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| 0 | Sent a girl a dm which she finally responded to. She unsent one of her messages though.Get off the Internet and go meet chicks in real life. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | LURK MORE - or Why Some People Will Never "Get" TRPI have seen this asserted many times: This sub is about NUANCE presented in controversial and thought provoking ways on a taboo subject But it does not seem to be true in practice. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/19 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Why does TRP invoke such...PURE RAGE?You can talk about it, you just have to do so in a socially intelligent way... which most people can't do. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 09:33 PM |
| 1 | I accidentally matched with a girl who previously denied me irlAny tips? Idk what to say or how to even go about this, as I had pretty much harddddd nexted. Follow the algorithm. Invite her over for a movie and drinks. When she comes over, hang out with her for about an hour. Start the movie. Try to put your penis in her. If you succeed, you succeed. If you don't, you know she's a waste of time. If she doesn't show up, it doesn't matter. Her reasons don't matter. Just stop replying to her texts. Or if you do reply, it's "Let's do Tuesday or Thursday at 8 p.… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Plate wants to be exclusive but possibly fucked another guy recently, how should I deal with itSpin other plates again. Do not LTR this girl. Trade her at the sex club. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do women enjoy being fucked doggy style? And how do I make myself last longer in that position?If you want to make her go really nuts, make sure she's rubbing her clit with her hand or using a vibe. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 07:34 PM |
| 3 | A girl who ghosted me suddenly starts communicating with me again... Motive?Dude, go read the sheer amount of verbiage and mental effort you have put into this chick and think hard about how congruent that is with what you state in this comment. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 09:15 PM |
| 10 | A girl who ghosted me suddenly starts communicating with me again... Motive?Who cares? Block her and go fuck new chicks. Any time you spend on Facebook, you are not spending meeting and trying to bang new chicks, or hitting the gym. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Is a girl talking about / making dick pic jokes with me an IOIAssume they are. Can you easily get another job? Do you think the chick is hot? Then try to fuck her anyway. | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 03:58 PM |
| 0 | Got a girls number, what nextI just wrote out this reply in response to another similar query... Follow the algorithm. Invite her over for a movie and drinks. When she comes over, hang out with her for about an hour. Start the movie. Try to put your penis in her. If you succeed, you succeed. If you don't, you know she's a waste of time. If she doesn't show up, it doesn't matter. Her reasons don't matter. Just stop replying to her texts. Or if you do reply, it's "Let's do Tuesday or Thursday at 8 p.m. at my place." Follow th… | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 02:24 PM |
| 14 | if a girl that ignored you all of a sudden started textingInvite her over for a movie and drinks. When she comes over, hang out with her for about an hour. Start the movie. Try to put your penis in her. If you succeed, you succeed. If you don't, you know she's a waste of time. If she doesn't show up, it doesn't matter. Follow the "moving to the stage where my penis is inside her" algorithm and you can't go wrong. Anything that is not a "yes" is a "no." And then you should find/approach more chicks. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 05:17 PM |
| 5 | "I'll let you know"Texting guide. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | What advice would you give to your 18 year old self?How I started learning the game and seduction. Also, books. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Study: Pickup Artist Training WorksI would say, "Learning what makes men attractive to women, then doing it" works. Kind of like how women who learn to quit sugar, hit the gym, and behave in a charming way also get the men they want, while women who don't, don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/19 01:56 PM |
| 52 | "The results of the study note the ‘queen bee syndrome’, in which powerful women at the top levels of management are not supportive of female managers attempting to climb the ladder."Smart guys and smart organizations are very careful about putting chicks in supervisory roles. Smart guys are also wary of having female managers, as that can be a career dead end. One of my own early career mentors was a woman and she was great, but she was also very unusual. She would also complain about putting energy into young women, most of whom did not sustain early ambition. Most women have a kid and then lose their early ambition. Most men who have kids work more and their ambition incr… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/19 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Fashion guide for new red pillers (Part 1)Someone was just asking me about this as well, so I wrote out fashion and clothes for players. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/19 07:39 PM |
