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Outlandder/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:38 AM
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Outlandder/r/askTRP12/04/16 07:58 AM
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Outlandder/r/askTRP13/01/16 11:27 AM
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Outlandder/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 05:52 AM
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Outlandder/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 08:50 PM
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Outlandder/r/askTRP07/04/16 02:45 AM
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Thanks mate. It's good that you have so little going in in your life that you come on asktrp to stir shit like a Faggot. Again. Congrats. You're a cunt.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 04:31 PM
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Yea I would be leaving my family. I've discussed it with them and the circumstances are bad enough with this girl that they will support my decision if I do go. I have some evidence of her crazy bullshit but we all know what the family courts are like and how screwed you can be on an accusation alone.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 12:21 PM
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Thanks man. Yea I dun fucked up real bad. If that's what i have to do that's what I'll do.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 05:50 AM
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It's an internal ultra sound for early pregnancy. Nothing is visible through the belly, they had to insert the scanner vaginally to see it and the guy doing the scan said it was 6 weeks along.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 01:43 PM
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It's 6 weeks along and it matches up perfectly to the timeline as I understand it. I'm definitely looking into a lawyer to discuss my options. Her and I are also going to have a serious discussion soon and I'll be recording it. I've started recording our interactions as a default so that should I try to get custody later on I have evidence of her behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 01:41 PM
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That was my first thought. As soon as she told me she was pregnant I took her to the doctor and she did a test with me there. She's also had an ultrasound now and there is definitely a baby in there. I'll do paternity testing when I can to confirm it's mine but it's not looking good.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 11:49 AM
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Not sure at what stage of the pregnancy I can get paternity testing or if I have to wait till birth but I'm looking into it and it is going to happen.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 11:20 AM
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That's actually a really good idea. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 11:14 AM
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You've got the right idea. The risks of having a series of pump and dumps aren't worth it. Get options, get sexual market value and use it to satisfy your life goals, not hedonism. It's not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 10:55 AM
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This is pretty accurate. From what she's told me she has a duality of conflicting ideas, where she loathes not having a family unit but does nothing in the way if achieving it. Where she should have been looking desperately for a nice guy who would take on her kids, she picked up chads from nightclubs instead. So she's forever in this state of 'I want this thing and I want that thing. Neither can exist if I choose the other, yet I choose both.' It's to the extent where I know she dated a nice gu…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 10:51 AM
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I could run but I can't morally accept the idea of her raising my child under the same circumstances which have clearly damaged her own children so severely. I don't want to subject my flesh and blood to the abuses (mental, environmental and with the number of strange men coming and going, probably physical) that I know her children have been through. I just can't do it.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 10:37 AM
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Yea will do. I'm seeing a doctor privately to discuss things so we'll have a chat about it. And I'll be getting that paternity test with or without her consent.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 10:32 AM
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Was 2 weeks after the breakup that I slept with her again. Another 5 weeks until she said she was pregnant. 1 week after that, we got the ultrasound and the guy doing it said she was 6 weeks pregnant. So it adds up exactly to the day that we had sex. I'm still getting a paternity test but I'm sure it's mine.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 09:50 AM
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I took her straight to the doctor and confirmed it. If the pregnancy goes ahead I'll be getting a paternity test for sure
/r/askTRP26/02/17 11:11 AM
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She knows my details. Couldn't run unless it was to another country
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 01:35 PM
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Much appreciated. I was also considering trying the 'it's not the right time' approach and telling her we can try again later. But I think she's aware this might be the last time because of her age.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 06:09 AM
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That's a really interesting concept man. She's apologised and I've fucked her a couple times since so I might give that a try. I'm still very much learning about all this so i appreciate your input. I'm early 20s and she's nearly 30. The age difference never really bothered me because one she takes care of herself and has a good body, two Im a very big guy with a full beard and so i look much older than i am and three it's built in dread. I'm easily the best she can do and she knows i can pull g…
/r/askTRP19/06/16 11:10 PM
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Yea.. i got a bunch more texts since then each more emotional than the last. Never seen a blowout this bad. Just ignoring her and i guess in a month or so I'll replate. Funny thing is.. if women were just rational i would have no reason to not stay in one life long ltr. They do it to themselves.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 10:02 AM
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Was thinking more specific places/ events/ meet people apps etc. that you guys have picked up fast with. It's not about getting laid, it's about getting laid fast.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 03:14 PM
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How do i get my frame back?
