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Spank her
/r/askTRP01/03/19 06:56 AM
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How does she know that she hasn’t had an outbreak in 8 years? She could easily be infected inside and not have realised. Even so, I’m still pretty sure that she can transmit it without having symptoms as the virus lives on the skin. You may catch it or you may not. The question for you is: is she worth the risk of you catching it, having it for life and dealing with the unknown frequency of outbreaks as well as the stress of whether you disclose it to new partners or not?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 12:38 PM
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Usually when men come around after a year or more and say "oh actually I do love you now", it means that he previously thought he could do better, and you're his fall-back option when that plan didn't work out. I’m interested to know where you got this perspective from: it it your personal experience, that of friends, or just something you’ve read online? Even so, I don’t even see how it’s applicable to their relationship anyway seeing as OP’s boyfriend has already asked her to move in with him:…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 09:03 AM
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She was just really turned on.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 10:57 AM
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She may’ve just been horny and his neediness didn’t bother her as they’re travelling anyway. She may’ve wanted some comfort and thought he’d give her that. He may have a massive dick. ——— This is one situation you’ve witnessed while you’re travelling between two people who will probably never see each other again, I don’t know why that’s making you “question a lot of the principles here”.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 12:59 PM
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The drink suggestion was just something that you can do: alcohol, coffee, ice cream, food or a walk - it doesn’t really matter. The point is that while you’re doing that, you build enough comfort for her to trust you and create a reason for her to come back to yours so she feels like it’s acceptable to. I’ll find out in advance of the date that a girl likes a tv show or dessert (or just chocolate/crisps) then after whatever we’ve done I’ll say “let’s head back to mine (as it’s close) and watch/e…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:42 AM
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I’m guessing she had ASD about coming straight over to yours. I’d just suggest a drink near yours one night, if she comes then escalate and get her back but if she declines then soft next.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:24 AM
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Your posts annoy me. There’s a Title and Body option for a reason.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:19 AM
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Bro, you’re shit because you don’t know how to apply it. Look up kino escalation ladder.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 11:40 PM
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I used to porn wank twice or three times a day on the reg (some days even 5+ times) even when I had gfs. Now I can’t even remember the last time I even wanked to fantasies and I put it down to two things: 1) my time alone to wank is limited and 2) I’m emptying my sack in a fanny 5+ times a week. Sure, I still think about wanking every now and again but my reasoning against it is that I’d rather save that tension for when I’m fucking rather than a hand and a tissue.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 11:32 PM
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Put on something easy that neither of you want to watch but something that has easy kino opportunities (comedy or horror) and then kino her in the usual fashion.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 11:04 PM
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Stop watching porn, just wank when needed and fuck girls.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 11:00 PM
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Grow up.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:44 PM
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woods/forests and fields are where I used to fuck when I was in school and didn’t have a car.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 09:56 PM
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Amused Mastery, Abundance Mentality and an IDGAF attitude: “that’s cool... no need to apologise (if she does)... I had fun” then usher her out unless she gives IOIs for break up sex. Could plate her if/when her new branch snaps.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 06:36 PM
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Write your own and then show it to her so put her at ease.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 05:49 PM
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Stop being an emotional tampon, having a close relationship with and wasting time on a girl who lives very far away and you’ve never met. Go out, get your actual dick wet and get some hobbies besides wanking on cam with girls. You clearly aren’t getting enough nor have enough going on if you’re willing to spend months of your life just for this end goal and felt compelled to post this “issue” here for advice.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 11:03 AM
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Yeah man, my friends and I don’t even bother just hanging out to watch football or chill anymore; once a week we just meet up in a field and have a free-for-all to see who’s the AlphaTM. It’s much more efficient than AMOGing each other when we’re out.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 10:21 AM
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Yeah but you did like them so it’s not projection.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:20 PM
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It’s just assigning personal feelings/emotions to someone else. E.g.: say your gf suddenly starts questioning you if you’re cheating, she could be projecting that because she’s cheating you having abundance mentality prevents/restricts her from projecting her own solipsism
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:28 AM