| 28 | Why do most girls nowadays claim to have 'anxiety'? What's up with that?It's just another way of declaiming responsibility for her actions. If she has "anxiety" then what she does or doesn't do isn't her own fault. Also, there is a book called iGen the OP should read. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 07:32 PM |
| 15 | When girls shift from pure party mode to preferring guys with resourcesEarly slut (18-20ish) very easy, very high demand Does not seem that easy to most guys, and is often not that easy for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/19 01:20 AM |
| 3 | This "macho" writing style is getting ridiculousIf you want to fine real people, you mostly have to look to blogs, where an individual can be more easily followed, particularly over time. | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 06:51 PM |
| 11 | How to spend free time in office?Write a blog. Write a something. Learn how to code. Just do SOMETHING worthwhile. Don't dick around. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Your StoryIf you can, start one, just to dump whatever you have on Reddit. It's hard to follow you consistently via Reddit. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/19 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Your Story/u/KeffirLime have you got a blog somewhere? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/19 03:17 PM |
| 6 | The Problem With Feminine Women"The Problem With Feminine Women" matches my experiences (sorry for the bullshit sales popup on that blog... seems annoyingly common these days); the basic concept is in line with the "image matching" idea. Essentially, if you're a guy who wants feminine women, you have to be a masculine guy. The more experience you have with women, the more you understand this. Hell, you don't even need much experience with women. Just go about your everyday life and notice who is paired up. Usually the feminin… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/19 10:45 PM |
| 2 | St. Fatrick's Day. Or why too much beer/alcohol consumption is preventing you from having the ideal body composition you want.I think the science is unclear on these but I would call them not simple sugars or simple carbohydrates and thus am not worried about them. Fruits, carrots, and corn also have fiber, vitamins, etc. in them and seem to trigger feelings of satiation. See the link and the book The Case Against Sugar. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/19 01:01 AM |
| 13 | St. Fatrick's Day. Or why too much beer/alcohol consumption is preventing you from having the ideal body composition you want.I drink in moderation on dates and virtually nothing the rest of the time. I think sugar is the real killer/problem for most people (not just guys) and if you're strict on it, the drinking is not as important, particularly if it's moderate amounts on dates or at parties. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/19 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Finding out women are brain dead, making me depressed.Dude you're not wrong He is wrong. He's probably low value, though. He's also hanging out w/ the wrong women. Women have a somewhat different value system, on average, than dudes, more based on emotion and feelings. This guy is as blind to that as most chicks are to the male value system of achievement. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 11:18 PM |
| 19 | Girls's feelings are far more important than the truthUnless, that is, the girl wants to live in a building that doesn't fall down or ride in a plane that doesn't crash. Then the truth is very important. But most chicks live in an emotional stew that is not accessible to guys, who have to abide by reality to a greater extent. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/19 10:55 PM |
| -5 | Thinking of moving my plate into LTR. Looking for advice.Or take her to the sex club and do both at once. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 07:43 PM |
| 10 | AWALT kicks in after 2 years of platingThis is also not really "AWALT." Normal women want a relationship with a high-status man and will not tolerate being an uncommitted lover for a long period of time. The strange thing is that this one will. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/19 07:40 PM |
| 6 | Friend of a long time ghosted after we kissed?You can stay out of the friend zone next time. | /r/seduction | 15/03/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Daygame Books And Social Skills Reading ListAgree with most of these but find Gorilla Mindset moronic. Would also add The Game and Krauser's books to the list. | /r/seduction | 15/03/19 03:50 PM |
