I'm attractive but I lack game

math_cutter · 2017-09-20T16:37:04+00:00

To be honest, if you're attractive enough, the girl generally knows if she wants to bone you (or is open to the idea) within 30 seconds.

The main challenge at that point is 2 fold.

Don't fuck things up. (aka talk about politics, religion, red pill, how big are your boobs, dick pic, your lay count, whatever autistic or socially retarded shit you can think of - when in doubt, just shut up).
Lead things down the path to sex. The girl may help you in this but generally they don't want to seem overeager/ slutty you so generally have to go from A to B. Remember, at this point, they WANT to have sex with you already!

Texting is fine but most game should be done in person.

You can probably write an entire book on guidelines, but I'll keep it simple.

Keep texts logistics-focused (let's meet at this X place at Y time). That's the main point. The bulk of your flirting should be done in person. If she needs to get to know you a bit before meeting, well keep it light. What are you doing/ watching/ reading. Tease her a bit, use plenty of emojis (I don't care who disagrees and thinks it's wussy they love that crap), keep it light puppy dog bullshit. Maybe some very light innuendo. "Oh you know Russian? Maybe you can teach me sometime ;)" .... I don't know, childish light shit like that. Oh and try to text the same or less than she does, aka if she does sentences don't do paragraphs. Those these are just guidelines. And if you think she's hooked and you are more attractive than her, you can break the rules, because who gives a shit.

On the date/ meet, let her do most of the talking. Ask her about her life, where's she's been, where's she's at, where's she's going, what she wants to do, likes to do. Maybe have a few recent funny stories or things of interest ready to pepper in. Let her do most of the talking and simply don't fuck it up.

Rest is simply the "kino ladder" though I hate calling it that.

Talk for an hour or whatever > Get up and walk around > put your hand on her back/ shoulder while walking > progress this in whatever way natural, she says she likes dancing spin her round, or get closer, whatever > find isolated dimly lit area, stop her and kiss/ makeout > back to hand on shoulder > make out in car > hand on her thigh. > come up with innocent excuse to go to her/ your place (drive me home, drop me off, I gotta drop this off, I just gotta check something, want to just chill for a few minutes, nothing's going to happen) > remove pants and fuck

G-Dalf · 2017-09-20T14:02:01+00:00

Are you an interesting person? Are you passionate about your program/hobbies/sports/etc? Step one is lead an interesting life, because it will come across in your conversations/actions. Step two is develop some confidence, because I'm guessing some of your confusion and lack of confidence is being conveyed to girls you talk to and they can sense that shit. Do affirmations and read up on other ways to build confidence, there are tons of articles online.

Work on those two to start

PDX_Relationshipnerd · 2017-09-21T08:28:37+00:00

Being attractive isn't the only thing you need. Some women may be able to get by purely based on their looks, but 99.99999% of men cannot. You need to work on socialization. Having friends, being able to have conversations that engage people, and having enough social intelligence to read people and adjust conversations accordingly.

I do want to point something out:

I go to one of the most sexually active schools in the country so I feel like by now I should have scored.

Do you feel like you are entitled to have 'scored' by now? Should women be lining up to have sex with you because you've been told you're cute?

NOTHING IS GIVEN, EVERYTHING IS EARNED. No one owes you a damn thing, and you will have to actually work if you want to be successful. This post reeks of entitlement, so fix that and you might see more success.

youhawhat · 2017-09-21T08:51:41+00:00

Start by reading the side bar ffs

waira23 · 2017-09-21T08:08:18+00:00

man thanks for realizing. Anyway i get your problem. Here is one thing you need to know. women are wired defferently from men. For men, we so logical in our approaches, when we see a hot sexy girl. she immediately makes us horny, we fall in for her already. big picture: we so logical, the more hot the more feelings, and thats it. when it comes to women though, they are wired differently, they are more emotional. thats why a man who wins a woman's heart isnt the most handsome, or rich or strong but the one who sweeps her emotions. Women are so emotional, and when you want to make her fall for you, then you should be able to tickle her emotions. To them, there is no big point in sitting tight there next to here and looking so cool or handsome, i mean it doesnt add up to any value. becuause they want a person to make them experience emotions thats the guy they can want to be with. Luckily, it makes it even easier to del with women. I actually believe people who have hard time are the gay guys, because men are logical and will always be. anyway back to our point, ensure that you flirt with girls, create sexual tension. Put them in an emotional rollcoaster and boom! before you know, they will addicted to you. This topic, has a lot of details to it, i cant round it up within a few paragraphs. but man! i suppose you want to enjoy your life, at your age you should have funful girls sparking off your life. if you really serious about your issue then get this book http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0758W2TC7

Title	I'm attractive but I lack game
Author	nmittz98
Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	September 20, 2017 1:41 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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