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You don't pay for sex in the jungle, you hunt for it. If all men chose to simply spend a couple bucks for a quick happy every now and then, nobody would lift, nobody would bother to go clubbing, and the conventional sexual market would ultimately vanish. Why bother improving yourself, making yourself more attractive, and becoming more masculine and powerful if it's not necessary for acquiring that currency? Fuck it, why don't we actually take the control for ourselves and just stick to fapping? …
/r/askTRP28/04/14 03:40 AM
1

As far as this type of scripted game goes, you'll notice once your approach rate goes up, you'll be having the same set of pretty similar conversations. Your brain will develop a kind of conversational muscle memory. I suggest you go for it! Use the canned material. Use each scripted piece you've got on twenty different girls each. You'll be surprised.
/r/seduction04/10/13 03:30 AM
1

I'd have figured 10-15 minutes per girl would be par to build enough of a connection to secure a date. I haven't found much success from #-closing in three minutes or less.
/r/seduction04/10/13 03:22 AM
3

I'm very much the same way. I'd save the more funny/cheesy/gimmicky openers for later in the night, after you're all warmed up and feeling creative. My normal go-to in the clubs is "Hey you guys look cool" or "oh, we haven't met, hi!". And in daygame I go direct nearly all the time.
/r/seduction04/10/13 02:41 AM
1

I use 17 quite a bit, but I end it a little differently. "I know, right! You'd have to leave straight away to change!"
/r/seduction04/10/13 02:32 AM
1

Talk up the grossness! You're both in the same sweaty boat, so live it up! Hook up with her anyway. If it's not a big deal to you, it won't be a big deal to her. She'll probably find it cute.
/r/seduction03/10/13 05:21 AM
1

Wear it once and smile about it. That's all you have to do.
/r/seduction03/10/13 05:19 AM
1

Most are inside bars and clubs. I also do a lot of approaching on the street in the day and night, but the vast majority of my sets take place inside the bars and clubs.
/r/seduction03/10/13 05:18 AM
-1

Don't text. Call her. Call her to see "if you're feeling OK and I know just the cutest little cocktail bar we can continue our date at".
/r/seduction03/10/13 05:12 AM
1

A negative emotional reaction, whilst not a positive emotional reaction, is still an emotional reaction, and is therefore good. To flip the script, "You're just so easy to get mad at!" is a brilliant thing to (playfully) say to a girl when she's being cheeky. Take it as a green light and continue.
/r/seduction03/10/13 05:06 AM
1

Graduating from high school is a good start.
/r/seduction03/10/13 05:01 AM
2

Find your zone. It might not be the loud, crowded, alcohol-fueled meat market clubs and bars. You might be more suited for coffee shops, cafe's or shopping malls. If you don't like the day game, but want a lower energy environment to play in, try oyster bars, cocktail bars or restaurants. CurveBall is right, though; "Hi!" or "Hey! You guys look cool!" is pretty much all I use to open a set in a bar/club. But opening is the easy bit ;)
/r/seduction03/10/13 04:59 AM
2

To break into relationship territory, your girl needs to be made aware of the fact that she needs you. This means doing things for her without being prompted (like giving, not offering, a ride home) while telling her things that her girlfriends won't (Those jeans are cute, but they make your ass stick out hahaha) and leading her from place to place. Keep a strong frame and don't ever be hesitant or on the fence about decisions in real-time. Above all else, make it clear that you do have other pr…
/r/seduction03/10/13 04:55 AM
1

Mine was simple: "Tonight, I'm going to the club and I will open three sets." I obeyed the three second rule (when you see a set you like, you've got three seconds to open) and the three minute rule (after you've opened, commit to staying with the set for at least three minutes). Once the fear of meeting new people was diminishing, I began really learning. I began pushing the limits of the interaction and noticing things like sustained eye contact from girls, people facing me directly, holding f…
/r/seduction27/09/13 09:41 AM
1

What? That has nothing to do with limiting beliefs. I can believe my town is full of hotties all I want, it ain't changing the fact that they aren't all positioning themselves in my favorite approach scenario, or going out all the time. The population of the town I live in has nothing to do with my beliefs. EDIT: I just closed my eyes really tight and focused on making pretty girls appear. Didn't work. I might have to get out of my comfort zone to meet some! :O
/r/seduction25/09/13 02:37 AM
2

