PDX_Relationshipnerd Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Unzipped PDX: 2 Strippers and a Sex Therapist (I'm the guest)		PDX_Relationshipnerd	/r/seduction	02/08/17 10:25 AM

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2	Why won't she go out with me? You're harassing her, that's why. She is not obligated to go out with you at all. She tried to be nice about it, but apparently you need more of a firm answer: She's not into you. And your entitled attitude? Fix that shit fast. It's woman repellent. Get help.	/r/seduction	05/12/18 07:02 PM
1	Australian University game as a STEM major? Have next to no opportunities to even MEET girls. Wait, so you're complaining that women aren't everywhere you go? Go cry a river. Get out and meet people. Quit complaining on the internet, FFS.	/r/seduction	26/11/18 05:41 PM
3	If I'm looking for fuckbuddies, should I tell them in an open relationship? You should be honest with women, it will get you a lot farther and actually get what you're looking for. If you lie and they find out, it's over. Also, be prepared to be rejected a lot more, not many women are dying to be a side piece.	/r/seduction	08/09/18 10:02 PM
34	How do you approach a woman with headphones on Don't.	/r/seduction	24/08/18 01:54 PM
11	Blood, sweat and fucking tears Exactly the type of post a 22 year old with no real game knowledge would make. It has no value but just urges people to go out and yell "Bro" at one another. If you want to dispense good advice, start by learning yourself, refining your own game, and then sharing your experiences. It's fun to type into a keyboard the advice you should be taking on your own, but don't waste our time with directionless motivation. Save it for the gym.	/r/seduction	17/08/18 06:14 AM
-1	Seductive lounge bars in Seoul That's Thailand. Korea has juicy girls. Basically Filipino girls that have been trafficed there for the military to use as entertainment. Some guys even "buy" a wife. The entire practice is abhorrent and is prostitution. I don't know why you need help picking up sex workers, it doesn't take any skill, just money.	/r/seduction	09/08/18 01:51 PM
1	Help, how do I get the cute girl at the ice cream shop? Just follow what I already said. There is no "tip" or "trick" to make things work. Be direct, if she's open to it she will accept, if not then move on to someone else.	/r/seduction	23/07/18 05:50 PM
15	Help, how do I get the cute girl at the ice cream shop? As a general rule, it's not good form to hit on women while they are at work. You may be misinterpretating signs that aren't there. If you want to try, just go for a direct approach, introduce yourself, give a polite compliment (nice smile), then ask if she wants to get coffee sometime. If she says no just accept it, thank her and don't try again. You have to understand that you have a low probability of it working out, but you'll never know for sure unless you try.	/r/seduction	23/07/18 05:28 PM
2	Completely New To the Game You sound like a guy that's willing to do everything but the one thing that will help you actually improve, and that's going out and talking to people. No, you should not read a library's worth of books on seduction. You do not need to do that to improve yourself. The one secret all of those writers, bloggers, and experts are going to tell you is to go out and approach. Go with friends, by yourself, co-workers, classmates, etc. GO OUT AND DO IT. Don't think that hours of reading and watching vid…	/r/seduction	25/01/18 10:47 AM
7	How was your stats when you just started daygaming? The master has failed more times than the amateur has even tried. No one should keep track of their numbers. Are you trying to compare yourself to others? That's a waste of time. Are you trying to prove that you're better than others? Another waste of time. This entire post is a waste of time, and so was my reply. Fix your priorities.	/r/seduction	25/01/18 10:43 AM
2	How Do I Hit On A Girl While Still Being Respectful Can I just say that I appreciate your question. It's refreshing to hear a guy that wants to learn how to flirt with women and still be respectful. For some reason many guys find it difficult to do both. The answer to your question isn't very easy, but there are just some things to remember: Respect comes first. Many pick-up artists and similar guys try to dehumanize women, this is done by showing them a lack of respect. You can respect women by not having expectations. You can respect them by le…	/r/seduction	12/01/18 01:44 PM
1	Dating should be very easy. But it isn't. And this is why I agree with everything you said. OP is focused on the fact that they believe that sex is the relationship commodity. They are so small minded, believing everything boils down to sex. That's OP projecting and putting their ignorance on display for everyone. I hope people ignore this post.	/r/seduction	27/10/17 09:06 PM
