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15

She has another date lined up after u that shes more excited about. Dont give her your time shes not that into you.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:39 AM
1

Abstain as much as possible in general for maximum effect.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 02:32 PM
5

/redpillwomen
/r/askTRP25/08/18 02:30 PM
1

Always act how you want when you want.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:06 AM
0

Because they perceive you as a punching bag.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 05:23 PM
1

Dont do it. Dont be dumb.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 08:22 PM
1

Welcome to the desert of the real.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 03:19 AM
12

Yeah I had a carbon copy of this chick a few years ago. They're fucked in the head because of Chinese culture I nexted because she wanted to fuck but wouldn't do it after a few meetups. Teach her to suck your sick and swallow and if she fucks then side benefit.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:11 PM
4

That was hilarious. Awesome nuclear pressure flip. She folded like a wet paper towel. Yeah I find tall women with degrees have huge egos but respond well when you have strong frame.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 03:39 PM
2

No one from the red pill is going to Advocate that you change your behavior in order to keep a woman around. That's blue pill thinking. The only way you should keep a woman around is by demonstrating value. You have a scarcity mentality with her. Change it to an abundance mentality and stop giving a f*** if she's going to leave you or not. Do what you want. Otherwise you have oneitis. If she wants to come along with you on your journey through life that's her choice.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:44 PM
1

If you get girls wet doesn't matter if you have little kids.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 03:35 PM
1

Yes. It's been scientifically proven that if a woman's voice reaches above 600 hexadecibals that she is in an aroused state, meaning that she is attracted to you. Just kidding. Assume that every woman is attracted to you. /endthread
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:46 PM
3

Doesn't mean anything. She could think ur hot but be uncomfortable because she is shy. Could mean you're disgusting to her. Keep trying.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:36 PM
5

This happened to me when I was younger. Just have to get used to stressful situations.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 02:42 PM
9

First off she can be prosecuted for breaking plates and screaming: two charges: Domestic violence property damage and disorderly conduct. I know you won't call the po on her but it's fun to think about. Second, don't even try to "change" a bitch like her. Just withdraw all attention, work on yourself hard at the gym, job etc. and prepare an escape route. Fuck women on the side (if you can get away with it). Third, leave her when all your shits in order and find a woman that treats you like a kin…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 05:19 PM
2

I think you're on the right track, but instead or being candid or serious about it with her like "Have things changed?" Instead just be friendly and funny and act like nothing is amiss. Be friendly and normal with her when you happen to cross paths or she visits. Keep gaming chicks and moving ahead. You'll be surprised she might want to fuck when she sees you doing so well and acting so comfortably and normal.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 05:11 PM
3

Because lots of new ppl with trash.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 03:50 PM
14

Engage with men.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 11:38 PM
4

Eat her pussy then go for whatever you want Don't ask just position her and tell her what you want her to do. Focus on your enjoyment and hers will follow.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 10:52 PM
1

This story is poop. It's just literary neckbeard masturbation. Waste of fucking time. I guess it was a huge deal to OP, who sounds like a young student discovering the wonders of the pill.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 10:36 PM
9

You need to reframe the entire encounter. Don't come at it with a "How do I ask her?" Instead, look at it from a "if she wants to come have fun with me that's her choice." So instead of saying "hey want to come to my place for some wine?" Say "hey let's go to my place and have some wine." SHE has to make the choice to come along on your magic carpet ride, you don't ASK her if she wants to come. If she doesn't, oh well lots of fish in the sea.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 02:39 PM
1

Lift then your goofy funny becomes sexy funny.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 01:11 AM
3

Yup gives you more energy you put yourselves in more situations you wouldn't normally and talk to ppl you normally wouldn't. Also makes sex better and rewires your brain if porn addiction. Hard to stay on it tho for long time
/r/askTRP06/06/18 05:38 PM
3

HEY BB U WAN SUM FUK?
/r/askTRP03/06/18 06:49 PM
1

The truth is as bad as you fear. You can still love and have good relationships though.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 12:40 AM
2

Who cares? This shit is common on tinder.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 06:46 PM
3

She wan sum fuk
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:06 AM
1

Don't call her out. She doesn't want u at the moment. Move on and adopt a idgaf attitude
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:15 PM
4

100%
/r/askTRP13/05/18 04:45 AM
2

Not high value enough.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 06:50 PM
5

Lawyer up, get a divorce, hit the gym.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:18 AM
2

Gonna get dicked.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:27 AM
169

You need to shut that shit down immediately. The problem is you've been a pussy about it with your wife for years. Zero tolerance policy. She starts talking about shit like that just escalate. "You want to fuck him? let's go tell him right now." She'll be astonished. It's clear you've been her bitch for a while. Start respecting yourself and stop letting her walk all over you. You say you are a great catch, but it's clearly not enough for your wife (probably lost tingles because she knows you ar…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 06:02 PM
1

Believe me your dick could be two inches and you coud still fuck a girl hard and make her cum. It's all in your head dude. Stop focusing on how SHE feels. Focus on your own pleasure and busting a nut. When you shift your mindset from pleasing her to pleasing yourself everyone wins.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 10:32 PM
3

Soft next till she fucks. She recognizes you as a major beta bucks provider material and doesn't want to fuck it up. You not escalating enough and failing to overcome her LMR proves her point. Soft next till she comes around to fuck.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:24 PM
12

Run. She wants marriage and you'll have to deal with her religion and family and culture. Fuck that.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 01:59 PM
4

Only critique is you didn't put TM (trademark) after "sophisticated quality woman"
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 02:44 PM
64

You should probably watch them fuck and masturbate in the corner while crying softly to yourself.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:20 PM
5

I mean if you want to fuck her yes. You don't have to do anything if you don't want. Practice amused mastery, abundance mentality, and don't take anything she says seriously just have fun and escalate.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 04:57 PM
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Yes, because for women their feelings shape their reality. Where previously you could be someone they don't give a fuck about, but due to a situation or shit test you hold frame/demonstrate value, they can suddenly become attracted.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 04:49 PM
4

Remember Neo in the matrix when he was first unplugged? It took a while for him to use his eyes, because he'd never used them before.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 04:54 AM
1

Ask yourself if you're willing to lose half of your shit and maybe your kids (if you have any with her) and be on the hook for child support/alimony for the rest of your life. If the answer is Yes, then propose. If not, don't.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 04:44 AM
1

Get a big mission or goal to work towards. Always keep bettering yourself and your circumstances. You'll feel a lot better.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 03:56 AM
3

Ask her out on a date. Assume attraction. She'll either say yes or no and you can move to the next step.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 12:10 AM
2

Lol do 10 dick punch Mary's.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:08 PM
2

Stop listening to what women say and look at what they do.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 02:02 PM
3

I got 28/36 said I did better than 64%
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 12:27 AM
1

What the fuck did I just read.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 09:22 PM
5

Join The red pill women sub and ask there. If you ask us, he's a lost cause. Find a masculine man that handles his shit.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:58 PM
7

Quality shitpost.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 02:31 PM
8

I enjoyed the story but felt like there was no payoff. How many of these chicks have you banged after approaching at the gym?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 03:00 PM
4

Haters gonna hate don't let it bring you down.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:40 PM
1

Count down from 5 and go talk to her after you see her and get excited.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:34 PM
8

Most women I've met that mention their Christian are mostly religious because it's a family/community support thing for them, Not because they are pious and won't put out until marriage. They do tend to be more on the lookout for beta bucks than one night stands, though.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 09:01 PM
1

GOMAD
/r/askTRP27/03/18 08:17 PM
3

Well if she goes thru that much effort then she deserves to have that information hidden
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:44 PM
2

They hate us because they aintus.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:03 PM
1

She's cheating one way or another. Get ready to jump ship then dump her. My gf keeps her phone unlocked because she has nothing to hide.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:58 PM
2

Get you a box. Cut a hole in the box. Put your dick in that box.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 02:50 PM
2

Short answer: Stop listening to what women say.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 06:29 PM
2

Stop listening to what women say. /endthread
/r/askTRP23/03/18 11:41 PM
1

Are you me? I have some of your problems but it's easier for me to play the "I want a relationship" game and then turn it off when I'm bored and jump to the next chick. It just comes down to injecting a little comfort into the things you say, such as plans for the future, the strength of emotion behind how you feel about them(and the uniqueness of that feeling towards JUST HER), etc. The trick is to believe what you say when you say it even though it's not true. This comes through by steady eye …
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:06 PM
1

Yeah it doesn't mean anything just try again later she needs time to adjust.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:35 PM
4

This was awesome. Hearing RP speak like oneitis, beta faggot etc. cracked me the fuck up. Great video though and very well put together.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 07:45 PM
3

Looks like you lost frame with her mom and her mom turned her against you, while simultaneously seeing her mom successfully beat you down with shit test after shit test. No denying her mom is a piece of shit. Also your ex has a lot of cringworthy red flags like arranging the food and being very concerned with money, status whatever. Her mom bested you and it made you look bad to your ex. She lost interest. Next time choose women you decide to commit to in an LTR better. Also, I appreciate your s…
/r/askTRP17/03/18 10:26 PM
1

Just girls that are insecure and are intimidated.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 09:39 PM
2

Eh you majorly lost frame because you took what she said seriously and got shaken by it. Best way to deal is pretend like it didn't happen or you don't care and thought it was a joke. When she brings it up again then joke about it and be relentless until she fucks. If she doesn't fuck then major red flag and dump asap.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 12:18 AM
3

I do bubble gum escalations but then kiss at the bar first date.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 12:28 AM
2

Only chat about logistics on dating apps. Trying to build rapport or sexual tension is a waste of time because that's something that needs to happen in person unless she's down to meet at ur place just to fuck.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 11:23 PM
3

I'm 30 never married no kids. Maybe this won't be helpful, but I think people feel fulfilled when they have a mission and goals. Find what you're working towards and go for it hard. Usually when people are passionate about something it makes them feel fulfilled when they work at it/strive towards it.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 08:02 PM
0

I celebrated international women's day by making my plate cum multiple times while fucking her brains out.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 11:32 PM
1

Only a mistake because you lack abundance. Get with other chicks and you won't care as much/at all. It's amazing how much cumming in another girl makes you forget your oneitis, etc. It's all in your head /taps forehead.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 07:49 PM
3

You're trying to fill a void and pussy is not going to fill it. Work on yourself, hobbies, friends, career. You need a mission/passion to feel actualized. Pussy is great and fun but not what you should focus on.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 08:07 PM
1

I think you already know the answer and came to it yourself after writing this.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 07:37 PM
5

Noticed that lol.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 02:28 PM
1

No you can't do this to her. You have to be a real man and commit. She's perfect and you'll regret it if you break up. Just kidding. Show me a beautiful woman and I'll show you a man who's tired of fucking her. YOLO then you're dead forever. Follow whatever path you choose.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 11:58 PM
2

Sick wisdom.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 10:53 PM
0

My fave is massive attack Mezzanine album I like to fuck to that.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 02:00 AM
0

You sound autistic. That aside, spend some alone time when you can and be social when you need to.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 01:57 AM
2

Everyone here is being a faggot. I think the first one looks better. Second one is too gaudy I think. Watches look good and will get you compliments. Do you need to buy an expensive one? Not necessarily unless u have money to burn. Buy one that looks good and will work for a long time. Cheers.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 01:55 AM
1

She feels lukewarm about you but will go on another date if a better guy doesn't come along/isn't available at the moment. You should ALWAYS kiss your first date if you are attracted to her. Kisses for girls are like two dudes giving each other a handshake when they first meet. If they tell you otherwise they have platinum vagina syndrome. Im shocked dudes think that a kiss means anything on the first date....
/r/askTRP27/02/18 01:51 AM
10

Got to start approaching and failing. If you get excited about a girl you see, then suddenly get fear in your gut, doing an internal countdown like 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 and then approaching and talking to her works well. After each approach it gets easier, your confidence and success rate increases.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 05:31 PM
1

I'm sorta in 3.5 even after three+ years on the pill. I'm in great shape exercise 6x week, lift, run, yoga. I'm an attorney and will hopefully get accepted into the Marines soon as a JA. I just got out of an LTR with a chick who worshipped me but wasn't enough because I'm too ambitious and know I can do better. I'm 6'1, good-looking. Problem is I can't shut the fuck up about TRP, debasing women, and pedastilizing pussy. I don't talk about the pill specifically but use the terminology and concept…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 06:58 PM
1

If they don't respond enthusiastically your SMV is low.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 02:28 AM
1

Main issue is you put yourself in her frame by asking her to lead. Need to be more assertive next time. Balls in her court and she likely dropped it. Move on until she reaches out.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 02:14 AM
2

A kiss on a first date is like a handshake with a dude you just met. It doesn't mean shit to a girl. If she wants to hang out again she's into you. If she doesn't or makes an excuse she isn't. It's all a part of the game. Some girls will like you others won't. Keep at it dude.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 01:58 AM
1

Stop watching p*** cold turkey and exercise often. You will relapse , and that is okay. Each time you relapse you have to get back on the train. So at first it may look like a few days up to a week of not watching and then you relapse and maybe watch once and it will get easier and easier from there. After a while your brain will reset and you will experience new energy and enthusiasm in life. Have fun.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 11:46 PM
2

This verdict is a step in the right direction. Still, highly unlikely he'll see much or any of that money and his career is already fucked. Doubt any insurance she had will cover that kind of tort. Maybe if she owns real estate theyll put a judicial lien on its sale. Maybe theyll try to garnish wages from her 9 to 5 minimum wage job and any cash she has in bank accounts that she hasnt already moved elsewhere. He won't get much.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 08:59 PM
1

You need to get out of your head, take pussy off the pedestal (I NEED TO GET LAID WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME). Try yoga, meditation, mindfulness. It looks like you're extremely unhappy with yourself and life, and that you're measuring your own self worth on pussy. Sure. You're following the book (lifting, hobbies, $$$) but you aren't HAPPY. You sound like you're hollow on the inside but going through the motions because it's what you think you should be doing. You need to disconnect and reset somehow.…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 08:13 PM
1

I'm 30. I wouldn't say good but better than tinder for me.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 03:34 PM
1

I'm a good looking dude and just downloaded tinder. It is a wasteland of fat ugly women. I've gotten 3 matches in 3 days and none have even responded. I'm in phoenix area and get bumble and hinge hits all the time from decent quality girls. They changed tinder it's all fucked now for free to play ppl.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 04:27 AM
2

1 run far away. #2 you failed to escalate properly on the date and fucked it up anyway and missed your opportunity. Move on.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 09:34 PM
1

TL:DR - crab bucket mentality happens and don't let it get you down.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 08:06 PM
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I know a lot of people hate it but try again with a different girl. And again. And again. It will hurt, you'll feel bad sometimes. Sometimes you'll feel like you want to quit and that it's not worth it. More than anything you'll want to just say fuck it and give up because feeling bad sucks. But if you can go against your base human nature to protect yourself and take the easu road, and instead keep trying, you'll succeed.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 01:48 AM
2

Could be a million reasons, but the point is she wasn't feeling it. Good job with escalation. Move on with different girls.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 06:55 PM
1

If it were me I'd say "of course" but I am a straightforward blunt person.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 02:25 PM
-5

Glad you put a lot of thought into this.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 06:04 PM
-3

I care for other dudes and want the best for mankind. You're right, fuck me for thinking that anything I believe in is something that will benefit and enrich other dudes' lives, or that some paths in life are better than others. It's about your own journey man! You do you! Nihilism! Any man can do whatever the fuck they want. I don't care enough. I care when they negatively affect my life and I have to take action.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 04:50 PM
-1

Generally agree with this post but it's a slippery slope. Don't think it's healthy for dudes to only lift and play video games for the rest of their lives because it's what THEY want. I get that life is arbitrary and people can do whatever they want, but some dudes will look at this post and delude themselves into thinking it's fine to live in their own safe space for the rest of their lives without meeting true challenges and adversity.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 03:11 PM
4

The trick for confirming a date is to say "just letting you know I'll be a late" over text. If she doesn't respond it's a good sign she won't show.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 10:07 PM
2

Well in LTRs lust does drop off in my experience, unless you're always on top of your game. Even then, for me in most relationships I get tired of fucking the same girl because i like strange pussy and the thrill of the hunt. That's why never LTR just spin plates til they drop. Don't watch what she says but what she does. Seems obvious to me she really does like you, but she wants to fuck a lot because it's important to YOU, not her. Embrace abundance and instill dread and the nuclear option cal…
/r/askTRP07/02/18 02:41 PM
2

Yeah space your work out don't work so hard unless you want more work or are pretty sure youd get a promotion if that's what you want. Don't work hard, work smart.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 07:47 PM
1

It's always funny how the mid-level girls are the most entitled.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 03:57 PM
3

This is a gr8 post.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 09:27 PM
4

Dump this ho she gon get deported. Build the wall. Also stop being a pussy. You have major oneitis. Go to R/relationships with this trash. Stopped reading after first 4 sentences when I saw the giant wall of text. You're desperate for this girl it's hilarious.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 09:04 PM
1

She's right you are a pussy. So grow a pair and leave this domestic violence situation.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 11:46 PM
4

"K"
/r/askTRP31/01/18 04:15 AM
1

The fuck is wrong with you. You say you're way hotter than this chick but act like a thirsty beta orbiter over text, following up and wanting answers from her over and over after she clearly withdrew attention. She caught on that you are thirsty as fuck for attention and treated you like the little bitch you've been acting. There's major cognitive dissonance going on in this post. You're acting like "yo boys was I too harsh on this chick in person?" When it's clear she already nexted you and mad…
/r/askTRP31/01/18 12:58 AM
20

Welcome to Tinder. You sure learned a lesson huh? I learned to never commit to a long drive and only meet in my area. Bitches ghost on Tinder it's a part of the game. Why does it happen? She has a boyfriend, She started her period, the zodiac told her today is a bad day, Whatever. You can't take it personal, You can only narrow the outcomes by deciding what you will and will not do.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 12:44 AM
3

Train like you're getting ready to jump ship and if she doesn't change then do it. However, You should also let her know how you feel and not be passive aggressive about it. One day when you think the timing is right say "hey. You know we have a great relationship and I'm happy,etc., but I've noticed lately you have been gaining weight. Want to come to the gym with me?" If she freaks out and pressure flips on you then next. If she does nothing then next. It's very important that you set the expe…
/r/askTRP31/01/18 12:36 AM
5

Yeah if you go she'll think you want a relationship. She's testing to see if you're alpha fucks or beta bucks.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 12:30 AM
4

That's why u buy 1 drink then bounce to your place for drinks
/r/askTRP26/01/18 09:50 PM
3

It's cause Aziz looks like a dopey dwarf incel dork and Christian Grey looks like an alpha.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 12:13 AM
19

She wants to fuck retard. And even if she doesn't it's a good exercise to assume every girl wants to.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 04:04 AM
4

Hope you don't get hit with a rape allegation.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 03:40 PM
1

Day dates usually suck. Meet at a bar and take her home afterwards. Best strategy ive worked with.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 12:57 AM
2

If she wants commitment then she'll eventually not be responsive and will push for it. Or she could be self actualized and enjoy you for your alpha fucks and eventually cut it off when she secures a provider (or keep fucking you on the side). You have the right mindset. It can feel bad, but women don't know what they ACTUALLY need or want from a man. All plates fall and break tho. Don't worry about it and keep on your path.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 10:39 PM
3

True. Adversity and difficulty keep us sharp and manly.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 12:18 AM
2

Vacuumed his jizz up like a roto rooter.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 12:17 AM
5

You're right. Maintain frame. Let her know it's not ok to whine and talk meaningless shit into the ground. You don't have to be a dick while doing it, but condition her to stop that shit. Or just go nuclear and tell her to shut the fuck up, for funzies.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 12:25 AM
2

Don't fuck her and learn what it feels like to be a girl with desperate thirsty males. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 10:53 PM
3

Run far away. Thank her for saving you time and energy.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 05:25 PM
1

Yeah you're the prize not her. Downgrade to plate focus on yourself and your business and have fun. If you live together then move out or have her move out. In my experience when you show weakness they never forget and will always hold it over you. Yeah she's hot and her pussy is good. You can get that all the time. The only common denominator is YOU LIMITING YOURSELF.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 11:27 PM
11

Yeah saw the movie and it sucked balls. Nearly lost it when purple-hair social justice admiral rebukes Po the third time for trying to do something. So much blue pill feminist shit in this movie. The writers are clearly cucked as hell and probably voted for Hillary.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 12:28 AM
3