I have two rules of thumb (rules of beard) regarding facial hair: Either go for a full beard or clean shaven If a girl touches my beard without being prompted, she wants to make out Here's something my dad told me when I started shaving: If you can't grow a beard, you're just another woman or child ;P
/r/seduction24/09/13 11:03 PM
3

I'm taking a wild guess here, but 'Go Fuck Ten Other Women', right?
/r/seduction24/09/13 10:57 PM
1

Bah. If I see an exceptionally pretty girl, I'm gonna approach her regardless of any limiting belief I haven't yet fixed. I might not see a girl like for the rest of the week. Just wait until she's finished her workout and had a shower, and maybe don't layer on many 'you look cute' comments. A little social intuition goes a long way.
/r/seduction24/09/13 10:54 PM
3

I was thinking the same thing. My folks never gave me any useful know-how yet still expect grandchildren one day. I've come a long way, put a lot of work in, and enjoyed my share of success. If I were OP, I'd own it proudly.
/r/seduction23/09/13 12:09 PM
1

That's the one!
/r/seduction19/09/13 02:34 PM
19

Hey dude, You're a winner. You have the guts to approach girls you like and put a plan in motion to close the deal. Most guys out there won't even do that. Did you make out with a hottie? Get a phone number? No. But you did try. I bet that if you didn't even do that, you'd feel a hundred times more shitty with yourself than you do right now. Reflect on what you did and what you saw out there, and try and figure out what you could've done to improve. You'll have a few moments where you'll think "…
/r/seduction13/09/13 08:17 AM
-2

In my car at a red light. She pulls up in the empty lane next to me, and I notice her out of the corner of my eye. I wave, she turns, I mouth 'Hi!', she smiles and waves, I get out of my car and collect her number before the light turns green.
/r/seduction11/09/13 08:15 AM
1

That's precisely what I'm talking about :) It will feel like a routine to you because you've done it countless times, but to your girl, and everyone else, it looks silky smooth.
/r/seduction09/09/13 11:52 PM
3

Spot on. No line or move will ever have any effect if it isn't backed up by unflinching, stable eye contact. There should be a 'PUA Kindergarten' that covers this type of ultra-basic information. Not the usual "you gotta look confident" type of crap, but real, practical, explicitly described behaviors that contribute to the overall image you present in-field.
/r/seduction09/09/13 04:06 AM
8

High school is a strange and confusing place for everybody. The game is more or less the same, but you might as well just wing it. In my opinion, you should be spending your school years forging your academic knowledge, learning about fashion, music and lifestyle, and making friends, not lovers.
/r/seduction07/09/13 06:25 AM
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You need to do some reading. Dr. Outlaw is prescribing you a solid dose of this, this and this. To be taken every day for as long as it takes to shake those pesky limiting beliefs and bring out that potential. :)
/r/seduction07/09/13 06:21 AM
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Body language. Hands down. If I'm winging with a guy for the first time, or he's new, it's the first thing I notice. Shoulders back, chin up, move at half that speed, and smile.
/r/seduction07/09/13 06:19 AM
4

This is all down to your reference experiences and ability to calibrate. That said, physical contact can be broken down to four categories: Social touch, friendly touch, romantic touch, sexual touch (in that order of escalation). If you're getting green lights with your social touching (handshake, pat on the back) escalate to friendly touch (fist bump, pinky love, high five, hug) and so on, up to the sexmaking.
/r/seduction07/09/13 06:15 AM
1

Brilliantly simple.
/r/seduction07/09/13 06:11 AM
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They're probably not stupid, you're just not hooking them well enough for them to elicit anything constructive. Work on your sense of humour and become somewhat of a social entertainer. Be interesting and witty. Improve your story-telling. Practice push-pull theory.
/r/seduction07/09/13 06:10 AM
1

If you get stuck for guy-talk, fall back on reliable topics that all guys discuss; namely sex, sports and stories about drinking.
/r/seduction07/09/13 06:08 AM
8