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If you want a hairstyle then just keep on top of it and take it shorter according to your hair loss. Just don’t try to hold on to a certain style past the point of no return. If you don’t care then just go full on grade 1 but you can always - and will eventually end up needing to anyway - do this yourself.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 12:38 AM
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Link or GTFO
/r/askTRP29/10/18 11:23 PM
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Good job I questioned the maturity, not the validity then.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 10:43 PM
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You don’t want this girl long-term. Either: a) end the relationship and try to keep her as a plate citing some bullshit reasons about you not being ready for commitment atm, or b) carry on your relationship for the time-being, enjoy the easy fucks, work on getting some plates and make sure you’re ready to move on
/r/askTRP29/10/18 10:39 PM
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If you were wanting a mature answer then you should’ve asked a mature question.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 10:27 PM
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Your tampon needs changing.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 10:17 PM
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I have fl studio and my dj stuff still however its a super antisocial hobbie and im not sure what i would do with all the beats Yeah it’s an antisocial hobby but it’s just something you enjoy doing to fill your time indoors so you’re not sitting there bored, it’s not to replace outdoor stuff. Post them on Soundcloud, YouTube, Spotify, Twitter, IG etc (you’ll know more than me on this) - you may be able to get some passive income on them if they’re good enough. Also as for fishing we dont have pu…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 11:32 AM
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Studying business Spend your non-studying time reading non-fiction and guides around what interests you and what you want to do post-studying. Look up books online and see if they’re here Fishing/camping - nobody to go with. Also dont have my license yet anyways... Look for popular fishing & camping spots that you can go to on weekends via buses. Minimal cost and I’m guessing other people go fishing alone. Watching NFL football (cowboys lol) - basically unproductive sunday hobbie which ultimatel…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 10:59 AM
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How do i keep myself from going fucking insane. Im already seeing a therapist and taking anxiety meds... Keep on working out and cutting out porn. Find some indoor and outdoor hobbies that can help you work towards your LT goals. What are you studying? What career do you want? What are your interests atm? how do i get some pussy during this improvement period of my life? Its gonna be a solid year or more before im in shape. Pussy should be your lowest priority. You need to work on yourself first…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 10:16 AM
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Pregnancy. Until that point, it’s just convenience.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 08:22 AM
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The only person who it can never be rape with is your mother because she’s the only one who’ll love you unconditionally.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 05:24 PM
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She’s trying to assert her dominance over you. If you tolerate this shit then from my experience, the next thing she’ll say is that she’s a giver not a taker and will be fucking you up the arse without a reach around.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 02:06 PM
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Easy. HBs: omg what happened to you? You: got jumped the other night by two guys HBs: omgggggg why’d they do that? That’s so bad. Who they were? You: dunno, guess they were trying to mug me HBs: omggggggggg why do you think that? Did thy take anything? You: nah.. they just ran off when I put up a fight
/r/askTRP24/10/18 02:33 PM
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~about 6.3 by 4.9 inch.... I also use the XL durex condoms, which are 57mm in width, so that could not have been a factor Do you mean 4.9” circumference or width? If circumference then I’m bigger and I use normal Durex. If width then as long as the condom is tight on your dick (a bit of an effort to pull down) then that’s fine - you just don’t want it like a carrier bag. What can i do to get more pleasure from sex? I am going to combine both, getting a bj for like 1 minute and then fucking her. …
/r/askTRP24/10/18 10:28 AM
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Tits or GTFO
/r/askTRP22/10/18 12:39 PM
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She told me that "sex will come after some time" and that I should "wait for her to be ready".... We've only ever kissed and she doesn't seem to mind if I touch her ass or tits Mate, you’re 2 months in to a LTR with a virgin and you haven’t even touched her fanny yet, let alone given her an orgasm - that’s why she’s “not ready”. Does the rule [3] still apply? Should I wait for her to be ready?... Should I try to escalate further? There’s two ways to play this depending on what you want: Just sex…
/r/askTRP22/10/18 12:01 PM
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She’s not going out with single girl friends for a night out, nor is she dragging a friend to a random party/event that her ex just happens to be going to. It’s just a close friend’s 21st birthday of who her ex is a mutual friend as well. So assuming you’ve accepted her ex being a mutual friend, it would be contradictory to see this as an issue.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 09:38 AM
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Remove that link you retard.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 09:14 AM
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What a fucking retarded post.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 12:30 PM
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Recovering anorexic. So upset with myself now. Not looking for sympathy, but last night I had the chance to lose my v-card to a girl I’ve been seeing. Being a guy with an ED (eating disorder) is pathetic enough, but due to refeeds I absolutely hate my body. I have a skinny-Fat look and couldn’t even bring myself to remove my shirt. She kept wondering if I was gay or not into her. This girl obviously knows how skinny you are yet still wants to fuck you. You’re simply projecting your issues on to …
