable is about sharing your truth. Being a homesick at school may be part of that but harping on it will turn th girl off. Theres a fine line between discussing and whining.
/r/seduction24/11/16 11:22 PM
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Just be physical from the start, if she wants it to happen then shell gove you the opportunity, if she doesnt she wont.
/r/seduction24/11/16 09:33 PM
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Give up? Dont ever agree to being a friend if your intention is to be intimate.
/r/seduction24/11/16 07:50 PM
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Lmao i wish it were that easy man. Unfortunately you have to do it without violating social norms. Better if you went up, made a joke to the group. Then said something like. I love making you all laugh but really i came over here to tell this one (point to the girl) that she was cute and she should give me her number, what do you guys think? And if you made them laugh once they will all say omg yes yes. Then you should probably stick around another few mins to show them you are a cool and normal…
/r/seduction24/11/16 07:48 PM
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Being alpha is about doing what you truly feel like doing when you feel like doing it. If you really feel like being quiet and sitting back theres nothing wrong with it but I doubt you really feel that way. If you hate small talk, skip it. Launch into a conversation in any way you want. One night before going out for the night me and my friend were arguing about whether or not cow tipping was real. We got to the party and i was seriously asking people if it they thought it was real becuase I act…
/r/seduction24/11/16 07:25 PM
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I see well in that case you gotta work with what you got man.
/r/seduction24/11/16 05:31 PM
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Sounds like you did pretty good. Unfortunately logistics always wins. Where you mightve been able to improve is to befriend the friend even more so she felt more included but those third wheels are tough. On the initil approach i wouldve said approach the uglier girl and then flirt with the cute one. The uglier one wouldve just been so happy she was "the reason" you approached and maybe been more accepting of you. Of course best case wouldve been that the second girl didnt come on your date .
/r/seduction24/11/16 05:19 PM
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In models Manson talks about how all firls fall into the receptive/neutral/unreceptive category. Game only applies in the neutral category. The better you look the more girls fall into the former two categories and th more success you will have. Every guy has the potential to look decent. A little exercise, decent eating and good hygeine will help a ton.
/r/seduction24/11/16 05:14 PM
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Hook her friends up with guys so they stop being such fuckers
/r/seduction23/11/16 08:11 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction23/11/16 02:38 AM
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Lol jusr give it a rest and text her again in acouple days
/r/seduction23/11/16 01:06 AM
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Good text game is very basic, many guys oversomplicate it. It should be light banter and then you should ask if she wants to hang out. If you find yourself getting no replies then its not your text game. Girls will respond to almost anything you text if they like you enough. The root of the flakes you are getting is because youre not building enough comfort or attraction with these girls.
/r/seduction22/11/16 03:28 AM
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Valentino kohen has some great stuff on youtube
/r/seduction22/11/16 03:25 AM
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Ok so im sensing a couple problems. First, when you go to a club, go to have fun. Girls are attracted to fun. If they see you joking around having a good time, they will be more open to you approaching them and you will get more eye contact because of this, guaranteed. As far as daygame goes, it sounds like youre getting a lot of flakes. Thats something that will always happen regardless of how good your game is but there are things you can do to cut down on this. Make sure that you are talking …
/r/seduction22/11/16 02:19 AM
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Good move dont waste your time
/r/seduction21/11/16 05:54 AM
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Very tough to change the dynamic of your relationship. Best bet is to slowly introduce touching. Hug her when you see her, touch her arm when you make a joke. Also introduce some playful teasing. All of this alone will probably not be enough to evacuate the friend zone. The single best remedy for escaping the friendzone is to hit on other girls and let her see that you are desired by other women. If you do all the above, that will give you the best chance at getting intimate.
/r/seduction21/11/16 03:27 AM
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start by asking for the time, move to asking for directions, move to asking how their day is going.
/r/seduction21/11/16 02:58 AM
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Lol you will never sleep with Nicki Minaj. From the sounds of this post, you understand very little about seduction. I dont think i need to explain all the reasons why you will never sleep with her because they are pretty obvious. Focus on setting realistic goals (having sex with a woman who resembles Nicki Minaj). To do even that youre gonna need to even smaller and find a girl who you can get into bed that isnt as attractive.
/r/seduction21/11/16 02:56 AM
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Your focusing on the wrong objective at the club. You should be going to clubs to have fun first and foremost. When you go with the objective of having fun, two things will happen. Number one is that girls will become drawn to you because the reason that they go out to clubs is to have fun and the easiest way for them to do that is to join someone who is already having fun with themselves. Secondly, your intentions will change. Instead of wondering whether to go for the touch/kiss/dance you will…
/r/seduction21/11/16 02:51 AM
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You need to have an actual conversation with a girl if you want to get a number. Even if you do get a number, most girls wont give a text back unless youve had about a 15 minute convo. You were way too forward going straight for the number
/r/seduction21/11/16 12:00 AM
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Stop jerking off.
/r/seduction19/11/16 12:56 AM
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Fuck yea go out alone who the fuck cares. Focus on having fun for the whole night. Meet both men and women.
/r/seduction19/11/16 12:55 AM
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Welcome. There is so much for you to learn that no single post could cover it all. Ive been studying game for a little over a year. The most helpful resources i have found are valentino kohens youtube channel, and the book models by mark manson. Both provide great foundations for you.
/r/seduction19/11/16 12:53 AM
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dont overthink it, it doesnt matter what you do as long as youll get some amount of alone time and youre able to set the vibe
/r/seduction18/11/16 09:56 PM
1

thats cool we all have problems with our exes
/r/seduction18/11/16 09:54 PM
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its tough and it will be uncomfortable no matter what. My only advice to you is to make it as casual as possible. You dont need to say anything flashy or try to be overly funny. Just say something along the lines of hey, kinda weird how often we see each other here and then just have a natural conversation. If at the end of the convo you get good vibes, go for the number/plan to get a drink or something. If you go straight for a number or a date and she says nah then youll just have awkward mome…
/r/seduction18/11/16 09:52 PM
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How about talk to her? Do you expect shit to just magically happen. The longer you wait the weirder it becomes.
/r/seduction18/11/16 07:45 PM
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Fucking do it
/r/seduction18/11/16 07:40 PM
1

Status in the seduction world does not translate to status in a normal context. The kind of status that involves getting women mainly revolves around one thing, which is how much you care about the perception of others of yourself vs how much you care about your self perception. High status people care much less about what other people think about them and more about how they feel about themselves.
