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| 23 | How do I stop feeling pathetic when girls ghost me after I send them a picture of me? | Outrageous_Fill3231 | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 08:45 PM |
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| 2 | This literally increased my level in the dating gameAwhile back I asked my sister for her opinion on me approaching girls honestly and stating my intentions (I want to practice communication with women) and she said the idea was creepy, so I dropped it. I think I’ll give it a try | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | [1-month UPDATE] to the story of when I talked to the girl who always sat near me on the university busLmao, reading this made me giggle and feel butterflies. I’m a grown man damn you This is the real thing, not meaningless and pointless hookups with girls you don’t even care about | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Subtle touch, flirting, teasing (not negging), and eye contact are key to being viewed as a romantic interest, not a platonic friendYoooo this is hilarious is this actually a true story | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Girl’s ass against my legsSimilar thing used to happen to me in high school. Some girls would put their ass in my face, or they’d brush my arm with it when walking past me sitting in a chair. At first I thought it was coincidence, nowadays I wonder if there were some signals that I missed lol | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:57 AM |
| 1 | I like a girl but my body and bank are not where I’m taking them at the moment.I don’t know what to tell you, only that I can relate with what you’re feeling. I sometimes feel like I don’t have enough clothes, I’m not handsome enough, I don’t have a car, teeth aren’t white enough . Until I see some bum( respectfully) on campus snuggling up to a cute girl, and it brings me back down to reality, which is that I’m a boring, shy, nervous wreck of a person who doesn’t even talk to girls. IRL , most girls don’t care about those things (money, status) as much as you’d think. Brok… | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 09:39 AM |
| 27 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?So you’re saying I should talk to more women I don’t know? | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 11:40 PM |
| 43 | Why are romance novels are considered female pornElaborate on exactly what a man can do to stimulate you emotionally. Don’t mind me, just looking for tips on how to be an experience for women lol | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Stop looking for sex and you'll get itNah fr, in school people think I’m arrogant and rude when really I’m just minding my business 24/7 lol | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 07:50 AM |
| 50 | Daily reminder that a woman who is interested in you, will make it easy for you.The fact that this actually happened to me lmao Might elaborate further when I get back home. The story is a real doozy EDIT: u/wj2smooth u/strenghtenics u/Dapper-Analysis-2576. Sorry for the late response, completely forgot about Reddit. WARNING: Bit of a long read, but worth it imo So get this. This is the first girl I ever “talked to” seriously, in 2019. She had added me on my birthday, which was in July, and I hadn’t messaged her until a month or so after. So we start talking, and it turns o… | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approach is BrutalBruh I know the feeling lmao. Only approached 2 girls all my life and both were L’s. Last week was the 2nd one I’ve ever done. Stuttered like a mf, asked for her Snapchat after some awkward conversation, and she said yes. After I left, I realized she didn’t even add her Snapchat, only pretended to do so. Shit can be brutal. But the one thing that motivates me to keep going, is the sense of calm after I start talking to a girl. My body literally relaxes, almost like it’s realizing “yo, it’s just … | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | WHERE THE FUCK DO I LOOK AT WHEN A GIRL IS WALKING PAST ME?Wtf does it mean when they’re staring at you? I legitimately don’t know what it means I’m Like are you staring at my forehead or what lol | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Whats your "Zero to Hero" story? (or other success stories)What does it matter to you anyways bro 😂 | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 07:57 PM |
| 12 | nothing sucks more than doomscrolling on Tinder on a Friday after work and you can't get any matches...Why are you sliding into dms on Eid night habibi? So not halal of you | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Seems like men don't want to approach anymore , at all !When i say “then again, it might not be an excuse”, I’m referring to the guys who claim to be scared of SA accusation. Maybe they’ve actually experienced it in the past | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Seems like men don't want to approach anymore , at all !It’s an excuse. I used to do the same thing. But realistically speaking, nobody was plotting to frame me for SA. I was (and still am) a broke dude with nothing significant to his name. I was just using it as an excuse for why I wasn’t talking to women and improving my social skills. Then again, it might not be an excuse. Who knows. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 06:34 PM |
| 2 | I have never seem a guy spit game like thisWhat are the biggest takeaways you got from your experience with him? | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 10:28 AM |
| 1 | I noticed a lot of guys at clubs/bars would rather talk to other guysYou’re overthinking it, and looking for something that isn’t there. You don’t know what their reason/motivation for talking to guys is. | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCan’t tell if you’re serious or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou won’t deceive me, women don’t pee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships?It seems like girls just don’t like me in general. I have a lot of guy friends, but literally no females that I consistently interact with. What a shamed, I used to relate so much with girls when I was really young | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships?Well that’s really bad news since I’m the definition of your average shy guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 09:54 PM |
| 11 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI literally can’t stop putting women on pedestals. Makes me so annoyed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | What is it with girls when they see other women are interested in you, they become super interested?That sounds insane to me. I’ve never met a girl like this | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 11:12 AM |