/r/askTRP20/10/18 11:58 AM
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Go to r/ asktrp, that’ll give you a pretty good insight.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/18 09:24 AM
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I avoid using any acronyms or terminology that would be specific in either TRP or PUA circles and just explain them in laymen’s terms. Say, for example, I’m out with friends and we’re talking to some girls. I won’t say to a friend that “she’s shit-testing you - you need to A&A” I’ll just say ”she’s just flirting/bantering with you so don’t answer seriously; make a joke and say [insert example of A&A] back”.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 01:18 PM
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Use an alt account for TRP and don’t talk about it outside the subs.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 12:52 PM
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Weird flex but okay
/r/askTRP18/10/18 05:10 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s necessarily having an abundance of girls to fuck, just a lack of scarcity mentality. While the former creates the latter, you can have the latter without the former (as LTRs have this) although it is harder that way. As long as you do the below, you can reduce your scarcity mentality: know that you can get with other girls if this falls apart and are still proactively trying to (just get dating apps - minimal time and they’re convenient) don’t need to text, see or fuck her al…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 09:06 AM
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http://gen.lib.rus.ec/book/index.php?md5=2358D8E5F0342FD866B35BA47B7999F5
/r/askTRP16/10/18 08:22 AM
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You should live by your own principles, not any of ours in here. You need to decide this for yourself.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 02:31 PM
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Looking forward to your FR
/r/askTRP15/10/18 02:23 PM
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Sure, girls would prefer a bigger dick (not talking Mandingo here), all things being equal, but all things aren’t equal. Just because someone has a bigger dick doesn’t automatically mean that they fuck better, it just means that it’s easier to fuck better but a lot guys probably don’t know how to fuck. Read the Sex God Method and learn how to stroke.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 02:22 PM
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You’re not gonna wanna hear this, dude. In my experience, the only thing you can do from a RP perspective on these level 99 basement dwellers overweight and with a lisp is to fuck him to assert your dominance but you gotta use the DEVI method and fuck him like it’s your last. That way, he’ll become obsessed with you, instead of your girl. If you don’t, he’ll just keep harassing her.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 02:12 PM
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If a 25 year old woman is living a middle class lifestyle with her boyfriend of 3 years, and somebody like Brad Pitt hit on her, I find it more likely she would reject him than roll with it for a fuck. However if Brad Pitt rolled up and was offering a long term commitment I believe it would be more likely she would branch swing, although many would not. Depends. If she’s not being satisfied by her current bf/husband (either directly sexually or indirectly emotionally through Frame) then she may …
/r/askTRP15/10/18 12:01 PM
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Buy some decent earplugs.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 08:51 AM
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See how it goes but if she starts giving you a hard time just log off and soft next her.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 05:36 PM
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Don’t. The only thing you’ve got to gain by telling her is absolving yourself of the guilt you have from cheating but once you do, you’ll feel even more guilty for hurting her.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 11:37 AM
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I wouldn’t do anything to the guy if he was random, even if he knew she was in a relationship. I’d do the same.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:13 AM
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If going to this concert wasn’t about the HB9 then you wouldn’t have posted it here and wrote 3 paragraphs about said HB9. You’d have either made a decision yourself to spend $100 (+$40 more than you usually do) to go and see a group that you claim you like or if you actually can’t make that decision yourself, posted it in their actual sub or somewhere else. You clearly just want people to tell you to go so I’ll humour you: go and have fun seeing the group you like
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:07 AM
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Example would be sir dipshit mcfuck thought he could tell her his dick was hard when they had just finished having a conversation about politics that didn't go so well. MegaChadTM wouldn’t allow the conversation to go on to politics nor tell her his dick was hard, sir dipshit mcfuck would, though. They’re two different people, my man. But wait... I get that I brought this up in a forum like this. I know that creates assumption about why I posted. But I enjoy concerts. I just usually spend $60 as…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 09:54 AM
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A random girl isn’t going to fuck you down an alley just because she sees a dick print just like we wouldn’t just because some girl has cleavage, visible nips or ass fitting shorts/pants. It has the same effect though. You don’t have to wear tight shorts/pants to see one, just something which contours your dick, typically cotton or polyester (think sweatpants and basketball shorts).
/r/askTRP12/10/18 09:38 AM
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Assuming she’s an actual HB9 as you say; don’t you think that she didn’t actually invite you with her because she may want plausible deniability to sack you off incase either: you’re not be the only guy that she’s put this out to or a MegaChadTM comes up to her? Regardless of how hot she is, spending $100 to maybe see her at this concert reeks of needy oneitis and scarcity which she’ll realise because if you actually wanted to go to see the band, you’d already have bought tickets yourself.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 09:22 AM