/r/askTRP24/05/16 04:53 AM
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Can i recover from this?
/r/askTRP24/05/16 04:52 AM
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12 Levels of dread was fucking gold. I'm pretty sure I had the former problem earlier and got in a bad habit of reassuring/ comforting her which has led to this issue. It's only in its beginning stages thank fuck but definitely going down the path of no respect sexlessness if something isn't done now. Thankin you my man
/r/askTRP18/05/16 12:01 PM
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Don't know, I googled the red pill to begin with after a recommendation from a friend and found a site with the pdfs available, separate to this reddit. Search, download and read. It's called TRP second edition or something like that. Read the whole thing asap
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 01:04 PM
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You have two options. Chad your shit up or Next her If you suddenly stop being a fag, stop arguing with her, stop giving a shit, start treating her like a plate and go from a mindset that it's already done and you are outcome independent she will respond. This happened because you didn't follow the rules, over invested instead of sticking to the 2/3 rule, displayed weakness (jealousy), failed shit tests and didn't screen properly for a ltr. You need to re read the entire hand book, get your chad…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 12:45 PM
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Copy. I'll just wait it out then. I thought because she was sending me more texts without reply that she was wanting to talk, but i guess i have to wait for a text along the lines of an apology from her before we get back in touch. I was going to send her something along the lines of 'I'll talk to you when you've calmed down' as my alternative to silence but if that's what you recommend I'll stick to my guns.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 05:28 AM
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Just got another one 'Have fun with (girls name)' Its a girl i used to fuck that she knows about. I tried calling to ask her what she was talking about and to act non chalant but she didnt pick up and hasn't sent anymore. I just called the once because i figured it was her trying to talk to me by sending more messages. Was that the right thing to do? And do i just stay silent if more shit test messages come through?
/r/askTRP21/04/16 04:00 AM
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Appreciate it very much. Thank you
/r/askTRP21/04/16 01:50 AM
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The entire push into a relationship was from her. Hard. I was super reluctant to give her that commitment after not dating anyone for 3 years. She first started with a push for exclusivity, which I gave her. But for a very long time I considered it an agreement, which if she broke would have consequences (downgrade or dump). I didn't consider it something that bothered me as it would just relieve me of the commitment I had given her and allow me to gather other plates while still fucking her if …
/r/askTRP12/04/16 11:53 PM
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This is exactly where I am right now. Deciding whether I can detach enough to return to an IDGAF attitude and just enjoy the relationship for what it is without letting feelings manifest. Reading these comments and RP theory religiously since it happened, I get glimpses of overriding sense that seem to undermine the pair bonding I let happen in my head. At the end of the day, she makes me dinner and other nice feminine shit, she responds super well to my being Alpha and she puts out hard and reg…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 11:08 PM
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Thanks again
/r/askTRP12/04/16 10:33 PM
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That's a good way of thinking about it. Cheers
/r/askTRP12/04/16 10:31 PM
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you get trickle truths and then eventually can piece together the actual right information Is this just by maintaining frame when you probe? As in, asking them stuff as they mention it but from an 'aloof, IDGAF and it's funny to me' position where they don't feel the need to hamster and lie? I started keeping red flag diaries on her so I could maintain frame when confronted with unfavorable realities but always have a record of the little things I picked up. As for the rest of your post, you've …
/r/askTRP12/04/16 09:31 AM
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why the fucking hell does she write down every guy she was in bed with, some kind of fucking complex? wtf I asked her that and she kind of half said in her weird female way, what I understood as 'So that it meant something'. Obviously the self esteem of this woman completely shat out after her marriage and some serious issues came through. If I stick this out I will have to be seriously detached and seriously good at maintaining frame because she has an emotional shit storm inside her that can't…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 09:21 AM
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But what do I do right now? I don't know whether this is bad enough that I need to move on or that I need to step back and re asses my intentions with her. I clearly can't be in love with someone who would be gargelling cum a week after we stop seeing eachother or would take a couple fight as an excuse to go out and jump on the next cock that points her way.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 08:27 AM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP11/04/16 02:13 PM
