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This, except calling women “crazy.” If a man ever tells you his ex was “crazy”, ask yourself what he did to her to make her that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 11:26 PM
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Don’t waste your time. Don’t make it more complicated than it has to be. He either checks the boxes or he doesn’t. Men don’t change, they just get better at lying to you. There is nothing sexier than a woman who doesn’t need a man. Be that woman everyday. Let’s make this the generation of woman who only take a husband because they want to, not because they need to. Things have been screwy for way too fucking long. It’s about damn time for a change and we only people keeping us here. Here, in thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 12:54 AM
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It’s so disgusting and degrading for his wife. He has zero respect for her or their marriage, yet she is continuing to justify his behavior!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:20 AM
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If that isn’t already happening now, it definitely will in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:14 AM
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Exactly. He made that very clear when he continued to do it even though it hurt his wife and will most likely hurt his children in the future. It’s clear he only cares about his dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:12 AM
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(Edited to brag some more) https://i.imgur.com/98ZqL4e.jpg https://i.imgur.com/GfU19KZ.jpg https://i.imgur.com/wOOb3b7.jpg -The ring is a 2 carat, custom made pear shaped diamond. The wedding band is also a dainty infinity diamond band (not pictured) I helped with the customization, but he went back and upgraded the diamond. It was important to him that I loved it since I would be wearing it the rest of my life. Yes, it’s just a material object. But his gesture was more than that. It shows that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 01:31 AM
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The comments from her original post only say “seek therapy”. I don’t think any amount of therapy would help me stay married to this perverse and disgusting person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 12:53 AM
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I actually met my husband on Bumble! I’m not sure about the algorithm part but I can tell you. It’s worked our better for both of us to meet someone who wants the same things. We are both career oriented in our 30’s, never married and no kids. Not religious. Both looking for a healthy partnership that leads to marriage. We met August 2019. He was the second date I had met with. We had an instant connection. 2 months after that, he takes me ring shopping. One month later he proposes to me. 1 week…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:59 PM
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This is a man who is actively hurting his family and their future, so he can get off. This is disturbing and disgusting on so many levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:32 PM
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Id rather be a hoe than a side chick 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 08:37 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 09:42 PM
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Exactly. For night feedings, my husband and I split shifts, I took 12am-4am and he would go to bed a little early and take 4am until 8am. Now she wakes up at 6am every day and he does the “morning shift” and the nighttime routine. Also. I don’t have to ask him to take care of his own kid. That would be absurd. Its not that difficult to manage your time if you really want to. We as women can’t keep enabling men because this behavior is not acceptable. They are fully capable if they want to be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 11:08 AM
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I just want to say the point isn’t that men should be sleep deprived too, it’s that men should share the responsibility of raising their children. There is no reason why a man cannot get up 1 or 2 hours earlier to help take care of his child or take over when he gets home from work/on weekends. That is not going to make him sleep deprived. What is dangerous is a new mom doing 100 percent of the work including all night feedings and then driving to doctors appointments/grocery stores etc. A man s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 10:28 AM
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Exactly right. You should always put yourself and your needs first no matter what you choose. Having a baby is straight up risky business and you can only fully trust yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 10:18 AM
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There are people in this world who continue to enable men and men who feel that taking care of their child is “women’s work.” They say “men aren’t maternal.” Or “babies only want their mothers.” but those are excuses. Women literally risk their lives bringing their children into the world only to spend the next few years in an state of utter exhaustion and neglect trying to please a man who doesn’t give a fuck about them. It’s disturbing and I completely understand the feeling of wanting to be c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 10:16 AM
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Exactly this. It’s called time management. My husband wakes up with our daughter at 6am every morning. I typically sleep in. He goes to work around 8:30am for 10 hours and sees around 20-30 patients a day in Urgent Care. He takes over when he gets home, usually gives her a bath and puts her to bed. He takes over on the weekends. When our daughter was a newborn he did 90 percent of the work so I could heal (he took off a month also.) I will never understand these posts where the women talk about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 10:10 AM
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It’s completely despicable. Women are not baby-making doormats. There is no excuse to not parent your child and allow your wife to suffer. These are the same women who probably struggle to lose weight or take care of themselves and they end up being cheated on and tossed aside by a man who never gave a fuck about them and it shows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 09:31 AM
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In this thread, you will find women making excuses for why their shitty husbands can’t help take care of their own child. Guys, these men all have super important jobs so it’s best to let them sleep why you stay up all night and day with a baby and neglect yourself. How many women are going to allow themselves to get into this completely deluded and unsustainable routine to be surprised later when their husband cheats on them with a women who doesn’t live in sweatpants and has time to shower? St…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 09:23 AM
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This is sadly an extremely common trend in the parenting and baby subreddits. It’s typically a post about how physically and mentally exhausting it is to have a baby, and how much of a piece of shit their husbands are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 09:02 AM
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Bumble! Seriously! Edit: and yes he really is amazing! I got to a point in life where I knew exactly what I wanted in a man and decided I wasn’t going to make any exceptions. He more than fit my “check-list” of a perfect partner and husband. I never thought it could happen, but it can!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:09 AM
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The nurses in general were incredibly cruel to me due to the fact that my OB has prescribed me medication while pregnant that they didn’t agree with me taking. That’s right. The nurses had an issue with a doctor prescribed drug for a chronic disease that I have. That they know nothing about but felt like judging me for anyway. It was an extremely difficult pregnancy and it won’t be happening again. Hubs is getting the snip-snip next month. Edit: I wanted to add, since in another subreddit this s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 10:14 PM
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When I had my daughter, I was so ridiculously tired afterwards. My husband had her and I was finally able to pass out... until the nurses came in and told my husband it was weird that I was sleeping. After 17 hours of difficult labor. He told them this and they said “lots of moms have hard labors, but they don’t actually sleep afterwards..” They treated me like a bad mother because I trusted that my husband had it under control. I still roll my eyes when I think about it! In some ways, I feel li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 06:48 PM
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Thank you and Congratulations to you too! Luckily we didn’t have any issues with outside people being negative. When I first met his family, his grandfather pulled me aside and said to “expect a ring soon.” I was floored. But he was right! My family loved him almost immediately and everyone was so excited when we announced our pregnancy. For the record, neither of us had ever been married, both in our early 30’s with no kids when we met. After I left my ex, I changed my mindset to think about wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 09:39 AM
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I was with my ex for 6 years. I moved with him to a different state, we built a large house together (that I helped design), got a dog etc. 6 years and he was still afraid to even discuss marriage and don’t even think about kids! We broke up the summer before last. Not even 2 months later I meet a hot, single doctor. 3 months later he proposes with a 3 carat ring. We just had a daughter and he moved us back to my hometown where I grew up to be closer to my family. He is an amazing husband and th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:08 AM
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Not OP, but she probably means to have your own hobbies/interests outside of the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 11:20 PM
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