How do you fart in her face while fucking? Doggie with her in a pretzel? Pull out and fart then go back to town? If i did that I would pass out from laughing. This post 6/10 would laugh again. 👌
/r/askTRP19/12/17 01:30 AM
2

This thread is golden..... shower.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 12:23 AM
1

I lift 4 days a week and do yoga twice a week. It's fucking awesome. After a few months it also fixed my fucked up ankle. I can touch my toes now and stretching in yoga poses actually feels good. Like sex almost.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 04:00 PM
3

Duh dummy.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 11:16 PM
4

Matches mean nothing. Come back after you actually fuck live girls.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:10 PM
12

Ass cash or grass.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 05:14 PM
3

Hey man. Glad to see you red pilling at such a young age. You have the right idea with gym and working on yourself. She was your first everything. It's gonna be hard, because you have known nothing else. You are VERY impressionable right now due to your age, and the relationship you had with her will feel very meaningful---because it WAS. You underwent a lot of maturation and change while dating her, No doubt. Don't reach out to her and don't speak with her. That's the best policy. Always will b…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 11:34 PM
2

Great post. Question: You say it's important to have kids but also to never get married. What's the best way to go about doing this while being a present father figure and raising strong human beings?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 05:39 PM
1

Don't reply. All's fair in love and war. It's the best policy. Good intentions never go unpunished.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 06:45 AM
1

Good job. She's going to take all the cool things you've rubbed off on her and be some other dude's oneitis when she's fucking him. You are possessive of this woman. You lack abundance mentality and come from a place of scarcity (I'm gonna lose her). Either demote her to plate or continue working on yourself and enjoy her company while it lasts as an LTR (and embrace frame and abundance mentality). It's not going to last. It never does. Stop investing so much in a woman. Especially one who is go…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 06:40 AM
1

No contact and time plus learning to love and care for yourself.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 06:31 AM
3

Texting is for logistics. Don't text her until Tuesday and only then to reconfirm that she will show up.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 07:34 PM
3

Eh stop trying to red pill women especially in your work environment. Rule of Power: act like others but think as you wish.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 02:42 AM
0

This is fun revenge porn, but the amount of effort you put into dealing with this girls breakup was too much. Shoulda just said "ok, pack up your shit" and walked away. At the most, have her shit packed so she doesn't fiddle with your shit and then say "there's the door." Too tryhard, but otherwise entertaining.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 06:30 PM
3

Dude you're young and just starting your practice. I've been on a lot of shit dates. It happens. But my score rate has gone up considerably since I started. This bitch is NOTHING. There will be SO many of them. Schedule multiple tinder dates a week and keep learning what works and what doesn't. After a few months you'll be gaming with ease. One thing i learned was DON'T ask them stupid shit like what they're passionate about. Have a fun conversation about unimportant things. Don't try to find ou…
/r/askTRP20/11/17 03:35 PM
3

Format dude.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 07:49 PM
0

Stop texting so much. Only text logistics, even with an LTR.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 05:11 AM
2

Join the marine corps.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 07:58 PM
5

Local bar in a large marketplace complex 5 mins from my house at night on the weekend works the best I found. It is harder to escalate when you get coffee during the day and walking around/getting icecream etc. is also lukewarm unless you're Casanova. At a bar it's easy to escalate. Just buy one drink, sit next to her (not across from her), make her laugh and touch her. I usually kiss close at the bar then tell her to come back to my place for drinks. If she declines then you're out a beer (or $…
/r/askTRP05/11/17 05:39 PM
1

Be careful they want to snare you into marriage and children.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 04:29 AM
2

Go to rpwomen sub
/r/askTRP26/10/17 08:55 PM
1

You need to physically escalate. Asking for permission makes girls go dry and get second thoughts. "Oh I guess he's not confident and that makes me feel unsexy or uncomfortable. If you both were high on a drug you should have simply started touching her, then touch her face and kiss her, then go from there. Don't try to be clever and don't try to talk your way into it unless you can pull that off (But sounds like you're not there yet). Anyway, if you still hang with this girl, escalate physicall…
/r/askTRP25/10/17 03:39 AM
1

Yeah major red flag. She's testing you to see how you react. Either she is dreading you to marry her "we were together six years and I didn't know what to do" or she cheated/plans to cheat on you and is building up to it. Either way don't ltr this ho
/r/askTRP24/10/17 11:29 PM
1

Number one why are you meeting up with a girl who lives really far away. Number two if you want to keep her as an option just double book your Saturday and choose from there. Double or triple booking helps your abundance mentality and increases your game.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 11:12 PM
2

In general, dissecting Hollywood tropes (bluepill ideology) and trying to apply them to the red pill is a mistake. The concept of the matrix is one of the only concepts we've adopted.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:46 PM
2

You can't do a 180 with your friend circle who already know you as a blue pill faggot. Rule of Power: act like others but think as you like. Around your friends you need to transition gradually into a red pill demeanor with stoicism, humor, light heartedness, learning to say no and being confident in your actions. With strangers you can practice being totally red pill. As others have said there's a difference between being confident and being a dick. You want girls to call you a dick not because…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:41 PM
4

Use it as motivation to fuck prettier girls.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 07:13 PM
1

Sounds like a grass is greener situation to me. You really like this new girl because she's strange puss. Down the road you'll get just as tired of her when some new strange comes around. F*** this girl and keep your LTR as long as possible until it doesn't work out anymore and then stop LTRing girls and continue about your Merry f****** way.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 11:22 PM
2

Kick them out when you're done fucking dummy.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 11:15 PM
11

Keep your chin up. It's clear you're a smart dude and you're very thoughtful about yourself and those around you. You found the red pill years before I did. That means you have a leg up. When you're in your early twenties you will go through a lot of large internal mental changes as you adjust and mature. Keep working on yourself. and those guys that you see are alpha? Make friends with them. Surround yourself with men you admire. Participate in team sports activities. And take the pussy off the…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 11:02 PM
22

She's going to get a train ran on her by the rugby team.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 05:48 PM
1

It's shamefully arousing.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 06:46 PM
1

Getting a personal trainer really pushed me to the next level. Expensive though.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 05:56 AM
2

"I want you" and any other vague desirous ways to put it. "I want to have fun." Then demonstrate with actions what you mean.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 12:00 AM
1

Well looks like she wants your commitment and to ask her to be your girlfriend. Don't. Every time a woman had asked me to be more romantic it usually implodes soon thereafter. She sounds high maintenance with a princess complex anyway. Ghost this bitch.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 11:58 PM
3

Well in my experience it can make them more moody or emotional. Probably the worst aspect that I've seen in some women is a lowered sex drive. There are a ton of different kinds of birth control and women are affected differently.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 04:02 PM
1

Bar. Buy 1 drink go home and fuck l.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 02:13 AM
6

TLDR Liberal academics are major cucks. Water is wet.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 12:50 AM
19

For girls, kissing is like a handshake or a hug---meaningless. If a girl doesn't kiss on the first date she is really not into you. Ghost and next no hard feelings.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 02:56 PM
1

Eh I wish my gf would wear more makeup. If it's an issue bring it up to her.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 01:50 AM
1

But here's the important question... why is this girl with you?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 08:07 PM
4

Cause hos be dumb. But more seriously, you're just hitting stride with your game and realizing that the fun comes from the thrill of the hunt and not comfort/companionship. You're evolved. You feel weird about it because blue pill land tells us to be monogomous and that every woman is a beautiful snowflake. It's all horseshit and you've taken off the blue goggles. Also could be you just haven't been with a high enough value girl that you really jive with.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 06:27 PM
2

You're young and still in the anger phase. Don't worry about it dude just grow your idgaf mentality and abundance mentality, learn from your experiences and move on. Cultivate amused mastery.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 07:53 PM
1

Join athletic activity groups like martial arts, rock climbing, even intramural stuff, etc. You'll come across good dudes and have the chance to hang out. You're in college you can probably join a ton of cool groups.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 07:27 PM
2

You know when she left for a week? She fucked one of those dudes. She then scratched her itch and and came back to her beta bucks (you). Now after the dust settled she wants alpha dick again. You aren't enough for her, dude. Dump her ass immediately. It's obvious you know nothing of the red pill, but it's about time you read the sidebar and educate yourself. This bitch disrespects you and emasculates you multiple times by telling you to your face that you aren't hot enough for her. Drop her like…
/r/askTRP03/10/17 07:18 PM
1

Get back with her if you're fine with going to court and addressing a judge on criminal charges.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 07:30 PM
1

I'm thinking about marrying this girl... someone change my mind.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 07:25 PM
5

Bitches are dumb. Don't listen to what a woman says it's nonsense.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 07:12 PM
1

I lived in Seattle in my college years. Definitely a place thing. The more south you go in the States the hotter the women are and the better they act. Probably Hilary voters that think masculinity is toxic.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 06:05 AM
4

Well it's high school. Could be she's a slut or she's just a dumb bitch. Either way ignore her because you don't want to get involved with a girl like that. Not because banging girls is bad, but it would be tough to not get involved in a LOT of drama. High school is just like that. Practice stoicism and amused mastery and abundance mentality. If she keeps eating out of your hand then maybe fuck her. Just keep in mind her actions with other men and think about the potential consequences if everyo…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 01:11 AM
2

Refreshing and re-focuses me. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 12:58 AM
6

Torn labia could be anything dude... id get out now before you waste time and regret it because of her baggage later.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 09:22 PM
1

Yeah dummy.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 11:07 PM
3

In my 29 yrs on this earth and especially after finding the red pill, telling the truth while maintaining strong frame is the best solution. Look her in the eyes and tell her the truth. Don't add any filler or apologies. Odds are she'll stay with you if you give her tingles. A lot of women will stay with men despite major red flags/issues so long as the men give them tingles. Law since the dawn of time.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 09:29 PM
3

Generally I agree but I see and know hardworking women that navigate difficult and stressful situations in their professional/business lives that aren't entitled children but act more like men. In fact I've seen them succeed and perform better than some lazy pussy-ass cucks. Good post but generalizing too much. Most women are like this but not all. Not saying they're unicorns and to wife them or anything but there are women that succeed and work harder than some men.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 03:31 AM
3

Life is great. Go to the gym, get your teeth fixed, work on your career/professional goals. When you're young your brain hasn't completely grown and your internal chemistry is out of whack. I wasn't a happy teen but when I got into my early twenties I just became happier when my hormones balanced out. Life is great no use in embracing the void before your time is up. Also, drop the victim act. I'm sure your life has been bad but it reflects a lot better on you when you don't blame others for you…
/r/askTRP24/08/17 03:35 PM
2

I can see why she cheated on you.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 03:17 PM
4

Waaaaaa humble brag. I guess you should stop being successful so everyone will like you again.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 11:15 PM
4

Yup.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 09:59 AM
6

Find purpose in your life. Women are just a side hobby.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 06:42 PM
3

Sure, but to me it says "I listen to my mom and she wants me to get a wife. Even tho I'm funny I'm a good Asian boy."
/r/askTRP27/07/17 11:54 PM
2

Your profile says "provider" all over it. Cut out the my mom made me make this and dental student. Otherwise you're gonna get girls that try to hold off on sex because they want to LTR you and have you take care of them. Tell them in person is better for wow factor. Good shirtless pic and height stats.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 11:28 PM
1

Nothing and wait for her to come crawling back. Act like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 06:35 AM
9

Either cheated on you with another dude or with the girl. If she's that butthurt about it then she did something wrong. Either way she disrespects you. Drop that bitch like a bad habit.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 10:29 PM
6

Pay and leave. Walk outside and fart in her face, and say "you stink" then walk away shaking your head.
/r/askTRP22/07/17 04:11 AM
1

Definitely a trap she'll get what she wants one way or another if you go back to her.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 05:59 AM
1

Lol.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 10:31 PM
1

Eh I wouldn't consider leaning into the bar as being a move that puts you inside his frame. I'd say how the convo goes from there decides the dominant frame. I get what you're saying tho.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 11:49 PM
3

Everything everyone else said. Especially though, next time insert yourself into the convo and ask Bob a lot about his background. Take control of the convo and master it, even if it sounds pushy (but keep a fun and light tone). See it as a fun challenge and then decide to next the girl after. She sounds like another vapid ho though. You lost nothing but a few bucks and a little time, but probably dodged a bullet. You should thank her for saving you more time effort and money by showing you how …
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:57 PM
1

"Help me help myself even though I refuse to help myself" is all you're saying. It's just ego masturbation. You should get a tattoo to match hers, dye your hair, get piercings and realize your final cuck form. You can help her fight the patriarchy, join ANTIFA and get her a bull to make her feel empowered. Don't let your toxic masculinity keep her down.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 05:13 PM
3

Probably wants you to add another spawn to her list so she can get mo money.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 02:32 AM
1

High top shorts hiding muffin tops.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 08:34 PM
1

Smoking is disgusting, smells, costs money and is bad for your health. If it's a plate I don't care as much. LTR is a no.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 04:54 AM
9

Don't feed the trolls.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:20 AM
1

She's 17. Social media is just what girls do. Make your own assumptions about her character on other grounds.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 08:14 PM
1

I don't know you hamster a lot in this post by justifying why things are not actually bad even though you feel bad about them: from your stagnating career to your interactions with other women to your marriage. You say you aren't lazy but it's clear you don't push yourself or challenge yourself. You have a wife and job that are just "good", hobbies--but something is missing. That thing is goals. You aren't actively working towards things of true value and meaning to you. Find ways to challenge y…
/r/askTRP09/06/17 06:17 AM
10

Keep approaching, my friend. Documenting your journey can help focus key strengths and weaknesses in your strategy. Keep at it.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 03:22 AM
2

"Want to get a drink?"
/r/askTRP02/06/17 04:24 PM
1

Well I think there has been an issue with your behavior. You were on the rocks with the plate then took her to a museum. You might be thinking it's just a fun date, but girls interpret dates as a sign that you want more than just fucking. Based upon this, I can infer that you have done dates like this with her before and by extension make your relationship with her seem more than just fuck buddies in her mind. In my experience, girls view fuck buddies as just someone that comes over to fuck ever…
/r/askTRP31/05/17 06:39 PM
4

Lived in South Korea for two years. It's a very conservative society, but relatively easy to pick up girls online, at clubs, etc. Day game can be harder but most girls speak English. Be wary of hostile Korean men who may try to mate guard. Other than that it's relatively essy. Korean girls want an American boyfriend to practice English with. They'll take you around Korea and can be great tour guides to delicious food and temples. Be wary of girls that want to get knocked up and marry and escape …
/r/askTRP17/05/17 10:31 PM
1

"Me not dumping your ass, now do what I asked." With a shit-eating grin.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 05:21 AM
1

Would you rather live a life with the possibility of improving yourself or the vast nothingness of nonexistence? Death is permanent. Stop blaming others/yourself for your unhappiness and change your life for the better.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 05:40 AM
8

First, continue to escalate until she ouright refuses. Take a break, escalate. Repeat until she puts out. Have fun and dont show frustration. If she really says to stop, then make your expectations clear in a concise, matter-of-fact way: "I'm a grown man. I don't hold hands and snuggle and play cutesy. I have sex like adults do. If you're not down with that then we're not gonna work." I've done this with resistant girls and it's worked. They change their behavior and become compliant. If she doe…
/r/askTRP25/04/17 05:01 AM
3

Leave the country or deal with it and be on the hook for child support after she realizes the kid is expensive. At the very least figure out what you may be on the hook for through internet research/lawyer. Finally, you can attempt to be a father, which is super hard mode. Who knows: your instincts might take over after the little tyke is born. Good luck and keep working on yourself.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 04:51 AM
3

It's probably because it's a huge cultural taboo to be with you so they have their fun then ghost. Don't take it personally. Keep trying and one one two should stick despite the taboo. Just have fun.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 03:28 PM
1

Troll.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 01:57 PM
1

"Tight pussy"
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:28 AM
1

I am not a perfectionist but I procrastinate often. One way to get around it is to set aside an hour for working on what needs to get done, then spend an hour doing something fun you want to do, then an hour of work, etc. This breaks work up into manageable chunks so it doesn't seem as overwhelming while also allowing you to not wait until the last minute. Sometimes you'll even find that instead of an hour you will work through until your task is complete.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 02:42 PM
2

The fact that she wants to wait means she doesn't want to fuck, for whatever reason. You probably don't want to find out why years later. But yes, say you thought a lot about her ultimatum and decided to respect her decision. Then tell her you're breaking up.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:54 PM
2

Yeah. OP, dont come onto TRP expecting us to slap you on the back and call the kid a faggot and that you acted like an alpha or held frame etc. It's clear that what he said bothered you enough to post it online to strangers in the effort to feel vindicated for how you handled the situation. That demonstrates that you are in the "I discovered the pill and am trying to figure out if I'm doing it right" phase. Fuck this kid, fuck the class, fuck liberal education. Your journey is far from over. Wat…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 01:48 AM
1

I thought exactly this after watching it. It's hilarious because girls think it's a very sweet movie and they try to perpetuate the BB practice.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:17 AM
2

Takes a while until it becomes a part of you naturally.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 04:16 PM
1

Why'd you text like a pussy? Just save it for when you come home and tell her to her face you don't want to hang out. Who cares about saving her time or being considerate.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 04:01 AM
2

Who cares stupid post.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 07:34 PM
3

Eh stay away from Asian girls. If she's trying that hard to get laid she's propositioning multiple dudes and something is weird. There's a reason she reeks of desperation. She asked YOU to cook for her? That's weird. Bitches should cook for YOU. I was in a similar situation with a Chinese girl on tinder. She wanted someone to take her virginity because she was getting older (23) but then at the same time wanted to marry someone. Chinese and most asians are very traditional. Be weary. She might a…
/r/askTRP07/03/17 06:52 PM
3

I had braces and still did well in the pussy dept when I was 28. Now they're off after a year and my SMV is even higher. Braces are good because they pay off but also are great training for deflecting shit tests and motivating you to work harder on your diet and body to compensate. Most girls I found don't care much or even at all when you have your shit together (looks/job/hobbies/friends).
/r/askTRP07/03/17 06:46 PM
5

I agree generally. There will always be concern trolls in threads espousing morals and what "a real man would do" regarding cheating, lying etc.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 02:08 AM
1

A man doing as he chooses and deciding to live by morals is fine, but the point to where a man instructs another to not do something because it's immoral is crossing the line. That's concern trolling that doesn't belong here.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 06:20 PM
1

Amoral, not immoral. Do you know the difference? Regardless, no one should be morally brigading about what a man "should do" when framing it as a moral question. This crops up constantly on this sub: the question of "is it OK to cheat?" Time and time again concern trolls come on to beat their chests and say "as a MAN you should always do x or y, because that's what REAL men do." In fact, that statement is no different from society and women shaming men into a relationship and/or responsibilities…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 06:02 PM
1

Anyone who isn't a concern troll on theredpill KNOWS that TRP isn't about moralizing. TRP is amoral. Your ad hominem attacks against women are pretty sad too.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:09 PM
4

Moralizing troll. Red pill is not about morals. Fuck off.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 04:39 PM
7

Hey man I had the same issue for years when I was in early 20s. For whatever reason I was seeking comfort from women before we bang because it would relieve my performance anxiety. After a few goes I would be fine. Now, I don't have that issue. The cure? No fap, no porn. After a few weeks/months your brain does a soft reset regarding arousal and anxiety and you won't have mental problems.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 03:33 PM
2

"You're fired."
/r/askTRP14/02/17 05:15 PM
3

Great I imagine.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 11:26 PM
1

I do one date rule where bang that night unless she promises to make 2nd date worth my while.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 09:59 PM
15

Good. Bang hot young thangs.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:35 PM
5

Archwinger is legend round these parts. Deigning to yell at you is high praise. Sink or learn to swim.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:26 PM
16

Why you dating a post-wall woman?
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:20 PM
0

Say "Can I watch?"
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:13 PM
1

Well some girls want to play the relationship game and get your commitment before she will give her body. Girls like that should be ghosted unless they shape up.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 06:11 PM
1

You doing kino? Gotta get the touch going and kiss at the venue or shortly after. Keep trying dude some girls are harder to Crack than others.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:24 PM
0

Sound a Lil defensive dude.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 09:01 PM
-1

Well she wasn't into you, that was clear. Hitting the gym harder is always a safe assumption.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 08:47 PM
-1