/r/seduction18/11/16 06:50 PM
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Whats your relationship to this woman
/r/seduction18/11/16 07:52 AM
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When its slow then i dont see a problem with it, but shes got a job to do. Whats the worst that could happen
/r/seduction18/11/16 07:48 AM
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Let it play out dude. Youre rushing, if she likes you and you like her it will happen. Polarizng doesn't necessarily mean stating your intent. You got to show desire not tell her about it.
/r/seduction18/11/16 07:46 AM
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Fuck the benjamin franklin effect
/r/seduction18/11/16 04:45 AM
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Tell her you want to go for a jog
/r/seduction18/11/16 03:34 AM
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This isnt really a favor but i think its fun to play the question game. Basically you ask a girl if she wants to play and the loser has to buy a drink for the winner(you always win). If your not familiar with the game, basiclly the rulea are that you will ask her 5 questions and all she has to do is get them all wrong. So you start by asking her 3 random questions. For the 4th question, you say "wait how many questions was that?". 90% of the time she answers 3 which means she loses. If she is sm…
/r/seduction18/11/16 12:25 AM
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Girls are attracted to fun. This guy got it right. Go to the club to have fun and dance/talk if you can with any girl who gives you solid eye contact for a second or two.
/r/seduction17/11/16 11:28 PM
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Well there ya go.
/r/seduction17/11/16 07:58 PM
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Are you getting these numbers by approaching? If you are either your not staying in set long enough or your doing something thats preventing text backs
/r/seduction17/11/16 07:45 PM
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Whats your goal when texting them? If you are just texting/snapping to converse than anything you send is worthless anyway because you will inevitably run out of things to talk about. If these are girls numbers and snaps your getting at parties or from approahing and they are not replying its because you have not laid the foundation with them. You need to have them be comfortable around you for them to want to text you.
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:21 PM
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All of those are possible but they will require a lot of effort on your part. #1 is probably most easily done. #2 is second hardest because building a group of fwbs and maintaing is tough but do-able. #3 is probably out of the question because even the most succesful "puas" dont bring a girl home every night, your return rate would probably be pretty low. Your best option is probably to try and find a gf that suits your needs and along the way hopefully find some fwbs
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:18 PM
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Gotta learn to accpet rejection. All it means is one of two things, you and the girl are incompatible or you didnt express yourself truly and honestly. Read models, itll change your perspective
/r/seduction17/11/16 04:56 PM
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Club and daygame
/r/seduction17/11/16 01:23 AM
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It was removed, any specific question about it?
/r/seduction17/11/16 01:16 AM
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Models by mark manson and check out valentino kohens videos on youtube
/r/seduction17/11/16 01:14 AM
2

How does your average interaction go? There's obviously something that lies deeper than outer game that is going on.
/r/seduction17/11/16 01:13 AM
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If she is into it shell give you the window. Obviously eye contact and proximity are important. Let me know how this goes im curious
/r/seduction16/11/16 09:42 PM
1

Try something on and tell her you need her opinion
/r/seduction16/11/16 09:30 PM
2

Talk to them longer next time
/r/seduction16/11/16 09:14 PM
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Interesting situation Heres my take. Going shopping has some pros and cons. The best pro is that because you are constantly moving from place to place with her, its going to feel like youve spent a longer time together than you actually have. This will make her more comfortable with you and open her up to getting more intimate. Make sure that youre not just following her around though, you want to lead her when you can. The cons are that a public place like the mall or wherever youre going is no…
/r/seduction16/11/16 07:53 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=t72zbDjJHbc After this im really done having this conversation. I am trying to help you out and you just keep rejecting my advice. Ive been doing this for over a year and I am telling you with 100 percent certainty that it can be done. So you can either try it out or stick to the online dating, but I am telling you, you will find much more success if you go out during the day and talk to women. It would be even better if you went to a bar/club even if you were sober…
/r/seduction16/11/16 03:01 PM
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It doesnt seem like you fucked up to me Play a little hard to get and fuck with her head
/r/seduction16/11/16 04:28 AM
1

If youll see her soon you could wait but is sounds like you guys hit it off so i sont see an issue with getting it from the friend
/r/seduction16/11/16 04:27 AM
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There are plenty of people doing this in Germany, but it takes a confident man. Ik it seems strange but at least give it a try man. The worst case is one random chick thinks youre weird and you'll probably never see her again.
/r/seduction16/11/16 12:55 AM
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Where are you
/r/seduction15/11/16 10:59 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=aaI3Srkd9tY
/r/seduction15/11/16 10:41 PM
1

Like i said youre too close minded
/r/seduction15/11/16 10:33 PM
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My advice about online dating is to give up for now until you have experience with women. You wont get enough practice online. Im giving you shit for making excuses about meeting woman, which you can do just about anywhere. Will it be uncomfortable at first? Yes. you need to practice.
/r/seduction15/11/16 10:11 PM
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Lol ive given you advice and you wont take it.
/r/seduction15/11/16 10:00 PM
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Guess you should just quit since youre so closeminded
/r/seduction15/11/16 09:41 PM
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Dude youre so lost it's crazy. Have you read or watched any material on this sub? Go ahead and keep making excuses. But if you dont go out to bars or clubs you need to talk to random women you encounter throughout the day or join a club or something where you are forced to interact with women. Youre a long way from securing a girlfriend with your current attitude.
/r/seduction15/11/16 09:29 PM
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malls, libraries, on the street, in cafes. Literally anywhere man.
/r/seduction15/11/16 09:20 PM
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Quit making fucking excuses. If you have any free time at all, go outside to a place where there are women and talk to them. Game is not just some act. Its improving yourself so that you are attracted to women. You are still the same person. You dont seem to have a good grasp on the goals of this sub. Do some reading or watch some youtube vids. Or you can keep complaining and give up
/r/seduction15/11/16 09:12 PM
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Haha everyone has opportunities to meet women in the real world. You seem to be seriously lacking in self confidence which is extremely detrimental to your game. If you ask me on, online dating is a waste of time. You need to go out and approach women whether its day or night to practice and get better.