| 5 | The Male Epiphany PhaseWhat he describes is most definitely a thing. Explains how all PUAs end up dropping, or that all TRP ECs end up disappearing. Roosh is currently experiencing this effect in quite an extreme manner - listening to his podcasts feel like tuning in to tradcon radio. I have also been wondering about the deep psychology that keeps men in the game. Instead he would just walk down and look for another, bigger, mountain. And fatherhood/community seems like a natural choice, maybe the only one I wouldn't … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/19 02:38 AM |
| 2 | I still don’t understand “friendships” between men and womenIt's obviously possible to have male-female friendships, but there are an awful lot of "friendships" that are masquerades for sexual tension. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 10:13 PM |
| 2 | What is happening to this sub ?Who are you guys in real life? Is this a forum of self improvement or a forum of losers being the batman's and keyboard warriors of the internet ? Always been the latter. This is the side bar on my blog: Krauser PUA Dalrock Roy Walker Days of Game Rollo Tomassi / The Rational Male Magnum Good Looking Loser Tom Torero There are interesting writers out there, but most are not on Reddit. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 08:07 PM |
| 17 | How life works out after your wife cheatsHow life works out after your wife cheats You divorce her. It's really not complicated. Unpleasant, but not complicated. Also, don't get married. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Should I drop out? (18M)I only applied to uni cos I had no idea what else I could do. I am well into the year and I still have no friends, no social life and my grades haven’t been excellent This guy should spend a year traveling or similar. Conceivably do the military route. Right now, he is likely too soft and too ignorant to get anything from his experience. The problem is that he is likely a lazy video game, porn, and TV guy. As long as those fundamental habits remain, he will fail at anything. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one who notices girls come a lot less with a condom vs raw? Why is this?Both pair bonding and physical sensation. There is a physical and psychological barrier during sex with a condom that prevents it from being the full and true experience. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Advice for your Tinder game.Esp. this: Be meticulous in choosing your pictures, especially the first one. You're not likely to get a second chance if your picture is bad. IMO anyone doing online dating needs to learn photography. | /r/seduction | 14/03/19 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Red pill booksHere is my list. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Attraction Inequality and the Dating EconomyYou are first told to lift, quit sugar, fix your clothes, etc. for a reason. | /r/seduction | 12/03/19 08:08 PM |
| -10 | "The Bored Sex: Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it."It's true that this writer is likely buying into the female-primary worldview, but as a man it's possible to see non-monogamy from the superior position or the inferior position. Many guys writing here seem not to know or understand the superior position for the man. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/19 01:07 AM |
| -12 | "The Bored Sex: Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it."That is part of the reason I am surprised more players haven't incorporated sex clubs and non-monogamy into their game. I have an unusual view, too: I think that there are only two kinds of relationships: those in which a guy plans to have kids with a woman, and all other kinds of relationships. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/19 01:05 AM |
| 8 | "The Bored Sex: Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it."I have argued many times that men would have to be foolish to marry in today's climate, yet so many men seem to do so anyway. Total, unforced folly. The child support system is bad enough, without throwing marriage into it too. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/19 09:40 PM |
| 0 | Stop Dressing Like SHIT!Useful advice. | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Tinder VS The WorldHe also needs to get a better camera. Most of his pics are blurry / smudged, not sharp. Learn photography. | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | The beginning, why swipe-on-demand sucks, and the introduction of U-game.? | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Had a "failed" attempt to plate someone as a bluepill, saw her again after 2 years...It's not hard. Just invite her over for a drink and to watch a movie. Then try to fuck her. Don't invest a lot of time, don't accept any alternative proposal. If she comes over, fuck her, if not, move on. It's like three text messages in total. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 09:07 PM |
| 5 | Is it just me or does the friendzone not actually exist?It exists if you let it exist. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Women Are A ReflectionWomen are much more random, though, on average, and most don't even know it. Guys learn it through interacting with chicks and dating them. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/19 08:48 PM |