22	Advice for a Beginner? The biggest advice I can give to any beginner is that an afternoon of experience is worth years of reading. You can read every book, watch every YouTube video, and think you learned something, but you don't actually learn anything until you put it into practice. Approach anxiety sucks, it's the worst thing about this entire thing, but if you can learn to master it, you will find immense success. You're going to get rejected... a lot. Get used to it. Start loving the rejection. The key is to get …	/r/seduction	26/10/17 06:55 AM
6	Direct Advice On Becoming A More Attractive, High-Quality Guy. I'm going to let the votes speak for themselves.	/r/seduction	26/10/17 04:54 AM
8	Direct Advice On Becoming A More Attractive, High-Quality Guy. And for anyone trying to learn from this kid, they openly admits to being a narcissistic sociopath. It's in OPs history. I don't think teenage, narcissistic sociopaths are the best people to get advice from, let alone dating or seduction advice.	/r/seduction	26/10/17 04:35 AM
9	Direct Advice On Becoming A More Attractive, High-Quality Guy. That is another ignorant thing you've typed. I really hope you're done for the day.	/r/seduction	26/10/17 04:30 AM
9	Direct Advice On Becoming A More Attractive, High-Quality Guy. Wow. This is the worst post I've ever seen on this sub. There is blatant racism in this post as well as sexism, and the most terrible advice I've ever read. I don't know why mods haven't removed this post, I mean OP rattles on about dominant races for fucks sake. Anyone reading this should immediately go back to a better post.	/r/seduction	26/10/17 04:28 AM
2	How to flirt If you went through "the worst break up ever in highschool" that says quite a bit about your own life. Have you not dated much since highschool? Have you only had a couple relationships? What caused it to be "the worst"? I'm curious because all these signs point to someone that may not be looking out for OPs best interest.	/r/seduction	19/10/17 07:03 PM
1	How to flirt You're 16. You are way too young to be concerned with seduction. Focus on getting into a good college or trade school, create a good life for yourself then go crazy chasing all the women you want. What type of relationship do you expect to find at your age? Date for a few months and then breakup? Is it worth all that work, invest your time, only to go through a break up at the end of it?	/r/seduction	19/10/17 08:49 AM
3	Seduction Challenges I will say that I personally enjoy this idea. It gives something for those with a bit more advanced skill something to try and do. There is always room for improvement and these types of challenges might provide the opportunity. This is just my personal opinion. My opinion about this sub though, is that most people that consume the information given are not "seduction experts". Most posts on this sub deal with a form of approach anxiety. Others ask for generic advice on texting, dating, and sex.…	/r/seduction	19/10/17 08:47 AM
2	Birthdays? If I were in your shoes with the information you've provided, I would make a card (like you did in grade school, but good), get her some candy, and take her out to a nice meal. The combination of home made, plus giving her time and treating her would culminate to a very good and appropriate present, given your current situation with her. If you want to stick to gifts: flowers (from a florist that isn't inside a grocery store), tickets to a concert (one of my go-to options), gift card for pamperi…	/r/seduction	13/10/17 10:00 AM
2	Birthdays? You've seen her a few times. Think about what she's really into, a book, movie, something significant in her life. See if there is a small way to show her you know what she likes. It's better to go with the most personal touch you can as opposed to stand bys like chocolates or the like. Are you exclusive? What's your budget? Can you give us a personality profile to work with? If you can answer those I would be able to maybe suggest a more appropriate gift. Best of luck to you!	/r/seduction	13/10/17 08:55 AM
1	Constant pressure on approaching girls I'm not shaming him for being straight, that would be like saying, "I disagree with your attraction to women." What I said was, "You need to learn self control because you obviously are having problems exercising it." Since you were foolish enough to try and defend OP, I can safely assume you do the same thing. It's not healthy, and is an indicator of potential acts of harassment or assault. He should be able to do his work then worry about women, not fail because he can't cope with the fact the…	/r/seduction	11/10/17 11:34 PM
1	The sad seduction. I need some insight What you outlined is a scam. You want to play a sad part to trigger emotional reactions in women.... You want to lie to women more accurately. It won't really work, because if it had any merit to it, I would have hear about this 'idea' in my life experience or my academic studies. Go ahead and try it though. I'm waiting on pins and needles for this idea to take off for you.	/r/seduction	11/10/17 06:39 PM