/r/seduction15/11/16 08:47 PM
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Couple things. First, random day sets like this are tough because you arent warmed up or in a social mood. The best thing you can do is talk to more random hot women so you become more comfortable when something like this happens again. You also want to think about your desired outcome in the situation. Best case, scenario you hit it off and go on an insta date with your salads. If shes busy, next best option get a number. To be practical I wouldve said something related to what shes putting in …
/r/seduction15/11/16 06:54 PM
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Wow thats a lot of questions. I am of the personal belief that you should wait to tell a girl about what you think of her looks until you have gotten intimate with her. Besides that your friends method sounded pretty good. He was doing a few seconds simple things that are part of the foundation of having good game. First he was clos reading her. "You look like someone worth meeting" "ill guess what you do for a living". This encourages the girl to ask the question why, which in turn leads to som…
/r/seduction15/11/16 04:53 PM
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Shit happens sometimes, doesnt sound like youve done anything to scare her off. Your plan sounds good. Test the waters before suggesting a meet up again. Its important to text a little in between hanging so the girl knows you like talking to her. Recently hd a situation with a girl that would text me first almost every day and I would be really slow to get back to her. Eventually she told me she thought I was using her for sex, somewhat true lol but the point is text her if it seems like shes in…
/r/seduction15/11/16 03:12 PM
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Go to a park or nature trail or something. Theres plenty of ideas online and shit. I would reccomend going on a nighttime date though for the second date.
/r/seduction15/11/16 04:48 AM
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Highly reccomend Valentino Kohens videos on youtube.
/r/seduction15/11/16 04:46 AM
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This aint the place to complain man, only you can overcome this. If you want something bad enough, getting "punched in the face" shouldnt matter.
/r/seduction15/11/16 04:39 AM
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You should continue flirting with her until prom. On point prom night I would suggest meditating before going out. It will help you detach yourself from the result and your expectations of the night. On the night of, light flirting, teasing and touching. The key here is to not come on too strong but to build the tension throughout the night. Talk to your other friends and other girls. Now at the actual prom and hopefully afterparty, HAVE FUN! Girls are attracted to fun. Dance around, talk to peo…
/r/seduction15/11/16 04:38 AM
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Its probably not your texts that are the problem but the initial meeting. Girls will respond to almost any text if youve put in the effort in person and they like you enough.
/r/seduction14/11/16 12:42 AM
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I doubt its damn near impossible, girls are girls and all function the same. The pro to living on campus is that you are always near women and hopefully there are parties or social events for you attend where you can meet women.
/r/seduction14/11/16 12:40 AM
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Thats beacause texting is not about adding value. Youre goal when texting is to hang out again. You want to avoid texting back and forth about bullshit for hours and hours because it gets boring no matter who you are and the girl will start to be bored by you which is not good. Show your value by texting her that you are going out that night to xyz and with abc and that she should join you. You cant game over text, it just doesnt work.
/r/seduction14/11/16 12:38 AM
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I would prob wait a day text her again and then give up after that if it didnt work
/r/seduction13/11/16 05:14 PM
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Check out Valentino kohens youtube channel
/r/seduction12/11/16 10:59 PM
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Use kino, get close and change the tone of your voice. Bring it low and deep like youre a movie star or some shit. Also tease her a bit.
/r/seduction12/11/16 12:34 AM
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If its for a good reason I dont see a problem with it. Women want to see that your emotional circuitry works. How often do you cry in public though? I dont think I have since I was 5. So chances are they wouldnt even see it if it did happen. If the girl is your girlfriend and sees it, theres nothing wrong with it as long as its for a legitimate and understandable reason.
/r/seduction11/11/16 09:03 PM
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If you spoke to her man to woman with intent then theres no need, she understands.
/r/seduction11/11/16 03:55 AM
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Invest in yourself. Get involved with hobbies, sports, clubs, really anything that interests you. When it comes to women being interesting involves a few things. Be a bit mysterious to keep her curious. Be polar, dont be afraid to be bold or disagree with the girl.
/r/seduction11/11/16 01:49 AM
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Its not about the texting, its about laying the foundation. If you build enough attraction and comfort with the girl, you could be texting her nonsense and she would still respond. So first I would say, stay in set longer, at least 10-15 mins. After you get the number, stick around for another couple of mins and make some more conversation. When you get the number try to make it clear that youre going to text her to meet up. Hope that helps
/r/seduction11/11/16 01:46 AM
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Youre pushing way too hard man. The massaging routine is garbage. Sounds like it came off pushy and awkward. You made some decent attempts at kino but it sounds like youre focusing too much on game. If she agreed to meet you for a date, shes already interested. Focus more on being yourself and having genuine convo. Obviously eye contact is huge and when you want to get sexual change the tone of your voice. You never want to hear the girl say she isnt comfortable. Your job as a man is to make her…
/r/seduction10/11/16 05:11 PM
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If you find yourself boring, so will women, if you find yourself interesting so will women.
/r/seduction10/11/16 04:55 PM
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How are you not gonna post the picture
/r/seduction10/11/16 04:13 AM
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Need one? No. should you have one? Yes. Dont you get bored a lot? Join some clubs or somethin and find some dudes you can hang with.
/r/seduction10/11/16 02:01 AM
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Meditate
/r/seduction09/11/16 09:23 PM
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You got the wrong idea man. The best openers are the ones that just come to you on the spot. When Im out at a party Im opening in one of two ways. I open the girl with something that amuses myself, that could mean anything. As long as what I say or ask is fun or something I want to figure out. I went to a party a while ago that was excruciatingly hot and i opened a bunch of sets by just handing girls an ice cube. Since it was genuinely funny to me, they were also amused. The second opener I go w…
/r/seduction09/11/16 06:59 PM
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Heres the thing about opening a set like that. Many girls will be flattered and may even compliment you for having the confidence to do this and it can definitely result in a nice conversation that leads to a number or a date. But with all that said, would someone like Leonardo Dicaprio or Bradley Cooper say that to a woman? Hell no. As RSD Todd explains, this behavior levels you. When you say something like that you are communicating the value that you bring and statements like that are low val…
/r/seduction09/11/16 06:30 PM
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Definitely do not send that message. That is needy as hell. You should not mention the relationship thing until you are in person with them and it comes up naturally. Message them to see how they are and see if they want to grab a drink to catch up, then you can make your move in person.
/r/seduction08/11/16 11:16 PM
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Probably, you were bragging a lil. Yes in small doses. Meeting up should always be your goal for this exact reason, girls are flighty. Wait a few days and message her again and after a few back and forths, invite her out again.
/r/seduction08/11/16 11:14 PM
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If she wants hang then she will message you Thursday if she ends up being free. No reason to message her. If she doesnt contact you then wait until the weekend and see what shes up to and try to make plans again.
/r/seduction08/11/16 09:04 PM
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If the conversation goes well then yes get a number. If it goes really well, make plans.
/r/seduction08/11/16 06:08 PM
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Don't overdo the chatting via text/fb. You want face to face interaction.
