What does it mean if your woman cooks for you, does sexual favours etc. And then later brings them up as leway that you should be thankful for? As if she's tallying everything she does like it's an act of sacrifice or martyrdom while magically forgetting nice things you have done yourself. It's a shit test right? To see if you'll fall over myself with praise and appreciation at her 'glorious benevolence' because she still thinks she's on a pedestal