Eh seems clear to me you overinvested time and resources in this girl who felt very lukewarm towards you. Making dinner? Three dates? So blue pill. You're offering resources and time for this woman's pussy. She shut you down every time and you didn't rally and overcome. She was in control the whole time. Now you're down time money and saddled with blue balls and a bruised ego. Lesson learned is hit the gym even harder, hold frame and deal with ASD better, and expect sex or next. Show her you're …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 06:33 PM
1

Don't ask the fish how they're caught. Ask the fisherman.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 05:36 PM
1

Wait for her to text you then meet up again? Not rocket science.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:34 PM
2

Shit or comfort aside, matching and setting up a date a week later is a looooong time in tinderland. Ideally you would match and set up a date 1 to 3 days later so that interest hasn't cooled so much. With each passing day girls get colder and colder feet. In my experience, girls will flake more the further out a date is. If you can't set up a date one to three days after match, then you're just gonna have to deal with shit like this. Personally I think it's a comfort test because girls often im…
/r/askTRP02/02/17 08:24 PM
5

Are you retarded? Just because a woman is the loudest attention seeking whore of the party doesn't mean she's more confident. Men across the board are more confident and have actual reasons for that confidence. Most women get confidence from their looks, which is not as weighty as confidence from actual achievements/hardship, not to say there aren't women confident because of hard work.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 05:50 PM
2

You did well. Soft next until you or she makes plans to hook up again. If you're in a place of abundance, it doesn't matter if she comes or goes. If she flakes a 3rd time though, hard next ghost.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 05:47 PM
1

"Cumming buckets" sure she wasn't faking orgasms to soothe your shattered ego? Realize this whole thing could have been avoided if you had amused mastery or confidence and didn't fail her shit test. You being butt hurt for a week is not the way to lead your woman. You have to tell her the way things are and the rules. Lead by example. She was mirroring you the whole way. You failed her shit test so hard and she felt like shit right with you. If you had laughed her comment off and finished or tri…
/r/askTRP29/01/17 03:53 PM
2

I agree. Some pussies can be small and tight and wet. Others seem loose and dry. Height is hit or miss too. Ive been with a short skinny thai girl that had a loose dry pussy and a short white girl who was heavier but had the shortest, tiniest canal that makes u come in 5 seconds. Haven't been with many tall women but my experience is they're mostly average to larger vaginas sizes. Have yet to bang a tall chick with a small tight one. Anyone?
/r/askTRP22/01/17 03:50 PM
1

Perfect.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 02:38 AM
1

I had a girl do this once. I made her cum with my hand and she wouldnt put out or return the favor. Just said "that hasnt happened before, thats not supposed to happen so fast." She was a weird girl though. Acted very prude. Would meow and act like a cat. Despised men but wanted a solid boyfriend for status and security. I ghosted her hard after that. I think some SJWS may do this as some sort of penis envy male revenge type fantasy practice to LOL at with their friends later. They see men get o…
/r/askTRP17/01/17 07:07 PM
1

While their could be a lot of reasons a girl won't bang you (not feeling fresh, STD, period, seeing someone else, yeast, or lack of attraction/tingles), you should let her know that you won't stand for prudishness and withdraw your attention till she starts putting out. The tough part is playing it off with amused mastery and not coming off like a butt hurt man child.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 04:24 PM
2

You trust her because you're young and inexperienced and WANT to trust her. The shit she's doing is sketchy. The fact that she said "he'll be at work" and all the other factors shows that she thinks very deeply about logistics and has figured out what to say to make you at ease. Trust your gut. What she's doing is inappropriate. Sounds like this guy was her first serious relationship. Young girls take a long time to fully get over those. She is bored with you and wants to reignite the flame unde…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:08 PM
1

You lack abundance and come from a needy place to be still asking whether this girl is OK after those 10+ red flags. Drop immediately before she harms your time money and life.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 10:52 PM
15

Feed them their dinner only out of your hand for weeks. Then take the bowl and put it down with nothing in it and feed them out of your hand near the bowl for a few days. Then put the food in the bowl in small amounts and be close (but be safe). If you can put a stick object into the bowl (something that acts like a hand but is not, for safety) and fiddle with the food and they don't attack it then you're good. Finally, when you can put the full food bowl down then take the food bowl away and th…
/r/askTRP26/12/16 05:55 AM
1

Ask her out to drinks she wants to fuck but not be tied down.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 05:02 AM
10

No I've orchestrated similar ASD takedowns like this. Good job, man. I agree it's all about pushing, taking a little break, pushing further, repeat.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 07:21 PM
1

I want her babies? Dafuq.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 06:57 AM
12

You ignore them too and move on.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 12:29 AM
2

Escalate and touch her when possible. Kiss at the summit has worked well for me before: "this view's so beautiful I just have to kiss you" with a shit eating grin. Then make the move.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 08:47 PM
1

This is ficking hilarious. Looks like a lukewarm way to break up with you and have plausible deniability about actually doing the break up. If you don't initiate the breakup then she knows you're a cuck and she wears the pants. Classic plausible deniability power move.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 05:10 PM
3

You're definitely still plugged in. I used to be this way too, wanting to "trust" a girl before I bang them because I had dick issues. What it boils down to is a comfort thing: when you feel you can trust them somewhat your dick issues clear up. This is blue pill frame. I agree no fap and no porn helps rewire your brain to fix the boner issue. It will take time, but eventually after you go on more and more dates with girls and close more often, you'll open up and realize banging strange is excit…
/r/askTRP07/12/16 02:49 PM
2

The problem is you're trying to use text to build rapport and sexual tension. Stop. Texting is for logistics. Let the magic happen in person. Otherwise you're wasting the precious time you have on this earth as well as awkward shit like this happening. Texting is for logistics.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 07:59 PM
1

Hey dude. I had this exact same problem. Was 16 and was drunk, couldn't keep it up and it affected me mentally for years. I got major performance anxiety whenever it was time to bang and would go soft. Had some really awkward and painful moments that deepened the scarring. It's a process, but one major thing that helps is to stop porn altogether. After a few weeks/months your brain does a soft reset regarding how you get aroused. No fap also helps a lot with this. Once your brain resets, you'll …
/r/askTRP29/11/16 04:34 PM
10

In my experience with revenge, the person who ends up hurting most is you. The best revenge is to divorce your wife and become the best version of yourself through hard work, exercise, diet, cultivating hobbies and friends that add to your life.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 06:13 PM
1

Just confront her dude. Be completely honest. If she ain't cool with it then she can gtfo. Don't tiptoe. Sounds like you're more high value than her anyway based on her constant praise.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 09:56 PM
1

Sounds like she just wants to put you on notice with trickle truth so she doesn't feel bad about making out with another guy. This is a red flag and likely means she is cheating/cheated on you. No woman is worth getting a criminal record for.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 08:25 PM
1

HAH 25 women. Just a numbers game dude. Try hundreds of girls messaged a month. Make sure you're not over-investing in speaking over dating apps. Just do this: "hey" "drinks?" "How about Friday?" "X bar, 8 pm" "see you there!" followed up by a "heading out see you there" before the date. Primacy is important though: don't do a date more than two days out, three days max. Girls ghosting is just a part of the game. That's all you need. Nothing lost. Only thing that matters is your pictures/stats e…
/r/askTRP07/11/16 06:52 PM
3

Don't give a fuck about being cool or impressing her and commit to nothing but focus on being high energy and fun. Have a good time. It's hard to fake your value but if you worked on yourself physically and mentally your value will naturally show. Never ever be serious or talk about serious things. If she does then steer the conversation away. Don't get super excited about the fact that you got a date... there will be another, and another, and another.... so many women out there man. Always esca…
/r/askTRP07/11/16 06:35 PM
1

If it were me or most other red-pill-minded guys, absolutely too long. I would endure being denied by a girl one or two weeks max if I was "dating" a girl before telling her that I need sex and hinting at going nuclear with whatever we had. Did that with my current LTR and we're really happy together. Women provide sex and men provide commitment. It's what we give each other and what's expected. A man will get frustrated when a girl expects him to give his commitment and doesn't provide sex. Any…
/r/askTRP07/11/16 01:54 PM
7

Start taking better care of your appearance (exercise more like aerobic and squats, buy form-fitting clothes that look good, wear make-up, get your nails did etc.). This will attract men. From there, you can choose one who has good masculine traits and solid career prospects. The trick will be finding one who doesnt just want to have sex and leave right away. There are various strategies to help with that. He'll stick around if you make him happy with being feminine, fun, regular sex, cooking, d…
/r/askTRP07/11/16 02:37 AM
1

She's doing the post-wall prance bt putting her absolute best forward to lock you down. Don't be surprised when after she's got you things start going south.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 02:24 AM
2

When girls pull your head towards their face they're subconscious and don't want you doing anything or looking at their bodies.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:43 PM
5

Eh probably lost it mostly, but I'd say you haven't met a high enough quality girl that you really click with.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 02:36 PM
2

For my current LTR after 3 years pill: Mutual sexual attraction and chemistry. Sex whenever I want. Always excited to see me and enthusiastic about us and things we do. Feminine and takes care of herself. Cooks for me. Cleans without me asking. Does laundry and puts away clothes. Works a job and pays for half of stuff. Mutual respect. Interested in long term goals and working towards them. Defers to my judgement and direction. Doesn't nag but isn't afraid to ask for help or remind me to do somet…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 09:29 PM
1

Ask her for drinks and stop with this witty garbage. Demonstrate your wit in person not over text.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 09:15 PM
1

Red flag don't commit to this girl. Have fun and leave when it gets bad. She does sound like a hooker b/c no friends. Even good- looking loner girls in my experience have at least one close girlfriend.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 09:10 PM
1

Eh I get laid off Bumble with good looking chicks.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 09:04 PM
8

Just do "hey." If they respond then ask if they want to get a drink. It's as simple as that. If she says yes then give her date time location ( no more than 3 days out). If she wants to know more about you you can oblige within reason over text but be weary of girls who want an LTR or are a lot of work and want a pen pal. If they blow you off then you lost nothing. Many girls will ignore you. A few will respond. Of those, only 1 to 4 a night will agree to drinks at the date/time/location. Of tho…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 09:03 PM
0

Have a talk with him. If he doesn't like your terms he can fuck off.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 08:46 PM
1

You can spot one when a girl is not really enthusiastic about anything and not much seems going on upstairs.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 04:14 AM
2

Get out of your head. This shit takes time. You had a bad first experience. There will be many more times. Just relax and have fun. You'll find a girl you feel comfortable with and then take off.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 04:12 AM
4

Run.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 01:07 AM
1

You need to communicate. Be clear and have her be clear. Tell her want you want without being a dick or whiney about it.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 04:00 PM
1

Your girl is a whore and maybe gets paid for it.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 03:30 PM
6

Bang a fat chick and after the disgust washes over you get motivated to bang hot girls.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 04:50 AM
3

I'm very boring myself but get pussy from good looks, height, confidence, humor.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 06:57 PM
2

Just have fun and then follow up with solo date. Still, makes it seem like vetting for LTR so may be waste of time if you only want plates.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 06:50 PM
2

Practice game by cold approaching girls, lifting, cultivating masculine hobbies and guy friends, working on your career, going on dates and escalating sexually with girls (I use tinder), learning abundance mentality and frame, amused mastery, and the ability to handle shit tests like a pro. This all takes time, hard work, and reflection.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 02:34 PM
8

In the best, most healthy and happy relationship I've ever had after taking the pill 3 years ago. I am the captain and she's my first mate. You have to sift through the garbage and remain positive and hold frame. There are a lot of bad partners out there and you will always get better at sorting the good from the bad. You WILL find a hot, good woman because of your practice and hard work.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 06:26 PM
1

Saw famous reddit post 3 years ago or so about how TRP is soulless and abusive to women so investigated. Mind was blown and all my beta angry baby behavior earlier with women, coupled with women's behavior, made so much sense. So I took action and my relationships, self-esteem, and quality of life have been improving steadily.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 06:09 PM
2

Don't worry about it and KEEP trying. Some girls will not be into you. It's happened to me and happened to others, and it won't stop you from scoring hard with even hotter chicks later. Whenever they seem disinterested and make an excuse about work tomorrow or they need to go home for some reason end it there. Don't be a dick, just act like it's fine and you don't give a shit while still being warm and funny. Who knows she may hit you up later if you handle yourself confidently.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 03:46 PM
3

Yeah you come off as having a fragile ego and unable to deal with conflict or uncomfortable scrutiny more than these girls disrespecting you. Even if they are, it's because you're not to the point to where you deserve respect yet. Keep your head down and work hard on yourself. Respect will come through hard work, not just because you recently swallowed the pill and starting lifting and losing weight.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 08:44 PM
3

Keep looking. No unicorns but can still have emotional connection with some. I've been pilling for years now and after a lot of girls met one that works the way I want her to. We have an emotional connection but I'm still willing to walk away if she strays or my career/aspirations require.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 10:50 PM
0

Why do you have to pay for her abortion? Wtf. Don't be a chump.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 10:29 PM
1

Nope. Sexual attraction is a must for LTR.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 10:23 PM
7

She's a whore. She may have only had 5 boyfriends but waaaay more sexual partners. Drinking and partying and backpacking across Europe all major red flags. Don't give your commitment to a whore. Just have fun, plate her, and move on when the relationship stops adding to your life in a positive way. You're stuck in the binary thinking of "we're LTR or nothing." Just have fun but don't give a whore your commitment. She rode the cock carousel and ain't done yet. The fact that she already said "mayb…
/r/askTRP29/09/16 01:54 PM
9

She's pulled the wool over your eyes. You've admitted you've caught the feels. Now recognize it's only downhill and you only have things to lose from now on. So many of the things she's told you: you're number 2, you're best in bed, you share SO MANY COMMON INTERESTS, etc etc. are bullshit. She's doing the pre-wall prance, putting her best foot forward. She's not hiding the kid from you because she's cool. It's because she doesn't want you running. Sharing the same beliefs is usually bullshit wi…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:54 PM
2

Just say "we need a break." Keep it simple and do whatever you want. Only let her into your life when she adds more than she takes away.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 02:47 AM
4

Girls have a ton of reasons like yeast infection, period, STD, self-conscious about pubic hair not shaved, whatever. Give her a few more goes and if she still stops you then move on. Practice amused mastery and frame and see it as a fun challenge.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 02:45 AM
18

Run fast and far, quietly. Dont give her any ammo. She did you a favor. It was a gamble on her part to make you commit so she has an excuse to treat you like shit later. It's basically a disguised "my way or the highway" where if you reject her you're a dick, and if you accept her she always can say "see i told you I'm a crazy bitch." Don't play her game.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 10:25 PM
15

Been RPing for 3 years now and never quite connected the dots in this way before. On Tinder I've been putting that I'm a law student. Maybe I should start saying I'm just a student, or something. I also have a nice condo, so how do I not display my value when she asks/comes home? Make jokes about being a secret agent or drug dealer? I feel like that can only go so far before she she gets weirded out. I feel like lying about having a solid job would still make me Provider Potential because i obvi…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 07:16 PM
5

Honesty is usually the best policy with these things. Ive had girls resist me like this in the past. I tell them that I want a sexual relationship and that I'm an adult and not in middle school holding hands and being cute. I've always had positive responses to this. They open up and the sex flows. If she is a bitch or difficult, then you can easily move on. Your time is precious dude. Always be upfront and honest. There are only benefits to this.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 08:40 PM
13

Dude for that to happen is hugely telling. It's time to begin your journey to self - actualization. Dump her calmly, start lifting and eating clean. Cultivate friends who are alpha. Take up hobbies that create value. Work on your career. Gain respect for yourself and learn how and when to say no and walk away. Cut down on video games and drugs/ masturbation. Welcome.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 10:41 PM
2

Don't hesitate. "No." "Why not?" "Thats weird. You're weird." "Ok."
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:32 PM
5

I'd have to agree this is the best way. Dunno why you're getting downvoted except by pussies. This question CAN be asked, especially by a tinder date. Yes, it is a red flag and a shit test. Once you say "fuck no" two things happen. 1 she is disgusted and the date is over. Congrats, you saved your time/energy/potentially criminal charges for "rape" after you bang this woman and she decides she regretted it or wants to punish you for being a cis shitlord. She laughs and agrees and/or is aroused th…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:41 PM
1

Welcome.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 12:13 AM
5

Eh still feel bad for my fellow man.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 07:42 PM
2

Ew. Moralizing come-at-me-bro type.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 07:19 PM
1

If shes hot I think yay it's a sign that she wants me. If shes ugly i think awkward. I mean... what do you really expect to get out of a shitpost like this?
/r/askTRP24/08/16 07:16 PM
3

All the time, because feelz = reality.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 06:46 PM
18

Somewhat related. I work in a criminal court and yesterday observed a case where a woman called the cops on her boyfriend for attempting to leave the house after he grabbed his phone from her (she was using it to keep him there) and she fell out of her chair. Dude is in prison 4 months before trial for assault and disorderly conduct (to be fair, he had priors, but he was arrested because of this). On the stand, the girlfriend (because feelz) says she lied and made it up. She even admitted to bei…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 06:16 PM
0

Befriend them but act like an equal.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 12:47 AM
2

It happens. Ain't nothing you can do about it. Work on more girls. It shouldn't bother you much if a girl doesn't call you back or respond. There could be a variety of reasons why. You need abundance mentality. Game a lot of girls, and once you have a few plates you won't give two fucks if a girl answers or not.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 05:15 AM
1

Well with tinder I only text matches with "drinks?" If they say yes or want to flit a little I'll allow it, then ask what days they can do it. If date works, I tell them place and time (a bar 5 mins away, I usually switch between two or three to not be seen all the time at the same place with different women). I make sure it's only hours, a day or two out so that they don't forget about me or it. Then I stop talking to them unless they keep texting. A few hours before the date I'll confirm and t…
/r/askTRP14/08/16 03:55 AM
12

Eh. You're young. She's young. You're learning.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 07:37 AM
-5

Don't go on coffee dates get drinks.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:39 AM
1

Well spoke with a buddy of mine and he believes that her admitting she had a good time goes to the heart of the matter regarding consent, so it would likely be admissible and help your case. So, it's a good idea.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 06:23 PM
3

I've upgraded this to "drinks?" with good results. It shows you're more sexual and cuts through all the bullshit a lot of girls like to throw. It also weeds out the attention-seekers and girls that want to make you "work" before they deign to have sex with you. While coffee can work, drinks in my experience has a lot higher rate of taking the girl home and fucking after you first meet them.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 02:46 PM
7

I'm pretty sure her admission of having a good time does nothing in the court of law. Might help pursuade a jury though.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 06:31 PM
2

It means she feels like she isn't getting as much out of the arrangement as you are---regardless of the actuality of the situation. In my experience when girls start whining for more they get immediate withdrawal of my time until they correct themselves. After that, if conditions persist then next.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:15 PM
0

Great job. Now go delete your account so you don't get doxxed.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 05:26 AM
1

Eh. In my experience women will look for any excuse to not show up when they aren't feeling it. Don't take it personally, just part of the game. It's all about numbers anyway. She should be one of 20 women you proposition over tinder a day.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 11:35 PM
18

Eh. A girl told me she just wants to cuddle and then we had sex. You didn't escalate. Escalate until you hit a giant stop sign, then leave. You're a busy man and ain't got time for shit like that.
/r/askTRP04/07/16 12:49 AM
4

Yeah it's an expensive place because she wants you to pay and get a free meal with her buddy, and then laugh at you after they say goodbye.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 10:35 PM
1

Just text logistics. If she knows ppl in your friend group that could be a reason. Try again and just focus on having fun, not on closing. It will relax and center you during the date. Otherwise you might feel a lot of pressure to close (depending on where you're at with game). Still, don't let her waste your time. She may think you're hooked and may abuse that ( no kisses until third date, etc.) If she jerks you around like that just soft next her with no hard feelings. Always escalate.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 01:53 AM
1

Sounds fucking terrible. Find a better one.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 06:02 PM
1

Yes. It's what they do.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:52 PM
1

Classic ASD. I've experienced this a good amount being a 28 yr old male. Don't be deterred and keep escalating. Instead of attacking her verbally or getting hurt just keep it light and fun. Take her out on another date. If she does the same thing then next her. She may reach out to you later. I used to think women use ASD to get guys. That's partially right but I now think ASD is just that they're not into you that much and waiting will make you chase harder. Think about it. If you were Leo on t…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:46 PM
1