Instead of saying 'she was like, prop totes a HB10', I would say 'she's a tall cutie with an Yvonne Strahovsky face and straight black hair'. Free association descriptions.
/r/seduction28/08/13 07:26 AM
1

Dude, getting the number isn't anywhere near the end of the pickup; the phone number is a tool to be used to schedule the next encounter. Getting the number is also a compliance test, if you ask guys like me. To answer your question, you either call or text. If you've got lots of numbers, great! You'll get lots of practice.
/r/seduction25/08/13 12:54 PM
2

Good frame control isn't determined by whether or not everyone is looking at you; you just gotta steer. For example, if someone in set suggests a bounce, but nobody moves until you agree to it, guess what? you're in control even though it isn't your bounce.
/r/seduction25/08/13 12:49 PM
1

good tip!
/r/seduction23/08/13 11:05 AM
2

So, the character you're describing me as, and the character you're portraying in your rebuttal differ in what way? Firstly, putting girls on a numerical scale to judge a subjective and external quality is unhealthy. This is not up for debate. In response to your next paragraph, even if a guy has no game whatsoever, yet remains upfront and honest with the girl he's dating, there won't be any friction when it comes to escalating. And if he does have game, the moment will feel right, and it will b…
/r/seduction22/08/13 03:25 AM
1

So there's a bit of mixed opinions floating around regarding deodorant. Personally, I bring a can to festivals. Some people embrace the filth. So I say do what makes sense, and that is, look and smell as good as you can.
/r/seduction22/08/13 02:31 AM
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Yeah, like, before the festival. :) edited main post.
/r/seduction21/08/13 11:40 PM
2

Actually yeah, that's a good point. Scrap the deoderant.
/r/seduction21/08/13 11:34 PM
6

OI! Leave that shit at the door, hombre.
/r/seduction21/08/13 11:14 PM
5

Oh man, I love festivals! [THE FIELD] When you're walking between stages, open by forcing IOI's or with an opener related to the music. This means that, as you're moving about, do things like point to girls, call out "hey!" to people as they pass or playfully dance up to groups as they're going from stage to stage. Opinion openers are another good go-to, but remember, it's gotta be about the festival; so, "Hey, listen, my friend over there doesn't believe that girls like you listen to dubstep. W…
/r/seduction21/08/13 11:13 PM
2

Being 'alpha' does not make you 'cool'. You should continue developing the confidence and social ability you've been working on, but remember to nurture your own social intuition. Oh, and prepare yourself to be seeing a lot less of some of your civilian friends. Remember Oprah? When she lost all that weight, she also lost a lot of her closest friends. Her friends wanted her to stay fat so that they'd continue to feel validated around her. To put it very simply: Your friends will begin holding ba…
/r/seduction21/08/13 11:01 PM
1

With time, you'll learn to screen incompatible girls while you're in set meeting them. My first fifteen minutes with a new woman I'm pretty much thinking "Pivot or pursue?". Abandon the habit of giving girls a number (HB7, HB9). It's really, really unhealthy. If you haven't already made out with her before the first date (or during the first date), don't start making bets with yourself that she'll suddenly switch gears on the next date, or the next.
/r/seduction21/08/13 10:56 PM
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If there's attraction built up, it will make the target seek validation (qualify). This puts the PUA in a position of high value. This piece does exactly what OP suggests.
/r/seduction20/08/13 02:03 AM
-1

No, this is awful advice. It's called 'the game' for a reason, homie. I mean, what if shes really hot? Put the effort in and get the reference experience, at least.
/r/seduction20/08/13 02:02 AM
-5

theres nothing passive-aggressive going on here.
/r/seduction20/08/13 02:00 AM
1

Point them toward a source, don't try and explain it yourself.
/r/seduction20/08/13 01:48 AM
1

Your answer is physical escalation. I suspect you think you have good game because you're getting few rejections, but you also didn't mention that you're getting regular full-closes. Start pushing the limits of how far you can go; be surprised when you're suddenly getting laid like a rock star.
/r/seduction20/08/13 01:48 AM
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Hit the gym :: /r/fitness , /r/c25k Stop masturbating :: /r/nofap Improve your wardrobe :: /r/malefashionadvice , /r/malefashion Get a social life :: /r/socialskills Get a hobby :: /r/iwanttolearn Learn about people :: /r/askmen , /r/askwomen Learn how to attract a woman :: /r/seduction , /r/askseddit Don't give up :: /r/getmotivated
/r/seduction19/08/13 11:15 AM
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and /r/malefashion , /r/frugalmalefashion
/r/seduction19/08/13 10:52 AM
1