| 16 | Advice from a girl: don’t always take it personally if you’re rejectedI do have a question though. I often struggle with the idea of girls actually liking men and liking being approached. Did you enjoy the attention he gave you? | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Three weeks of seduction. Girls are way more direct than i am apparently.A decade of self improvement? I’d be worried if girls WERE NOT interested in you lol | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Dudes Gotta Stop Dropping Their Morals For a Fat Ass..Im more of a slim thick, shapely booty lover myself | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Dudes Gotta Stop Dropping Their Morals For a Fat Ass..I get no play man, what it feel like? | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 12:26 AM |
| 18 | What is it with girls when they see other women are interested in you, they become super interested?Guess I know why I’m still single. What a fucced up catch22 situation | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 12:04 PM |
| 3 | What is it with girls when they see other women are interested in you, they become super interested?Are there really girls that let you hit if you just put effort? That sounds crazy lol | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 12:03 PM |
| 8 | Do women treat men with no confidence like shit in general?Shyness was the wrong word. I meant being quiet | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Do women treat men with no confidence like shit in general?Maybe shyness is the wrong word to use then. What I meant is, when women see that you don’t talk much and you mostly keep to yourself and are withdrawn. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 12:05 AM |
| 64 | Do women treat men with no confidence like shit in general?Feels like a lot of women in general mistake shyness for lack of confidence. There’s so many times I’ve noticed women will keep asking me to do stuff for them (switch seats,buy something for them, leave a seat for their friend) and they always use a patronizing tone when doing so, like you would if talking to a child. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 07:40 PM |
| 2 | How many sexual partners have you had?Halal brozzer in arms | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 03:07 PM |
| 3 | How many sexual partners have you had?Good sir, I am maidenless | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 03:07 PM |
| 0 | Always catch girl looking at me then she looks away immediatelyNah, but fr??? | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 11:55 PM |
| 12 | Always catch girl looking at me then she looks away immediatelyThis is a similar thing to what I’ve been experiencing recently. This girl in one of my classes always catches my eye from time to time, we’re constantly catching each other looking. The most recent occurrence was when she was walking past me to the car park and we locked eyes again, for a good 3 seconds before i chickened out and went to meet the guy I was waiting for. It feels like she might be interested in me tbh, but she’s a little intimidating to me, which is ironic because our disposition… | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Can you just approach women anywhere?This is similar to the question I have. Can you just approach girls in college??? | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Seducing women with a disability/deformation and a perspective on why looks truly don't matter.Curious about what | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 11:45 AM |
| 3 | Seducing women with a disability/deformation and a perspective on why looks truly don't matter.I can feel the self confidence and acceptance exuding from this post. You’ve well and truly mastered the art of playing with the hand you were dealt. I’ve always had insecurities about having a big forehead and high hairline. I’ve been bullied for it so much all my life that I convinced myself that’s why girls don’t like me. Your post is showing me I have no excuses. Thank you | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 11:43 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]This is a sign for me to get out of my own head and talk to girls I’d like to befriend. I’ve been in college 3 years and for some reason I just can’t bring myself to make moves. Thanks for this inspiring post | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 10:35 AM |
| 1 | “ I would have never went out with him if I did not meet him in person and saw his profile online”.Break this down, it’s a little too complex for my low iQ self | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | “ I would have never went out with him if I did not meet him in person and saw his profile online”.It can be hard to comprehend when you think about how fast and efficient the internet is today lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | “ I would have never went out with him if I did not meet him in person and saw his profile online”.Same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Preselection and female mate-choice copying FTWPretty sure this is why I’m still single. I’ve got the height, the looks to an extent. I’m not a terrible person, I guess. I’m just never around women or socializing with them. Never gave it a second thought until I learnt about preselection a few weeks ago. Girls probably think I’m a freak for never talking to girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | The truth hurtsHow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 11:55 PM |
| 7 | First time approach, got a number at my airport gate from an absolute babesay it again | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Is bragging about nudes in your dms really that impressive?I’ve never received nudes in my life. I know absolute slayers who have never received nudes. It’s that sorta thing that’s cool in high school/college but after a while, bragging about it comes across as corny | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 08:08 PM |
| 7 | Is bragging about nudes in your dms really that impressive?I’m in that phase currently. It doesn’t happen overnight definitely, but little by little I’m starting to give less fucks about trivial things like nudes or body count etc | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 08:00 PM |
| 3 | did you ever feel like you lost genuine connections with women because of red pill ideology?I discovered the whole Red Pill thing right around the time I was starting university. I’m HS I never had much success with girls, and didn’t think too much of it. I’ve always been a shy guy, so I passed it off as just a matter of time. Then I started searching the internet, things like “never had a girlfriend”, “no girls like me” etc. This led me down a rabbit hole where I discovered Reddit and the Redpill/Blackpill. I was now convinced that in order to get women, I had to constantly “hold fram… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/21 11:34 AM |