/r/seduction08/11/16 06:01 PM
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KINOOOOO ESCALATION AND TEASING. Try to transition the date back to somewhere private where you can get intimate.
/r/seduction08/11/16 05:25 PM
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She set you up for success man. You could definitely friend her, I dont think it would be weird but its not proactive. Youre goal at this point should be two-fold. First you should keep doing what youre doing with her. Conversation, eye contact, and kino. This is all good. Second when you feel the conmection is strong, make plans to hang out outside of class. That could mean going to a party with a group of friends or, best case scenario, watching netflix with her alone! Dont be too forward when…
/r/seduction08/11/16 05:24 PM
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Its called Last Minute Resistance. Plenty of info on it. I don't think she will flake. Your game was very good it sounds like, passing shit tests, befriending the friend. Overall very good job. She probably doesn't do that often and some girls are less likely to fuck you if they really like you.
/r/seduction08/11/16 03:37 AM
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This guy gets it. Only thing I would emphasize is the two Ts Teasing & touching
/r/seduction08/11/16 03:26 AM
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Keep doing what youre doing. Spontaneous, Unpredictable. Maybe text back and forth a little but you should try and meet up after a little back and forth
/r/seduction07/11/16 04:14 AM
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Get a little closer
/r/seduction03/11/16 11:25 PM
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Too bad your vids cost $100
/r/seduction03/11/16 07:48 PM
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Thats because hes focused on having fun with himself and girls are attracted to fun. Do whatever you want to do at a party as long as youre having fun with yourself (and opening sets).
/r/seduction03/11/16 04:37 PM
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Your social anxiety stems from you not feeling like youre enough. You have the limiting belief that if you approached and talked to a girl you would not be avvepted for who you are which is just bullshit. There is only one way to conquer this fear and it is to confront it head on. Make it your goal to open 3 different girls every time you go to a party. Its the only way to get over your anxiety, you must discover that people are innately firendly if you are not a creep.
/r/seduction03/11/16 04:21 PM
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"And if you sin you win 😈"
/r/seduction03/11/16 04:32 AM
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Go get some other girls, sounds like you know what you want. It may be hard to leave her but I think youll be happier as a result.
/r/seduction03/11/16 01:45 AM
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Great post
/r/seduction03/11/16 01:27 AM
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Yes keep practicing, reading, learning, and most of all fixing. Really think about what you couldve done better, what you did well etc.
/r/seduction03/11/16 01:15 AM
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3 things -eye contact -kino -proximity master those and you wont even need words to hookup with certain girls at the club.
/r/seduction02/11/16 11:16 PM
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Which of those did you find the most helpful
/r/seduction02/11/16 09:16 PM
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Dont message or call for a while seems like u get the rest
/r/seduction02/11/16 08:20 PM
5

Fuck tinder go out in real life
/r/seduction02/11/16 06:02 PM
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Rsd Todd had a vid on this and he explains that you need to be an authority and relevant. Beyond that I think girls have a tendency to challenge guys with super confidence. Be bold and they will test you to see if thats who you truly are.
/r/seduction02/11/16 05:59 PM
1

Are you jerking off a lot
/r/seduction02/11/16 05:57 PM
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Everyone has the ability to joke around. When youre joking around with girls say things that are actually funny to you. The first thing that comes to your mind that makes you want to chuckle is what you should say. The key is to quit focusing on what you think will make her laugh and focus on what makes you laugh.
/r/seduction02/11/16 05:56 PM
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It sounds like its a bit excessive how flakey she is being. I would mention it next time you see her but the key is to show her that you really dont give a shit that shes flaking. Since you actually did go out I would just be like "you missed a great night out the other day". And she'll probably make up some b.s. about how she was busy. Play it cool, remain unaffected. I would take a break from trying to hang with her. Be mysterious about how you feel about her, act like youre into her and then …
/r/seduction02/11/16 05:54 PM
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dudeee stop stressing. you should not be texting her everyday anyway. Definitely go a whole day without texting her. Most girls dont text first anyway its no big deal. Sounds like she is legitimately into you just dont ruin it by being needy and texting her all the time until your conversations become boring and she loses interest.
/r/seduction02/11/16 04:24 PM
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Fet yourself into a social circle and keep studying game. Befriend some fun guys and try to make it to those parties.
/r/seduction02/11/16 04:58 AM
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Nobody is gonna sit here and type out a step by step process to you talking to this girl. If you dont want it to be awkward then open indirect and have a conversation. Look her in the eyes, be playful, kino if possible. If the convo goes well ask for her number at the end. Or you can just keep watching her walk by and wondering what couldve been.
/r/seduction02/11/16 04:56 AM
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Best advice is to stop giving a fuck about her and game other girls in front of her (especially her friends). This will let her know you do not need her, other girls are interested in you and you are unaffected by her mysterious bullshit. Girls that lead on like this just suck, if you show her that her powers aren't working on you, the more she will want you. That is probably why she touched your back and said goodnight. She is a tease and she wants the validation.
/r/seduction01/11/16 09:49 PM
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Not much that could have come out of the first example, she obviously had a real boyfriend and was just loyal (which is what we as guys all hope for in our women) With the second example it is hard to say exactly what went wrong but my feeling is that it was mostly non-verbal. Remember that what you say is less important then how you say it. You probably came off a little needy when approaching the girls. If you're going to stop a group of girls that are already walking somewhere, you better mak…
/r/seduction01/11/16 09:44 PM
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"Me too because you wont get a piece of this"
/r/seduction01/11/16 04:07 PM
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I would stay away from showing any feelings for her. You want her to be questioning whether or not you're interested. This is why the text you sent her about having a good time was not a great idea. Heres a pretty decent article covering this: http://robjudge.net/2016/10/25/welcome-grey-area-playing-game-effectively/ Your best option at this point is to probably wait a couple days, text her back and forth very minimally and try and get her to watch a movie or something with you. If the vibe isn'…
/r/seduction31/10/16 04:04 PM
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Why is that even relevant to this question
/r/seduction30/10/16 12:20 AM
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The reason youre being friendzoned is not because of you showing/not showing interest. The reason for being friendzoned could be a couple things 1. You are deviating from the fundamentals, which are eye contact, kino escalation, and close proximity in conversations. 2. You are constantly agreeing with the girl/ pleasing her and probably just in general not taking control and responsibility in your situations Girls know that youre talking to them because you are interested in them. To sum it up, …
/r/seduction29/10/16 10:37 PM
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Alright so quit and stop whining
/r/seduction27/10/16 02:09 AM
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Fuck online dating get back out in the real world and try again.