Check out 'The Ghost and the Flame' from Revelation. It'll give you a blueprint for how to act that will correct these low-value behaviors.
/r/seduction15/08/13 10:49 PM
1

I spent my formative months in the seduction community cutting my teeth in bars and night clubs, at night time. I didn't venture out into the day until about a year into my development. Believe me man, I felt the exact same way. Until I did it. Google the 'Yad Stop'. This is the move I used on those first few days to open girls on the street. And every approach went really well! I was getting good results, I collected a few numbers, and I felt fucking pleased with myself. Here's what I noticed: …
/r/seduction15/08/13 10:44 PM
1

The Ghost and the Flame
/r/seduction15/08/13 12:38 PM
1

Represent!
/r/seduction14/08/13 12:19 PM
0

Um. Now I'm not sure if you're not trolling. YOU asked for advice when you posted the thread.
/r/seduction14/08/13 12:16 PM
2

Yep! We are done here, gentlemen!
/r/seduction14/08/13 12:15 PM
0

No, no it is not. You are incorrect, and I don't know how to explain this more clearly. I'll give it a go though, but a different tact: Head over the www.lovesystems.com and find the interview on Social Proof by Keychain and Elate. They will explain the concepts sufficiently. Your post is about faking an abundance mentality, and I provided the solution, which apparently you have no clue about. I'm not going to provide free advice to a douchebag who simply won't do the necessary learning.
/r/seduction14/08/13 12:13 PM
1

wow. You build social proof by shortsetting everybody in the club, getting on first-name-basis with the bar staff, and being the social guy that's everybody's friend. And yes, you do this while rolling solo. It's called 'smoke and mirrors' social proof, and it is exactly what you're talking about. Now go and Google social proof and stop cussing at people offering assistance.
/r/seduction14/08/13 11:57 AM
1

Google 'social proof' and promptly delete this post.
/r/seduction14/08/13 11:28 AM
10

Not bad! You've fleshed out the routine quite well :)
/r/seduction13/08/13 03:17 AM
1

Ill take the second and third: I approach about 20 women when I go out on an average night (about 60 people total, including larger sets) and on an average night I'll probably stop closing (numbers and makeouts) after the second or third girl. Call it at three closes a night, two nights a week, and I'll go on a date with maybe three out of those six during the week. Or I might have a SNL on one of those nights and miss out on the other girls. This doesn't include the early days where I'd approac…
/r/seduction13/08/13 02:30 AM
0

The funny thing is, body-brushing does work for ramping up tension. The problem is that seddit really wants to appear noble in the eyes of reddit.
/r/seduction13/08/13 02:18 AM
0

Sexual Escalation. I could talk about this for days and days, but I'll boil it down to this: You gotta let the girl know that you're a sexually viable candidate. If this means telling her outright that you're going to fuck her, so be it.
/r/seduction13/08/13 02:15 AM
2

There is a lot of literature out there that is redundant, outdated, obsolete, discredited, and otherwise just plain useless. I believe it should be left up to the student to take in what information they want and filter it themselves. The Art of Seduction didnt help me one iota when it came to making a change. Still enjoyed it, and I entertained the points raised. Just do what you feel :) Besides, the question is "whats the best NLP book" and not "should I read an NLP book".
/r/seduction13/08/13 01:59 AM
1

Tremendous effect on your inner game, though. I'd definitely recommend the read whether or not you support the field.
/r/seduction13/08/13 12:34 AM
1

I found it more helpful to my inner game, actually. The applied stuff in Introducing NLP are geared more toward therapy and counselling, but there are some things that you should really pay attention to: Representational systems Eliciting emotions Emotional state control Anchoring The Milton Model Have fun! It's a hell of a rabbit hole :)
/r/seduction12/08/13 11:16 PM
1