She's grooming you to be her beta orbiter/emotional tampon. Young girls do this all the time. She loves your attention, your validation, your support. Don't give her any until she puts out.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:18 PM
3

Could be a few reasons. Maybe she wants to fuck you. Maybe she wants you two to break up because you make her jealous or take her friends time. Maybe you're an example of dudes that cheapen the market because you get easy pussy with little to no effort or commitment. Maybe it's maybeline.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:08 PM
2

Sounds like she has no idea what she's doing but wants to be with you. Giant red flags tho with all the dumb shit she says. You should have looked at her straight in the eyes after she said she sucked some other guy and said "you're a dirty slut aren't you?" It was likely her retarded attempt at trying to show you she's available and wants to be your fuck toy. Anyway, don't stick your dick in crazy etc. etc.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:01 PM
1

Never settle. Why commit half your assets to a meh relationship when you don't have sex and are unfulfilled?
/r/askTRP28/06/16 04:50 PM
11

You can't change her and you can't negotiate desire. You can only control yourself and your path. If she doesn't want to follow you then leave. You'll be suprised to find there are women just as or more attractive than her who will treat you better and adore you.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 04:31 PM
2

That's stupid. It's good to lay ground rules and expectations if moving in together but writing them down is extreme.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 10:25 PM
1

Maybe she's seeing other people. Hold frame and don't care when she changed behavior.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 10:24 PM
1

Yeah she had sex with one of them, feels guilty, so trickle-truthed about her pants being down when she woke up so it was implied funny business occurred but that it was out of her control. Typical smoke and mirrors.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 10:01 PM
2

That she wants the D and you're mysterious.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 03:23 AM
1

Yeah I never meet up anywhere except a bar. No food, no coffee, no walking around (unless after the bar). I'm not a pickup god nor do I have a dog so it's more difficult to go back to my place after those daytime-type activities. It's also harder to escalate in those situations without alcohol. Like has been said, I agree you should never self-deprecate. It's not attractive and opens you up for more criticism. Never engage her in chat about her ex or any other emotional/relationship bullshit. Yo…
/r/askTRP17/06/16 09:51 PM
1

From what little info you gave us, I would say you ruined it through texting. Use text for logistics only. Never try to escalate over text unless it's just a hookup from a dating app. Escalation is in-person.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 03:56 PM
1

Naw that makes it a fun group thing. Your boys could get action instead of you. Make it all about yourself and flirt with both of them.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 01:45 AM
1

Have fun and flirt with both of them. Sounds like there's a good chance she won't show anyway. Have fun and escalate sexually with them.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 01:41 AM
3

Next. "Took advantage of her" is fucked up.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 12:30 AM
1

Yup
/r/askTRP10/06/16 12:05 AM
14

Rub your hard cock on her butt, vag for a little bit (dry humping). Take off her panties, lick your hand and wet your dick, stick it in and go to pound town. Source: did it this morning.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 06:24 PM
2

I just nod and say "alright" and then continue escalating. Stop when she gets especially agitated. Continue to smile and be light hearted. If she senses that you don't give a fuck and are relaxed she'll mirror you. If she stops you, re-escalate later. Alcohol or some other inebriant helps wear down ASD really well.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 06:14 PM
0

Sounds like she wasn't comfortable. That's why alcohol is nice loosens inhibitions. If she asked you out to clubbing she likes you but isn't ready.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 09:10 PM
6

Probably a yeast infection. Tell her to get it looked at.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 04:33 PM
4

She writes like a young teen having feeeelz. Reflects her iternality.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 08:58 PM
2

I'm so offended. Anyway yes it does. The lighter your skin usually the higher your SMV. However I would say looks/game trump race. Race is just icing on the cake.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 07:28 PM
4

Nothing. Plates have a life expectancy between a week - three months in my experience. Once the glow has worn off and they are denied an LTR so many times they move on. Just soft next and don't be surprised when she texts you next week to meet up.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 07:27 PM
1

"Hey" If they answer back I say "drinks?" Anything else isn't worth my time.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 08:28 PM
2

She wants you as a beta orbiter: an emotional tampon and back-up boyfriend whenever she needs. She's probably getting fucked by another dude who is more exciting but she'd like to string you along as backup. Escalate with her in person until kissing and sex. If she denies you despite overcoming her Anti-slut defense then soft next.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 08:09 PM
2

Some bitches are terrible at making conversation. Just the way it is. Don't try to bend over backwards to make the convo more interesting. Show you're bored too, but escalate sexually. You're on your 3rd date without scoring means you're too conservative. She's just a girl like any other girl. Don't be hesitant or "nice" because she seems shy or bad at talking. Escalate to sex and if she hard denies you many times (more so than the regular anti slut tests we all overcome in the regular) then sof…
/r/askTRP03/06/16 01:13 PM
-1

Probably fucked his girlfriend I guess.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:01 PM
1

Wow someone feels really salty towards you. Good job.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 10:36 PM
4

Overthinking. Pursue other women simultaneously and embrace abundance mentality. She'll like you even more.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 10:19 PM
2

It's called the post-wall prance, or the approaching the wall prance, where girls try rreaaaallly hard to lock a man down. There's a great post about it you can Google it. Don't be fooled of course. Take full advantage and string her along then dump her ass.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:52 AM
25

She wants to fuck how dumb are you?
/r/askTRP31/05/16 07:07 PM
4

He doesn't want it because you're familiar and the girls online are strange.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 07:05 PM
1

Eh just nerves. Tell her it's just nerves and to give you a second chance and that it always resolves itself.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 04:26 AM
2

Could go either way. I date a 22 yr old (I'm 28) and we don't usually talk about it or joke about it. She's pretty mature for her age, tho. It can be fun and sexy tho to joke and play about the big age gap. Makes sexy time more taboo and fun. Just chat her up and gauge her type of personality. If she seems lighthearted or mischievous go with age difference. Just be careful to not be self deprecating about it or you court the creepy vibe. I would go with the safer route where you don't mention th…
/r/askTRP27/05/16 04:10 AM
6

If there's anything I've learned. Calling a girl you hate a slut to her face or over text is bad because it causes YOU to feel angry and unhappy about as much or more than she will feel. Imagine what Leonardo Dicaprio would do if he saw an ex. He would smile confidently, make small talk and go about his business like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 04:00 AM
2

I used to do coffee but it's real tough to escalate during day to fucking. Either be extremely sexual from the beginning and have her come to your place (with promises of alcohol or something else) and hook up, or do drinks at night. Friday or Saturday is the best for them to spend the night and bang.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 04:48 PM
1

Girls younger than 21 flake the most.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 04:26 PM
2

Invite her over and fuck her.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 08:35 PM
1

Yes. Bang other girls and if you get back together, never tell her but feel empowered knowing you banged other girls easily when she starts acting like she has a platinum vagina. Really helps with abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 07:13 PM
5

Sometimes it's feast or famine dude. Shit can get cyclical. She was 100% gaming you and trying to condition you to be her provider/orbiter. She wanted to see how thirsty you were and saw you could walk away and she was likely getting enough attention/action to be able to let you go easily. Some girls just won't be attracted to you no matter what you do. You can't negotiate desire, only work on yourself as much as possible. Be happy and love yourself. Keep working at meeting girls. It's a numbers…
/r/askTRP21/05/16 01:21 AM
1

Sounds like you're doing all the right things.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 07:32 PM
2

Sounds like it may be too late for your relationship. In the meantime are you working on improving your looks? Hitting the gym? Doing your hair, makeup, nails? Do you look and act like an awesome partner? He needs space. Use this space to work on yourself. If he sees the improvements he might be impressed and take you back. Otherwise work on being the best possible version of yourself physically, mentally, emotionally. If it doesn't work with him you'll be in the best position to attract a quali…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 07:22 PM
3

Wow you get girls that say they want to hook up that quickly? Must be a sexy man or hunting low on the totem pole.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 03:22 AM
1

Just happens dude. Sometimes schedules don't match up. Just soft next and ask her later.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 10:23 PM
9

Not everyone can survive the pill. Plug back in like Cypher or take the easy way out.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 06:58 PM
1

The Grey. Liam Neeson dealing with the death of his wife (here the BP dream) and surviving in the Alaskan wilderness against a pack of man-eating wolves (the harsh realities of the Red Pill).
/r/askTRP18/05/16 06:55 PM
2

Boyfriend = status for them. Everything a woman does comes down to status, security, or escape.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 06:07 PM
3

Then act like nothing happened and continue with her. Gotta cover your tracks tho.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 05:53 PM
5

Fool around hard. Just realize your boredom will increase, not become satisfied when she comes back.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 04:33 PM
1

You're fine if you hit the gym and become desirable.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 10:37 PM
2

If you want some context, the other night I banged a med student off tinder. She told me about 10 times that she wasn't going to have sex with me. Each time I brushed it off, smiled and laughed, and said I wasn't going to make her do anything she didnt want to. With a little perserverance I broke through her token resistance. It's called Anti Slut Defense. Healthy normal girls do this. If they didn't I'd be alarmed. In reality of course she's a slut. She just doesn't want you to know right off t…
/r/askTRP15/05/16 11:28 PM
3

This in Arizona? Might know this chick.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:21 AM
2

Yeah he was not doing so hot. I think they made that clear.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 03:35 PM
1

Look up on YouTube there are a few entertaining videos of girls verbally abusing and hitting guys and the dudes finally decide to hit back and knock them the fuck out. It's hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 03:33 PM
11

There was a lot of feminist bullshit in that film that irritated me. Like how she was an amazing shot. One scene where she took the sniper rifle from Max and used him to steady it and shot the bad guy after he missed 1000 times. Also Furiosa killing immorten Joe after he gave her high rank and responsibilities. It was symbolic of the "modern woman" rising up and destroying the old white patriarchy.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 03:32 PM
1

Yup. Look at Jessica Jones. Female power fantasy on overdrive. Only thing they got right was her next-level retard decision making that kept getting people killed and letting the villain get away, because feelz.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 03:27 PM
1

She sees some type of value in you and wants to harness it. My guess: another orbiter to her harem. She's probably figured out that when she approaches lower SMV dudes and gives them attention they quickly fall in love and become her slaves. I don't know if you have the confidence to close with this girl. I would apply RP knowledge to fuck her and flip the script. But since you sound pretty bamboozled she may sense it and back off when you try to escalate. I think it's worth a try though. You li…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 03:18 PM
2

You acted really insecure and failed her shit tests again and again. She easily got you mad multiple times. Also sounds like you're pedestalizing. You're romanticizing aspects of this girl like: she smells amazing. Not sure why but your patience and ability to deal with shit is child level. From this post I'm guessing you're young and inexperienced: that's fine. You likely ruined all chances with this girl. You got mad and she saw it. She easily controlled your emotions and controlled you. MOVE …
/r/askTRP13/05/16 03:09 PM
4

Soft next. Pursue other girls and if she wants to hang out do the deed. Could have been an escalation issue on your part, could have been pussy issue. Doesn't matter. Move on and remain positive like nothing happened with her if she hits you up again.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 02:52 PM
3

Energetic, fun.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 04:17 AM
7

I was an avid redpill student and tried to be the "cool guy" to attract girls. Eventually I realized it wasn't me and chose to be really passionate instead of cool and distant and it increased my win rate dramatically. Plus I had a lot more fun and enjoyed myself. Women pick up on it hard now and I can melt even the most staunch ASD.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 01:31 AM
15

Yup you've gotten to that point where you mix RP knowledge with your own style and start to slay. Clicked for me a few months ago after 2 years of RP.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 12:52 AM
3

I've been walking the line on this for a few months. Went through the anger phase, acceptance phase, a few BP relapses (over 2 year span), and finally met a hot young girl who has a lot of good RP traits that I 'click' with. Gotta constantly remind myself she's just a woman and AWALT, regardless of how she acts now.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 11:39 PM
1

I agree. They're not all that way but most general politeness and courtesy has flown out the window. My girl says thank you every day and let's me know she's grateful. That's why I keep her around.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 01:57 PM
12

She's obviously a giant whore. You have oneitis. Welcome to TRP. Dump her and hit the gym.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 06:20 AM
13

Either self-conscious, on their period, have bad experiences with other dudes eating, STD or yeast infection.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 05:53 AM
2

Drinks tonight?
/r/askTRP06/05/16 12:12 AM
11

Good write-up. A good post a day keeps the blue pill away.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 11:34 PM
1

10-15 hours is crazy. Hooked up with a 7 med student with a few lines of text for logistics and a couple beers. She said she appreciated my directness and brevity.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 10:17 PM
3

If you want to be dominant and put aside your sub stuff, it's gonna take time and effort. Keep trying with other girls, even if it's painful. Or channel the sub need to be controlled into the dom need to control. Find a super fem sub woman and dominate her. There will be hickups, but working through such an addiction is tough. Also, would swear off all porn and masturbation. This has been a sort of reset switch for your brain in my experience and helps ground me in the present when I fuck a woma…
/r/askTRP05/05/16 12:01 AM
1

Sounds lame to me but it could be a good thing.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 10:32 PM
2

Learn to start shutting your mouth when you want to make a negative remark about others. It creates a more positive relationship environment and you'll feel better too.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 11:51 PM
1

The comments were removed. Anyway, I scored the other day on Tinder by opening with "drinks tonight?" I have to admit she asked where I was from and we said a few lines of small talk. Then I told her where and she agreed. She told me at the bar that she appreciated my direct approach and hated small talk. Generally she agreed it was a waste of time and wanted someone who was straightforward with their intentions. I fucked her that night and drove her back to her car in the morning.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 02:21 PM
5

Downvoted for no reason except angry trolls. You're right, of course.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 12:52 AM
2

Sex is important and if you don't put out I put you out. Also to clean up after herself at my place.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 09:34 PM
1

Now you wait. Most likely not gonna work with her schedule. Try and reschedule in a few days, but only a few days out from the new proposed date.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 02:30 AM
1

Closing over text after already meeting can get the job done but feels like cheating, especially if you're doing it for posterity.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 02:27 AM
1

Part of it for sure. And healthy in this sense meaning sizable
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 09:14 PM
-1

Next. Don't waste time on one for nothing like I did. Time sink and useless.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 10:33 PM
3

I was spanked as a young child (up until 4 or 5). I always had healthy respect for my Dad and was well-behaved. When he spanked me, he wasn't angry. He was very stern, spanked me, asked if I knew what I did wrong, then said he loved me and hugged me. I will spank my child the same way.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 01:23 AM
2

Arizona State.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 05:43 PM
2

I go to ASU. Can't walk a few feet without seeing hot young women.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 05:05 PM
1

Look at it as a challenge. Flirt with or befriend her buddy depending on the sex. Have fun. She'll be impressed with your frame. Hit her up later for an exclusive date.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 03:59 AM
1

I appreciate that. Have a good one.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 01:50 AM
1

I don't see an issue. What does "giving your word" mean to you? Saying "you're my girlfriend?" "I'm not seeing anyone else?" "Will you marry me?" Or "I promise I will never cheat on you?" Who explicitly states shit like that. When do you become "official" and your "word is given"? Is it like a contract? When you utter certain words a sacred pact is made in the sky? It's all subjective. You're still saying "a man should do this or that." I know you want to believe the red pill is a guide for how …
/r/askTRP21/04/16 12:14 AM
4

It's REALLY bad.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 10:44 PM
5

"Part of being a man..." You sound not far off from the masculine-shaming feminists that spout such platitudes as "a REAL man would do X" Toolkit. Amorality. Fuck off.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 10:24 PM
1

Do you ever feel bad for thirsty betas?
/r/askTRP20/04/16 08:37 PM
1

Yeah! Cheating is bad and you're a pussy if you do it! (R 38 of Power).
/r/askTRP20/04/16 08:35 PM
8

Honorable? Oh yeah there's a ton of sidebar material on that.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 08:30 PM
1

Raising strong red pill children is a good goal. Just keep your head on a swivel when vetting potential long-term mates. Hell, I've read stories on here where women were perfect RP mates but then after X years turned a 180 and went batshit insane/divorce- raped their men. It's sad. In 2016 the law does not enforce good marital behavior. Go into an LTR and children expecting to be fucked royally. It's the price you most likely will pay.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 04:33 PM
3

It's just her ASD dude. Most girls saying they just want to cuddle means "I hope you have the balls to fuck me good." You took her too literally.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 02:58 PM
1

Oh. You're fucked. Find a local peasant girl.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 02:17 PM
3

Have a couple bars that you rotate through for first dates, unless you're well known then find a new one. I like to make them close to home so getting her in bed is convenient. Make sure you're well-dressed and have a smart haircut. Texting is for logistics. I learned the hard way like you. You can have great texting "chemistry" that's sexual and fun and when you meet it's like, "oh." Texting is not generally for building excitement unless you deliver well in person. I had a hilarious (in retros…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 08:23 AM
1

Well you can start by saying how you approach.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:52 PM
2

The way you portray yourself here and reality are not the same. If you're willing to do whatever it takes then start approaching thin women and gaming them. Dread your girl so she tries harder. Can't fuck other girls while you're in a relationship? Dump her ass. "I feel bad" is stupid. Sexual strategy is amoral. Who cares if she does everything for you. It just goes to show her SMV is that much lower than yours. Stop commiting to women that aren't good enough. You're having trouble walking away.…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:32 PM
2

We're missing something from the picture here: you say you're super confident and perfect body yet you have a fat girlfriend with no tits you feel guilty about. Also you still sound insanely thirsty about thin girls... "I would literally do anything..." wtf. Not red pill dude. You need to read the sidebar. You sound very new. Read up.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:09 PM
1

Yeah ask her out. Don't go beta on her tho if she says yes.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:05 PM
3

Ok the issue is your attitude and confidence. There was a good Ayn Rand quote on here the other day: If you want a litmus for how a guy values himself, look at the girl on his arm. Fucking thin girls is about confidence, drive, success. My body is way less cut than yours and my girl is rail thin. You come off as very defensive and douchey in this post. You have a fat girlfriend you feel bad about leaving. Looks like a case of low self confidence. Moreover, don't come in here swinging your dick a…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 10:59 PM
1

Ok everyone is retarded in this post. OP, your game plan sound good. Take shirtless pics if you have a good body. Be subtle about your wealth, because the more you flaunt the more women expect a BB role from you.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 01:07 AM
1

Yeah mix of bad elements like you going into her frame when she invited you to another club and it being early. She was riding with her girls so there was probably pressure to continue looking for hotter guys. If you had invited her to a different club it might have been different. As was already said, you were too clingy and took the follower role.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 12:52 AM
1

Because it makes them more aware of their own lack of success.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 12:48 AM
9

Soft next. Still, this girl is making sex an exchange. She probably is the kind that gives an LTR maintenance sex. Plus third date just a shitty handjob? Girls and their rules are dumb. She's basically saying she's a whore who gave it all in the past but after Chads pumped and dumped she has to ration her "gifts." Fuck that. Have some other beta chump get elated that a girl is touching his dick. Girls should fuck and suck because they're horny for you and it's fun. YOU ARE THE PRIZE NOT HER AND …
/r/askTRP19/04/16 12:46 AM
1

You don't care because she's so below you in SMV. If an 8 or 9 told you that it would bother you.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 12:41 AM
1

Absolutely.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 02:58 PM
5

You know I've found a new trend among women that get cold feet: they say that they have to "take care of a friend" who suffered some loss. It changes every time, from cancer, to getting dumped, etc. It's their get-out-of-jail-free card. Every time it happens I just say "ok" and soft next. Total exculpation of any responsibility on their part so they don't have to confront you and have a potentially negative situation that gives them bad feels. They probably rationalize it that you "might get mad…
/r/askTRP17/04/16 03:56 AM
1

You are trying to buy her pussy. Get a fucking prostitute if you're going to do that. Have you even read red pill material? If you had, you would know paying for a trip with a girl you've been on three dates with without fucking is next level blue pill retardation.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 05:28 PM
0

My current girl has never cummed before (according to her). I'm somewhat lazy in bed and just like to fuck, but she's been good so I wanted to try this technique. You said every girl can cum. How should I approach the spiderman with this girl? Especially when she probably has mental hangups about cumming?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 03:47 AM
1

Get pussy on the regular and be successful among your peers and at work.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 11:42 PM
1

They can be tough, but you can have a string of mediocre dates and then have one with a hot girl that leads to sex. Just how the game works. It's like fishing or hunting.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 10:53 PM
1