/r/seduction26/10/16 11:21 PM
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Pretend to do something casual
/r/seduction26/10/16 10:25 PM
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Lol texting is for planning to meet up, there is no "making it go wild". You do not escalate over text you do it in person
/r/seduction26/10/16 08:31 PM
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No the vibe you should be giving off is that you are better than the other guy and dont need to prove it to her. Shell start wondering why youre not texting her and think she isnt good enough and want you even more.
/r/seduction25/10/16 04:07 PM
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Dont be the guy with a reputation for approaching lots of girls on campus. I would recommend going to another college nearby, the mall or wherever there are hot girls. If you do approacch girls on campus, you probably want to go with an indirect approach so that you dont become the guy going up to every cute girl telling them that they are cute. Word spreads.
/r/seduction25/10/16 03:54 PM
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For gods sake DO NOT TEXT HER EVERYDAY. Its fucking needy. After youve decided on a time and place to meet up the only text you should be sending is one the day of to quickly confirm.
/r/seduction25/10/16 03:52 PM
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Your only option is to try and make plans with her to meet again in person whether or its one on one or with a group of other people. After that move on.
/r/seduction25/10/16 05:25 AM
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Keep in mind that talking with her over facebook is useless if it isnt going to lead to you guys meeting in person. I would reccomend texting back and forth a little and that asking her to join you to go to a party/bar/bowling etc. its low commitment and not creepy. Meeting girls in this manner (over facebook) will not yield you good results though, try to interact in person if you can. Also, the guy almost always has the burden of texting first so if youve waited a day or two, its your job to c…
/r/seduction25/10/16 01:23 AM
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Setting up a date in a situation like this can be tough. If you dont have her number yet, I would say something like "hey we should hang out sometime lets exchange numbers". If you do have her number skip that. The context of how you know her is important too. Is she in a class with you, does she work with you? Id youre in class you could hit her up to study together. Doesnt sound like you work together but if you did I would say ask if she wants to grab a drink after work. The idea is to make i…
/r/seduction25/10/16 01:20 AM
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Just means you need to build more comfort with her. My guess is that you havent been talking with her for long enough
/r/seduction24/10/16 09:04 PM
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Nobodys gonna be keeping them there the whole time
/r/seduction24/10/16 09:03 PM
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Meditate
/r/seduction23/10/16 10:17 PM
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The vibe of your conversation meeds to be fun and playful. Escalation will happen naturally if your conversation is playful and you are doing the following things. Strong gazing eye contact Playful touching (shoulder, arm, legs, hugging) Proximity while talking- the closer you can get to her while speaking the more sexual the conversation will become.
/r/seduction23/10/16 09:02 PM
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Dude thats so unimportant. Theres only one ioi that matters and its that the girl is quiet and listening to you. One minor comment will not make her like you.
/r/seduction23/10/16 08:59 PM
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The general principle is to say something self amusing. Theres also nothing wrong with Hey my name is ______, whats up?
/r/seduction22/10/16 11:13 PM
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Cold reads Random questions Compliment/tease
/r/seduction22/10/16 05:18 PM
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3-6 minutes is still not nearly long enough, you should be aiming for at least 15. Also make sure you continue the conversation after getting the number.
/r/seduction22/10/16 05:15 PM
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You can find a way to laugh about almost anything.
/r/seduction22/10/16 12:44 AM
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Text her lol she likes you. Tell her youre leaving but want to hang again when yourr back
/r/seduction21/10/16 10:01 PM
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The more days you go without masturbating the higher your testosterone. Higher levels of testosterone mean mor confidence, and higher pheromone levels which girls pick up on.
/r/seduction21/10/16 02:37 PM
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If they walk away then your only option is to reapproach later. Youd be surprised how different of a reaction you may get. If they dont walk away but are still acting cold I think the best thing to do is act like youre too dumb to notice that they are being bitchy and continue gaming.
/r/seduction21/10/16 02:36 PM
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Also very highly recommend not jerking off. Girls notice.
/r/seduction21/10/16 04:53 AM
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You need to beef up your knowledge about pickup. Self amuse yourslef to warmup and conversation comes naturally. Thats a fact of nature. All of us have the ability to hold a conversation including you and you dont meed muscles or pua rouines to do it. Go out and have fun with yourself and then go start talking to women and bringing that fun energy with you amd it will become so easy you wont believe it.
/r/seduction21/10/16 04:44 AM
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Say things that make you laugh. Self amuse. The more women you talk to ina given day or night, the more social momentum you will gain and will naturally be more fun and talkative.
/r/seduction21/10/16 04:13 AM
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You can pick up girls without muscles, look at neil strauss. He is one of the best puas of all time and the dude is a bald walking stickman.
/r/seduction21/10/16 04:12 AM
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Not enough info here to say
/r/seduction21/10/16 04:10 AM
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Creeped her out
/r/seduction21/10/16 03:36 AM
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Solid bro
/r/seduction21/10/16 03:16 AM
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I think a huge weakness in almost everyones game is that they leave a set if a girl gives them an intitially bad reaction but the truth is that the hottest girls will often give a lot of shit tests in the beginning and all you have to is hold your frame and stay in set.
/r/seduction21/10/16 12:05 AM
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Ask yourself one question, what do you hope to accomplish by twxting her? Will you be able to meet up and see eachother? What will sending that text really do for you? If you wont be able to see her for a while regardless of the text, texting her is probably not a good idea because youll end up texting back and forth for a while and eventually your conversation will die out and she will not like you any more for it. In general i would not recommend opening up about your feelings for her beacuse …
/r/seduction20/10/16 05:23 PM
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Dont fix something that isn't broken
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:59 PM
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Looks are overrated. Working out will help your confidence though and physical attractiveness. As for the running out of things to say, there are so many videos on youtube on how to fix that shit. My favorite channel is Valentino Kohen. He gives great advice on attraction. Personally, I recommend not jerking off for at least a week. Watch your social anxiety disappear and confidence soar. Best of luck.
/r/seduction20/10/16 02:55 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction19/10/16 10:59 PM
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Know that you are always enough
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:39 AM
1

Same advice applies, ask an open ended relevant question
/r/seduction19/10/16 01:52 AM
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Yes but also because for a girl to hangout with you 1 on 1, she needs to feel comfortable with you. Girls don't like being put on the spot in general. One great set ive read with a working girl went somehting like this? The girl was working the register. Guy: Do you get to keep all that money in the register at the end of the day? Girl: haha no, I wish Guy: Too bad Im looking for a girl to take me on an expensive date and you would've been perfect. Girl: haha ( forget what she said here) At this…
/r/seduction19/10/16 12:51 AM
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Hit her up Thursday and say youll meet up with her at the bar and youre bringing some friends. I would actually bring a friend or two to come along although its not necessary (you can just say your friends bailed when you get there if you go alone). Spend most of the night having a good time, and occasionally talking to her. I would also recommend opening sets with other girls at the bar because she will see this and be more attracted to you because of it. Eventually you wil need to escalate wit…
/r/seduction19/10/16 12:41 AM
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would not reccomend putting her on the spot like that. Get her number while making your intentions clear that you are getting it to meet up.