The science might be pseudo, but the applications and programs are effective. I know it's not everyone's bag, but please don't feed misleading information to guys who are looking to do the research themselves.
/r/seduction12/08/13 11:12 PM
4

Three things to do every single day: Quit masturbating today, start running today, and stop thinking you're going to disappoint. Chances are, she has no real idea how to bang at all.
/r/seduction12/08/13 10:32 AM
1

I prefer drinks. I don't think there's a massive difference, though.
/r/seduction12/08/13 03:53 AM
1

It really isn't a daily routine for me, but my nights out tend to look more or less the same... Morning: Running/parkour session, 20-30min outdoor zen meditation, long shower. Afternoon: Big healthy lunch with lots of fruit juice, get dressed and groomed. Evening: Meet friends/wingmen for pre-drinks, open a few warmup sets. Night: I run my game as normal and select the girl I like most. Then I either date her or sleep with her.
/r/seduction12/08/13 03:49 AM
-1

Introducing NLP by Seymour and O'Connor is where to start. For more practical applications of NLP, look up Speed Seduction, Frame Games and Sleight of Mouth (cant remember authors, will edit later).
/r/seduction12/08/13 03:37 AM
1

it will, if you get out there and keep at it :)
/r/seduction04/06/13 03:05 AM
1

OK, I'll play. It was August 2011 and my LTR of 4 years just ended after months of drifting apart. For a few months I was pretty bummed out, until I rediscovered pickup material (being coupled for 4 years, I assumed it was all empty self-help) and had a weird "WOOHOO I CAN HAVE SEX AGAIN" moment, and started reading up. Since December 2011, I've been through all the common sticking points: fear of the approach, kino, closing, adapting to change, as well as the working out all my body-language qu…
/r/seduction04/06/13 03:03 AM
6

Field-tested two nights ago, got makeouts with three different girls using this technique, and I like it. Smooth move :)
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:22 AM
1

Pick a different field, maybe. Take the pressure off and go get drunk at a bar on ladies night or play some 8-ball with your buddies. You'll always experience AA to some degree - don't sweat it. Condition yourself to overcome it.
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:17 AM
1

Any interest in Adelaide, South AU?
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:09 AM
2

If you want to speed up your pickups to the SNL stuff, the clearest way off the top of my head is to go out as much as you can, open as many sets as you can, and always be pushing the boundary of what you think you can do. Over time, your personality will re-wire itself to handle the pickups better, and before you know it you'll be a master seducer.
/r/seduction19/05/13 02:52 AM
1

If you guys are interested, the judges do an interview on www.mensroom.tv where they talk about their game. It's a pretty good watch.
/r/seduction08/05/13 11:54 AM
2

You should go to bars that match your taste in music and the clientele is around your age group. Naturally you want it to be spacious enough to move about freely and quiet enough to maintain conversation. Keep trying new places and you'll eventually find you like.
/r/seduction08/05/13 06:50 AM
3

Ah, see: I'm 23, 6'2" and athletic. I look for style, fashion sense and compatible values in my girls. I don't want a ball game, I just want to ball dames.
/r/seduction07/05/13 10:26 PM
3

I thought the same thing. She just touched a self-serve fuel pump; sometimes I feel fuckin' gross touching those. I'm quite fond of this as a high-energy opener, though.
/r/seduction07/05/13 08:41 AM
4

Been in the game for two years, and here's my advice: Get laid, but be really really cautious about getting involved with a coworker.
/r/seduction07/05/13 08:37 AM
-2

Don't run game on a rape victim. You'll be stuck building comfort for an eternity with, depending on how recently, a strict no-touching policy.
/r/seduction07/05/13 08:28 AM
1

Most of my game takes place at night, in the bars and clubs, in AU. This is all fairly accurate for cheap-and-nasty dancefloor stuff, with a touch on the tables and seating around the dancefloor. For the smooth players out there, your gamefloor is the beer garden, the lounge, the rooftop, the smoking area (if you suck ash), and the front bar. I still believe that dancefloors are traps, but if you can do it - mad props. I love clubs, but never for the dancing. ;)
/r/seduction07/05/13 08:22 AM
2