| 7 | Difference in gaming girls between the age 16-19 as a young dude?Just make sure you lift Good advice. Chicks under age 22 – 25 DO NOT CARE about your career, your intellect, etc. They are in it for the hot guys, the feels, and the excitement (mostly). Chicks who pay their own rent, often evaluate guys on other factors in addition to hotness and feelings. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 03:32 PM |
| 35 | Mindblown: My girlfriend just confirmed TRP to me.That girl is also a fuck buddy, not a long-term partner. Chicks suitable for longer-term things want a mix of comfort/intimacy and dominance/power. If they only want the latter, they are short-termers only. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | GF cheated on meYes. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | GF cheated on meRight. Usually I would read this: I know that forgiving her is not an option but I also don't want to break up. Could i demote her to a plate and suggest that she is a good ride into the sex club scene, but in his case he's too attached. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 05:52 PM |
| -4 | My LTR has a fuckload of beta orbiters.Break up with her. If you're not man enough to do it, just be psychologically and financially and logistically ready for her to leave. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 02:30 PM |
| 1 | What's the difference between FWB and poly?From a player's perspective, it doesn't really matter that much. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 09:12 PM |
| 8 | Discussion: Do you want children? What is the best way to have children?I agree about kids. It's also apparent that most sexual relationships lose their sexual component over time, and that's part of the reason I'm interested in consensual non-monogamy. I've been talking more w/ women (and some men) about co-parenting, which is essentially what I'm already doing (I just took a circuitous, drama-filled route to get here). It's clear that the "we're going to put our entire sexual, economic, and child-raising eggs in one basket" system hasn't been working very well for… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Fashion and clothes for playersFor those of you who want to be fashionable, any point made about price irrelevance is extra important. Right: Most luxury brands are NOT WORTH IT. They are 2 – 20x the price for like 10% better quality, if that. Fashion is, like a lot of game basics, a field where 10% greater efforts yields 80 or even 90% of the benefit. It is easy to get hooked into the bogus hedonic treadmill around clothes. Chicks will notice fit and coordination and little else. Then Clothing will never MAKE you attractive … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Stop Whining. Love the painThere is no easy way: there is only the hard way. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/19 04:36 PM |
| 23 | Revenge Story: This was in my Quora this morning, I thought I'd share (copied and pasted)Virtually all jurisdictions have processes for evicting someone from their apartment or home. If she had called the police and said that she wants to re-enter her home because she has been unlawfully evicted, they would likely help her. She would also be able to sue him for unlawful eviction. Now, it's possible that the chick in this story was sufficiently humiliated to just "go away," but, if she hadn't, he would not be writing a smug story. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/19 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Enhanced ConnectionsMichael Pollan's book How to Change Your Mind has much more detail on psychedelics and their powers. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Recommendations for goal setting/productivity resources?Install freedom. Quit the Internet. Make things. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 02:29 PM |
| 3 | How to be the high performer/ high potential employee in corporate land?Don't end your week with nothing. There are so many aspects of this that I'd recommend the OP spend more time reading business books and get back to us with what he finds. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 08:41 PM |
| 6 | Why did you/didn't you join a frat? If you did do you think it was "worth it"?Depends on the school and the frat. Joining a better frat at a party school is probably worth it. Frats can easily destroy your work ethic and GPA. Many of the guys in them are lazy and their love of watching sports, playing video games, eating junk food, and watching excessive TV can work in college but will work steadily less well outside college. As usual, without a TON more detail about you and your situation, no one will have terribly useful advice. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Now she's texting me..huh. What should I do?You did all of that fighting for her attention and got nothing, so keep focusing that attention on yourself. Good advice. The one thing OP can do is invite her over for a drink and movie, then try to fuck her. Talk is cheap. You will know where a girl stands when you try to put your penis inside her. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 06:08 PM |
| 3 | How to delay a plate breakingRead the free book, in the header and sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/19 03:12 AM |
