Don’t ever make excuses for yourself in order to justify settling because you have have kids/you’re divorced/didn’t finish college or whatever! Stop with the excuses! These things do not make you less worthy of a good man! They do not mean you only have to date other men with kids or be open to that even if it makes you uncomfortable. You don’t have to compromise if that isn’t what you want.

You deserve the best. Don’t settle no matter what.

And maybe your baby daddy is a loser, that doesn’t mean you have to only date losers from now on. Work on yourself and keep your head and standards high.

And when all else fails, time to loop TLC’s I Don’t Want No Scrubs 🎶