/r/seduction19/10/16 12:35 AM
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It means she's lying to her parents so she can see you. Thats a good sign, it means she is interested.
/r/seduction19/10/16 12:32 AM
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Most of the time content wont even really matter, if you give off a cool and fun vibe theres nothing wrong with Hey, whatsup Im ______. On a side note, the more relevant your opener is, the less weird it may come off. For example: What did you think of the homework last night? Just play it cool
/r/seduction19/10/16 12:31 AM
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Not a bad start but for anything real to develop you're going to need to have a real conversation. Any kino is good even the leg touches. The more comfortable she becomes with your touch, the better. Make sure you're also gazing into her eyes when you're talking to her. I would suggest making some more casual conversation in class about whatever and then transition into hanging out by studying for a test or working on homework together where you guys can interact 1 on 1. That could mean meeting …
/r/seduction19/10/16 12:28 AM
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Check out the sidebar My personal faborite youtube channel is valentino kohen. Check him out for sure
/r/seduction18/10/16 01:16 AM
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No selfies, only 1 group picture, no pictures with a girl, no mirror pics. Those are some pretty general rules, I would also recommend a somewhat funny bio.
/r/seduction17/10/16 09:25 PM
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All im saying is that if youre objective is to get her back, you do need to invest more time. If you want to blow any chance you have, post a song.
/r/seduction17/10/16 06:34 PM
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If youre smart you wont post a song or react to her actions at all. Basically youre in a position now where youve either been friendzoned, or you have to outshine this other dude. Try to hang with her again hopefully without the other guy present and show her again the side of you that originally made her attracted. Dont let her know that this upset you. It will make her curious and think, why doesn't he care that I am with another man, is he interested in me? That will draw her back in, not you…
/r/seduction17/10/16 06:17 PM
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Lol theres no such thing as escalating over messages. What would be the point. Words are words. The point of escalating is to get sexual, you can only do that in person.
/r/seduction17/10/16 12:39 AM
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Do you mean to say that youre escalating over messages?
/r/seduction16/10/16 11:59 PM
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Go to bars, take dancing classes or some shit similar. If you get involved witht things and go and meet new people, you will have an exponential amount of friends as you get invited to meet the social circle of the friends youve made.
/r/seduction16/10/16 11:57 PM
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If you actually are good looking these girls may have what is called getting approached anxiety. They are nervous around and therefore try to act "cool" or "shy". Only solution us to stay in the set and prove to them you are the positive/fun guy that you know you are.
/r/seduction15/10/16 04:04 PM
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Imo the downfall is caused by a few things. The first major one is porn. Guys rub off so much that their testosterone levels are so tht they lck the drive or sexual energy to attract women. They have less motivation because they can just get their nut from a computer screen. Secondly, the feminist movement has conditioned men to believe that talking to girls, especially in an overtly sexual manner will come off "rapey". Lastly, because so many guys are just clueless about women, women have begun…
/r/seduction15/10/16 04:01 PM
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Being a leader of men just means making decisions based on what you want to do. Not really that important in most settings. The cure for neediness is simply knowing that you are enough. That means you know that people would like you if they knew your authentic. You have to know in your head that there are girls out there that will be attracted to you and that you do not "need" to be with one specific girl but rather just that you want her.
/r/seduction14/10/16 11:40 PM
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Make sure you give her a good fuck before she leaves ;)
/r/seduction13/10/16 04:58 PM
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Unfortunately logistics usually trump feelings. You said it yourself, the long distance think just wont work. Your best option is to play it cool. When she leaves try to leave the relationship as open ended as possible. I would just say to her "next time youre in town we should get together again". Any attempt at trying to lock her up is going to fail, what you guys have roght now seems to be a fun fling and the best thing to do is leave it that way until logistics allow you guys to see eachothe…
/r/seduction13/10/16 04:46 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/56zlz9/are_you_free_this_week_no_response_im_going_to_x/?st=IU7T4CX1&sh=dfe89c48
/r/seduction13/10/16 03:50 AM
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Texting should only be used for one thing-meeting up again. That can mean one on one, or in a group. Next time you get a number, make it clear youre getting the number to see her again. If thats not changing any of your results, the problem is either with you not building enough comfort with the girls or possibly attraction.
/r/seduction13/10/16 03:39 AM
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Solid set only thing I would add is some playful touches to the shoulder
/r/seduction13/10/16 03:35 AM
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If you never talked to her in person, chances are no matter what you text she will not want to meet up. Its practically impossible to attract girls solely through texting with the exception of tinder.
/r/seduction13/10/16 03:29 AM
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Theres nothing wrong with giving a compliment, don't start by saying "I hope I am not being too forward". Fuck that, if you feel like being forward do it unapologetically. Most girls will give out their number to almost any guy who says something like this but that doesn't mean you will get a response after texting them. If you want a response you have to have a real conversation and let the girl get to know you. If you feel weird asking something, she probably feels weird answering and will the…
/r/seduction12/10/16 11:04 PM
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I still struggle with approach anxiety, the simple fact is, you have to accept rejection. Its bound to happen amd the only way to get success is to risk being "rejected". The best way to get over it is to go somewhere where nobody knows you and you wouldnt care if they thought you were a creep. Im in college and i have gone to other campuses nearby to try and daygame. Use the three second rule, meaning approach within three seconds of seeing the girl and it will get easier
/r/seduction12/10/16 09:32 PM
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Nothing wrong with learning through trial and error. If you are happy with your results than keep it up, if you aren't read something specifically about the problem you are having to solve it.
/r/seduction12/10/16 09:11 PM
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Really move on? Is that what we have come to on this sub? If i wanted someone to to tell me to just give up then I wouldn't be here man. Yes, it's disrespectful, but I am willing to give the girl time to open up and write her disrespect off as shyness. Theres a way to put anyone in a good and talkative mood and thats the answer I am looking for, not "move on".