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It was two months ago that I fucked a different girl. I was seeing my current gf at the time (we weren't 'together' but we were supposed to be exclusive sexually) but I did it after suspecting she had slept with someone else as well as her suggesting we were no longer exclusive. She denied any sleeping around later so I did the same (pretty much accepting that she had and not caring or feeling like I had done anything wrong) But later things escalated into an actual relationship. All up I've bee…
/r/askTRP07/04/16 04:39 AM
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This makes sense. I shall oblige Much appreciated
/r/askTRP06/04/16 08:02 AM
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Workin on it
/r/askTRP06/04/16 08:01 AM
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That's fucking gold. Thank you my man
/r/askTRP05/04/16 08:29 AM
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Much appreciated. I'm assuming it is going to go into detail on how to communicate what I want without blatantly asking for it, but since you've read it, can this be established by rewarding her attention to my needs with my own supplementation of her language? I might just skim this, figure out her language and then moderate this behavior with RP ideals if it checks out okay.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 04:36 AM
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Waste of time, which I don't have a lot of. I'm convinced most of this reddit is accurate so I'm not currently concerned with trawling through other information that may be the very same BP shit abundantly available everywhere else.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 04:23 AM
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I made a conscious decision that I didn't give a fuck and started pursuing other women myself. It was long enough ago that I legitimately did not think about it again while the relationship built on itself and eventually turned into an official thing but now that it has, I'm having issue with it again.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 01:26 PM
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That's what i thought. She just brought up the event she was at where it happened tonight and i had a serious urge to ask her. Swallowed it and came here instead but i guess you're right.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 12:47 PM
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Really? I thought this was a classic female dread game, followed by some 'i did actually want to see you but turns out im a victim' hamstering. The reason i say that is that her passing on a visit and being vague as to why is completely out of character normally. She does tend to try and game me back though and i recently passed on her offer to hang out without explaining a whole lot. So this registered as a shit test hard with me. I was going to tell her to calm down and ill talk to her later b…
/r/askTRP16/03/16 05:25 AM
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The thing is.. i don't think i can date this girl. For me going relationship just gives her too much power. I certainly can't contact her now to tell her she's been upgraded. hate to tell you but you're in a relationship with her I keep hearing this same thing but i thought no commitment fuck buddies was a legit strategy. The idea of officially telling this girl we are dating seems like a game changer. I'm considering just breaking it off
/r/askTRP11/03/16 11:16 PM
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Well I've recovered from this kind of stuff in the past. It's tough but im going from the perspective of us being already done, so thought i should just not reply and forget her. She will very likley text me eventually but i know i fucked up by showing some investment recently (although she pushed for it constantly) when i still don't want to date her. It just confused me because we've been seeing eachother for 6mths so i didn't feel like showing some beta tendencies would have any negative effe…
/r/askTRP11/03/16 02:05 PM
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Copy that. I'm thinking I'll actively pursue a higher value girl in the mean time so the nexting won't be so difficult.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 06:45 AM
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Yea.. I admit it's a bad move but I utterly detest condoms. I will have to start wearing them because of the STD scares I've had in the past and of course pregnancy, but it's one of those caught in the moment... fuck it, bad habits I'll have to get over.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 06:43 AM
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I know you're right, It's just a matter of reaffirming all the things that this place has taught me. And that's why I posted in here, because when you're hard wired towards beta behaviours and have been your entire life it can be quite difficult to keep on top of them in the transition faze towards being a RP man. I will continue to read, focus on myself and prioritise improvement over women. Thank you
/r/askTRP04/03/16 06:39 AM
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Very sincerely appreciated. I will read over this later tonight and try to properly absorb it. If she can't be upgraded, is it at all possible that she remains as she is?