19	Constant pressure on approaching girls If you can't focus on your work because you're distracted by the women at your college, that is a sign to a much bigger issue. This is what gives men a bad name, when men can't control themselves. If you want to stop being bothered by that, then I suggest exercising regularly, getting some new hobbies, and maybe reading up on seduction (see one of the many books available to you). Find a time and place to approach women that you're attracted to. Remember, treat women with respect. Don't harass, …	/r/seduction	11/10/17 01:36 PM
1	Approach Question My biggest problem is meeting new girls. No, that's everyone's problem. You just somehow think you're different or special. We all want to get over that. Stop acting like the sun revolves around you. Go read a book about how to approach. There are plenty of YouTube videos as well on the subject. Trying to buy women drinks right off the bat can be seen as creepy more often than it is kind. Go work on approaches that actually work.	/r/seduction	11/10/17 10:56 AM
2	The sad seduction. I need some insight So you want to manipulate people to hook up with you because you seem like a sad, fixer upper type? Wow. Just.... Wow. Let me know how going against the entire knowledge base for seduction goes for you.	/r/seduction	11/10/17 10:52 AM
1	Lone Wolf Gaming Soloing or going lone wolf makes things more difficult. You show little social capital when you're out, you look awkward drinking by yourself, opening groups of women is more difficult and you can run into problems when trying to close. My advice would be to make some new friends and go do social things with them. Turn them into wingmen. You can venture out on your own, but there isn't a magic trick to doing it alone. You just have to go approach and work on your game. Why are you so adverse to …	/r/seduction	11/10/17 10:50 AM
4	I have been in college for nearly 2 years and haven't gotten laid once nor had a girlfriend, and that is affecting my interactions with women, my social life, and my academics and career. All I'm seeing here is an 'entitlement' mindset. Are you supposed to be guaranteed to have sex within 2 years? The only thing stopping you from achieving your very low goal of getting laid is you. Just because you're in college and are an average looking guy does not mean you automatically should get laid. Oh and those guys that are "uglier" or "fatter" who are getting laid, they don't have the entitlement attitude you have. Go fix that.	/r/seduction	11/10/17 10:44 AM
2	Instant closing - help! So you're looking for advice that is terrible in hopes you can perfect the insta-close? Don't look for shortcuts. This is not a very successful tactic to employ. Do the hard work and it will pay off much more than searching for what is the dumbest thing I've heard yet.	/r/seduction	11/10/17 10:25 AM
11	Guys who have game, what do you think about Tinder? Tinder/Bumble/OKC/POF/Match.... They are all garbage to anyone with game. Who wants to sit around messaging women that are getting hundreds of emails a day already? Who wants to fight for the limited attention of a woman that's overwhelmed by the amount of men trying their best to sleep with them? Look at the numbers. It takes most guys about 100 messages to get a response. 1/100 to get a response. Then out of those that do reply, you're looking at about 1/10 making it to a date. Do you see how …	/r/seduction	11/10/17 09:54 AM
1	Find wingman? The problem I have is I get anxiety when I'm talking to girls that I'm attracted to. NO. This problem isn't only yours its what we all deal with when we approach. Everyone of us. Even the best of us still get anxious when we are talking to someone we are attracted to. You are not special and do not deserve special treatment. Your issue comes down to an issue of practice. You're nervous around women and are still hindered by it. You have to develop your own personal way to cope with that anxiety …	/r/seduction	11/10/17 09:42 AM
2	Why do I get treated so poorly There it is, you're only 20 years old. In good conscience, I can't really believe that women are being so nasty to you to your face. I've been doing this for 9 years now, and I rarely see women act as you describe. I think you might be making your rejections seem worse than they actually are. I know you haven't gone far enough with your 'inner game' simply because the way you write. Your title of your post "Why do I get treated so poorly?" is a big indicator that you are extremely entitled. No o…	/r/seduction	11/10/17 09:39 AM
1	How do I respond to a LJBF text after a date? Hmmm. Who do you think gets laid more- Eeyore or Tigger? Which one do you sound like right now? This had me dying. I'm stealing it to use. It's the perfect way to break it down for these man-children that can't grasp even the most simple concepts in dating.	/r/seduction	10/10/17 11:30 AM
1	How do I respond to a LJBF text after a date? This is post right here is infuriating. You're rating humans on a scale of 10. That is beyond fucked up. If I had to give you a number based on your post and your attitude you'd get a -3. Yes that's a negative before that three. You don't deserve to be with "1's" that you'd judge. You need to fix your perspective. Don't judge people on a 10 point scale, they have lives and are interesting in their own right, even if they aren't a compatible dating partner for you. You need therapy. STAT. No joke…	/r/seduction	10/10/17 11:29 AM