/r/seduction12/10/16 02:01 PM
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Call it whatever you want shes replying with boring responses to try and get me to react and leave the set. Regardless of whether or not shes sexually interested in me, theres a conceivable way to change her boring answers into responses that show some interest which would then allow us to have a fun conversation. In my book a shit test is when a girl says or does something to get a negative reaction out of you. That is exactly what happens when a girl gives boring replies, she wants you to leav…
/r/seduction12/10/16 03:49 AM
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Give up and move on
/r/seduction10/10/16 07:21 PM
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Youre going to meed to give some more info to figure out why youre getting rejected. It probably does not have to do with looks.
/r/seduction10/10/16 05:06 AM
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Stop wasting your time with dms. Real attraction happens in person.
/r/seduction09/10/16 10:20 PM
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She's probably made her mind up already about whether or not she wants to hang out with you. Shoot her a playful text (with your name if you didnt text it to her already) and see if she responds. If she does text her for a lil and try to set up a date. Unfortunately, a lot of girls give their number out as a defense mechanism so there is a good chance she wont reply. Props to you for making the approach though, takes some balls.
/r/seduction09/10/16 10:18 PM
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Just pe playful and joke around over text until you want to take her out again. Dont be too eager. From my experience girls hate nailing down specifics, so just leave it open ended for now.
/r/seduction09/10/16 10:12 PM
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The bottom line is that she has pretty much already decided whether or not she wants to see you again when she gave you the number. Put yourslef in the position of a girl when a guy asks for your number. You have two options, give it to him, or settle for an awkward moment and say that you don't want to give it to him. Almost all girls will choose the first option to avoid awkwardness and confrontation. If she responds to your initial text to her, it is a good sign. It means she either wants to …
/r/seduction09/10/16 05:56 PM
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Meditate
/r/seduction08/10/16 08:15 PM
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The best way to avoid bein a nice guy is to stop trying to be a pleaser. A pleaser puts women on a pedestal. He thinks about the needs of the woman before his own. He does things that he may not want to do just to "please" the woman. That is how you get friendzoned. Do things that you want to do, not that you want to do because you think itll make her like you more. That doesnt mean you cant be a nice guy, it just means to stick to your own opinions. Flirt with eye contact, playfull touching and…
/r/seduction08/10/16 08:12 PM
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Dont tell her how attractive she is, show her. If you are making strong eye contact when youre talking to her, playfully touching her and teasing her, she will have an idea. Eventually you have to find windows of opportunity to to escalate and take them. If youre trying to play it safe for the rest of her stay, take her out for dinner to "celebrate her last night", charm her and make the move.
/r/seduction08/10/16 03:30 AM
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Dude just go for it, its the only way anything will happen
/r/seduction07/10/16 02:07 AM
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So you can go for it and fail and never see her again, or you can go for it and succeed and still probably never see her again since shes leaving, up to you.
/r/seduction07/10/16 01:38 AM
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Thats about the only uncreepy move there is.
/r/seduction07/10/16 12:15 AM
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All you can do is try to make plans again, hopefully just the two of you and escalate from there.
/r/seduction07/10/16 12:13 AM
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Texting should be used to build a little more comfort and then to set up plans to hang out. Wait a day ir two, text her, and make plans to meet up. Don't ruin the attraction youve built by seeming needy from the start and texting her about bullshit for a few days. The only possible outcomes of texting for long periods of time are maintaining attraction and losing it, you have nothing to gain by texting her same day.
/r/seduction07/10/16 12:11 AM
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Quit jacking off and you will physically be forced to go approach
/r/seduction06/10/16 09:10 PM
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Doesnt sound like you have a problem, basically you want to keep everything as is now, with neither girl as your girlfriend. So just keep doing what youre doing and hopefully the girls you are with want the same thing
/r/seduction06/10/16 01:19 AM
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Now you know that if an HB9 knows the true you, theres no reason she shouldn't be interested.
/r/seduction05/10/16 11:50 PM
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Quit Porn! It will solve many of your issues. You will be more confident and less socially weak/anxious. You will have interest in so many girls because of your increased testosterone you will catch less one-itis. You will be forced to find social hobbies to fill your time. You will not give a fuck what girls think about you because of your confidence.
/r/seduction05/10/16 11:35 PM
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Start with some playful touches and get close to her while you study, the rest will happen naturally if shes already into you.
/r/seduction05/10/16 11:27 PM
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Escalating in conversation is actually easier than you think. You don't need to give compliments or anything to get sexual. You are a man and she is a woman. The conversation will be sexual in nature if you are doing the following. Making eye contact- gazing deep into her pupils. Projecting your voice with confident tone. - Be loud and speak like you mean what you are saying. Touching her- also called kino on this sub, this is essential. Any opportunity you get, you should give a playful touch o…
/r/seduction05/10/16 05:40 PM
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Read some of the stuff on the sidebar. Watch youtube videos of PUAs giving advice and doing infield. My personal favorite is valentino kohen. RSD is also popular on youtube.
/r/seduction05/10/16 05:32 PM
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How about you start with "Hey I'm ______". When it comes down to it, the only way you'll be able to conquer your fear of approaching with others around is to just do it. Most people are too worried about their own problems and confidence issues to pay any attention to whats going on around them. When you approach women, you become a man that is better than most other men in our current society. People will be jealous you had the balls to just to go up and say hi, they won't care if you get blown…
/r/seduction05/10/16 05:31 PM
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The more you talk to eachother and become comfortable, the less awkward it will be for you to get the number. Think about how uncomfortable a girl feels giving you her number if youre not even comfortable asking for it.
/r/seduction05/10/16 01:58 PM
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Talk to her before or after the exam and see what her schedule is like the rest of the week. If you can, make plans to go out on a night you guys can have fun together.
/r/seduction05/10/16 01:54 PM
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Chick sounds weird but it sounds like you wamt to ask her out again, so go do it. No matter what youre getting experience while youre with her.
/r/seduction05/10/16 02:13 AM
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Best advice is to give up with social media. Most of us guys are average looking at best, you and I included. This means winning women over with charisma and conversation. Im not talking about chatting online, im talking about face to face, while you stare deep into a girls eyes. Get off the computer, get out on the street, to bars, malls, parties and chat some girls up.
/r/seduction05/10/16 02:09 AM
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Try talking to groups of girls with no intention of actually hutting on any one of them in particular. Youll definitely become more comfortable over time and without any pressure. Once you got that down itll be easier to go in with a seduction mindset.