/r/askTRP02/03/16 04:39 AM
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Well believe it or not, I am trying very much so to operate under trp. I lift and have been for over a year, have pretty good size and general aesthetic, practise cold approach and picking up girls, invest in myself and my career and constantly try to improve. I post in asktrp in times of weakness when I'm straying from the right path and need some hard truths from others in the community to get me thinking straight again - and as a means to let my inner thoughts out in a place of honest critici…
/r/askTRP02/03/16 04:32 AM
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I don't intend to save her by any means but I was thinking in the immediate instance that I am happy enough with her to make it a one woman deal. My issue is that I am aware of and can point out her faults and red flags. All of them. But At the same time I still feel strongly towards her and don't want to stop seeing her at any point in the immediate future. I'm actually aware of my own cognitive dissonance. I can actively look at some of her traits with contempt, try and maintain vigilance and …
/r/askTRP02/03/16 04:05 AM
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Do you think I should stop seeing the second girl? She's Almost beyond infatuation with me and I'm not even slightly interested in her. I'm also happy being exclusive with my fwb and don't want to jeopardise it by trying to balance her and a highly clingy, somewhat crazy second girl.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 03:57 AM
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I haven't spent a dime on her to this day. Exclusive fuck buddies just means friends with benefits who aren't in an official relationship. The idea is we aren't together, lovey dovey no sex like a couple, but we see eachother more than plates and spend some time outside the bedroom together doing mutually enjoyable activities. There is also consideration for less chance of STD's. I used to avoid her children like the plague, but now I've started staying over even when she has them. Maybe I paint…
/r/askTRP02/03/16 03:53 AM
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I think I'll be doing some recap this evening
/r/askTRP16/02/16 08:04 AM
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Blunt but thank you. What gets me is my oneitus girl and i are super good together for the most part and have a really good time. I'll consider what you've said, just really struggling with this a the moment
/r/askTRP16/02/16 08:04 AM
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I know man.. I've been really cold in the past and made fuck you decisions like that but they just seemed to next girls too fast. I won't make the same booking mistake again, but it's going to be tough to replace her on such short notice if I have to stand by the principles of her being punished that sternly in this instance
/r/askTRP04/02/16 02:55 AM
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I don't usually intentionally run dread game, im just constantly lifting and improving, sometimes to the point where she notices significant changes if we haven't seen eachother for a while. But she does always ask me what I've been doing, what my plans are etc. And I just vaguley tell her I was out or with friends etc. And she's started responding badly to it, sometimes trying to make me jealous with her own made up crap. I think my smv is just getting too high for her to be honest.. but for a …
/r/askTRP04/02/16 02:51 AM
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Copy that. I'm sometimes just not in the mind set for identifying and busting them so I just give a half assed response
/r/askTRP04/02/16 02:38 AM
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Cheers. If we ever do go at it again it will get her hamster spinning too.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 12:10 PM
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This is basically what has happened. And now I'm pretty devestated at the prospect of us being done. In comparison, some months ago she pulled some shit on me and i called it off no problems, with her pretty quickly reaching out to me and apologising before we got on again. But advice further up the page here has worked wonders in the last day or so. Putting my energy into lifting and new girls (whether I score one or not) has eased the suffering immensly.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 09:56 AM
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The thing is, I insisted on it being non commital in the beginning and she gradually pushed in the direction of exclusivity. She also started doing things that pushed her up the ranks, like waking up to breakfast in bed, random gifts, nice little surprises. She's the one that convinced me to be monogamous and he pay off was bareback and more investment. This stuff happened since and I hadn't even realised how into her I had gotten. It effectively became a relationship without officially being a …
/r/askTRP19/01/16 09:47 AM
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Really, seriously appreciate it man. I can't tell you how hard it is to think straight when the emotion switch gets flicked. I'm gonna go ahead and plaster that on my white board for moments of weakness.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 06:10 AM
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So even though I have no idea what's happened to her I should just leave it? I've been lifting hard out since but I feel so shit it's become a task to talk to anyone. Literally falling over my own words, forgetting stuff every 2 seconds. Don't know how she could effect me so badly but she has. Might be tough gaming a new girl atm but whatever needs to be done
/r/askTRP18/01/16 05:56 AM
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Thanks man, that's gud advice
/r/askTRP14/01/16 04:59 AM
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It's nice sometimes and I do get nudes but a part of me gets the impression it's hurting long term game. I've ignored girls pulling this crap before because I didn't feel like bothering and the texts did stop, but they also never initiated again (I make a point of not making the first text if I can help it). There must be some kind of moderation that solves both the issue of not letting her know you too intimately (mystery game)/ have too much of your ready attention (devaluing it and your perce…