1	How do I respond to a LJBF text after a date? So I am 28. Went on my 2nd ever date. Your second date ever in your life? Congrats on that, but that tells me that you need to date a lot more. Have you done something very complicated twice and decide you were good or bad at it? It takes practice and repetition to become good at it. The fact that you want to run and hide after an offer to be just friends also tells us that you're not a very stable person. There are lots of people out there to meet and date, but you'd rather resign yourself beca…	/r/seduction	10/10/17 11:27 AM
3	Why do I get treated so poorly So you've got good self-confidence, but women are rejecting you, but not politely, but rudely? Am I wrong in my assessment? Your post was a little short and there are tons of details that could be filled in. Either you're the most unlucky guy on the planet where every woman that you've approached is a nasty person, OR there is a flaw with your approach that makes women treat you in a bad way. Which one do you think is the reason? The problem I have with posts like these, is that guys like yourse…	/r/seduction	10/10/17 10:41 AM
1	Should I ask the whole group (trio) for some fun out or only girl I like & really want to go out with Your best bet in this scenario is to ask her out directly. You will make an impression if you ask her out in front of her friends, it will show confidence and genuine interest. Just prepare yourself to accept a polite rejection (or even an impolite one).	/r/seduction	10/10/17 10:05 AM
3	Find wingman? You're never going to find someone that will jump into your life and say "Hi, my name is (insert name here) I want to be a wingman for you." Good wingmen are extremely rare and hard to find. Beyond that, wingmen are only as good as the people they are out with, meaning if you're not very good your wings won't be as good either. It's a relationship that requires investment and getting to know one another. That means to find a good wingman, you have to go find a person that matches your personalit…	/r/seduction	10/10/17 09:43 AM
4	How am I supposed to go through life just having absolutely zero confidence? You have no confidence because you're 19. You haven't done anything in life to be confident about. If you were confident, I'd accuse you of being cocky. Often young men your age put too much pressure on being a successful womanizer before you're 20. We hear about our friends having sex or being in a relationship and we start to compare ourselves to them. We start measuring how happy we are by comparing our accomplishments to those around us. THIS IS TOXIC THINKING. We are all on our own paths th…	/r/seduction	06/10/17 10:42 AM
31	Anxiety has never really gone away? Those butterflies before you go out? Yeah those will never go away. If they do, that usually means you're not looking forward to going out and that you might be suffering from other issues. If you're going out, and you believe that you might meet an awesome person/people, then you should be excited. It is a little nerve racking, approaching strangers carries that risk of rejection, but also carries the potential for reward. Both are equally scary for their own reasons. Embrace the anticipation a…	/r/seduction	21/09/17 02:54 PM
2	I look exactly like Neil 'Style' Strauss. Your 'looks' experiences appreciated. Well considering the type of person this is, I was actually very nice. This was me holding back. I have very little tolerance for guys like this.	/r/seduction	21/09/17 02:43 PM
3	I look exactly like Neil 'Style' Strauss. Your 'looks' experiences appreciated. The red pill has an agenda that really isn't helpful to anyone. If you're an angry man that can't get laid, go there to blame it all on the women, after all it's their fault men can't get laid and not their own. It's disgusting.	/r/seduction	21/09/17 02:42 PM
4	I look exactly like Neil 'Style' Strauss. Your 'looks' experiences appreciated. Oh yeah, going through just a little bit of your post history: T_D: Yeah most women hate Donald Trump, and guess what I do too. The guy is a piece of shit, and if you're on that sub, then there are BIG issues. Fix your perspective. The red pill: If you subscribe to their toxic thinking, you're never going to be successful in meeting women. MRAs and the red pill are disgusting places that only exist to serve as massive circle jerks to involuntary celibate people. Is that who you want to surround …	/r/seduction	21/09/17 01:43 PM
3	I look exactly like Neil 'Style' Strauss. Your 'looks' experiences appreciated. This topic gets posted WAY too much. "I'm ugly and therefore I can't ever be successful" It's abundantly clear from the post you made that it isn't your looks that hold you back, it's yourself. You think of yourself as "too ugly" to be successful so you won't try. No one should feed into your pathetic pity party on this thread. Everyone in seduction/dating has their own things they must over come, and no one is just handed anything. I don't feel bad for you, and the only help I'm going to give y…	/r/seduction	21/09/17 01:36 PM