I rarely get a second date/hangout without a K or Fuck close. If you don't K close, you're doing it wrong or you didn't find the girl attractive. The easiest way to K close is to sit NEXT to them and slowly escalate. Try your best to sit at the bar or, if at a booth, sit beside them at some point. Start with shoulder touching or putting your hand on her back, to palm-reading, to hand touching/holding, to kissing. Last night I K closed while sitting at the bar and after we walked to her car. She …
/r/askTRP13/04/16 10:28 PM
1

If I feel like it, I will reach out to her a day or two before next Wednesday to gauge her interest and make sure she wasn't just busy and actually didn't like me. Depending on the circumstances for why you soft-nexted, it's up to you to reach out or wait to hear from her. In this case I will ask one more time. Still, even for a med student, if she says she can't see you for a week it's a pretty large indication that she's not interested.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 10:07 PM
1

This reply is regarding Tinder dates, not cold approaches, day or night game. It's funny. I used to be a huge fan of thinking really hard to be funny or witty and about how I would act during a date. I tried to be the cool, aloof funny guy. I've come to realize through experience that no matter what you say over text, as long as you aren't creepy or retarded, a girl will go on a date with you if she wants, and won't if she doesn't. YOUR PICS ARE ALL THAT TRULY MATTER IN CREATING PRE-DATE TINGLES…
/r/askTRP13/04/16 09:47 PM
1

Some girls really get off when you degrade them, such as calling them stupid cunts or whores. Usually I don't say anything except "fuck" or saying her pussy is tight.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 12:45 PM
1

Yes it does make me happy. I know the game. Women crave a dude who takes charge and does what he wants without asking or apologizing (while being in shape and confident, of course). Men in today's age are raised by the government and single mothers to be gentle and supplicating. It's so funny and simple and sad. It's really sad about Germany. You guys have such a rich cultural history and are known for being extremely hard-working and innovative. Even the best countries fall to feminist culture.…
/r/askTRP13/04/16 12:41 PM
1

"Why do my eyes hurt?" "You've never used them before." "Welcome to the desert of the real."
/r/askTRP12/04/16 04:45 PM
13

When I fucked another girl and my main plate respected me more and begged me to fuck her harder and nastier.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 12:01 AM
11

Sounds like you need to lift, cultivate male friends, work hard at your job or school, and become a more desirable male. For me, I become more focused, attentive, and energetic. I wouldn't describe it as getting "needy" as motivated and positive.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 06:56 PM
1

It takes time and experience to ease into the leadership role. You need to stretch your sea legs and try it out a few times and over a few relationships. Eventually you'll be like me where you enjoy holding the reins. It doesn't mean you have to be a control freak or unbending asshole about it. Being reasonable is important. Occasionally I'll give her an A or B option, or attend a family/friend event that she invites me to. Overall, it's very satisfying when you get to that point. A woman genera…
/r/askTRP09/04/16 04:53 PM
1

If she does, just kiss her back confidently. Otherwise you risk losing them both instead of one.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 04:44 PM
4

Depends on the person. Some cut it out completely. Others whack it ocassionally to release steam. I don't whack it because I'm serviced regularly by my woman so don't get the blue ball issue. It feels more natural and sex is more satisfying instead of just something fun to do.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 04:43 PM
8

So true. TL:DR women only want the value you provide them through status, safety, and escape. They only "love you" for as much value you provide in any of these categories.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 04:40 PM
1

How would Leonardo Dicaprio handle two of his plates running into each other? Introduce them to each other, smile, then go about whatever business he was doing.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 04:33 PM
1

I've heard some dudes who come quick have to fap beforehand. I have the opposite problem: takes me longer than the average guy to cum.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 03:43 PM
6

Like I said 2 to 3 months. Saw results in a few weeks.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 03:16 PM
98

Dude checking in that stopped porn and masturbation and saw awesome results. I had to ween myself off and had a few relapses, but it's been 2 to 3 months now and everything seems back in order. Have a hot girl that I fuck regularly and the plumbing is working beyond expectation. Unplugging makes a huge difference and I feel a lot happier in general.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 12:54 AM
3

Comes down to your sexual market value. You work out, have nice hair, do your nails, have good hygiene, tasteful makeup you will attract better dudes. Also helps if you are fun, feminine, and not naggy or bitchy. Join the Red Pill Women sub for further guidance.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 12:37 AM
1

I'm 28 and got braces. They're a pain in the ass, expensive (3.6k), and lower my SMV. However, while I've found most girls dislike them they usually don't give a fuck. Getting braces hasn't hindered my ability to get strange pussy since I have my other shit in order: school, job, body, friends.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 07:32 PM
3

Hahahahahhahaha. The three fingers in my ass and have you watch was fucking hilarious. Probably creeped her the fuck out but was hilarious dude hahahahaha haha. Anyway they're both lost causes. First girl is unavailable and second girl is hostile. I've never been successful with hostile girls they're just a challenge. Most of them are bitches because they probably are on tinder just for shits and giggles and want to fuck with dudes, not fuck them.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 07:14 PM
3

The red pill is a toolkit. Use it to fuck other dudes or chicks. It comes down to preference.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 06:13 PM
1

Have the talk with her. If she says yes, great for the moment. If she says no, just walk away and watch the hamster spin. Maybe later you can hit her up and see where she's at.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 06:10 PM
1

No, there's no chance. She's already over you. The psychologist helped her break up with you. Get over her and work on yourself and move on. You are the prize. Don't focus on making women happy. Instead, focus on making them invested in you by being the best version of yourself by working out, working on your career, and cultivating male friends.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 06:05 PM
4

"Show me a beautiful woman nd I'll find you a man who's tired of fucking her." Why do you give a fuck anyway. You are way too invested in thinking about this girl. Reserve your time and mental space for women who put out or soon will put out.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 05:38 PM
6

Move on.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 04:55 PM
1

She just called you beta bucks. You're doing it wrong and not escalating fast enough. Telling a girl that there's no rush to sex is giving her an excuse to use and abuse you. Just escalate sexually and keep all sex talk and sex negotiation minimum to non-existant. Do, don't speak.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 12:17 AM
1

This is like 5th date and you haven't kissed? Holy shit dude. Escalate and kiss her already. What is this, middle school? Who cares if she's a good girl she hasn't put out or shown much sexual interest.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 09:10 PM
1

Soft next if she refuses escalation. Have a come to Jesus with her about how you feel if after you escalate into sexy time, she still denies you. Its very important that you try to physically escalate at least twice before you go nuclear. This is because you can't negotiate desire (you can't argue "I'm your boyfriend therefore open your legs.") If she denies your escalation, say something like "I'm not your friend. I'm your boyfriend. I want a relationship with sex where I'm not the only one who…
/r/askTRP07/04/16 06:49 PM
4

Girls are NOT your support source. Seek advice from family or male friends. The moment you start telling her of your problems her tingles will disappear. Like someone else said. You are HER rock. Sure if things are great and she's happy a loyal girl will support you when times get a little rough. But those moments must be few, far between, and relatively easy to fix.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 06:24 PM
1

Major red flag. Girls with dyed hair, especially the rainbow or multi-colored ones, looks trashy as fuck and gross me out because they're bad partners. Girls with piercings and tats mean "hey I'm a slut" which is good or bad depending on what you what.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 06:12 PM
1

You'll learn to tune it out. Depending on the moment I listen to 20-80% of what my girl is saying and just enjoy the ride and have fun. I do what I want, ignore her jabberjawing, punish bad behavior and reward good behavior. It's simple.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 04:54 PM
0

Sounds like she doesn't want rough play with you. Dump her and get a submissive girl you can choke and fuck hard.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 04:13 AM
2

Honestly sounds like she has all the control and you're her bitch. She sounds like a controlling man/breadwinner and you're the woman at home complaining about your victim complex and relishing in the drama. If you were red pill you wouldn't suck up her poison and revel in it like a bitch. It's obvious you hate her, yourself, and your situation, but you also love it all because you're a special aperceptive victim snowflake in a relationship with an exciting psychopath. It's all just eMasturbatio…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 06:26 PM
1

It's funny sounds like she thinks like a blue pill beta in that you get points that last forever for doing things for an SO or girl.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 05:52 PM
1

It's a stage in learning how to practice. After a while you internalize it and it gets easier and easier to unconsciously act RP without second-guessing every action you take.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 05:12 PM
1

I'm here to affirm what you really want from this post: assurance that dumping her ass is OK.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 05:10 PM
2

You guys are all freaking the fuck out and missing the point: she just wants to be safe and make sure you're not a freak. So stop being a freak, befriend her friends, have fun, and then second date you will be alone. 18 is hard mode when you're 26 tho. Good luck. I usually don't mess with them unless they're 21 and can go to a bar.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 05:12 PM
2

Slap her, choke her, talk down to her, hold her down while you fuck her. As long as it's consensual of course.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 06:53 PM
1

She was teasing you and you failed. She got under your skin. What she did is basically when a girl says "I have nipple piercings" and the guy says "I don't think so" so that the girl flashes him. She wanted you to stand up and physically compare heights but you failed.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 05:11 PM
1

She sounds very mediocre. Just have fun with her. Practice on her. Take her V card and have fun. Just don't knock her up. Also be aware that taking a girl's v card usually means they'll never forget you and will be obsessed with you for years to come. As a red pill man its in your interest to become sexual experienced. Fuck her.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 09:30 PM
1

Stop talking to them. They message you then say sorry I've been busy.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 09:28 PM
0

Cut it. Long hair looks stupid and unprofessional. Masculinity is the opposite of femininity. Women have long hair, men short. It's the contrast that makes things exciting. How many long hair alpha males in our society can you think of? That's right, slim to none.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 09:18 PM
1

Troll doing a social experiment. Questions are all loaded full bore.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 09:07 PM
1

Don't take this girl seriously. You're only setting yourself up for a major fall. Just have fun and embrace abundance. It will end, perhaps sooner than you might think. Just fuck her and stay loose.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 09:03 PM
3

Yeah sounds like a dick fixation. Anyway, I guess you should just shun women all together and walk the earth a monk for the rest of your days. Hey, you can even become a fapstronaut and get really happy when girls look at you and give you a hug. That'll be the highlight of your day!
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:24 PM
1

Tell the truth if it's high. It's hilarious, actually. When I tell girls my count they get excited that I've slept with a lot of women. If it's low, girls will think you're inexperienced and therefore easier to control/smokescreen. High numbers are a sort of soft dread that you'll leave or are very confident and attractive. Do what you want. If you lie about a high partner count make sure you are confident. If you say low, she might make up some bullshit about how that makes her happy when in re…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:17 PM
1

Take her to an upper scale bar. Beware tho, some good looking women use tinder for expensive dates and fully expect you to pay for everything. Then they might not put out. You have been warned.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:08 PM
10

This girl thinks she wears the pants in the relationship. TO YOUR FACE she said she will show her tits for free drinks and that IT WILL HAPPEN. This same girl is looking for fun, and if a new high branch comes around, you bet your ass she's swinging to it. The passive voice and plausible deniability is hilarious. "They'll buy me drinks" "it might happen" will turn into "he kissed me and made me touch his penis" when you ask her why she came home late for the fourth time after "drinking with the …
/r/askTRP30/03/16 04:53 PM
28

I would ignore it and focus on yourself. You going to the gym regularly? Hanging out with friends on a decent basis? Dressing well and have a sharp haircut? Socializing with everyone, even strangers? You are the prize and you can't negotiate her desire. You are so outcome independent you can't be bothered with who your girlfriend texts. She's either going to cheat or not. It's just your turn with her now anyway. High chance you'll break up with her sooner or later. Regardless, focus on making yo…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 04:05 PM
1

Some girls have fun with questions like that. If you do it in a flirty way and are just having fun they'll probably tell you.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 11:28 PM
1

Asking cup size and body fat percentage is a good way to not meet women unless you're hot and tall.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 09:55 PM
1

Yeah... only interested in helping men take control of their lives and improve themselves, not diddle the e-clit of a former prostie.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 12:29 AM
1

Just takes time. Nothing you can do but keep working on yourself, meeting girls, and living life. By the way, there is always another level. What you thought was perfect then might not be your perfect in 5, 10, 20 years. She was not perfect. She had crippling anxiety and fucked you over. Besides the fact there is no perfect, YOU are the person striving for perfection. You put in the blood, sweat, and tears to forge yourself through sheer will into a man. When she said she didn't deserve you, she…
/r/askTRP23/03/16 09:20 PM
2

Because you're not getting laid enough with different women.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 09:08 PM
1

Sounds like she's extremely plugged into social media and uses it as her primary endorphin source. She uses you as an ornament in pictures to augment her own status which gives her even more endorphins. She's also clearly not connected to the real world regarding etiquette and common sense. Just fucking dump her. Sounds like nothing better than a warm placeholder hole to fuck and have on your arm. There are girls that don't act like this. If she's asks why you dumped her, look into her eyes calm…
/r/askTRP23/03/16 09:04 PM
1

This girl sucks. Get better ones and send her back to the dump because she's defective.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 09:00 PM
1

Welcome. Read TRP and let your dark enlightenment begin. It's clear you're extremely plugged in and have no idea what's really going on in the world. "Why do my eyes hurt?" "Because you've never used them."
/r/askTRP23/03/16 08:48 PM
2

This is why humans are better than animals: we have the ability to understand the reasons for why we feel something yet also have the ability to disregard those feelings because we know them to be foolish. Don't be the animal.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 08:43 PM
4

It was removed unfortunately. It talked about how with the red pill we condition ourselves to kill so much emotion. We adopt an I don't give a fuck attitude, but by trying to adopt that attitude it's obvious that we care. OP said to be passionate and relentless with pursuing women, and to not be an unfeeling machine. It resonated so much with me because I had taken all the rules I learned and became someone following a strict guideline with how I have to act on a date and with girls in general. …
/r/askTRP23/03/16 03:30 PM
1

OmLaLas the red piller's guide to online dating.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 02:45 AM
3

It's over dude. You can't go back. You said yourself you've been Friend-zoned with this chick for a while. Your lines are cringeworthy. Do I look hot? Fuck's sake man. I'd guess you were in a high school cafeteria when you asked that. Women ask for validation with questions like "do you think I'm pretty?" In my experience only ugly girls ask questions like that. Hot girls already know because dudes validate and pedestalize them 24/7. Hell, in 2016 mediocre girls get a ton of compliments on onlin…
/r/askTRP22/03/16 09:41 PM
1

You lack abundance because you're not banging other girls. Don't hire a prostitute for this. You're already working on yourself. A prostitute is a short term solution to a long term problem. You need to forge yourself into the man women get wet for. Get a couple dates with girls and keep working on it. Can't get dates from day game? Download Tinder as a supplement. If you were getting pussy you wouldn't look at this chick twice. Moreover, get off facebook because all it does it suck time and mak…
/r/askTRP22/03/16 09:21 PM
8

Maybe not quite on the mark but in a similar vein. I've been doing a lot of tinder over the last six months and found I was becoming the "cool stoic dude" during dates. I would be very reserved, always go dutch, and constantly search for something witty or clever to say at all times while forcefully initiating kino whether i was feeling it or not. After a relevant post on TRP opened my eyes, I changed my approach during dates and decided to cut loose and have fun. Before each date I would remind…
/r/askTRP22/03/16 08:59 PM
2

Find an attractive guy that wants to choke you and fuck you hard. Dump your boyfriend.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 10:16 PM
-1

I love when my girl slaps me. Gets me going.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 08:40 PM
1

Holy fuck run the other way. Do you have any shred of dignity or respect for yourself? Christ. Scraping the bottom of the barrel.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 07:32 PM
5

She "figuratively" opened her legs.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 07:16 PM
1

Got to have a shit-eating grin when you pull that one.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 02:29 PM
1

You'll have to address it at some point. Just talk about it offhandedly like it's nothing. Act with confidence like you've slain giantess pussy before. She'll think you're that amazing one dude who didn't give a fuck about her height.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 12:11 AM
7

She's putting her best self forward. It's only downhill after the first month or so. Sounds like you really want to LTR this girl. Still, sounds like she's a drama llama. You can tell you're trying to rationalize your behavior and have us give you a pat on the back and affirmation. This is the men's club. We won't do that. Keep her around until the cons outweigh the pros then alpha widow her ass.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 11:48 PM
4

Treat her like every other girl. Don't fall into the usual path of dudes commenting about her height or making height jokes. Just be confident and clear with your intentions. Keep things light and humorous. As far as the bedroom, tall girls LOVE to be dominated. It's hard being feminine and being a fucking amazon. Just fucking dominate her if you get that far.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 11:27 PM
7

I try to switch it up between three things. Agree and amplify: "I'm thinking about the starving kids in Africa." Compliments: "that you're sexy." Comfort: some thing I like about our relationship/dynamic. I usually go with 1 or 2 and use 3 sparingly because I want to LTR this girl.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 06:43 PM
11

Awesome post. Really drove home aspects regarding plausible deniability. Will be more aperceptive about keeping things light and throwing in scraps of personal info here or there. It's hilarious because current girl I'm seeing always asks me what I'm thinking. Probably about 15 times a day. What she doesn't realize is that every time I deign to tell her what I'm actually thinking it deflates any mystery tingles she has for me. While she is seeking more knowledge and therefore control of me, she'…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 05:38 PM
1

Eh. The female orgasm just varies from woman to woman. Some cum easily, others never do. I've found girls cum during sex more often if you grind against their clit in a steady rhythm. I used to care a lot about getting girls off when I was younger, but I don't care anymore. I guess I'm a lazy lover in that sense. The older I get that may change (currently 28). Maybe I'm lazy because pussy comes easily.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 05:46 AM
1

Agree with everyone. Just be dominant and lead with how you want things to unfold.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 06:02 PM
1

I think most guys go thru a phase where they are excited about the truth of trp and want to share their knowledge. Keep it to yourself. If you can't, your friends will start to discredit you and label you as a woman-hater. Keep all discourse about women, sexual strategy, and TRP under wraps. Just be mindful about thinking before you speak. Further on not talking a lot, I've noticed it gives girls major mystery tingles when you are thoughtful about what you say (pausing, taking time to answer, no…
/r/askTRP16/03/16 05:41 PM
2

Reply with "k" then hit her up after next week or just ignore her until she comes to you, tho looks like in this case this girl is way too busy and uninterested to be worth anything. Remember your time is precious. You should have 5 to 10 other girls right now that you're figuring out dating logistics with. This girl is nothing, dude. You need abundance.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 05:17 PM
6

Totally agree with this. I've been in the trenches plating for the past 6 months with ok girls and finally found a girl who is in the 1. category AND hot. They do exist. Now need to fight off oneitis and manage priorities. I've been going a little too buck wild with this one.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 05:13 PM
2

Soft nexting her is best I guess. Still, sounds like the power dynamic is fucked and she gives zero fucks about your personal time and effort. You already resent her for leaving you twice because of bullshit excuses. There are a TON of other girls who will treat you way better, beg to spend time with you, spend money on you, and let you fuck them often.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 04:53 PM
2

Sounds like trash. Throw her out. She already set the dynamic that her time is more important than yours.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 04:43 PM
1

Merit-based caste system with breeding programs for desirable traits.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 06:36 PM
1

"To take cute girls on dates"
/r/askTRP15/03/16 06:05 PM
0

God damn you are blue pill as fuck. Stop acting like a mangina and tell her how you feel. You aren't responsible for her. She's not your fucking daughter and despite whatever she provided for you , you don't owe her anything. Stop being a little bitch and be honest.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 01:13 AM
1

Don't be hard (lol) on yourself. It could be nerves. Could just simply be you weren't comfortable or weren't actually that attracted to her. Shit happens. I used to have that problem but kept trying and now I'm fine.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:59 AM
1

Don't talk to her just start seeing her less and say you're busy
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:52 AM
4

This is where she wants to break it off with you but doesn't have the guts to make it official. Just sort of fading away and hoping you'll disappear.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:06 AM
1

She wants you to orbit.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 11:57 PM
5

Why are you chasing this shitty woman. So many red flags.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 12:15 AM
1

Quality shitpost.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 06:57 PM
2

Keep dating her and decide later
/r/askTRP13/03/16 04:25 PM
9

The world is hard. Nothing is easy. Yes, things may have been better in the past. Man the fuck up. Yes, most women are shitlords. I went through a good dozen before I found a great one. Suprise. It's like life: nothing is given easily and you actually have to work hard to achieve something of value. Once you're done feeling sorry for yourself then make a plan for becoming the best version of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 04:15 PM
22