The dance advice here is good.
/r/seduction07/05/13 08:15 AM
1

You mean this stuff works on any girl? Holy crap! Thanks science!
/r/seduction03/05/13 12:38 AM
1

That's all good for you, but a solid wingman who's savvy with the scene can offer the same advice without handing you a bill.
/r/seduction03/05/13 12:20 AM
0

I have answered the question "How do you make it look so easy". That count?
/r/seduction02/05/13 07:56 AM
1

That's all outer-game. I'm not disagreeing with you, though I honestly believe that stepping into the pickup arts on your own will build a more solid foundation.
/r/seduction02/05/13 05:07 AM
2

Short answer: No. Long answer: Probably not. It will help, for sure, but it's far from necessary. The two grand you'll drop on a private 1on1 with a PUA and some in-field demonstration will pay your tab a hundred times over. The legend of the old-school, Mystery, said that in the beginning he'd go out with exactly enough cash to pay a cover charge and buy one drink so that he'd have to talk to people to find a way home. There's really no better alternative to learning by trial and error. Share i…
/r/seduction02/05/13 05:04 AM
1

I've been out of the game for several weeks for work, and to be honest, I am a little anxious about what it's gonna be like next week when I'm hitting the town. My normal go-to vibe move is to open nine sets in ten minutes. By about the fourth or fifth set, I'm indestructibly in state.
/r/seduction02/05/13 04:59 AM
1

And another piece of the puzzle now fits. Kudos all round :)
/r/seduction02/05/13 04:49 AM
2

Some that helped me in the early days: Magic Bullets by Lovesystems (very comprehensive method built by a collaborative community effort) Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo (how to improve the state of your life and build a rock-solid foundation of inner game) Natural Game by Richard La Ruina (an awesome read about becoming a natural, with Gambler's own method)
/r/seduction01/05/13 07:21 AM
3

Creating and maintaining an entourage of hot girls is probably the most wonderful gift that getting into the game can give you. Well said.
/r/seduction30/04/13 08:26 AM
1

Find better hobbies. Your pickup persona and your natural persona should be congruent with each other. You seem cocksure and confident, which doesn't rub well with the implied character who plays D&D.
/r/seduction30/04/13 08:18 AM
2

Live a life of passion. It shouldn't be "let's hang out sometime", it should be "I'm going to the beach next week to see if I'm any good at kitesurfing. You should join me! I'd love to see your face eating sand". Give him/her something fun and specific to do that you would otherwise be doing anyway.
/r/seduction30/04/13 08:15 AM
1

start with high-fiving her and giving her a spin or two. Then don't be afraid to have your arm around her or on her lower back. If she's comfortable with that much (youll notice her comfort), be sure to stand close to when you speak and whisper things directly into her ear, and if you have a little game in you, youll be making out within the hour. If she's as into you as your italics imply, you can probably escalate very quickly.
/r/seduction30/04/13 08:11 AM
2

Work on the following: Open body language, vocal tonality and volume, improving your wardrobe, and situational openers.
/r/seduction30/04/13 08:02 AM
10

In my experience, the girls that you make out with on the same night you meet them get buyer's remorse when it comes to dating. They think you're only interested in getting some ass.
/r/seduction30/04/13 07:57 AM
1

smirk I know it as "that shit-eating grin". Coupled with merciless eye contact, it's often been the only opener I've used on a night out. I like your method, Tofu. It'll be fun to see how you detail your game :)
/r/seduction30/04/13 06:58 AM
1

Flirt: "Only the cute ones." Neg: "Girls and puppies, yeah."
/r/seduction29/04/13 01:15 AM
2

Man, I'm gonna take that opener to the bank.
/r/seduction29/04/13 01:09 AM
30

Nicely written. There's some really solid advice in here.
/r/seduction29/04/13 01:05 AM
1

Yeah I can totally see this. My current wing and I have been rolling together since January, and yeah, the chemistry is starting to really work with our styles. Still, we don't open sets together, as a pair.
/r/seduction29/04/13 12:06 AM
7