1	Start to finish The only way to overcome approach anxiety is to go approach people. This doesn't necessarily mean women. Go to the grocery store, post office, mall, basically anywhere and see if you can start conversations with strangers. It may be difficult at first as you learn that having a good conversation takes practice. If you want to start small, you could try and strike up conversations with cashiers. They are supposed to be friendly, they usually welcome conversation, and they typically will welcome m…	/r/seduction	21/09/17 01:28 PM
1	I'm attractive but I lack game Being attractive isn't the only thing you need. Some women may be able to get by purely based on their looks, but 99.99999% of men cannot. You need to work on socialization. Having friends, being able to have conversations that engage people, and having enough social intelligence to read people and adjust conversations accordingly. I do want to point something out: I go to one of the most sexually active schools in the country so I feel like by now I should have scored. Do you feel like you are …	/r/seduction	21/09/17 08:28 AM
3	Dating Apps questions It sounds like you need to start working on things for yourself that can create a better profile for yourself. Do you have any friends? That's a serious question. If you do, go out with them to some event (concert, party, park, literally anything) and be adamant about getting pictures doing things with them. If you can combine a few activities in one day you should end up with at least 4 good pictures of yourself to use in your profile. Some stuff about profile pictures: Don't wear a hat, sungla…	/r/seduction	21/09/17 08:23 AM
1	Start to finish You can try and find videos, articles, books, stories, anecdotes and everything and try and learn that way, and it might help you, a very little bit. Instead of looking for that magical article, video or whatever that you think exists, (spoiler alert: IT DOESN'T) go out and practice on your own. You will learn exponentially faster this way than the way you're looking for. Nothing can replace experience, that goes double for seduction and dating. I see so many contradictory opinions... Yes, becau…	/r/seduction	21/09/17 08:13 AM
4	Need some texting advice She hasn't responded for almost a week... Sorry, she's not into you. Stop reaching out to her and move on. Focus on meeting new people and approaching more. I know rejection sucks, but it's part of life, and a big part of seduction. Get used to it, and use it as motivation to better yourself for the next opportunity.	/r/seduction	21/09/17 08:05 AM
3	How do I stop appearing so clingy? Here are a few simple things to remember the next time you're talking to someone you like: You have 2 ears and one mouth. You should be actively listening twice as much as you are speaking. Ask her questions and listen. Don't interrupt, and don't rush to share your own anecdotes. Give the conversation time. Awkward silences happen and they can be necessary evils to conversation. If you're texting someone you are interested in, then only use texting to set up times to meet. Don't fall into long t…	/r/seduction	21/09/17 07:41 AM
9	Would it be helpful if I practice flirting with my female friends Yes, it is helpful to flirt with everyone. Seriously. This is a great way to build skills without worrying too much about rejection. If you kinda flirt with everyone then it's no big deal. I'm a shameless flirt, but I actively avoid going into creeper territory. It does wonders for your overall game.	/r/seduction	15/08/17 05:10 PM
-6	What's the modern equivalent of The Game by Neil Strauss You must phrase your answers in the form of a question: What is Models by Mark Madson?	/r/seduction	15/08/17 03:56 PM
1	[23M] Seduction doesn't work for me because of my looks Yeah, it means that you've found success in the past and instead of building on that and developing yourself, you're comparing it to imaginary people as a way to make yourself seem less valuable. Seriously. You need to fix your self worth issues. Go see a therapist. It's not a sign of weakness. As someone that's been down many, many roads, and comes to subs like this to give advice, it's to help you succeed. The biggest thing that will help you will be professional help to address your depressio…	/r/seduction	15/08/17 01:57 PM
2	[23M] Seduction doesn't work for me because of my looks I don't think you can deny at the very least that I am at a disadvantage. The fuck I can't. You're an able bodied, white male in America. You've got advantages that you don't even recognize. You're complaining about lack of facial hair? Or is it your average height? Or maybe your youthful appearance? Jesus Christ, you need to take some anti-depressants or see a therapist. I've helped out guys much shorter than yourself, guys that are disabled, and foreign guys that don't speak English very well,…	/r/seduction	15/08/17 01:43 PM