That's why you don't engage beggars and ignore them.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 02:24 AM
1

Move on. Next time rotate between venues.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 11:56 PM
1

I've only been with a couple handfuls of women. In my experience, some go batshit for you in bed. Others you have to pull teeth to get them interested. Some cum within a few minutes of pumping. Others can't cum no matter what cunnilingus no jutsu or pelvic thrust technique you've perfected. If a woman complains of a low sex drive, it's mostly YOU. It's not bad or good, it just is. The good news is you can increase the sexual attraction women experience towards you by utilizing TRP. The bad news …
/r/askTRP10/03/16 09:15 PM
1

Spot-on post. Well-written and insightful.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 07:43 PM
5

Plates usually have an expiration of a week to 3 months in my experience. Once they realize you aren't going to commit and they get tired of feeling bad they usually move on if you haven't cut them out already. Chill out and continue what you're doing. She leaves? Ok. She stays? Ok. Who cares? Just how it works. Some are better than others. There's always another good one around the corner.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 11:42 PM
0

Why aren't you fucking her every time? If she keeps negging but not putting out fully then punish her by taking away your time spent
/r/askTRP09/03/16 06:00 PM
3

Moreover, sounds like you might be doing the "cool aloof funny guy" routine too much. Let her know you're interested early and often. Be passionate and fun. Don't hold back (but keep your red pill frame/training).
/r/askTRP05/03/16 06:28 PM
9

You need to build a kino foundation. I don't think going from 0 to 60 (shower at my place) is going to work after no escalation in the first two dates. It could, but I'm skeptical. Start by touching her. Touch her shoulder while talking to her. Comment on some jewelry she's wearing and touch it. If you run with her, tug the lower back part of her shirt and say "you're a sweaty muffin" or something flirty like that. When you walk together, put your arm on her shoulder. If you are at a bar, make s…
/r/askTRP05/03/16 06:25 PM
3

"You seem cool, we should get to know each other better on campus" probably dried her out like the Sahara. The passive voice in this sentence is over 9000. Everyone has different strategies that work for them. Personally, I have the most success banging girls with light banter and chatting about a girl's family and hobbies before I ask her to get drinks. After she agrees to get drinks at a time and place I specify, I ask for her number and then move off tinder. Then I'll text her "hey it's X" an…
/r/askTRP04/03/16 05:52 AM
1

You escalated way too fast. You can't ask for a girl's commitment like that when she's at her doorstep. You need to lay a foundation first and it sounds like you need to work on yourself foremost.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:55 AM
1

Looks like you are ready. Now you have to find the motivation: something that pushes you to bust your ass at the gym, the job, improving social skills.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:52 AM
1

You can't have qualities of something you're not? Spectrum not binary dude.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 09:37 PM
0

Know better about what. I know her game and what she wants. The point is to not put a limit on your own self-improvement.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 09:10 PM
1

Friend-zoned means no sex on first date to you?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 09:07 PM
0

You fucking faggots. The point of this post was about not limiting yourself, not me getting excited about being BB for a 9.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 09:05 PM
1

I'm sure she's banging some dude on the side and is waiting for an eligible branch to swing to.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 01:31 AM
1

Someone on reddit said TRP is toxic a few years ago so I checked it out. I took to it like a duck to water after all the garbage relationships I'd been in (mostly because I was acting like a giant bitch baby). Was tired of not understanding why women act a certain way. Now I feel like every fucking action a woman takes can be explained in an empirical fashion. I feel like a fucking expert regarding female behavior.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 01:16 AM
3

Not quite getting what you're saying m8.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 11:13 PM
26

Well, from a layman's view, "sexy baby" voice achieves many goals based on context: I'm innocent and pure (ASD) I'm not responsible for my actions (plausible deniability) I'm a victim, woe is me (I deserve things without work) I'm very feminine and you're a strong paternal figure (sweep me off my feet)
/r/askTRP01/03/16 12:02 AM
3

Give yourself time for fuck's sake. The red pill espouses not being a pussy ass bitch and to control your surroundings thru machiavellianism and yourself thru stoicism, but it does NOT mean you have to act like a stone. This woman birthed your children and you probably loved her for a long time. Just give yourself some fucking time. Stay busy with work/hobbies/friends/gym/plates. Time is what you're missing. Just relax, looks at your feelings with the inner eye, accept them, and keep pursuing yo…
/r/askTRP29/02/16 11:55 PM
1

Eh had the same thing happen to me last week. Great (drunk) sex with a girl and then later she turned awkward when we hung out sober. Just be happy it happened and move on. Looks like she's already trying to.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 03:31 PM
1

Use febreeze. Also the wall plug in or big jar candles can sweeten things up. For furniture I go for earthy colors: browns reds tans. I try to adopt a "library" or "private study" sort of style with my living room. I have a leather recliner and some suede tan couches with dark wood trimming, dark wood coffee table, glass dining room table with red cushion seats, some Japanese style art on one wall and some martini glass paintings on the other, with a dark wood bookshelf with lots of good books i…
/r/askTRP26/02/16 11:28 PM
4

Good on you for day game. Never ever ask if they have a boyfriend. If they have one it might wake them up from your seduction. If they're on the fence or are not sure you gave them an easy out. After asking, silence is the best. It's like sales: whomever speaks first after a proposition loses.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 11:24 PM
3

She might have stds or a bad yeast infection. Other than that, don't waste your time... this has happened to me and believe me it doesn't get better usually. Some girls don't put out quick, others do and then withhold to secure your commitment. Others fuck from the getgo and are fun. Give your time to those, not the former two. Just walk away and she might finally give it up anyway because you left.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 05:25 AM
1

Touching on the shoulder or arms is big to show interest
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 11:58 PM
3

Reminds me of a girl I'm seeing. She is a 6 at best but she is her own best fan: constantly pumping herself up regarding wealth, status, etc. Product of feminist drivel. Just don't say anything at all. Go radio silent. She is practically begging for a chance to rebut anything you say. Your strongest statement is walking away. She'll try to thump her chest and feel ok, but you're that one dude that rolled his eyes and walked away. Finally, why do you care enough to post this shit on asktrp.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 11:20 PM
1

"K"
/r/askTRP25/02/16 09:41 PM
55

Been "unplugged" for almost two years and this sincerely blew my mind. What an elegant, simple concept. I need to meditate on this. I've been going about it all wrong... I desire but get approach anxiety with women I find truly outstanding... I've been self- medicating with tinder sluts way below my SMV... I haven't been doing it right: meeting real people in the real world. The last real passion I had with a girl was from approaching her because I was so entranced that I had to... I Needed to. …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 09:38 PM
1

Get more plates. The fact you're asking this question shows scarcity mentality. If you were spinning multiple plates you wouldn't care because the boring/vapid plate is just a small part of your week, not something that warrants a question on the internet.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 09:15 PM
3

I'm afraid of cold approaching attractive girls in real life. Instead, I get chubby 5s from tinder for ONS.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 02:35 AM
3

Start over. Gotta assert control at the beginning. Otherwise it's hard mode. Work on yourself, build dread, and learn to say no.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 02:25 AM
6

Means she likes you
/r/askTRP23/02/16 02:23 AM
-1

Don't take viagra. Great way to start a dependency. Relax. You're focusing too much on the act and not the pleasure. Joke with the girl about never having sex on your first date. That takes the pressure out of the situation and let's things occur naturally. Kegals, no porn, and reducing masturbation also help a lot with getting and staying hard.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 12:05 AM
5

You can get plates on tinder with little effort. Don't expect high quality though .
/r/askTRP22/02/16 09:19 PM
5

Just sounds like a dumb bitch. She's probably unhappy with the relationship dynamics and this is her release valve.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 09:17 PM
1

This is not normal. Don't bring her to your place she'll probably scope it out and tell her boyfriend to burglarize it later. Or maybe she had aids and wants to see the world burn. This is not normal girl behavior and you should either ignore or tread very carefully.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 03:42 AM
-1

It depends on the girl. If they like you and like to fuck, just make up some context to come to your place. I usually put on my biggest shit-eating grin and say "we can listen to music and stare deeply into each other's eyes." Sluts will almost always come back to your place and fuck when you destroy shit tests and hold strong frame. Girls with scruples or who arent feeling it won't come back with you no matter what clever line you say: bottom line. That's fine. Can't negotiate desire can you? O…
/r/askTRP20/02/16 05:39 PM
1

then giving out lots of information about you You had me until there. I have to disagree about this one.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 03:10 PM
2

"K" Then soft next till she texts back.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 02:33 AM
1

Given the situation, this would be game over and she would close her legs forever. She already has control and would be disgusted. Then she would act like a victim and he was a freak.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 01:18 AM
2

Red flags mean two things in this case: 1. wear a condom, 2. don't give her the exclusivity she may be seeking from you. Otherwise, fuck away unless there are too many red flags.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 01:04 AM
2

For sure. Usually the more a bitch talks about her family, her dog, her friends, my dick starts to turtle.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 11:58 PM
7

Look at it this way: the more mysterious you are to a girl the more tingles she has. The more you discuss substantive facts regarding your life the less tingles she will likely get (unless you're very successful, rich, etc.) Even if you have gr8 things going for you, don't brag about them. As a rule, talk the least amount about yourself as possible and keep her talking. Only say things that are funny or light hearted that won't put you into a category box. Imagine a girl's tingles for you as an …
/r/askTRP19/02/16 08:13 PM
1

Say no problem. Text her a few days later and propose another date idea. If she refuses again then just move on. The point is to have many dates with many women lined up. Women flake or ghost all the times its an industry standard.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 08:03 PM
1

Yes explicitly say those words in a very clear and mature tone. She's the most responsible teen in the room and you're the adult. Don't get upset or whiney. Be very level headed and matter of fact. Has she explained to you why she won't have sex? Also, denying you so many times has really got to fuck up the power dynamics in your relationship. She's got your balls in her purse, so to speak.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 07:56 PM
1

A month what the fuck. Either she is really pretty or you're very blue or both. You already let her run wild and emasculate you for a month, and it's probably too late for her to respect you, but you have to put your foot down. Sit her down and have a come to Jesus. "I like you. But I need sex in a relationship. I'm a grown adult and have grown-adult relationships. If this is a problem for you, then we're not going to work out." Honestly tho, she must view you as Beta Bucks or she is a virgin/in…
/r/askTRP19/02/16 04:52 PM
1

Instead of fostering cockiness think of fostering confidence: that surety that comes naturally from within from having done shit.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 07:25 PM
1

Who gives a fuck?
/r/askTRP18/02/16 07:14 PM
8

Push it dude. Girls always try to hold out on sex because they want commitment. Women are gatekeepers of sex, men are gatekeepers of commitment. If you get a girl in bed with you, 90% of the time you're guaranteed sexy time unless you fuck up or are a retard. Dumb question TBH. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 06:29 PM
0

Looking to meet cute girls, wbu
/r/askTRP18/02/16 05:36 PM
3

Dude thanks a lot! Do you think asking them to froyo is blue pill? Should I always go for hiking, other physical activities? I don't do drugs and am still in school (law). I have my own place and do host parties ocassionally but really am not a partier. I'm also really busy and only have free time on the weekends. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP17/02/16 11:19 PM
2

My hate stick? Haha. I agree with your numbers. I am a good looking dude and have profesh photos but that sounds about right. If I was really on top of it I would say more chicks if I lower my standards.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 11:15 PM
2

This is great but talking about in person closing, right?
/r/askTRP17/02/16 10:16 PM
5

Thanks man. A lot of wisdom. I've been meaning to foster my cold approach game (which is fledgling). I understand that cold approach works SO much more than tinder, but the app is just convenient and gives me endorphins... So I'll stop being a bitch, drastically cut tinder effort, and cold approach girls irl.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 10:11 PM
2

Fair enough.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 10:08 PM
1

Can't hit back unless in fear of your life. Some states you even have to walk away and then if they keep attacking you can then fight back with force enough to protect your life (basically same level of force they bring upon you). Bottom line is don't hit her back. Gather all the information regarding time place identity etc. And call the police. Still, assault is when you are put in reasonable fear of your life... Still, might be worth calling the police about.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 10:06 PM
3

Alright, another vote for numbers game quick close.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:59 PM
5

Think it's dumb?
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:58 PM
1

Only thing I don't like about "what are your passions" is that it sounds so serious and is probably tingles killing because it's a deep question.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:58 PM
6

This confirms my suspicions somewhat. Most bitches don't want to meet. So back to numbers game. Just run through the 120 allotted swipes a day, follow up on the matches for dates. Keep it short and sweet, and continue the process?
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:55 PM
3

Yeah I usually ask if they have fur babies. Most have a dog or cat, but girls on campus usually don't.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:49 PM
4

Alright so the numbers game route. I have tried that and most if not all refuse to meet a dude (by ghosting or making excuses) they have no idea about. You're saying it's not worth your time building comfort to meet for a date with girls that can't legally drink?
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:48 PM
11

Already read and love OmLaLa but honestly escalating quickly to a date has NOT worked for younger girls. They either ghost or flake when date time comes. I'm looking for a good strat. Most young girls do this because they are just on Tinder for validation, I know. They already have 20 irl dudes orbiting them and thirsting after their puss, not to mention 50+ dudes chatting with them on tinder. I don't give a fuck about talking, just want them to actually show up for a date. Moreover, is snapchat…
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:45 PM
3

So: what are your passions? Partying, getting banged by Chads. They have no passions yet haha.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:38 PM
-1

Eh bby u wan sum fuk?
/r/askTRP17/02/16 01:51 PM
1

Because they horny.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 01:50 PM
1

Some dudes want kids, others don't. Your boyfriend got a vasectomy so he's probably fine with it. You'll find out down the road if he changes his mind.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 05:38 AM
1

Status dude. Being with as high quality a dude you can gives a girl status and elevates her amongst her friend posse.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 05:24 AM
1

I agree it sounds like she hadn't invested enough in the relationship and is too fragile to deal with red yet. But the worst error on your part was how you dealt with her going cold. You must have not handled the situation correctly and compounded the problem after she denied you sex and was a little cry baby. Overall, who cares. If she is going to act like a little bitch baby then it's not your problem. Anyway, next time flip the situation if you see a woman getting extremely bent out of shape …
/r/askTRP16/02/16 11:03 PM
1

Eh don't say you expect it to be just her, but be creative in angling it to be just you two. Don't make it clear at all that you were perturbed by the presence of her buddy.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 06:24 AM
2

I'm seeing a girl that wants easy access to cheap tutoring as well as a good beta orbiter to adore and stroke her ego. Look elsewhere. If she notices and wants to fuck then enjoy. Otherwise, clear to me (a 3rd party) that she is using you but you don't give her tingles.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 03:05 AM
2

Ok you're very young so it's understandable to freak out when it's one or your first relationships. First, take a deep breath. Next, realize that this girl has been promiscuous before (you said you found her list). Therefore, you getting her to be 'exclusive' has almost no meaning. Furthermore, there is absolutely nothing you can do about her going to this party. Expect that she will cheat on you, but adopt a carefree attitude about it. Easier said than done, I know. But you need to start adopti…
/r/askTRP15/02/16 07:49 PM
5

Alright first it's Break not brake. Second, talk with her and set the rules before you break it off. If you change your behavior and act like a man she may stop. Third, just sack up and say "this isn't working I'm breaking up with you." Don't do all the pussy bullshit like change your number or act like a super beta in the hopes that she'll maybe drop you in a few mnths... Finally, just plate this girl, don't burn all your bridges. She may have other good qualities so just demote her to plate st…
/r/askTRP15/02/16 04:52 PM
3

Well I've been shit tested on age when there's been an 8 year age difference. Just stand your ground, keep it light, and then she'll say "I like older men"
/r/askTRP15/02/16 03:02 PM
1

Is this in person or online
/r/askTRP15/02/16 07:25 AM
3

Should have learned not to speak your opinion regarding inter-sex relations to women.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 07:24 AM
47

Probably brought a friend as protection to make sure you weren't a freak. Should just show abundance and have a good time with both of them. Close later with a follow up date with the girl you like. First date was just a screening.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 07:14 AM
2

I think the issue is your status at the hospital. Married women snark because you're on the bottom of the food chain, while unmarried still listen to their tingles.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 07:12 AM
6

Say your actual age
/r/askTRP15/02/16 07:11 AM
1

She flaked. Used the "i have a family thing that came up" excuse.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 06:14 AM
2

Dude you need abundance. Obviously have scarcity mentality getting frustrated with this girl. If she fucks with you like this next and pursue someone else
/r/askTRP14/02/16 01:31 AM
3

With this ONE QUICK TRICK get women to fall for you! Betas HATE him!
/r/askTRP13/02/16 07:00 AM
4

Giant troll alert.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 03:56 AM
1

Date is tonight I'll let you know. I know the date close is huge, but the focus of this post was the first tinder hurdle. If people have interest I'll do a write up on actual date strategies.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 06:55 PM
2

She actually works there, but isn't a model. I made a joke and she played along.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 06:51 PM
2

ASD they want a relationship and to not be discarded or just FB status, that is all.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 11:55 PM
2

Every woman is different dude. Been with girls I've never had cum ever through oral or PIV. Had other girls that cum just by touching them. If it happens, cool. Otherwise it's not your problem.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 11:47 PM
2

Pretty common man, don't think on it.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 10:59 PM
2

If your standards are "too high" then you're not doing it right. Ever cold approach an 8? 9? I guarantee you don't look at beautiful women and say "naw" because your standards are too high. Instead, you're just buffering yourself from an uncomfortable situation. Re-think how you really feel. Sounds like you're just comfortable and don't feel the need to approach or chase attractive girls because you're complacent.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 02:56 PM
3

Tupac had a criminal record but was respected. Bill Clinton was impeached but respected. Basically make the best out of bad publicity.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 04:55 AM
1

"Yup."
/r/askTRP11/02/16 04:52 AM
3

Dunno why this is downvoted. Must be all the concern trolls. Spot on assessment.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 02:04 AM
8

Nononono. Comfort test is what a woman will do when you're actually in a relationship. A woman does a comfort test because she wants to gauge how much you actually give a s*** about her existence. Here is a case of a bored woman who wants to be thrilled and your pictures aren't sexy enough for her to give a shit about the mediocre response you gave. She is bored and challenging you to give some tingles-inducing response. She basically put you in her frame and asked you to sell yourself. Your ans…
/r/askTRP11/02/16 12:29 AM
6

Lingerie
/r/askTRP11/02/16 12:19 AM
3

Eh she's not gonna text you back. So many women on tinder are there for validation and flirting and not to actually meet in person. I've had so many seemingly "good" convos with a lot more innuendo and "chemistry" than this one and they ghost. It's just a numbers game dude. Move on and keep trying.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 09:44 PM
3

"I'm having sex with someone else but I don't want YOU to think so."
/r/askTRP10/02/16 02:32 PM
2

Lift, read, have a group of guy friends you hang out with weekly, work/study (and all the RP self-betterment). Then take her aside: "Hey babe, I've been upset with you. I don't like when you act this certain way. Let's figure out a solution." Or something along those lines. Let her know you don't like that behavior as if talking to a child you care about. You're the adult and she's the most responsible teenager in the room. If she still doesn't change, then I would result to dread. If still does…
/r/askTRP09/02/16 07:11 AM
18

Awesome write-up. I think a lot of this can be condensed into economic terms. Uncommon traits are attractive. People want what is rare. Women are usually more refined in their tastes than men. Dudes will usually fuck lower SMV than themselves, but women usually only fuck men equal or higher SMV. Biologically, women can only have 1 baby every 9 months, which will later cost years in blood, sweat, and tears to raise. Conversely, dudes have billions of sperm. Men are programmed to fuck as much as p…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 06:20 AM
1

She has sex hang ups. Don't make my mistake. I hung around a girl who had hang ups about sex and it was a waste of time. There are a lot of girls out there who want to fuck you and enjoy sex without hang ups. Pursue them. Soft plate this bitch until she puts out.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 05:47 AM
3

Slap her back and get sent to jail and have your entire life ruined.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 03:06 PM
1