| 1 | How to delay a plate breakingProbably the best reason here is: A) I'm leaving for work/school/some other reason in 6 months or less and I don't want to promise you something I can't deliver. Why? Because you're giving her a reason that's beyond your control, so she knows she can't blame you (not that it won't eventually stop her from doing so). I like to take her to sex clubs and see how she handles it. If she can keep up, great, then I can keep seeing other women. If she can't, it wasn't meant to be. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/19 02:58 AM |
| 19 | Potential LTR hit me with this text....Yes, as he is now getting comfort tests, rather than shit tests. Many guys posting on RP never get there; thus the anti-LTR stigma. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 02:55 AM |
| 3 | Ex-boyfriend of girl I am seeing vandalized her room when she was spending the weekend at my place.The girl needs to get a restraining order and speak to the police, stat. If she's not doing both ASAP, then the problem is as much her as him. And you need to get out. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Case Study: The Controlling Girl, Drama, and Female PsychologyRead the comments, too, as they offer useful development of the main theme. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/19 03:32 PM |
| 6 | Finally decided to stop consuming a blue pill medias but need a new hobbyRead books, learn basic spelling and punctuation, hit the gym, learn bike repair, go socialize with friends, learn salsa dancing. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Plate asked if I'm having sex with other girls.Think about taking her to a sex club and see how that goes. Can leverage one chick to enter others. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 10:28 PM |
| 8 | Girls who text you , but don't want to meet up ?Attention is the only tool modern men have. For a girl like that one you mention, invite her over to your place on a night you're not doing anything. If she arrives, have some wine, then try to put your penis inside her. If she says no or doesn't arrive, it's not real. | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 10:11 PM |
| 19 | [FR] First OneIn addition, it's important to know that, when comparing yourself to others, you often only see the tip of the spear. It's the years, sometimes decades, of effort behind the spear that matter. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/19 08:24 PM |
| 12 | I see plenty of guys here who whine and whine yet actively reject any new advice or criticism and it makes me sick 😷2% of the guys are here to improve their game, 48% are here to lurk, 50% are here to bitch... or for no discernible reason. | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Is using alcohol morally wrong?No. | /r/seduction | 18/02/19 09:51 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else tired of picking up/gaming chicks?You are too young. Take a break if need be but then go back to the trough. | /r/seduction | 18/02/19 03:24 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else tired of picking up/gaming chicks?How old are you? And yes, I have been thinking about making a life change and created a blog tag, "rambling", for those kinds of thoughts. | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 07:50 PM |
| 0 | Do majority of women really desire casual sex?Women want short-term mates too. Depends on the woman, the guy, the time of month, the woman's social status. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 06:10 PM |
| 23 | "Women Want Short-Term Mates, Too?" You don't say...That is why I am surprised more guys have not leveraged sex parties and non-monogamy in their game. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/19 05:34 PM |
| 54 | "Women Want Short-Term Mates, Too?" You don't say...Remember that lots of chicks want to be seduced. If five chicks say no, and the sixth says yes, that's a huge win for the guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/19 03:00 PM |
| 7 | The best seduction books (you probably haven't read)Because Human Nature 3.0 is a totally different software than 2.1 I'm surprised you bothered responding to that guy... the comment is so self-evidently dumb that I just downvoted at moved on. | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 11:01 PM |
| 8 | Cues of upper body strength account for most of the variance in men’s bodily attractivenessReally, you don't need much beyond the title, but: None of the 160 women in our study who rated attractiveness produced a statistically significant preference for weaker men (all p . 0.05). There is a reason why lifting, diet, and body are the first things seduction guys tell you to work on. They are within your control and they matter if you're going to be in the game. Women judge you based on your strength and fitness. Women prefer stronger to weaker men, all else being equal. | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 04:52 PM |