As a cold approach player, this is a great example of how effective this method of game can be. Rapid escalation, and pushing the boundaries of physical contact, is the only way to know how far you can get. OP, you and your wing showed great game in this field report, and I hope many aspiring players take note of this technique.
/r/seduction28/04/13 02:52 PM
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This is awesome, man :) The short answer is that you got blown out because you didn't build enough attraction with the girls. The solution? Have a couple go-to 'moves' to impress girls with. I like your opener, actually. It went well up until you froze up. Right there, you could, for example, take one of the girls' hands and said "Did you know I can read palms?" and bullshit something about a romantic connection or how her palms are really sweaty. Then you could ask "are you guys best friends? Y…
/r/seduction28/04/13 10:43 AM
5

Nooooo, never approach a set with a wingman. Have the wingman come in shortly after.
/r/seduction28/04/13 10:38 AM
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shoulders down, and back. Lean back on your heel, or against a wall or banister if you can. Hold your drink by your side, low down, and not as a body-shield in front of your chest. Hold your chin up, and smile (very important to maintain a comfortable smile), and keep your non-drink hand's thumb in it's pocket. It should look like you're in control and totally calm and collected.
/r/seduction28/04/13 10:32 AM
0

Some quality go-to moves: Twirling girls. This piece of chick-crack immediately sets you up with some social proof. Put a girl on each arm and walk a lap of the whole place. The more people that see this, the higher your value gets. High-five everybody to help you get into state. Nobody turns down a high-energy high-five.
/r/seduction28/04/13 04:14 AM
1

I see players out and about occasionally. It's really easy to see who they are, too. My natural field is the bar/club scene, and these guys are pretty plain to see. I'll usually say hi and see what he's about, unless he's the cocky douchebag brand of player. I'm normally found in the beer garden, smoking lounge, balcony or rooftop of my favorite places.
/r/seduction28/04/13 04:03 AM
1

Win over the others at the workplace while being light, witty and playful with the girls. It won't take long to build a little rapport, and you can ask some of your workmates out for drinks. Then game on.
/r/seduction28/04/13 03:54 AM
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The takeaway here is "Finish what's on your plate before you think about your next meal".
/r/seduction28/04/13 03:51 AM
1

It's what we're all in the game for, isn't it? To eventually find the perfect partner?
/r/seduction28/04/13 03:48 AM
8

How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie
/r/seduction28/04/13 03:45 AM
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No single truth alone was a catalyst for drastic improvement, at least not in my experiences. That said, I think a lot of improving PUAs reach several moments of clarity or 'clicking points' in their journey that mark the periods of greatest improvement. A big one for me was just talking less. Asking open-ended questions to keep a person talking about themselves has made a huge improvement in they way I create and keep loyalty in my friends. Another big one I had in the early days was to do with…
/r/seduction28/04/13 03:44 AM
1

you will learn calibration in time, if you keep pushing forward.
/r/seduction27/04/13 08:33 AM
1

By asking people open-ended questions that require more than a yes/no. Start a person talking about themselves and they'll talk for hours.
/r/seduction27/04/13 08:31 AM
3

You might as well see her to either find out for sure or see how far you can escalate Simply by keeping them apart is the best way to prevent a bunch of messy drama
/r/seduction27/04/13 08:29 AM
12

that was beautiful, man.
/r/seduction27/04/13 08:19 AM
0

If you don't want to keep a clean, orderly, stylish house then that is your call, buddy.
/r/seduction25/04/13 10:59 PM
3

Suit yourself.
/r/seduction25/04/13 10:58 PM
1

Exactly. And once it's done, it really isn't hard at all to maintain.
/r/seduction25/04/13 10:57 PM
1

nah man, PM me with a turnout :) I'd be psyched to hear how it went!
/r/seduction25/04/13 07:34 AM
1

Question: Would it be a big deal at all if attraction drops away now? She's leaving, man. It won't help either of you to be too 'into it' when it comes time for her to leave. I'm obviously not familiar with your method (or the girl in question), but if you were me you'd either muscle down your emotions or tell her you're falling for her and see what happens. Either way, accept the fact that she's not gonna be around much longer.
/r/seduction25/04/13 07:10 AM
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Seduction has already happened here, so if you tidy up the jargon you could ask this in /r/relationships. That said, I think I know your problem. Oneitis. Losing your abundance mentality is a clear indicator that you aren't thinking about other girls. You banged this one's brains out, pulled her solipsistically into your world, and invested a huge amount of time into the seduction. What did you think was going to happen? Actually, no. I have a couple better questions: For how long did you know t…
/r/seduction25/04/13 05:03 AM
3

di niente :)
/r/seduction24/04/13 10:50 PM
2

hey, i said to leave a cookbook in there. A lack of creativity on your part is no fault of mine ;)
/r/seduction24/04/13 12:49 PM
1