Sounds like she's angrily trolling and a fem sjw
/r/askTRP06/02/16 05:46 AM
1

Owns a house from her first husband?
/r/askTRP05/02/16 05:58 PM
3

First of all never discuss TRP ideology, ideas, concepts with women. Ever. You're new so internalize it now before it bites you in the ass. Feign ignorance and nod your head with the other feminist bobbleheads. Second, you're clearly her friend. She's talking to you about her boyfriend like you're a good girlfriend. A girl who is interested in a dude will hide facts about her sexual past unless she's very inexperienced or a social retard. Think about it. If she liked you as a man she would conce…
/r/askTRP04/02/16 10:24 PM
2

Looks like under it all you're asking us to give you an out from trying to game this girl. Not going to give that to you. Go for it until she gives you the red light. Keep working on yourself. Got to start learning at sme point. As an aside, next time don't shit where you eat. Guard your professional reputation. It's one of your most important assets.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 10:07 PM
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Trolled.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 12:57 AM
-1

"Women don't literally have rape fantasies, you moron. They fantasize being used by a man of a much higher SMV than them. Do you think women fantasize about being rapped by a 5'1 fat ugly neckbeard? Get a grip, seriously. I know that this is /trp/, but still."
/r/askTRP04/02/16 12:43 AM
2

I normally don't advocate therapy but I think your girlfriend definitely should start seeing a therapist to have an outlet for discussing what happened to her with someone whom is not you or part of her family. Next, the feeling that it's not your girlfriend anymore is simply your understanding and idea of who she was before the rape. It's your idea of her that has died, and not actually her as an individual. Understand that the severity of the situation will cause you to feel like f****** s. Ac…
/r/askTRP04/02/16 12:34 AM
-3

First off, it's raped not rapped. Glass house throwing stones.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 12:24 AM
1

Double down and go all the way. Go nuclear dude. Show her your righteous anger. Ask her if she cheated while on the trip. Call the other girls she was with sluts and skanks. Ask her why she's acting so guilty and almost cried. Then tell her if she goes to the pool party that it's over because skanks go to pool parties, not faithful girlfriends. Then say you're dumping her ass. If she crawls back and sucks your dick then you can soft plate her. If she's gone, good riddance. Taking care of busines…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 07:05 PM
-1

Write on her cup or give her a napkin with a note. Say something like: "you're really cute. Text me: xxx-xxxx. Only issue is she might not see it or doesn't want to text you and you are left without knowing what happened. If that won't work you'll have to chat her up at her work. Don't ask her to reserve a spot for you, because that's asking for commitment before you "earned it" which is a beta strategy. If nothing else works, ask her for her number when she gets coffee. Make sure your boss isnt…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 08:03 PM
8

Don't be an idiot. Never attack someone unless self-defense and you're in fear of your life. Don't throw away your livelihood and freedom. TRP is about controlling yourself. Take control and don't be a Gronk. Take the high road.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 06:46 PM
24

She said to your face that you don't give her tingles. That's rare for a woman to do. You should be thankful your relationship didn't die a slow, dead-bedroom-like death. You can't negotiate desire. It's over, bud. Find a woman who relishes riding on your Pogo stick. Life is good and there is so much opportunity out there. Get it.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 01:33 AM
1

Well I don't see the problem. If those numbers are true then you're a red pill paragon. It sounds like you have a lot of dark triad traits. Are you getting these numbers from Tinder? Cold approach? Night game/day game? I also don't understand what your goal is. I think what your saying is that you want plates to stick around so you don't have to hunt all the time for ONS. It sounds like you go so hard with neg and abundance and outcome independence that you ONLY can score ONS and women usually d…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 04:51 PM
1

$400 bill wtf?
/r/askTRP29/01/16 05:17 AM
6

Are you getting laid, or just getting numbers? Anyway sounds like girls like your looks and confidence and then realize you're insufferable so nope out after getting to know you more.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 05:15 AM
1

I know you're young and the thought of going against your family is extremely difficult. Like others have said this will not be an isolated incident. It will happen again. Get out of the house. Also I would make a police report because that's b*******. If you don't want to get the police involved which is understandable, you need to cut them out of your life completely. Your family can get you killed. Make a decent life for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 12:41 AM
-7

Your "first love"? Heh. Hehe. Huhahahahahahahahahah
/r/askTRP28/01/16 02:16 AM
3

Be confident, attractive, and successful. Don't be a pussy, ugly, or a loser.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 06:51 PM
2

Go for it.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 05:33 PM
1

"You better be worth the wait" is a nono. It might give her performance anxiety and feel like you have expectations, which kill tingles for girls. Girls want 0 culpability and you can't verbally secure some sort of 'worth' verbal commitment from her before she's meets you and values your true first-impression SMV. Basically you can't secure verbal commitment like that before she decides how she feels about you. While you might think you're being lighthearted, text conveys no tone or sarcasm.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 07:03 PM
1

One issue I've come across is its bad to make plans for more than 3 days in advance. I've set dates for a week later and then don't talk to them in the meantime. I've had girls forget about the date. The issue is that the cooling period is so long that she forgets you exist or figures you have absolutely zero skin in the game and therefore she doesn't either. I'm not wordy and under-invest in date-making, which is great but can have a chilling effect. Therefore, I wouldn't set a date on tinder m…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 06:58 PM
9

My only concern is that the recipient of the grant will be made known and their lives trashed by the media. This reminds me of the rule of power where you nod your head like the others but don't think or act the way they do in order to protect your reputation. If this Grant ever comes to fruition, which it likely won't, then there is a very real threat of feminist terrorism.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 11:14 PM
2

Word. I'll let them know I like them but not ready for a relationship when I see the signs.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 05:31 AM
1

Thankfully she cums when she's on top and I don't focus on her cumming first: it just happens. I agree with letting loose. I have been making sex a big deal because I figured it was the only reason to keep plates.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 05:30 AM
2

Update: you'll all be suprised to hear she slunk back, all apologies, because I'm the highest-value dicking she can get right now. She's chomping at the bit for it. Science.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 05:23 AM
2

Not unreasonable. High chance it's a proxy place for her to say she slept when she actually is at some Chads place. Alternatively, she will sleep with the orbiter and her friend can lie and vouch for her that she slept downstairs on the mattress. Any music festival is dangerous regarding fidelity. Then again, you made the choice to be in an LTR so you obviously can't soft next her and need to address it. Unfortunately, it's out of your hands and there's not much you can do. If you put your foot …
/r/askTRP20/01/16 07:28 PM
2

Hey, thanks a lot for taking the time to answer. Really candid and helpful to me. I feel a lot better about the going soft business and I think you're right. My dick is rock hard when it wants sex, and when it doesn't, it flops around. Another issue I need to address is that I often target low SMV women because I view them as easy and non-threatening. One side-effect of this might be my occasional limp-dick syndrome because I'm not banging girls I go wild for. I want to make a personal goal to g…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 08:31 AM
1

That's a cool idea. Spinning plates doesn't make me feel bad. Giving her false impressions and hurting her made me feel bad. On one hand I think I need complete transparency with women: tell them I don't want to be their boyfriend and just want a fuck buddy. If they ask me if I'm seeing other girls, just say yes. Shock them. Some might walk away but the ones that remain might yield fruit. On the other, I'm just tired of the Tinder dating game. Tired of meeting new people and pretending to be int…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:54 AM
2

Some girls are forgiving, others arent.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 04:19 PM
5

Flaking. Wanted a long term relationship. Not putting out and doing the whole pussy-on-the-stick bid for commitment.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 08:50 PM
-2

It was just your turn and now it's someone elses.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 07:35 PM
7

Sounds like shit tests. Silence until she says she wants to come over.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 01:22 AM
4

Simply because a girl is on tinder doesn't mean she wants to get fucked. Some dumb bitches honestly just want attention and some aren't looking for sex unless you're a regular Chad. Some girls don't even realize tinder is a sex app.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 01:09 AM
2

Comfort test, but also a power play. If I were you I wouldn't change your text game. You are who you are and changing your behavior like that because she complained would make her happy momentarily but you'd lose an ounce of respect in her eyes because you "changed" for her. Just dismiss it. The most responsible teen in the room wants daddy to pay more attention to her.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 02:53 PM
2

Sounds like you need to dial your neg back a bit and inject more comfort since your strat isn't working right now
/r/askTRP12/01/16 07:36 AM
1

Would be cooler if he didn't look and act like a social retard.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 06:59 AM
3

It's interesting. After reading a few posts looks like most of these dudes relapsed to blue after people lashed out at them for their new behavior. Looks like they did a poor job concealing and applying their RP teachings and didn't pass quite fully through the anger phase. They came out as some disingenuous, puffed-up douche bags who didn't believe what they were selling, and women could see straight through them. I have yet to see a post that says something like "yeah I applied TRP, slayed a l…
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:04 AM
3

Fucking hilarious and on point as usual. I'm sure she'll find her way home in a few days/weeks when her orbiter/fuck buddy list is exhausted.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 01:27 AM
1

For TRP, it means that you don't care what happens with a girl because your feelings are not dependant upon the outcome of a date. For example, if you are going to meet up with a girl and she doesn't show up, you don't call her or feel bad because your emotions are not dependant on a positive event outcome (the girl arriving and you having sex with her). In short, you throw out your expectations and maintain fluidity no matter what happens. You are your own little center of the universe. A date …
/r/askTRP10/01/16 09:17 PM
2

Wow so true man. Wrestling with this as well. Need to stop being the "cool" faggot and just have fun.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 05:50 AM
3

Writing could be more organized and succinct, but I appreciate this post. I've also been getting comments from family about how I've been "cold" and "so concerned with my looks" now. I've really been needing to work on my attitude and the way I portray myself to those still plugged in. After internalizing TRP I've had difficulty keeping my mouth shut about my opinions in regards to society and women. I don't say it's RP, but I use some RP terminology and need to quit that shit before I get burne…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 09:33 PM
1

Dad's gonna dad. Ignore it or freak the fuck out. Who cares. Be happy you're alive.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 09:08 AM
1

Just because a woman can get sex by opening her legs and starfishing doesn't mean the sex is good for her or from high quality men. You're viewing it as a man would: oh boy sex whenever I want all the time. For her it's about status and feelz. Also, a lot of dudes are bad at sex---even I'm guilty of not caring if a woman gets off when I'm fucking her. If she cums, awesome. Otherwise I mostly do what I want and let my status/looks/demeanor fill in the rest for her. Look: if sex was easy for you a…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 09:03 AM
1

If you see her, approach her, smile, hug, ask how she's doing and say it's good to see her. Greet her like a long-lost friend then go back to your workout. If she approaches you back just maintain frame. If she wants to go out say you'll have to check your schedule, take her number, and ignore her. If she never approaches you again, then cool.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:56 AM
5

Simply because a woman took anothrt man's cum, shot you out and raised you doesn't give her the uninhibited right to fuck with your life. There's a certain point to where cutting her out is warranted and healthy until she changes for the better. The word "gentleman" is a shame word used by women to keep men tied to the yoke. Gentleman is a blue pill word. TRP is amoral. Your use of the words "woman" and "holy" in the same sentence makes me cringe. Moreover, giving your mom a pass for AWALT shit …
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:51 AM
3

I would say with a FWB you never can guarantee exclusivity. You can take steps to make it more likely, though. Holding all the true power in the relationship helps with this, as well as showing abundance mentality, outcome independence, and scarcity. Gotta have the right mix though: can't come off as completely unavailable or that you have 0 skin in the game. A girl has got to feel like every second with you is precious, but also that you can center her and pass comfort tests. Personally I don't…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:43 AM
2

I would take the opposite tact. If she AAs then just say 'alright' and change the subject. Mimicry is the best form of flattery and this girl already has you beat. Win instead by not stumbling over her AAs and learning to effortlessly change the subject or continue with whatever you were talking about previous. Not reacting to a stimulus is the best way to stop annoying behavior. Like when a child is bothering you.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:32 AM
3

Strict TRP says to next and never live out a revenge fantasy. Overall, the high road is honestly the best choice because women have too much backing by the legal system and thus the power to ruin your life on an unsubstantiated whim. On the other hand, say you'll be exclusive, have a nice date with her and fuck her brains out. After you leave go completely radio silent and cut her out of your life with no explanation. Revenge is best served cold. Her hamster will kill itself spinning at 1k RPMs …
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:26 AM
2

Thanks for the reminder to shut my mouth about my world view. It's difficult because I feel like I know the truth behind all the bullshit our gynocentric society vomits. I need to shut my mouth and play along.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:18 AM
4

Sounds like she has a mental illness. Moreover, the issues will not stop the older you get. In your mother's eyes you will always be a little boy, no matter what you do. When my mom gets too clingy or batshit crazy, I withold. I go radio silent. She rages for a day or two but always slinks back apologizing and promising to change. Usually it helps and she moderates her behavior because she loves her little boy sooo much. If that doesn't work cut her out of your life. She's toxic and you don't ne…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:17 AM
1

This little cunt is waving pants in front of your face, stepping into them, and saying "This is the way it's gonna be. You're gonna abide by my rules and I will set the tone." Moreover, she straight up said that you don't measure up to her past Chads and now that you might get the chance to stick your dick in her used-up cum-bucket snatch that she controls every aspect of sex and power in the relationship. Fuck that and fuck her. Recently I had a potential plate hold out on me and I saw it from …
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:06 AM
9

Find a new social group. This one looks like a lost cause. He has the women on his side and doesn't like you and therefore turned them against you. Since the majority of the social group probably thinks you're the issue, seek other ground and other people. If a group of people openly dislike you it looks like you need to work on being a more positive social player in situations. Being outspoken is great but I know some guys that speak their mind often and people just want them to shut the fuck u…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:53 AM
7

I've always liked the House show. If I had to look at the character through a red pill lens, I'd say he has many alpha characteristics. He takes decisive action and doesn't give a fuck what others think. He has outcome independence and is a loner, but at the same time is inclusive of people he thinks show promise. He is brilliant, charming, constantly negs the bitches he fucks, and physically is tall and good-looking with a shit-eating grin. He also values his male friends over pursuing women. W…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:36 AM
1

Have you met this girl before? Is she age of majority in your state? The whole "my parents aren't around" is also a dangerous game to play.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:24 AM
12

There are many variables but as a rule in these situations whomever speaks first loses the power play. Go radio silent. If they don't reach out who cares you're a busy dude. If they do, then woohoo maybe some more sex and the power dynamic has been set in your favour.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:18 AM
1

Go get em tiger.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 02:23 AM
2

All lack of kino aside, you need to work on not overinvesting in ANY bitch. You're flitting about saying "I should have done this I should have done that" when you just need to internalize the experience and try again later. Adapting your behavior for what a specific girl wants is beta thinking. You have to get out of the mindset of "the exchange of goods for sex." Adapting your behavior to what YOU want and you know ALL girls want is TRP. Here's my kino recipe that works for me: hug when first …
/r/askTRP03/01/16 07:43 PM
17

That's cause it's Scotland, bro.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 07:02 PM
2

Too young living in the high school bubble and too few experiences with women to understand. Glad you came early, though. Lots of dudes come here because a unicorn completely wrecked them and the guy says "wait a minute somethings not right."
/r/askTRP02/01/16 03:31 AM
1

Abide by his rules and keep working on self-improvement so you can jump ship if he gets too controlling and it's not worth it anymore. Prepare for all exigencies. Do you go to the gym? Read? Improve your SMV to make yourself the most attractive female you can be. If he keeps being controlling and you can't handle it then branch swing to the next best guy. Still, focus on making yourself the best possible version of yourself, physically, mentally, socially, spiritually. I think you focus too much…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 10:48 PM
0

Alright. Might as well practice cold approach even if girls don't give u IOIs.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 11:06 PM
0

Ever heard of the "don't shit where you eat" saying? You're in danger of getting a bad rep if girls find out you've been sleeping around and your SMV isn't high enough to make it a non-issue. Just be aware that you might poison the well by flirting and sleeping around with girls in the same dorm as you.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 10:55 PM
2

Used to have this issue but got over it in time. It's most likely performance anxiety. Things that help: Kegals Being in the moment and out of your head No fap No porn Fixing improper/lack of foreplay Being with girls you're actually attracted to The second to last one is a thing. Sometimes girls are lazy or inexperienced and don't suck your dick or do anything to get you excited except starfish and expect you to be rock hard. This makes things difficult, especially if she doesnt look that great…
/r/askTRP31/12/15 05:01 PM
2

Don't fucking ask her about it. Whether they're real or not, appreciate and just enjoy it. If they're real: awesome. If not, she's really trying to show you she is into it and putting forth good effort. It's a win-win either way, the reality doesn't matter, and don't fucking ask her and ruin it.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 04:49 PM
4

One issue is you were at her place and in her frame. She obviously didn't want sex and you didn't escalate properly before sexy time. Also she was tired, which is a factor. If she made you dinner that means she probably likes you and wants sex, but girls are notoriously bad for initiating, she was tired, and you didn't properly go for it. Escalation takes confidence. You were worried about 'rocking the boat' and didn't want to bother her. In another world you could have scored by slowly ramping …
/r/askTRP30/12/15 07:28 PM
1

Pursuing is like a beta orbiter who a chick is uninterested in while she's in her 20s that gets the chance to fuck and marry the girl after she gets off the cock carousel post-wall for BB. Then he thinks "oh lucky me I get this beautiful girl I've loved for so long and she loves me back!" While she's thinking "oh he's such a nice guy but I'll never loved him like I did Chad." In a more common example, a guy who is a bitch's second, third, last string keeps putting in effort, time, feelz, and mon…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 04:05 AM
1

Radio silence is good but it's obvious your power dynamics are fucked. She has the pants right now. She knows she can bitch and criticize you and you will deal with it because she's the leader. She doesnt respect you and has no dread. Take control of your relationship. Sounds like it's too late though. Fuck girlfriends anyway: why put your balls in some girls purse when you can fuck multiple girls on the side while bettering yourself and hanging with friends.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 12:34 AM
1

Never blow off a bro for a hoe if you already made plans. If she is for real she will reschedule. Believe me. I had the same choice a month ago, told her I had plans, rescheduled, hung with my bros, and got action with her later.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 12:25 AM
15

Cut him out. He makes you look bad and assaults you over a tinderslut. You don't want to surround yourself with people like that who get sloppy and get none. Surround yourself with self-respecting, attractive dudes. I lucked out in school because I met a group of dudes who are all attractive and tall. We go out drinking together, have fun, and only help each other get pussy.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 05:08 PM
2

Presumptuous? Not if you've been drinking beforehand. Also, buy some alcohol from the corner store and bring it back with you guys on the way and play some cards or something while drinking and start kino there if you failed at the bar. To get her back to your hotel if it wasn't clear you were going there already, just say "hey want to get drinks back in my room?" Most Chinese girls probably wanna jump on your dick though so shouldn't be difficult because you're white and they want a boyfriend t…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 04:44 PM
2

Got to start kino immediately. I hug when I first meet, then proceed to shoulder touching, then palm reading, then when leave the bar arm around the shoulder and walk together, then when get home or to park touch knees and grab their hands to touch/hold. Then lean in for a kiss, makeout, pull them on to straddle you, take them upstairs to room, lay down and cuddle, take layers off/rub their tits/crotch outside pants, eventually take panties off and rub them out/finger, then tell her to blow you …
/r/askTRP27/12/15 11:52 PM
1

Be positive, keep working out, do sports and school clubs/activities, get good grades and focus on your career/future. On the side learn cold- approaching cute girls you don't know for fun and apply TRP sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 07:35 AM
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She was fucking with you or was so buzzed forgot you existed. You calling back 10 times showed you were a beta bitch with no outcome independence or abundance mentality. Girls don't have any accountability and can get away with anything without feeling remorse. Get used to it and don't blow off your guy friends for the chance at pussy if you already were going to hang with them. TL;DR get outcome independence and abundance mentality and stop blowing off your guy friends. Bitches are secondary.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 07:30 AM
2

Drop her ass. Had to do the same to a chick who wouldn't put out and was a self-proclaimed SJW and feminist.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 04:37 AM
1

Kenjataimu.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 05:35 PM
1

Been a RPer for a year or two now and feel the same form of isolationism: that most of what people say is fucking stupid or wrong. Still, I have great fun with my male friends and am not lonely because I have a few plates. If you have hobbies, a job or school, exercise, friends, and plates, it's a lot easier to stay happy and feel fulfilled.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:32 AM
1