3	[23M] Seduction doesn't work for me because of my looks Seduction doesn't work for me because of my looks No, seduction doesn't work for you because you're blaming your failures on something beyond your control, in other words you're taking the easy way out. You're a quitter. If you want to project an air of maturity then you need to address your personal issues, I'd start with how you think you look. You clearly have some sort of self loathing going on, so try and fix that before you throw your hands up because you "don't look mature enough". The ch…	/r/seduction	15/08/17 01:31 PM
3	Playing it ice cold Vs. enthusiastic pursuit Practice, practice, practice. Learning to read people doesn't come easily, it requires patience, understanding, and a mind that's willing to observe. Everyone here wants a quick fix, and that is laughable. If this was easy, everyone would be doing it.	/r/seduction	10/08/17 12:34 PM
3	Attractive guy with no game "Models"	/r/seduction	10/08/17 12:32 PM
2	Can't control my mind anymore, please help! The problem is that I hate myself and the pain is getting physical right now. First of all, can you clarify what you mean by "getting physical?" I read this post and it seems like you're suffering through a depressive episode. I don't want to get too into my professional life here, but I work with people that are depressed and this has a lot of the same red flags. I think you should talk to someone. Whatever is bringing you down, get it off your chest. I highly recommend a therapist, they are ha…	/r/seduction	10/08/17 08:18 AM
3	Playing it ice cold Vs. enthusiastic pursuit ... tell what works... This is so hard to do, I can't say sticking to one works better than the other. The trick is knowing which one to do with what people. Some people want to feel connected, wanted, liked so they enjoy when someone pursues them. Others that have busy lives, or are not really after something serious would detest this approach and opt for the elusive, hard to get type. Instead of thinking of this as "which one is best?", one should be thinking "when is it appropriate to use ___…	/r/seduction	10/08/17 08:10 AM
2	Seduce via Text. Seduce via text. Seduction is an in person game. Texting is used to set up dates, shouldn't be used for much more than this. In other words, don't try and text your way into her pants, you should do that in person.	/r/seduction	10/08/17 07:36 AM
3	Attractive guy with no game What in the fuck am I doing wrong? This question sums up your entire problem with women. You're focused on what you're doing wrong. You don't know what you're doing right, if anything at all. You don't seem to have too much direction. You call yourself "attractive" but there are a ton of attractive guys in this world that can offer more than just a pretty face. Let's not forget the FUCK in the middle of that question, you're frustrated, and being frustrated doesn't help anyone achieve their goal…	/r/seduction	10/08/17 07:20 AM
-1	Need advice guys..shit test? or rejection? This was a straight up rejection. Personal trainer at my gym that I workout at had been sneaking peeks on me, staring at me through mirrors, flipping her hair around me, popping out her backside in front of me. So many IOI's. She gave me a blatant stare one day and tilted her head to the side... Sounds like you think she's checking you out, when in reality she probably wasn't. Men make this mistake all the time, the trick is knowing when someone is really interested in you. So I decided to appro…	/r/seduction	10/08/17 06:47 AM
2	Dumbest pua I've seen😂 Cool story bro. Was there a point to this?	/r/seduction	10/08/17 06:34 AM
2	What is shit test? u/UoAPUA did a good job of defining a shit test. How to tackle every shit test? The best way is to have confidence in yourself, and not to be reactive. Remember, a shit test is designed to get a response from you. If you don't overreact to situations and questions, you'll past most of the shit tests out there. If you can mix humor and confidence in there, you'll pass 99% of them. Most shit tests women give out are to test how clingy and possessive you are. Others will try to see if you're intere…	/r/seduction	08/08/17 01:51 PM
7	story of a man in his thirties now out of the game Decent post. I am shocked by the misinformation this sub seems to have about women and casual sex, so I want to emphasize the point you made again: WOMEN WANT TO HAVE SEX TOO. THEY ARE WILLING TO HAVE CASUAL NO STRINGS SEX AS WELL. This does not mean every woman. This doesn't mean that it should be your primary mission with every woman. It just means that women enjoy sex, and the things that go with it. Women have more inherent risk when it comes to casual sex (pregnancy) and therefore are more …	/r/seduction	08/08/17 01:40 PM
1	Tired of wasting time , would like to know what to fix and how There have been some good responses here, so I'm going to try and give advice on things they may not have touched on to help you. Ok so ever since I remember I always wanted a simple life, one could say. I would be super content to just meet a girl, become intimate and then date and that's it, I don't need or want a different girl every night. If you want a simple life, not much dating, and want to settle into something quickly, then you should look for like minded women. You're not going to fin…	/r/seduction	08/08/17 01:29 PM