My mind is waiting for her to say something I can use, and banking it when she does. I also try and memorize her face, remember her name, take note of her eye color and remember the way she smiles. On a meta level, I'm looking around for my wingman, checking out the talent, and calculating my next few moves. Hope that helps :)
/r/seduction24/04/13 09:39 AM
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Lets see... Living spaces: tidy floors sweep/mop/vacuum floors maintain a consistent color/fabric scheme organize furniture to create space, not occupy it a quality sound system will be handy, in the bedroom too your DVD collection needs to reflect your personality tidy your consoles up when not using them, chicks dont dig that your personality symbols should be on display: sketchbooks, guitar, artwork, decanter, decks, basketball I dont hang anything on my walls, but if you choose to, frame it,…
/r/seduction24/04/13 08:12 AM
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Truth is, there are countless methods, techniques, mantras, strategies, ideas, concepts, and personal reassurances that resolve the issue of approach anxiety. In my experience with new players, the only way to handle making the first step toward inner game is to simply find the way that works for each individual guy. Whether it's "Someone, somewhere is sick of her shit" or "You can feel AA for three seconds or a lifetime, so you might as well go for it" or "what's she gonna do? Say no? Big deal!…
/r/seduction24/04/13 01:11 AM
1

It won't take long before you start to feel natural :) Keep at it!
/r/seduction23/04/13 10:03 PM
3

Hm. Perhaps. I'd still use text messages very, very sparingly.
/r/seduction23/04/13 01:04 PM
0

hmmm. You could also just not text girls you pick up. 13yo girls text. Men don't text.
/r/seduction23/04/13 11:51 AM
0

She's getting mixed messages, which is good. Don't be direct or explicit with her. Tell her "To have some fun with a cool person!" or "You gotta get out of your head and live in the moment, missy". Things like that.
/r/seduction23/04/13 02:16 AM
2

If you mean the commercialized dating industry, then no, it will never die. If you mean the culture of open communication in places like seddit or mPUA, then no, it will never die. The community is changing and evolving, as all communities do. Personally, I'm not gonna get hung up on negative thoughts.
/r/seduction23/04/13 02:13 AM
1

Sounds about right. I haven't done it myself, but it seems to me that after just a few days, the guys are about ready to improve on their own, and at their own pace.
/r/seduction23/04/13 02:06 AM
3

Start with a little bit of reading: Magic Bullets by Lovesystems Natural Game by Richard La Ruina Don't get bogged down in the literature unless you're genuinely fascinated by social dynamics. Once you've read these two books (and it shouldn't take you longer than a week to get through both of them), start going out and approach people. People are fun, and interesting. Subscribe to /r/malefashionadvice and GQ and improve your wardrobe. Take up at least two cool hobbies like guitar or surfing, li…
/r/seduction23/04/13 01:19 AM
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The Game is not an educational text, it is a story. If you want a book that will teach you a thing or two, I recommend Magic Bullets by Savoy of Lovesystems. It's a pretty airtight method.
/r/seduction23/04/13 12:57 AM
3

That's because after Day 6, the training wheels come off :)
/r/seduction23/04/13 12:56 AM
1

Give yourself a really simple goal: Exchange names with a girl. That's all. Exchanging names with a person doesn't seem difficult at all, does it? So go in, say hi, ask her how her day is going and what her name is, and then walk away a winner. Or hang out with her.
/r/seduction23/04/13 12:54 AM
1

That's a really easy exercise! I'm definitely gonna do this more
/r/seduction23/04/13 12:50 AM
2

Mystery Method is all about manipulating social dynamics to penetrate groups. Maybe start there?
/r/seduction22/04/13 12:36 PM
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