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be yourself and find women attracted to the real you That’s bad advice. As most people come here because of the issues with BP, those principles are still ingrained in them and if they were to just “be [them]selves” then they’d be applying BP principles to dating & women. Reading up on RP and proactively applying its principles over corresponding BP principles through practice and trial & error is IMO the best course as it will them help internalise them.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 09:02 AM
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A visible dick through your clothes
/r/askTRP12/10/18 08:54 AM
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I’m assuming from your recent posts that this is your gf (“LTR” and “gf” both used) and not your actual wife. We're cuddling and watching a Halloween movie after dinner. Throughout much of the movie she sends texts to a married male work friend about the movie. They both love this movie and share humor about it at work. Okay, understandable. So her attention would rather be on her phone messaging a guy rather than enjoying cuddling you, watching a film that she loves and waiting to speak to him …
/r/askMRP11/10/18 10:32 PM
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Mate, there’s more to being alpha than just fucking multiple women, especially when they’re literally getting paid to fuck you. wtf is this shit?
/r/askTRP11/10/18 08:54 PM
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Some of the stuff they come out with is funny af though.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 08:41 PM
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Why do you need to voice your opinion on subjects such as these? You know what you believe and them believing something different doesn’t affect you other than learning discipline and when to stfu. Your views (even if backed up with facts) aren’t going to change those of the group unless you write a 20,000 word unbiased referenced essay examining both sides and coming to a valid conclusion. Groupthink is very strong: all it takes is for one person to oppose you, another to pipe up and everyone f…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:23 PM
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I’d like to think we’re both correct
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:08 PM
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Or is Einstein’s Theory of Special Relativity based off the idea of Frame?
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:05 PM
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You got me confused on that last part. The point is how easily it can get back to your plate gf if they talk to each other. Now how do I fuck her? https://youtu.be/nN83BVoU9WQ She might probably reject me if they are friends and she finds out I'm plating her, and I will probably look beta in the existing plates eyes. It’s a lose-lose with a very small chance of a win: You’ll either look beta from the rejection or at the point at which she finds out you fucked this girl and you hamster “but bb gi…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 10:30 AM
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The real issue here is you plating a girl and not properly communicating to her what she is. If you did, you wouldn’t have this problem and be asking this question. If you fuck this girl and your plate gf finds out (which is very likely at some point if they talk to each other), there will be drama and your plate gf will most likely break. All it takes is for this girl to see your plate gf and you out or on social media as plates gf/bf, ask how long you’ve been plating gf/bf for, put the timelin…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 09:58 AM
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Assuming “Fling” means ONS and “FWB” means either that or Plate Judging how your only “FWB” are with 2-4s and “Flings” with 3-7s: I’d say you to need to work on your dick game. The 2-4s you FWBd probably saw you as higher value and looked past it (either because you made them feel special for wanting to continue fucking them or they saw a possibility of something LT) whereas the 3-7s you had Flings with didn’t see you as higher value and/or couldn’t look past it. Girls want to fuck and as most w…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 09:47 AM
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Is it alpha to ask older women how old they are A real alpha would just know her age
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:18 PM
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Get eeeeeet
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:14 PM
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OP, I wanna know how this ends.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:53 PM
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I prefer the Stone Cold Stunner
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:48 PM
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I keep rubbing. I’ve heard of the pressing it down thing but I’ve always likened that to a girl stopping stroking your cock and just holding it as soon as you come.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 01:59 PM
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Yeah, it’s a called a door-to-door salesshagman
/r/askTRP10/10/18 01:23 PM
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⁠Could you please point out "the issues and risks involved here". if you become overly flirty (even if it’s reciprocated) and the other - or even another colleague male or female - gets jealous they could report you for sexual harassment you could mess up your professional relationship with them and ability to get things done. Here you’re in a catch-22: either do nothing and let your work suffer or you raise this issue to their superior and they get brought in for questioning, their easy explana…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:53 AM
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Are you retarded? You’re trying to game a manager and senior-manager at work. Do you not understand the issues and risks involved here? Leave these alone and get some [more] girls that you have no ties to. Jesus fuck.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:24 AM
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Yeah, kino escalation ladder. It’s like driving. You don’t go from neutral to 5th gear, you gradually work your way through them depending on your speed [her comfortableness] and incline [her resistance] as it’s easier for you to manage and the car [girl] doesn’t struggle [get freaked out] and stall [leaves].