| 16 | did you ever feel like you lost genuine connections with women because of red pill ideology?Definitely. It’s led to me not knowing any women in my 3rd year of college. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/21 10:43 AM |
| 22 | How do you feel about all these women on social media saying "don't approach us, it's creepy"I’ve come to notice, a lot of women don’t know what they want. They hear “approach” and they remember the creepy guy that harassed them on the bus. Then they suddenly hate the idea of being approached until a confident, attractive man sauces them up, now they’re telling stories of how “it just happened” ignoring the fact that an approach is what led to them hooking up. Also, the social media disconnect with real life is absolutely real. I know countless guys that got girls through approaching in… | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 07:42 AM |
| 4 | If being needy is the least attractive thing, why do so many needy guys end up doing well with women?Something I’ve noticed is women tend to love a guy with vices. I don’t know what it is about addicts, but every addict I’ve know has been a ladies man | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 04:20 PM |
| 2 | If being needy is the least attractive thing, why do so many needy guys end up doing well with women?What I’m learning from this thread is, dating isn’t all black and white, and the most likely reason I’m still single is because I’ve been tryin too hard to come across as a distant asshole who doesn’t need women. Just end me lmao | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 04:17 PM |
| -2 | Stop deluding yourselves that cold approach isn't necessaryI get the vibe from most girls, that they’re unapproachable and they almost always have RBF which makes it even harder to convince myself to approach | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 10:57 AM |
| 1 | FR: banged two new girls last night, somehow I still feel emptyHow’s your situation now homie? | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Fuck the gameCan totally understand bro, it all seems so exhausting. The only thing that keeps me motivated is seeing the broke or trashy guys that some of these girls are giving it up to, which keeps me motivated to find out just what these guys are doing to be so successful with women | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 06:52 PM |
| 6 | Fuck the gameTips? | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 06:33 PM |
| 2 | How to stop rejecting myself?Wait, so you’re telling me when girls look at me, it’s not because my forehead is big? Am I hotter than I think? | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?Is this actually true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Why do most girls I meet seem disinterested?Everyone is talking about living yourself more, but how do I do that? Years of being bullied and having negative experiences has made me a self loathing POS | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Why do most girls I meet seem disinterested?This thread is gold. Don’t mind me, I’m just taking notes | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 04:34 PM |
| 6 | The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life.I agree with the post you linked, but the whole proximity thing absolutely exists. The catch is, you have to do it early or it won’t work. What do I mean? Take for example, B. B is a tall, skinny fat dude I know from high school. We go to the same college. The first week we got into college, B wasted no time on orbiting around a few pretty girls. He would chat with them during class, walk with them, have lunch with them etc. He ended up dating one of those girls he orbited. Now, if you saw them,… | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 10:22 AM |
| 31 | The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life.I think this is the secret to getting girls in college. | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 07:59 PM |
| 7 | Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangersDamn I just had a realization | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 08:46 PM |
| 8 | Is 25 too late to start game?If you’ve been with 5 girls, you’re already ahead of most guys that are trying to start this while seduction thing.. | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 10:04 AM |
| 30 | Struggling with girls who keep getting attached or wanting relationships when you just want casual sex? Consider becoming a digital nomad.Dude is literally living my dream. I’m out here actually trying to get girls to want me for a relationship and they keep choosing guys like you who want sex only lmao. I have to improve I guess. | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 07:24 PM |
| 1 | How can I obtain a charismatic personality when I was born a dull, boring person?Aaaaaand I just found out I might be depressed. Damn | /r/ExRedPill | 31/10/21 10:35 PM |
| 2 | How do I avoid boyfriend vibes?So sad how right you are. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 11:25 AM |
| 1 | How do I avoid boyfriend vibes?Bro this is literally what I want, please tell me what you’re doing 😂 | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 11:03 AM |
| 3 | Just be nazi theoryInteresting absence of female comments here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do people here recommend going out over online dating?Women get with guys just cause they made them laugh? Damn I really need to start approaching | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 02:27 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Don’t know how this is supposed to encourage me tbh | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 09:56 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]“Just read her mind bro!” | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 09:51 AM |
| 1 | He needed to put a lil bit more effortReminds me of some girl that told me she wasn’t ready for a relationship, then purely coincidentally, I caught her a week later thirsting for my friend (who had a serious gf at the time) in his dms and asking him to date her. This guy probably had something similar happen and was like “nah fuck this.” | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/07/21 08:58 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling pathetic when girls ghost me after I send them a picture of me?Dming them on Snapchat and Instagram | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 09:07 PM |
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