| 164 | Cues of upper body strength account for most of the variance in men’s bodily attractivenessReally, you don't need much beyond the title, but: None of the 160 women in our study who rated attractiveness produced a statistically significant preference for weaker men (all p . 0.05). There is a reason why lifting, diet, and body are the first things RP and game guys tell you to work on. They are within your control and they matter if you're going to be in the game. Women judge you based on your strength and fitness. Women prefer stronger to weaker men, all else being equal. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/19 04:51 PM |
| 13 | The best seduction books (you probably haven't read)Most guys have probably not even read the classic game books. Most guys need to read more AND work on their implementation. | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 04:34 PM |
| 18 | Got accused of sexual assault/rape. How to proceed?Get a lawyer. This is the only intelligent and reasonable response on this thread. "Get a lawyer" is always the right answer. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 04:00 PM |
| 9 | Lost 400lbs of Pure FatQuit eating suger. Ya probably gonna go through withdrawal, so get prepped. This is key. Don't underestimate the power of 0.0 grams. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/19 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Kicked a girl out after she disrespected me, did I handle it right?I know it was a basic shit test but honestly this girl was annoying. Her breath smelled, she was drunk, cocky for no reason. I just needed an excuse to kick her out. I was no longer having fun. And she became instantly unattractive to me. This is a bit different than the body of the original story... but if you're basically not into a chick, you don't really need a reason. You don't need the "disrespect" issue. If you're not into her, don't invite her over, and if you already have, just say you'… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 06:04 PM |
| 0 | Older guys plating younger womenNo. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 06:59 PM |
| 14 | Older guys plating younger womenBut one thing I do see a lot of is younger girls been creeped out by older guys trying. It’s very common to see. It's like game more generally. Done well, it's fantastic. Done poorly, it's "creepy." Depends on the city you live in. Online or in real life. See Magnum and/or Black Dragon, who both explain these things in detail. Some chicks will NEVER go for older guys. Probably 10 - 25%. Some are okay with older guys. Probably 25 - 40%. Some actively PREFER older guys—probably between 20% and 35%… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with having A LOT of 6-7’s plates but feeling attracted to 8’s -9’s and bummed I can’t plate themAlso depends on where you live. Date-onomics has more. Book is BP framed but work on sex ratios is useful. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Should I drop an upcoming 2nd-date hookup over a rude cancellation?I think that if you're fucking regularly, it's okay to go meet her w/ friends. If you're not, if you haven't yet, you will usually lose more than you win. You are giving her unearned attention and she has the reputational problems that may come from blatantly leaving w/ a guy for sex. If she is really DTF, invite her to your place after she's done and she'll show up. If she doesn't show, it never was. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Should I drop an upcoming 2nd-date hookup over a rude cancellation?Don't say anything. You can re-engage in about a week. In the meantime, go meet new chicks. Also, don't agree to go out and meet chicks with their friends. That's rarely a good idea. You DLV'ed there. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 05:48 PM |
| 1 | She messaged me 10 days after blocking meGood advice. Chicks are random. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 04:17 PM |
| 31 | Feeling insecure with a girl out of my league. What is the red pill advice?"Don't decide you're not in her league. Let her decide that." Seriously. Don't sweat it. If she's blocking guys who hit on her, then so be it. I always get comments from guys asking about her and how did we meet or joking that she's out of my league. Shake your head, laugh ruefully, and say, "Maybe one day you'll get it." Refuse to elaborate. Chicks also vary quite a bit more than RP talk would have you think. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 07:05 PM |
| 22 | When you’re in an LTR and you break up with her, she brings out the ‘suicide’ card. What will you do?Call or contact her parents, if possible. This is beyond a regular man's paygrade. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 07:01 PM |
| 21 | Quitting my Obsessive Game AddictionYes. For most guys video games are a waste of time. They're okay in small amounts, like other forms of leisure, but for many they become substitute reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/19 05:03 PM |
| 6 | STOP Chasing girls around like a little puppyAttention is the only tool modern men have. | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Girl says yes to meeting up again, but doesn't want to call it a 'date'It may just be a shit test; he should invite her over for dinner, then try to bang her. Ignore the "not as a date" frame. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 07:42 PM |