/r/askTRP13/01/16 12:17 PM
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Yea, I feel in my gut that too much of it hurts game but it's definitely assuring that a girl is into you. On the other hand, my experience with going the other extreme and ignoring a girl or giving very short, can't be bothered answers has had girls stop trying because they thought I wasn't into them anymore.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 12:07 PM
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I'm all for a program of mandatory deportation of the white liberal bleeding hearts who cry diversity every second sentence. We can spin a wheel and have them sent anywhere from Haiti to Nigeria.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 11:51 AM
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Add diversity? Seems to me like mixing everyone in together would destroy diversity. But that is the entire irony of the situation. The left shoot up on mass immigration like it's going out of style, get girls raped on mass and set the stage for a continental race war the likes of which we've never seen. And all in the name of feminism, peace and equality. It's such a contradiction I can't decide whether to laugh or take a minute to breathe in the sobriety of this poe's law reality we're living …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 11:43 AM
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Well, it wasn't haha. Got rejected straight up. But I giess that's better than another shit date
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:49 PM
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Welp.. I guess I've got some learning to do.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 11:29 AM
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Much appreciated. I had been wondering just whether the good night kiss was on point or not. I like your idea much better. Still though, might try and organise date two with those things in mind just on the off chance I can get back in.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 12:37 AM
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Emily huh? Well thats just a testament to the classic AWALT. Unless you're Australian, in which case.. small world. The I was just drunk shit is hamstering, the getting mad at you for her fuck ups is hamstering. All of it reaks of disrespect and you need to forget this sucubus but never forget the lessons you've learned. Plate multiple girls to get out of oneitus and work on yourself so that you can plate multiple girls. Best of luck buddeh. We're all going to make it.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 01:16 PM
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I can empathise. Seriously. But the tough love you're receiving here has it spot on. I understand you probably needed to vent and women do have an incredible ability to take a huge shit in your brain if they want to but that's done now, the lessons are learnt and you need to invest in yourself. Cut negative thoughts and use your energy in developing and maintaining your own frame. If you aren't lifting regularly, that would be a good start. Lift, develop skills, join a hiking club, pick up marti…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 12:45 PM
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Show him The Red Pill? Jesus anon, you gotta at least steer him in the right direction before giving up on him. I bet a lot of guys here have had equally shameful 'whoa as me' faggot moments. We help each other to man up by teaching each other to think differently and talking about solutions to the issues that have kept us down. Show him the light.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 12:35 PM
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I like the sound of that. She was a total stranger so I have literally nothing to loose on a redo. Boy was it a shit date tho. I think she liked me and was just super nervous, but it definitely didn't go as planned. On a side note, is it normal for the girl to reach out and establish contact after a date or is that supposed to be my job?
/r/askTRP04/01/16 12:27 PM
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Copy that. My autism betrays me occasionally so It's good to have some clear cut instructions. Most of my sexual encounters thus far have involved limited talking before hand and so I am sort of at a loss for the most part on filling in the gap between meeting and fucking. Especially with these middle aged women who probably wouldn't even consider the idea of a young fit guy finding them attractive. Many thanks
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 12:19 PM
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Excellent post. I am very quickly realising a similar issue myself. Men can use women for validation just as much as they do us. The essence of red pill philosophy really is improving and becomming okay with yourself first and working on your game incidentally. Don't stop pursuing women, but make a point of being absolutely fine without them all the same.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 01:39 AM
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I like the sound of that. First one I plated figured it out soon enough and came onto me. Second one was shy and hard to get completely alone, even though she asked me to drive her home (a tag along friend cock blocked me). I never thought I could just blatantly proposition her with as much confidence as I can muster. Thanks for the tip
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 09:36 AM
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Can confirm. Single mums seem to be a little more trouble than they're worth. I'm a younger guy playing the game with older women too. As long as you aren't attached and keep them separate from any personal connections (where you live, family, friends etc.) you should be right. Though I do wonder how to make your intentions with older women more clear as a younger guy. I've been trying to plate a woman recently who seems flirty enough, just isn't getting the memo.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 12:45 PM
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Lel yea, trying to take it lightly and move on. At the very least, a notable learning experience. Might be worth getting used to it now though because I feel like there's a few more like it to come haha.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 03:11 PM