/r/seduction05/10/16 02:04 AM
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I would say dont text her tonight as youll come off needy. A good plan would be to decide on a night to go out and decide where you want to go. Get a few friends together, hopefully guys and girls and then invite her to join you. Unfortunately i have to say a no response is not a good sign. Chances are she lost interest but that doesnt mean its over. The worst thing you could do is push too hard over text. If you know youll see her again regardless of making plans or not, I would personally stop…
/r/seduction05/10/16 02:02 AM
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Girls dont really care about what youre saying, its how youre saying it. If you want things to talk about I suggest saying things to her that are funny to you at the current moment even if it's something small (self amusement). Beyond that you should take interest in her life whether or not you "relate". It is probably better you don't relate on material things like football or whatever else. As long as you agree on how you want to be treated the little differences in opinion dont matter. They i…
/r/seduction04/10/16 03:47 AM
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To warm up I usually just approch with the metality of amusing myself. If you fall into a longer conversation Ill just start dragging people that are walking by us amd say "hey come meet my new friend ______. " This is where it gets really fun to watch because if you introduce two random girls to eachother they are forced to be fun and nice to one another letting you sit back and relax and build up your talkative state with no pressure to carry the conversation. At another party I went to, the w…
/r/seduction01/10/16 08:38 PM
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"I need a naughty girl, youre too nice for me" follow that structure and she will have to qualify herself but at this point in the conversation she should be into you
/r/seduction27/09/16 10:05 PM
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Eye contact, playful touching and proximity...the rest will happen on its own
/r/seduction27/09/16 02:11 PM
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Dudee how can you expect a girl to like you if you arent even proud of yourself. Forget talking to girls for a sec. There must be someone in your life who likes you whether its family, friends. They like you for a reason. Every man offers value by being a man. Try to enjoy yourself before trying to make women enjoy you.
/r/seduction25/09/16 04:31 AM
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You need to build more comfort and trust if you want more. That means making statements of empathy, being certain in your thoughts and actions, taking responsibility, moving the girl from place to place, and just generally spending more time in set with her
/r/seduction15/09/16 01:19 AM
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Shouldve pulled out the how good of a kisser are you on a scale of 1-10 line. Anyway dope story, hope you got to see the 10 again.
/r/seduction15/09/16 01:16 AM
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Slide into those Insta Dms bruh
/r/seduction15/09/16 01:09 AM
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Highly recommend Valentino Kohens videos on youtube. Check his channel out
/r/seduction14/09/16 08:32 PM
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Ive seen a pua hook a girl by asking "hey what do you like more ketchup or water?" If youre self amusing it doesnt matter what you say
/r/seduction14/09/16 03:52 PM
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Agree that texting is no place for gaining attraction. At best you are maintaing it, but wouldnt you rather have her memory of you fresh in her head when she sees your text. Hopefully if youve built enough rapport and comfort all youll have to do is go back and forth a few times about when you can meetup next. It comes down to personal preference I guess but thats just my 2 cents.
/r/seduction14/09/16 03:46 PM
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Stay in set as long as possible. Comfort is built through empathy, certainty and time. Acknowledge her point of view from time to time. Be definite in the things you say and do. Take responsibility when the chance comes. Lead her around the bar and/or different locations, it will feel like you have spent more time together than you actually have. Side note, text her the day after meeting. Attraction fades exponentially.
/r/seduction14/09/16 06:09 AM
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Rewrite this post in english and more detail
/r/seduction14/09/16 06:04 AM
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Agree with MindsEvolve Buulding trust and comfort is key for the next day.
/r/seduction13/09/16 05:08 AM
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The only questions you shouldnt be asking in the beginning of your interaction are interview questions. Questions like name, where are you from, what are you up to, what were/are you doing before/later. Do you even really care about what her answers are? When you open a conversation ask something that might even be ridiculous or make a self amusing comment. Go up to a girl and just ask if she likes pudding, pools, thunderstorms. See what kind of answers you get then. Stories will come about and …
/r/seduction13/09/16 05:01 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rUvRq-G5dNQ
/r/seduction13/09/16 01:58 AM
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Speaking from some experience as a college student, I would highly recommend that you do not tell her you think she is cute. I say this for two reasons. The first reason is that if you go up to a girl randomly during the day and start a convo, she knows you think she is cute. The second reason is that you telegraph intent when you say that. When you introduce yourself in that manner, she will believe you are only talking to her because of her looks which may be true but it is best kept a secret.…
/r/seduction13/09/16 01:53 AM
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Warm Up! Whether you are at a party or out during the day, having good conversation will come a lot easier if you are in a talkative and positive state. At a party, it is easier to get in this mindset. Spend an hour only focusing on amusing yourself. This weekend I was at a house party (college) and the house was so fucking hot it was like a sauna. The party also had an ice luge for taking shots. My go to conversation starter that night was me going to the ice luge, grabbing a piece of ice and j…
/r/seduction04/09/16 11:22 PM
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Hey man, this is a good FR, I have a few tips for you that you might want to consider -Going up to girls and using "would you like to dance?" as an opener sets you up for failure. In this scenario you are relying almost solely on your looks for a "yes" response. In general the more drunk a girl is, the more likely she will dance right away which is probably why that one girl started grinding on you without even a word. If you are on the dance floor having a good time try to read some of the peop…
/r/seduction04/09/16 11:10 PM
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Your life as is right now will not lure any women into your web. Assuming you find yourself in conversation with this woman focus mainly on the most promising and best parts of your life. Women are turned on by positivity. Unfortunately, what you are looking to do takes skill and practice, and time is not on your side. Check out some of the material on the sidebar of this page and give it your best. Aside from that, there are more women out there and they care less about looks than you think. Ma…
/r/seduction04/09/16 06:34 PM
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Bars can be thought of the same as any other party. Everyone is there to have fun and be social. Spend the first half of the night having fun.. self amusing. The second half should be focused on opening sets. Hopefully by the second half you have gotten yourself into a happy and talkative mood by amusing yourself and talking to people who you may have no intention of sleeping with. Once you start opening sets at the second half of the night you will not need to even think about what you should s…
/r/seduction01/09/16 04:15 PM
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Chatting girls up during the day is a tough thing to do and a terrible place to start. You need to go to more social events. In a social setting, approaching and chatting with girls is much easier to do as they are expecting to be talked to and are open to the idea. Social events may include greek life parties which I realize you may not be able to go to as a GDI, but try going to bars if you can. Knowing what to say will be a lot easier if you have put yourself in a talkative state. Warm up by …
/r/seduction31/08/16 10:04 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/user/ValentinoTNI this youtube channel.. so many quality vids
/r/seduction05/08/16 09:56 PM
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