| 12 | Why the Divorce : Marriage Ratio is far more important than Absolute RatesGetting married is signing a stupid, bad-deal contract. Don't trust anyone here on this... just ask pretty much any guy you know who's been divorced in real life, or any family-law attorney. Or real Real World Divorce. There is no reason to sign the marriage contract today. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/19 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Guys that were ignored in their 20's by girls when you wanted friendship and datingGood answer. OP needs to embrace the hard way. | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 12:31 AM |
| 3 | The less I text and Snapchat this girl, the crazier she gets and the more willing to please meAre you fucking her? If not, who cares? Attention is the only tool modern men have. | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 05:00 AM |
| 29 | Let's talk about congruencyIn most stories you only see the tip of the spear. Being congruent is being the whole spear. And using it. Or being it. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/19 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Which RedPill books helped you out the most and are a must read for noobies?Some more. The Tucker Max/Geoffrey Miller book is underrated, perhaps because it's newer than most of those other books. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Guys badly want social media to work. Here’s why it (mostly) doesn’tI'm not totally opposed to dating apps, but social media is uniquely pernicious. | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Sudden Compliance Testing: UpdateHis relationship appears to be over. Perhaps that's the takeaway? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/19 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Learn from my mistakesSo i married right out of highschool. Long story short , she cheated 5 years later Remember folks: don't get married. Marriage is a bad contract. If you absolutely must, at least wait till you're 35. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/19 05:42 PM |
| 11 | How do you deal hanging with soy boy betas?both very anti Republican, anti Trump, very left won't super sjw type You can be extremely anti-Trump without being anti-Republic or SJW. I am. Trump's incompetence and lack of ideas are hurting the Republican party, not helping it. One can only hope the party outlives him. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 03:50 PM |
| 14 | How do you deal hanging with soy boy betas?This is good advice. Being polite is reasonable. Invite him to hit the gym with you. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Is it acceptable to ask a plate if she's seeing other people? (Potential LTR candidate)It's fine to ask. Don't expect the truth. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 07:30 PM |
| 3 | What is the best way to proceed with girlA good way to proceed is into her anus. Contact her one more time. If that fails, she's probably not yours, and you can try something like this in a couple months. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | When a girl asks if you have an IG, and you don't, but she asks why... What do you say?Yes. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 04:18 PM |
| 1 | "It must be nice having two girlfriends."Try leveraging your chicks by bringing them to sex clubs. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 09:42 PM |
| 8 | You beautiful bastardsafter which she went on a month-long vacation with a close friend of her to the other side of the world That means he is in an open relationship, whether he recognizes it or not. I don't understand why guys don't understand this. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/19 08:24 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Want shit done? Do it in person, one-on-one.Minimize social media, maximize real life. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/19 07:48 PM |
| 7 | No one to talk toMaking about 52,000 a year which is shit here in New York. I can’t move out my moms house and grow as a man. At 52K/year you can still live in parts of Brooklyn and Queens. Split a two-bedroom with a roommate. Start crossfit. Quit smoking. You need to change your life. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 06:39 PM |
| 5 | Is it a covert contract if I expect my LTR to keep her word when she says things like “ I owe you a blowjob “ every time I go out of my way to help with her with something ?If that doesn't work in the long term, start questioning whether or not she deserves her LTR status. She should be joyfully giving head when you want it and you should be joyfully demanding it. If either of those conditions are not met, move on. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 04:47 PM |
| 11 | 4 Reasons Why Girls Friendzone GuysA nuanced post is always going to confuse, frustrate, and become an endless debate. There is only actually one reason girls friendzone guys: the guy lets it happen. If he doesn't hide his dick, he makes it clear that it's lovers or nothing. It's really not that hard. But most guys don't want to face the cold rejection that a "sex or nothing" frame may entail. | /r/seduction | 01/02/19 04:33 PM |