Was a mamas boy my whole childhood and majority of teenagehood despite strong paternal figures. Gave in to my mother's poison about how my father was Satan himself for divorcing her. Had a liberal education being fed all the equality garbage, rape hysteria, and listening to advice from girls in order to get girls. Had a short relationship at end of university (one year) with a 9 who I thought was my soul mate. Acted like a petulant bitch until her pussy dried like the Sahara. Took years to get o…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 02:37 AM
1

Marry her and have children then. Sounds like you're buffering yourself with excuses for why you want to stay. I have a buddy just like you who is lazy and wants to keep the status quo stable with no uncomfortable or potentially negative experiences by staying with a good girl who is not his ideal.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 08:46 PM
1

If her SMV passes the threshold of you giving a few hours of your time which could be a potential win then I say go: no loss.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 05:27 PM
0

Get good at lying and say no.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 05:25 PM
9

They want you to settle down and stop being sexy and successful because they don't want to acknowledge that 30 is man's golden years while women hit the wall.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 05:31 PM
1

Run the other way.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 06:35 AM
1

The "drive me home and meet my cat" bit is smart. Personally don't have a pet and can't walk to a coffee shop, but good to know it can lead to sex.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 03:47 PM
4

Beautifully written. At first I felt sadness because of the human condition and the eternal drive for those in power to keep those below in control. It's a trickle-down of bullshit from on high to keep you spending, keep you plugged in, keep you FAT and HAPPY. But then I felt pleasure in knowing that I am awake, moreso than most of my fellows, and that through the sweat of my own brow I have sought self-betterment and truth. My eyes have felt pain, but now they see more clearly then they ever ha…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 03:44 PM
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It's funny. After reading this post it made me realize all the times women have confided in me that I make them feel so relaxed and centered. Guess I provide that "rock" for them.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 03:16 PM
2

One of my plates starting calling me sir of her own volition and out of the blue. Hard-wired.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 03:14 PM
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Besides what TRPTower says, in my experience coffee dates are usually a waste/just a screening interview for girls. They want to know you're not a freak or a retard. I think meeting for coffee is overinvestment unless she shows good potential for platehood. While TRPTower is advanced and has mastered the cold approach, you and I aren't quite there yet. For me, I only do drinks at night for a date. Chances of scoring on the weekend are better than the week because some bitches work in the morning…
/r/askTRP17/12/15 03:01 PM
2

Don't apologize. You are conditioning her. You let her know the rules. Go radio silent until she reaches out to you and begs to come over. If she doesnt, who cares? You're working on multiple other plates, right?
/r/askTRP17/12/15 05:33 AM
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Throw out the cheesy one liners. Girls are all but immune to them nowadays unless u have a six pack and are attractive. Read OmLaLas "The red pillers guide to online dating." She's just trolling you because she thinks you're a douche bag. Tinder isn't for talking. Just start with a "hey how's it going?" If she matched with you she likes the way you look. After a few general lines of text ask when she's free, then close on a bar or spot to meet. Get a number and a date, that's all tinder is for.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 04:43 AM
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First of all you overthink way too much. Second, you can't treat a plate like shit then go soft on her. Have to start over and be nicer to a different girl. Furthermore, if a plate is behaving poorly then go radio silent until they make it up to you. Finally, holding frame doesn't always mean being a dick. After a while your frame will be genuine and you'll feel genuine.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 04:23 AM
1

Getting laid frequently: this 2 girls a week or one plate 2 times a week? Clear oneitis for this girl. The moment you start to care is the moment you lose SMV in her eyes. Don't believe me then see what your plates do when you barely give them the time of day: bring you homecooked meals suck your dick and fuck you for free, then go to the store on their own and buy lingerie because you mentioned it off handedly once. LTRs all have expiration dates. Life has an expiration date. So this girl is gr…
/r/askTRP17/12/15 03:11 AM
3

Super in your head. I have this problem sometimes. Depending on who I'm with. Don't let it get you down and keep trying.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 06:37 AM
1

When I started having sex my first girl always wanted to be on top so I acclimated to that. However, subsequent girls always preferred me going on top. It's a habit and feeling that may take a bit to get used to but you can definitely get used to and prefer top.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:10 AM
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I needed this. Been focused too much on plate gathering and have spent too much money and time doing it. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 07:34 PM
1

Sounds like you guys have already been playing house for a while. Also seems like you are getting oneitis for this chick. How long until her lease is up? That's my main question. If you want to make her an LTR just do it. You've already set everything up that way. Don't be surprised when things go south. You live with this chick, for fucks sake. In a perfect world, you would still have plates and bring em back to your place to bang, show her your abundance and she will probably jump on your dick…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 07:30 PM
1

Back when I was in an LTR I did this (teasing and being playful) and she verbatim said it felt like we were acting like brother and sister... didn't work out. Teasing and being playful is important but execution and frequency is key
/r/askTRP12/12/15 09:26 PM
1

Sounds like nerves. Just keep trying and try to relax.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 08:52 PM
3

Eh. Went on a date yesterday and a girl complimented my watch.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 09:19 PM
2

On re-reading, I think I see your problem. You worked way too hard to close with this girl. She was telling you to slow down because she could tell how thirsty you were. Sometimes, especially when you're not experienced, you don't know all the signs for when to stay away or when to pursue. It's clear that you were chomping at the bit for that pussy and that turned her off. It sounds counter-intuitive because I'm telling you to next if they put up too resistance, but there's a difference between …
/r/askTRP08/12/15 01:22 AM
4

Depends on what you mean by love. Check the sidebar, but the natural Hierarchy of love goes as follows: men love women, women love children, children love dogs. But there's also brotherly love, love for your family, and yourself. So if you're asking can an alpha fall in love: sure. Will a women reciprocate love like a man wants? No. Does the blue pill notion of "romantic love" have an expiration date? Yes. Also, get your balls drained daily by a couple plates and come back to me about your magic…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 11:31 PM
1

Heartbroken? What the fuck? Obviously haven't completely swallowed the pill and finished anger phase yet. Heartbroken because 15 texts to randos yielded nothing? Where's your inner strength that your martial hobbies have taught you? Despite monk mode, looks like you haven't even tried going out and practicing game. If you had, you'd realize girls not responding to you means nothing. You simply need to learn texting game and/or have better pictures on your profile. Women of varying intelligence? …
/r/askTRP07/12/15 08:56 PM
1

I say always go for it, as long as she's in your acceptable SMV range. You only stand to learn strategy from interacting with high SMV girls. In my experience, most 9s and 10s are pretty tough to ONS and plate anyway, since they either want a supermodel bro or a rich guy with a nice car to pedestalize them. You have nothing to lose. Go for it with gusto.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 08:47 PM
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She's bringing you into her frame and you only stand to lose. Get her number or next. It's obvious she already has a horde of hungry betas who flock to Kik to validate and pedastalize her. You need to learn when to drop a lost cause. Also, sounds like you're over-investing in text game. Stop that shit.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 08:44 PM
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Shit won't really change in high school unless you stop being self-deprecating. If you respect yourself, others will eventually too. 2 years is enough time to change the way people perceive you. Start gaining confidence through your self-improvement, don't be self-deprecating, and just be light-hearted and have frame no matter what happens. People will respond naturally to you and those taunts and stigmas will slowly wash away. Anyway, fuck high school. Once you go to college or get a job none o…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 08:41 PM
1

As a rule I ignore most if not all compliments, whether they range from "you're cute" to "you're so fucking hot." I don't want to hear that shit so don't positively or negatively reinforce compliments. You are what you are, no matter what someone tells you or how someone tries to qualify you. Ignore it.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 08:39 PM
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Keep truckin'.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 08:28 PM
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Get laid and keep improving yourself. Everyone, or most people, have oneitis at least once in their life. You know you fucked up and acted like a blue beta bitch. Never contact her and don't try to fuck her again: that's just a revenge/romance fantasy. Pursue other women and get plates. It sounds to me like she was seeing another dude when you brought her flowers. Regardless, who cares. There are women out there that will treat you like a king: trust me. If you work on yourself, put yourself out…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 02:48 PM
1

What he said. For every date I take girls to a bar 2 miles from my place. I rarely travel unless I'm feeling adventurous. Buy a beer and have conversation, initiate kino, destroy shit tests, joke and keep it light, go dutch on the bill, on the way out ask if they want to get drinks at my place. They say no, move on unless they're on the fence. Had to take a girl to the park first who needed more comfort before I took her home. Otherwise, bring to my place, make first move on couch with music pla…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 05:58 AM
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I agree with Thesegates. First you need to get yourself and your life under control before you practice game. Three things you need to work on: Not over-investing: I've been working on this too and it's hard to shake. Texting must be minimal, and wait 20 mins to 24 hours before responding to things. Also, spend the minimum required in cash to have a date with a chick and if she shit tests a lot or puts up a lot of resistance and wants to slow down the relationship, just next. Abundance Mentality…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 01:09 AM
2

"hey" confirmed. Out of 10 matches I said it to, 5 responded immediately.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 10:04 PM
1

Hey Thanks! I agree with the over-investment. For the past couple days I've been exercising OmLaLa's texting strategies. Not only have I been over-investing in texting, but after last night's date I realized I've been over-investing in compliments too: saying they're pretty, complimenting their drive/careers, and just pedastalizing them in general. Pisses me off, but I've been hardwired to do that. Actively working to fix that. Last night's date was mediocre. Passed about 20 shit-tests, ranging …
/r/askTRP05/12/15 09:52 PM
2

Hey, read your guide and it's great. Really going to apply the texting strategies and see how they work out. You've made me realize I've been coming at this from a blue-pill mindset (the whole conversation rapport game). Previously, I had this sort of idea that I could "trick" a girl into thinking I was a BB, fuck her, then leave her. Now I see that's a pretty laughable and long-way-around approach. Not to mention ineffective and tingles-killing. I also really like your part about being stood up…
/r/askTRP04/12/15 10:03 PM
1

Hey thanks for your 2 cents!
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 07:21 PM
2

Thank You! Will delete, move over, and read content.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 07:18 PM
2

I've been Tindering a lot for the past month. Went on 5 dates by now. The whole "don't attempt to build rapport" thing hit home with one of my last ones. She was attractive, tall, and actually really funny and flirty over the phone. As a result, I was extra-confident while meeting her. Reality was another beast, though. The date was fine, we had beers, I asked her to come over for drinks, and she says fine. She follows me in her car, and when we're almost to my place turns onto the freeway and g…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 06:41 PM
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Spot on. As a law student I saw this all the time with my ex. The greatest value I brought her was status. She was a cute, tall blonde but socially awkward as hell. When we started dating she rose far and her social net widened significantly because I brought her along to all my friend events. Then she was know as "oh you're x's girlfriend!" Also, she was so smug that she landed a guy with my SMV. At the end of our relationship I told her she wasn't doing it for me and she begged to stay togethe…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 08:33 PM
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Yeah, had this happen to me once. Step-mom and her yoga friend wanted to set me up with yoga friend's daughter. Step-mom tells me that friend's daughter was an actual rape victim while traveling in Australia. (Walking along street and a rando assaulted and raped her). Queue a month later where I'm introduced to this girl at a family event. She was overweight and unnatractive. I'm nice to her but blow her off quickly. Step-mom is furious that I was "so rude." Uh, no way I'm going to take damaged,…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:20 AM
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I appreciate your honest opinion!
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 07:45 PM
-4

Well I did say "a little analysis" right? Anyway, wasn't difficult to see through this show.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 05:55 PM
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I agree that TV shows in the scheme of things are meaningless, but it's the ideas they pedal which are unhealthy: The ideas they reinforce and the behavior of the protagonists which holds a mirror up to our society. There's a saying, "garbage in, garbage out." What people consume does have an affect on the way they view reality, unfortunately. Moreover, not everyone in the world thinks and acts as you, an enlightened RPer. What about an impressionable young woman watching this show? A child? I d…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 04:41 PM
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You have to look at who plays against the main character to get the analysis I'm discussing. Avengers: white man against white man. Daredevil, same. Looks like we're both speaking in generalities. In this show, it's a "rape" victim with superpowers. There are reasons behind the choices writers make. I don't think you can honestly say the writers were innocent here in today's age of rampant gynocentrism. Good writers make strong conscious choices to effect whatever theme or action they want to ta…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 12:27 AM
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I think keyword is reinforcing, but what you say is fair.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 09:00 PM
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I would follow up on it. Next time you see her and you feel it's a good time, apologize for coming off as rude and compliment her. Try to get her talking about whatever banal bullshit is happening in her life. Maintain amused mastery and dont-give-a-fuckness. Tease her lovingly. Since the girl is probably on guard with you now, you have to soften her up with positive comments and a relaxed demeanor. Be sparing with compliments though--women get that shit every day from hordes of thirsty men than…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:58 AM
2

Hey. I'm 27, so take my advice with a grain of salt. You came off as a douchebag. The issue was you forced the encounter when it was a bad time. When you actually got her attention, you lacked confidence to close. Your discomfort leaked through and to save face your resorted to chest-thumping. Catching girls as they walk out of class and you pass by is not the time to attempt game. I'd say lunch time or other free time is preffered. Also, most people who say they're a legend are not. You know th…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 08:00 PM
1

Great read. Wish there were more concrete examples such as personal experiences/stories. Btw, missing the e in carte blanche.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 05:48 PM
1

The Red Pill is more than just sexual strategy. It is also a lifestyle and ideology. Unfortunately, with every great movement comes individuals who pervert or do not quite understand what it's "all about." In your case, your brother is clearly in the anger phase (as many others have said). His actions have been completely innapropriate and are not in line with any Red Pill philosophy. For example, let's look at guns. In America a person has the right to carry arms if they apply for a permit. A p…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 07:02 AM
0

You got angry. You failed the shit test. As a result, you lost a plate. Never, ever get angry. Agree and amplify (which turns into humor) or change the subject.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 09:26 PM
1

I dunno. A cheatcode TRP provides is that you have to work hard. I work hard and I feel fucking awesome. Sounds like a cheatcode to me.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 02:35 AM
2

The Trinity of Security, Status, Escape. Google it because I can't post links.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 05:57 AM
2

The bottom line is you can't really do anything. Great changes need to come from inside. If you hand him the lead to everything then it is not the same. He may even begin to resent you. Look for a man who is self-built. Otherwise, your hands are tied and he may begin to resent you simply because you're trying to help.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 11:28 PM
2

It will take time for him to adjust, but I don't see why this should be a long-term issue for him. If my SO had a great job, I would be happy. If he's still unhappy and "emasculated" after a while then I believe he needs to keep himself more busy, with exercise, hobbies, friends, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 11:23 PM
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I read a recent post that rang true for me: Every decision a woman makes is motivated by one of three things (or a combination thereof): Status Safety Escape
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 11:08 PM
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As a 26 y/o male, I've been in 4-6 LTRs. My current LTR has been going for 3 months. So far, the positives vastly outweigh the negatives. Maybe 90/10. We're both happy and will continue to be happy until I see the scale slide. I think an important outlook on LTRs is to put reasonable work into it (as all relationships require work). After all, Voltaire said "we must tend to our garden." Regardless, once the scale slides and the negatives start outweighing the positives, it's time to next. This V…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 10:22 PM
0

I don't believe I equated the Constitution with truth. I merely stated that the formation of the Constitution was a direct response to the failure of the Articles, and that the "spirit" of the Constitutional Convention was similar to The Red Pill's rejection of what feminist society would like us to believe is the "truth." I don't believe I even equate TRP with truth. Rather, that it's a strategy, theory, and world-view. As for the "value judgments" about the economic issues that occurred after …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 01:20 AM
2

I want to know: Why it's a bad analogy. Why it's "bad" or "shit" history.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 12:43 AM
1

Instead of simply no, can you say the why of it?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 12:28 AM
0

Saw in a post yesterday: There can be fat and ugly sluts, but not fat and ugly studs.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 10:47 PM
2

Dread Game, my friend. But a warning, if she says she's not that into sex now, then it looks pretty grim for a potential LTR. Also sounds like you've got a bit of the oneitis. AWALT. There are no unicorns! Abundance mentality and dread game. It sounds like you should soft plate her and keep scanning the horizon anyway. If it works out and she gets warmer towards you and sucks your dick, great! Otherwise, no real loss and next her. I guarantee if she's sucked some other dude's dick but doesn't ea…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 05:00 AM
1

Stopped reading your opinion after "encarnate."
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 08:33 PM
1

As shown in the video, all the "guy friends" those college girls have are either beta-orbiters/emotional tampons or guys that they're looking to fuck because of superior SMV. Look at that one girl who, at the interviewer's questioning, answered for herself that men and women can't be friends---but then states "they can still be friends." Major hamstering. Men keep score of a woman's SMV. For women, any situation can change a man's perceived SMV in the blink of an eye. For example, a man they pre…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 02:20 AM
0

I'm sure he's under a fuckton of pressure.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 08:09 PM
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Absolutely. The Army is key to building a better world.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 07:24 PM
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The problem with this reply is that it puts pussy on a pedestal. "Not giving a shit about anything else but pussy" is what a lot of blue-pillers do. The goal of TRP is to better yourself. Through bettering and loving yourself, taking chances, and networking, your confidence grows because you're growing as a person. As a result of this, girls naturally sense desirable traits within you. You're not anyone's bitch. You make sensible and informed choices. You have hobbies. You have friends. You have…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 03:08 AM
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Wonder how long the statute of limitations would be for a case like this.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 12:12 AM
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10/10 would play again.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 05:30 PM
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Thanks for the great advice! Applying now.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 07:54 PM
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Yeah, I got angry at the SHE DOESN'T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU part. Fuck that.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 12:02 AM
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Definitely in the second stage right now, and having trouble getting plates as quickly as I'd like.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 06:09 AM
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She felt that the frequency of sex he had was a litmus for his SMV. She then saw that as a mirror to herself, and not liking what she saw, she bailed.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 05:26 PM
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You're right in that I should not have expected to get pussy simply because I spent money and invested time into her. THAT is exactly the fallacy that women want betas to embrace. However, I did have the expectation to fuck because of the circumstances of our "special" relationship---one of those being that we came together to fuck outside of her marriage. I didn't come to cuddle, commiserate, and sleep.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 04:16 AM
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"you didn't honor society's expectation" If I'm not mistaken, that's exactly what TRP is about.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 03:57 AM
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Yeah, I would say focus on career and trajectory first, then the ladies second. If she comes with you to wherever you move and it's fucking great and she sticks with you through it all, she sounds pretty damn great.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 03:09 AM
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First of all, I don't want you to feel bad for me, nor do I believe I am worthy of pity. Next, pretty sure on the front page of TRP there's a big post about how individuals are not supposed to shame others for what actions they choose to partake in.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 03:02 AM
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Yeah... the married thing is something I will do my best to avoid in the future. When I move and attend graduate school I plan on upping my plate game, making my intentions clear from the get-go, and not spending so much to get pussy. Honestly most of the money was spent because we had to find a place to fuck---I will have a condo after I move so problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 12:15 AM
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From everything I gathered of her, she wanted me to be the tampon that buffered and dampened the flow of stress/bullshit/sadness in her life. I felt I did pretty well with the don't give a fuck attitude up until that point. I had made it clear that I was leaving in 3 weeks for school but that I still wanted to see her until I left.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 12:12 AM
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Yeah... as far as the hand thing, I honestly felt that if I had pursued it more it would have escalated into something bad. Just my gut though. Still pissed that I texted... though the silver lining is I learned my lesson and won't do that shit again with future, better plates that are way more DTF than her lukewarm permissions.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 12:10 AM
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You're right. The term I was looking for was more along the lines of a "chump" or as TheSKSpecial said "a beta emotional tampon role".
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 08:09 PM
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Thanks for the insight! One other important note: yesterday was my last day at work. I had previously put in my two weeks. Yeah, I cringe thinking about my angry, butt-hurt text. Couldn't help myself. Trying to evolve and maintain frame! The whole friend dying thing... that aspect does make me feel shitty. As if I pressed myself upon her and petulantly walked away when I didn't get what I wanted. Finally, didn't mention I'm leaving the State to go to school in another within 3 weeks.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 07:15 PM
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Yeah. It almost seems like a woman - hating TRP fanatic wanted to create propaganda to then make a red pill post about it and reap karma/TRP circle-jerking.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 11:53 PM
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I'm in the process of reading TRP canon. Get out of here with your hudibrastic posturing and go drink some more protein shakes.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 02:18 AM
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Thank you for taking the time to write this!
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 11:56 PM
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Took the red pill last week, still learning the terminology. What is frame? What is a plate?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 08:46 PM
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