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Thanks man. Shit though, the embarrassment I'm feeling right now. That dealt a blow ill be feeling for a while. At the pub just now, caught some girl staring and smiling and I just bailed. Gonna go lift weights until I feel like a man again.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 01:50 PM
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Check out anabolic men (if you haven't already) for the whole 9 yards on test increases. It will absolutely increase your sex drive. As for the bunny humping festival to come, I'm not sure how you're going to prepare apart from a generally healthy, manly lifestyle with lots of sleep and an abundance of certain foods. I tend to have a shit load of sex after a week or more of no fap and no fuck because of work and fuck buddy availability and after the first few sessions, I'm severely disinterested…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 09:24 AM
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I don't know about girth because I've never measured or inquired but 6 is supposed to be pretty average so I wouldn't really worry. Like what alot of guys are saying, your insecurity is your own worst nightmare. Girls aren't attracted to dicks, they're attracted to the high smv male it's attached to. And sex for women is 90% psychological. So if you chad it up, be super dominant and look her in the eyes like you're going to cause her internal damage, she's going to be turned on and she's going t…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 09:12 AM
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She's actually really into me, like always asking me over etc. But sorry /r/ didn't realise people get triggered here
/r/askTRP24/12/15 03:52 AM
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Refer to the comment above. It bothered me because I had started to develop more serious feelings for her and this shit test conflicted with my personal ethics with someone I now had some level of legitimate investment. I'm not going to get into the race thing here because it is entirely off topic. But to be brief, she was only with this guy for a very short period and apparently for no reason other than him being black, in a media climate of it being 'adventurous' and the shadow of a disapprovi…
/r/askTRP24/12/15 03:29 AM
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I know I'm racist. And no its not uncommon to hold these beliefs with a sexual partner. Kind of like how a girl covered head to toe in tatoos Is a red flag for a lot of guys, humping tyrone to get back at daddy sets a standard the same way. But yea, something I didn't even realise bothered me until it happened.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 02:27 AM
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The thing is, she did the shit tests a month in or so asking if I was sleeping with other girls (which I wasnt at that stage) and I just defaulted to stuff like, 'well I havent slept with anyone this week if thats what you mean.' But when she said she wasnt going to keep seeing me if I had other girls involved I confessed that I hadn't been seeing anyone currently. She basically said that I had to tell her if I did but there was still no commitment. Ie. I can go fuck other girls, but she wanted …
/r/askTRP23/12/15 08:04 AM
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Outside perspectives make this so much easier I swear. So I guess I'll just not reply for a while if at all and focus on the new girl and setting up other dates. I just thought I'd rather keep banging her than not and didn't want to pass up her advance if I could easily get back in now that she's trying to get in contact
/r/askTRP23/12/15 06:59 AM
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Lel that's a nice touch. Once I'm out of here I might begin setting up a new plate so I have a backup to move onto. Thx mate
/r/askTRP08/12/15 02:15 AM
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That makes alot of sense. She's been shit testing since saying she won't come in again unless I tell her how much I want to see her and to make a new 'friend' otherwise. Really short responses, long reply times etc. It seems shes been kicked up a notch by her new suitor. I had similar shit happen to me when I was in hospital in my late teens with a girl I was dating. She went from head over heels to I think we should break up overnight. With the current girl ive noticed I was beginning to let he…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 08:55 PM
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If she does im going to have to break it off because she can't be allowed to set one standard for me and another for herself. She's also pretty jealous of other girls I can pull so while the arrangement is officially for sexual health it is unofficially because she wants me all to herself.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 08:25 PM
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Oh well. Been hitting on a nurse all afteenoon anyways. Cheers m8s, appreciate the help
/r/askTRP07/12/15 10:43 AM
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Yea, well I guess if she acts on it ill just have to next her. Sometimes I find myself wondering what the hell is wrong with women. They're just little automated shit flingers that have no idea how to do anything else
/r/askTRP06/12/15 11:45 PM
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Agree and amplify?
/r/askTRP06/12/15 10:29 PM
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So the test is to get me to commit to her more or something? I just dont get why the super compassion followed by the 'btw im going on a fate with some faggot'. Just makes me wanna get a new fuck pal
/r/askTRP06/12/15 10:03 PM
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I think exclusive fuck buddies is a legitimate thing. I dont wanna be banging a girl that gets around because I hate condoms and dont like herpes
/r/askTRP06/12/15 10:01 PM
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Sorry.. this was meant for asktrp. I am in hostpial all doped up on shit so cut me some slack. Ill repost in asktrp if I can figure out how to delete this
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