| 34 | Millennials "now being blamed for killing divorce"The marriage rate is falling, so the divorce rate is falling. Most guys have relatives, friends, or colleagues who have been through the kind of hellscape described in Real World Divorce, and they have learned NOT to get married in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 02:39 AM |
| 3 | girl I used to orbit keeps wanting to “hang out”. I want to trophy fuck, prove I could’ve gotten her. It’s a waste of effort but I want to do this for me. How.Yes. Invite her to your place, with good logistics. Try to fuck her. If she gives a hard no, tell her to leave. If you don't get her in real life, you don't have her. Most social media is a waste of time for guys. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Case Study: The Controlling Girl, Drama, and Female PsychologySee also this texting guide. | /r/seduction | 31/01/19 06:51 PM |
| 6 | Why does being nice get you taken advantage of, dominated, and disrespected?Free and worthless are not synonymous, but close. So giving too much of yourself for free means you don’t value yourself. If you don’t, who will? Exactly. Smart, high-value people demand reciprocity. If you are not demanding that, you are conveying weakness at best. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 03:36 PM |
| 39 | Don't Do What Donny Does (AKA: Don't Try to Red Pill Your Friends...)These are some principles around talking about the Red Pill. Short version: Be cool / desirable / popular FIRST. Don't use the jargon. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/19 02:06 AM |
| 17 | The symbolism of the line of men grilling in the GILLETTE AD | "Barbecue men are deeply invested in family life. They are fathers. What is the easiest way to produce boys who do not understand or respect the boundaries between positive and negative masculinity? Take away their fathers."It is past time to mail our razor handles back to Gillette. That is the protest that will catch their attention, much more than social media videos. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/19 04:52 PM |
| 35 | Mindset"Inner" game and "outer game" really feed each other. They should be improved simultaneously. | /r/seduction | 28/01/19 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Sonny Arvado and Pancake Mouse on the image match and reciprocityWhen it’s all said and done, the Karmic Laws of the Universe are pretty airtight. You might have some variation. You also have to factor in those WTF anomalies. But for the most part, it all tends to even out. Good people attract good. Bad people attract bad. The same rationale applies towards the dating game. People tend to get their IMAGE MATCH. They date people on a similar level in the eyes of society. And this is a tough pill for a lot of guys to swallow in the PUA community because deep do… | /r/seduction | 28/01/19 04:10 PM |
| 94 | How to game on snapchat?Invite her to a drink or a party. If you don't get her in real life, you don't have her. Most social media is a waste of time for guys. | /r/seduction | 27/01/19 03:01 PM |
| 3 | I have a lot girl friendsWhat do I do in a situation where at first I only had intentions of being her friend but later on realizing I actually like her? Stop getting in that situation. Don't hide your dick. If you have this problem routinely, the problem is with you. Most of your female "friends" are not real friends anyway. You just don't know it yet. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Dear seddit I've been drinking and have done 1000's of approaches and coach in my down time... here are some harsh truths for you allFinally some real shit on this board. There is lots of real shit posted here but usually it gets downvoted. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Questions about texting/social media interactions are hurting this pageMost guys should minimize social media and texting. They don't because social media and texting are easy, while cold approach is hard. Really, most guys are saying, "I want this to be easier." | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 09:09 PM |
| 12 | Scene in new Gillette ad caught my eyeIt is past time to mail our razor handles back to Gillette. That is the protest that will catch their attention, much more than social media videos. | /r/seduction | 16/01/19 04:23 PM |
| 7 | Shy/flakey girls?Invite her over to your place after 8pm for a drink. Double book her. The only interaction you should have is, "Wanna come over for a drink and movie?" If she does, try to put your penis inside her. Should I tone down the texting/attention Yes. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 03:57 PM |
| 10 | What to answer when she asks what I am into sexually ?Tell her you're into crying during and after, as well as lecturing on the differences between compilers and interpreters. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 10:59 PM |
| 90 | GF acting sketchy with her phoneMight as well take her to the sex club and see about some trades, cause this relationship is OVER. In its monogamous incarnation. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 10:47 PM |
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