/r/askTRP10/10/18 09:04 AM
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What would you guys suggest I do from here? Delete her on all social media, block her and move on. Workout, focus on your career/education and goals. Was she really a quality girl? Doesn’t sound like she was. You’re young though so you’ll certainly come across better quality girls.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 08:53 PM
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Your bus ticket.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 05:13 PM
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You sound like a bitch creating some elaborate plan just for revenge. Also, just because his girl is sending you shit on the side, doesn’t mean that she’ll be happy kissing you in front of him and everyone. Either: offer him out in a fair fight and shake hands afterwards if you’re happy fighting him talk to him and sort your issues out like adults forget about it
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:45 PM
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You sound pretty insecure. Come here, rest your head on my chest and let it all out. I’ll protect you, baby girl.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 01:25 PM
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That’s how the Blue Pill strategy works. It doesn’t matter that he’s not done anything with her, in his mind, he has dibs because he’s “matched on Tinder, bought her stuff and watched movies together”. You should’ve realised that and respected your friend’s strategy for getting with this girl who was, in his eyes, his date and probably fantasied over escalating with her. What you should’ve done was notice her IOIs before hooking up with her, take your friend aside and ask him if it’s cool if you…
/r/askTRP09/10/18 09:10 AM
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Are there any more steps that I can take? In my experience, I favoured porn over sex in a LTR for two reasons: Unfulfilling sex. Nothing to do with how attractive my partner was, the monotony of the routine or how frequently she initiated/didn’t reject but purely because I didn’t think that she was actually enjoying it and that killed my desire. Do you come or at least make him think that you do? Do you compliment him afterwards on how good it was? Do you message him the next day saying how you …
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/18 11:49 AM
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Embrace it mate.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:09 AM
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“Could I void the mostly gaseous contents of my colon into your personal space?” Iron Rule #1. OP knows what he’s doing: when I want to fart, I just say that I have to fart, and I do it, straight away.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 08:47 PM
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I only do it when there’s a chance that I can follow through. Makes it more exciting that way.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 07:37 PM
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He’s funny though.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 07:17 PM
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At which stage?
/r/askTRP05/10/18 11:54 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9l9y4w/comment/e754nfl?st=JMVT0PX5&sh=cf331a86
/r/askTRP05/10/18 09:25 AM
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Earth Humans take things very personal Can you share your insight on non-Earth Humans?
/r/askTRP04/10/18 07:58 PM
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When I was 18-22 I saw guys - who were objectively both worse looking and not as in-shape as I was - fucking a lot more and with higher quality girls than I was. They weren’t Alpha; they just knew how to get in girl’s pants. At the time I just put it down to the “the gift of the gab” and carried on as I was doing believing that I just didn’t have it. It wasn’t until I came across TRP when it all came together and I realised that these guys just naturally had (as I don’t believe they were aware o…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:35 PM
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Nah, no gold.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 12:06 PM
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I had a relationship with a 50 year old woman for 6 weeks. I am 46. Why? I was fed up with my long term sexless life. I lowered my standards, and to be fair she looks at least 10 years younger. 6 weeks is not a relationship - sidebar Right from the start she insisted an Whatsapp texting several times a day. I agreed even though I usually use texting only for setting up dates. You were in her frame from the start - sidebar The first time she started an argument with me Never argue with a woman - …
/r/askTRP04/10/18 10:56 AM
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What kind of stuff are you in to?
/r/askTRP04/10/18 09:16 AM
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You overreacted in the sense of actually reacting to this girl. No idea what you actually gained from doing it other than mildly humorously putting someone down who likely won’t give a fuck about your insults. Whereas, you wasted: time replying, energy worrying about whether there’ll be repercussions and, time writing this post. Regarding your actual exchange of insults; no you didn’t overreact.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 09:09 AM
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Safari > incognito > old.reddit.com > log in > search r/theredpill First post has r/theredpill link in a comment, click on that which takes you to the quarantine section then click continue. Click subscribe if you haven’t already Open Reddit app, click on the sub and when you get the quarantine notification box, don’t click back, just click off the box
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:55 AM
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Don’t need to say anything; just get a dark towel for your bed and whip it out then some baby wipes in for afterwards. Enjoy the extra lube. Or just get a nosh off her while you wait for Saturday.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 07:42 PM
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Tell her you’ll gag her next time.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 04:52 PM
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Decent tits, though?
/r/askTRP02/10/18 04:46 PM
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You may have fucked his oneitis
/r/askTRP02/10/18 10:38 AM
2