7	I'm a fuckboi but have actually learned from this seddit. I am great with women and get laid a lot. Wanna know if a guy is lying? He says something like this in the first sentence of his post. Thanks for sharing your success? We don't need you to share that with us, unless you're feeling insecure, which would make more sense, because... well... you're lying about being successful with women. I'm a fuckboi.... You're actually proud of labeling yourself a "fuckboi"? What is to be proud about? Do you tell women that you are a "fuckboi"? Do they like that?…	/r/seduction	08/08/17 01:18 PM
1	Asked for her phone, instead added me on fb Awesome. Use that past experience you have now. You showed your intentions, and she didn't give you what you were after. Don't pursue her, but demonstrate value your own way. Let her come to you at this point, and don't be too upset if she never does. You got this.	/r/seduction	08/08/17 01:06 PM
1	Do you guys actually enjoy talking to most of the women you go up to? As I've gotten older, the amount of useless conversation I'm willing to have with women has drastically decreased. I've become quite selective with experience and won't waste time with someone that I can't enjoy talking to. When I was younger, learning about people, and whatever you want to call this (seduction, game, etc.) I would stick around and have many pointless, boring conversations. The amount of times I've said, "Wow" to a cat story is unbelievable. If you're young then conversation, ev…	/r/seduction	08/08/17 12:25 PM
1	Asked for her phone, instead added me on fb Congrats on being bold and asking for a phone number. Even though you ended up with the FB, it's not a complete loss. Her giving you that doesn't really mean much, she's still feeling you out, and right now it's still up in the air. If she was into you, she would have given you her number there on the spot. The fact that she didn't means there are some objections to overcome. What you should do next: Keep talking to her at rehearsal, but don't cling to much. Fall back, don't initiate, but don't …	/r/seduction	08/08/17 12:13 PM
3	Good Game is Sloppy Game I LOVE the random bad advice that I see on this sub. Do the same in your text game. Just text her random babble "lkasjdlaksjd21@@!" Yes, that can work. The operating word there is CAN, if you didn't know. Yes it CAN work, just like I CAN meet Felicia Day at Comic Con and maybe hook up, but I'm guessing the chances are very, very low. What I think you're after OP is that confidence allows one to move more broadly than those that are insecure. You're absolutely right. When one is confident, they c…	/r/seduction	04/08/17 07:34 AM
2	How to deal with girls sending 1 line text? There is a lot of context here missing, buddy. Most of the time if this happens, she's just not that into you. Move on. Don't text. Either things will die out, or she will get worried because she isn't getting constant validation from you and reach out. Either way, radio silence is the best way to go until she is ready to have a conversation. You can try and bait her into one, but why when there are plenty of other options out there?	/r/seduction	04/08/17 07:28 AM
1	Tinder girls that won't meet up by messaging "I wanna get to know you first"... She's on Tinder right? She's there to meet people. If she hands you that line she's basically asking you to sell yourself better to her before she will commit to meeting. This can mean a couple of things: More than likely she's a waste of time. She's on Tinder for self validation and has no desire to really meet with anyone. I have a theory, if you created a fake, but real, profile with an extremely attractive model, lots of money, and security, she'd meet him in a heartbeat. Anyway, she's there…	/r/seduction	04/08/17 07:26 AM
0	Right response to: "I'm kind of seeing someone at the moment" Depends on what type of person you want to be, how much work you want to put into it, and a lot weighs on the person you're with. Ask yourself a few things: Do I want to pursue someone that might be interested in another person? This means you're okay with the fact she's not as into you as another guy. Personally, I wouldn't be involved in something like this because she might dump you as soon as the other guy gives her the time of day. I'm not anyone's second choice, and neither should you be. …	/r/seduction	04/08/17 07:18 AM
1	I can't show intent - please give me a non-lewd LINE Can someone give me a go-to line or set of lines that I must say to convey intent. You want pick-up lines? Google pick-up lines, but let me save you lots of trouble, canned, boxed, pre-meditated lines/openers are not the way to go. Will you find success? Perhaps, if you play the numbers game eventually you will find a few after enough time. Advice: Know your environment. If you're in a bar, then pick-up lines, introducing yourself, offering to buy a drink are standard norms. If you're at a game,…	/r/seduction	02/08/17 11:06 AM