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| 1 | Infidelity victims, have you confronted her years later? How did it go? | Outrageous-Count-365 | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/25 06:47 PM |
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| 1 | Infidelity victims, have you confronted her years later? How did it go?Which they do, bring punishment on themselves. I've seen it, from both male and female married cheaters. They then continue to justify it as they sit in their boiling mess like the boiling frog analogy, well into old age. Groups of these form, I call them the committee. I guess it takes the divorce to understand when to be a loving partner and when to PROVERBIALLY not literally pick your hands up in self defense. I spared the world a horrible mother. My gut told me to never take that rubber off … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/25 07:34 PM |
| 1 | How to get over it?All the common themes you'll find on the internet are somewhat accurate but be wary as some will prey on your anger for clicks and take it overboard. For me: First 2 weeks: Barely ate and slept until I met my current gf, which was a bad idea. Don't do that. Get laid if you have to but leave it at that. I knew immediately I needed to better myself, I went back to school and the gym nearly instantly. It was just a matter of having the physical capacity to do it, which came with time. 2 weeks - 3 m… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/25 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Infidelity victims, have you confronted her years later? How did it go?Which leaves us no recourse as men but to be prepared for the worst in marriage. Some people are just meant to be alone. Good point. Johnny Depp really did nail it if you ask me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/25 10:14 PM |
| 1 | How long did it take you to get back to dating after divorce ?Right? That was awesome. 7 years of getting it bent in half with her riding me wrong. New shape, no teeth on the BJ. Life's good 🍻. Just don't forget to keep earning it. Stay in shape, ambitious, sociable, style sense, and attractive hobbies. If it doesn't work out you'll be poised for the next round of clam sauce with the next one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How long did it take you to get back to dating after divorce ?Stupidly, 2 weeks. Been with her for a year and there are more green and red flags than a Christmas parade but we're not married so who cares. I will marry her if she grows with me and I truly can't see life without her. If not, I've been through the ultimate emotional pain and survived. No one can truly hurt me anymore. The downs have been awful but the ups of sex and new experiences have been proportionally good. I do ask myself, would I stay with this person without sex? The answer is yes, I … | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/25 07:58 PM |
| 1 | KARMA! Is it real?With that knowledge comes with it the evaporation of the urges for revenge. I'm switching careers to get into family law in part because of my physical health and in part because I truly believe this is my purpose now. So I see it as being on the front lines of the overall problem, as opposed to just me or you who are just two people that are entangled in a larger societal problem. I don't expect to change society, but I can damn sure educate and give better advice than "don't get married". Look… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/25 07:45 PM |
| 1 | KARMA! Is it real?My grandfather cheated, he got his. It just wasn't obvious as a kid but his mistress didn't take half as well of care of him as my grandmother would have in his final days. My aunt, also getting hers but my uncle could've leveled up more to really rub it in if you ask me. Me, I guarantee no one else better than me especially at 35 will commit to her. Sex, sure. All day. Commitment? Good luck. The committee of other miserable single women will "reassure" her she made the right move and she'll be … | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/25 05:24 AM |
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