I’d say it’s even more like 80% mental and 20% physical (as in actual dick in fanny). There’s been times when I’ve done like 10 pumps and my girl has come. Other times it’s obviously taken longer but no MLGPROTM strokes have caused that difference. When it’s taken longer, I’ve done a few things to her mentally and sometimes it made her come so quickly when she didn’t even seem that close.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:42 AM
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Any thoughts? Have you read anything on the sidebars?
/r/askTRP01/10/18 09:52 AM
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https://youtu.be/nN83BVoU9WQ
/r/askTRP29/09/18 10:49 AM
2

Sure, you view yourself not putting him in his place as emasculating, I get that, but it’s not that black and white. It’s like choosing not to bareback that hot crazy bitch or fight some coked-up nutjob and his friends because he accidentally spilt a drink on you. They’re emasculating in the literal sense but why don’t you do those things? Because they could lead to you getting STIs/STDs and a kid or bottled/stabbed - all of which will fuck up your goals and mission. The same principle applies t…
/r/askTRP28/09/18 10:49 AM
7

laughing out loud what the fuck
/r/askTRP27/09/18 09:10 PM
8

lol wtf
/r/askTRP27/09/18 09:00 PM
18

On iPhone: all you have to do is click anywhere but on the quarantine notice (which gives “back” option) and you go through
/r/askTRP27/09/18 08:24 PM
1

Get her to ride a dildo while she’s sucking your cock Tie her down and shove a dildo or something up her ass while you’re fucking her
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:51 AM
1

Dread Level
/r/askTRP27/09/18 09:46 AM
2

For iPhone: open in Safari click on that weird box with an arrow at the bottom save pdf to iBooks
/r/askTRP27/09/18 08:37 AM
8

If it’s a shitty job with no prospects then I’d smash away but if it’s a career then nah.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:26 AM
1

Fap away big boy
/r/askTRP22/09/18 06:29 PM
2

I felt like in the past I was too eager/excited/put her on a pedestal You’ve made like 10 posts about her and now you’re asking when you should text her back; she’s still on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 09:41 AM
1

Disagree. For young girls and those with no to very low experience, sometimes all it takes is the label for them to be “your girlfriend” - you don’t need to fuck them like you do with older and more experienced girls who’ve fucked before being “a girlfriend”.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 08:59 AM
1

For the likes.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 12:03 AM
3

Fuck, you made me turtlehead
/r/askTRP21/09/18 09:24 PM
2

Wow
/r/askTRP21/09/18 09:22 PM
1

Need context.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 10:01 AM
1

My previous porn habits went a long way towards destroying a LTR. It's NOT healthy [for me]. But some people can do unhealthy shit and get away with it Yeah, that’s my point: porn was bad for you and I, however, that doesn’t automatically mean that it has negative effects for everyone else. We’re all different. Maybe that person is less impacted by quick dopamine releases than I am or he’s so horny that he needs to fap to porn that frequently to release his urges to help him fuck for longer whic…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 09:51 AM
7

Who cares what reason she’s giving to justify her fucking you while in a LTR? If you were her BF and she gave you those reasons, you’d know better than to believe them so don’t believe them now. Actions, not words
/r/askTRP20/09/18 09:08 AM
2

It's not that I get away with it, it's just that it's not even bad to begin with Well.. you do get away with it (it being the bad dopamine affects that some people experience). I do agree with your previous comment about “using common sense” though - everyone is different
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:58 AM
6

TRP isn’t a step-by-step guide: it’s a framework of principles that you apply and adjust to suit your wants. If you want to LTR this girl then just LTR her, not doing what you want because of some ‘guide’ telling you not to is against the core principles of TRP. If you’re sure that she wants to be with you LTR and you do want to be with her then rather than asking her to be your girlfriend (which I do agree not to), you can just drop in to conversation saying that she is your girlfriend, either …
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:49 AM
1

avoid eating late at night and laying down immediately after food go to sleep earlier and wake up earlier - 30 mins from waking up to starting class isn’t enough get your metabolism going as soon as you wake up by drinking a glass of water, move around keeping your upper body upright and having breakfast early in to your morning routine
/r/askTRP17/09/18 12:05 PM
8

Fuck her good before you go. It means you can message her when you’re back with no/limited attention when you’re at uni
/r/askTRP17/09/18 11:56 AM
1

I quit wanking to porn years ago and it helped me massively with both PA and PE. If I really need a wank now then I’ll just use my imagination but I’d rather let it build up as I feel I fuck better when I don’t. I’ll watch a new Janice Griffith vid when I’m feeling horny coz I like the way she comes. Other than that I abstain from all porn
/r/askTRP14/09/18 10:29 PM
1

Mate, after looking at your post history it’s embarrassing how obsessed you are by this girl. Either fucking DM her and ask her out or move on. This shit is aids.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 11:16 AM
2

Yeah, that was a very long post and I’m not actually sure what the question was. So without reading again, I’m gonna touch on confidence and not being spineless: I was like that when I was younger and what I found helped me was getting in to outbound sales roles (face to face would be better). It helped me build chat/rapport with randoms who don’t want to speak to me, overcome objections and the fear of rejection, and build my spine through negotiating the sale amount as I was targeted/remunerat…
/r/askTRP14/09/18 11:04 AM
1

Yeah I used to be the same as you: wanking off to porn 1-2 times a day, not arsed about getting fanny when I was out nor escalating on the dates I went on and hamstering them as “practice dating”. I cut the porn out completely and reduced my wanking to once a week, then it fell to every two weeks or so and now I probably wank about once every two months, if that. It made me much more willing to look for fanny, enjoy fucking a lot more and I’ve got more energy. I’d suggest cutting porn out comple…
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:27 PM
1

It's true that it seems that I'm falling into her frame by suddenly going to class again, but I can easily reframe it into my own epiphany. Her saying about you not going to these classes was her worried that you’re not improving yourself: lowering your current and possibly future SMV. So now that she knows it’s pointless you attending these classes for your SMVs, attending them won’t satisfy that issue and she’ll know that it’s only to appease the conflict issue = entering her frame. Maintainin…
/r/askTRP13/09/18 11:28 AM
8

I’d suggest holding your frame and not going to class (assuming it is pointless and you’re not actually hamstering your laziness) but make sure you’re doing something productive in that time that works towards your goal.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 10:08 AM
1

im currently in few dates but often i notice that im bored and i prefer going out with friends or playing videogames. How regularly do you wank but also watch porn while doing it?
/r/askTRP13/09/18 08:38 AM
6

Jesus Christ.. just ask her
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:01 PM
23

Yeah I want a couple as I’d like to see how they develop throughout their lives. Although, I don’t like the idea of them going to school and being taught by spastics.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 03:46 PM
3

Stop being so thirsty just because you want some back for a quick wank. Meet up and see it in person.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:46 PM
1

I focus on my breath for the first minute or so, just deep breaths noticing the expanding and contracting. After a while when I’m relaxed, I’ll naturally just zone out of thinking about my breath and then notice shapes/flickers of light moving across the blackness and thoughts but I don’t dwell on them - they just happen. Then when I’m in that “meditative state” (as I perceive it) it’s as if the blackness goes further back (or my perception of the blackness does - I don’t really know) and at thi…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 10:37 AM
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